How to get married in Islam including Proposal, Nikah & Mahr I Mufti Menk (2019)
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How to get married in islam including Proposal, Nikah & Mahr I Mufti Menk (2019). Including Things to Consider Before You Get Married, how to get married the islamic way, dowry in islam & how to propose in Islam.
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I listen to these lecture and I'm agrea with them. But it isn't good. Because there aren't good men. We girls expect nothing from men just they be religous and have good behavior. But at this time there are maybe from 100% just 10% good men. And also women. May allah bless all of us in donya and akherah and grant us good spaus. Amiin
Ameen
Your Allan blessed (if you want to call it that) men with the sex objects, ie houris and young boys but zero houri for you. You'll just have to watch your husband deflower houris all day, every day forever. You might assist your allah in fixing the houris in making them virgins again and again.
Ameen
Munafiq
@@silverjones2317 there is khamr, but it isn't like the khamr of this world. That's all I want. Well, and houses too.
I just met a man and we've been talking for two weeks and I feel like he's the right one. I've been praying Allah that if he's the one for me, to facilitate our marriage and if he isn't too keep him far away from me, insh Allah
Ameen,
and sister, if he’s the one for you, then may Allah swt bless your marriage. Ameen
Ameen
@@qoon7689 ameen thank you so much!
@@yolobake7082 hahahah Insh Allah 🤣
I have a question since I are inshallah in the process of meeting I am looking for a wife I found a good right girl but I don’t know what to ask her questions about? Can u give me some advice or and help me please , inshallah you will get reward may Allah bless you
I’m a 26 year old Palestinian woman who’s never gotten any proposal and I’ve started to feel like it won’t happen in this world. May Allah grant us righteous spouses who will be our blessings in this world and the next
If you have not already tell your family, friends and imam at masjid to help you. Don't be shy ask for assistance in finding someone. And of course make dua.
@King Kong men are biologically and naturally the chasers so I can understand why a woman wouldn’t want to propose due to our culture , I would say she should let her family know and so they can see any man that is looking for a wife and see , plus she’s young
And don't leave off listening to ruqya for marriage blockage
Hey
Dating websibte,
i’m a non muslim who’s really fascinated by your culture and i think this is amazing!
Why aren’t you a Muslim? A Muslim means the one who submits him/her self to the creator of the heavens and earth
@@abdulrahmanalemi9427 Because i’m atheist lol
@@lilipond 000000000000000 can never make 1 ........ something can't come into existence without a cause
@@dongargon3049 what i meant to say was agnostic i was raised catholic but i don’t agree with the church
@Athlethics thank you! but i’m quite happy where i am now!
This makes more sense to me honestly, Allah has made Islam easy for us but we want to complicate things may Allah guide us.
MashAllah. This is powerful. May we all seek Nikkah and have success. InshAllah
Ameen
Ameen
Nikkah is the f word dummy
Ameen
In sha allah√
may Allah gives us people who love us ad guide us InshaAllah
A Muslim sister who was a dear friend of mine was making green lentils along with whatever food she had been making. And several times (she kept making it over a period of time) her husband ate it without a word of complaint.
Eventually one night he says to her something along the lines of “I can’t keep it up, this is horrible.”
But when she told me the story (obviously with much more detail) I couldn’t help but smile. He knew how hard she worked on his home while he was out working to keep them afloat, and it meant so much to even me as a woman to know there are men who would smile and bear your horrible cooking because they love and appreciate you for all the work you do to please them and care for them. May Allah reward that brother and his wife with Jannah. Ameen.
He should of told
Her she could switch it up and , but to say “it is horrible lol
Amin
Excellent lecture. Refreshed my eman! Thank you mufti menk. May Allah protect you always. Ameen
Ameen
May Allah give us the spouses that we want(the spouses that we have been asking for for years).
Great explanation. Thank you.
Beautiful advice.JazakAllah.
Hi i am rahi(24age), i used to like someone. I knew her since 2014,(she's the daughter of my father's friend) proposed her on 2018 and got rejected 😂,WaAllahi i thank Allah for that cause i did n't know that it was haram back then. She's a good person as far as i know she's a practicing muslim and never been in a relationship, like me ☺️.But the thing is ever since i got rejected my love for her just increased though i was depressed at that time. And now i love her for the sake of Allah🥰.
