5 Ways to Stop Being the "Nice Guy" | "THESE" 5 Traits Eliminate "Nice Guy" Behavior
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Bobby Rio explains how to stop being the "nice guy" women aren't attracted to.
So what can nice guys do to be more attractive to women, to have more success with women, to ultimately stop women from quickly getting bored with them or choosing another guy instead of them? That's what we're going to discuss in today's video.
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So I signed up for the training in December after losing a girl I had been dating for 6 months. I used the lessons and had the girl back in 4 weeks!! Then the nice guy in me started creeping up again and I started thinking, “she is different, she can’t ghost me again…”. Fack! I’m 2 weeks into being ghosted again after getting needy.
Don’t be like me gentlemen. Follow through with everything you learn!
Wh'tsapp him
You've become really good at this. That #1 "Killer Instinct" is a huge piece of advise.
yes yes
I wish I had all this info from Bobby 25 years ago. I was a nice guy for years and put up with all kinds of shit from women. Not anymore. I'm transformed.
GOOD WORK BOBBY
GREAT advise!
Hey Bobby, I must thank you for the Scrambler. Yes, i bought it because i was terrible with girls and was always ignored. Now it's like I'm a magnet and now i seriously need a way to ignore girla without being an A**hole.... I definitely recommend everyone to buy the scrambler... Thanks Bobby...
Great to hear!
Love your content, it really helps ❤😪🙏🙏
How if it ain't accurate
This video cut me deep!!
I felt a lot of those points !!!
GIRLS LIKE NICE GUYS HE DOESNT SPEAK FOR WOMEN
Justfuckoff ok : True that ! this guy throws a blanket over everybody like we’re all the same , I’m a nice guy 54 and single I think having good character good morals and being a gentleman pays off , if the girls don’t like a nice guy and wants a knucklehead then there’re just stupid to me , and most women do think a guy wants to sleep with them if you’re all over them from the beginning because the world is overly sexualized and they put sex first and no relationship or bonding which should come first , sex is a byproduct of a strong relationship that’s what makes the intimacy better when it’s somebody who you really care about not a one night stand.
@@sambell385 You're single at 54 and you're giving us advice about dating? Are you serious?
Afonso de Portugal : Because someone’s single don’t make them ignorant to relationships, we do all live in the same world you can learn by what people say and what people do , by just watching and learning and being aware of human behavior and common sense ,I wasn’t trying to be an expert nobody is really
Good job Bobbie
It may be that self confidence is the most attractive quality in a man. That seems to be the key with women.
Nice one Mr Bobby Rio i learn a lots from this video it really help me to have more courage when talking to a lady.
Glad to hear it
@@BobbyRio Sir how can I create playfulness naturally ?
Fuck off
..... Very, very good!
Yeah, I used to be a big time nice guy. Then i realized girls like and want sex just as much as me. They want to have fun and laugh. I just tell them what I want and it seems to work. I'm not necessarily crude, but sometimes that's fun. I pretend I have Tourette's and say what's on my mind. I went to a counselor a few times because I had anger issues and she told me, "First thought wrong." I was like, "The fuck? That's what gets me laid!".
Say what's on your mind because it's never too soon - except maybe, "I love you." Then, it's almost always too soon.
But you can get turned down having the killer instinct. Been there. Besides being the nice guy.
LOT of information for a short video. In a mine this would be a gold vein.
You have to be good looking, have a good job, have a nice car, great clothes and now you also have to take them to the play ground, make them feel safe, lead, make the first move.... What do they do and contribute?? Lol
Ah ah ah we’re not supposed to ask these questions. Ain’t that some shit man 😅 😂
They give you ass
A man’s biological responsibility is to provide
They contribute their muff. That's it!
Maybe the nice guy who was set up didn't go for it with the woman because he found her revolting, haha. I don't think I have ever wanted to pursue anything with a woman I have been set up with.
it's a nice reminder too b/c even guys w/ a killer instinct, like myself, can actually get lulled into conforming to a nice guy image thinking that's what the girl wants. Side note, it's always funny if I pull that off to hear the girl afterwards in bed say something like, "whoa! I was not expecting that!" lol
This video cut me is like u are talking about me
yea it brought up a lot of my old weaknesses too.
Either the vibe is there or it’s not ! That simple
Except "the vibe" is a matter of skill and comprehension.
