To Cook or Not to Cook for Your Husband?
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- čas přidán 5. 10. 2021
- Are wives responsible for housework?
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The Prophet (ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wasallam) said:
“Each of you is responsible and will be asked about his responsibility…The man is responsible for [maintaining] his household and the woman is responsible for [the upkeep of] the house and children of her husband.” (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī, 5200)
Imām al-Khaṭṭābī explains:
“As for a man’s responsibility over his family, it [means] supervising them, managing their affair and fulfilling their right of maintenance and [good] companionship. As for the woman’s responsibility over the house of her husband, it [means] good management in the upkeep of his house and minding those under her care like [his] dependents, guests and servants.” (A‘lām al-Ḥadīth, 1:580)[1]
It is reported that the Prophet (ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wasallam) determined that Fāṭimah (raḍiyallāhu ‘anhā), his daughter, is responsible for the work inside the house, while Alī (raḍiyallāhu ‘anhu), her husband, is responsible for the work outside the house. (Muṣannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah, 29677)[2]
‘Ᾱbid al-Sindī explains that work “outside the house” refers to things like “collecting firewood and water, and acquiring maintenance”, while work “inside the house” refers to activities like “grinding, baking and kneading”. (Ṭawāli‘ al-Anwār, 6:410)[3]
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The best kids I know are the ones who had the best mothers who actually took time and invested time, love and effort into their children
I really love to cook for my husband Alhamdullilah. Sometimes he cook and we cook also together.
Cooking is one of the many ways a wife can express her appreciation and love for her husband.
I don't even find men that can cook attractive lol I prefer him to think it's rocket science 😅 he can stay admiring my skills rather than dare to match my cooking ....
Am totally old school when it comes to marriage I'll always cook for my husband that's parts of my duty as his wife even though am so westernised, cooking for him will always be my pleasure.
I live with my sisters, we are not married. But I am the one working as the oldest sister. My sisters take care of my food, as I work as a midwife in a hospital, I do irregular shifts. Now if my sister said i cannot make you food, I would realluy be hurt, because I go out and make money to keep our house and bring food to the table. People need to focus what is important and let go of the useless stuff.
I used to be a chef. I would love a husband to cook for.
TODAYS LESSON : WHAT YOU WOULD DO FOR YOURSELF YOU SHOULD DO FOR YOUR SPOUSE.
If the sister has a mobile phone Facebook and whatnot how in the world do you expect her to clean the dishes and take care of the house. You need a women who loves you more than her mobile phone.
Salam alaykum brother, cooking is so important, to keep a household happy.and stonge and it's convenient for the woman to cook as she is at home most of the time. some men do like to help some of the time. but it shouldn't be left to there husbands unless he wants too. my x husband loved to cook Italians it's part of their culture. so I had the best of both worlds, and he didn't make me go out and work Alamdulillah. my marriage broke down, because he didn't want to practice the deen. although he did become Muslim. it's a shame! life goes on. Alhamdulillah
My heart will not allow me to say to my husband, (who's out there working hard to provide for us,).. Cook yourself or serve yourself...
Cooking is fun, today many people just wanna take and not give anyways
I would love to cook for my future husband
Traditional homes where there is a traditional mother and father doing their jobs properly, will have stability for the children.
my questin and concern would be not are you obliged to cook , but rather if I have a husband that demands not food to fill his stomach but pick and choose on menus that sometimes take so much time and effort and you have to take care of the kid . Those cases, am I obliged to cook for what he asks for ,because let's not forget a man's shift ends when he gets home,whereas a woman it starts at the time before the husband wakes up to after the husband goes to sleep . It should be taken in to the consideration that it's tiring for her to , so I can cook you what you want but somedays you wont get to choose what meal I'm going to cook , just like I wouldn't be obliging you to buy me something when I know you are tight on budget nor am i going to tel you get a job in this company and not in that company cuz it's presentable in front of ppl or something .
it’s 50/50
Brother Gabriel, in the midst of all this bad words towards you, I want to give you strength to continue your good work;
Dear sisters, cook for your husband and feed him with love and care. Give him a hug when he’s back from work, join him in shower 🥺🥺
The trend in the west (at least US) is both parents now work. The traditional household paradigm where man works while woman takes care of children isn’t the norm any more. This is increasing every day as more women are getting college level education and joining the workforce. Please speak to that also.