How to Change Your Life in 3 Months: Goal-Setting Science

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  • čas přidán 12. 06. 2024
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    ❤️ Changing your life takes both intentionality and consistent effort. Structured and intelligent goal setting is the foundation for making this kind of progress. It’s never too late to set new goals or update our existing ones, though how we set and pursue goals has a huge impact on whether or not we’ll actually achieve them - and some common goal-setting practices can actually be harmful rather than helpful to success.
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    00:00 hello
    01:16 Yin Yang: Striving for Change or Acceptance?
    01:58 Moderate and Meaningful
    02:31 Focus Narrowing
    03:19 Concretise Specifics
    03:51 Dynamic Self-Regulation: Assess, Progress, Adjust
    05:03 Amygdala Activation: Negative Visualisation
    06:14 Take it Easy
    06:55 Intentional Goal-Setting Framework
    07:36 Organisation: Planning and Tracking
    08:43 System in Practice: The Walkthrough
    19:04 ouch!
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Komentáře • 411

  • @abseurde
    @abseurde Před rokem +377

    How cool is it that you can now introduce yourself by saying ‘I’m a Cambridge graduate and a doctor’! You did that, Izzy!

  • @tramyhuynhnu8046
    @tramyhuynhnu8046 Před rokem +11

    I have 3 big goals in this year:
    1. Graduated university and become a pharmacist.
    2. By myself earn the first salaries and buying something special for my parents.
    3. Go to beach and enjoy the life for a few days.

  • @ashirarobinson8572
    @ashirarobinson8572 Před rokem +13

    all of her videos are easy to listen to bc her voice is so calm and nice and all the things you learn is amazing

  • @Designsss.
    @Designsss. Před 6 měsíci +7

    The world needs more people like you. You are highly inspirational and deserves lots of subscribers. One thing I learnt from this video is setting few goals within a year rather than goal overload.

  • @sulimanahmed603
    @sulimanahmed603 Před rokem +4

    A true life example of “Atomic Habits”, bravo 👏.

  • @aisharazi463
    @aisharazi463 Před rokem +51

    I'm a first year med student and also learning mandarin. You inspires me so much and I'm so happy to have found your channel. You look like someone I wanna be when I grow older. Love you and your content, Izzy!

    • @samaval9920
      @samaval9920 Před 8 měsíci

      You Tube has many Mandarin & Cantonese
      Western allopathetic
      medical instructional
      videos.
      Zhu ni hao yunqi!!
      Juk nei hou wanhei!!

  • @andremarco2413
    @andremarco2413 Před rokem +3

    I love the way u smile while you're speaking, it sheds the best energy upon us. Amazing and practical content ❤️

  • @strwberryymin9796
    @strwberryymin9796 Před rokem +7

    thank you so much for this izzy! i originally found your channel because i was trying to figure out how i would study mandarin, but so many more of your videos have been helpful with actually sticking to my goals and improving my lifestyle. i got a little too inspired at the beginning of 2023 and created a bunch of different goals to work into my daily routine and it just became too much, so i’m glad to know that that’s natural if you set too many goals. thank you again!!

  • @phuongthanh4032
    @phuongthanh4032 Před rokem +8

    This is incredibly insightful and helpful. You give me the motivation to focus every single day. Thank you, Izzy!

  • @jaywoo8925
    @jaywoo8925 Před rokem +4

    Nice way to kick start a new year with your helpful system of methods. Hope your year is just as successful and fulfilling.

  • @carlosmuro6131
    @carlosmuro6131 Před rokem +3

    Your idealistic yet realistic approach to life inspires me greatly. Thank you Izzy.

  • @scum1134
    @scum1134 Před rokem +6

    I have watched many goal setting CZcams videos. This is definitely the best and most practical to implement - to reach your desired goals. Thanks Izzy. You are the best

  • @Ezequielcaii
    @Ezequielcaii Před rokem +1

    The content you upload is amazing, just the first 5 minutes are already a gold mine.
    Also I love to hear your voice 🥺

  • @zurielwallace8826
    @zurielwallace8826 Před rokem +2

    I love your perspective.!!! I appreciate you for making this video, it’s actually what I need in this moment. This video is awesome

  • @drakewauters2109
    @drakewauters2109 Před rokem +2

    A natural educator.