Awesome video Bobby. Please do a video on chicks on dating sites getting princess syndrome. I define princess syndrome as a chick that's usually a 4 or 5, getting drunk, fat-horny-guys messaging them, that they're Hot....when they are not. I overcome it by slowly teasing the girl about her defects, showing her i have more value than her. But this might be a good subject for you to cover.
Unfortunately, I have discovered I am a "Nice Guy" after watching this video. Gonna make some changes 👊
Hello Bobby,
Can I post a link to a questionnaire to engage discussants here to complete it for me?
You have to remove the blocks?
Hi Dr. Rio. I am a recovering nice guy.
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, The courage to change the things I can, And the wisdom to know the difference....
You need to interactive them with your life. Ask what do you think
I really hate the way this 'Nice guy' idea is portrayed. It is not a crime to be considerate of womens' feelings and respectful of their boundaries. The 'nice guy' stereotype is has such negative connotations because it is usually associated with men feeling entitled to romance because they show women a modicum of respect. The whole 'friendzone' idea only seeks to reinforce the idea that women hate men being nice to them. This is not true. The reason 'nice guys' don't succeed is not being they are decent towards women, it's because because of that, they feel entitled to romance. Trust me, women aren't rejecting nice men because they secretly want them to be invasive or pushy or inconsiderate. Treating women with respect and actually putting in effort to know them as a person before you try to get in her pants is so much likelier to succeed.
If that's what your latest pussy increase has scored you, stick with it. Otherwise stfu and pretend you learned something.
Been watching vid after vid for the last 2 days and getting enlightened about so many things. Keep up the good stuff Bobby, you the man
Me too, and I'm taking a lot of notes also.
Glad to hear it
He doesn’t speak for women
This is all false information
Justfuckoff ok it’s not false information. You just need to be charming and subtle for it to work. Also it is only applicable to women with higher standards, because if you use this on women with lower standards they will instantly believe they are out of your league and give up. But like most of these coaches say you want to try to date at or above your level, not below.
I don't see the free link for the free class and when
Wheres the link
Women do want a nice guy, but it has to be combined with temperance. Of course women want to know a guy cares, but he can't put himself out there as over-caring or behave as an over-thinker. I've been guilty of this and it never worked out well. I've had women tell me I over-think things, but it's only because of what I hear from them as far as talking too much about ex's or guy friends, playing phone games, etc. As a guy you have to determine if she really wants you and is only testing you to see your jealously level (so you're not like her past) or if she's hinting that you're only a temporary until she sorts things out with a someone she really wants. Getting answers to questions is never easy.
Interesting. If you play, don't care, and don't get attached it will work.
Now I understand why women tolerate bad relationships with bad male behaviour and even violence.
So you’re saying that the “killer instinct “-just plain Pushy, works like a magic potion #9? Sad.
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TO John Grow: Look, the guy is full of shit! Him and his fuckin' writing board like some professor in a college lecture room! If he's so fuckin smart why isn't his hot girlfriend in the video with him!?
U just described my old me, i am a player now.
are all these traits taught in the uhl??
Bobby your videos are killer instinct its self ,i been following this your Chanel for almost 4 years now ,your have changed my life ✌ from south Africa
awesome to hear!
Confidence comes from positive experience. Unless you are psychopath, you need few positive experiences to gain confidence.
So true!!
Or be delusional. People keep saying don't be a downer and I'm just like okay but I have no frame of reference to warrant confidence. When you grow up the world showing you that you don't matter it's kinda hard to just fake it. A hot person doesn't need to fake it. They will get outside validation of people hitting on them or showing they are desirable so they can be confident easily because they SEE and EXPERIENCE that feedback towards themselves. If you don't have enough positive experiences that outweigh the negative ones you can't just "be more confident" lol I always just shrug off that kind of advice along with just be yourself.
@@guitarman0365 how to become confident: compound effect!
I have all that with a co worker lol but she has a bf and I respect him so i keep my distance
9:30 is really everything.
We must train women how we want them to be. We are the ones who declare how the relationship should be. And what we desire.
Women actually need to be told in the beginning what type of relationship this is. And what is expected of them.
The five Love Languages.
How about a video on how to breakup with girls gracefully :) Maybe a video on getting good at avoiding the girls coming at you because you’re so confident, and navigating socially to stay in the right sphere, without lots of beatlemania level interference? :)
Ok. Give me a tag and I'll put a price on it. Is it that simple?