I would definitely ask for her hand to her father but i am unemployed & still studying that's the biggest problem.
I keep her in my prayer everytime ❤,
Her cousin once told me that she also liked me a long ago but don't know what she think of right now.😢
Just waiting for Allah's help.
MashaAllah! I love how he explains!
I love menk so mutch for all he taught me
Masha Allah
Good points
JZQ my brothers
The voice could be little bit better
Such beauty in these words. See, Allah wants us to be romantic with each other. Our whole life, not just in the beginning.
Great explanation on wedding in Islam
mashallah very nice lecture
Nikkah nowadays have become more of a society thing rather than a religious one.
The families of the prospective guy/girl have become so choosy in terms of materialism, beauty, wealth, family status that they are almost blinded by the glitz & glamor. There are hardly few genuine people in this world who seek spouses with good character & conduct, love towards Deen and fear of Allah, who is interested in spending their life pleasing the Almighty rather than His creation.
May Allah make marriage easy for us all.
May Allah guide me to find the right one, who can guide me in Islam, be with me to improving ourself both Deen and Dunya, and together until Jannah, İnshaAllah. Ameen.
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
“Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
Furqan:74
رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ
“My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.”
Qasas:24
Has a non- Muslim this is so easy to understand ❤
Assalamu aleykum, brothers and sisters. Alhamdulillah, I found an amazing potential and we're looking to get married soon, please keep us in your du'as because we're facing a few challenges. I pray Allah helps all those looking to find the one they seek and may Allah make marriage easy and blessed for all of us. Aameen
Ameen thank you for such a beautiful dua! I am looking for a spouse too now.
Alhamdulillah Rabbil Alamin 😇
May Allah grant us
Masya-allah Alhamdulillah
Salam, just a tip for the comments. When typing Islamic phrases such as In Shaa Allah, make sure to separate the phrase into three words as not doing so could change the meaning. And Allah (SWT) knows best :)
Thank you so much
Not really
That’s what I thought as well but Mufti Menk has spoken about this in a separate video. I’ll add the link so you can have a look at it!
czcams.com/video/oOkInMWxyBg/video.html
It’s on his main channel and the video name is “don’t ever write Inshaallah”
Hope it helps you as much it helped me:)
This is actually false
Madhallah thank you so much
Wonderful advice
barak Allah feek
barak Allah feek
barak Allah feek
Alhamdulillah
ASSALAMUALAIKUM ...maasha ALLAH
Bismillah
I mean when sheikh come to you and ask "are you agree with this nikh".
Someone please marry me. A 28 year old divorced woman with one son. InshaaAllah
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
Bismillah
MashaAllah so beautiful.
❤❤❤☪️☪️☪️ 2:08 so sweet. MashaAllah 9:44
💕💚💕💛💕💙💕🖤💕
😊😊😊 As Salamu 'Alaykum wrb 😊😊😊
I'm just saying some older brother's told me when I'm ready to get married tell them and they're going help me with it.
Was having a great with of simple nikah but people didn't supported...
Even i don't like engagement concept. But wondering why people are enforcing this a lot now a days...
I was fully against for the same but people hardly listens....
Also i m against of grand marriage ceremonies, but don't know why people just don't want to listen and follow...
Some people don't demand dowry but ask for good food good hosting of 200 400 people wondering if it isn't alternative of taking dowry, and they feel they really made or very simple according to Islam. And demanding good food with menu is acceptable no trouble provided..
Please answer is demanding food with presenting menu is it right!!!!!???
Nikah and Wedding was very simple in our prophets s.a.w time. Best to follow the sunnah and not to bow to such high demands.
You are different from the normal sheep 👏
Allah swt gives wealth to who ever He wills. Even though big wedding is a blessing too. Nowadays small wedding not working out.
Is it possible to talk about nikah I mean the money you must give the girl in order to do nikah to discuss with her mother is it allowed in Islam?
Someone propose me for marriage, he is little older than me, he doesn't have best looks, he is not much rich, he is Muslim prays 5 times, do umrah, he said I am not rich but whenever I will ask him about something he will give it to me, on the other hand, I know my father will find a person who could be better at any sort, in looks, education, and will be rich.
I accept his proposal but he says that he wanted to tell me everything what he have and what he doesn't have.
Now I should I leave him just because of these qualities.
That he is not rich, he is not best at looks, he is not much educated.
