How to Deal with Moody & Negative People! | Stephanie Lyn Coaching
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Frustrating when youâve been in a long term relationship with someone like this!
Wow. Yes!!! I work with people that are moody. One specific person in mind. You never know who you're gonna get. Moody 80% of the time and then oddly nice %20 of the time. I also just moved out of living with a beyond moody person...6 months of "never know who you're gonna get." It was so hard... Still coming down from having lived that for so long. I internalized the moods and it highly effected me because I'm super empathetic and can be co-dependant and took on the responsibility of their mood! And thought it was me!!!! It's not! Gosh...Grateful to come home to me and my peace. And no more eggshells. No more ignoring. No more Gaslighting. No more their "inner demons"...such a form of manipulation.
I totally removed myself from the situation...by moving out 6 months earlier than expected.
Ouuu, woman, some unsolicited advice if I were in ur shoes, cuz I WAS in ur shoes: Boundaries the book, YT little shaman on baundaries, and actualized.org responsibly vs. Blame. This channel and those 3 things that changed my life for the best (esp. away from co-dependency for free). Lots of love and light.
Omg! Boundaries the book!â so good. I read that book and had my lack of boundaries shoved in my face by said "moody person" I had already moved out...that was the conversation that convinced me I was done with the friendship.
I will look into the other two suggestions you had! And I'll take all the unsolicited advice I can get! Haha. I'll take what I can. Thank you for sharing your nuggets of wisdom! đđđđgrateful for this channel and community. I'd be feeling alone right about now...đ
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raised n virginia that's good that they are understanding. đ
And thatâs what you have to do sometimes!
It's not our responsibility to make this person feel better, they don't know how to manage their emotions. You don't need to seek for approval, put yourself first
True.
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So true!
Great advice! Itâs so draining to be around a negative person and than I feel like âwhat did I doâ when logically I know I did nothing to them. Ugh! Love your Channel
Thank you đ
Lashcult Goddess when you know you did nothing.... itâs their own s..t!!! Period!!!
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The third agreement from The Four Agreements says it all.
âDonât take anything personally.â
âNothing others do is because of you. What others do and say is a projection of their own reality. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you wonât be the victim of needless suffering.â
Great book. Changed my life!
Very well explained. Without boundaries we risk ending up on their roller coaster ride đą
I have come across such dry miserable people in my lifetime and I walked away from them as fast as I could and never looked back. In other cases these people turned their backs on me too as they thought I was too annoying and overbearing in being upbeat. Don't know who was right and who was wrong in these situations and I don't care either. Life is short and we only get one shot at it as far as we know. Don't waste your energy on these people. Great video Stephanie. Thank you :)
Praise the lord I'm permanently subscribed to this channelđ
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Encourage the author to stop using the Lord Godsâ name in vain⊠which is breaking the third commandments.
This is a fantastic way of describing how to deal effectively with a difficult person, especially those who feel the need to pull you into their emotions and drama, and like to guilt you as well!
I hate being around Moody people having to jump thru hoops just to please someone else.
I know man cut them off
Thank you for another amazing video! I have struggled with this in relationships with moody men. It felt like it was my responsibility to make them happy. I have learned a lot. I am 24. Now I know I can't put that kind of stuff on myself. If I see this early in a relationship I consider it a red flag and know it's time to walk away.
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is walk away, yet how 'good' it feels is astounding: to do the adult thing. But it's such a sad, hurtful situation. Thank you for this â„ïž
Seems like society these days too is full of such angry people who speak before they think/feel. That's on them, not us! That IS manipulation. TY for the reminder.
This is right on point! Moodiness is a form of manipulation in some people. I roll right over it anymore these days. Letting them deal with their own stuff is key. Remove yourself From the situation n it forces them to deal with it!! I love this!!
It's not our place to diagnose others. A moody person is fighting some internal battle. Separate yourself from them and realize that it's not all about you.
Absolutely!
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Just because they are having problems doesn't mean other have to be their punching bag. Life is full of happiness and suffering. If it's between you drowning or us drowning, you will drown. No one should help someone in order to cause their own demise in the process.
I don't help anybody I just stay happy for me
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Its very rare to find consistent people
That whole feeling of what did I do to provoke this, why is this happening, what's this about... I'm soooooo glad to have outgrown that. You couldn't pay me enough to be younger by even, one day, just for that reason.
