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MashaAllah sister !!!!
Mashallah
Allahumma barik aameen
MashaAllah sister
Either 'arranged introduction' or 'love marriages' ,May Allah grant our youths grace to marry the right person who will help them in their deen🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
Aameen
Ameen thumma Ameen 🤲🙏
May Allah grant us the righteous and pious spouse 🤲🙏❤
Aameen 🤲🏻
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I’m super stressed right now walahi 😢😂as a lady it’s super hard to make decisions without being judged for it
My family wants me to marry a guy that I don’t like, I don’t know why I don’t like him 😢😢I can’t see Myself marrying him walahi
If you come across this comment pls make dua for me I really do it prayers 😊
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Tell them , you have to want to marry him, make Dua and Istikhara, ask Allah to guide you, Istikhara is done not before sleep, no need to dream, shaytan comes in dreams, trust your instinct it never lies!!
listen for your heart !
@@Mdua80well said brother Ma sha Allah
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A arranged meeting/marriage sounds really interesting and appealing for me. For whom meeting and dating woman is really difficult.
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The One Who Say
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May The Almighty Allah(swt) make it easy for us and grant to us to get married in a good/righteous spouses and to have offsprings who will be the coolness of our eyes,heart and soul. Ya Mujib accept our dua’s.
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I love a girl, please keep me in your prayers. I want a Hilal relationship. But her parents are not interested in me 😢😢😢😢. Please remember in your prayers. As it's stated if you like a woman marry her. But due to sect 😢😢😢😢😢
Allah will surely give you what's best for just keep on praying to Allah
Agree , pray and stay strong!!
Dear brother/sister 😢may ALLAH blessed you Ameen don't worry
Aameen 🤲🏻
Whatever the marriage it is! Stay happily with that partner. But i always prefer love marriage because of both know each other is a great thing. But the parents is not agreed to marry the person whome loves you most we cant do anything. But dont lose the hope in 'Allah'. Pray, cry to him for the person whose love you. Allah will give you oneday. In sha allah🙂
Rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata aayun wa ja’alna lil muttaqeena imama.
Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer.
I have long wanted to hear something like this. ❤
Keep making duas for all oppressed
Yes ,they have to be satisfied each other,its long journey
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Some time I relate everything Mufti menk say is according to my situation
Regarding marriage I feel like I am in such a horribly awkward situation.
I am so confused on this topic man
Write your question here
Finest video on marriage.
Would love to view the full episode
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Just follow the Qur'an and sunnah you can't go wrong 👍 now free Palestine
Its so bad that i cant even share this video with them
Asalaamu aleykum sometimes don’t say no to your parents without knowing the person he can be the one give a chance
Back in the old days during my grandparents time line people used to do parents decision arrange marriage. Then in 80S-90s era people used to do love marrage.. This era its all about money status people dont fall for love anymore. People look at how much you earn.if you have money$$$ status anyone can marry you will find the best proposal.
I was going to get married to a guy who already paid my dowry but unfortunately his parents arranged a family marriage for with another girl and he was forced to marry her and since then which is 3yrs now I haven’t found a man yet and I don’t know why but Allah knows everything hmmm
Insha Allah very soon Allah will bless you with a pious husband
Thanks dear I have hope in Allah
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Sir you mistakenly wrote mutfi in title
Didn't you hear him talking about Palestine?
@@whysthat123yes I did so what
😒there was no need for what you said.
Focusing on the content of the video should be the main aim. Not nitpicking spelling errors
@@mdrumaan9123 manners, or get lost.
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I agree family should listen to their children but what if the family is right, are the children ready to listen?....
Mashallah tabarakallah
He never married her but has a daughter from my ex- wife I’m lucky to be alive he was in love with her I’m in a wheelchair because of his actions…
Bismillah subhanallah Alhamdulillah La ilaha illallah Allah Hu Akbar
Plz pray for me that i get a guy who is made for me ,and it should be gud for me,
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Assalamualaikum Mufti ... Can you please explain this in Hindi I wanna share this with my relatives and friends their parents and all they are doing soo wrong 😢
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SubhanAllah SubhanAllah SubhanAllah
But in most of the cases family takes a good decision. Bcz our family member have a good experience and knows our qualities and weakneses. So, they try to findOne by whom our qualities matches. In Arranges Marriage both bride and groom respect each others rather than love Marriage couple. And especially these days you cant find a true love. So chill guys family matters alot dont loose your family just bcz of the person you met few days ago.