But he said he said he will tried to fulfill my wishes. He is humble to me.
I don't find it right to leave someone because of this.
What if I left him, and found someone who is educated, good in looks, younger, rich, but not best at (Akhlaq) and not humble to me.
Guide me, and pray for me
If he is poor, Allah will bless him with sustanance through marriage. Do not underestimate someone who says they will give you everything. Time given is worth more than materialistic items.
Also if they don't bring comfort in your eyes at first sight, don't even bother to go further to propose,that's a red flag. If they don't bring comfort in your eyes, they won't bring in the future... Proceed,follow up with one that brings comfort to the eyes and they will satisfy you soul and that's to be at first sight, the soul content around them..
Dear I am feeling this for someone he is in eygpt I'm in Pakistan we connected through matrimony site , I miss him so much..his sight gives me comfort..parents will do hurdles as he is divorced with kids.. I dont want to live my life without him..
Please let me know is there in Islam we can do the Nikkah on mobile call.if there girl and boy agree for go to marriage relationship.one guy living in Europe and he like one girl him country but they want do the nikkah marriage on phon call.its is ok or in Islam they must do the practical with witnesses
No brother.
please make dua for the muslim man I’m really interested in. me and him have known eachother for a year, and i just converted to islam. we talk everyday but i don’t know how i can get married since my parents are not muslims
What are you waiting for? If you are both compatible then take the step and ask for marriage. Protect yourself infront of Allah.
It does not matter if your parents are not Muslims yet, may Allah make it easy for us all.
I know this was 8 months ago and Insha’Allah you guys are married by now but go to a masjid and select a man of good reputation to be your wali and get married since your family is non Muslim. Easy peasy sis ❤️
3: 41. *He asked: “My Lord! You grant me a Sign”. He said: “Your Sign is that you will not speak to people for three days except through gestures; you should remember your Lord very much and glorify Him during the dusks and dawns”.*
It should be noticed that in this verse Prophet Zakaria is asking to Lord Allah directly, but the reply is given through the Angels. It is told in verse 42: 51: “Lord will not speak to any man directly except through revelation or from behind a veil, or by sending a Messenger (Angel)”. This teaches that believers should ask for anything directly from their Owner Lord. At the same time, the disbelieving Arabic Quran reading Fujjar always places mediators and intercedes between them and the Lord.
It is told in verses 43: 73-78: “At the Hell, such disbelieving Fujjar Mujirims will call the guard of Hell and will say: ‘Oh Malik! Let your Lord put an end to us’. Then Angel will reply: “You must stay there! We had brought you the Truth, but most among you were hating the Truth’”. And as told in verses 40: 49-50: “The Fujjar will say in the Hell to the guardian Angels: ‘You Pray to your Lord to lighten for us the punishment at least for a day’. The Angels will ask: ‘Hadn’t Messengers from among you come to you with Explanations?’ They will reply: ‘Of course! They had’. Angels will say: ‘Then you appeal yourselves!’ The disbelievers’ appeal will increase nothing except astray”. See explanation 2: 165-167 and 4: 1.
*From Adhikr-the best Interpretation of Lord's Book*
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Which is the best day for nikkah
I am going to get married I don't know anything about my husband and also my parents don't asked me anything so please pray for me a happy married life.
Yarab🤲🏻 May Allah make your marriage prosper
Why don‘t you know anything about him? 😅
Dear Sister, that shouldn't be the way it happens, Allah has given you rights to have a say in your marriage, you should at least know who you will marry
Plz pray for my nikkah I'm n revert n it's difficult for an revert to get married
same, none of my family would come
Same path, family support though and few days away from my nikkah, may Allah guide and bless us all, Insha'Allah
Assalamu walaikum
Dear, Are you married or not yet?
@@penumaladivyaaisha can I know, where are you from
lutfulhaque0000@gmail.com is my email id
Awasawas
As Salmu alaikum. Anyone knows what to do in this situation?.
Situation
What if your parents against interacial marriage and only want culture.. What to do?.
Asalam haleykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuhu.
Sheikh can a wife forgive her husband mahr when he dies before paying her?
Urgent issue kindly assist me.
I hope he intended on giving to her and if he died before giving her the mahr then she can try forgiving him and we hope Allah pardons and forgives him. And Allah knows best.
