May Allah makes marriage easier for men & women who are finding it difficult to get married, Ameen Ya Rabbi. We are living in an era of fitnaah. Marriage is the best solution to avoid adultery, fornication, lust, addiction to porn & etc. May Allah protect us all, In'sha'Allah Love & prayers from Europe❤
Why is Marriage solution to Lust Marriage is still lust Sex is always lust and have you no will to not watch Porn no 1 forces you rght. There r so many other things in World why people who believe in Allah think they have to Marry and fuck etc Your born alone it's a Choice if really love Allah you take Allah love and opposite you no need Men Wife bcs you have Allah
@@maryammary3494 I am extremely sorry actually you are right ..,this is not the way to ask someone for marriage..!😔 For sure I am going to die single in this world no problem insha'Allah will marry someone in jannah...!
Ma sha Allah.... alhamdulillah we have people around us like Mufti to understand life and situations in a better way . He is one of best guide..... jazak allahu Khairan for your every video.
Masha Allah Barakallahu Fik Sheikh. Well said. We loved you for the sake of Allah. May Allah rewards you immensely and your family Ameen. Beautiful reminding us all. Jazakallahu Khayran for sharing your knowledge.
May Allah guide everyone of us in spreading peace and being good to one another. The purpose of marriage in Islam is so you can find peace in one another and create a family so that our ummah grows. We should all apply the guidance of the Quran and follow the sunnah if we are to find peace in our homes.
Aameen waiyyak .. May allah make it easy for all of us , bless everyone who is looking to get married with a good, righteous n understanding spouse n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen
Don't be depressed brother, it is from shaitan. I'm 30 and I've came situation, but I trust Allah's plan, and if He wants to test me harder, I'm willing to take it for the afterlife
@sigmagrindset8627 are you asking me? Some of it I like very much. Wearing the beard, no tattoos. Praying 5 times a day, no unnatural behaviors in the marriage. Even doctors say that’s best. (Even if the evil therapists say everything is good)
Wait if he has anger issues, and doesn‘t show compassion and love to his own wive, he is SINFUL and has to improve otherwise the wive will be unhappy and that won’t do him any good
@@yeager9731 but you do now that we cannot interfere and tell people to forgive sb else. The only one to decide this is the wife and that’s it. Allah gave everyone the right to forgive or not.
Yes!! I was shocked when I heard the sheikh basically told women to endure husbands that have anger issues!. Isn't the Quran says that men should treat their wives with kindness and respect, and that they should be patient with them?. I wonder if this sheikh will advise a husband to endure a wife that has anger issues 🤔.
Sometimes people can’t show their emotions, like at all. Thats The moment they need someone who helps them show and control their emotions. It’s a two hand way. Marriage only works if the two go hand in hand.
@@The-Monotheist Women want a man they can be safe wit and be safe from. I know I am a worthy wife willing to submit and serve my husband. When a man marries a woman he gives up his money, when a woman marries she gives up her identity, her autonomy, and the future of not only herself but also her children. Good men need character. Money can't buy character. There are 2 tragedies in marriage 1) a godly woman falling victim to an an ungodly man 2) a godly man falling victim to an ungodly woman I am secure in my faith and willingness to have a good marriage. I know what I'm willing to give...everything. but not to just anyone. The fact that you instantly created a straw man where I am full of anger based on wanting to be cared for...what does that say about you?
@@ongpong7726 Then that man needs to pray he is prepared to be worthy of a good woman. "Be broken over and over while he matures" is not an acceptable life. I don't want to gamble on if he even wants to mature when I'm married for life. If he is an angry abuser and abuses for ten years then one day he is better then now she is broken from ten years of abuse. Also the kids are broken. This philosophy is dangerous for generations
@@The-Monotheistbut there is a difference in being a little bad and literally being an abuser, I would rather stay single then stay in an abusive marriage
@@The-Monotheist I don't have to prove myself to you. You don't have to prove yourself to me. But I know what I'm worth. I will not settle for a man who is not worthy of my love because when I find him he will get the best of all of me. I don't believe in divorce. I am not willing to gamble all of me for the rest of my life for someone who might mature. For someone who might not abuse, or someone who might have the character to have honor when things get tough. I trust our creator to show me the truth. I have continually prayed for Him to prepare me to be the wife He wants me to be and I know there is a man out there praying to be the husband he's called to be.
Not everyone gets that choice though especially if there is alot of discrimination and discrimination from parents and sometimes you may not be ready to get married if you have had a eg major operation which sets you back 3 or 4 years it's not cause you don't want to get married but if you can't find the right people then. I got married when I was 27, but cause of my race I would not beable to marry who I want
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatUllah wabarakatuhu Alhamdulillah Good advice Jazak Allah khairan kaseer Ya Allah please bless every Muslim believer to obey Your Commands and teachings of Rasul Ullah Sallalahu Alaihi Wassallam ameen. (Please myself not a religious scholar, but isn't it wrong to have pictures of making or decorating of animal kingdom means humans and animals?) Assalamu Alaikum warahmatUllah wabarakatuhu
Subhanallah an amazing video.. Im actually looking to get married n it has been very hard to find a good man who accepts a niqabi.. Pls include me in ur duas .. May Allah bless me with an amazing, understanding husband who loves Allah n his rasool , has a good character n treats me nicely n also will take me to jannah.. may he also help me be a good understanding wife who compromises n does everything for the sake of allah n a person who brings him peace at home n someone who will help him go to jannah.. May he bless everyone who is looking to get married with a righteous n understanding spouses who will be the coolness of thier eyes n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen ... May allah make all our tests n trials easy for all of us , make us steadfast in our deen ,guide us to the right path n always keep us connected to the quran at all times n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas , grant us jannah n safeguard us from the hell fire aameen aameen aameen
@@sheriffmanneh4989 Jazakallah khair.. May allah bless u with his unlimited rahmath n make whatever test or trial u are going through easy for you , forgive all your sins, accept all your duas n grant u jannah aameen aameen aameen ..
