Halal Types Of Dating! - Does Marriage Kill Love? - Expert Shared Key Tips!
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- Hello friends In today's video we will answer some questions about Islamic marriage. If you have some questions about marriage in your mind, this video is for you!
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00:00 Intro
01:00 Who is Yahya Ibrahim?
01:49 Dating is haram, but how are we going to know each other? What is the procedure to get married?
06:02 What about the procedure? Should we wait so that we know each other more?
09:45 So how can a person be sure to find the right person?
11:51 How was your experience, if it's not private?
14:28 "I like her but she's not a religious person." Will it get better after we get married?"
15:46 Would you marry your wife if she was not religious?
17:14 Why do spouses become distant from each other over time? Isn't it possible to preserve life like in the early days? Does marriage kill love?
19:48 What would you advice to your daughter, when she's about to marry?
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this is a video that none of us wanted but needed.
So true
Indeed
Indeed
None uf us? Nah speak for yourself cuz i was waiting for such a video
This is the advice I wanted like 8 years ago aside from the nonsense I received
During the last Ramadhan, I've been focusing my pray around marriage and now I'm watching this. Alhamdulillah 🤲🏼
@Fatim Zahrax aamiin ya rahman 🤲🏼😊
@john doe May Allah forgive you
@john doe if you bleed at that place, you might need to get it checked out
@@johndoe-xn1zr You were trustable at first but then nevermind, may He guide you
Marriage should be considered as an act of worship so as to protect the cohesion of the family.
May Allah be with us.🤲
Thank you. If only all Muslims knew this. Even Scandinavian countries knew how family is the most important unit in a society. That's why their governments protect families in their policies (such as subsidising daycare heavily and allowing mothers to bring their infants to work) to keep their societies' cohesion intact.
@@nadiajr1500 You are so welcome sister.For sure,the bond of the family is very precious in Islam,both of Quran and Sunah talked about the matter.
May Allah guide us to practice the teachings of Islam so as to live a stable life with our loved ones.🤲
Stay safe and sound my sister and I wish you all the best.
Thanks for dropping by.
@@bouchraandyourlordisneverf3789
Thank you for the well wishes. Same to you. Wassalam.
amiin
SubhanAllah, the beauty of Islam is limitless.
If only Muslims followed Islam.
5 stages of marriage;
1. In love stage
2. Honeymoon stage
3. Conflict stage
4. Pull up stage
5. Autopilot stage
What is this?😮
Me and my partner have been together before we’ve practiced Islam, we live together and when we decided to both practice Islam and get closer to allah, we decided to give up our relationship but we’re still “together” but not together, we’re both keeping our distance and started working more (as specially him since he’s been looking for a job but it’s been difficult) in order for us to have a halal relationship/marriage, I’m Kurdish, he’s Nigerian, he’s so humble and he loves and fears allah, only problem is my mum isn’t happy about us because she doesn’t like the fact that he’s black, my dad and brother are happy with him, but my mum is hesitant when I mentioned that I like him and I want to marry him in the future when allah SWT inshallah allows it
Inshallah you two get together
May Allah make it easy for you two 🤍
It's not up to your mother to choose and decide for you whom you'll marry. As long as your father (given that he's a Muslim) is accepting of him, you're good.
