From Lazy to Disciplined: Level up & Get Into your Productive Era

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  • čas přidán 19. 05. 2024
  • Hey girly! Let's learn some discipline and step into our productive girl era and make all those dreams and goals happen in 2024 and beyond💖
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    timestamps:
    00:00-02:10 From Lazy do Disciplined
    02:10-04:45 Change your Definition of Discipline
    04:45-07:27 Make Discipline Your Identity
    07:27-9:59 Building Resilience - the Art of Catch & Release
    9:59-12:41 Clarifying Goals and Breaking Them Down
    12:41-17:36 Persist Despite Resistance
    17:36-18:30 Make it Happen for You
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Komentáře • 341

  • @Jules-740
    @Jules-740 Před 5 měsíci +112

    I learned from another video! Something about NOT skipping a workout and i think you can apply it to other tasks or areas also. So basically you cannot rely on motivation since it is so fleeting and most inconsistent. You can make a a LIGHTER/shortened workout on your bad or rough days. That way you STILL show up!

    • @marleyhartzfeld
      @marleyhartzfeld Před měsícem +6

      what I always did is still went to the gym, played an upbeat playlist and walked on the treadmill for 10ish minutes. By then, if I still wasn't feeling it, then I would stretch and go home. But most of the time, that walk and just being in the environment go me in the mood to workout

    • @Jules-740
      @Jules-740 Před měsícem +1

      @@marleyhartzfeld Yes that is a good tip! It can get you to do more than you planned also.

  • @blanchesplace
    @blanchesplace Před 6 měsíci +264

    Good God girl..I’m 60 years old and you just smacked me upside of the head regarding resistance!

    • @zionroberts6592
      @zionroberts6592 Před 6 měsíci +7

      😂😂😂😂I’m dying I need this

    • @JasmineMoonEnergy
      @JasmineMoonEnergy Před 6 měsíci +6

      😂😂😂😂

    • @angelasagenda
      @angelasagenda Před 5 měsíci +21

      Did you know that 60 is the new 45? Congrats! You got this, you have a lot of wisdom, value, and gifts to give!

    • @sarvaepc
      @sarvaepc Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@angelasagendai appreciate you for this comment. I’m 13 but I do feel as wise as a 60 year old I wanted to take a moment to say how nice this comment was.

    • @CrystalRae444
      @CrystalRae444 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@Jules-740 yes please

  • @aggieunda3354
    @aggieunda3354 Před 4 měsíci +75

    Self discipline = self love! That phrase simply changed my whole mindset towards it. It made it smoother, softer. Thank you

  • @ebrose01
    @ebrose01 Před 7 měsíci +70

    Nika, I’ve been watching your videos for years and they’re honestly such a safe space. It feels like sitting down with a girlfriend and chatting about life’s struggles! Much love from the US, keep it up! xx

  • @chontellebaker8633
    @chontellebaker8633 Před 6 měsíci +13

    This is one of the best videos about this that I have watched. Such good advice and so well said. I learnt so much about myself and felt so seen at the start when you talked about not being disciplined during school. Thank you❤️

  • @user-qj5no9vp1e
    @user-qj5no9vp1e Před 5 měsíci +31

    This is so empowering!!! I'm tired of letting emotions justify everything I do. Thank you so much, Nika, for talking about these things. It's uncomfortable sometimes to hear that you are the key to fixing your own problems, but it's also so encouraging!!!

  • @raquelracheldcny2452
    @raquelracheldcny2452 Před 4 měsíci +3

    It’s amazing how young you are but resonate maturity, sound mind and wisdom beyond your years. I forgot to mention the charm and exuberance that really complete a remarkable persona inside and out. Keep at it!

  • @aliceturnbull2345
    @aliceturnbull2345 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Such a powerful message, and so actionable! I strongly agree with the commentary around messages about resistance and emotions- this is someone everyone needs to hear!

  • @olya.predoliak
    @olya.predoliak Před 5 měsíci +2

    oh my goodness, this video is the first where it’s said truly life things and it’s amazing) you know, that is the one I’m needed in right now, thank you so much✨

  • @andakos6556
    @andakos6556 Před 4 měsíci +2

    you're such an inspiration

  • @amayramlew
    @amayramlew Před 3 měsíci +2

    honestly, Nikas videos have 100% CHANGED MY LIFE. this one i listen to weekly😂 it has helped me beyond words can describe.❤Thanks forever, girlie!

  • @natashalindner2059
    @natashalindner2059 Před 6 měsíci +32

    Perfect timing, today my to do list came unstuck, chaos ensued and I gave up. I wasted a bit of time on CZcams, then I found you. I made notes for my commonplace book and you are the first entry. Reframing discipline as self care is what really resonated with me, so before bed I will now do a few more to do's and start the morning with some self care. Thank you.

