The Truth About Women and Combat Sports: A Masculine Paradigm
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- čas přidán 15. 03. 2023
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Women definitely need to know self defense now days and also men who don't want to get up off the couch get out go to the gym and get fit get in shape, because you cannot defend yourself self if you're not in shape at all and having spaghetti arms
مبارك عليكم الشهر الفضيل رمضان ❤
Out of all the languages he could’ve spoken, he chose to speak factssss
As a woman, I totally agree with you!
👍💯
U have no choice but to agree after what he said
Here in India there are many ad campaigns on YT targetting wman to lift heavy, do sports which men do. The ad which I am talking about has a Muslim wman who has a man like face who doesn't want to get married or listen to her parents to get married. (This is the current ad campaign of our Hindutva India)
I feel personally disgusted when I unintentionally look at their faces. It shouldn't be more obvious but wman like that don't realise what they are doing to their body specially their facial structure changes. This type of wman have been s uked so hard by the Matrix fitna that they won't get dopamine unless they try to break Islamic patriarchal system or patriarchy in general.
White knights feminist men encourage this change just for looking at them when they are working out. But Muslim men don't need our wives to look like Uga buga giga chad 🗿
I have read somewhere that wman who lift heavy have a higher chance of infertility. Please correct me if what I said is not true
May Allah سبحانه وتعالى give us all hidayat to not be competitive of each other and be appreciative what the boundaries which separate us all.
@rai atef Don’t preach.
@Original Blizzardhawk male or female
I'm a woman and I agree.
That shouldn’t be a surprising thing....at least for muslim women....
As a female I totally agree with you. Well done for saying it like it is.
_“For females, I have very good advice, be fighters at home” “And one more advice, all the time, finish your husband.”_ - Khabib Nurmagamedov
Exactly like Andrew tate said they r not designed to fight anyway. The anatomy of a woman isn't for fighting
For males, I have very good advice, treat your women with kindness, love and respect. And one more advice, all the time, finish your dutiful works (such as washing your own clothes and the plates you eat)
- from a woman:-)
@@dealruxetmatchbox4658You are not Khabib. Your just a random feminist.
@@noonwraith401Nah... I'm a responsible muslimah who is concerned about my family and the society
@@dealruxetmatchbox4658 ok but where do we get a wife from😅
As a woman I agree 😮
I'd think back to the time I was a feminist 2 years ago, but I'd still agree with what you're saying here. Women who do weightlifting, fighting (boxing, wrestling, mma), rugby and even female sprinters have such a manly body. Most other sports are fine.
Now you are a what
You think female sprinters are manly? RIP.
@@zariftahmid9854 Now I stick to Islam and Islam only
A lot of men have this complaint about women
"I am educated,have a good job,religious(pray 5 times). But no good woman is interested in me. Women have become extremely selfish even the religious ones. They want the traditional benefits with no obedience"
Quran clearly says which manly features initiate "obedience chemistry" in good strong women.
What are they?
Men who have izzah or jaah. They are very bold about pointing clumsiness or bold about addressing issues of society. Arabic word "jaah" means unrelenting desire not to feel defeated.
A man who can travel from South Asia to Mecca and uploads his travel videos to get people's attention is just an aggressive person. But he is a man with no jaah or honour. Ask him about a social issue and he will be "opinion less" or just make a unsound useless statement. Good women will strongly dislike it.
The opportunistic and selfish women may say "Hmm,this guy is a good entertainer. But he doesn't appear stable. But I think I can get some benefit if he has money. So I can show some fake affection for a temporary period"
If men want to show money and weak religiosity(just prayer,fast in Ramadhan),women will be programmed for "wrong attraction"
Wallahi i love the fact that you talk with your cards open ya akhi. May Allah keep you strong and make you heard world wide. Ameen ♥
BarakAllahu Feek for this beautiful message also!
Agreed completely 💯, I don't understand why ppl are making big fuss about this😕. It's quite obvious a masculine man on his fitrah is gonna be attracted to a shy, soft, feminine woman🤷🏻♀️ and not someone who has bigger biceps than him 💀😹💀
A lot of men have this complaint about women
"I am educated,have a good job,religious(pray 5 times). But no good woman is interested in me. Women have become extremely selfish even the religious ones. They want the traditional benefits with no obedience"
Quran clearly says which manly features initiate "obedience chemistry" in good strong women.
What are they?
Men who have izzah or jaah. They are very bold about pointing clumsiness or bold about addressing issues of society. Arabic word "jaah" means unrelenting desire not to feel defeated.
