How Can We Get Married Without Flirting? - Tough Questions On Marriage With Omar Suleiman
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00:00 Intro
00:35 Is Omar Suleiman Married?
00:40 Do you think people can get married without flirting in the stay?
04:29 Isn't it a short time to know a person without flirting?
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00:00 Intro
00:35 Is Omar Suleiman Married?
00:40 Do you think people can get married without flirting in the stay?
04:29 Isn't it a short time to know a person without flirting?
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But nowadays people only look into your financial condition not in your practicing deen.I saw people who is righteous but there 1st priority a rich girl.
Ma sha Allah
May Allah bless and protect you and your beautiful family, and may ur knowledge of deen be the inspiring for you to be in great place Akhira and may we follow the good of you deen knowledge
Aameen Ya Rabbi
Beautiful to hear a husband praise his wife for all the right reasons… ya Allah bless every muslim couple this kind of Love and blessings.
Ameen
Ameen.... INSHALLAH Ameen 🤲❤️
They praise u to stay at home and act like a dog
Amen
Amiiiyn
I didn’t date my husband. We met somewhere, he talked to my dad about his intention to marry me. We talked and get to know each other for 5 months before getting married. Never transgress the halal and ahamdulillah we’re happily married now and i never regret anything, alhamdulillah he is the right person and best husband that Allah has sent to me.
Machallh allhuma barik sister
@abdikhalikhussienosman1928 yes exactly. Knowing the boundaries and back to the intention. Barakallaahu fiikum, brother.
@zaidalikhan1444 wa’alaykumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Thanks for the question. First of all, of course i put the standard and qualification according to the syariat before knowing each other. Next, we just do our own things and updated sometimes. Never go out together alone. He several times came to my house where i have my parents or we went out with other family member if we want to talk and get to know each other. Mean while i can figure out his attitude and character. I also ask people from his family and circle what kind of person he is. Last but not least, i ask guidance from Allah. That’s what we did, brother. Barakallaahu fiikum.
SubhanAllah may your life be blessed dear sister and may Allah grant many blessings upon you ❤️
@@yen.a847 jazaakallaahu khayran.. may Allaah bless you in return.. barakallaahu fiikum..
damn, that part about romance being risky before marriage, i've never heard that before, yet it makes the most sense.
Seriously lam amazed ❤
Same here, I look at romance in the western world completely different now. He had a really good point.
Notes. Talk to your potential partner : Deen, character , likes & dislikes, priorities, vision of a family, career. Prioritize religion and character. Make decisions with your proper thinking and use full senses. You can get married without flirting. Avoid being alone physically intimate, or speaking romantically.
Summerized the whole message
Excellent summary.
Mantep kak. Noted
I am Canadian revert and I am married my husband 2 week after meeting him we met only 3 or 4 time with someone beside and it was a blessing...
So glad to hear that! May Allah grant you long healthy life
😮 mashallah 😊❤
I am really impressed by the way he explained this topic very logically and guided the viewers with very beautiful concept and teachings of islam.
what a wonderful message.I'm actually not Muslim but i really agree with your point of view where ppl don't have to be wanted bc of their physical apperance and what actually matters when it comes to marrage
Islam is beauthiful my friend,i hope you become muslim my friend,have a good day/night and take care of you and your family,peace.
Become a muslim friend! :) god is only one 1⃣
@@randmh3643 so happy for you my brother/sister,i hope happinness and peace for you and your family
@@randmh3643 I'm a proud chrstian what i loved is his personal idea which is marriage not else and thank you for your advice
@@mekdelawittariku7211 Brother /sister I would like you to become Muslim how do you see?
In my dream, I wish I can get married with taaruf way. So that why I never do some relationship before married. In sya allah, Allah will guide me to find my future husband. Aamiin
Amiiin
Did you get husband
Not yet
May allah show you a good boy and mercy on u amn
@@ikyamelia15 yes
What led you into Hell Fire?
They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an 74:42-43)
🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers 🌹
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I like what he says " Just because people don't post pictures of there marriage they are not haply married"
this is something private between the husband and wife. I don't have to please other people so they can think I'm happily married, may they don't like to share these photos.