    • @katherine.n.martinez
      @katherine.n.martinez Před 5 měsíci +2

      Super proud of you for taking this big step in wanting to improve your life and wellbeing! I also have a self improvement channel, let’s get better together 🙌

  • @virtualsandra
    @virtualsandra Před 6 měsíci +8

    Not even halfway thru and this video resonated so so much. As soon as you said to comment if we want a future video about negative core beliefs, I ran to the keyboard. I was thinking this video was older because I’ve been searching for inspirational videos and this one being only 5 days old somehow hits harder. Like for some reason I was meant to see this 😂 Anyway, subscribed! Can’t wait for more videos and hopefully the one about “Negative Core Beliefs”, I never realized that there was actually a word/phrase for it.

  • @ww-pi5pb
    @ww-pi5pb Před 5 měsíci +1

    Your videos are so helpful! Thanks for all the journaling prompts

  • @savannahhaynes5487
    @savannahhaynes5487 Před 6 měsíci +2

    thank you for sharing you're words of encouragement. I really needed it.. much love 💗💗

  • @KS-wr4vv
    @KS-wr4vv Před 4 měsíci +3

    Wow this really resonated with me. I’m so hard on myself bc I fell into addiction for several years. 4 year ago I got sober and have remained sober while simultaneously starting a new art teaching job. II always focus on feeling guilty for all that time in active addiction; Versus being proud of myself for overcoming it, which many never do. I say to myself well everyone works but not everyone works while being a single mom of 2 teenagers struggling w add and depression. Luckily I think my depression is behind me which is why I want to add more to my life ; am routine, consistent exercise and a regular art practice.😢 thank you for your valuable content and for reminding me to love and take pride in what I have accomplished vs what I haven’t. 😂❤

  • @MannyMac
    @MannyMac Před 5 měsíci +1

    "Your video is truly inspiring, moving from Legacy to discipline and leveling up into your productive era. Your content is excellent, and I want to encourage you to keep creating more impactful videos. I am looking forward to the inspiration you'll continue to share!"

  • @conniechuha3113
    @conniechuha3113 Před 7 měsíci +13

    Another weekly dose of encouragement. Thank you.

  • @pri-fl8yd
    @pri-fl8yd Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so so much . I needed this ❤

  • @16demolka
    @16demolka Před 4 měsíci +1

    Discipline is self-love - I love that!

  • @jazimenstephens5570
    @jazimenstephens5570 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this video! I needed to hear this ❤❤

  • @little.devotional
    @little.devotional Před 5 měsíci +1

    Omg yes yes yes! Thank you for this!!

  • @ishitaparakh75
    @ishitaparakh75 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Loved it! Thank you for this!

  • @carollaurentino2003
    @carollaurentino2003 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Hey there! I’ve recently discovered your channel and I’m amazed with your content, it’s very clear and actionable, literally binge watching 😅 Would love to see a video on negative core beliefs! ❤

  • @grudtt2428
    @grudtt2428 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you ❤️ This is just what I needed to hear today 🙏

  • @amayramlew
    @amayramlew Před 7 měsíci +3

    NIKA!! thank you so much, soo very helpful and motivational!! you gave me the most immense push to rediscover myself this summer, I cant thank you enough🙏🙏

    • @NikasInnerBeauty
      @NikasInnerBeauty  Před 6 měsíci

      Awhh I’m so glad! It’s my pleasure 🥰💖

    • @johnsonjo8454
      @johnsonjo8454 Před 6 měsíci

      @@NikasInnerBeautyhi 💋💋💋

    • @katherine.n.martinez
      @katherine.n.martinez Před 5 měsíci

      Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

  • @biancaamalta
    @biancaamalta Před 6 měsíci +3

    This video is an absolute masterpiece! Thank you 🙏 💓

  • @REBECCAJ.WARBURTON
    @REBECCAJ.WARBURTON Před 4 měsíci

    This is so insightful! Thank you 🥰

  • @NicolaWinters
    @NicolaWinters Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great tips! Lots of this resonated. Thank you for sharing 😊

  • @dina_kazakova
    @dina_kazakova Před 9 dny +1

    Thank you, dear! It was nice to find new pieces of advice for me

  • @ChristianW0lf
    @ChristianW0lf Před 6 měsíci +2

    Love this. This is actually really great advice.

  • @palakjain9202
    @palakjain9202 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank You! I really needed this video, specially the persist despite resistance point :)

    • @katherine.n.martinez
      @katherine.n.martinez Před 5 měsíci

      Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

  • @ANelligante
    @ANelligante Před 3 měsíci

    This was very inspiring and helpful. It was honest and to the point. Loved this video. Thank you!

