These 8 Habits will Make you Attractive

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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
  • 8 essential dating habits that will transform you into an irresistible, magnetic, and mesmerizing presence. Learn how to exude confidence & become the most attractive version of yourself 💕
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    00:00-02:36 how to become magnetic
    02:36-05:15 be stingy with your time
    05:15-07:06 honour yourself
    07:06-08:36 business as usual
    08:36-11:55 show them
    11:55-13:53 what not to say about exes
    13:53-16:02 change your outlook
    16:02-17:21 keep an open mind
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Komentáře • 160

  • @ZariaWorldwide
    @ZariaWorldwide Před 6 měsíci +66

    “That is embarrassing for your soul.” One of the greatest statements ever uttered.

  • @annaluzgina8881
    @annaluzgina8881 Před 4 měsíci +41

    Thing that literally changed my dating life is being open from the first second to personality of my date and showing real interest and deep listening about his things!Active listening is charming!Also not typical questions make a big deal!Mesmerising....

  • @conniechuha3113
    @conniechuha3113 Před 7 měsíci +172

    This advice never gets old. Daily dose of encouragement. ❤

  • @la_petite_carotte
    @la_petite_carotte Před 7 měsíci +25

    I can't wait for part 2! The advice was top!! Thanks!!❤

  • @mixcir
    @mixcir Před 7 měsíci +11

    Thank you! A part 2 would be great! ❤

  • @asialalala4942
    @asialalala4942 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Yes ! Part 2, can't wait ;)

  • @alymamhalmamarih6837
    @alymamhalmamarih6837 Před 5 měsíci +5

    These advices so helpful and I agree with every single word! Thank you ❤

  • @karinapostempskaya9209
    @karinapostempskaya9209 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this video, it was soo helpful , honestly!!! ❤

  • @verycherry4459
    @verycherry4459 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is the first I have heard of you and you gained an instant subscriber! I hope to find a part 2.

  • @tulipmars
    @tulipmars Před 4 měsíci +1

    This girl is so smart! I understand and agree with many of the point made

  • @CLGlitter76
    @CLGlitter76 Před 5 měsíci

    All brilliant advice. Thank you 😊

  • @Btl98919
    @Btl98919 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Girl we need part 2 please 😂😍

  • @vornamenachname9662
    @vornamenachname9662 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I would love a part two 😊

  • @Avoid_Low_Frequency
    @Avoid_Low_Frequency Před 4 měsíci

    Great information for all stages of life! I’m 65 and still learning

  • @RozhinBabaie
    @RozhinBabaie Před 4 měsíci

    Needed to hear these thank youuuu❤❤❤❤

  • @amalieknotova8492
    @amalieknotova8492 Před 3 měsíci

    Wow these advices are so true! Some of them I realised during life and I cannot more than agree that you are so right! Keep advising us to respect us women more and be more attractive for men.

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem Před 5 měsíci +2

    Unlocking the secrets with 'These 8 Habits will Make you Attractive.' Your insights are a guide to personal magnetism. Time to embrace these habits and radiate attractiveness. Thanks for the charisma wisdom.

  • @semarawilliams5363
    @semarawilliams5363 Před 6 měsíci

    She is so real I love this ❤❤

  • @aylarmoonchild6958
    @aylarmoonchild6958 Před 7 měsíci

    thank you for this video!! ❤

  • @sedacelen2899
    @sedacelen2899 Před 7 měsíci

    Already in Love with the intro 🥹😂 for sure a great video thanks 🪽

  • @misspbj2634
    @misspbj2634 Před 6 měsíci +1

    i love your house its giving clean 90s nostaglia to me

  • @dianabelova9136
    @dianabelova9136 Před 7 měsíci +36

    Thanks for the boost of motivation😁 Would LOVE to see a video from you about self-worth and overworking, overtimes and prioritizing work over anything else (i.e. a lunch - happens to me all the time).

    • @wahabkame5455
      @wahabkame5455 Před 6 měsíci

      u are pretty and cute wanna be friends?

  • @N5555b
    @N5555b Před 7 měsíci +1

    Definitely film a part 2

  • @cynthiamendezgutierrez8473
    @cynthiamendezgutierrez8473 Před 5 měsíci

    I just loved it. I had never seen a video of yours. I liked it. And please, part 2

  • @thecattakenbycuriosity
    @thecattakenbycuriosity Před 4 měsíci +1

    I like your style-subscribed

  • @alexisluna9764
    @alexisluna9764 Před 5 měsíci

    Great video, thank you!