Very true. If someone has a great blessing in their life (i.e. a happy blessed marriage), they'll most likely do everything they can to protect it from the evil eye and to enjoy it privately with all the benefits of Allah's blessings. True happiness is when you enjoy a thing privately and nobody else (that doesn't matter) knows about it. My most happiest times in life were because I kept things very private and limited to my close circle of loved ones. Social media makes it easy to acquire nazr
MasaALLAH brothers. It is very heartwarming seeing how muslim brothers from different parts of the world and different nationalities are so well connected and working together to bring the dawah forward and trying to get the consent of ALLAH swt
Alhumdulillah thank you for posting this! I've been frightened of marriage. Too much damage in my past...too much hurt. I don't want to go through all that again. But I know Allah (SWT) does not like us to remain single. I like the approach explained here. Find someone whose deen is in line with my own and whose iman is strong. JazakAllah to Omar Suleiyman, all his family, and to all my brothers and sisters in Islam!
Wa yaka!
Yes inshallah 👏
Love the last part of the advice. So logical yet heartwarming to hear. Makes total sense.
This is the most I ve seen him smile! Alhamdolillah
I love the way he answered this question
It is very nice to see Imam Omar Suleiman :)
One of my favorite scholars 😊
It is risky to be romantic b4 marriage b/c u then u don't see the flaws in ur partner u want the to be perfect. This line hit my head. 100000% FACT
I’m a living example of this and I can say sheikh is so right. May Allah guide us right
Me also
MashaAllah Jazakallahu Khairan this really helped me a lot thankyou
What a wonderful message from Shaikh Omar Sulaiman. May Allah bless you. You are doing a great job for the Ummah.
Keeping things pravite about your relation is very good and you can save your happily married life from evil eyes
in your life u have to keep things privately there are evil eyes in this not everyone will be happy what u are blessed with
exactly
True
Beautifully explained. Such a realist approach MashAllah
SUCH an important topic! Jazak Allahu khair for posting!
Tysm for sharing these videos. These are very very helpful in clearing our misconceptions. We really need to get educated on these topics. Love your channel. I've learned sm from ur videos. May Allah give you more amd more success
This was very insightful. Thanks so much for sharing.
It was so beautiful and gave me the motivation and revived my faith in Allah
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When I have a crush on someone, I became extremely shy, I can't look, I can't speak, I can't walk in the same direction, I can't think properly, need to calm down but I'm recovering from it and try to talk to myself "Astaghfirullah calm down, be shy but be normal" I'm just a cute cat who keeps running away, but now Alhamdulillah at least I can smile and then leave. Is just a crush but I wasn't sure about taking that person in my life because I want to feel peaceful and happy with my spouse, I'm putting my trust in Allah has a better plan for me because I don't feel about this person is the right for me even though I like this individual.
How old are you sis?
Where are you from?
Are married already to that guy?
MashaAllah may Allah reward you for your insights, yr knowledge and the clear and simple way that you explain everything so beautifully
My husband is a muslim and I am a Christian.But we are doing very well.But this is an eye opening discussion about marriage.Again.Always love to listen the words of Dr Imam Omar Suleiman.
Awak kena masuk Islam juga kalau tidak perkahwinan kamu tidak sah disebabkan berbeza agama..this is important tidak bermain
@@loverfreind4273 muslim men are allowed to marry Christian and Jews
@@loverfreind4273 Not true. Muslim men can marry people of the book, Al Kitab, know your deen akhi.
Study Islam .. inshaallaah u shall accept it
@@1Loveneverendsno muslim men cant marry pls understand christians dont worship Allah so they are not believers they worship jesus so anyone who worships anyone other than Allah are not believers
Mashaa Allah thanks for sharing this powerful message May Allah reward you
Ok a guys family is going to come to see me in few days
And today this is in my recommendation
SubahAllah
It's so beautiful 🥺 a husband is praising his wife MashaALLAH 🥺🤲🏻
May ALLAH grant me and all of us also these kind of happiness Alhamdulillah 🥺 Ameen Allahumma ameen 🥺❤️😭
Ameen
That should not be unexpected.
