3 Ways Women "Test" Men (How to Eliminate "Nice Guy" Mistakes)
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Did you know that you're constantly being "tested" by women? From the minute you start talking to an attractive woman she begins doing and saying things to test a man.
How you respond to these "tests" tell her whether or not to be attracted to you. How can you pass? Learn to how to recognize when you're being tested, and how to make sure you pass.
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I used to care about "passing such tests", nowadays I could easily give two shites about it. It's completely irrelevant to me to prove myself to any woman.
And now they value you.
Yea, and not that you don't give AF.. girls are probably more attracted to you.
Anyone who can't pull girls should hit up UnbreakableConfidence, com..
Those books are good. It's all about mindset.
This is what I was thinking while watching the video... If I learn to pass the test then I would have trained well myself in not being my true self... Like trying to stitch a cloth with scissors...!
theyre not expecting you to prove yourself but from you to dismantle them and take them instead
I stopped begging women for dates after I turned 21. Never looked back. Most aren't worth it anyway, even if you pass their BS "tests" that prove nothing.
I'm 54 years old and not into the junior high games.
and also single
I could have really done with you about 20 years ago. I love listening to this stuff and replaying past relationships. Stuff that's bugged for years suddenly makes perfect sense. Outstanding stuff Bobby.
thanks, yea, i wish i knew this stuff 20 years ago too. I had to learn it the hard way.
I’m having flashbacks of my cringy moments!
haha I still flash back to some of my worst fails
Bobby Rio thank god I thought I was the only one haha thank you for the advice!
@@BobbyRio we all had such moments....
So then change your taste and let's have a happier future with someone better
Reply to, "I am not going to hook up with you." = Thanks, I appreciate that, I really like you and I would love to learn more about you but I was not ready to move to that stage either.
After that, completely ignore her until she shows a significant effort to get back on your good side.
Just having beautiful woman all ready.. it's the attractiveness magnet for other women..
I honestly don't wanna go jumping through any ridiculous hoops and hurdles just so women like me. So I'm just gonna choose to remain single for the rest of my life. It's way easier.
This is such helpful information for me... Thank you!
Friendzone her, fellas. Tell her that she's not your type, and you just see her as a friend. When she texts you, put the phone in a drawer and don't reply for 4 hours.
That’s way to go 😂😂
Just put it on silent 🤷♂️
He brings up a lot of good points. That said woman are just as different as men. You could be talking to a woman with the same flaws he points out in men. This makes it sound like every woman is the same and only men have different personalities. Again I wouldn’t throw his information away but it works both ways.
Any guy who puts so much of his energy or any energy in to a female is bound for failure. The key is to focus on your purpose, and ignore the chick. She’ll fall head over heels for you after that. A guy needs to always have control of the situation, not her.
Rafael Alvarez you nailed
By the time these abused women cross my path, they carry so damned much baggage, that you have check marks up and down, before they even get to know you. The answers I give to their questions are so unbelievable, they just know you are hiding something, because I don't pound my chest after every inquiry. I have to be careful not to devolve too much, or they look at you like you are nuts. "What things do you like to do?" is a loaded question.
I stump them with a matter of fact reply - I love buying and selling derivatives but don't worry I'm not going to bore you.
Thanks Bobby, great stuff.
Glad you enjoyed it
I picked some wild flowers for my date once and she melted. She married me.
Nice
It's 2021 you show up with flowers and she will judge you negatively for the kind gesture.
_I touched her hand and she had an orgasm. we no longer speak_
Beautiful
@@anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858 your mom doesn't count
"I'm not going to hook up with you" - peace out ✌
"I know, that dress looks terrrible on you" would be my reply.
@@kowthalamsk nah I'll be like, "I'm not hooking with you. Saving for marriage." 😂
then get off my lush green lawn!
*rolls eyes* "Don't flatter yourself, honey, you're not my type."
Watch her chase you.
"Damn right, fatass!!"
I learned so much from you. Thank you for your content, Bobby.
Hey Bobby, avoiding mistakes is cool but being a control-minded player that is not, you can make some mistakes but hey listen, it's the way, when, and how you do them that makes all difference. Considering every single woman, as "woman" gender. That is the first mistake not to do! But your advice are really spot on!
great, concise work Bobby. Bravo!
Don't worry be yourself, if you want to find your soulmate don't pretend to be others.
I never know when I'm getting tested. I don't get girls calling me player or saying she isn't going to sleep with me or any of that shit. Usually I just get treated like shit or like a friend. I never get signs of attraction or at least I don't notice it
That's her testing you to see how you react. If you react in a serious way and get pissed then that shows you care too much. If you say something in a joking way like "wow you sure like to get to the point don't you?" With a smirk or something to show her you're joking then you passed the test. The dating world is not easy. No matter what women you attract you just gotta hold your ground until you find someone that respects you.