  • @pensarebasketball
    @pensarebasketball Před 10 měsíci

    You became my favorite CZcamsr after two videos. Thanks so much for being so consistently informative and curious!

  • @phirapatmangkhalasiri210

    Thanks Izzy for your tips.
    I am a third year PhD researcher at UCL and now attempting to learn French. You are a source of my inspiration. Thanks a lot!

  • @Kowki69
    @Kowki69 Před rokem +6

    You're not just beautiful but smart as well. Thanks a lot Izzy for helping us to bring the best out of ourselves. Stay safe and wish you all the best. Much love from Philippines ❤️🇵🇭

  • @Romanophonie
    @Romanophonie Před 11 měsíci +1

    I love how practical this goal-setting framework is. So practical in fact that I am going to work on setting my goals right now.

  • @michellelok4819
    @michellelok4819 Před rokem +1

    ❤ I’m a cantonese speaker. Love your channel. I like the calmness when you speak. Can’t wait to talk to you fluently in Cantonese.

  • @derppotat488
    @derppotat488 Před rokem +1

    Missed these videos. Always super helpful in motivating me. Thanks again!

  • @ronglass5968
    @ronglass5968 Před měsícem

    I've read and listened to many books and speakers on goal setting, and implemented with varying success. Your point about negative visualisation was like a bolt from the sky. Ah ha! Yes. How valuable! I recently read a book called 'You Could Die Tomorrow' (morbid, yes I know, but actually good) and one of the key messages was avoiding regret - going on the journey and achieving those things you'd soooo love to do. Also where you mention goal inputs, sometimes with no solid, quantifiable outcome. Thank you!

  • @anastasiawei9272
    @anastasiawei9272 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Can't help but say that your makeup is so good!!!

  • @Teja
    @Teja Před 11 měsíci +1

    holy crap i was in the trap positive visualisation with no success, u r absolutely right about the dopamine hit. Negative visualisation makes so much sense. your channel is a gold mine. This video is a goldmine wow

  • @caominhvo2921
    @caominhvo2921 Před rokem +1

    Hi Izzy, it’s great to watch your newest video. I have a big goal in this year, although I have some problem when I am processing it, I hope I can achieve this plan. I receive more positive energy from your video. Thanks so much!!!

  • @kumangati2952
    @kumangati2952 Před rokem

    I have been waiting for your video for so long.. Finally, thank you Izzy!

  • @shekhargupta6718
    @shekhargupta6718 Před rokem

    Congratulations for becoming a Doctor, it's always a pleasure to watch your vlogs . You are so refreshing and full of energy.

  • @growwithmae3108
    @growwithmae3108 Před rokem +2

    Hi Izzy, you inspired me to be more intentional with my current setting goals❤ I want to adapt your system🙈Thanks so much for sharing!

  • @kirklugg82
    @kirklugg82 Před rokem

    I am so greatful to be able to hear you out on this well-informed and interesting goal setting video, excellent video.

  • @bushidopodcastofficial
    @bushidopodcastofficial Před rokem +1

    I like the point about the amygdala somewhat desensitizing us to failure if we can consider it beforehand.

  • @lalaloveu4532
    @lalaloveu4532 Před rokem +1

    Your videos are really helpful. I always re watched your old vids for motivation and now a new video to add to my faves. P.s I really love your voice so posh

  • @eloo000
    @eloo000 Před rokem +5

    Doom and gloom is easy for me as I do it everyday but now I'll try to put a more positive spin on it. Thinking too positively creates dopamine and lessons your motivation and drive, that's interesting. Be kinder to myself is a must. Thanks Izzy!! Always great as usual!!

  • @Amelialcpoon
    @Amelialcpoon Před rokem

    I lived in Cambridge for 34 years. It is so nice to listening to you.

  • @pilotraider
    @pilotraider Před rokem +2

    Quite fascinating that as a student pilot I was just pondering a few days ago about the 1-degree deviation rule you explained, you definitely read my mind and spoke to me lol.
    You're very thoughtful, love your content, wishing you the best always! Subbed!

  • @LanaABA
    @LanaABA Před 3 měsíci

    Love the input-output idea! And totally agree with how you feel about the lack of need for output goals in certain circumstances.