I am a nice guy all the way.
This my first video of you
All great points. However guys, ever notice how its what YOU need to change about? Let them change or tell them to fuckin beat it.
Love it fuck them lmao
I think you literally talking about me ØØ
Nice guys finish last but apparentIy not with the ladies. I know of a nice guy who at 1 point had 2 girlfriends. He was long-time Montréal radio personality Jack Finnigan, who had a daughter who was a TV star in Hollywood by the name of Jennifer Finnigan. He said that he had a 'weakness' for women. So he was a lot like me. Also, 1 of my cousins was a nice guy, n he was very popular with women. And, of course, there was Elvis. I'm in the nice guy category n in high school in the '60s there were girls who approached me, and they knew my name, but I didn't know theirs, so I had to say, 'I didn't catch ur name', n it went on from there. And a few years back I was in the grocery store, and then I was going back home in the snow n cold still in the parking lot, n this guy I didn't know but had seen in the store with his very attractive girlfriend, gave me a lift in his car.
Games, games and more games.
So what happens now if I fail the killer instinct on her and fall into the friend zone. What to do to spark the sexual tension again?
This is a good analysis. In large part, it helps explain why I am still single, with very little experience with women in my past. But then, high quality women in decadent America are hard to find. Nonetheless, it's worth developing these traits as a man for their own sake.
What attracts a man woman to a man/ women is the fact that the man is trying to pursue her
Trying to sign up for the class but the webpage has an issue with the time zone and will not let me complete the page?
Ur stupid
I've watched your all videos i apply all you tricks and I attracts them to me even i make them to sleep with me as well but this is just kind of attraction for months that's it but the issue is how somebody can fall in love with me deeply and live with your forever,
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I coukdnt agree more. This is a way to get the girl and have sex. Not to get a meaningful relationship w a valuable partner!
You have to wait, pursuing love jus makes it run frm you, you can only become the best you and let love fall in your lap... let love find you don’t look for it, the woman will come and you’ll see that she’s serious
I never thought a from where Mark Walberg, Peter Griffin, and where the Bruins play, would have one of the best break downs of dating and women I've ever seen.
No a woman, realizes a man that is trying to pursue her
I broke all the rules
What if the reason she rejected you it is because you told other people about it while she told u not to ??
Then you deserve it
@@jomama527 And she is telling my friends that she misses alot
And she doesn't want to tell me that
Then she really likes you she’s just mad you told everyone, try doing something nice for her
@@jomama527 Thanks very much
Some of these so called nice guys are company CEOs, Army Officers and generally successful people.
They might be. But they never get laid.... 😐
Just don't do heavy labor or whatever for a woman for free. Make her give you money or she'll just see you as a doormat.
Well this is depressing…
I killed mosquito
No, bcz a woman wants a guy that will initiate that he is interested in her and want her more than just a friend!!!!
This is why its best to just be single, be honest that u arent looking for anything, too many games and BS.. lol
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I'm a nice guy till I'm not
Can you be supportive to a women. ( example...dont give up ..keep going! Is this not masculine
I think using the new overused filler word "RIGHT" every 30 seconds makes you very attractive to women.
What about guys who have aspergers/autistic
Sad case
@@JSAUC3 wow no compassion then
I am a woman, if you would like to know what women REALLY think please reply and ask
@@jeremiahargyle5573 Did you really compare fish to gender. Jfc, grow up kid. It's the 21st century.
The fish know more about themselves than the fisherman does
he’s treating women like inanimate objects to be “picked up” lol. also does he seriously think being a dipshit is gonna get him girls? has he ever- talked to a female?
@@reagan8888 He has many clients. If he was full of shit he wouldn't be as sucessfull.
Women generally themselves have no idea what they emotionally respond to.
@@reagan8888 ikr he acts like women are only here for men to get
Bobby’s always like, ‘I’ve been peddling this stuff for years’, as if that means it ain’t BS.
I care zero and it always works to get girls u have to have girls but me I walk away even if she's the only 1 I have at the moment once 1 girl have you in control your already lost I know am fun to be around I don't need her to tell me what am good at I just be me say whatever I want as always take it or leave that's me 😏
Once a girl has the control over me, is that a way to get out of that situation?
my girl left me cause she think im soft
Then toughen up, brother! Love is a war zone, don't ya know!!!