Masha Allah
That's a beautiful story
May Ya Allah protect and guide your family entirely and us all, Ameen
ماشاءالله
جزاکم الله خیرا و بارک الله فیکم🌹
The way talks about his wife is so beautiful MashaAllah
God bless you and all the mindful people of the right path of Islam
I'm 44 years old, man, and I'm afraid to die alone. The social isolation due to Corona virus affected me too much.... Before I was studying medicine (2018) and need to stop to care my father that was illness, thus I nowadays has my ears the social stereotypes and threatened limited life where when we die at 40 are considered young but if live are considered old. It's sadness, hurt . May Allah bless me and others that are at the same situation to find out a blessed wife. insha'Allah ❣️ From Brazil
Ameeen
Olá, irmão. Sou da Turquia e falo português. A gente tem que saber que o destino já é definido pra todos nós. Só que a gente tem que fazer algo pra encontrá-lo, fazer esforço para ser muçulmanos melhores. O medo de morrer sozinho é normal mas Allah nos vai ajudar inshaAllah. A gente tem que seguir rezando e ter esperança. Um abraço!
Man I feel bad for you. The covid 19 punishment wasn't meant for the Guys but the girls... :/
Find girls from Malaysia and Indonesia.
The other day I heard a story of a woman who got married in her 70s -i think- , to the love of her life mashaallah! Allah will give you whatever you ask him for.
Such great advice I hope a lot of signals hear this before getting married ❤ In Sha Allah 🤲🏼
*Singles
Beautiful explanation, hope i’ll have chance to knowing someone with this kind of way
I am amazed by the way he explained this topic and all the praiser to his wife, MasAllah!
Unbeleivably pleasant to hear from such wise people, Masha'a Allah!
Thanks for subtitles! Keep going!
May Allah (سبحانه و تعالى) guide Dr. Omar Suleiman. Ameen!
Surprising to see a heartwarming comment from you regarding him. And Ameen to your duas
Thank you soo much for posting this video. We liked it.
Thank you for your work! May Allah be pleased with you!
Alhamdulillah
May Allah bless us with good spouse 🙌
Such a wholesome video Mashallah!
Masha ALLAH
Alhamdulillah.
May Allah SWT bless your marriage
Thank you for this video. It helps me a lot ☺️
True. May Allah help us in these critical matters.
Lets share rewards ✨
1. SubhanAllah
2. Alhamdulillah
3. La ilaha illaAllah
4. Allahu Akbar
5. Astagfirullah wa'atubu ilaihi
6. SubhanAllahi wabi Hamdihi
SubhanAllahil Adheem
it's only going to take a few seconds!
Please recite!
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The part of your judgement getting clouded is on point
MashaAllah tabarakallah that is very very beautiful n helpful conversation. Very important things to keep remember before starting a relationship.
Such a beautiful advice❣️
This is what I searching for, thank you
Jazakallah khair to the channel for bringing this topic up.....Allah has blessed Shaykh Omar Suleiman with such wisdom Ma shaa Allah. May Allah bless him more. Aameen.
I Hope that everyone gets to see this before getting married and eventually benefit from these wise words. In shaa Allah.
Maa'sha'Allah 🌹 Allah bless u & ur abode as well all couples Ameen 🤲
Very straight to the point and clear 6/10
Asalamualaikum wallahumatullahi wabarakat.Waiting patiently for a Muslim righteous man.may Allah bless all of us. Inshaa Allah
Barokallohu fiikum from Indonesia 🇲🇨🇵🇸
Alhamdulillah ✨. ALLAH bless your your family. Also ALLAH bless us to grant us righteous spouse so that we can get closer to ALLAH. ALHAMDULILLAH ✨. ing shaa ALLAH
Very beautifully explained video!❤
His explanations are everything said I needed to hear.
Macha alah
Thank you brother Omar.. I admire you, you are wise and calm and humorous. I like listening to your good words. Allah give u success!”
That is sooo true!
I never never thought I was going to get married quickly
Until I decided to do it with good intentions for Allah and stop wasting time.
I don’t regret.
How dd u do? Wat dd u do?
@@khadujifuad9360
I loved someone a long time ~7 years and I realised he was bad and I didn’t want to marry him anymore. (He had a lot of excuses etc). I stopped praying for a while maybe one year and I used to have more and more sayi’at subhanallah… things I never thought would happen to me. I never felt good until I started to pray again and stop staying with girls that have no deen because they don’t even care about what’s right and what’s wrong. I focused on myself and I asked Allah sincerely to find a way to escape from people (even my very strict father) who make me feel bad but in the right way.
A few days later I met a revert man, I could notice he has fear of Allah, he was better than me. I told myself this is a sign. The second time I saw him was at home with my family even when I didn’t decide if I accept him or not. That was his will, to be completely honest in front of my father.