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Please upload it in urdu my parents don't understand english😭
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It's a silly question, always "it depends".
I think arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Thanks!
Assalaamu alaykoum wa rahmati Allah wa barakatuh love marriage is preferred the most the most women wouldn't marry a man that they don't want or love for several reasons they don't agree of what family presents for them they emotionally shuts down or have eating disorder staying in their rooms/ homes all day or walks away to other places but when she does love she is flourishing she is happy all day talks more and takes most of her mother and have an attitude of responsibility at start even for some men in different situations it depends on their background or culture but this is a beautiful dua's for the one whom want to marry in the night prayer tadharo'an/in supplications with pure intentions 1. inni li ma anzalta ilaya min khairin faqeer 2. Allahoumma Hablana min azwadjina wa dourriyatina qurat ayoun wa dja'alna li muttaqeena imama these supplications are in the quran ameen ameen ameen ya Rabb Al'Alameen and by the way in the dua connect e-book pdf. of mufti menk from muslim central i recommended it very much ma sha Allah tabaaraka Allah Arrahmaan so many dua over there top and many more love it Alhamdoullilah wa soukroulillah
Subhan Allah
I have a question:If someone's marriage is fixed with someone in a few months(by the will of parents) can she message the person to get to know about him??
Like it does come in totally halal courtship right?
Because if it is completely arranged(forced) it will be a problem
@mufti menk please reply
Sister it's better to avoid speaking with each other before marriage
You can meet and talk in person WITH the attendance of a Mahram. It’s better to avoid messaging because that would be khalwa and shaitan will be the third of you
Can someone give me calculation of this video please because my English is not so mugh fluent ❤❤
I wanna discuss marriage problem, but dont know how can i connect you Mufti sb? I wish i can discuss with you for your suggestion for my satisfaction. Please response so that i can connect you
Parents choose for us and if we deny they tell us we know nothing they dont allow us to choose what we want only them can choose for us plz I need to know if this is right.
And why if we try to choose for ourself they are wishing us bad thing abt our choices.
But the problem is a girl can't like someone and can't propose him and can't able to tell her family members.
Ameen 🤲
Mufti i've a question regarding the status of Kabah and Grave of the prophet Muhammad which has higher status do clear please..
and i've also read that the Grave of the prophet is even better than Arsh Kf Allah ...please clear me ?
Bro it's really such a vegue n absurd question. However the holy KABA is house of Allah SWT then how the grave of prophet Mohammed(PBUH) can have a higher status
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Done ✅
How to send this to my parents without sending .🙂
Send the video to them but say it was sent in error😅
@@universeandbeyond3576will they see it then or ignore it?
@@universeandbeyond3576 great idea JazakAllah
Save your freind's number in your parents phone and tell your freind to keep a status so that your parents can watch it.
What if they say they have fallen for a girl from out of the religion. And our children know which non Muslims they can married to. So do you say ok for that
No marriage!!!
So while my friend was ,in her hostel her family back home fixed her marriage without ,her knowledge witout asking her ,without letting her know , and when she came to know about this after months after completing her studies when she went back to her home, she was told by her father that he has already promised and can't backtrack.
And the worst part for her is that already likes someone else and this someone also likes her and both wanted to get married.
But now her family is forcing her to get married to the person her father promised , in the name of family honour.
