1. Unapologetic 2. Being bold and radically honest. - State your intentions clearly. 3. Ambition - desire to be something. Ambition demands respect. 4. Being comfortable with tension - awkwardness, or not losing cool. 5. Raise your price tag.
You have to overcome your fear to get rejected and be authentic. Being genuine, confident, and keeping your dignity and self-respect. I remember a date with a very good-looking girl, but she was texting during our date. So I just left her and drove back home. (She probably thought I was going to the toilet) While I was driving home, she called me, asking where the heck I was? So I replied to her: "Driving home, since you were texting and you did not respect my time."Maybe you can do that with other guys, but not with me." All of sudden, she changed her tone. "I am very sorry. Can you pls come back? " I said no, I am not interested anymore." Then she lost it and started to scream. I just hung up. Most, especially the good-looking girls, are not used to getting a NO from a guy.
so basically after you said no i'm not intrested anymore She showed her true colors: losing it and screaming and prolly want revenge. Well you saved yourself a home she would take from you at the end of your relationship
This is probably the most important bit of advice I've heard you give and you drop a lot of really good bombs Bobby. I've been in a lot of different positions in my life both where I was leading and I was following. I've been rejected and I've been at the top and I got to say that absolutely everything that you're saying tracks with my experience. The difference was I didn't realize that that was what was happening. Hopefully now armed with this knowledge and of course with some practice, I can make this a reality more often for people.
Bobby, I get what you're saying and realize I'm the epitome of what not to do... but even if I fixed all these problems, I'd be like Scrat in the ice age movie desperately trying to correct acorns but never knowing what to do if I actually got one.
I once had a job as a civil servant with a few years of seniority, which meant I was pretty much set if I wanted to be. I didn't want to be though and was going to the major city about an hour away 4 nights a week to do a business degree, so I could leave my municipal job and switch to the private sector. We had a summer student in our office (sweet and fun) that I liked but I never mentioned this to her because I thought what would she care. It came out when she asked why I left 1/2 hour early most nights. So I was like yeah I go to class and have to catch the bus. She was like but you have this job. I did already know about her school as we had discussed it quite a bit. I replied that I wasn't looking to work there much longer and that I had already completed half the program and gotten a student award for my GPA, what with also taking courses in the summer as well. I only realized later that this really impressed her. What I thought was just my own thing, my special place and not of much interest to anyone else, turned out to be a lot more. There was a local school i could have attended but not as at rapid a pace Not long after that she asked me if I'd like to go to a nearby bar where one of her girlfriends worked and meet one of her other girlfriends was going to be there as well. I didn't understand the import of this but said sure as long as it's on a Friday night when I don't have classes this term. Don't want to miss class
Hey Bobby the opinion approach and handing females my phone to put their number is has been working great , but how long do I wait to follow up to hang out I’m la Kong in this skill lol?
Price tag: first date was today but she asked me to hang out with her and her friends instead. I declined. Then she asked to meet up later, not the original time. Declined that too. Don't settle for less. We will attempt to reschedule.
@@ericpitre4031 I rather just stay single when men are required to be financially stable to date a flat broke woman with kids. Not even worried nor concerned with if a flat broke woman with kids respects me.
@@BobbyRio I am also a subscriber of your channel sir, this resonates with one of the videos you did about a man imposing his world to women...a man having a strong world that absorbs the women..
I was and or am with a woman who has asked for a break and of course you know what happened and she has pushed harder as friends and she has has told me that she has messed up and slept with a nother guy she has also continues to stay in contact with me and I am lost with this
There is no answer or places to meet high woman...infact there us no high values women....don't even thing about that cos the one that is high value won't even look ur way as long as u don't drive Lamborghini...so best is to be ur self work make money take care of ur life ur bills, and what isnurs will walk through to u...if she finally become the high values or not ots left for u to decide if u want her or not.
Got a question. I am a teacher and have been working at school for 2 years now. There is an IT teacher woman at the age of 40, married. I am 36. During teacher meetings she started to notice me more and I felt that we started to establish a connection. She tested me indirectly while she was talking to another tutor about a student calling him a ‘fool, stupid fool’. Here I know for sure emphasis was done on me, I was standing close to them and looking at lessons timetable. I showed a slow subtle smile and confidently went on my way. On another day when I came in a room for a meeting she was sitting at a library talking to a library woman worker. I said hi and started to go to the hall, but this woman teacher said ‘Come here’. This was for the first time she was not wearing any make-up at all. And later when sitting on my right she was throwing glances at me. We felt connection and I want her. What could it mean?!
it means you have little experience with women and every sign of attention giving to you, makes you drool like a simp? and you prolly put them at a pedestal too lmao am i right or am i wrong?
@@lok6314 i have little experience, yes. Deep down i consider her as a more experienced , but i do not consider her as prize. I walked away from the library after meeting - at that moment i heard her sight deeply. There was some connection and sexual tension… But i never show that she is better than me, well at this point i try to figure out maybe i am too passive. I behave in this way so as not to appear a needy simp.