  • @danica.filipovic
    @danica.filipovic Před 2 měsíci +2

    Easlily one of the best videos out here 👌

  • @shalakalahoti
    @shalakalahoti Před 4 dny

    This was really good video..I have always been lazy and knew that I have to be disciplined to get somewhere in life..and this video explains so much of it..
    And discipline once you get a hang of it, is so much fun..
    Love the video❤

  • @lagirl4648
    @lagirl4648 Před 3 měsíci

    How have I never seen your CZcams before? This just popped up in my recommended videos. You're great. new sub.❤

  • @LunaJonesTarot
    @LunaJonesTarot Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you very much for this info! Very uplifting :D

  • @xxmarletjosorixx
    @xxmarletjosorixx Před 4 měsíci

    Please make a podcast this is so helpful!! Would love to listen on the go

  • @Matt-rw9py
    @Matt-rw9py Před 5 měsíci +1

    Smart girl, thank you, amazing tips! Lovely

  • @ValentinaGulpe
    @ValentinaGulpe Před 6 měsíci +1

    What a fantastic channel to stumble upon ;) from one creator to another amazing work ❤

    • @katherine.n.martinez
      @katherine.n.martinez Před 5 měsíci +1

      Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

  • @leticiadosanjos7106
    @leticiadosanjos7106 Před 6 měsíci +4

    That first tip she gave is so true! Did you know that in portuguese "trust" and "confidence" are the same word?

  • @StevieBowers91
    @StevieBowers91 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video, and dose of blunt reality haha I am interested in a video regarding negative core beliefs🥰

  • @irenedeng1759
    @irenedeng1759 Před 6 měsíci +1

    It's the law of attraction!!!Thank u Nika for brining us that!

  • @chelseamckinley6745
    @chelseamckinley6745 Před 6 měsíci

    Love this video , thank you 😊

  • @lenaramos1250
    @lenaramos1250 Před 4 měsíci

    This video is from 2month ago I wanted to whatch it then but landed in the hospital instead. Nothing bad my water broke and they had to have an eye on the inflamation and waiting for contractions. After she was born (5days after! Within 2hrs) yeah postpartum things but now we have a little routine as a family of four. Now I am ready to achieve some goals and also get fit again (doctor also said I can excercise again but now I'm sick😅) so in the new year 😅
    Your advices sound really helpful 🥰

  • @evabeharkova9926
    @evabeharkova9926 Před 2 měsíci

    Super, thats what i ve needed right now

  • @DZ-le1zh
    @DZ-le1zh Před 22 dny

    Amazing video!! Thank you!! 😍🙏🏼

  • @tanjavantonder4312
    @tanjavantonder4312 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you very much for this video! Very helpful!

    • @katherine.n.martinez
      @katherine.n.martinez Před 5 měsíci

      Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

  • @mydakhan3994
    @mydakhan3994 Před 4 měsíci

    Yesss plzzz make a video on negative mindset and overthinking

  • @nellycandelas4875
    @nellycandelas4875 Před 26 dny

    Good video. What stuck was self love ❤without that there’s nothing

  • @efyaasantewaa1002
    @efyaasantewaa1002 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Click on your channel and the “get in babe ,we’re changing our lives” in the bio made me subscribe ❤

  • @elisavigino3169
    @elisavigino3169 Před 2 měsíci

    Really a beautiful video!! ⭐️

  • @angelicarousiaki1316
    @angelicarousiaki1316 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Girl I'm the most disciplined person I know.And I guarantee you school never taught me how to be so disciplined.I would say it had the opposite effect on me. You should be sooo proud of yourself for turning your life around. You're killing it and you're also helping so many people out there do the same!!I'm a new sub :)

  • @lilianamoreira-costa9958
    @lilianamoreira-costa9958 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Your examples are great!

    • @katherine.n.martinez
      @katherine.n.martinez Před 5 měsíci +1

      Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

  •  Před 4 měsíci +1

    “I guess this is uncomfortable it just means I’m not supossed to do it” - love the Reflection.

  • @angelasagenda
    @angelasagenda Před 5 měsíci +6

    Hello! I was searching CZcams for “motivation”, “life improvement”, and “create a new me”. And your channel popped up and has drawn me in.

    • @katherine.n.martinez
      @katherine.n.martinez Před 5 měsíci

      So proud of you for taking this step in wanting to improve yourself and your life! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources! Let’s go on this journey together:)

  • @Emilysmommy02
    @Emilysmommy02 Před 4 měsíci

    Loved your video, great content

  • @thatssojayah6886
    @thatssojayah6886 Před 5 měsíci

    I love this mindset

  • @BAW47
    @BAW47 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Ya. I think I'm going to need to watch this video about five more times. I think what kills me is the self talk 😢 the words I say to myself, are words that I would NEVER say to another human. Thank you for such a fantastic video.