@@azkahajadeen Keep wearing niqab. That's the legit full hijab. May Allah Keep you on the straight path. There are many men who accept and want niqabi women. Men who have ghayrah and respect niqabi women. Wish i was rich so i can marry a righteous and niqabi woman. Anyway, Alhamdulillah.
@@Sabersafe Jazakallah khair for ur kind words ...May allah make it easy for u , bless u with his unlimited rahmah n may he bless with a good righteous understanding spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes n will take you to jannah aameen aameen aameen
😂At the people upset at the laughter, we have to understand it’s the island culture. I grew up around Samoans and Tongans and they laugh very loudly, at the smallest things.
Teacher assim has enough experience to talk about those topics and he knows what he's talking about. I hope sisters can see the wisdom in his words. Overlook the emotions of frustration or the feel of discrimination because what he told about demand and supply and also the situation after dovorce is common. If sisters would not aim so high with educational goals they would not exaggerate their standards. Arrogance and pride can destroy your heart
Same I’m from Pakistan, I have given up on marriage to men now. InshaAllah a single chaste life till I get one in jannah cause Pakistani men and their mommies are too toxic and secular sometimes
@@labs9618 I’m arab, Pakistani women are the same. Even if they appear religious they end up not knowing anything about it and want you to marry their family. Nothing Islamic about marrying Pakistanis. It’s like marrying a hindu
@@labs9618 don't give up on marriage. Change your environment or your settings. Rasool (s.a.w) says those who choose to remain celibate are not of us. Have you really exhausted every guy in your country? I'd say that's impossible
It’s not a woman’s job to make her husband happy, it is to obey him. As for obedience to parents the woman is only responsible of obeying her parents fully until she gets married. After she marries she must keep them good company and obey them if she’s able to under her husband. For example a married woman doesn’t have to obey her parents if they tell her to move back home and leave her husband. Or if her parents tell her to give them some of her husband’s money. But a man must obey his parents even if he’s married.
nowadys everyone wants to get married reir girlfriends. noble woman dont make boyfriend, they are not involved in any illegal relations and love thats why they are still single.its a bitter truth
The pious men are for the pious women. Better to not marry then endure a life with someone who is far below your level. Compatibility is key. Kafaa I believe it's called
Sheikh plz reply for me. One day I met a man in my relatives home. I like him. I can't forget him. His looks at me feels like he likes me.... But recently his parents has decided to marry him with his cousin after 5 years. Bcz he is not in marriage age.he is only 23 yrs. He is now in another country. What can I do ? U can't forget him. Sometimes I feels may be he loves me...he may be thinking about me.
Go with your parents/wali to his parents and see if he is interested, or have your wali/parents talk to him and see if he is interested in marriage at this time. If he is either not interested in marriage or his family is unwilling to marry him to someone else other than his cousin, move on. yes, move on. walk away from it and move on. There is no use putting yourself into fitna, volunteering yourself for a trial of heartache and heartbreak over a man who is either not ready for marriage or a family dynamic which may break a marriage. there are plenty of good men in the sea, so to speak. And your husband is written for you no matter how many glances you sneak or not. And until you do the above things, stop thinking about him or writing about him. This is a non-mahrem strange man you are dreaming about. The first glance was not a sin but if any other glance follow, know that the consequences are on you for those actions. So lower your gaze during this process. This could be very well someone else’s husband. Another man could very well be written for you as your husband. So stay modest, and remember Allah has already written what will and will be, and nothing good will ever come from haram. (I hope you don’t find this blunt or harsh, this is a message to myself also). May Allah grant us spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and keep us on the firm path. None lose hope in Allah’s plan except the disobedient people.
Some parents don’t want their daughters to get married so they can forever take care of them. My father said even if you are under the bed, your proposal will come.
Jakie single wszak moim mezem jest moj umysl a serce duchowe jest zona i tworza jedno cialo a nie dwa odrebne ciala,kazda istota ludzka ma umysl i serce i cialo umysl symbolizuje meza a serce symbolizuje zone a cialo to ich wspolny dom o ktory razem sie troszcza jaknajlepiej potrafia ,..a teraz jesli takie umysl serce i cialo chca zawierac zwazek z odrebnym cialem to pamietaj ze takie odreebne cialo nie moze byc przy tobie zawsze i wszedzie a umysl i serce i cialo w ktorym mieszkaja sa ze soba wszedzie razem ,..gdyby moje cialo lezalo pod gruzami to kto przy mnie bedzie obecny Umysl Serce Dusza i Duch i Cialo ktorym jestes jako zlozony mechanizm zatem kto z was czuje sie Solista czy rzekomym Single ??,wyslij do wszystich systemow odczuwania i myslenia i algortymow pogotowie duchowe bo ono naprawde istnieje,..bywaja takie chwile kiedy ktorys algortym i system czuje sie prawie jak puste naczynie ale nie jest calkowicie puste a Milosc jest wszechobecna nawet tam gdzie Logos jeszcze nie ma mocy odzialywania bo nie wszystkie sytemy odczuwania i myslenia rozumieja dzwieki werbalne jak slowa i wydaje sie to byc jakby niewyrazalne slowem ale tylko chwilowo choc taka chwila wydaje sie byc jakby bezczasowa,..jeszcze prosily te glosy w mojej glowie zeby odczytac wam Sure 2 ayat 29
Many people are misunderstanding me, I am not blaming the Shaykh here or catching the Shaykh's mistakes. I am just showing the foolishness of the organizers of this program to Shaykh.