168. *Oh, you mankind! You eat lawful and wholesome things from the earth, and you don’t follow the footsteps of Satan; indeed, he is a manifest enemy to you.*
169. *Indeed, he only commands you with evil and shameful things, and to say to you upon Lord Allah what you are not knowing.*
Adhikr is the Food, Cloth, and Sight of the human soul. So male or female by utilizing It has to transform his/her Jinn soulmate mentioned in verses 43: 36-39 into a believer. It is told in verse 29: 45 that indeed, the prayer will prevent one from evil and shameful things. But the prayer should be always to maintain the Book Dhikree as told in verse 20: 14. As there is no group of believers anywhere in the world, there is no congressional prayer. So the odd believer should follow the mode of prayer and lifestyle explained in verses 7: 205-206.
If everyone has the awareness that he/she is bearing a Recording Book fastened upon the neck as told in verses 17: 13-15, he will not engage or follow satanic footsteps such as:
- communalism, chauvinism, racialism, nationalism, selfishness, partiality, rationalism, self-conceit, arrogance, insolence, sexual partiality, apartheid, etc.
- miserliness, lavishness and vanity, interest, theft, dowry from woman’s side, bribing, black money, smuggling, adulteration, corruption, and stealing the wealth of orphans.
- robbery, murder, incendiary, terrorism, bloodshed, and riots.
- promoting liquor, ganja, and other narcotic drugs.
- illegal activities such as sodomy, rape, prostitution, masturbation, talks, dressings, and posing encouraging for sexual ambitions between different males and females other than their spouses.
- superstitious beliefs such as sorcery, black magic, omen, zodiac, palmistry, prophecy by caged birds, horoscopes, and divination by observing the movement of lizards.
- invoking others besides or along with Lord Allah, offering food items to other than Lord Allah, reciting the Arabic Qur’an upon the dead, any rhyme or song praising and glorifying any person even if it’s Messengers like Muhammad, Moses, and Jesus or any saint people which is against the Adhikr, any deed including prayer without the participation of the soul, learning and promoting books written by the pseudo-prophets and hypocrites.
The Arabic Quran reading Fujjar are hiding and rejecting Adhikr. On the Day of Judgment when they are asked to read the Recording Book, these Mujirims will wail as: “Oh, woe to us! What a Book is this which leaves nothing small or great unless that it has been recorded in It?” as told in verse 18: 49. Without testifying Adhikr which is the Speech of Lord, all words of Fujjar are for the sake of Satan. By preferring bodily and worldly life without considering the soul and Hereafter, the Fujjar are the Mujirims who are serving Satan as told in verses 36: 59-62. They are not changing their ledger from Sijjeen of Hell (83: 7) into ledger Illiyeen of Paradise (83: 18). So each group among them are destined to the seven doors of Hell as told in verse 15: 44.
Verses such as 6: 142; 12: 5; 28: 15; 36: 60 and 43: 62 end as: “Indeed, Satan is a manifest enemy to mankind”. See explanation 2: 26-27, 44, and 8: 22.
*From Adhikr-the Best Interpretation of Lord's Book*
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What about your older cousin who also Muslim
Salam I want to marry this guy but he’s in another country and I am
Can we have my nikka done in this country and he has it in his country does that work
Salam mufti
Can you please answer my question I’m having problems inside my heart that did i say qabol by mouth as i was shy and everyone thought i said qabul so they said i said it but is that ok
You dont need to say it, you could be silent
@@razamughal9095 thank you for the answer
Salam i have a question, I"m pakistani and most of the time culture is extremely intertwined with the religion and it makes many peoples' beliefs a mess. Hence, my mom said that when the nikkah occurs the bride is obligated to stay at home and cannot leave her house for the nikkah or go to the mosque for it and that instead the imam must go to her house. I realize that sometimes people do this, but it is not obligated..correct? And furthermore she said only the man is ALLOWED to be present for the nikkah at the mosque and that the women cannot enter the mosque.
Please can someone explain to me the concept of this, i had told her that this is not true as many women go to the mosque even to just PRAY, so it would not make sense that she cannot step foot in the mosque for her OWN nikkah.
Never heared of anything even similar to this... This is 100% culture and Haus absolutely nothing to do with Islam! 1.) The bride does not have to stay at home. There‘s no ruling regarding this hence she can do and go whereever sehe wants. 2.) The groom and 2 witnesses as well as the Imam who weds the pair HAS to be there. Everyone else is just additional witnesses. 3.) Like in 1. , the bride can of course enter the mosque. The mosque is a holy place and is allowed for everyone.