    • @deepshikha_garg
      @deepshikha_garg Před 4 měsíci +1

      Same thing goes with me as well. And this video is definitely going to make my 2024 much better. Thank you so much for creating such a quality content..

  • @blue_boulevard4429
    @blue_boulevard4429 Před 6 měsíci

    super helpful video, thanks

  • @albacuevas6822
    @albacuevas6822 Před 3 měsíci

    Right now, I feeling so much resistance and doubts about my work. I like it but it is challenging right now and I keep asking if I will ever good at it one day. I completely understand the resistance part. It is hard learn to manage it

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 20 dny +1

    And likely bonding to it❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 19 dny +1

    Give it to my self❤❤❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny

    Qualified as soon and fast as i can❤

  • @xuejiaofeng8277
    @xuejiaofeng8277 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you. You make perfect sense to me. I think you are gonna helpl me improve my productivity like 5%. That is beneficail.

  • @mee976
    @mee976 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you ❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 20 dny

    You are you are you are❤

  • @toziamutambo1883
    @toziamutambo1883 Před 6 měsíci +3

    This message had no fluff😂 called out and helped out 😊thank you

  • @prettygirlwhispers
    @prettygirlwhispers Před 2 měsíci

    Love all your videos

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 19 dny

    Gives you back

  • @Pzychonoir
    @Pzychonoir Před 3 měsíci

    Super interesting info. Thank you very much for producing such content! ;)

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 20 dny

    Guardare❤❤❤vedi...not going against.......you are doing it😊

  • @asmahassani4964
    @asmahassani4964 Před 4 měsíci

    I loved the video thanks 🙏🏻

  • @ThihongngocDu
    @ThihongngocDu Před 6 měsíci

    thank you so much

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny

    Keep water and warm

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Well done girl. Have a great weekend. ❤👍

    • @katherine.n.martinez
      @katherine.n.martinez Před 5 měsíci

      Let’s connect! I also have a self improvement channel with more resources to help us become our best selves and build a life of fulfillment:) hope to see you there🙌

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 22 dny +1

    Aiutati ❤❤trova cose stimoli impara a imparare , trasullati nel momento😢😢😢😢😢😊

  • @simona_bee
    @simona_bee Před 4 měsíci

    this video literally changed my life. changing the definition of discipline is so empowering. thank you for everything you're doing on this channel 🤍

  • @user-yu2cd7jr6s
    @user-yu2cd7jr6s Před měsícem

    Thank you!

  • @sabrinanicole6640
    @sabrinanicole6640 Před 6 měsíci

    Amazing advice!

  • @ina.beauty
    @ina.beauty Před 4 měsíci

    This year After my mom got to the hospital and i nearly loose her, i stop all the sugar and exces of coffee that i made!!! Sometimes We need just a huge event to realise that We wont live 100 years and is our duty to take care of our health phisically and mentally! I start doing more youtube video just to improve myself and because i like it!! Life is to short to Life boring lifes ❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny

    Grazie cuore❤

  • @smilermc1369
    @smilermc1369 Před 7 měsíci

    Love love love

  • @stegarx
    @stegarx Před 5 měsíci

    "we as people act in line with who we think we are"

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny

    Per il freto❤❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 22 dny

    Disciplina te stessa❤❤❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny

    Per il freto🎉

  • @edithosaye7518
    @edithosaye7518 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank u so much

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny +1

    Core❤

  • @areenyousifsamad2060
    @areenyousifsamad2060 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Would love a video about negative core beliefs ❤

    • @NikasInnerBeauty
      @NikasInnerBeauty  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Will definitely be making it soon💖

    • @johnsonjo8454
      @johnsonjo8454 Před 6 měsíci

      @@NikasInnerBeauty love you so much 💋💋💋🤎

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny +1

    For believe in yourself

  • @elfuturomio
    @elfuturomio Před 2 měsíci +1

    From discipline to lazy coffee included

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 19 dny

    Successs😊😊

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 20 dny

    Likely bonding to it

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny +1

    Sake and self believe😅 stuck to it and belief is at discipline

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 7 dny +1

    Chiarezza nella voce ed gola

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před 22 dny

    Non è la rabbia non 😢😢❤❤❤😂😮 you wont be pissed when I do myself...i cant control it

  • @thequietkate
    @thequietkate Před 6 měsíci

    The way I’ve reconciled the “take care of your emotions” new age thing (which is important) without falling into laziness under the guise of self-care is by promising I will do my best every single day while recognizing that my best will be a bit different every day. My yoga teacher always starts the class by reminding us that “Your practice today will be different than any other practice.”

  • @ShoppingwithRina
    @ShoppingwithRina Před 6 měsíci

    Amazing

  • @johnsmith9330
    @johnsmith9330 Před 3 měsíci

    So pretty