  • @pauldowlan3285
    @pauldowlan3285 Před rokem

    Thanks Doc
    I hope you had a good new year
    Take care 🇦🇺

  • @MelissaaLu
    @MelissaaLu Před rokem +34

    Idk how else to describe it, your content makes me flourish and want to stay consistent with all my goals. Thank you Izzy! ❤

    • @IzzySealey
      @IzzySealey  Před rokem +4

      I'm so happy to hear that 🥰🥰 thank you for watching!!! ❤

    • @MelissaaLu
      @MelissaaLu Před rokem

      @Izzy Sealey Of course! Have u ever thought of making a podcast? i really love listening to you and your comprehensive yet fun advice. When im cleaning, taking a shower or doing a mundane task i find myself playing one of videos in the background HAHA

    • @ImmersiveChinesewithLuyang
      @ImmersiveChinesewithLuyang Před rokem +1

      @@MelissaaLu I agree. I also love her voice and would love the podcast

    • @amirulnazreen1518
      @amirulnazreen1518 Před rokem

      @@MelissaaLu you are in LOVE with her, she is top tier woman, be careful, her standard is world champion, kings and another top tier Men 😝 very hard to find a girl with her quality TBH.

    • @MonurojonPegu-eq9ff
      @MonurojonPegu-eq9ff Před rokem

      T hangyoumamo

  • @mazzdacon2134
    @mazzdacon2134 Před rokem +6

    I have been learning Japanese, initially with books and audio files that are useful for the basics but language is about interaction, so I found a language exchange partner and we meet weekly for 2 hours on Skype. In addition we set each other writing assignments which are corrected live. My proficiency has accelerated dramatically with the live situation, and because it is at a regular time each week there is a huge incentive to study and prepare beforehand. Self study can be quite patchy at times with a busy life.

  • @luqmanali3132
    @luqmanali3132 Před rokem +3

    I've learnt a lot from this video. Thank you Izzy. 🤗🤗❤️❤️👍👌

  • @ayemyakyi9165
    @ayemyakyi9165 Před rokem

    Such a pleasure to see your video again.

  • @ashikihsan1946
    @ashikihsan1946 Před rokem

    Hello Izzy Sealey, Thank you for telling me about your Goal Setting Science and it is really important for me to learn from you how to set goals in my life for the year 2023. Izzy, I'm happy when you got a degree and became a doctor. I love your nice British English speaking styles. You know many Chinese styles. My support is for you Izzy

  • @jirasinthongma4842
    @jirasinthongma4842 Před rokem

    Thank you for your inspirational video, Izzy.

  • @LalrinTluanga-ew3rl
    @LalrinTluanga-ew3rl Před rokem

    i can watch your speak all day long, keep it up, i didn't regret found your you tube channel.

  • @ifrahhassan1980
    @ifrahhassan1980 Před rokem +1

    its my frist year for medical student and also learning mandrin thank you for motivation

  • @auliannisaarezia1657
    @auliannisaarezia1657 Před rokem

    so glad that you come back! :)

  • @coutureprincessx
    @coutureprincessx Před rokem +3

    Izzy this was incredibly insightful and helpful, thank you sincerely x

  • @rehanfiranzah7371
    @rehanfiranzah7371 Před rokem

    Hi izzy, really helps me to coordinate my routine in order to achive my 2023 goal..
    Really wait for your next video....💙

  • @ajanstudio343
    @ajanstudio343 Před rokem

    I can listen to you all day. Thanks for sharing, really appreciate it. Wish you the very best in your goals too! xie xie!

  • @AuteurCinema
    @AuteurCinema Před rokem +1

    Great to see you back Izzy ! You’re far more organised than myself 😂 I tend not to give goals much thought and instead just prefer to stay consistent. But thinking about things, I would like to get to N3-N2 Japanese this year, I’m currently close to around N4 I’d say. Also I would like to try and achieve the front lever and continue with my CZcams which I recently started. Thank you for a great video ❤

  • @dreamer03__
    @dreamer03__ Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you so much Dr. Izzy, this helped me in setting goals for 2024, this is the best video on goal setting I have ever watched. I think I need to keep coming back to this video again and again for goal setting😅.
    Thankyou!

  • @Kevin_Guo
    @Kevin_Guo Před rokem +2

    Very interesting techniques! Will definitely implement. Thanks!