WOW.. great A+ video "It's not your job to tap dance in front of them and to make them feel better" "you are self loving enough not to take on others stuff" "that's not your authentic self to take on someone else's baggage"
It is very tough to not absorb their moodiness. When itâs a majority of the time, itâs just not pleasant at all and starts to neg affect you. I had a hard time understanding how someone could be so scornful, negative and moody over the slightest things.
Yeah itâs a control method. It works with a lot of ppl.
Being in a relationship with this type of person can be exhausting and it gets you till the edge of desperation because one day they love you to the moon and back and the other day he/she is just so cold and cruel. Mood swings and emotional swings are so confusing for the other person and so unfair because it drives you crazy always feeling unsecure and not knowing what the hell just happened when 5 minutes ago everything was ok. You love that person very much and you do your best to make them feel loved but there is that moment of clarity when despite all that love, you realize that relationship is toxic,it makes u suffer,it torments you. Then..even though you die inside,you have to let him/her go..because you have no energy,no power and you just can't take it anymore.
EXACTLY đŻ... Salute & Respect to your Words...It is already happening with me..I am confused what to do..
Usually I am the one that is moody, and I am the one that separates myself from others because I have recognized that it is best I stay away from my friends and family when I am going through these types of moods (if that makes sense). Unfortunately, some of my friends don't understand that when I am behaving/feeling a certain way that I need to separate myself from others because I don't want to take out my anger/frustrations on them. The ones that do understand I find I am able to control myself better around them and I am able to communicate with them better about it too.
Iâm in love with this person. Itâs a daily battle and Iâm learning, I choose myself to love first.âšâšđ
One of my bosses is like that & she is so annoying & I hate working with her because Iâm always left so moody & exhausted & at times I have to pause & remind myself I have a good life & this is not my emotions I am dealing with. So this video was well needed because I was dreading going to work tomorrow
I have even asked her in the past to only speak to me about work that directly affects me & nothing more because she drains me out & she has ignored me
I can think of a couple of moody people. I'm usually passive and moody people tend to target me. I learned that I don't need to stand there and be an outlet for them I get up and walk away.
Yass!! What you said is so so correct and true. I do have someone in my life like that and I used to blame myself whenever he took his anger issues on me even though I didn't do anything wrong.
Unfortunately for him, I found your channel and so many other self love videos that told me how I might be a Co-dependent, how to set boundaries etc and this time when he just started trashing on me (just because I wasn't saying anything, I was listening and So I was blamed for "not contributing to the conversation".. Aarrgghh đ), I just told him, he can believe whatever he likes and this is his perception. I simply said I don't want to continue this conversation as this is your perception and you need to deal with it, I had a nice day so I'll not ruin that. I felt so much better after that đđđ
Stephanie Lyn is so savvy at subjects like this, thank you for sharing how to deal with moody people.
Smile at them
This is tricky dealing with people like this! Thanks you for breaking it down Stephanie ! I appreciate your channel so much đđđthe more I view your channel - the more I understand đŻđ
I love your videos!! Always great content.. thank you!
I have a family member that falls in this moody category, always complaining.. always negative. Itâs very hard to push through without frustration, I viewed her in the past as just being âunhappyâ but I think now she is so comfortable being this way she does not realize how she sounds.. and does not know how to deal with the emotions properly.
Thank you again for shedding some light đĄ on this one! đ€â
Wow! Spot on, Stephanie! Souls with their own dysfunction transfer their failure onto you. Well, if you're willing....
This is excellent...thank you. Iâm a recovering co-dependent and this is so helpful and encouraging and equipping.
You don't understand what you said is gold!!
It's very hard and extremely painful to deal with during my growing up years when its my mother who is such a moody person...i ended up unaware of my codepedency for decades but now that i know, no matter how difficult, i am practicing detaching myself from negative people i know.
You enlightened my mind and i learned something new today which i can use to better myself. A heartfelt thank youâ„ïž
Mine is also with my mother. I love her but can't live or be around her for too long. The negative starts to pour out if she comes across things she doesn't agree with. She is a sweet person, but hasn't forgiven those from her past and I can see it in her eyes everyday. Your not alone.