You have to show her who is the man and who is the woman, ve nice but not to nice to the point where she is the only person in this planet do t threat her like that, just be cool about everything and let her to do the "im gonna be his gf thing", just never ask her to be your gf or act like that just be yourself and if she cant respect that just find a new one or she will find you
@Josefh why would I want to be with someone that is turned off or whatever by me telling her I like her. What you are suggesting is how people get used. If the woman is always the only one to say or show interest then she usually gets used for sex. If a man does this he gets used for his money or lifestyle. Either way I'm screwed and not in the way I want. I'm really sick of hearing women complain about men liking them. The only reason they complain is because it's not the men they fantasize about. Women truly only want tall, hot, rich men with horse d's. Everything else is mostly secondary to that
@Colten Kelso if the woman is disrespectful to me simply for liking her and wanting to see what happens if we go on one date then she doesn't like me. So no point in wasting my time. Pretty sure men can tell when a woman actually likes you. We see the way they act with certain men and never act that way towards me not hard to tell the difference. This is why I don't waste my time trying anymore. Always leads to disappointment
High quality women test no matter what... high quality men will pass effortlessly AND call her out at the same time.
Good job ty for information
Good insight.
Hey Bobby you should make a Discord, really bring in all the young money
You said it right
As long as I have self confidence, I'm all good.
Watch out women love that! it will cause her do get REAL emotional
On gawd💯
chee bye, waste my time!!!
You don't have to be a "Nice" guy or "Bad" boy. Just be yourself!
LOL, I'm not going to hookup with you tonight. Remember commenting back, "I like the way you have been thinking of me, just not sure if you are adventures enough for me."
Makes sense.
Great video! I’m a 68 yr old dude and l learned these lessons the hard way‼️ Ha‼️ That’s the price of an education 👍
You’re right. Two or so weeks in you get a sharp corner. Be the man!
I want this training.
Just be yourself. Usually relationships don't last bc one or both are fake af in the begining. Then, your @$$ gets left bc you start being you.
Man dude I had this one throw the house and the kitchen sink, I didn’t even do a thing. I got disrespected by another girl and she took her place in protective mother, I took it like a man and walked away. Holy crap!!
0:06 thanks for the shout out
Hey, I agree with pretty much everything you have said in the videos of yours that I have seen so far. I would very much like to know your thoughts on winning an ex girlfriends love back. She likes me a lot and we still see each other as friends. I know what I did badly or very badly; in truthI was a narcissist and had never really experienced true love. Since changing nearly everything about me: physique, narcissism, willingness to take responsibility willingness to make efforts to be with others (rather than expecting everyone to come to me, and even my profession, I have no idea how to win back attraction and love. I t has been a year since she rightly broke up after eight years together. I hope it is possible as I finally understand and feel genuine love for another, her.
From my knowledge of women and I'm 48, here is what you need to do. You have to sexually attract her by flirting with her, then keep her attracted by slowly escalating over time. Women look to men for strength so show her your masculinity in a positive way. If and when she begins to pull away let her go for a bit and don't chase. Try chasing a wild bird, they just keep running, instead reach out to her lovingly and watch her come eat out of your hands. Women MUST be the chasers. Its engrained in them. So let them chase and reward them when they do. That's relationships in a nutshell. Follow these simple principles and you're 75% there.
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True that
Tell her "You live your life, I'll live mine" it blows her mind.
when i wasn't nice to a woman.... she just left
Write it down😂😂😂💪👍
I don't put up with tests.
Tau Noctua you passed
When I realize that I'm being tested, I end it with a huge grin and a loud splatter assed fart. In my 60's now I don't have time for bullshit. I'm embarrassed by the things I used to put up with from women when I was young, dumb, and didn't have cash to burn.
I am a nice guy/person BUT, I can be a prick real quick. BOTH are real.
So, if a female brings the bad part of me out, she doesn’t really appreciate herself AND the drama is fake, unnecessary and b.s.. So, her tests are fake. So, she will NEVER know, that, if she EARNS it, I will put myself in harms way for her. But ONLY if she earns it. Few do.
So, when being tested in the myriad of ways women ‘test’ men, I split. I’ve got better things to do with myself and my life/energy.
High value.
What are the tests and results please show the video
Women dont like us never mind about loving us we are just a stepping stone they are like a fair ride its your turn when you show interest they lose all interest for you.