  • @pameladiche9343
    @pameladiche9343 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for sharing this content. It's very helpful!

  • @janefegarido6493
    @janefegarido6493 Před 11 měsíci +2

    This is very useful, I'm glad I found this video this morning, listening to this while doing my make-up. Actually, I'm feeling lost lately after my break up and I want to make some changes in my goals and how to achieve it. I want to follow this techniques and have discipline about everything. Thank you so much❤ New subscriber here from Macau🌹

  • @amirulnazreen1518
    @amirulnazreen1518 Před rokem +1

    Thanks a lot Izzy for the advice ♥️🙏💯

  • @ed7seas
    @ed7seas Před rokem

    Thank you Dr. Sealey

  • @chutatthanh5111
    @chutatthanh5111 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Even though I'm not a native speaker, I understand the whole content due to your accent, it sounds easy to listen and comprehend. Thank you so much for being a part of learning English as Vietnamese, would you mind if I share your videos on my Facebook?

  • @factflow996
    @factflow996 Před rokem

    why am i feeling so good when watching your video, love your content and love you.

  • @nainglinntwan1744
    @nainglinntwan1744 Před rokem

    Hello Lzzy, I hope you are great in good health.I love listening and watching your inspiring videos, it makes me increase my knowledges by you.🙏

  • @PASHINNSOUNDS
    @PASHINNSOUNDS Před rokem +1

    amazing advice! I wish I had this video when I first started chasing my dreams!

  • @rogerlloyd4856
    @rogerlloyd4856 Před rokem +1

    Such a breath of fresh air to start off the new year such a positive accertive approach puts me into gear for the year ahead please izzy I adore your English do some more rp english videos I am english but need to polish up thanks so much izzy keep up the good work and yes some yoga blogs would go down well roger

  • @ZengHuaXiansheng
    @ZengHuaXiansheng Před rokem +1

    Izzy, 谢谢你的视频!祝你和大家新年快乐!My goal for this year is to improve my Tàijíquán and I hope that at some point in the future I can travel to the Wǔdāng mountains and practice there.

  • @normmansor1313
    @normmansor1313 Před rokem

    Welcome Izzy to 2023!

  • @NeilDD_
    @NeilDD_ Před rokem

    Thank you again Izzy 🥰

  • @Lanadelreysfan
    @Lanadelreysfan Před rokem +4

    My major goals are learning Spanish (from A1 to B1 ), not quitting the gym, being more religious, eating healthier( having a healthier lifestyle) and passing my exams with an A+

  • @boyboy23257
    @boyboy23257 Před rokem

    Ingenious as always

  • @ckianchannel9406
    @ckianchannel9406 Před rokem +2

    Hello Izzy.. so nice to see your channel. You are very smooth in conveying your content material. I'm interested in learning about how you learn, especially Chinese. I will grow in skills and knowledge in your channel with you.

  • @rogheaven
    @rogheaven Před rokem +2

    This is a great video, I just wished I had the right mindset when I was in kindergarden or first grade. but trial and Error has tested my character the Best ways to discipline I needed as a kid.

  • @zino4512
    @zino4512 Před rokem +1

    I dont know what to watch your beauty or listen to your speech😩

  • @janefines17
    @janefines17 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you for the template! Just subscribed to your newsletter :)

  • @kewinaga
    @kewinaga Před rokem

    Love you izzy ❤️ 💗 💓.. good to hear from you

  • @aida2977
    @aida2977 Před rokem

    My goal is getting into the medical university & your videos gives me energy to continue❤

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974

    Of course I enjoed this video in fact I enjoy all your videos, fantastic speech your English very clear I understand everything you talk.
    Thank you so much.
    Have a good evening 👍

  • @TheJereld
    @TheJereld Před rokem +1

    These are great tips. The input, output goal was very helpful.