A man who can travel from South Asia to Mecca and uploads his travel videos to get people's attention is just an aggressive person. But he is a man with no jaah or honour. Ask him about a social issue and he will be "opinion less" or just make a unsound useless statement. Good women will strongly dislike it.
The opportunistic and selfish women may say "Hmm,this guy is a good entertainer. But he doesn't appear stable. But I think I can get some benefit if he has money. So I can show some fake affection for a temporary period"
If men want to show money and weak religiosity(just prayer,fast in Ramadhan),women will be programmed for "wrong attraction"
@@abusadi4742 I agree with you. Thanx for sharing!
You're right ppl can deceive with fake religiosity whether men/women and women need to work on obedience part.
Yeah, money talks in today's materialistic society! Ppl neglect deen over it Naudhubillah.
May Allah keep us all steadfast🤲🏻
May Allah swt preserve you brother Romani and give you the best of both worlds. You speak on behalf of us men. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Spot on brother 100% right good stuff💪
May Allah bless you Brother Romaani
Totally agree with this video message.
I don't think a lot of women necessarily go for these sports for looks or for competing, depends on the individual, but a lot choose to go to judo and boxing for self-defense. Their initial intention is to learn to defend themself and build physical strength, there's no focus on the physique when someone chooses any of these combat sports. It's also great if you have kids that join the classes with you, as a skill. Ballet and figure skating can only do so much, they're more focussed on flexibility and posture than strength based exercises.
You're right akhi.
Nusayba bint kaab fought next to nabi saw in battle...khawla bint azwar was taught by her brother dhirar to get fight such that in 1 battle they taught she was khalid bin waleed,dont be insecure .......If Allah didnt make something haraam let people be,if Allah wills they will find someone to marry,i know some gym girla who married and happy,and some girls who have no muscles who not...the key is to not indulge in these topics and have taqwa in Allah
I don't see any women in the frontlines now. They shouldn't be. They can be prone to rape etc. Unlike before.
A woman is prohibited to fight in a Muslim army. She is only allowed to fight when her town/home is being invaded and this must be weighed if it's beneficial. It is also not recommended for them. Also, there is free mixing which is prohibited. You missed the entire point of the video and comparing the once in a lifetime thing. 24/7 woman becoming like a man Comparing jihad (1 battle) to exposing your body. They are not the same.
Ibn Abbas said: The Prophet cursed men who copy women and women who copy men.
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6445
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
@Jihadi Conqueror
And how would you know that? Did you see her in person? ☠️
@Jihadi Conqueror Being a sheikh doesn’t automatically mean he’s right. You should always fact check a claim, no matter who it comes from.
I'm a man and I partially disagree. I think first off, women aren't really going to gain much muscle doing mostly cardio sports like kickboxing and BJJ. That is way overblown. If you look at a sport like powerlifting which is more of a muscle building sport. Alot of the women there aren't even muscular looking. I think we get this whole image because they are most likely on roids or some sort of gear. 90% of women don't obtain the "muscular look" naturally while lifting, let alone a cardio based sport. if anything, they would probably lose weight and look more feminine.
I think going to regular competitions and going into leagues is a bit different, but if they do it recreationally 2-3x a week with other women in a non-mixed environment I don't really see the problem. It keeps them healthy and active and more physically able. If she doesn't enjoy ballet, yoga and this is a way to keep fit I think it's okay. not to mention activities like these can build confidence not only for men but for women too.
It's context specific too. Like if she still did the more "feminine" things like cooking, cleaning, knitting, child-rearing or w/e, would kicking a bag 2x a week really be such a big deal? There is the self-defense aspect to it I guess. But most women aren't doing these activities with the intention of punching and kicking people in the face but to keep active and fit. I don't necessarily think fighting should be promoted but if it's just a hobby I think there are other better points to look at.
Agreed I’m a feminine wife that enjoys to do all the things fem women enjoy, I also enjoy bjj grappling and occasional boxing class (both women only of course) am I strong? Yes for a female I am, I’m a muscular and built like a man? Nowhere near! Have I tapped out my bjj husband?, 9/10 times no, but the occasional win has been very satisfying 😄great full body exercise imo
I agree I have participated in Martial Arts for 25 years now. Taught many Muslim women and they are all beautiful in their own way and non of them resemble a male in anyway. If I must say amongst the women I come across in my life the women I teach are the most feminine women I know. It is a gift from God to teach such humble sisters they truly are beautiful inside and out. All they want to do is be free out their mind for a hour and go home they don't want to be world champions just participate and stay healthy.
@@samuraihanson MashAllah r u a Muslim too
@@meeranqadir2336 Yes
Amen my brother
Assalamualaikum Brother Gabriel.😂😂 I laugh by myself when I watch this.