It's not easy but Allah could do everything, so be patient, and inshallah your Mother change her way to think ❤❤❤
I have a similar situation I met my boyfriend when I was Christian. I’ve converted to Islam and want to do things the halal way now but since I’m black American and his family is Iraqi they want to pick someone they know. It’s getting really difficult for me mentally. And after many years with the intention to marry he is now saying he’s not sure because we are still in school and he wants to work for a few years and have a good salary before marrying anyone. I want to keep my distance but know that once we start working we can marry eachother. May Allah help us
I was in two minds about re-marrying. Now I’m relieved to know that it is not wajib when you are not ready and when you don’t have someone you can accept his appearance, financial/ social/ mental compatibility and Deen. Excellent teaching video
🌹1.Don't insult (Q49:11)
🌹2.Speak kindly (Q2:83)
🌹3.Speak gently (Q17:28)
🌹4.Don't backbite (Q49:12)
🌹5.Speak the Truth (Q3:17)
🌹6.Keep your oaths (Q5:89)
🌹7.Do not be arrogant (Q7:13)
🌹8.Restrain your anger (Q3:134)
🌹9.Think good of others (Q24:12)
🌹10.Don't be rude to parents (Q17:23)
🌹11.Don't make fun of others (Q49:11)
🌹12.Turn away from ill speech (Q23:3)
🌹13.Walk in a humble manner (Q25:63)
🌹14.Keep your trusts & promises (Q23:8)
🌹15.Don't claim yourself to be pure (Q53:32)
🌹16.Do not even approach adultery (Q17:32)
🌹17.Don't call others with bad names (Q49:11)
🌹18.Remember Allah and be thankful (Q2:152)
🌹19.Speak nicely, even to the ignorant (Q25:63)
🌹20.Don't ask for repayment for favours (Q76:9)
🌹21.If enemy wants peace, then accept it (Q8:61)
🌹22.Salute the Prophet (saw), do salawats (Q33:56)
🌹23.Call ˹all˺ people to the pilgrimage (hajj) (Q22:27)
🌹24.Give charity /spend (in the way of Allah) (Q2:254)
🌹25.Don’t criticize small donation/charity of others (9:79)
🌹26.Be mindful of Allah and be with the truthful (Q9:119)
🌹27.Do not consume one another’s wealth unjustly (Q2:188)
🌹28.Stand firm for justice even if it is against yourselves(Q4:135)
🌹29.Don't remind others of the favours you done to them (Q2:264)
🌹30.Return a greeting in a better manner or at least the same (Q4:86)
🌹31.Do not be excessive, extravagant, don't spend wastefully (Q17:26)
🌹32 Life of this world is no more than the delusion of enjoyment (Q3:185)
🌹33.Performing prayers (salat/namaz) is a duty on the believers (Q4:103)
🌹34.Turn away from trash talk like gossip, slandering people etc.(Q28:55)
🌹35.Fasting is prescribed for you-as it was for those before you (Q2:183)
🌹36.Don't Bribe authorities in order to devour a portion of others’ property(Q2:188)
🌹37.Establish prayer (salat/namaz) and donate from what was provided (Q8:3)
🌹38.Establish prayer (salat/namaz) and donate from what was provided (Q14:31)
🌹39.Establish prayer (salat/namaz), pay alms-tax, and bow down with those who bow down (Q2:43)
🌹🕋40.Know that this worldly life is no more than play, amusement, luxury, mutual boasting, and competition in wealth and children.(Q57:20)🕋🌹
Mashallah sister. You seem to have a lot of knowledge . I also try to keep up with the Islamic knowledge every day ❤
This short form of Qur'an is the reason for many stupidity going around with the Muslim world. God doesn't care if you insult people and being rude to others. Allah just doesn't want people to commit fitnah.
I am very surprised, but I find these advices actually useful for modern, non-religious dating (especially the part with asking other people for opinion).
Sister Islam is a very practical guidance even for today, I am new to Islam but this is one of the main things that made me accept it in my heart
@@EUU100 facts.
Yes, indeed it's! 🤩 Islam is like a friend, like a therapist, like a teacher and anything you want it to be, Qur'an is where your heart can be reassured and directly talking to you! Salah is where you talk with your Lord and he hears you even when you're too sensitive to pray and can't help but crying he's still hearing you... Islam is such a relief, it puts people in order alhamdullilah also Allah blesses the saddened heart if you just realise what have you been ordered to do is just makes you live, feel and think better subhanallah ❤
I am in my 11th year of marriage(10 years and 5months ) and the last five months was the most testing time for me. And this video solved my problem just like that in 21 minutes. Alhamdulilaah ( the most helpful, hopeful, reassuring video i have ever seen on this topic) the other marriage problem related videos have made me sader than i was at the time of listening. they added my heartbreak into more heartbreaks.
jazakumul Allahu khayran for your clear explanation made me see my faults and their solutions.