  • @justdonow4815
    @justdonow4815 Před 11 měsíci

    You made me smile everyday thanks 😊 ☺️ 😘

  • @duchuynh7948
    @duchuynh7948 Před rokem

    You are my new admire now. Thank you for great speech

  • @jakeman1251
    @jakeman1251 Před rokem

    I just love listening to your voice

  • @sastravithkhieu9353
    @sastravithkhieu9353 Před 8 měsíci

    Great idea!❤

  • @Abhi-yn5gx
    @Abhi-yn5gx Před rokem +79

    I have 3 big goals this year
    1. Learning German A1-B1 ( By Myself i mean without any cost)
    2.Writing A novel ( I already started it)
    3. Read at least 5 books (not educational)
    A question izzy : What level do you have in Chinese? 💚

    • @marialorca6612
      @marialorca6612 Před rokem +2

      I Can help you with German!

    • @Abhi-yn5gx
      @Abhi-yn5gx Před rokem +1

      @@eieigo what's your native?by the way did you use Duolingo to learn Korean??

    • @Abhi-yn5gx
      @Abhi-yn5gx Před rokem +1

      @@eieigo holy shit.....you are genius.. Really..My parents need you🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠 XD

    • @Abhi-yn5gx
      @Abhi-yn5gx Před rokem +1

      @@eieigo oh I am from Bangladesh...... you are from Japan right?

    • @deutschmitpurple2918
      @deutschmitpurple2918 Před rokem +1

      I hope you can improve your German. Viel Glück ❤❤

  • @GraceRose-us6jb
    @GraceRose-us6jb Před měsícem

    Thank you!

  • @ferrynalle5886
    @ferrynalle5886 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for this learning. 👍

  • @kalebdawitofficial4003

    I love your perspective.!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏MY LOVE

  • @ThujizamBhutan
    @ThujizamBhutan Před rokem +6

    I have three Major Goals. My Goal this year are:
    1. To learn German Language (A1-A2), hopefully 🤞.
    2. To skill up on my professional writing
    3. To read 12 books in a year. 🧖🏻‍♀️

  • @Sarahgmt23-cb2tg
    @Sarahgmt23-cb2tg Před 10 měsíci

    thank you for all these helpful tips on goal setting! Could you please make a video about how to stay focused on your goals and motivated when studying?

  • @MattAgustin
    @MattAgustin Před rokem +1

    She’s backkkk!!! 🥳

  • @mookskie
    @mookskie Před 11 měsíci

    very nice advised. thank you

  • @suzanneladue5828
    @suzanneladue5828 Před rokem

    Praying for a good support system 🙏🕊️ helps as well. Thank You 💓 for the video and congratulations 🎉 on being a doctor 👍

  • @jakerjoules
    @jakerjoules Před rokem

    TY for high quality editing 👩🏻😃

  • @hassanscottodierno9284
    @hassanscottodierno9284 Před rokem +2

    Would love a series of videos on helping your sister learn mandarin as it would be something we can also follow

  • @shaheedahmed2418
    @shaheedahmed2418 Před rokem

    Honestly you're so lovely Dr.Izzy 🌷❤️

  • @planettobi
    @planettobi Před rokem +5

    It's weird how you mention piloting a plane at the beginning, I'm actually training to be an airline pilot and when you said that it felt like this video was made for me😌

  • @colbykultgen2059
    @colbykultgen2059 Před rokem

    Love this!

  • @Daisysbasic
    @Daisysbasic Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video Izzy and new subscriber by the way❤

  • @emwaving
    @emwaving Před 9 měsíci +1

    besides the framework, it is truly helpful referencing your goals. really enjoy learning from your sharing; and I'm native cantonese speaker from Hong Kong; we shall have a chat some time haha

  • @wanodyaazhaafiroh-zg6sh
    @wanodyaazhaafiroh-zg6sh Před 9 měsíci

    izzy i like your speaking accent. Thank you for inspiring me from all your idea. Awesome

  • @musictalk6421
    @musictalk6421 Před rokem

    This is a very good video, thanks Izzy

  • @Amu_Sindu
    @Amu_Sindu Před rokem

    Really amazing tips for youngers. Keep doing. Thank you

  • @moonguys4913
    @moonguys4913 Před rokem

    You are GOALS!

  • @franklo8085
    @franklo8085 Před rokem

    You are an amazing lady! Appreciate your sharing.

  • @dionysianapollomarx
    @dionysianapollomarx Před 9 měsíci

    This is awesome. Very helpful stuff. I’ll modify the tips and the framework. Having a default system is all I needed after all this time lol.

  • @mellorocks
    @mellorocks Před 3 měsíci

    amazing video ❤