Also remember to see the brick wall before you hit it . If she is only replying to your texts that you initiate then it means she is 40 to 60 % into you . The cooling off to 30 % interest is rapid when there is one text to your text with half a day delay on a reply and then a ' copy cat style ' questions back from her . Move on at that point but be prepared to move on quickly at 50% interest .
3:12 i never thought about that
do you validate parking
No simpin around these parts
TBH I actually kind of want a stalker girl, if she's reasonably attractive. I never understood how having someone genuinely interested in you was seen as a bad thing. That being said, the shit tests are the worst, you just need to continue on and understand it's a part of attraction.
Nah. I won't be doing that. I'm just gonna stay single for the rest of my life. I don't want to deal with a pain in the ass woman when I already have a stress filled life. No thanks. Not doing any of these bs tests with them. I just have zero patience.
If you are a genuine male you will always have women who follows you and "stalks" you. :)
4:23 I am not going to "hook up" with you tonight.
Oh good, what a relief, I am so glad that's off the table. Now we can enjoy the rest of the evening.
That evening...... we "hooked up".
Bingo.
Whenever they tell you they are not going to.... get ready! Lol
Indifference to sex is the way she will throw herself at you. Be sexy but never push it!
Thank god, so we're splitting the bill then?
-"I'm not going to hook up with you tonight".
-"That's funny, I said the same thing in my mind 3 minutes ago"
BAM
Bruh I registered
I dont think I ever make it past a pull back from her or anything like that. We just quit talking completely everytiime. Everytime, if a woman does that, she just never hears from me. Ive alrady tried the other option. Try and contact her, doesnt really go that well either, so I pick option A. lol
The link to this video is nothing but a soon to be paid tutorial explaining about another paid tutorial telling what you should of learned in the first one .. I think I do well enough .. though it might sharpen my approach but I think I'm good with what I'm about atm.
4:25 .. She says "I'm not gonna hook up with u tonight" I say "What I'd love for us to do is take a walk.. let's go for a walk" n we do, n I talk NOTHING about "us" but about that cute puppy that guy's walking, n ask her if she likes/has a dog, and LISTEN to her.. bring up the the old classic homes n buildings that u guys see n how u like them n ask her if she does too.. and LISTEN to her.. n then after 30min of this kinda talk, you'll know if she opens up to u or not.. if she does, then get a coffee.. but keep walking if u can.. if not, then walk back to her car n say goodbye..
Did you ever do a video on when you are being used or needed for the good reasons
This guy is definitely way too cool for his own good lol
Wow , I get it now. All my past relationships sparked Becuase they got to know the real down to earth me. When focusing and being infatuated with a certain individual i tend to become "Exaggerated" and giving . I learned my lesson tho. But as for the one's that grew to me. I wasn't trying. I was being me , myself. My own humor , my own personality. And just being a good friend ... Like the video didn't exactly tell me anything I haven't heard already. But it made me really sit back and think on what the real reason why I attract what I do not go after. I see now.
Man this is just me before AHAHAH
So. Does she want to be in a relatianship or not?
when i dont get a text FROM ANYBODY after like a while when they dont tell me like "gtg" or "i need to go see ya later" when RPing or something i just text "..." or when rp "...))"
That comes accross as needy. Maybe that's why youbdontbhear from people...lol
“Alllll the SUTTIN”
such a terrible accent lol
It's crazy in the me too shit though. Like a girl says she's not hooking up I'm gone.
I really like your advices bob, those mere tips/hints/semi-advices based from your secret scrambler,pullback,jumping the hoops, etc etc videos.. all of them are so effective in keeping my gfs hooked on me lol.. but i really hate it when u keep on redirecting us on these websites.. why not just post all your videos in your channel and spare us all these hassles?
thanks for the feedback and glad to here its been effective for you. As for why redirecting, well, for this particular one, the link is for a 1.5 hour workshop, and it only plays a few times a week, so posting it in here won't work. Plus, I find youtube is too distracting for people to watch a 1.5 hour video. But maybe at some point I'll consider it. thanks
he couldn't make a living that way, stupid
@@mikejones9961 lol
What I have learned is: If she tests you, you are done, because the guys she hooks up are never tested...
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i would'nt say im cool but the rest do fit me
No matter what u do or don't do...women can't and will not be satisfied 💯...just treat her good but treat yourself great...never trust a woman 💯 never chase a woman 💯 just be yourself if she Stay good if she don't great 💯
Just be yourself guys
8:12 oof that's exactly what I texted, fuck, why they gotta play mind games like this
She's cheating me I know it and I'm starting to ignore her and suddenly she acts like she cares for me .
What should I do
Do what Forest Gump would do!
Living with an incurable disease is so hard, but you just have to live life day by day as it goes by (Cancer sucks)
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Why men in west are so worried to pass the test instead toss a test on her. You also deserve a high value women so let her chase you.