@estiakahmed2033 organizer stupidity? That's just to indicate the place, because not every place is in the mosque, there are some events that are held at hotel
@estiakahmed2033 because this is an official invitation, of course the banner.... No need to worry about trivial things, especially if it's not your country, it's better to respect each other
You are absolutely right! The fact that they are displaying picture in MASJID, the house of Allah, this is very offensive, not to mentioned being ghuluw towards the Sheikh. The Nabi shalallahu alaihi wa sallam order the Muslims to destroy the pictures and flattened the graves. The Sheikh should be the first one to notice this and reject this act of ghuluw.
@@GintamaKintama-sx3zzi think the picture is displayed during questioning times and removed during the prayer to their Lord. it seems like a roll up picture!
@@sully111 There is no justification whatsoever for displaying/hanging pictures of living being in Islam. The Sheikh himself said in his lectures, that's why this video contradicting what he said in his lectures about image making.
Does Sheikh Assim saw the picture of him behind him. What’s the point of putting his picture?? This is not right, giving fatwa is something but hanging a picture on your back is a different world. How does the angels enter the masjid now? Why do you deprive them of the masjid??
Also female is not like male Go and watch Christian prince's video Now no one is coming to accept the challenge Now Quran is in 27 or more different forms Allah Not unchanged Allah has two right hands and leg 😂😂 So Allah has shape So Allah is not infinity, eternal Embryology is wrong in Quran It's proved by Embryologists So many mistakes and contradictory things Don't try to fool the world in 2023
@@factsgalaxy6228re you a christian or a muslim Allah says وَلَمْ يَكُن لَّهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ Allah has no form of anything. Human biengs have their patners but allah does not have any partner. Allah is just alone nothing or none like him. How great is he??? Not only Allah who doesn't have gender even his angels Allah mentioned in the quran that those who call angels with female names don't have anything from the knowledge except following steps of what they think of إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ لَا يُؤْمِنُونَ بِٱلْئَاخِرَةِ لَيُسَمُّونَ ٱلْمَلَىٰٓئِكَةَ تَسْمِيَةَ ٱلْأُنثَىٰ وَمَا لَهُم بِهٖ مِنْ عِلْمٍ إِن يَتَّبِعُونَ إِلَّا ٱلظَّنَّ وَإِنَّ ٱلظَّنَّ لَا يُغْنِي مِنَ ٱلْحَقِّ شَيْئًا Indeed those who don't believe for hereafter they call the angels female names And they have no knowledge of it, they don't follow except conjecture and conjecture does not avail anything from the truth
@@factsgalaxy6228Look at this Mickey Mouse rambling all over the place, your mind is so baked and toasted with all the lies you’ve been fed by Christian Princess.
It's an English saying that afrer a certain age, a man needs a nurse or a purse i.e. someone to look after him or provide for him because he's providing for his first family.
I’m 30s still unmarried. Have degree but couldn’t find good match yet not because I didn’t want to marry young. In the west it’s hard to find good man, everyone did zina
@@DemoGlory why are you commenting here? You don’t sound Muslim considering you just recommended me to get a dog… Also society looks down on you if you’re single and family pressures you till you get married. Am I supposed to die a virgin?
@@user-zm3no5xb6t as a Muslim too he’s right why? Because life is a test and even we don’t find then it’s Allahs test just like someone married young but became widowed or divorced or their kids died- people still talked and people talk for singles too- let people talk- focus on your life you work you relationship with Allah what’s the point of saddening over spouse if you get hellfire in akhirah? Make jannah your main goal and live a productive life anyway we all will get old no one will remember us and InshaAllah in jannah there will be a spouse for all
@@DemoGlory Those women aren't the role models for muslimahs women who sides with her feminine attribute is Islamic otherwise it is cursed by Allah. For a muslim marriage is important the parents of a Muslimah will be eager to find a good groom for her, they don't go for their daughters career.
@@user-zm3no5xb6t I feel sorry for you. Single life is suffering when you reach at a age where there is no hope left then it will be living hell nobody loves us as our spouses love s us even our children don't want is when we're useless. Ever body around us only want benefit from us that's why people are getting suicide. Women who are average men are happier than single rich earning women. Women who get divorced regret later and cry for their presence. Women need to get married at Young because so they can give their husband best of her self and healthy children. Your heart is so good and pure as i can sense it through your word. The man who gets your love is luckiest to have you.
