Become THAT Woman: Build REAL Confidence & Self-Worth

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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
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    Here are my best tips & tricks to work on your self-worth, so you can walk into 2024 as your best, most confident self! ✨
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    timestamps:
    00:00-04:09 understanding self-worth
    04:09-09:54 resources & an exercise to uncover your self-worth
    09:54-12:20 uncover your value
    12:20-15:25 don’t chase what’s not for you
    15:25-19:07 focus on your uniqueness
    19:07-20:13 “that’s just not my thing”
    20:13-21:32 it’s worth all the effort
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Komentáře • 61

  • @NikasInnerBeauty
    @NikasInnerBeauty  Před 5 měsíci +5

    Click betterhelp.com/nika for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy with a licensed professional specific to your needs❤

  • @_akanksha2016
    @_akanksha2016 Před 5 měsíci +25

    The way u talk it's not even like u talking to the camera or the strangers...u fill in so much warmth on the way u talk... god's child behaviour 🦋🤍

    • @NikasInnerBeauty
      @NikasInnerBeauty  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Awhh that’s such a sweet compliment! Thank you so much🥰❤️

  • @kristinalegin2204
    @kristinalegin2204 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Just the video I needed ❤ thank you for your content

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Like your confidence on this video merry Christmas to you

  • @kevinnicolas1007
    @kevinnicolas1007 Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks for the video

  • @conniechuha3113
    @conniechuha3113 Před 5 měsíci +7

    This is a wonderful way to start our new year. Thinking positive.

  • @wagenna
    @wagenna Před 5 měsíci +2

    Good video! Thank you! And merry christmas, beautiful intelligent CZcamsr.
    I've been following your channel for some time now and while it's sometimes for me filled with too much explaining I like your reasoning a lot. So I will continue watching your videos because you're smart. And therapy is always a bonus.

  • @rumililla8679
    @rumililla8679 Před 4 měsíci +2

    At 12:54 I laughed so loud! It's true, we need to put things into perspective. Thank you for this great video. XX

  • @icegelofficial
    @icegelofficial Před 3 dny

    Thank you

  • @alyssam3834
    @alyssam3834 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this video. You’re explaining a LOT that I’ve never considered, and never heard talked about before

  • @savannahhope1683
    @savannahhope1683 Před 5 měsíci +5

    i think what i’m struggling with is people who USED to value and care for me no longer doing so. How do you navigate that? I have people who used to think the world of me suddenly not wanting me around anymore - with no change to my personality or circumstances. I can’t pinpoint why exactly this happens and it’s difficult to move past bc of that.

    • @itsabooksworld
      @itsabooksworld Před 5 měsíci +2

      Usually it's about them, not you. They can change, their values has changed, their lifestyle has changed. And if they don't want to explain that, it's up to them not you. You can ask them though.

    • @K1111A
      @K1111A Před 5 měsíci +1

      There is a saying “everyone is you, pushed out”. I find it helps to look at the beliefs I’m having about people, what are the stories I’m telling myself in my head about them? Like “they don’t want to be around me anymore, etc”. Working on your self concept can turn this around. Deciding, and telling yourself over and over until you believe it that you are the person that people love to be around, that anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend, that the people in your life always stay and they value your friendship, etc. Look up self concept meditations on CZcams 💕. Everything begins with you, it is not about them.

  • @shaylynnekaila
    @shaylynnekaila Před 5 měsíci +1

    thank you , your videos are so helpful and inspiring

  • @LenaVorobey
    @LenaVorobey Před 5 měsíci +4

    Love how everything is structured and to the point. Thank you so much for this video!

  • @cliciasilva2012
    @cliciasilva2012 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Such a great video. Thank u so much 💓

    • @NikasInnerBeauty
      @NikasInnerBeauty  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you for watching and I’m so glad you liked it💕💕

  • @SinuBCA
    @SinuBCA Před 5 měsíci +1

    Amazing Video 👏

  • @4eburawka18
    @4eburawka18 Před 4 měsíci +1

    What if I want to change my values? E.g. I am very much into budgeting and being financially independent, but I truly want to have fun and just enjoy my life? I am attracted to people like 'Sarah' but in this scenario I am still 'you', so 'Sarah' would reject me and my wish to do smth with them? That's really heartbreaking 😞

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    You are good and amazing

  • @Aesthetic_collections773
    @Aesthetic_collections773 Před měsícem

    You are my favorite ❤❤

  • @sumaiyasamina
    @sumaiyasamina Před 2 měsíci

    everyone who is friends with you is SOOOO lucky

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Per basta. 😮❤

  • @EnglishPractice.1678
    @EnglishPractice.1678 Před 3 dny

    I like your smile and your content mam ❤ I am from India ❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Your own value is worth more than 🎉

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Che non se lo possono dire🎉🎉🎉

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Ma non se lo potevano ridire❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Ma tu lo dici❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Matt-rw9py
    @Matt-rw9py Před 5 měsíci +1

    I hate it when I run out of sugar. I just have

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    As valuable❤❤❤ more than 😅

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Che non se lo possono dire😮❤non lo puo dire perche tu sei legge❤😊

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Perché tu sei legge🎉🎉🎉🎉sei leggera e leggerezza❤❤❤😂😂😂 sei l`emergere di un addome e addominale

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Perché tu sei legge❤❤❤❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Cosi🎉perche tu sei legge❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Vuoi🎉🎉🎉🎉 e legge ❤❤❤❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Just not my thing❤😊😊

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Tu sei legge per la notte❤

  • @HealthZo
    @HealthZo Před 5 měsíci

    ❤🎉🎄👀

  • @visiontvdigital9115
    @visiontvdigital9115 Před 5 měsíci +1

    First comment 😅

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Cosi🎉perche tu sei legge❤basta ❤davvero❤😂🎉

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Money❤e tu sei legge❤❤❤more than 😊 😮i know things what said and done😅

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Just my thing not❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Se non ci vai ci rivai❤❤❤ shock

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Perche tu sei legge❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    😊perché tu sei legge. E un comando mandatario 😂🎉🎉🎉❤voglia❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    Passive aggressive🎉🎉🎉passive🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😮😅😊

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤ legge e tu sei❤

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    If false 🎉🎉🎉🎉 tu sei la legge E legge🎉🎉❤❤😂

  • @la_petite_carotte
    @la_petite_carotte Před 5 měsíci +3

    Wow! This video is so useful! It was mind-blowing when you explained that "value/worth" was subjective as it helped me understand some patterns of my behaviour. Thank you so much🩷

  • @ericaarvizzigno3768
    @ericaarvizzigno3768 Před měsícem

    🎉🎉🎉se non ci vai❤❤❤❤ perché tu sei legge😢😅🎉😂❤❤

  • @Laura-ve7wo
    @Laura-ve7wo Před 2 měsíci

    Chad is NOT god and you will never prove yourself because Chad never cared 💔

  • @jahirahere
    @jahirahere Před 5 měsíci +3

    love how you instantly come with examples to explain us easily, trust me ur examples are incredible not 'silly'. Keep going Nika 🤍✨