9 minutes of my life lose and after that a fkng link to know what is suppose to explain in this vid... life sucks sometimes
Do you think if you try to to be cool but yet pass her test it doesn’t matter the way you acted cause you pass her test and she feels attracted
What if I work at a hardware store, should i ask her number?
The XX guy ahahahaha good joke.
I am scared of girls so much, I love.to be nice but I get nervous and i am lonely man the rest of my life, so I am quitting to meet girls , goodbye girls forever I don't trust you anymore, farewell😭
Stop it man. Losers quit. Your not that. You will get better with women as time goes on. Players are made not born
To be a nice guy it doesnt makes you fake !
women at times do the same thing she does something wrong to him to her no big deal as long as it’s coming from her but god forbid if he does something wrong it’s the end of the world it’s just fair that he has to not care I don’t care what she thinks and I could care less if she gets uncomfortable around me I don’t want a female to get that conformable around me it gets old when she shows up at my front door all the time and I never invited her over I have structure and I do have a life and don’t have time for bs so I treated her like crap because she was treating me like crap females get needy too and I hate that there is a difference between a need and a want how often does someone need u for ur company I’m alright to talk to but I’m not trying to make friends and if she doesn’t like me that is her problem she might dislike someone for no reason than she found out that she wrong he’s a great guy and sometimes she thought u were cool at first but u turned out to be lame and I don’t care she isn’t what she is all cracked up to be I have lost count of all the chicks I have been there done that with they don’t mean shit to me it’s cool I have more important things to besides play popularity contest if she loves me I don’t care if she doesn’t like me I still don’t care she never like me and I never gave a fuck about her 😂
facts 100%correct
What some shows thatBobby and Jon recommend that have realistic characters that are good at this stuff?
Me: Walks up to a girl at a the bar, “I heard you were looking for a nice guy”
Woman: Who did you hear that from?
Me: A little birdie told me
Woman: Lol uh ok..
Me: Yeah... you don’t see them?? Start swatting in the air as you spin around
Woman: Giggles 🤭 ☺️
Me: What do you think about that guy over there?? Points to an old drunkard
Woman: Nah he’s too old
Me: What about that guy 👉 Points to a computer nerd
Woman: Lol no...
Me: What about this guy 😏👈 points to myself
Woman: Giggles ☺️☺️ and replies “I have a boyfriend”
Me: Thinks to myself, “damn if she didn’t have a boyfriend...” crap.. walks away clueless
Me: I'm having sex with myself later. Asks her, wanna join?
Her having a boyfriend doesn’t matter, I’ve boned many married/in a relationship women.
Dumb you told on yourself clown
Emotional quick sand sounds like what happened to me with my ex
Help!
Let's face it we have to do this and play all their other games because women these days don't want relationships. So we have to play a game to win them over then ignore them so they miss us.
I failed the test of my soulmate maybe better to move on right now
Get to the point man...
@ bruce okumu
He won't!
Pete :")
Lmfao
What's "balassaming..."?
You might get the girl, but you'll never know how many cars have parked in her garage and leaked oil. Get my drift?
Hespekt
Test? I don't take tests. You are either down or you're out.
it's in their gene to test you till the rest of your life... if you don't like the test, you either on short term relationship only, or not dating/marrying them at all... but once you understand their behavior, they're predictable... we just need time to learn
@@holehearted3723 simp
Who in fuck would waste their limited time on this planet behaving as a puppet? Test me? keep on walking. I mean, tests? Give me strength...
Now he wants these same ‘nice guys’ to 💰 to watch the private video
How many times Women caring to guy and future plan pls care your fularting
Tonight... the key word that everyone (even dude in video) does not grasp is that most of the time...it doens not mean she won't tommorow night. ;)
Cut the cap about your programs and give some information
All I care about is beer, Cocaine and flat out gabba techno
Lol what’s hard about I’m not gonna hook up withy oh tonight I’d be like that’s cool wasn’t on my
Mind really want to get to know eachother all that comes
Naturally on time right ?
Seriously you didn't tell what to do when girls test a guy
And u here to give us solution
What a joke
Think about where the girl is coming from. That will give u all the answers .
THEY ALL DO THAT YOUR SHARP EYES AND EARS WILL KEEP YOU SAFER
1.) Keep cool.
2.) Don't text her like crazy. Only text or call to make plans to go out.
3.) Rebuff comments by not reacting, or joking.
Women want to know if you will be able to stand up to them, and for them.
M Jones - And I want to know if they are going to turn that crap off or if I am going to be stuck putting up with the spy vs. spy bullshit forever.
“I’m not gonna hook up with you tonight”
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