Hope I could help, just watch some more videos regarding this topic and you will inshallah learn how a real nikkah is being performed. :)
@@DiddiPinkki thank you so much for replying I completely agree with your statement and if makes a lot of sense!!
Assalamualikom Warahmatullahi Wabaraktu, My question is : Can we get married by ring & without parents approval ?
No
A friend of mine is a revert. He has been a muslim for 3 years and he said it will be hard for him to marry because a lot of parents want their daughter to marry someone who is muslim from birth. He said that he can wait though. But I want to know if this is true. I want to help him. Any opinions?
tbh i've never heard a girl say that they'd want a husband who is muslim from birth. I dont think they care dont worry
@@Sara-kv2tk He was referring to a lot of parents' preference. We don't live in a muslim-majority country. But we do live in an area where there are a lot of muslims. I guess it's a cultural thing or something? Thank you for the comment!
If d parents knowledgeable enough about Islam. It's not a problem whether u revert or Muslim from born. Some cover that as a reasons not to let d girls marry to revert man.
During the nikkah, when they ask the girls father if u agree or not ;what if she changes her mind in the end ?
then she changes her mind end of the story, I am sure her parents won't be happy but no one can force her to marry anyone.
Is it necessary to say loudly "yes I agree " or say "by heart "plz clear
Loud.
must be hearable
@Faizan Manzoor peace be upon you, please watch this video and i hope it answers your question its just 12 minutes of your day :)
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How can I find marriage proposal of the Muslim Revert??
Inform the elderly women of your house & your local imam
Visit the local mosques. In shaa Allah you find reverts.
Marriage is become very difficult in Pakistani Muslim society
Its mostly arranged...
Why
Hi I have a question.. If d man is already do niqah is it marriage already? Or he can change his mind?
@@hyjiecuestas2780
He can change his mind before the Niqah is finalized.
@@Aaman27 I already accept d truth. He said if he will not continue the wedding his family will throw him away from his family and all of his life there will no blessed from his parents. I already accept maybe we are not really meant for each other
3:19 what if her father isn’t with her or doesn’t live with her
Did you watch the video? He immediately explains this
I am a man and i want to marry a woman when do i tel my own father ?
What if u were in a relationship with a guy and now he decides to marry you, what are the right things to do before you both gets married.
relationship is not something people who are Muslim engage in, make family aware of this and discuss how to make the Mehr don't over complicate and certainly don't sin
Please I’m a convert can someone tell me what’s the difference between mahr and dowry? And which one is mandatory? And without it is the marriage invalid?
try and search ur question up on the internet or on Islamic forums and websites and I am sure someone will be able to answer it in a clear and islamically correct way
The one that’s mandatory in Islam is Mahr, where the guy gives the girl some sort of gift, or money, to or whatever she wishes, as long as it’s within what he can afford, or else there will be problems in beginning of marriage 😅
Mahr is mandatory which is given by the groom to the bridge before the nikah(Marrige), mahr can be anything like Gold, Silver,Money, Property, etc which should be given by the groom to the bridge and the dowry is something which the women should give and this is not there in Islam, so dowry has is not even necessary to give
Dowry is haram in Islam
The difference: Mahr is your Islamic right
Dowry is culture and is haram
My fiance broke up with me because his mom didnt want us to get married with a sheikh because she didnt want anything to do with the civil mariage (she said we young and might divorce so nothing civil.....)
Why do you want civil marriahe anyway?
For his money right.If you truley love him you would do religious marriage you disgusting gold digger.
What is a mehr, does it have to be piad?
Yes in women's life
Dowry
Sallam im trying to get a nikkah despite the corona circumstances. I want it in my house now! Do i need an imam to come in?
You have absolutely no reason to wait?
Suhail AD we cant
If your father is knowledgeable enough he can do your nikah with your witnesses. It does not have to be an imam.
No need of an Imam... ur father or some who is ur mahram can do the nikah.
the amuser sallam everyone in the comments! I wanted to say that alhamdulilah i did my nikkah in my house in June! I was so happy! It was beautiful Afghan-yemeni nikkah❤️ i am much happier and im glad i fulfilled Allahs commandments! :)
Am trying to get married but am finding it difficult to find a wife where is the best place for me to go and find a spouse inshallah.
