It's Time to Leave Your Inner "Nice Guy" Behind

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Komentáře • 131

  • @user-is4jf8yr4z
    @user-is4jf8yr4z Před 2 lety +70

    The scary thing is that everything he says in the video is absolutely the truth.

    • @karimostath8646
      @karimostath8646 Před 2 lety +1

      hhhhhh Yeah he says the truth and it hurts sometimes :D

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 Před 2 lety

      he is not telling the whole story. There are different types of women in the world. Bobby is trying to tell guys to be an asshole Chad instead of a nice decent guy. Guys need to be dating christian women with values and morals. It's screwed up mental women that would rather have an ass hole Chad than a decent guy.

  • @sayyer10
    @sayyer10 Před 2 lety +39

    Wow! Harsh, in-your-face, brutal and cold! But as a nice guy, loser, beta or whatever, I am not going to hide in a corner and cry my heart out. Instead I take this as f**king motivation to change!

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 2 lety +8

      awesome to hear! make it happen!

    • @arturzdebik8057
      @arturzdebik8057 Před 2 lety +3

      Sounds like So much effort and reward gives nothing back, sounds not worthy to me, So i remain nice guy

  • @despabikes
    @despabikes Před 2 lety +21

    Bobby always drops of gold nuggets! Every time Bobby puts a video I know I’m going to learn something new… or at least be reminded of something that I forgot.

    • @hectorpla9322
      @hectorpla9322 Před 2 lety

      He makes good videos I also recommend Coach Corey Wayne I like watching his videos, and also Bobbies!...

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 Před 2 lety

      @@hectorpla9322 Matt at 33 Secrets is the best. A true alpha male a is nice decent guy that won't lower his standards to date a mentally screwed in the head woman that would rather have a jerk Chad in her life.

  • @Sexytaco71
    @Sexytaco71 Před 2 lety +9

    Get outside your comfort zone and take risks. Your mentality has to change to see yourself as the prize. Your confidence will project naturally through your vibe and when a girl knows you're high value she will want your attention.
    The first step is accepting feedback from people that are better than and more experienced than you, such as this man. When you do that you're committing you're willing to learn and improve, it humbles you and gives you a good enough of an attitude to open your mind to an abundant mentality and the reality that you have options.
    Like he said flirting is key. If you flirt correctly your body language, playfulness and confident vibe will naturally come through. Women are completely vulnerable to a man that can speak her language. When she let's her guard down and opens up to you, it means she feels safe in your presence and trusts you. And that language is tapping into her instinctual, raw emotions that ignite "anticipation". Attraction is completely mental for women. She can't even figure out why she likes you, it's just a feeling. The reality is women only care about the way you make them feel.
    Flirting is simply showing interest but in a playful and indirect way, it creates ideas in her mind that you and her are gonna be together romantically, and have fun together.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr oduma whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago . He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      * Send him a message to ask for help._个个

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding ☝️☝️的

  • @barcibus
    @barcibus Před rokem +1

    I love the frustration coming 😂

  • @atiqgrde8597
    @atiqgrde8597 Před 2 lety +5

    Never heard anyone SOOOOOOOO SOOOOO MUCH CLEAR and UP TO THE POINT ....about real game as much as you ... you are God gifted bro 👏👏👏

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr oduma whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago . He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      * Send him a message to ask for help._个个

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding ☝️☝️的

  • @sportingplane
    @sportingplane Před 2 lety +17

    I wish I could have heard that 10 years ago, would have saved me a lot of creepy moments. Listen to him, he really knows what he is doing!

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 2 lety +1

      glad you find helpful. thanks for the comment!

    • @TheDriveInGuys
      @TheDriveInGuys Před 2 lety

      sportingplane: You are right. You are so right.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr oduma whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago . He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      * Send him a message to ask for help._个个

  • @ritieneniels5335
    @ritieneniels5335 Před 2 lety +1

    What a video brother. Probably the best in the way you relate, rich in content as always

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding ☝️☝️的.

  • @paultexasusa1366
    @paultexasusa1366 Před 2 lety +2

    Priceless, Bobby you are helping Men become their Stronger Selves. Keep going Bobby!!!

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 2 lety +1

      thanks Paul, glad you found helpful.

  • @drapered7762
    @drapered7762 Před 2 lety +1

    “… a client never came to me just to score a 200-pounder.” LOL.