I agree with you.
Have a great Ramadhan okay. Salam from Kajang, Selangor.. Malaysia.
Well said
👍🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾 I totally agree.
👍👍👍💯 I agree 💯
Gabriel absolute legend
I see this a lot in matrimonial websites. It's laughable
Football, swimming, netball, volleyball, are my favourite!
U r speaking facts❤️
Agree 100%!
instead of ballet, go quite barre which is the exercise without the music. Also, yoga is Haram, billâtes is. Better. And light weights ( DONT LOFT TOO HEAVY / eat a lot of food to grow huge muscles) to build a bit of lean muscle And stronng bones because that is ESSENTIAL for women stay healthy and maintain healthy bodies and age better ❤ from a sister trying to be sincere
Yes! YOGA IS A RITUAL IN HINDUISM!!! Hindus actually make fun of the fact that people do it as a means of exercise, because it’s….not. Please, do not fall in the traps of imitating the disbelievers, O brothers and sisters! You want to move your body? Stretch and go for a walk/run.
same opinion , this is the fitra the natural inclination
I remember this muay thai female fighter Who went to Joe rogan and said she dumped the guy she was with Who also is a muay thai fighter just because he got beat up
I agree with brother here martial arts make masculine it was made for men by men
But if i had to chose between an overweight or chubby woman and a muscular one (that doesn't practice martial arts) i would pick the muscular one But not bodybuilder level or one that has a big behind (lets stay polite) just calisthenics level of physique as i practice it myself it proves to me she has Good hygene and can take care of herself
He actually won the fight, she just hated the way he looked going down when he took a hard punch. It was ridiculous.
@@Noor_al_Furqan tell me about it she must be with a serial Killer to feel safe
quick correction brother, she didn't dump him because he got beat up on the street or something, she dumped him because he got knocked out in an MMA fight, she even said that she expected him to keep on fighting while getting dropped. joe even said that that's out of his control. anyways you know what's even worse? she said that he was a good boyfriend too but she just lost respect by how he lost a single match smh, that's why you don't mess with kaffir masculine women
@@Noor_al_Furqan now that's ridiculous i was under the impression he had lost the match
@@kingpotato7183 thats even worse he lost in a match and got dumped while being a great guy smh
There is nothing Islamic in what you are saying here. People like yourself make it difficult for sisters to embrace Martial Arts I have to bring them through my gym doors because they are suppressed due to ridiculous stereotypes like this. I have participated in Martial Arts for over 25 years. I may possess masculine traits but none of them stem from Martial Arts I also do not have the body of a man. I have athletic physique as do any woman who participates in any sport. Islam promotes many aspects found in Martial Arts. There are Warrior women in Islam which are strongly forgotten in today's dynamics to influence cultural suppression amongst cultural beliefs. You are correct in saying a man does not want a masculine woman but to extract that demeanour from Martial Arts is insulting to women. There is nothing to say sisters cannot participate in Martial Arts and there are valid virtues in Martial Arts that you will not develop in other sports. If there are sisters who take inspiration from Khawla bint al-Azwar. To disarm women from Martial Arts in of itself is a sin and also sexist you have no Islamic evidence supporting your claim which would amplify that you are stating nothing but a myth. I teach sisters with no striking to the face in a all female friendly environment and I respect Islamic principles. I do enjoy some of your discussions but this one is ridiculously wrong and insulting to sisters.
The other day I saw a women commentator who was in her 20 but looked like in 50s, I then learned that she has been doing BJJ and Boxing for over 10 years. A lot of women who do BJJ have this man like facial skin, and because they don't have beards like us men, these women tend to look quite old. Holly Holmes for example.
Brother who's that in your dp?
@@lost_poet_ Imam Shamil (Şeyh Şamil). He was Muslim resistance leader in Circassian wars and further Russian invasions of Muslim lands of Dagestan, Chechnya, and Ingushetia.
also it's likely that they take steroids. if they're competing the likelyhood of women taking steroids skyrockets. it's nasty that's why they look like men
Women always attracted to masculinity and men always attracted to feminity. As a women I love masculinity for men brave men, heavy voice, nice beard, confident , control women , wide chest and wide forehead. God gave these qualities to mostly all men. Women looks beautiful
with fragile, attractive, even fat women has fragile meat on her body, , soft spoken, wavy walking style and curvy body obviously it’s natural in women. shyness , when talking moving hands and eyes together. GOD has given these qualities to nearly all women .
Alhamdulillah, you have protected your fitra and desire m'as'cu'linity and the opposite gndr.