May Allah make your hardships easy for you and I’m glad this video helped
💕
@@Mome_ oh Ameen yaa Allah for all of us, Jazaki Allahu khayran 💖
MASHA ALLAH, Indeed ALLAH help his beloved ones, by seeking and praying for Khair with Sabr
that list of haram to wajib marriages is very interesting. I wish i learned that in school. Jazakum Allah kheir
Our Lord! Bless us with pious spouses and offspring, who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous🤲
Ameen
Ameen🤲
Ameen
ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين إماما ❤
امين
امين
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said "Whoever fasts Ramadan and then follows it with six days of Shawwal will be (rewarded) as if he had fasted the entire year."
🌺Don't forget to fast six days in Shawwal 🌺
I have my wife and until I have my six childrens 3sons plus 3doughters.i never saw such a nice Person like this explaining everything regarding marital affairs.Jaza Ka Allah.
Respect from Pakistan.
May Allah bless you with 6 righteous kids as you wish. Alhamdulillah I have six. 4 boys and 2 girls.
Mashallah he truly explained everything in a short lecture
@@saida817 Assalamalaikum write Allah in capital Ma sha Allah JazakhAllah SubhanAllah In sha Allah and Allah knows bestThe phrase consists of three words:
MA ما an inquisitive preposition; WHAT
SHA’ شاء a past tense verb; WILLED
ALLAH الله Arabic name of God
MA SHA’ ALLAH = WHAT GOD WILLED
Also it is used as an expression for anticipated future ie. WHAT GOD WILLS.
@@nasraqaali7050 thank you brother.
@@nasraqaali7050 thank you sister.i guess you are six kids,s mother.
This is some high quality Islamic content that should be go viral
I prayed for so long and every single day almost. My prayers been excepted and Allah brought m to this video Mashallah. Alhamdulillah for everything ❤
From 2 days I am having dream of my marriage and now this video.Ya Allah is this the sign. Sub-hanAllah
@Hocine Houssem Aameen
youngsters always dream about marriage, dont read too much into dreams its just harmones. Just go ahead and get married...
@@statetechguru4804 yes you are right I am 26 yo and I think I am still young.
It might be the algorithms man
@@danaayesh1926 it was notification
Religion begins in the heart. It's more than physique. Masha Allah!
Thank you, Towards Eternity for this interview. This is the best advice about the topic that I've discovered so far. Can you please invite him for other videos, such as how to have a lasting marriage? I believe many people would appreciate it.
This is our deen, absolutly beautiful and the sheikh is so amazing, May Allah bless him. a young Muslim here trying to get better, I ask from my brothers and sisters to do Dua for me that Allah grant me a pious and a beautiful wife.
MashaAllah, such beautiful and meaningful advices all with reference to hadis and ayats. I'm currently 24 and unfortunately divorced and the part where you mentioned that there are 5 stages I really cried cause even though we both were really good people, it was a marriage my family convinced me to do it and in the 4th stage I was the only one trying to solve and find solutions to the problems while fighting where as he was only arguing, saying sorry but wanting me to back off and come back and follow him instead. I felt like I had no voice and he wouldn't make ne understand or understand me at all but just say sorry like a robot (being 12 years elder than me). I know asking for Khula was the last resort I had and I do feel terrible sometimes.
But InshaAllah I'll pray to find someone as you mentioned, who fits me in all 3 criteria just like I'll be for him and that we both follow the 5 stages of marriage together. Aameen!
May Allah find the better husband for you sister, aamiin
I am going to get married ingshaAllah and i got some important questions answered alhamdulillah.
Masha Allah the way this brother is a loving husband subhan Allah and loving his beautiful wife Masha Allah .
May Allah SWT makes all our childrens to learn from this brother and bring BARAKAT , NOOR , HAPPINESS to every marriage couples , our children’s who are getting married in future and every ummah house ameen 🤲🏼
May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤
Aameen summa Aameen ❤
Excellent conversation on love, dating, marriage in Islam..