  • @elijahbryan364
    @elijahbryan364 Před 2 lety +1

    Bobby imma say thank you, since I found out your channel, its has been a whole new level for me... Bobby, please can you make a video about validation as to validating a woman's social self and her ideal self, I would be very grateful if you did. Thanks man❤

  • @yasincivelek8068
    @yasincivelek8068 Před 2 lety +3

    He is waaay better than those motivational speakers on CZcams 😂

  • @taddeojudemugagga2306

    Mr. Bobby you are an expert in this field 🤔🤔🤔how i wish i could do what you say ‼️ Thank you so much.

  • @markpack798
    @markpack798 Před 2 lety

    Bobby!! Your on fire!!!
    Much better!!!

  • @geoffreymungai7895
    @geoffreymungai7895 Před 2 lety +3

    What I like about Bobby is that he is so direct and his explanations are on point. Content here is easier to digest than most coaches out there. Keep up the good work. Love from Kenya (+254)

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr oduma whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety +1

      I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago . He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      * Send him a message to ask for help._个个

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding ☝️☝️的

  • @aumnamashivaya4
    @aumnamashivaya4 Před 2 lety +8

    Bobby, besides your wisdom you are fucking hilarious bro🤣👍

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 2 lety

      thanks, glad you enjoyed the video

    • @YESTWENTYONEWINS
      @YESTWENTYONEWINS Před 2 lety

      Profanity adds nothing just like the commentator.

  • @staringhamster7999
    @staringhamster7999 Před 2 lety +5

    Literally a genius

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd Před 2 lety

      Lot of good stuff here. Especially the bit about her thinking you're a sure thing. Instant killer

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 2 lety +1

      glad you enjoyed the video.

  • @uaetub
    @uaetub Před 2 lety +3

    Rummaged through your videos the last two years. This is one of the better ones. When a guy says 'Fuck', it lends the emphasis that he's not fucking around. Pay god damn attention here. 👍

  • @toomuchtube8635
    @toomuchtube8635 Před rokem

    The Wire is one my favorite show of all time. " Its Marlo"

  • @Lalo6169
    @Lalo6169 Před 2 lety

    Speaking facts 💯

  • @TheUpliftingGuy
    @TheUpliftingGuy Před 2 lety +2

    The hard truth came out 😁👌

  • @CoachatCole
    @CoachatCole Před 2 lety +3

    I agree with this but make no mistake about it there is a push/pull that needs to happen. if the attraction is genuine she will give you multiple opportunities.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr oduma whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago . He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      *✛2348073788494👈♻️♻️≧﹏≦亲爱的你好.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      * Send him a message to ask for help._个个.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding ☝️☝️的.

  • @faridjaafari1225
    @faridjaafari1225 Před 2 lety

    Thanks

  • @adiravi3933
    @adiravi3933 Před rokem +1

    Yes heartbreaks are real lessons of life.We lean from those past. Being nice is never a disorder.I am a doctor I can't be cold to my patients. They prefer to get treated by a good humble high skilled doctor rather than a cold one. If she left you for being nice then congratulate her she is choosing a path where she is destined to have a Cold and Disrespecting man. There are some women who knows the difference between instant attraction and a lifetime valuable person choose her.

  • @The.Billionaire.Official
    @The.Billionaire.Official Před 2 lety +3

    Bobby Rio... The realest best CZcams dating coach 🤗

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 2 lety +1

      glad you find them helpful. thanks for the comment!

  • @emadmamlouki7973
    @emadmamlouki7973 Před 2 lety +6

    A good review of former lessons (y). I trust every word that comes out of your moth and you alone. I've progressed soooo much since I came to know you.

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 2 lety +3

      glad you find helpful. thanks for the comment!

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr oduma whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago . He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      * Send him a message to ask for help._个个

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding ☝️☝️的

  • @josephbailey7408
    @josephbailey7408 Před rokem

    This was my favorite rio video

  • @nappydaniel7896
    @nappydaniel7896 Před 2 lety

    hi bobby i need your help and i cant buy you book and MP3 and Ebooks please help

  • @noyb12345
    @noyb12345 Před 2 lety

    That puppy is getting all the loving though 🤣

  • @mahdih2141
    @mahdih2141 Před 2 lety +1

    Even though i never met you in my life. You are my true friend Bobby.

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 Před 2 lety

      ahhhhh...... LMAO

  • @TheDriveInGuys
    @TheDriveInGuys Před 2 lety +3

    This is good stuff. Classic Bobby Rio. Watch this over, and over, and over again, and then PUT IT INTO ACTION, IMMEDIATELY, regardless of what you believe, or how you feel about it. JUST DO IT. Can you really afford NOT TO? 🤔 #BobbyRio

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr oduma whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago . He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      *✛2348073788494👈♻️♻️≧﹏≦亲爱的你好.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      * Send him a message to ask for help._个个.