He came every day for one month with a new gift and he used to give me so much attention… I woke up one day and I made istikharah, I told myself he has deen and akhlaq and looks sure about his decision. What do I want more??
At this time honestly I didn’t care about feelings or love , all I know is that I felt at ease, with someone sincere, who’s ready to do everything for his wife (that’s akhlaq) and he made me feel special and we could speak about deen together, become better together. We spoke about all of it.
I woke up one month later I told my mum I want him to be my husband and she didn’t believe, one week later a sheikh married us, one month later we did it officially and That’s it.
If you are with someone who listens, who apologizes, and RESPECT you, has fear of Allah, it’ll be a good marriage my sister. Maybe the best thing to do is to prepare all the important questions, Allah will show you if he’s sincere or not.
@@tasnimqurashi1245
What is his nationality/ ethnicity?
@@alisonelaa6742 he’s from Chili and Iraq. He’s a revert. We’re both Swiss too.
@@tasnimqurashi1245 You talk only about yourself how you met him, like how he was kind to you , how he has akhlak, how he gave you a gift every time he visited you.
But what about you? What did you do? Did you benefit him too? Because you only talk about yourself how you benefited from him.
1:37 honestly this is amazing,I hope to be like this one day in sha allah
Alhamdulillah I am a proud Muslim 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Maa'sha'Allah 🌹 JzkAllah Khair 🌹
very short but very useful you`re the best
What a beautiful answer Mashallah
I wished that many brothers and sisters would think and act the way our prophet (pbuh) told us to do.
Unfortunately, they dont...
write peace be upon him
@@sadqyyarasoolallah6300 they did. pbuh = peace be upon him
@@ShipMyPants ? who did
Sad truth
May Allah SWT strengthen our iman. Aamiin.
Masha Allah
Thank you
Jazakallahu khair
This guy is so chill
Am impressed the way he praise his wife maashallah 🎉😊may Allah bless all of us with good husband ❤
Ameen
Jazakallahu Khairan
May Allah grant you all good spouses, including my own children. And may Allah make you blessing for each other in this world and hereafter. Ameen
Ameen.
Mashaallah,,so nice Islamic rules 😊
Beautifully said
Subhanallah Allah is the wisest I just reflected why Allah would want us not to flirt and get emotional before marriage because it will lead to not see any flaws of your partner and end up surprised at the d which is the leading cause of a lot of divorces nowadays mas sha Allah
what a great answer, thank you for create this video
Jazakallohu khoyron.
May Allah bless your family 😢 immensely sheikh
May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤
Aameen summa Aameen ❤
Kheer insha allah 🙏🏻✨
الحمد لله الحمد الله ( ماشاءلله تبارك الله ) الله يوفقك ويوفقك عائلتك
Thank you very much for the video!
JazakAllah Khair
Jazaq Allahukum khairan Shaikh💐💐💐💐💐
We need a longer video with sheikh
Thank you. Greetings
Perfectly said 👏
This video came in perfect timing where I am just tasked to write my marriage CV. Masha Allah 😀✨
Best of luck 😅
Marriage CV? I’ve never heard of this how does it work? Where do you post it?
@@shariqusoof5649 it's common to prepare Marriage CV/biodata in Pak/Indian/Bangla Muslims.... you send it to the other party directly or indirectly... or you post on marriage related whatsapp/Facebook groups....
@@statetechguru4804 yikes, I'd feel uncomfortable doing that.
Its making marriage too formal and transactional
@@Emsyaz I think its the best thing.... when you talk and ask the Girl or a Guy stuff like what does your dad do ? or whats girl's height, age, qualifications, job ? family background ? most often they lie or give vague responses.... they try to cat fish if you dont make it formal... it has to be formal, it has to be written, factual information you would be accountable for so people will write the truth... I think you are in a LaLa Land, you would end marrying a person who is only pretty on the outside (sometimes even that is not the case with all the makeup, they would deceive you in broad day light)...
Mashallah , thank you .
Thank You, educating talk 🙏👍
Indeed is a great Risk...thank you.
Salaam FROM LONDON SUBHANALLAH MAY YOU ALLWAYS BE BLESSED AMEEN.
May Allah protect your family
Jazakhallah khair
جزاك الله خير