  • @cenarn562
    @cenarn562 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Everything you said is straight facts, whoever disagrees needs to do some self work. Thanks for dropping so many truth bombs!
    💯 💣 💥

  • @user-iz3oe6zn5j
    @user-iz3oe6zn5j Před 3 měsíci

    part 2 pls... super insightfull stuff

  • @thatgirl4927
    @thatgirl4927 Před 6 měsíci

    Your give amazing advice. Keep posting ❤

  • @nannaed7833
    @nannaed7833 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Love love everything you are saying because it is the truth!!!!!

  • @EmilyDurr
    @EmilyDurr Před 7 měsíci

    Part 2 would be Great

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 Před 6 měsíci +59

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 Před 6 měsíci

      wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @morefaiththanever
      @morefaiththanever Před 6 měsíci +2

      Something was wrong, she probably felt alone and it wasn’t in her head. I’d give a lot for my spouse to have spent 10% of his time to eat dinner together, talk about domestic shit, schedule dates, make time to give attention to me. Ultimately I left because I wasn’t attracted to him anymore.

  • @katherinesigalova
    @katherinesigalova Před 4 měsíci

    I love this video this advice is so good

  • @ChristinaProticMotivation
    @ChristinaProticMotivation Před 6 měsíci +1

    Really great advice.👍🏻 I subscribed.😊

  • @erikaburtt7807
    @erikaburtt7807 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Yes part 2!

  • @disierra-amado5596
    @disierra-amado5596 Před 7 měsíci

    part 2 nika!

  • @nurafiqaayesha9110
    @nurafiqaayesha9110 Před 5 měsíci

    i lovee thiss!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shekhargupta6718
    @shekhargupta6718 Před 7 měsíci +4

    You are amazing, what a powerhouse you are. I really admire you for your contents.

  • @sawsensawsen1007
    @sawsensawsen1007 Před 6 měsíci

    I WANT MORE !!

  • @raquellennan1760
    @raquellennan1760 Před 6 měsíci

    I just found you today. Love the great advice. ❤

  • @rogheaven
    @rogheaven Před 3 měsíci

    Great video, Inspired by you

  • @vyshnavina4970
    @vyshnavina4970 Před 7 měsíci +3

    love u soo much sis u r an angel❤ thank u for this

  • @rafaela1748
    @rafaela1748 Před 7 měsíci +1

    we need part 2

  • @cerianegarau5199
    @cerianegarau5199 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I would love a part two ❤

  • @Laura-ve7wo
    @Laura-ve7wo Před 2 měsíci

    There’s a new gym!!! Yayyy

  • @mobinarahighi6406
    @mobinarahighi6406 Před 7 měsíci

    That was so useful for me:)))))

  • @areenyousifsamad2060
    @areenyousifsamad2060 Před 7 měsíci

    Part 2 would be great ❤❤

    • @wahabkame5455
      @wahabkame5455 Před 6 měsíci

      u are pretty and cute wanna be friends?

  • @mdg767
    @mdg767 Před 3 měsíci

    She is amazing❤

  • @ve_posp
    @ve_posp Před 7 měsíci +1

    Nika this video is like life path🙏 wish you like a big sister😊

  • @Mykes25
    @Mykes25 Před 3 měsíci

    I think it's crazy to get all these work done. I just allow things to happen as it should be

  • @Ki.Lashay
    @Ki.Lashay Před 5 měsíci

    I love this

  • @queenj.8i895
    @queenj.8i895 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Some of this is good advice, but some of it is definitively just playing games. Yes, only invest in those who invest in you! Reserve your attraction for ppl who SHOW that they will give what you need them to give. Always stay focused on keeping yourself happy for sure. But when it comes to things like communication, just share honestly. Ask what you want to ask and say what you wanna say. The right person will understand you and enjoy your interactions regardless. Ladies, don’t play games. Love yourself & be yourself.
    God bless ❤️‍🔥

  • @skarlettmarcelino7660
    @skarlettmarcelino7660 Před 5 měsíci +2

    “That’s embarrassing to your souls” 😂😂😂😂

  • @gebrochenes_licht
    @gebrochenes_licht Před 7 měsíci

    Hoping for the second part. :)

    • @wahabkame5455
      @wahabkame5455 Před 6 měsíci

      u are pretty and cute wanna be friends?

  • @TitaGaming10
    @TitaGaming10 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I hate youuuu! What you all said are so true. I was cringing hearing some because fudge.. i did them. Oh. I love you. And thank youuu

  • @chakshusharma4799
    @chakshusharma4799 Před 6 měsíci

    Love you girly!!! Please do you have some tips on friendship break ups...i am new to your club ❤❤

  • @noxolondlela8843
    @noxolondlela8843 Před 24 dny

    This could've been named 'value yourself more with this tips'

  • @StrangeDisposition
    @StrangeDisposition Před 7 měsíci +8

    Become Margot Robbie, got it!