Thank you so much for your videos Stefanie! This one in particular has really helped me deal with negative and moody family members. I have a sibling like this...always trying to bring me down and make others not like me. I always feel like I did something wrong to them even when I didnât when Iâm around them and always questioning their intentions and behavior around me or whether they like me or not and why they are so negative and cold towards me. Now I know why. Itâs them not me. Misery loves company and I am not apart of that. They also hate when Iâm happy and feeling good about myself or hates anyone who likes me. But when Iâm down they are up. Itâs almost like theyâre mission in life is to make me miserable because they are miserable about me. Iâve spent most of my adult life pining for my siblingâs affection and positive connection with me and I realize now at 47 yrs old (they are 52) thatâs never going to happen. I will never have a positive relationship with him the way I want. The ball is in his court, until then, I stay away from them completely. I know Iâm not the Intl person who doesnât have a relationship with their siblings and it doesnât make me a bad person or less than they are.
Thanks Steff for sharing. I needed this. Its my brother these days driving me, my mum n dad crazy! Bcz he is family we cannot abandon him. I get what you tell us in these videos and have been applying all the knowledge to the best I can. I wish mum n dad could understand these things too.
Just out of a 3 year relationship with a moody person and I am trying to heal from my own codependency. You are so spot on on what I was doing internally.
Hi Stephanie! Great video! I I went through this moody person situation with a now ex BPD partner that refused help. Your advise,as always, is excellent. Looking forward to your next topic and helpful video. Take care.
I so needed this.
This video is really great. It describes my narc manipulator mother to a T, where one moment we could be having a good laugh and the next she could fly off the handle. Itâs the sudden shift thatâs startling and puts you on the back foot, keeping you wondering if youâre the one doing something wrong. Like you said, itâs a manipulation (and/or intimidation) tactic.
Thank you so much for this! I have struggled with my husbandâs mood swings for years and I will definitely be using these tips during his next episode!!!
Thank you, Stephanie â€ïž
I do feel like moodiness is a controlling behavior, esp. with people that do not know you that well.
beautifulwalking controlling and manipulative !
Thanks so much for this video, yes I have and still is in this situation at work I work in childcare and I am that person that tries to become the people pleaser to fix people's problems, but now that I tell and let my coworkers know that I will no longer be that in between go to person now I am the bad or rude person, but you are right my inner self feels a hell of a lot better when I let people know that they can talk to the one that's making their life miserable and d something about it you guessed it I no longer get my coworkers spilling their guts to me every day about negative situations.
Wow! This was a great video! Perfect for what I needed today. Recently, my mood was on an all time high. I was really happy. But when I talked with my friend, they wasnât up for joking and pretty much wasnât in the best mood. It got me down and I eventually ended the conversation. The rest of the week Iâve been depressed and completely miserable like I took on their negative energy. I want to be there for this person but their mood changes every time. They do try to communicate if they arenât up for talking, but itâs hard when you mostly like attracting people that are upbeat or wanna have a positive life. I know this person struggles with depression and refuses to get help. I donât want to abandon them, but Iâm not the depressed person I used to be. Iâm working on bettering myself, staying positive, and moving forward. In order for me to keep doing this, I canât keep surrounding myself with people and things that get me down.
Iâm definitely an empath, but I donât wanna be miserable everytime this person is. In this situation I had to be put myself first and I told them Iâll be out of contact for a while. Sometimes I need space too and I honestly just want to be happy. Hopefully we can find a balance with communication and dealing with their moods. Or maybe it wonât work out. Either way, Iâm going to be at peace with it.
So true! It's okay to feel sad, angry, or upset sometimes. BUT we always have a choice to be happy and make decisions that give us happiness. â€ïž
Happiness is not s choice
Great message well said..always beautiful as always!
Hi Stephanie. I have many new skills to practice. Moody, always happy, Your a great teacher. Thank you
I needed to hear this, thank you!! I have to remove myself from a few people with mood swings.
This is exactly the information I needed. Thank you.
The thing is that people can be so inspiring and exciting, they can motivate you to try out new things, persevere the stuff you're currently working on etc. and yeah I get that people have problems sometimes, but if that kind of negativity is your general attitude walking around life, then really, do what you can to stay away from the person to preserve your mental well-being
Thank you so much
This is very insightful!