@@shahid8673if I get married, I would care about his character not the money... I would rather marry the poorest man who would treat me with kindness and love than marrying the richest man who barely shows his love or care or is too controlling
Just so you know, you are not alone. Many Muslims have their own circumstances. Ask your parents to find you a spouse, if they refuse, this is depending where you live but you can try marry an orphan girl, you can kill two birds with one stone, you can get married and you're helping an orphan. But it's really difficult to get married now because the girls wants to pursue their career even an orphan girl and they don't care if a man propose to them. Back then in the time of Prophet Muhammad, marriage is easy because you don't have to wait until the girl is graduated from her school. Now, the most of the Muslims make marriage difficult.
@@GintamaKintama-sx3zz i am girl not a boy, my parents tried alot even i tried alot bt Allah knows better my parents r failed to find husband for me and know people say u r over age
@@TahseenulQuran39 I'm 32 also looking for a spouse, I'm like desperate, so how about it? I'm in Indonesia and I'm poor but if you don't mind me then maybe this is a sign from Allah... Or not?
May Allah makes marriage easier for men & women who are finding it difficult to get married, Ameen Ya Rabbi. We are living in an era of fitnaah. Marriage is the best solution to avoid adultery, fornication, lust, addiction to porn & etc. May Allah protect us all, In'sha'Allah
Love & prayers from Europe❤
Aameen aameen aameen
Ameen ya Rabbi
Amin
Why is Marriage solution to Lust Marriage is still lust Sex is always lust and have you no will to not watch Porn no 1 forces you rght. There r so many other things in World why people who believe in Allah think they have to Marry and fuck etc Your born alone it's a Choice if really love Allah you take Allah love and opposite you no need Men Wife bcs you have Allah
Ameen
I’m a single Muslimah living in Europe and I testify that marriage is very important at very early age especially in the west
How old are you now😊
@@galaxyphones8318keep it halal bro
@@maryammary3494 I just ask her for marriage did I said anything wrong to her...!!😔
@@maryammary3494 I am extremely sorry actually you are right ..,this is not the way to ask someone for marriage..!😔 For sure I am going to die single in this world no problem insha'Allah will marry someone in jannah...!
@@infinity5184 No brother...you will In sha Allah get the one at right time...Allah plans are best!!
MashAllah, a pure joy to listen to him. A such wise man.
May Allah bless Assim Alhakeem and every one of us ❤❤❤Ameen
Mash Allah! Very informative, inspiring and calming video. Thanks a lot Sheikh. May Allah bless and protect you. Love you from India
Ma sha Allah.... alhamdulillah we have people around us like Mufti to understand life and situations in a better way . He is one of best guide..... jazak allahu Khairan for your every video.
Alhamdulillah, thank you for reminding us, syeikh. May Allah make it easier for me as a woman and a wife. Barakallahu fiik.
Very well said Sheikh Jasak Allah Khairan
Masha Allah Barakallahu Fik Sheikh. Well said. We loved you for the sake of Allah. May Allah rewards you immensely and your family Ameen. Beautiful reminding us all. Jazakallahu Khayran for sharing your knowledge.
Alhumdulilah. Very beneficial explanation.
jazakallaahu khair yaa shaikh, this was a different side we saw of you than your usual Q and A self, relaxed and jokey, Allaahumma Baarik
Mash'Allah, my favourite shaikh, may Allah preserve him ameen
May Allah promote you to an air conditioner
True words, may Allah make it easy for the muslim man and muslim woman 🤲🏻
Allaahumma Aameen.
I Love you Sheikh Assim.. May Allah Bless and Protect you always and your Family..❤❤❤
I take this video as a reminder, no human is free from flaws/error 💔
May Allah guide everyone of us in spreading peace and being good to one another. The purpose of marriage in Islam is so you can find peace in one another and create a family so that our ummah grows. We should all apply the guidance of the Quran and follow the sunnah if we are to find peace in our homes.
Allahuma barik. 13 daughters
Thank you Sheikh for the perfect explaination
Beautiful speech..
may Allah bless Sheikh Assim al Hakeem
You nailed it on the head
Such wonderful knowledge.
InshAllah may allah protect us from haraam and make marriage easy for us
Aameen waiyyak .. May allah make it easy for all of us , bless everyone who is looking to get married with a good, righteous n understanding spouse n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen
jazaakallahu khoyron sheikh
Ya ALLAH
Make me and my whole family and friends true muslims
Allahumma ameen
Phd
Aameen aameen aameen
Ameen
Thank you Syeikh 😢
Allahu Akbar ❤️ may Allah bless us all with a blessed spouse, aameen
Alhamdulillah. Baarakallahu fiikum
Thankyou sir for this information
I am 29 still single, jobless, depressed. soo worried about life
Don't be depressed brother, it is from shaitan. I'm 30 and I've came situation, but I trust Allah's plan, and if He wants to test me harder, I'm willing to take it for the afterlife
Me too😢😢😢
May Allah bless me with good spouse 🥺
@@sugar_genius2421 In sha Allah sister
Ameen
Aameen 🤲
Aameen 🤲
Aameen 🤲
Ma Sha Allah
I am 51 still single , no more time i think, and the grave soon, wallahu aalam
Are you a man or a woman?