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Try asking your family members or friends if they know a woman that you could possibly marry. And if they don't know anyone, ask for help at the local mosques. Also listen to Ruqya for marriage problems. Khair inshaAllah.
If I as a girl have someone in my head to marry. Can I tell my parents about it? I mean is it halal or not. Because my parents always told me that the woman can't pick a guy if he didn't went to my dad jet.
Yes sister you can also tell your parents to reach out to him and you can propose to him.
@@StinisWorldthank you! I did talk about this with my parents and it went well 💛🥰 ( iam not gonna marry yet I just wanted to know this)
@@chahbounihajar1264 that's amazing sister 😊 I wish you all the best
Yes sister. You can propose to him as Khadijah RA proposed to our beloved prophet Muhammad (SAW). The whole “women can’t propose to men” thing is a cultural thing and shouldn’t be followed. Women are humans too and they are allowed to fall in love and find ways to reach out to whoever they wanna marry. May Allah SWT make it easy for you!
@@halaosman7248 thank you so much for your help 🧡
ممكن ترجمة
لا فيها فائدة ولله يستهزئ منك ومنا.
I have a question. Pakistani is already do niqah on their country. Is it mean he is married already? There's no way he cannot continue?
hyjie cuestas nikkah means you are married
If someone has done nikkah it means there married now.
What is aqad???
Sir if a boy and girl are love with each other can there do nikkah
Yes..
What if she’s Muslim but her family isn’t Muslim should her non Muslim father still give her away or should the groom still ask the father if he can marry his daughter?
Non muslim cannot be a wali and if her father is non muslim then they should go to some nearby mosque and make the religious and wel known man as her wali and do nikah(Marriage)
Even i don't like engagement concept. But wondering why people are enforcing this a lot now a days...
I was fully against for the same but people hardly listens....
Also i m against of grand marriage ceremonies, but don't know why people just don't want to listen and follow...
Some people don't demand dowry but ask for good food good hosting of 200 400 people wondering if it isn't alternative of taking dowry, and they feel they really made or very simple according to Islam. And demanding good food with menu is acceptable no trouble provided..
Please answer is demanding food with presenting menu is it right!!!!!???
Assalamoalaikum!No!There is no feast by bride side in islam!It is not proven by Quran and sunnah!
Can a girl suggest her mahr?? Lyk some surah or something??
Sure you can demand for your mahr. If the man cannot afford it then u can help him reduce it
Please 🙏 is it haram or halal for a bride to read the quran on her wedding day 🙏
Of course not, unless you’re getting married in a bathroom
What if u are a old woman mid 40s and father is no help in getting married what can one do find another wali ???
Your other relatives, in the hanfi fiqh you can marry without a wali
My father and mother is not here so can i get someone to help ?
Yes you can get a Wali (guardian) from the Mosque such as the Imam.
having met and talken to my fiancee for almost 6 months (with the knowledge of my parents) , I want to stop speaking or very minimally, until we get married insha'Allah. What must I do until we do get married?
I'm a kid but if you did not have your nikah then have it then get married.(I don't know if that is true)but look online and tell your parents for advise. Once you know what to do to get married tell me as well because I'm hoping to get married when I'm 17.😊
Zohra Talaourar patience. And make Dua for whatever that is bothering you. May Allah guide you and your future husband to a successful marriage and to jannah together Ameen
@@silverjones2317 With All due respect.... Keep on Studying our beloved Prophet Muhammad.. through UNBIASED SOURCES ... Don't speak ignorantly.
Focus on your deen and focus on your life. You can save money and plan things before your marriage as well. This can be very helpful and can pass the time as you wait for your marriage.
Guys please someone anwser this if you get married legally do you automatically get married islamicly or does that doesnt count as marriage.
Hi,
No, Islamic isn’t the same as legally by the law.
Chaimae Bouajoun can u tell me the difference, thank u
Rayhaan Graham oh thank you this made me understand the difference clearly
In Islamic marriage after payment of the Mahr or dowry is it haram to have sex with your partner while the marriage is not yet complete ?