In the modern world, people are corrupting their fitra...
@@Therebelliousprince001 well gabriel this video is not about modernity., it’s for everybody. It’s about how you build your body frame. Though men and women has already been given their natural body frame by GOD. He is telling that women should join exercises which can boost their feminity. And men should join excesses. which can boost their masculinity. This is nothing about modernity.
I agree 💯
Machallagh brother, you look like Ragnar Luthbrok!
Totally 💯 agreed
What about dance fighting? 😂😂
On a serious note though, my older brother raised me like a tomboy, I have always been a strong Muslim female and have been able to defend myself in physical fights in my youth. In saying that, I’ve always been feminine, into nice dresses jewellery and makeup. As a mother of 3 boys now, I do Womens BJJ classes and enjoy grappling a lot, to stay fit and healthy and also to learn for self defence. Plus I enjoy it because I was brought up wrestling my brother. So yeah I don’t think it’s a problem, my husband is a very MANLY MAN, I would never be attracted to a man that was more feminine than myself. I didn’t have a dad growing up so I learned how to check my car oil, change a flat tire and even use power tools for minor jobs, I enjoy doing them but I’m not going to go volunteer to do them while my husband is around 😅 I say do what you like with limits, women should know to be women and feminine and men should know to be men and masculine, but just because he occasionally wants to vacuum the house or crack a few eggs isn’t going to make him a pansy. Just mo.
You sound really cool lol. Now that you're older you can wrestle with your husband. 😅
@@Therebelliousprince001 lol he also does bjj and we often roll in the living room then our boys jump in to protect me🥰🥰
Yea sister, thing is, brother Gabriel wasnt talking about exceptions. I find it beautiful that you were brought up as a strong woman, yet you kept you feminine side for your beloved husband.
Brother gabriel was talking about those woman who you already described (men who looks more feminine than you, just vice versa).
I saw the other day one episode of the Mandalorian.. there is this one woman.. Astaghfirullah... short hair, wider shoulders than most men, so much training that i had to think for a few seconds whether it was a man or a woman.
Anyways, may Allah keep you, your husband and your children upon the Haqq and make you people of the paradise. Ameen.
@@Soldiers-of-Allah Ameen yeah I agree, seeing overly muscular women is very unattractive, yani even as a woman it’s not something I see and envy and think I’d want to aspire to be like that. But yeah I don’t think doing martial arts makes you manly, going out and trying to fight everyone and acting like a bloke makes you manly.
Women want man who are masculine then them, even u said that. Even if a fraction of women starts acting like that then they will never find a good partner, some exceptions like u are always there.
Agreed 👍
Yeah bro absolutely right
Mashallah Barakallah keep up with this good work 🤲🤲☪🕋🕌🕌
Wallahi this I was thinking for months.
As a man, I agree 💯
Misconception 1: building strength differs gender wise / women supposed to be very weak and unfit
Misconception 2: strength changes one's gender attributes / muscles mean less feminine
Misconception 3: men don't like healthy women in contrast with weaker ones.
1: strength means strength. Men women both need strength at their level for their day to day life. Both need to have strength to do more Ibadah. A weak Muslim is not better than a strong Muslim. Men women both should strive for strength but not necessarily get into competition with others.
2: skeletal muscles for genders are quite the same. So, to develop some strength, the act should be the same. Maybe the volume will be different. So, if a woman is healthy, she should have some muscle. Muscle is just an indication of one's fitness. In Islam, there are no made up fantasies like, "more muscle means more masculine." These're just made up fantasies by the westerns. Both genders should have focus on having the highest Iman. They don't have to be obsessed over their body and looks.
3: attractiveness and fertility, generally depends on having a good body structure and active life. No one likes a lazy, lethargic person. And a healthy fit woman in no way will resemble a man.
You're lost...
You have no clue about biology, time to be enlightened...
Men have far higher upper body muscle mass, higher systolic blood pressure, our bones have higher density, male pelvic bone structure is more narrow (enabling faster and more efficient running), men have faster reflexes biologically... I can go on and on...
Men are physically far more endowed than women. They are quite different.
Also... You have comprehension issues... You claimed Gabriel had misconceptions such as "men don't like healthy women..." and "women are supposed to be very weak and unfit."
Gabriel in this very video recommends women to take on physical activities which promote health and feminine grace such as figure skating, pilates, and other examples.
Turn on your brain.
Because it's turned off...
Honestly.
Also, yes. High amounts of muscle mass looks masculine. If your woman has 18 inch biceps, she will look very masculine. Are you mentally checked in?...