Thanks! Great insight đ
Thanks for the video. It took me 25 years of being around my wife until I finally understood that "it's not me." That really helped. She clearly has had manic/depression/mixed behavior -- but it is normally not extreme. But it shows up as irritability. She also can turn it on/off -- so it is only me that sees the behavior. (kids are out of the house -- we are the only ones in the house). So I struggle with validation. I'd have trouble saying (and she would have trouble believing me) stuff like "you have every right to be mad at me right now." I haven't figured out how to validate -- without it coming across as passive aggressive -- and really being helpful.
Excellent subject and well communicated
Good content
Thanks Stephanie
I don't like being around moody people anymore they bring out the negative in everything . It's not healthy too be moody all the time . Not perfect myself I've had my days of being moody or cranky . Feel like when you grow up in a cranky toxic environment you tend too pick up on the bad behavior . I noticed the music industry is full of this type of behavior as well like hip hop, rock , metal , industrial music for example .
I think the difference is whether or not you can own up to your behavior⊠Weâre all human of course weâre gonna have days where were moody and cranky but is whether or not we own up to it and we deal with it or if itâs a continuous behavior that doesnât change
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Great topic!
This was a very interesting video for me. I live with a bipolar spouse and we are always struggling with communication. I definitely have the people pleaser personality and my spouse gets super angry when I say they are moody and gives me silent treatment for several days. I like to over-communicate, and my spouse knows that silence is my pain-point. I like the idea of creating boundaries for how we handle these types of mood swings and not allowing them to manipulate by acting a certain way. Thanks for the video!
Love your stuff
Great video and feels all too relevant to a family member with OCD that is constantly bringing me down. Working to disengage as it's just too much for me to take on. I don't need that backpack! Thanks for sharing :)
You are the best thank you â€ïž always love your advice
It's a narcissistic point of view, narcissists can't take responsabilities so they take only positive moods and project bad things to the others, so the others can be depressed, narcissists are perspnnality destroyers, if a person feels better when she's alone than being with you, ask questions to yourself
thank you
Thanks Stephanie! You pretty much summed me up. I feel bad, and I'm really sorry. I'm doing my best these days to change. I apologize a lot and distance myself from people. Both can be a problem, however, because sometimes I apologize for no real reason, just to please others, and I also isolate myself to the point where I feel really lonely and depressed. It's about finding a balance. Please say a prayer for me! đ
But youâre not one of the people that Iâm referring to because you know at times when you canât be moody⊠You know at times that your moods are having to probably do with your own thoughts and feelings and you are trying to change them. I think weâre at becomes a problem is when someone constantly puts how they think and feel on someone else. đ
@@StephanieLynCoaching you're the sweetest! Thank you!
This is so true!! I work with a girl just like this
Love your videos!
Great video
A little side note...people who have anaemia can be constantly irritable too. It's one of the symptoms.
It's also a byproduct of having a chronic physical illness like MS etc.
Just thought I'd add that.
Love how you explain things so clearly...I appreciate your effort in making these educational videos...thank you.
Thatâs why I donât like addressing things sometimes because I donât want to be dramatic or make anyone feel bad for me.
I have a view ppl in my life like that so when I see that mood I became empathic but also go in the other room if needed
Very helpfull. Thank you
Going through the Menopause made me so angry and moody,thanks for this video
I totally appreciate this video! I had one boyfriend who was randomly moody and I never knew how to deal with him. Wish I had had your advice back then! Thank you. :)
Going through it right now with a moody one.
This makes me so sad. This was my dad to a T and he died in January. I never could fully connect with him and it hurts knowing how sad / moody / angry he was.
I am so sorry for your loss. I think the hardest part is seeing all of this in another person and knowing thereâs nothing you can do about it. Just know that everyone on some level has the capability of loving they just have those ones in front of them that blocking their heart
Stephanie Lyn Coaching I really appreciate you reaching out to me! So so many subscribers and youâve taken time out to personally reply to me. Thank you đ
I wouldnt confront a narc. Just ignore him and walk away. Because he wants attention and he isnt not worth my time
Daniella Tan đŻ
Fantastic explanation đđŒđđŒđđŒ
I second that đđđ
Great video, would it be possible for you to also make a little additional post to make it clear how to support without taking stuff on? If itâs someone you care a lot about: itâs difficult to just say âthatâs your stuff and you have to deal with that yourselfâ. How do we maintain a healthy level of care & support without taking their stuff on to ourselves?
I had a boyfriend who was very moody and cranky and this explains a lot. Coincidentally I had been trying to search online what it means when someone is like this and then you answered my question! Thanks Stephanie!