  • @auroraly9677
    @auroraly9677 Před 7 měsíci

    Definitely a paaart 2🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @barbaratortato6262
    @barbaratortato6262 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I would love to see a video on how to navigate the difficulties in a marriage. I tend to feel that most advice on boundaries and femininity in relationships are for unmarriade girls. Beeing in a marriage with children you can not, or should not, just leave if your spouse is not treating you right or acting right in life. I really really struge finding content on that perspective and I would LOVE to see your advice on that. Love from Brazil 😊❤️

    • @Fatima-ic8kv
      @Fatima-ic8kv Před 5 měsíci

      and that’s why many married women are unhappy

  • @kimkats8895
    @kimkats8895 Před 7 měsíci +5

    That's exactly how I live and act all the time. But I’m single for 4 years already hahaha

  • @marylafrance9547
    @marylafrance9547 Před 4 měsíci +1

    omg such good advice - women tend to have a self-sacrificing schema

  • @virtualassistantmylene
    @virtualassistantmylene Před 7 měsíci

    Yes, yes!!

  • @gaurigoyal6664
    @gaurigoyal6664 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Here’s 8 tips :
    1.Be stingy with your time in initial stages of relationship
    2. Honour yourself. Don’t be with people who are not interested.
    3.Business as usual. Dont post shit on social media like thirst traps n sad quotes.
    4.Show them. In beginning stage dont send crazy 10 pages text in arguments or fights
    5. What not to say about exes. Dont bring up early this topic.
    6. Change your outlook. Dont be bitchy or complaining all the time
    7. Be open to scenarios.
    8. Be open to new things if you are comfortable n safe. Ask questions
    9. Ask for things.

  • @nainafavs
    @nainafavs Před 4 měsíci

    I'm not sure about everything you said would work for me personally e.g. I want to be open about my past relationships and what I've learned (not on my first few dates and not in a way that's going on and on), and I don't think if the guy says no to something I've asked that's very important to me then the solution there necessarily is to ask for something else/ easier from him..
    However, I do appreciate your pov and I see your point too. Keep doing what you do! Much love ❤

  • @ninasikiric5742
    @ninasikiric5742 Před 7 měsíci

    Yess, give me the 2nd part🙌 its such a cool video

    • @wahabkame5455
      @wahabkame5455 Před 6 měsíci

      u are pretty and cute wanna be friends?

  • @MasalaChai_Magic
    @MasalaChai_Magic Před 6 měsíci +3

    “When i look back at myself and I cringe” us girl us 😂

  • @LoraEmperor
    @LoraEmperor Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you 😂

  • @-beTHEchange-123-
    @-beTHEchange-123- Před 5 měsíci

    Part 2 part 2

  • @itsbettyjohnson
    @itsbettyjohnson Před 2 měsíci

    3:25 literally watching this WHILE I crochet, not with my grandma though lol

  • @hocuspocus-rw3cu
    @hocuspocus-rw3cu Před 2 měsíci

    If a man made plans with me for a specific date and time and he texted me to "come over" at 10 I wouldn't even reply and if I did I would've definitely told him I made other plans... (and I would have)! We have to love ourselves enough to know we deserve to be a priority.

  • @aamirtanveer9924
    @aamirtanveer9924 Před 6 měsíci

    Nice dear ❤❤❤

  • @moonangel2285
    @moonangel2285 Před 6 měsíci

    What About asking if They still friends or in contact With an ex?

  • @Nat.Hoshino
    @Nat.Hoshino Před 6 měsíci

    I want part 2 hehe❤

  • @Jane_1994
    @Jane_1994 Před 5 měsíci

    This is the video I needed to see two months ago when it came out 🤡 subscriiiibed

  • @user-wq5kn4cz2v
    @user-wq5kn4cz2v Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @JakeyWakey
    @JakeyWakey Před 7 měsíci

    This may be good advice for men too

    • @JakeyWakey
      @JakeyWakey Před 7 měsíci

      except for the eyelash batting for favors

  • @sofianovak5793
    @sofianovak5793 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Amiga você é icônica ☺️😍😮‍💨🥰

    • @wahabkame5455
      @wahabkame5455 Před 6 měsíci

      u are pretty and cute wanna be friends?

