A narcissist will use forgiveness as a weapon against you: beware of these two tactics

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  • čas přidán 2. 01. 2024
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    Forgiveness is weaponized against you. Forgiveness is a fraud. forgiveness is a scam. narcissist will use forgiveness against you
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Komentáře • 69

  • @stiffmiester300
    @stiffmiester300 Před 6 měsíci +14

    They use forgiveness as a way to keep invading you space and to keep doing bad thing to the scapegoat. People are insane

  • @ronmendez22
    @ronmendez22 Před 6 měsíci +24

    One is the realest dude in the CZcams. Straight to the point.

  • @smoothiecutie2277
    @smoothiecutie2277 Před 6 měsíci +28

    Amen Tyler. About the family members. They do bad things to you and then lie and say that you were the perpetrator. They get Dropped like a blazing hot potato!

    • @sljames1979
      @sljames1979 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I've used the tool of removing individual titles of family members, such as aunt or uncle. I can clearly see them for whom they are this way. For example, if an aunt or mom sleeps with others partner, they will do it to you. The titles keep us blinded.

    • @LilBooskieScootiePop
      @LilBooskieScootiePop Před 6 měsíci

      These social media trolls aren't family.

  • @layparisss
    @layparisss Před 6 měsíci +14

    It’s just easy to block numbers and live life as if these toxic people don’t exist anymore. I’m loving life this way. It’s so peaceful 😌

    • @GuitarMatt
      @GuitarMatt Před 6 měsíci +1

      Tyler and three other CZcamsrs each had a video title "Cut Them Off Without Warning". This was the best news ever! I thought: Wow! This is bypassing the drama they're trying to suck you into. No longer are you giving a so-called weak spot to someone on a never-ending quest to find "bad" about you.

  • @bernetajohnson3296
    @bernetajohnson3296 Před 6 měsíci +12

    God is the vindicator. They will be held accountable for their actions.

  • @HB-NC704
    @HB-NC704 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Said a critical thinker: "If you have to be persuaded, reminded, pressured, lied to, incentivized, coerced, bullied, socially shamed, guilt tripped, threatened, paid, punished and criminalized, if all of this is considered necessary to gain your compliance, you can be absolutely certain that what is being promoted is NOT in your best interest."

  • @yellowdiamond1239
    @yellowdiamond1239 Před 6 měsíci +15

    Maaaan! You are always in time and on point with your messages!! Keep pushing the gospel truth!! 🤸‍♀️

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Dont let your forgiveness set u back with a narcissist at all! Dont forgive them.

  • @ancientsoul4811
    @ancientsoul4811 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Forgiving is God's job.

  • @thepamperedgoddess3279
    @thepamperedgoddess3279 Před 6 měsíci +8

    At this point I require and demand to be forgiven for choosing not to forgive. It must work both ways. Honestly it would be a win win and we both go our own way. Let’s see if they can forgive and forget that.

    • @aig2991
      @aig2991 Před 10 dny

      😂 I like this!

  • @WayneReed-cb2er
    @WayneReed-cb2er Před 6 měsíci +4

    This Man is the truth like it or not deal with it 💯💯💫

  • @keiththompsonsbasketballchanne
    @keiththompsonsbasketballchanne Před 6 měsíci +3

    Was gd Tyler I been saying the same thing if you against someone saying I'm done with a person they suspect to me

  • @officialbaddie9554
    @officialbaddie9554 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I love ur content u always speak facts so happy about ppl like u to speak the truth that's exactly what they did to me

  • @ameerahrashada4515
    @ameerahrashada4515 Před 6 měsíci +2

    The game can't be played on me any more because I turn my back close my eyes and don't hear people when they start talking this trash about forgivness Thank You for this so true video

  • @Taylormademan900
    @Taylormademan900 Před 6 měsíci +14

    I'm not forgiving if i don't have to. Not forgiving means I set my boundaries and maintaned them. Not forgiving makes me feel good. Their definition of forgivness is handing me a verbal contract saying I give people the right to verbally, emotionally, and physically abuse me.

    • @ac9938
      @ac9938 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I thought i was the only one who thought this

    • @Taylormademan900
      @Taylormademan900 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@ac9938 No. You aren't the only one. I've just had this drawn out so many times with people trying to guilt me into forgiveness. They have gone far as trying to bring up anything from my past that didn't even directly affect them. I will never be in any situation where I've felt used and didn't take action. I had to cut 3 people out of my life and it wasn't pleasant especially right around the holidays. I straight ghosted them. No explanation no compromise. I pulled the trigger. Do I feel great? No. But it had to be done so I can still maintain my self-respect.

    • @Taylormademan900
      @Taylormademan900 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@byronpayne7464 not forgiving is for me. It makes me feel good not to forgive

    • @queenmosessoul
      @queenmosessoul Před 5 měsíci +1

      Truth…

  • @AwakenedOnes
    @AwakenedOnes Před 6 měsíci +5

    Excellent video brother thank you

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you so much bro

  • @Prophezora
    @Prophezora Před 6 měsíci +4

    Happy New Year, Tyler!🎉

  • @scorpioqueen7728
    @scorpioqueen7728 Před 6 měsíci +12

    They tried that 💩 during the holidays 😝🫠.. I was told I need to work on my unforgiveness spirit 🥴 for defending myself 😅

    • @thepamperedgoddess3279
      @thepamperedgoddess3279 Před 6 měsíci +10

      Ask for them to forgive you for not forgiving. And see how they find an excuse out of that.