اللهم لما أنزلت إلينا من خير فقير 🤲
ربنا هب لنا من ازوجنا وذريٰتنا قرت اعين واجعلنا للمتقين اماما
Ya Allah I needed this video to share with others who are not willing to listen to me when I talk about ruling of marriage. Now I can just share the link. I cannot thank you enough for this. Jazakumullahu khairan fidduniya wal aakhirah ❤
A person said "(Allahuakbar)" later he said "(Subhanallah)" and after that he said "(Alhamdulillah)'' he again said "(Allahummagfirli)" he also said (la ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin) in this he earned many many good deeds and that person is you
Alhamdulillah I came across this video at the right time. The answers I’ve been searching for. Jazzakallahu khairan
I'm a man, but I can only cry when imam explains how Rasulullah saw & the sahaba works towards their marriage & advises their children.
I know I have many weaknesses, but I also know I've tried & have always, always, always longed for an Islamic dating & marriage.
Maybe my longing is to find someone that have that longing to uphold the deen, even when we're not perfect like other fully practicing families.
Please make du'a for me for I don't know who's du'as will be answered by Allah SWT. Jazakallahu khayran kathira... May Allah SWT reward you greatly & in abundance.
I hope you find the right person soon. 1 Fatiha from me brother.
inshallah you find that someday
The title of this video very interesting ...
Jazakumullahu khairan ... barakallahu fiik ...
I feel like I need to come back and take notes! TabarakAllah, jazakumullah khairan.
I like everything he said masha'Allah.... Allah bless him and his wife
well done my regards from Morocco 🇲🇦❤️
I think, this is one of the most teachful and smooth video I have ever watched. Ma Sha Allah. May Allah give you best rewards.💐
I don't like being told I am religious. I do love Islam I pray and follow Islam.
the more i learn about islam more beautiful it becomes ❤
subhanallah 💐 it's the religion of Allah
Wow, Thank you for this video!Just what I needed and been looking for. Alhamdulillah, such good advice for those looking for marriage.
In my family, relatives no one can understand english i wants to share this video with them🥺
It's make my day and teach me how to be happy after marriage don't to be scared of marriage ❤ if a person meet me with this mentality i will be definitely want to marry him
MashaAllah! Every youth needs to watch this.
Masha Allah, may Allah reward you all for posting this video, one of the best and a must to watch before marriage.
Masha Allah, I listen to this several times and still currently listening to it. Barakallahu feek usthaz ❤🎉
❤ Beautiful Dua ✅
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامً
“Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.”
[Al-Quran 25: 74]
A beautiful direction this video !! MashaAllah, Jazakumullah khayran 🙏🏽
I'm so happy I came across this video. Because I have been having doubts about this same issue.
Alhamdulilah 🙏
4:05 As a Muslimah, I wanna make clear that just because someone isn't attracted to you, doesn't mean you're unattractive to everyone.
It just means that person isn't created to be with you, so Allah is cancelling/blocking a terrible marriage.
Definitely a blessing, in disguise.
"We have created humans, in the best form".
Surah At tin 95:4
Spitting facts sis Ma shAa Allah
Allahu Akbar this is actually a good comment,jazakhallah khair😊
The best form here doesn't mean beautiful or attractive
. The word in this ayah used for form is taqweem , which has to do with to be able to stand straight
Taqweem here means that we human are made able to change ourselves , better ourselves , improve ourselves in the best way and, that never we are unable to stand back up and upright .
The best advice I have ever had ❤ Thank you so much for the beautiful interview
Subhanallah🥺❤ This is the Best video i have ever watched regarding marriage
Our beloved Shaikh Yahya ❤
Love from Perth ( Australia)
Badly needed this. And it was the exact time for me to listen all about
Wow maasha Allah
Really needed video
Jazakallah for this video 😊
Masha Allah,very informative
We need more content like this
mindblowing ❤May Allah guide us all. Mashallah brother.
Alhamdulillah i've never dated anyone. I'm 18 years old and i'm a girl. I'm only focusing on how to maintain a good relationship with Allah
I'm also 18 years old muslimah dear sister. May Allah guide the young generation to the right path. I'm from Pakistan.
Amazing video most of the necessary topics are included..✨
Masha Allah, Alhamdullilah, JazakumAllahu khayran, we really need this.