  • @liberablu
    @liberablu Před 7 měsíci +1

    You look a little bit like young Kristen Dunst ✨

  • @l.-gz7ny
    @l.-gz7ny Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hábitos para ser más atractiva
    - Cuando estás empezando a salir con alguien, se tacaño con tu tiempo, debes tener tiempo para otras actividades y no todo para él
    - personas a las que no les agradas, personas que no están disponibles para ti,
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  • @celinegem
    @celinegem Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wished I have seen this video 2 months ago 😵‍💫

    • @AtiNour
      @AtiNour Před 2 měsíci

      The same for me 🥲🥲

  • @taynzxcv
    @taynzxcv Před 7 měsíci

    omg, i never ask for thing to my bf haha

  • @rosierosegirl5165
    @rosierosegirl5165 Před 3 měsíci

    I agree

  • @NomNomFairy
    @NomNomFairy Před 7 měsíci +483

    How about..just be yourself so that you can find someone who likes you for YOU

    • @NikasInnerBeauty
      @NikasInnerBeauty  Před 7 měsíci +77

      Sure😊

    • @_linlin_
      @_linlin_ Před 7 měsíci +184

      They don't say to not be yourself, but TO HAVE SELF RESPECT! It's absolutely needed to be liked for yourself but not for that version of you that is used and abused.

    • @gulabo2139
      @gulabo2139 Před 6 měsíci +22

      Who are you though? How to be 'yourself'

    • @rashib23
      @rashib23 Před 6 měsíci +26

      Be the best version of yourself.

    • @olaniecenieze
      @olaniecenieze Před 6 měsíci +3

      Totally agreed! I think many younger people are looking for those tips to change their lives. Do you'all realise that you're all watching those videos? Be yourself, believe in yourself, love yourself first (without being narcissistic), be good to others but don't desperately look for others' approval. You will meet the right person sooner or later, not all of us have to be married with 3 kids by the age of 28, and it's FINE!

  • @stephaniehanlin5961
    @stephaniehanlin5961 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I want to be this delulu

  • @Minervalady
    @Minervalady Před 4 měsíci

    I wish I listened to this before I met him and screw up with my insecurities

  • @juliamierzejewska170
    @juliamierzejewska170 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Okay being busy is irresistible but your plant is very thirsty. It needs water immidiately

  • @eliflisatuzer
    @eliflisatuzer Před 4 měsíci

    Does he still think you can’t put air in bike tires? I would be offended if someone thought I couldn’t do that

  • @crow7733
    @crow7733 Před 7 měsíci +2

    "I look like a wet rat" 😂😂😂😂

  • @emmamallows
    @emmamallows Před 4 měsíci

    I was hooked at wet rat 😂

  • @user-mj6qr2ky9d
    @user-mj6qr2ky9d Před 7 měsíci +1

    Do your dates pay at the first dates? I always paid by myself cause they didn't want to , also I'd feel weird if they'd paid and then I don't even want to contact them anymore after the first date cause I don't like them

  • @AgotaMar
    @AgotaMar Před 7 měsíci +4

    Good content and smart thoughts, but it's really hard to practice these advises in the countries, where there are more women than men. 😃The competition is big, so if you say no, or will try to follow these tips - high probability you will be alone. 😃 The bigest problem, that women became to much available these days, that's why men doesn't want to put in the effort. 🙂

    • @marforsure
      @marforsure Před 6 měsíci +1

      there is no competition.. + it's better to be alone than to be with a bare minimum dude

  • @jennysilva6426
    @jennysilva6426 Před 7 měsíci

    ❤❤

  • @MsEliteMAC
    @MsEliteMAC Před 7 měsíci +1

    oof im not blonde though

  • @user-bf2cv9xo7x
    @user-bf2cv9xo7x Před 22 dny

    As a hetero male, using those GIGANTIC coffee cups (she might as well just snort a nice line of speed,) endlessly waving her hands all around as she speaks (I actually understand the full meaning of spoken words) and her hair slicked down to an almost-bald look, are three turn offs.

  • @Ki.Lashay
    @Ki.Lashay Před 5 měsíci

    I’m always going off on men when they’re not worth it 🤣😂

  • @lusungugondwe3536
    @lusungugondwe3536 Před 6 měsíci

    Clicked cuz Margot Robbie looked so hot in the thumbnail 😅

  • @nadinewalther737
    @nadinewalther737 Před 6 měsíci

    What’s your zodiac sign? ✨✨

  • @LianaCarolina2
    @LianaCarolina2 Před 7 měsíci

    Time to water that plant.

    • @NikasInnerBeauty
      @NikasInnerBeauty  Před 7 měsíci

      That plant is the most problematic plant to ever exist

  • @adrianatamburini5114
    @adrianatamburini5114 Před 3 měsíci

    I need these videos.. one time my ex grabbed me by the shoulders and dragged me to the cash register at McDonald's to pay for his lunch AND I DID