    • @layparisss
      @layparisss Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@thepamperedgoddess3279THIS!!!

    • @ancientsoul4811
      @ancientsoul4811 Před 6 měsíci +6

      It's judgemental to call a person unforgiving.

  • @fightingwarrior5893
    @fightingwarrior5893 Před 6 měsíci +2

    100% truth! Could you do a video on people who want you to support them but won’t support you?

  • @officialbaddie9554
    @officialbaddie9554 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Excuse my language but TBMFT Truth be MF Told thank you they can't ever play that shit on me ever again LOL I'm forreal forreal

  • @giftedwithin7
    @giftedwithin7 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Yes. Very true!

  • @MrBillybathgate5
    @MrBillybathgate5 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you Tyler

  • @lorraine4755
    @lorraine4755 Před 4 měsíci +1

    100% Tyler.

  • @hardeepmann3464
    @hardeepmann3464 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you 🙏

  • @kyrahknowz1442
    @kyrahknowz1442 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Salutes 🙋🏽‍♀️ Tyler 💪🏽💯💙🌹. Happy New Year 🎊❤🎉.

  • @MasonBaby
    @MasonBaby Před 6 měsíci +2

    Great message

  • @latanyapalmer4469
    @latanyapalmer4469 Před 6 měsíci +1

    THANK YOU, Tyler.

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Great video and message 💯 Amen 🙏🏾

  • @wondrlush
    @wondrlush Před 6 měsíci +2

    You on point I re watch trifling family members acts like nothing happened after doing you wrong archive I came to conclusion whether it’s your family or others they all have agenda to try confuse you or hurt you I’m learning got to keep your distance because thier narcissism is deep rooted and they will never respect you or admit they have been envious jealousy and have a lot of hate toward your happiness or anything that will bring you true happiness and fulfillment and I realize it’s waste time with them because they always have agenda how to treat you not right and you don’t have to feel you have to forgive thier actions rebuke them I realize that they will always not like your success and happiness it’s that simple they try be sleek and clever even if they have help you they still don’t want you to reach you be better than them and great I look forward to your next video

  • @MrBillybathgate5
    @MrBillybathgate5 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Happy New Year, Tyler!

  • @KcLove-ut8zn
    @KcLove-ut8zn Před 6 měsíci +3

    Happy new year bro I absolutely agree with you

  • @ConstancePoetry
    @ConstancePoetry Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hey Tyler, You are right on the money. Hope you are doing well❤ Miss you it's been a minute.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Hey constance how are you

    • @ConstancePoetry
      @ConstancePoetry Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@TylerJTI Hey Tyler, I'm doing fine and I hope the same for you. Your message don't forgive this really resonates for me.

  • @sharons5221
    @sharons5221 Před 3 měsíci

    Tyler thank you!!

  • @patriarchnation2703
    @patriarchnation2703 Před měsícem

    Forgive and move different

  • @user-sj4xl8od9p
    @user-sj4xl8od9p Před 5 měsíci +3

    I forgive but i will not bow down. Even jesus walked away from.toxic people....

  • @sljames1979
    @sljames1979 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I'm glad that I've lived to witness family members get cheated on, lied to and left. It proves that something is wrong with them.

  • @giftedwithin7
    @giftedwithin7 Před 6 měsíci +2

    They so like to lie and twist things. Project what they do onto others. Do things to other people and act like nothing happened. Evil. I don't have time for these types of people. I'm done with them.

  • @yourstruly1984
    @yourstruly1984 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Happy New Year, Tyler❤🎉

  • @pgmc9441
    @pgmc9441 Před 6 měsíci +2

    ‭Matthew‬ ‭6:14‭-‬15‬ ‭NLT‬
    [14] “If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. [15] But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.
    Matthew 18:21-22 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?
    22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
    Glory to God's Grace and Mercy

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Wooow!!!!! These two scriptures.

    • @pgmc9441
      @pgmc9441 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@TylerJTIJesus has a Heart of Mercy, and I give Mercy all across the board, I also forgive on the credit card which means let's say you steal or your lie from me I have already forgiven you in advance, just as Jesus died for my many Sins he died for your many Sins. And if you sinned once or many times is there a difference in eternity? We are all unrighteous before the Righteous Judge, I can hear in your voice that you've been taken advantage of many times. This is what evil people do to the people of God, we get the weight of world crushing our spine just like the millstone crushes grain. Now try imagining what will happen to those evil people that you have forgiven, they will be handed to the Judge and their own consciousness, so their narcissism will be too big too swallow, their Pride will be their downfall and you will be rejoicing in the Heavens for eternity while they watch you from Hell. Let that sink in Jesus bless your Heart, and forgiveness doesnt mean to be a doormat. God decide what God word means, not me and not you. Shabbat Shalom Tyler.

  • @bunnysb2587
    @bunnysb2587 Před 2 měsíci

    You are going to get the people started the trolls

  • @user-bo4ju3zp1l
    @user-bo4ju3zp1l Před 6 měsíci +1

    Spencer skeete target me health