Well I don't have the ability to tell the truth and tell a woman that will be going to Hawaii in a couple months so I can't be throwing that kind of game around😅
Can we get a person to drop a video that actually shows examples and goes out to do this to people. Lol writing on a board is one thing but actually doing it is another.
I’m reminded of a joke: Three guys are riding in a pickup truck. Which one is the Cowboy. The one in the middle, because he doesn’t need to drive and he doesn’t have to open/close the gates. The guy in the middle doesn’t have to do any work.
Hit the gym. Work on your photo game. No selfies, most the time don't even look at the camera, you want photos to be candid. Getting their attention is the easy part, keeping it not so much
Women totally go for the guy that play these games. They absolutely do. You ladies don’t admit it, but you absolutely totally go for the guys that play the games and play them correctly. You have to play these mind games with women. If you don’t you lose. The guys that win play these games. I am sorry if it offends you that this man is talking about games to play. But he is absolutely right. The men who get the reward are the men who play the games. The guys who don’t are the guys that lose and that are mocked.
@@BobbyRio No , i wouldn't be. I've encountered several well known people ( American , British , French ) in the music business , because i worked for an engineering firm that designed and built stages ( for example for the Werchter music festival in Flanders , Northern Belgium ) and i have to say , many times i was fairly underwhelmed. That's not to say i couldn't be impressed by a woman , but it would be because of her personality , attractiveness , intelligence and charm. Not her fame or wealth. Like i said , showbizz people have rarely impressed me.
Only thing I disagree with you is leaving out the fact there is a place and time to be apologetic. For example: If you creep her out to the point where she feels triggered by you and not talking to you again, you have to apologize to her after she cools down to see you have social awareness. Now what a lot of males do is they aplogise and become needy to ask her out instead of walking away. If you do this correctly, you can date others and come back to her and set the tone. Women don't look at past if enough time is gone pass. They look at the new you. What I'm saying is bit advanced if a guy don't know what he is doing.
Alright I’ve changed my mind, he s giving value even tho makes long videos. I’m staying. I just watch this channel like once a year, maybe should. A bit more often
My advice is , The best way is make your passport , save money , travel to Asian traditional countries, and marry traditional Asian woman , and have life
@@madamkirk yea, unless you are socially awkward and have little sense, this is all pretty basic knowledge. That's why I can confidently say that he is not that great at expressing himself. I know what he wants to say or is trying to say at times and I want him to get it out in a relatable manner... Which he sometimes does. Other times, he has issues
@@emprrah OK. I understand what you mean. Just, I appreciate him because the content overall is good and has helped me. So I guess the glass is half full for me.
To be clear, Adam was indeed a little on the creepy side and one step away from the "grab 'em by the p*ssy" assaults of trump. And he thinks he's smooth? Players are creepy, just admit it, even if they are successful. Get the guy a disco medallion a little coke spoon and play him some Bee Gee's...I find the whole thing interesting but I never had to do any of these Bobby Rio things as a preordained plan in my entire life and I've done just fine. I will keep an open mind but you guys who play my sisters like this are not really what it's all about.
It's pretty easy for me. If they are not a virgin they get zero respect from me. I will never marry them so it will all be based on sex. So if she's a virgin then she'll get my respect. Period. End of story. 99% of all women's problems stem from the fact they did not remain virgins until they were married in my opinion. They will never truly respect their husband because he wasn't their first and it shows weakness that the man was willing to marry her anyway after getting her back blown out by another man.
1. Unapologetic
2. Being bold and radically honest. - State your intentions clearly.
3. Ambition - desire to be something. Ambition demands respect.
4. Being comfortable with tension - awkwardness, or not losing cool.
5. Raise your price tag.
3. ambition - not the desire but DO stuff.
OK, it works with weak, stupid and unconfident women. BUT it does NOT work with strong, confident, mature women.
Did all this and got ghosted.
lmao xD@@ccraig4399
I am all of that - and I am woman. So is that good only when you are male?
You have to overcome your fear to get rejected and be authentic. Being genuine, confident, and keeping your dignity and self-respect. I remember a date with a very good-looking girl, but she was texting during our date. So I just left her and drove back home. (She probably thought I was going to the toilet) While I was driving home, she called me, asking where the heck I was? So I replied to her: "Driving home, since you were texting and you did not respect my time."Maybe you can do that with other guys, but not with me." All of sudden, she changed her tone. "I am very sorry. Can you pls come back? " I said no, I am not interested anymore." Then she lost it and started to scream. I just hung up. Most, especially the good-looking girls, are not used to getting a NO from a guy.
I am very confident in saying stop the snapback...
I'm also very strict with that. Just the phone on the table with screen facing up I don't like it. It's worse with the younger ones.
so basically after you said no i'm not intrested anymore
She showed her true colors: losing it and screaming and prolly want revenge.