The Qur'an and Sunnah has informed us how men differ from women, and authentic hadiths even curse women who attempt to imitate men.
This modern illness of liberalism and feminism claims everything that men do should and must be open to women. Otherwise, injustice is occuring.
Educate yourself on what masculine fitrah and feminine fitrah is, because you are truly lost...
Are you even Muslim? (Because that would explain alot to me)
Being a fit, healthy woman isn’t equal to being a masculine woman. Flexing your biceps and having a 6-pack isn’t feminine.
@@noelmalik5018 yes
@@noelmalik5018 masculine is the term used by the western. Iman is the measure for being a man or a woman. None should pursue biceps or 6 packs let alone flex it to other than husband or wife. I was just trying to say that, both should take care of their health as an amanah given from Allah. None should become obsessed with it!
Two points, Western Dogma, Medical Illiteracy.
Your right
100% agreed
What about weight lifting, strength training exercises. Will that make them look masculine as well ?
Brother, you look like Ragnar from Vikings
😄❤
I agree with everything you said brother but ballet is just movements? I think we should expand more on that situation. If it includes music, wearing very tight clothes (that could cause fitnah (even if it's only around women)), not to mention how ballerinas destroy the feet. Ballet open gateways to a lot of fitn. Evil eye..etc. Swimming, volleyball, tennis, badminton, figure skating, horse riding is In'ShaaAllah good. acrobatics/gymnastics/cycling also making sure there ISN'T ANY door for fitn open
"I want a masculine woman" said no man ever.
Sorry brother I do not think you have thought this one through. It does sound very much like a red pill argument, rather from Islam. There are only two sports Which are think are overtly masculine and could leave to physical masculine traits . But other than this all others pose no problems . The real problem sisters have is accessing health and sports facilities fully segregated in the west. Apart from the major uk cities we have no facilities . Working out at home isn’t always an option , this would take another video to discuss .
Anyway brother martial arts is essential for women especially living in western countries . It’s not safe. Many sisters go to school, Uni work alone. And mothers run so many chores outside alone. My girls and son have done so for many years no one has ever said “hey what are you feeding your girls they’re looking masculine”.
Boxing and lifting heavy weights ie power lifting those I agree can make women appear masculine. Any sport where women start developing huge muscles will obviously make the women look more masculine.
But those sports which encourage an athletic build won’t pose a problem . Woman or man you look fit and strong and retain your gender specific features
But martial arts are good for both genders I don’t think it takes away femininity at all. Nor does it exaggerate mens muscles .
As for women following sports created by women ballet wasnt designed by women , it was a man. And ballet is vary unnatural who wants deformed toes and walking around in that immodest attire looking like an emu toy for a man to gaze upon ?
Sisters can’t do swimming usually because there are no private facilities for them to use in the west.
Ice skating I’d say is problematic due to the environment. It’s mixed and there’s always music on. And if sisters want to do this professionally well it’s a no no, the uniform is totally immodest
Regardless of the sport Muslim sisters partake in they will look always slightly masculine why? Well they have to wear loose attire: hoodies , long loose over sized T-shirts with wide track pants . These just look more masculine than the immodest leggings . But that’s not a problem if we fulfil the modesty rule that is more important than vanity issues . After we finish the sport we are back in our more feminine attire . So our femininity doesn’t actually disappear with the sport .It’s reflected in our daily attire, the way we carry ourselves and what we believe
Allahumma barik! say it like it is akhi!
I understand all that however muscles are one of the biggest factors against body aging.
And lifting weights maintains bone density which women greatly need.
The thing is just that we don’t have to lift ultra heavy weights. Can do more reps with lighter weights which just builds general muscle tone to look fit but not muscular thick. Also body weight exercises are fine for women. That’s basically what yoga uses.
Tell you wife to become Mr Olympia then
@@Marwadear512 yoga isn't permissible. They do worship of the sun. Let's stick to basic stretching.
@@etherealrosegold Well I don’t worship the sun. I kind of assumed that would be obvious. 🤦🏼♀️
@@Marwadear512 That's dangerous for the average wmn
This is quite a silly thing to argue imo. Weight lifting, martial arts etc., don’t have a net negative if women engage in them. Becoming masculine? That’s stupid. Unless they become professionals at it, perhaps you can argue that. As a hobby or a way to get into shape - it’s perfectly fine. There’s so much scientific data that says strength training is so important to losing weight and good health. There’s also data to suggest weight lifting helps with cognitive health.
Why then are you going to stop women from doing something good for them simply because “men invented it”
Secondly, please for the love of god stop purporting that it will give women a manly figure. We do not produce enough testosterone to gain a manly figure naturally. Me doing weights will only make me leaner. I’m not going to be able to develop massive biceps lol.