InshaAllah same I’m from Pakistan and men here and the toxic in laws are hopeless to ever get involved with
So sorry to hear that...i am almost 39 i feel the same...but who knows maybe in the future insha Allah
If we don't find someone while on earth, Allah will give us a soul mate in the hereafter inshallah
MaashaAllah tabarakallah ❤
I married my husband when I was 17 and my husband said keep going to the university. He’s Muslim; but I’m not. Very good man and a great blessing. ❤
@sigmagrindset8627 are you asking me? Some of it I like very much. Wearing the beard, no tattoos. Praying 5 times a day, no unnatural behaviors in the marriage. Even doctors say that’s best. (Even if the evil therapists say everything is good)
@sigmagrindset8627 I went with the Xtians for a short time; but I had trouble with them because I don’t accept the Trinity.
@@BQ900 May Allah Azawajal guide you to Islam sister.
If you love your husband so much that you want to be with him after life (in Jannah), you will need to become a Muslim sincerely. May Allah guide you.
@sigmagrindset8627 yes, I am studying more about how the religion works
Wait if he has anger issues, and doesn‘t show compassion and love to his own wive, he is SINFUL and has to improve otherwise the wive will be unhappy and that won’t do him any good
A person is not sinful until he acts upon it.
It's simple, if he is an abusive husband you divorce but if he jas anger issues and tries his best to control them then forgive him.
@@yeager9731 but you do now that we cannot interfere and tell people to forgive sb else. The only one to decide this is the wife and that’s it. Allah gave everyone the right to forgive or not.
Mention it bothers you and tell his parents so they can advise him
Yes!! I was shocked when I heard the sheikh basically told women to endure husbands that have anger issues!.
Isn't the Quran says that men should treat their wives with kindness and respect, and that they should be patient with them?.
I wonder if this sheikh will advise a husband to endure a wife that has anger issues 🤔.
Mashallah 😊
I would work side by side with him, but I could not be with a husband who was angry. Who had no compassion and love to me.
Sometimes people can’t show their emotions, like at all. Thats The moment they need someone who helps them show and control their emotions. It’s a two hand way. Marriage only works if the two go hand in hand.
@@The-Monotheist
Women want a man they can be safe wit and be safe from.
I know I am a worthy wife willing to submit and serve my husband. When a man marries a woman he gives up his money, when a woman marries she gives up her identity, her autonomy, and the future of not only herself but also her children.
Good men need character. Money can't buy character.
There are 2 tragedies in marriage
1) a godly woman falling victim to an an ungodly man
2) a godly man falling victim to an ungodly woman
I am secure in my faith and willingness to have a good marriage. I know what I'm willing to give...everything. but not to just anyone.
The fact that you instantly created a straw man where I am full of anger based on wanting to be cared for...what does that say about you?
@@ongpong7726
Then that man needs to pray he is prepared to be worthy of a good woman.
"Be broken over and over while he matures" is not an acceptable life.
I don't want to gamble on if he even wants to mature when I'm married for life.
If he is an angry abuser and abuses for ten years then one day he is better then now she is broken from ten years of abuse.
Also the kids are broken.
This philosophy is dangerous for generations
@@The-Monotheistbut there is a difference in being a little bad and literally being an abuser, I would rather stay single then stay in an abusive marriage
@@The-Monotheist
I don't have to prove myself to you. You don't have to prove yourself to me.
But I know what I'm worth. I will not settle for a man who is not worthy of my love because when I find him he will get the best of all of me. I don't believe in divorce. I am not willing to gamble all of me for the rest of my life for someone who might mature. For someone who might not abuse, or someone who might have the character to have honor when things get tough.
I trust our creator to show me the truth.
I have continually prayed for Him to prepare me to be the wife He wants me to be and I know there is a man out there praying to be the husband he's called to be.
Spot on!!
Not everyone gets that choice though especially if there is alot of discrimination and discrimination from parents and sometimes you may not be ready to get married if you have had a eg major operation which sets you back 3 or 4 years it's not cause you don't want to get married but if you can't find the right people then. I got married when I was 27, but cause of my race I would not beable to marry who I want
What do you mean because of your race?
@@warfaali race is where your parents come from
@@samhoss8882awww so the person ur married too isn’t the person u wanted to marry ?
The best video in the entire archive of my islam research
Baraka Allahou fikoum
as usual savage ( in a good way) and with good sense of humor reply
All the brothers immediately understood their assignment after that😂
What's the assignment
i'm pretty sure we assigned to get a wife!
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatUllah wabarakatuhu
Alhamdulillah
Good advice
Jazak Allah khairan kaseer
Ya Allah please bless every Muslim believer to obey Your Commands and teachings of Rasul Ullah Sallalahu Alaihi Wassallam ameen.
(Please myself not a religious scholar, but isn't it wrong to have pictures of making or decorating of animal kingdom means humans and animals?)
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatUllah wabarakatuhu
Subhaan Allah
Thankyou sheikh
Wallah i love sheikh for the sake of allah
Masha-Allah 🤲
Subhanallah an amazing video..
Im actually looking to get married n it has been very hard to find a good man who accepts a niqabi..
Pls include me in ur duas ..
May Allah bless me with an amazing, understanding husband who loves Allah n his rasool , has a good character n treats me nicely n also will take me to jannah.. may he also help me be a good understanding wife who compromises n does everything for the sake of allah n a person who brings him peace at home n someone who will help him go to jannah..
May he bless everyone who is looking to get married with a righteous n understanding spouses who will be the coolness of thier eyes n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen ...