Bipolar could be depressed
Its hard when they are constantly trying to pick fights and you cant get away from them
As weird as this sounds⊠I actually welcome that type of challenge because itâs an opportunity for me to practice holding onto myself and not reacting to other peoples moods or behaviors.
@@StephanieLynCoaching good point
A lot of my friends and family members are constantly moody and I limit my time and contact with them,being an highly sensitive empath 1 mist set firm boundaries for peace of mind.
I have a boss like this. 80% of the time he's so much fun and the other 20% he flips like Jekyll and Hyde.
He's my favorite friend at work, and he relates to me like a brother or something more. You know he's older, manly, affectionate.
I don't have a strong male lead in my life, so I think that's why subconsciously, I have kind of put him on a pedestal.
I wish I could tell him that but he's kind of rough around the edges, so he might not respond favorably just because the enotional component might be too much for him. But I bet he can tell because it's obvious the feeling is mutual. His brother calls me his "work wife." I think its a super cute form of affection.
Anyway, because I'm a HSP and a little bit codependent, it hurts me a lot when he shuts down. He's not good at communicating how he feels. He can be my best friend one minute, and then shut down and not even look at me. He hates when I ask what's wrong and he barks at me to go away.
That hurts a lot.
We've had talks about this, and he emoathizes and cares, and he really has become a whole lot nicer in general. But he slips up a bit when he's mad.
I wish I could explain how this makes me feel in a way that would stick to him and kind of... you know... get the light bulb to turn on.
Does anyone have any ideas on the best way to communicate with someone like this?
(Please don't bash him. I hate when the man-haters leave nasty comments and call people like this a narcissist and tell me I'm better off forgetting him. He's not a narcissist, he really does have a heart, and I think we have a pretty healthy relationship. He's just a bit emotionally immature. Tough guy, you know? But soft underneath it all.)
Thank you for this. It seems there may be an overlap between the type of person youâre describing and a low level narcissist. Challenging them a bit will likely make the distinction clear! Iâve really appreciated your videos. Thank you!
i clicked on this bc my dad was this temperment as a personality type ISTP plus his personality traits were narcissistic types like, needing external reinforcement for his own significance (couldn't generate it himself) and also bc my mom had this temperment in reaction to my dad being emotionally disinterested in others and their experiences and his critical cold communication and interpersonal manner when he wasn't around she was placid and deep, peaceful, harmonious and generously open minded the negative moody reactive energy in our household growing up was unsettling and dysregulating
HELL to go through having a partner
I know 34 yrs m. Never again. Iâm 67, wasted my time with him! Best years of my life
Wow đź just realized I was using my mood as manipulating tactic with out even knowing that I was doing that ! đł
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
does this include LOW Empathy Your talking about my wife ...of 40 years OMG Thanks Steph !!
Great advice!
How do you deal when they also try to undermine you? Or intentionally put you on the spot in front of others so that you canât say no without appearing rude, mean, or uncaring?
Whatâs important to remember is that we can all be like this sometimes ....
I usually ignore them. I don't care, I have my own problems, rather than be a "babysitter" at work. Women are the ones that are moody, so I just remove myself around this kind of behavior, rather than add fuel to the fire.
I don't abide moodiness in anybody anymore, after 47 years of being scapegoated, parental alienation as the child and parent, life threatening illness, 15 life saving surgeries and a lifetime of serious health conditions, from decades of being minimised by "moody" and "cranky" people. The best way to deal with it is when you realise that people are taking liberties with you and you don't have to enable them. Lay down some reasonable boundaries and call them out on their "moodiness". If they deal with it by displaying rage, they're a narcissist. If anyone has an issue that you won't enable their "moodiness" and being "cranky", firstly, try and ascertain if they would be like that, regardless of who is around, or if it is exclusively reserved for you. Either way, their "moodiness", regardless of how it's qualified, is a personality trait; a behavioral trait. Usually, it's a trait accompanied by lack of self-awareness and unwillingness to accept any responsibility or ownership for their unacceptable behaviour, as it can all simply be chalked up to being "moody" or "cranky". You'll often get the "that's just how they are" comments. That's fine, this is just how I am and people will have to make the same allowances they do for the "moody" individual. Habitual "moodiness", as a form of control, is abuse and you don't have to put up with it from anyone, regardless of the relationship. Call them out and test if their bite matches their bark. It usually doesn't, they'll usually play the victim, rather than acknowledge that they have a problem.