    • @bintaibrahim3098
      @bintaibrahim3098 Před 2 lety

      Add + In front of numbers to numbers before adding ☝️☝️的.

  • @s.beccari4678
    @s.beccari4678 Před 2 lety

    I've heard it said" a wizard never rest upon his laurels...'

  • @UserName-ts3sp
    @UserName-ts3sp Před 2 lety

    great life advice not just with women

  • @YESTWENTYONEWINS
    @YESTWENTYONEWINS Před 2 lety +1

    The overused new/ fizzled out word "Right" is the substitute for the OLD "you know"

  • @kevinhardy5543
    @kevinhardy5543 Před 2 lety

    The point is CONFIDENT !

  • @chrisfloyd77
    @chrisfloyd77 Před rokem +1

    Put some respect on Marlo Stanfield's name. His name is his name!

  • @wolfduarte200
    @wolfduarte200 Před 2 lety

    The wire reference tho. for those that don't know, it aint about love.
    I know Bobby wasn't talking about the context of the scene, just the words and the expression on the security guys face, but ya'll gotta go watch that scene.
    Great video BTW Bobby!!

  • @dionne681
    @dionne681 Před 2 lety

    Bobby the real MVP

  • @raulmejia2066
    @raulmejia2066 Před 2 lety

    thanks bobby .. raul surprise arizona

  • @Thompsdan
    @Thompsdan Před 2 lety

    Something tells me Mr Rio left his ‘inner nice guy’ behind some time ago.

  • @nathancooper1560
    @nathancooper1560 Před rokem

    What if I get here and then my anxiety kicks up and a freeze up.

  • @Righteous1ist
    @Righteous1ist Před 2 lety +1

    Gotta make her

  • @sampsonbaba8800
    @sampsonbaba8800 Před 2 lety

    My mask and knife never fail me!!!!

  • @Abdo.A
    @Abdo.A Před 2 lety

    Wow

  • @27jezus
    @27jezus Před 5 měsíci

    GOLDEN🥇

  • @kamilpodniesinski1781
    @kamilpodniesinski1781 Před 2 lety

    I cant log in

  • @Di.Iv.555
    @Di.Iv.555 Před 2 lety

    2 weeks ago I dated a young lady and after some kissing she told me “I really want this time to happen good relationship”
    I replied “okay, let’s see”
    2 days ago she texted me “I don’t want to lie you, but is not going to happen anything more, you are good man and you deserve a good girl like you”
    She didn’t trust on my words when I said to her I’m slightly older and I have experience.
    It’s very likely to meet her around my workplace and is time to put her down with the question “why you underestimate yourself, how you can believe other woman is better than you”
    Guys, believe me no woman likes to hear other woman is better 😁

    • @arturzdebik8057
      @arturzdebik8057 Před 2 lety +2

      Bobby said as soon She figurę out She Got you, its game over, you responded " let see" this killed all attraction becouse you confirmed you want relationship also to early, you should Just ignore it and dont comment her saying She want good relationship out of it.

  • @imnotwatchin
    @imnotwatchin Před 2 lety

    Marlo*

  • @majesticagwaniru5066
    @majesticagwaniru5066 Před 2 lety

    Yeah... but how.
    Things that change you would be nice

  • @jreamscape
    @jreamscape Před rokem

    This is real shit for real

  • @TheRumpelstinskin
    @TheRumpelstinskin Před 2 lety

    David D. = David DeAngelo author of Double Your Dating.

  • @stephenw.9647
    @stephenw.9647 Před 2 lety

    Four in the morning, flock no, nobody

  • @YESTWENTYONEWINS
    @YESTWENTYONEWINS Před 2 lety +1

    Worldly advice. A lot of Christians women want the nice guy. If you get upset about a single flower on the third date then "I'm gone"

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 Před 2 lety

      Bobby tells guys to be an a-hole Chad

  • @DWCStuff
    @DWCStuff Před 2 lety +3

    So I keep failing I suck at this I'm having so much troubles to continuously apply what I've learned

    • @Cuzjudd
      @Cuzjudd Před 2 lety +2

      Have a few drinks and keep trying. It takes practice. I'm no expert but have had some dumb luck

    • @TheDriveInGuys
      @TheDriveInGuys Před 2 lety +3

      DWC: Just keep doing it. Like anything else, it gets easier with practice, and application.