May Allah reward you and grant us all a marriage best for us.
GenZ here,
These are the Aspects one wants to looks for in their future Spouse.. and i too have these things priority wise But people around me call it as "High Standard". These are the basic things in marriage but hard to find..
Still Allah Azzawajal made you whom you deserve, just need have sabr and believe, faith on Allah Azzawajal ❤
Wao! Love this video, Barak Allah feek, found it without looking for. Watched at time.
Awesome video.... With some basic answers
Thank you , i needed this.
Baraka Allahou fik
Wow I was struggling with this issue especially today, and suddenly bam here is the video talking about it. Thank you!
oh... this video is basically just Taaruf
Not a single video gave me this much info that I needed the most
May Allah grant u peace
Jazakallahu khiran
Very insightful video indeed.
Jazakallahu khair!
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله تعالى وبركاته
I really liked the video.
Full of priceless germs that I and other Muslim youth should learn and keep in mind when looking for the right spouse.
I REALLY HOPE HAVING A PART 2 FOR THIS.
May Allah bless you.
جزاكم الله خيرا
This was really beautiful and informative to listen to
This was a beautifully curated video. May Allah always bless you Imam Yahya and team✨
these videos are so eye-opening, thank you for this video
We all need this video...... may Allah give us the right person 🙏
LOL asking the question on behalf of the cameraman and asking what if I don't have enough money is crazy! 7:00
Great video overall. Allahumabarik for this Imam.
SubhanAllah Sheikh Yahya made this sound so beautiful and intriguing. May Allah bless him and his wife immensely.
Best Channel i could have ever seen, thanks for this video
Wow thank you so much for such a beautiful educational honest conversation.
I learned new things thanks to you 🙏🏼😊
Such a beautiful video MashaAllah, may Allah protect him and his family, camera man too 💜
And that was a nice lesson sir! Thanks a lot, jazzakoum allaho khayran
This was wonderful! I recently started speaking to a wonderful Muslim man and this helped a lot towards our future together and how to get there.
Nice! Now please offer marriage advice for converts! Thank you 😊
Mashallah! It was amazing conversation,that I needed
Mashallah sheikh yahya we want more videos of this sort it's so helpful for me allahumma barik
such a valuable video with so many important messages
That's the best video I've ever watched about marriage, so nice
Thankuh!!! This video can melt many hearts mashallah
this is absolutely the best episode I've ever watched.
Mashaallah that was lovely to watch. Can't wait to get married and become a good muslim husband. May Allah guide us and make us good husbands, and may Allah give us good wives to marry and take care of. Allahuma Ameen.
Such a sweet person imam yahya mashaAllah
this guy's voice is so calming mashAllah
Such an amazing experience watching it
Jazak allah for the knowledge 😇
Really beautiful message Jazakumullahu khaira
SubhanAllah! Beautiful video
Wish I could give a thousand more likes to this video. It was an excellent video. Thank you, and may ALLAH(SWT) bless you, Brother Yahya!
Prophet Muhammad (SAW/PBUH) said: "In 3 situations, if you pray dua, it will definitely be accepted:
1) When your body starts shaking.
2) When you got fear in your heart.
3) When you got tears in your eyes.
The Prophet (PBUH) also said:
"Whoever shares this knowledge, he will have a house in front of me in Jannah... ( Al-Bukhari )
Ma sha allah....much needed 💗💗
Very Good Video! Allahumma Barik🙌
This was very informative, thank you.
Thanks for sharing knowledge on much needed topic❤
Soo informative and useful❤
i needed to hear that. thank you
Such a good video with so many PRACTICAL tips and advises. This is the kind of advise we need more and more. Clear and practical. Jazakumullahu khairan ustad Yahya… May Allah swt shower His blessings on you and your family, Ameen…🤲✨
30s and not marry yet but after this i think i will push a little bit to find the one
Allahu Akbar.
The way their marriage was held was full of Barakah.
Maa shaa Allah
Deep Meaningful Conversation
May Allah gives Goodness to your Good Intentions & Efforts.
❤❤ 😊