What about empath fatigue???
Ohhh good topic!
Yes, can we talk about this?
Great, thanks for all of your incredible work here on CZcams. I love your videos! đI am wondering if there could be more on what actual diplomatic words to say in that particular situation when you validate and then exit. I got the essence of this video which is insightful and helpful, but the tools - the actual words to say - seemed rushed. It sounds to me, like I understand why you feel that way; youâre entitled to feel that way, etc., but I need to leave...so your acceptance of that person is verbally given, but you leave because their behavior is unacceptable and what about when itâs not possible to physically leave? đđ€đ
How to deal with yourself when you are the moody person haha
crissie asmr girl đ§
Could You make more video like that How to deal with diferent kinds of toxic people with description of they behaviour Please đ
There's a woman in my life that is like this. She came from a very abused relationship of 11 years. Every week when she goes to her "woman's meetings" It's like she's back to square one. She's upset and moody and depressed. Those of us that are around her a lot feel that when she goes to these meetings, it's just an echo chamber of all the bad things that men have done to these women. It reinforces the things that are already negative. It takes the whole week to get her back into being herself and then it's time for another meeting and she's back to square one.
The sad part about watching this video is that my mom is like this. She smiles and laughs, but pulls the silent treatment, stays mad for days, hasn't forgiven people from her past and it sucks because she is my mother but she is also suppose to be grown and I realize that she hasn't and won't deal with her past. Because she never dealt with her past she poured out her hatred unto my brother and I. She recently said that she doesn't like people, which I knew but to hear her say that like her view of people is right, just hurts, knowing that my mother hasn't grown up at all. Im on my own positive journey, and I can't allow her or anyone else to get me off my focus. I tried speaking with her but she always and I mean always runs from conflict. Once conflict starts she runs and hides. It actually makes me cry to see my mother still allowing the past to control her every move. And she has no idea that she is chained in a cage, but with the key also next to her that she pretends to not see. I have chosen to still love her unconditionally, but i hope she looks in the mirror one day just like I did and do a self evaluation which changed my life. I realized I had to own my own faults, and that I made choices in my life and still make choices because I'm an adult who also knows of the consequences of all choices, whether good or bad, but mainly good lol. I appreciate what you do and I'm not sure if there is anything more to help her, which I dont think there is, but if you have any advice I would really appreciate it. Thank you for all your hard work and encouragement. God bless and stay safe.
I'm 15 and I sitt beside that person everyday... đ
I have been putting up with it since 2 years
As a friend I want to help her, I know mostly know what are people thinking... but when it comes to solving I can't. Now I know that it's not my fault.. And it's not my responsibility.
I always tried to find someone to help but it's only me that feel lile shit.. Because she said something hurtful without considering my feelings ,just because she is not in a good mood, I know that that's why I just let it be and get hurt and forget about it đđ
Also I did know they're feeling bad about themselves and unhappy, and I do not want it to get worst so I always stay happy...
I also tried to talked to her that I know she is aking up to people to care about her.. Because I couldn't take her toxicity enymore... . But she nerver learn or change..
And... I just want people to be happy...
Misery loves company. If you didn't do or say anything to affect that person's mood or bad behavior then you really need to question it. They (narcissists) are good at flipping a switch and making you feel bad or guilty to control you. If it happens more than once it's definitely not your problem but it's their issue. It's not normal and you definitely don't deserve it. It's called emotional abuse. Some people will project their guilt from their bad behavior and put the blame on you.
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You are very pretty Stephanie Lyn...
I have dealt with moody people and I have been a moody person. đŹ it was so hard watching this video because I know I have had mood swings in the past and I am still a work in progress. A lot of it is not knowing how to manage my own feelings and properly communicating them. Sometimes I feel like I will be dismissed for saying what upsets me. I have learned how to deal with my problems in a healthy way without projecting it on other people.
Aww bunny ears
Yes I do!! My husband. We are separated but living in the same house. He punishes me emotionally when I donât give him enough non sexual affection too fill his love bucket and âget him throughâ this hard time in our marriage. âčïž
This sounds familiar
I'm sorry you're going through this. That behaviour is not ok. It's coercive and selfish and deliberately pushing your boundaries.
You are worth respecting