  • @jacobo4606
    @jacobo4606 Před 2 lety

    Change the narrative (You are fat, go on a fuc.. Diet 🤣🤣🤣🤣) Thanks for making my day .. 😂😂😂

  • @jpjp9111
    @jpjp9111 Před 2 lety

    I was a professional model once and I couldn't get a woman.
    I am a scientist so I'm smart however intelligence never helped.
    Now I'm overweight and still can't get women at will... however I somehow had a crazy annoying stalker. Whom I hated at first. Kind of cute with nice body but super needy and embarrassing and literally I couldn't get away. I've literally tried running away several times. Now I'm dating her. That's the only way I got a date.

  • @josephchiyokoma5748
    @josephchiyokoma5748 Před 2 lety

    Do these tricks work on Single Mothers who are independent n high achievers?

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 Před 2 lety

      why? you want to raise another guy's kids? and more than likely have to deal with the real dad all of the time?

    • @UserName-ts3sp
      @UserName-ts3sp Před 2 lety +1

      single moms are for recreational use only

    • @adiravi3933
      @adiravi3933 Před rokem

      Yes you can have sex with her if you fractionate her emotions.But the thing is you will suffer if you are willing to have a long term relationship with her.1)She has a bad opinion about males.2)She can never love you unconditionally as loving her child 3)A deep broken piece of her heart turned her masculine and its very repulsive
      4)She will have the power

    • @27jezus
      @27jezus Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@UserName-ts3sp😂😂😂

  • @naymin7289
    @naymin7289 Před 2 lety

    I want to understand English so that I could learn these techniques red pills

  • @francocapetillo1447
    @francocapetillo1447 Před 2 lety

    Ya hice todo eso: mejor versión (ejercicio y ropa), tomar riesgos (estudiar cine) y salir de la rutina (pesca, escalar, artes marciales) y coquetear (uso la rutina de Groucho Marx) y funciono pero....... no vale la pena: las mujeres son MUY aburridas, hablan de cosas sin importancia y debi fingir que me divierte estar con ellas :c

  • @Cuzjudd
    @Cuzjudd Před 2 lety

    My own long term girlfriend even called me a player when I was 28 😂 world's worst boyfriend
    Yeah, I need to get better at flirting in clubs again. It's easier on dating apps

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 Před 2 lety

      you will never find a high value woman in a club or dating apps.

  • @SKRooU2
    @SKRooU2 Před 2 lety

    In today's age yea Bobby is basically right, but also stop and think about what he is saying. He is saying women don't want a nice guy. Well if what they want is not being nice that means they want you to be an ass. He is saying you have to be an ass hole Chad in order to get and keep a woman. What he doesn't explain is there are different types of women in the world. There are screwed up women that would rather be chasing an ass hole Chad than have a decent good guy in their life. Then there are women that have morals that are christians that appreciate a decent nice guy. Would you rather be an ass hole just to get mentally screwed up woman or would you rather be a nice decent guy and have a high value christian woman in your life. I have never heard Bobby talk about this. I have found all of this to be true through experience. A guy here on YT named Matt at 33 Secrets talks about what I am trying to say about how you should try and date high value christian women. I am definitely not a weak beta because a true alpha is a nice guy that won't lower his standards and be an ass hole just to date a low value woman. Alot of these women will just use a guy for money and are not faithful anyways. A christian woman with morals is more likely to not cheat and play games. Being an ass hole Chad is NOT being an alpha. It's just being a jerk.

  • @Isaac-LizardKing
    @Isaac-LizardKing Před 2 lety

    sounds like a you problem

  • @exitthematrix1487
    @exitthematrix1487 Před 2 lety

    There are plenty of "short, broke, ugly guys who get beautiful women". REALLY??? uh no

  • @morelions4014
    @morelions4014 Před 2 lety +1

    Today is messed up. Maybe is women that are the problem. Or is it just English women.

  • @John-78
    @John-78 Před rokem

    If women aged well maybe they would be worth all this...

  • @LoveEmpowerment
    @LoveEmpowerment Před 2 lety

    cut the crap and take my money for something that isn't free bad hair day boi

  • @peterk3556
    @peterk3556 Před 2 lety

    If i could drive i would drive you to the Airport no mather what gender you are as long as youre nice

  • @carlosdixan112
    @carlosdixan112 Před 2 lety

    Yeah but she’s born with value while men are not . I don’t believe is worth it to do all of this for women ??

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 Před 2 lety +1

      man if you put women on a pedestal and think you have no value, you have big problems. You need to learn to have value and stop putting women on a pedestal and stop worshipping them like she is your god

  • @YESTWENTYONEWINS
    @YESTWENTYONEWINS Před 2 lety

    Filthy language is a huge turn off.