These men fear women that's why they are always attacking women, instead of talking about why are so many men now transitioning to women, they are doing surgery to have women parts, sisters do not listen to these types of men maybe they worrying that women can self defend against the abuse of husbands.
@Gabriel Al Romani Some women are doing BJJ and other sports combats because they like it, not to impress men or compete with them. If a woman wants to do these sports, she should definitly know that it will develop testosterone (any competition level sports even figure skating will develop testosterone)muscle mass etc..But telling her "men don't like it" is true, but so irrelevant, I mean she likes what she likes .If Allah has decreed that she will get married, she will find one (thats all she needs, ONE man) who likes her true self .Lets not discourage our sisters and daughters to be themselves as long as Allah allows it . All our hobbies don't have to be tailored to whatever would please men, otherwise it is like falling in the same trap as feminists (which is living for the validation of men)while trying to do the opposite . We can be ourselves, and we are all different ,I am speaking as a very traditional woman who does not even own a pant or do any of the sport combat.
Also the other point is we have an epidemic of women who learn this sports to protect themselves.
I mean look around the state of our men and our society?! A woman was raped in the train in front of everyone few months ago and no one helped her (you can find the video on youtube.)!@Gabriel Al Romani if you made it your mission to help men be real men , it is because you know it has gotten so bad. When women in a society decide that they will take their protection in their own weaker hands , then it all boils down to one question , What happened to the men ?
Well said.
Feminism happened which turned men hostile against women and prevalence of mgtow and red pill. Just as the one tribe intended to reduce the population of west.
@@MilahanPhilosophersCornerc'mon even you really? It's not just about men it's about men returning to their masculine nature as well as woman returning to their feminine one, do you really think that a woman who does combat sports would find a man attractive and would not look down upon him and not prefer him as a partner same way men don't like women who tries to be like men or imitate them in any shape or form
Plus self defence is ESSENTIAL
So she doesnt care if she wants to marry - I mean I will try to look strong for my wife , to look good, to work hard, so she can appreciate me , but she wont do what I like, she can stay unmarried then if she only thinks of herself
ladies if you want to compete. Compete in being the best housewifes
No thanks. I would rather compete in my deen, akhlaq and knowledge. Don’t think all we wanna do is housework. Some of us are doctors, professors, businesswomen etc. our aim is to be good muslimahs, mothers and wives, not best housewives 🙄
Please tell me what do you think about soccer, I practice with my sons😅
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, brother Gabriel may not even read this comment and may not even make any difference to him, however, although I agree that some women exercise to the point of loosing their feminity, sometimes the strenght has helped others to defend themselves from danger. Recently there was a video of a lady in a gym who fought against a man who wanted to rape her, she had strength has she lifts weights and so she actually gave him a good kick...most of the women nowadays do not have a strong man backing them up, wheather is the brother, or the husband, or the fathers, most men have run away from their obligations so women have had to learn to defend themselves. I am not a feminist or anything closer to it whatsoever, Alhamdulillaah ..some say women want to be like men and this is the reason why everything in society, but this is not the majority of women who have been forced to become somewhat a male version of herself, be it because of violence in the home or outside in society, specially in those were sexual abuse is common. So, not all women have the blessing to have a wealthy, strong husband, who knows his duty, and sit at home to be femenine and work on their femenine body... and those sitting at home , if anything, become lethargic , obese etc... so , where do we draw the line of balance and stop blaming others and as individuals take responsibility for all that we take to extremes. I do believe that our young boys and daughters are bound to face a lot of struggle will all that is there to come, I wish for my sisters to be strong, to be healthy and not victims, how it comes , today we still have to allow other women rip a hijab from a sister's head in the middle of the street and she is scared to the point of leaving hijab altogether, why? We cannot defend ourselves so we are the little sheep in the street and people just do what they want to us ??? May Allah guide us, strghten us and grant us the sincerity in His worship and not allow our hearts to become attached to the deception of this lowly dunya. May Allah forgive us all and keep us all steadfast. Ameen
That is why male chaperone is a concept in Islam. Your paranoia is misplaced.
What was the woman whom some man tried to rape doing in a gym where there are men? Go to a woman-only gym or exercise at home.
Wa aleyko masalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatoho sister.
I understand your point, but in reality, how many women are there in the situation you describe?
I have not seen any statistics on this but I would suggest that there are very few women who do not have a husband/father/brother/uncle to protect her.