Complete the marriage first you almost there
@@Brightestlightt ok thank you for understanding me please where are you from
Lile James Broqn said this is a mans world....but it wouldn't be nothing without a woman love our Messenger more than your own wife or any creation.
why trational make a girl hard to get a pious man because of alot of money ?? the problem is come from a male ruler especially the uncles oo brothers if the girl her father is passed away ...fathers are good
Trust, time, tolerance.
I showed this to and I got my a$$ beat almost 💀
But can the girls family apprach the males family?
Yes
I’m a dirtbag and I don’t know how to stop I’m afraid of commitment sheesh
Sounds like you have unresolved trauma or beliefs that make you afraid of being vulnerable
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Yes you can cry, he will never find a solution to your problem.. xcuz me... he will not find THE solution.. he is just laughing at our face with his da'wah..
Come on..they don't allow us to meet here..girl is not supposed to say no..they hardly show us photograph..and I live in part of India
Should I worry if he won’t legally marry me but Nikkah is enough. He says that is the most important everything else is nothing. But I feel sketchy. I can’t settle
Nikah is everything but the news has to be made public
Nikah isn't something to keep hidden that's y there is something called 'walima' to let everyone know about the marriage
No. Keep it official in religiously n officially registry in d country. Don't get sway..u're in lower hand if only nikkah. if someday u have children n he acting up..hard to claim ur rights n d children's
@@cameliasyarifkemal9482 I told him I can’t marry him or commit to our nikkah because he thinks I’ll steal all his money. He told me this. He said if he ever married legally he will make me do a prenup I said ok? I’ll sign it but this is sad. I am not a gold digger. He said well I’m not marrying you legally. My ex wife I didn’t marry her legally or else she will take everything. Lol so I said it’s ok brother let’s just go different directions. If you are worried I’ll take your money I don’t want to marry someone like this. I go for Deen. Alhamdulillah
@@MUZLIM1234 I think that’s for the best. A relationship that is built on mistrust and skepticism Is not bound to last im sad to say. After all, we fear so many irrational things that we actually end up causing. That which we initially ran away from
Lol!
If you are not gold digger why don't you settle for nikkah only.
English marriage is considered in the law islamic marriage if we not done nikha . I'm Christian my self my husband is Muslim we done divorce and now we whant to married back to have nikha . His father say is impossible because English marriage considered Islamic marriage this is true ?
I have heard that too but even if it is why can you remarry your husband?
@@dbcooper28 because his father he no give us the blessing ,his father said because I'm not pakistani very sad booth they broke my heart inshallah Allah he will help me to going true with this pain
I just wanna tell her ro say kabool hai 3 times so I can commit the.....see more
Assalamualaikum. I have a question. Can we get married without our parents or wali?
Because my parents will not accept our marriage. We have no other choice.
It was narrated that ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Any woman who gets married without the permission of her guardian(Wali), her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid. But if the marriage is consummated then the mahr is hers because she has allowed him to be intimate with her. If they dispute, then the ruler is the guardian(Wali) of the one who has no guardian.”
(Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1102; Abu Dawood, 2083; Ibn Maajah, 1879. Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Irwa’ al-Ghaleel, 1840)
@@Mohammed_Shadab_Ahmed in the hanafi fiqh it is VALID to marry without a wali
Question Mother isn’t a guardian ?
No. If she a women was the world world go nuts
I omly want to marry a woman who is virgin!
How to make sure she is virgin?
Should I ask her or put it in marriage contract?
How to make virginity a condition in marriage?
Brother please specify why you want a virgin woman ? You can't make sure someone is virgin for example they lost thier virginity before but made tawba (asked for forgiveness from allah swt) she is not supposed to expose her sins and your not allowed to ask her all those sort of questions neither put in a marriage contract. Prophet muhammad pbuh married widowed women so whats the problem brother ?
@@abdurrahmanabulhashem2660 I'm not gonna marry woman who commit zina.If I married her and find out she comitted zina I will divorce her.
So asking her before marriage is much better than divorce
Brother thats up to you. But remember everyone makes mistakes. So always try to leave the past behind. What happened in her past was her past. You probably won't find out ever even if she did
If she wasn’t a virgin, regardless, her sin had been concealed and therefore it’s not your right to get her to expose it
Allah would have concealed her sin had it been committed and
She has right to not answer your question
@@maryxxam7400 If she don't need to answer me.She need to cancel the marriage or say something like she is not interested to marry me as an excuse.
can you have a Nikkah the morning of your wedding day?
You can
Nikkah is the wedding.