May allah make all our tests n trials easy for all of us , make us steadfast in our deen ,guide us to the right path n always keep us connected to the quran at all times n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas , grant us jannah n safeguard us from the hell fire aameen aameen aameen
Āmeeen. There are some men around.. l hope you will her proposal from one someday .
@@sheriffmanneh4989 Jazakallah khair.. May allah bless u with his unlimited rahmath n make whatever test or trial u are going through easy for you , forgive all your sins, accept all your duas n grant u jannah aameen aameen aameen ..
@@azkahajadeen
Keep wearing niqab.
That's the legit full hijab.
May Allah Keep you on the straight path.
There are many men who accept and want niqabi women.
Men who have ghayrah and respect niqabi women.
Wish i was rich so i can marry a righteous and niqabi woman.
Anyway, Alhamdulillah.
@@Sabersafe Jazakallah khair for ur kind words ...May allah make it easy for u , bless u with his unlimited rahmah n may he bless with a good righteous understanding spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes n will take you to jannah aameen aameen aameen
Wait you are getting rejected for wearing niqab? Are you in Muslim country?
😂😂😂😂 Sheihks crazy funny
Oh my god I live in Malang, but how i didn't know that syeikh Assim was here?
Is it allowed to print tasweer? I really want to know
Masha Allah
😂At the people upset at the laughter, we have to understand it’s the island culture. I grew up around Samoans and Tongans and they laugh very loudly, at the smallest things.
Oh Sheikh finally opened comment section.
May the almighty Allah bless us good spouse....ameen
Teacher assim has enough experience to talk about those topics and he knows what he's talking about. I hope sisters can see the wisdom in his words. Overlook the emotions of frustration or the feel of discrimination because what he told about demand and supply and also the situation after dovorce is common. If sisters would not aim so high with educational goals they would not exaggerate their standards. Arrogance and pride can destroy your heart
@@maryammary3494 Being attracted to the person is important in a marriage, and should not be condemned. Basically beauty is essential.
@@user-ym6we4bx7kmaybe to a certain extent but I'm sure you won't be happy with a beautiful but disobeying wife
Can you please explain what you mean by exaggerated standards
@@maryammary3494 What do you mean with greed for beauty and capital?
@@maryammary3494 No, I mean how does the greed show. I am asking genuinely because I think I know what you mean but I am not trying to assume
Im a male..... I guess I'm not the only one that goes through this 😂
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@@dontoni8041 looool
@@springwellssw
It's okay.
Just let it go and don't overthink about it.
Believe in the fate that was decreed to you by Allah.
And be happy with it.
Finally Shekh your team allows comment
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Vai re tomar playlist hide koro shudu shudu pap share hobe
I'm still single living in Pakistan. Almost in my 30s due to familial issues I couldn't get married and now it seems kinda hopeless for me
Same bro but I’m in the west, shit should be easy for you
Same I’m from Pakistan, I have given up on marriage to men now. InshaAllah a single chaste life till I get one in jannah cause Pakistani men and their mommies are too toxic and secular sometimes
@@labs9618 I’m arab, Pakistani women are the same. Even if they appear religious they end up not knowing anything about it and want you to marry their family. Nothing Islamic about marrying Pakistanis. It’s like marrying a hindu
@@labs9618 don't give up on marriage. Change your environment or your settings. Rasool (s.a.w) says those who choose to remain celibate are not of us.
Have you really exhausted every guy in your country? I'd say that's impossible
Mashaallah
SUBHAN ALLAH ALHUMDULILLAH ALLAH AKBAR.
What a typical story at the end Sobhana'Allah
Assualma allaykum
Can any one share me where can I send my question please I was looking the sheekh longer
I think he answers questions on Twitter
MashaAllah
Making husband happy is the most difficult thing and obeying parents are for both boy and girl both
It’s not a woman’s job to make her husband happy, it is to obey him. As for obedience to parents the woman is only responsible of obeying her parents fully until she gets married. After she marries she must keep them good company and obey them if she’s able to under her husband. For example a married woman doesn’t have to obey her parents if they tell her to move back home and leave her husband. Or if her parents tell her to give them some of her husband’s money. But a man must obey his parents even if he’s married.
It is more difficult for women who don't do hijab, bcz those who are disobedient to Allah, are disobedient to their husband as well
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nowadys everyone wants to get married reir girlfriends. noble woman dont make boyfriend, they are not involved in any illegal relations and love thats why they are still single.its a bitter truth
The pious men are for the pious women. Better to not marry then endure a life with someone who is far below your level. Compatibility is key. Kafaa I believe it's called
@@faridak2194 yeah so true. 👍
@TornMarble yes and if you try to stop them from female friends they will call you backword
@@user-de6hd4of4hwhat do u mean...u mean there r no noble men exist ?
Sheikh plz reply for me.
One day I met a man in my relatives home.
I like him. I can't forget him.
His looks at me feels like he likes me....
But recently his parents has decided to marry him with his cousin after 5 years.
Bcz he is not in marriage age.he is only 23 yrs.
He is now in another country.
What can I do ?
U can't forget him. Sometimes I feels may be he loves me...he may be thinking about me.
Go with your parents/wali to his parents and see if he is interested, or have your wali/parents talk to him and see if he is interested in marriage at this time. If he is either not interested in marriage or his family is unwilling to marry him to someone else other than his cousin, move on. yes, move on. walk away from it and move on.