IT'S HAPPENING TO ME AS I WRITE THIS!!
Well Alan I found better so I'm fine
@@danny_the_trader3309
From one stranger to another... I need to hear that shit.. Litterally going thru it right now, still together but the end is neigh
@alan damn bro
Iam nice gay Ihave no girl friend but Iam happy who Iam I
That’s is great you are happy with yourself. Do you want a girlfriend?
Ex nihilo nihil fit he is on the video about how to get a girlfriend. Mind ya business
Nice guys don’t tease women at all
Something about this man is not safe. Idk what it is. Don't leave your drink around this one people.
Hahahahahahahahaha
Lolololol
You talk with some authority on all of this, but the moment you direct people to paid courses, you lose all legitimacy.
He's capitalizing on a myth n a stereotype.
Capt Zdq : that’s one of the most intelligent insightful things I have heard which is really just common sense! People are feeble and have easily controllable minds don’t they
Women are just a headache. Videos like this make u not even want to deal with them. You have to play too many games.
Wow… incel central right here…
Yikes. Treating women like animals, "training" them to see you as more valuable than them, and trying to force chemistry is NOT going to make a girl like you. Women don't owe you a thing and you are openly sharing manipulation tactics. Your approach to dating comes across as predatory and creepy. Literally just treat women as equals, respect their boundaries and accept that no means no. You are not entitled to a relationship. It is a luxury, not a necessity. You need to reflect on the "advice" you're giving.
You literally missed what he was saying. Nothing creepy in what he's saying. You just be female.
You gotta be one of those liberal feminists
Bobby Rio regardless of how I found your channel - which, incidentally, was not from james but from an autoplay rabbithole, so like, chill, maybe? - I did watch the video and I didn’t like what I saw. “You are training her to see you as less valuable” - in what way is that not dehumanising, suggesting that women in social situations can be “trained”? Your overarching points are fine but the way you phrase them constructs a narrative where women are animals or objects that can be manipulated and influenced for the benefit of men. I should have been more clear in my initial critique and established that it’s your phrasing that I take issue with, at least on this video. I’d advise though, if you suggest having confidence and certainty then i certainly wouldn’t waste any time getting offended over legitimate criticism of my work. You should be listening to your audience and adapting your content, not rejecting change. Hope you’re having a nice day :)
@@gen4290 Yes, however, if it was a woman, giving women the same five tips, you would applaud the advice. Correct? The reason I'm replying is because in the past day around 1000 women (after watching a video from another youtuber who critiqued my channel) have come flooding my videos with negative comments. I totally respect when a woman says "that line is corny" or "I dont like when guys do that". Totally fair. But when I have women criticizing me as being "anti women" I find the complaints completely unjust, again, as I stated above, if it was a woman teaching other women the same five points I teach in this video, you'd applaud them. I'm telling men to value and respect themselves at the SAME LEVEL as they put value on a woman.
Bobby Rio where did I say you were anti women or mention female influencers? I just said you might want to be more careful about how you phrase things, because it can come across a bit weird and creepy. If, in this hypothetical scenario, the female influencer is phrasing things more carefully and drawing on her personal experiences and opinions, then I can understand why she might be praised for it. However, like I said, I didn’t bring up any female influencers. I’m just commenting on my personal reading of this video, which was that you have the opinion that men are entitled to a relationship. I don’t agree with you receiving hate, and I don’t think that you’re anti-women, but if so many people have similar critiques it could be worth taking some time to think about instead of being instantly defensive. If you need suggestions on rephrasing anything that people seem to specifically take issue with I am more than happy to help :)
Still peddling the same old lame B.S.
you're still watching and commenting the same all lame B.S. on all my videos though lol
@@BobbyRio Just replaying the same old,,same old pick up crap and now your polluting all of CZcams with your adds
@@Wistundra Have some respect, bobby is the best.
@@diaeddinear3314 Just a legend in his own mind !
Bobby Rio you just broke one of your rules,! Never explain yourself!..☝️😅
It’s good to go over the basics though now and again.
Just finished the scrambler! Was very happy with the purchase you can never know enough it really hits home the fundamentals I thought I knew a lot but this made me realise that I was missing certain things at certain times. It gets you in that right frame of mind not just when things are good, but bad too! Thanks highly recommended!