If she travels alone or goes out late at night or walks down the wrong streets, it is good that she can defend herself. Allahumma barik! But should women even put themselves in these situations (I AM TALKING IN GENERAL AND NOT ABOUT INDIVIDUAL CASES AND SITUATIONS!)?
Ameen to your dua.
Your long description exposes the backwards nature of your argument.
The woman was at a mixed gym? Why?
(Point 1, no matter how you feel about it, free-mixing is not allowed in the shari'ah, and you see the wisdom so clearly in your example.
The fact that women are usually attacked in free-mixed settings (without guardians) is not surprising.
Is anyone's brain turned on here?)
Point 2, you claim women don't always have wali's (guardians) to protect them.
This why women get married, to have a protector in their lives.
Is it the fault of society or your own fault for not getting married and keeping to shari'ah (no free-mixing), and travelling with a guardian?
If you claim the woman cannot get married, then I would reject this proposition in 99.9999% of cases.
(A tremendously small portion of women have mental or physical illnesses completely debilitating them from marriage)
So, the answer for women is to get a guardian in their lives, and become married.
Not to become like men in order to protect themselves...
Plus... Someone has to tell you the truth, because you've been sold delusions...
There are videos of a single man physically assaulting a group of women with ease.
Women are no competition for men, physically.
Do you understand that fact or do you still think you can take on a man on if you "gO tO tHe gYm?"
It won't help.
All a man has to do is pull out a blade or weapon, and you're in his van before you know it.
You're being sold a hollywood fable.
The only protection:
Avoid free-mixing
Become married and travel with a male guardian
Or do you want to find out how weak you are physically against a man by asking a male relative to wrestle you?
You'll be humbled, and finally understand the wisdom behind the protection of the shari'ah.
Women are victims without men, period.
Wrestle one of your male relatives and see what "gOiNg To ThE gYm" will do for a woman.
Put the false delusion you've sold yourself to the test. See the reality.
My sister was number 6 women's junior in tennis (Canada) , and even she knew with all her fitness... She's no match physically for a man.
Women. Stop falling for hollywood.
Go and see reality.
Wrestle a male relative, and see for yourself.
Get married and stop with this nonsense of Western life of single women.
May Allah guide you!
What you see as a solution is in reality bound to fail.
Seek for the solution in the Quran and the Sunnah.
And in this case it is that wmn cover up, go out with a mahrem mle and do not free mix.
You say you aren't a f'em'i'n'ist but it seems you have been affected by the movement.
We here (me & my daughters) prefer Archery & swimming 😊
U are absolutely right, I see women building their bodies like men, they have so much muscle its just not feminine and it doesn't make them attractive.
Are those wmn even straight? Perhaps their building their muscles to attract other wmn. 🤢
Absolutely rite brother. Masculine women and an eliminate men gives gay vibes
I believe women should learn these kinds of sport for self defence, especially with the islamophobia around us we should be able to defend ourselves and our kids if our men are not present at the moment
Ma shaa Allah you look better wirh short hair
What about volleyball?
I played sports my whole life. I didn’t realize it until I got married😂 but I still think it’s important to be physically active. Ladies, find something feminine like the brother said.
The earlier Gracies didn't want women to do BJJ.
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وعليكم السلام ورحمه الله وبركاته
Archery
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Let them be triggered. 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
Gotta tell it like it is. Truth is the truth.
Yes and no, don't put women off strength training, cos having muscle in your body, is essential to prevent insuli' resistant as we get older as men and women. Otherwise you end up with a middle age spread!
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There are other things that you should focus on rather then women and men alpha men, mufti menk and how should women behave this and that
a girl with muscular biceps is already turn me off
Why because you have 0 biceps ?
@@fisabilillah8481 was this question for fisabilillah?
@@pjq420 I guess so, since you’re posting your opinion on a public platform.
@@fisabilillah8481 you guess?so purposely seeking for a quarrel with others is considered to fall in the fisabilillah category?you made your own fatwas ?
@@pjq420 you’re right I should’ve had a random username like pjg670 before I went commenting on random opinions. If you’re triggered, then next time, don’t comment. Simple
Let's do pilates my sisters ;)
I know of a female hijabi boxer who literally walks and talks like men, the only way to distinguish her from men is her 3 kilos of make up lol
Peace and mercy of God🕋🤲
I am from Palestine, I have orphaned children, and my husband passed away several years ago, and there is no one to stand with us. I have a child who wants eye treatment and I have no one to help us
Even most of the time, there is no food for the children, and I live in a rented house
I have no money for treatment, food, or house rent, which is very difficult
O my brothers, do not forget me
By God, I am not a deceiver, nor a liar, and I speak the truth
And I have all the medical appreciation that caused it
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يارب العالمين.