There is no use putting yourself into fitna, volunteering yourself for a trial of heartache and heartbreak over a man who is either not ready for marriage or a family dynamic which may break a marriage. there are plenty of good men in the sea, so to speak. And your husband is written for you no matter how many glances you sneak or not. And until you do the above things, stop thinking about him or writing about him.
This is a non-mahrem strange man you are dreaming about. The first glance was not a sin but if any other glance follow, know that the consequences are on you for those actions.
So lower your gaze during this process. This could be very well someone else’s husband. Another man could very well be written for you as your husband. So stay modest, and remember Allah has already written what will and will be, and nothing good will ever come from haram. (I hope you don’t find this blunt or harsh, this is a message to myself also). May Allah grant us spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and keep us on the firm path. None lose hope in Allah’s plan except the disobedient people.
lol may be he thinking about me 😅...why r u soo worrying about it seems he even haven't chat with u and you made whole history of future.😅
why they are laughing when she said "i'm still single"
How she said it so bluntly I guess.
How can I get connected to this man, I have a question to ask
Some parents don’t want their daughters to get married so they can forever take care of them. My father said even if you are under the bed, your proposal will come.
😢. May Allah open your father's heart..
Jakie single wszak moim mezem jest moj umysl a serce duchowe jest zona i tworza jedno cialo a nie dwa odrebne ciala,kazda istota ludzka ma umysl i serce i cialo umysl symbolizuje meza a serce symbolizuje zone a cialo to ich wspolny dom o ktory razem sie troszcza jaknajlepiej potrafia ,..a teraz jesli takie umysl serce i cialo chca zawierac zwazek z odrebnym cialem to pamietaj ze takie odreebne cialo nie moze byc przy tobie zawsze i wszedzie a umysl i serce i cialo w ktorym mieszkaja sa ze soba wszedzie razem ,..gdyby moje cialo lezalo pod gruzami to kto przy mnie bedzie obecny Umysl Serce Dusza i Duch i Cialo ktorym jestes jako zlozony mechanizm zatem kto z was czuje sie Solista czy rzekomym Single ??,wyslij do wszystich systemow odczuwania i myslenia i algortymow pogotowie duchowe bo ono naprawde istnieje,..bywaja takie chwile kiedy ktorys algortym i system czuje sie prawie jak puste naczynie ale nie jest calkowicie puste a Milosc jest wszechobecna nawet tam gdzie Logos jeszcze nie ma mocy odzialywania bo nie wszystkie sytemy odczuwania i myslenia rozumieja dzwieki werbalne jak slowa i wydaje sie to byc jakby niewyrazalne slowem ale tylko chwilowo choc taka chwila wydaje sie byc jakby bezczasowa,..jeszcze prosily te glosy w mojej glowie zeby odczytac wam Sure 2 ayat 29
It's 1st time your comment section opens sheikh.
no , he closes of for controvertial topic videos
not all videos
@@riddikulus1432I agree with him.
CZcams comment section can be poisonous
What do you say about the picture printed behind you?
What do you say about your lack of knowledge on the levels of shayk
Syekh Invited in 6 cities in Indonesia, as seen in the picture, Malang City
Many people are misunderstanding me, I am not blaming the Shaykh here or catching the Shaykh's mistakes. I am just showing the foolishness of the organizers of this program to Shaykh.
@estiakahmed2033 organizer stupidity? That's just to indicate the place, because not every place is in the mosque, there are some events that are held at hotel
@estiakahmed2033 because this is an official invitation, of course the banner.... No need to worry about trivial things, especially if it's not your country, it's better to respect each other
If the angel of mercy do not come in houses where there are pictures, why is there the picture of the sheikh ?
You are absolutely right! The fact that they are displaying picture in MASJID, the house of Allah, this is very offensive, not to mentioned being ghuluw towards the Sheikh. The Nabi shalallahu alaihi wa sallam order the Muslims to destroy the pictures and flattened the graves. The Sheikh should be the first one to notice this and reject this act of ghuluw.
@@GintamaKintama-sx3zzi think the picture is displayed during questioning times and removed during the prayer to their Lord. it seems like a roll up picture!
@@sully111 There is no justification whatsoever for displaying/hanging pictures of living being in Islam. The Sheikh himself said in his lectures, that's why this video contradicting what he said in his lectures about image making.
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MaShAllah la quitta illa billa, 13 daughters.
soo cutee
Can someone kindly tell me which country is this?
Indonesia
@@mohamedimohamedi8933 Then I have to find a wife there.
@@abduljabbarmohammed4188😂😂
@@abduljabbarmohammed4188 I am here🤣🤣
Exactly. This is all BS😊
Nowadays, by age 15 gone case oredy..
Does Sheikh Assim saw the picture of him behind him. What’s the point of putting his picture?? This is not right, giving fatwa is something but hanging a picture on your back is a different world. How does the angels enter the masjid now? Why do you deprive them of the masjid??
They need a nurse 😂😂😂
I want to get married but my family ufff😔who will teach them
Are you a girl?
😂💯👌🏽always to the point masha allah!!
وليس ٱلذكر كٱلأُنثَىٰ
Also female is not like male
Go and watch Christian prince's video Now no one is coming to accept the challenge
Now Quran is in 27 or more different forms Allah Not unchanged Allah has two right hands and leg 😂😂 So Allah has shape So Allah is not infinity, eternal Embryology is wrong in Quran It's proved by Embryologists So many mistakes and contradictory things Don't try to fool the world in 2023
@@factsgalaxy6228re you a christian or a muslim
Allah says
وَلَمْ يَكُن لَّهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ
Allah has no form of anything.