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But as a pushtun we marry a guy we never met and see him on day of nikkah or after going to his house (ruqsati)
During my Nani and dadi times this used to happen
How do you married someone who don't know well. even i'm to also a muslim 😅😂
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Arrange marriage is better ❤
Arrange or love it doesn't matter for
women they need money only, My wife had prayed all prayers, completed Qur'an last ramdhan and never skipped Burka but she ran away with some one, this is true Muslims where leading, even i take care of her like small baby and giving her and provide daily needs and gives pocket money for saving and taking her for her mother home daily and all where she wanted I loved her 16years but she not have fear of Allah and I had gone islamic court I have seen my self 150 khulas per months and majority of girls is only demanding money which Mufti Sab told they only marry for money , prostitutes are better than them at least have loyalty for the money ( but it's haram) just for example but still many do like this but women who no non Muslim converted to Islam are very Truth and loyal to there husbands...but isn Muslims mom's they're daughters are destroying marriages , if honey have money she will go there even how many time she married without qula or talak haram relationships
A boy can marry uneducated girl or poor girl but can a girl marry poor boy or deen boy or uneducated boy prove me wrong .....if you can..
This is all emotional, this is your test in life so take it like a man! Can't blame every woman or man for this , my marriage isn't perfect it is what it is !!! Hasbi Allah Wa Ni-Am Al Wakil
You should be more worried about what the Hindutwas are doing
Better be single and happy than married and miserable!!!
In Pakistan Back in the old days during my grandparents time line people used to do parents decision arrange marriage. Then in 80S-90s era people used to do love marrage girlsor boy run away from homes get married. This era its all about money status people dont fall for love run away from home anymore. People look at how much you earn.if you have money$$$ status anyone can marry you will find the best proposal. 4 years a go i was traveling to Pakistan in the Airport of Pakistan I saw the ugliest man he was quite wealthy rich he was with beautiful women she was yonge..I was like on what on earth she accepted him to marry him. Ofcourse she had no option to marry him becuase of money.
What is that small screen pop on to the screen??
This is for deaf people's because they cant listen mufti so this person is helping deaf so they can also understand what mufti has spoking.😊
@@GulMohammad43 MASHALLAH WoW 👏
AOA, I am from Pakistan living in America for job.
Dear Mufti SB, Its my innermost desire to discuss my marriage problem with you. Your suggestion will be helpful for me.
I know a person whom I find best upto now in every matter of dealing with me. I wanna marry him.
His father is Shia, he said " I am not Shia but sunni". I never saw any activity as he is forgeiner. He said you can bring me to anyone for your satisfaction for bait like stuff. He is also living in abroad but his family is living in Pakistan. I even saw him during offering prayer and listen his Quran. He said I can do what you want regarding every matter by religion point if I am wrong you can suggest me the right direction.
Please suggest me what is the best possibility for getting marry to convince my parents.
Is it fine to get marry to that person? I offered istikhara and my heart is even satisfied for him. However, I wanna know your point. Please respond me.
I am in extreme tension.
Please for God sake, don't ignore my comment. Many prayers for you.
I am watching from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇵🇸
That's exactly what happened to me
After years my ex said to me I only married you just for my father, to make him happy 😢
Oh I'm sorry. I hope you moved on.
Don't make any girl life hell for you father happinesse
How nonsense or selfish he is ??😢
@@SayadaBano-uq9koexactly
They say that anyway. It means nothing. Anyone can say anything even made up.
Arranged marriage is indeed a favorable option when considering the many benefits it brings. However, it is important to acknowledge that there may be challenges to overcome in the process
My parents also force me to arrange marriage
I’m so sorry...
Forcing someone to get married against there will is haraam in Islam. I know we live in a judged society where some parents follow culture instead of religion. You must tell them whether you would like to get married or not. I would suggest you to say it now to avoid any future problems!
Run away if you're old enough and are independent
Indian family don't allow love marriages at all😢
In the case of jihad or war even pork is hallal n some months ago all of u planned us secrecy n elope just joking
Not interested I’m being mobbed by cults
Dtfl you called him out on a mistake
Oops I cursed got to goooo
Maybe or maybe not, both ways can lead to end of staying together. I would suggest to skip it, rather travel the world or do anything that you find peace in.
Best marriage=No marriage
This mufti can eat thousands of Mufti from Bangladesh ( in case of Islamic knowledge)
I never met and chatted with her and had arranged marriage based on positive comments from relatives but now I advise every single youth please don't do this the mistake I did
May Allah bless you guide and protect you