Romanian Rafael fiziev
Let people just do what they want to do. You're not getting all muscular from doing judo once or twice a week. And some strong women are still quite popular with men, like Ronda Rousley
BJJ doesn't make you into a man. 😅 Responsibilities turn you into a man
Yeah muscle and six pack is not attractive on a woman. A woman should have a soft body, that’s what men want!
Is it necessary for women to do these thing?I mean can they skip these feminine sports or exercise also?
Not yoga
😂😂😂 No lies were detected 🤲🏾🌙
Hojabis don’t care. The more you call them out the more they will rebel
Nailed it brother 💯
Wrong, he is preventing something which CAN happen. Trust me.. somewhere out there.. there is this one girl watching it and she is saying now "You know what.. maybe he is right... imma give his idea a chance" so do not judge right away. Especially with your Name "Alpha Male" You should know best that this is how real man always has been. The defenders of the woman.
@@Soldiers-of-Allah defenders of real women not attention seekers who shame and guilt men
@@AlphaMaleLifestyleAML you are a waste of time. 🤡
They compromise their entire hijab and more just to do these things. They are not worth entertaining the idea of marriage to
belly dance also is good for feminine walking
Not just combat sports but all the mains sports were developed by men that women play & they become like men sports like football & cricket & women who take part become unattractive & masculine
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If these women were smart, they’d marry a martial artist and learn some BJJ from him. Way more effective and acceptable.
yoga has shirk practice
😂He probably saw some muscular lady walking around in the airport
Lol ... But to some extent I agree with him.. too much muscular male type body will not look good on women... Yes woman should also learn some self defence...
@@muskaan1987 no that means you agree with him all the way. He mentions that in the end
@@muskaan1987 I agree with him only because it's haram for women to imitate men in Islam...but if that weren't the case I would have wanted muscles too.
@@thegirl30 Why though? Do you want a fe'm'inin'e husband?
@@Therebelliousprince001 If I had to gain that kind of muscle I wouldn't be interested in a husband. It's only for my religion that I want a husband.
A muscled up woman is kind of deceptive. In this day and age you can't tell if it's a transgender or just a woman who is obsessed with weights and dumbbells
Sorry brother but sounds like you haven’t seen female swimmers. As a woman who used to swim professionally I can tell you swimming will flatten you out completely, back and front 😂 but I guess it’s fine if you do it occasionally, but then so is mma
Lol so true
this is why i dont watch womens boxing and mma, its so uncomfortable to look at.
most women don't have muscles though.
I'm just watch title
Woman's with muscle's .those are woman from me 🥴
SubhanAllaah he is talking reality and most people are losing reality. May Allaah protect us and give us a good end. In this time when you mention the reality of something you are wrong. Like you are saying this is a book and the people say no it is a door. In Holland in the past when you have homo feelings you could appeal for a course to stop these feelings. In this time it is the opposite the person who says its wrong is sick and the homo person is healthy... Its a joke
Why do people feel the need to tell the world unsolicitedly what type of people they aren't attracted to? OK, you and your friends don't like women who do sports. Then just don't date them? There are plenty of men out there who do find them attractive lol. I never understand these videos of why people are worried about what people they aren't dating/married to are doing with their bodies. Worry about your own lol
I teach female only Martial Arts and predominantly attract Muslim women. The stories that I hear based on cultural beliefs are ridiculous the way they have to sneak around and the lack of confidence they have due to stereotypical statements like this is so heartbreaking. I have young girls cutting themselves because they want to train with me but their parents believe it is for men. All because men like this have a stronger rank in their culture and have a bigger impact. Give sisters the voice that they deserve and stop giving Islam a bad name. I am glad you made your comment because I thought exactly the same.
Why do you feel the need to “modernize”what is perfect? Would the first generations of Muslims and the Prophet Muhammad (may peace be upon him) agree with your approach?
@@dynodie4132 What’s modernist about this?
@@malaakghanem7901 The glorification of masculinization of women, and the attempt to downplay shyness and humility as beautiful feminine traits. We look at what is the Ideal man from the Prophet Muhammad's (may peace and blessings be upon him) example. And we look at the example for the Ideal woman, from among the best of women (such as that of Khadijah, may Allah be pleased with her). W shouldn't glorify contradictory models of idealism, if they openly go against the examples of the best of humanity. Nothing wrong with women doing sports, however if it destroys her femininity (such how some male-centered sports cause increasing sterility in women), then this should be discouraged.
Assalamualaikum any sisters from UK looking for marriage
Women stick to knitting lol