Human biengs have their patners but allah does not have any partner.
Allah is just alone nothing or none like him.
How great is he???
Not only Allah who doesn't have gender even his angels
Allah mentioned in the quran that those who call angels with female names don't have anything from the knowledge except following steps of what they think of
إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ لَا يُؤْمِنُونَ بِٱلْئَاخِرَةِ لَيُسَمُّونَ ٱلْمَلَىٰٓئِكَةَ تَسْمِيَةَ ٱلْأُنثَىٰ وَمَا لَهُم بِهٖ مِنْ عِلْمٍ إِن يَتَّبِعُونَ إِلَّا ٱلظَّنَّ وَإِنَّ ٱلظَّنَّ لَا يُغْنِي مِنَ ٱلْحَقِّ شَيْئًا
Indeed those who don't believe for hereafter they call the angels female names
And they have no knowledge of it, they don't follow except conjecture and conjecture does not avail anything from the truth
@@factsgalaxy6228Look at this Mickey Mouse rambling all over the place, your mind is so baked and toasted with all the lies you’ve been fed by Christian Princess.
the Shaykh is allowing comments for this vid?
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I need a nurse. 😂
It's an English saying that afrer a certain age, a man needs a nurse or a purse i.e. someone to look after him or provide for him because he's providing for his first family.
I’m 30s still unmarried. Have degree but couldn’t find good match yet not because I didn’t want to marry young. In the west it’s hard to find good man, everyone did zina
@@DemoGlory why are you commenting here? You don’t sound Muslim considering you just recommended me to get a dog…
Also society looks down on you if you’re single and family pressures you till you get married. Am I supposed to die a virgin?
@@DemoGlorybro. go enjoy ur botka,wine.
this clip is not for u
@@user-zm3no5xb6t as a Muslim too he’s right why? Because life is a test and even we don’t find then it’s Allahs test just like someone married young but became widowed or divorced or their kids died- people still talked and people talk for singles too- let people talk- focus on your life you work you relationship with Allah what’s the point of saddening over spouse if you get hellfire in akhirah? Make jannah your main goal and live a productive life anyway we all will get old no one will remember us and InshaAllah in jannah there will be a spouse for all
@@DemoGlory Those women aren't the role models for muslimahs women who sides with her feminine attribute is Islamic otherwise it is cursed by Allah. For a muslim marriage is important the parents of a Muslimah will be eager to find a good groom for her, they don't go for their daughters career.
@@user-zm3no5xb6t I feel sorry for you. Single life is suffering when you reach at a age where there is no hope left then it will be living hell nobody loves us as our spouses love s us even our children don't want is when we're useless. Ever body around us only want benefit from us that's why people are getting suicide. Women who are average men are happier than single rich earning women. Women who get divorced regret later and cry for their presence. Women need to get married at Young because so they can give their husband best of her self and healthy children. Your heart is so good and pure as i can sense it through your word. The man who gets your love is luckiest to have you.
If you live in Europe or USA you may help your husband for provisions or stay single forever ❤
However if that husband married back home, he'd not expect the wife to work.
sheikh has 13 daughters, wow!
You mean; Masha’Allah!!!
@@liliumbosniacum7781maybe they didn't know how to write it in English
Why i am still hungry? Well i'm not still eating. We have to work for it if we want something.
Some men are like holding fire in your hand. How to keep men like that.
A woman can calm her man by giving intimacy he will get healed and forget his previous problem.
Lho... di Kota Malang kah?
Keliling Indonesia: Jakarta, Jogja, Malang.
@@Erispedia Terimakasih. Wah sayang sekali baru tahu. Padahal saya tinggal di Malang.
Allah Allah
Mashallah Allah Allah bless you
I am single i haven't met a girl that wants to marry a man who doesn't have anything 😂
Ofc.
But it's okay.
If you don't have anything at the moment. Keep fasting.
right...nowadays girl marry with money of man not with man
@@shahid8673if I get married, I would care about his character not the money... I would rather marry the poorest man who would treat me with kindness and love than marrying the richest man who barely shows his love or care or is too controlling
Feminists fuming
😂
I never watch your bd either.And once the notification comes, I will be forced to close the net.
I am 35 never married it hurt alot
What happened 😢
Just so you know, you are not alone. Many Muslims have their own circumstances. Ask your parents to find you a spouse, if they refuse, this is depending where you live but you can try marry an orphan girl, you can kill two birds with one stone, you can get married and you're helping an orphan. But it's really difficult to get married now because the girls wants to pursue their career even an orphan girl and they don't care if a man propose to them. Back then in the time of Prophet Muhammad, marriage is easy because you don't have to wait until the girl is graduated from her school. Now, the most of the Muslims make marriage difficult.
@@galaxyphones8318 being never married till today at the of 35 is big pain in life
@@GintamaKintama-sx3zz i am girl not a boy, my parents tried alot even i tried alot bt Allah knows better my parents r failed to find husband for me and know people say u r over age
@@TahseenulQuran39 I'm 32 also looking for a spouse, I'm like desperate, so how about it? I'm in Indonesia and I'm poor but if you don't mind me then maybe this is a sign from Allah... Or not?