Well you saved yourself a home she would take from you at the end of your relationship
Well done brother 😊
Love it
Good work Bobby - simple but sophisticated, easy to recognise the reality of the points. Cheers, David.
This is probably the most important bit of advice I've heard you give and you drop a lot of really good bombs Bobby.
I've been in a lot of different positions in my life both where I was leading and I was following. I've been rejected and I've been at the top and I got to say that absolutely everything that you're saying tracks with my experience.
The difference was I didn't realize that that was what was happening.
Hopefully now armed with this knowledge and of course with some practice, I can make this a reality more often for people.
Spot on.
I love Bobby's advice. Always gives easy to understand advice!!!
Thanks Bobbie,very good advises , so needed it now says
Keep up the good work Bobby. You’re helping a lot of men.
thanks for watching
Ambition is what you are doing, not what you’re planning, nor what you’re going to do. Ambition is right now or not at all.
I’ve watched almost all your videos, taught me a lot, thanks Coach Bobby🙏
Great to hear!
@@BobbyRio Could you please make a video about how to know whether someone's partner is cheating over messenger?
Thanks for all the info Bobby.
thanks for watching
Bobby, I get what you're saying and realize I'm the epitome of what not to do... but even if I fixed all these problems, I'd be like Scrat in the ice age movie desperately trying to correct acorns but never knowing what to do if I actually got one.
Thank you for your videos, Bobby. People learn whole life.
Glad you like them!
Love all your videos bob ❤🎉
Say what you mean and mean what you say. Consistency is crucial for building trust/comfort
totally disagree
@@tensevo ?? Not sure what you mean friend. Are you advocating saying things that you do not believe/support??
@@CoachSteveJandS no, consistency is boring and kills attraction.
I once had a job as a civil servant with a few years of seniority, which meant I was pretty much set if I wanted to be. I didn't want to be though and was going to the major city about an hour away 4 nights a week to do a business degree, so I could leave my municipal job and switch to the private sector. We had a summer student in our office (sweet and fun) that I liked but I never mentioned this to her because I thought what would she care. It came out when she asked why I left 1/2 hour early most nights. So I was like yeah I go to class and have to catch the bus. She was like but you have this job. I did already know about her school as we had discussed it quite a bit. I replied that I wasn't looking to work there much longer and that I had already completed half the program and gotten a student award for my GPA, what with also taking courses in the summer as well. I only realized later that this really impressed her. What I thought was just my own thing, my special place and not of much interest to anyone else, turned out to be a lot more. There was a local school i could have attended but not as at rapid a pace Not long after that she asked me if I'd like to go to a nearby bar where one of her girlfriends worked and meet one of her other girlfriends was going to be there as well. I didn't understand the import of this but said sure as long as it's on a Friday night when I don't have classes this term. Don't want to miss class
So, in short, women are impressed when you are still going beyond your status and limitations even though you are already "there" somewhat.
it's about having and living your own life. The girl is an addition. If you're needy they smell it like a dead rat.
Great video this helped alot
Best information for dating on CZcams Period.
thanks, glad you finding helpful.
@BobbyRio Could you please make a video about how to know whether someone's partner is cheating over messenger?
I needed a video on gaining respect for a really long time.
Thanks😊
glad it helps
Thanks for the point of raising your price tag
If all of the competition out there looks like Zach, I'm not too worried.
lol, well zach is off the market, with a supermodel quality wife. so shows that looks don't matter, right?
Bobby bro , your idea of scrambler works foookin crazy ❤❤
love to hear it!
Bobby is the only dating coach that I won't accelerate the video speed when listening to his advice.
glad you enjoy the videos!
Great video
Greetings from spain ! I would really appreciate if you could make a video on how to approach a crush for a date.
Hey Bobby the opinion approach and handing females my phone to put their number is has been working great , but how long do I wait to follow up to hang out I’m la Kong in this skill lol?
Price tag: first date was today but she asked me to hang out with her and her friends instead. I declined. Then she asked to meet up later, not the original time. Declined that too. Don't settle for less. We will attempt to reschedule.
Glad I clicked onto this one
Dang, wow ur right…thank you for this video.
glad you found it helpful
Killer content, Bobby. Love the channel. The screen popping in and out on this vid is super annoying.
thanks for the feedback on the screen.
As an expert in females... this guy is really good. Only the second video I have watched so far, but look forward to watching more.
glad you're finding the videos helpful so far!
I was born in a city named Rio de Janeiro. That is why I like your last name. Thank you for all your work. God bless you.
ive been there, very fun city! Glad you enjoy the videos!
good video
20:08 Bro just Disappeared💀
Frame control the most important aspect in the game
Very valueable. Thank you 🙏
we ain't waiting years for respect
Its earned, not given. 🙄🍼🍔
@@ericpitre4031 I rather just stay single when men are required to be financially stable to date a flat broke woman with kids. Not even worried nor concerned with if a flat broke woman with kids respects me.
How much is your course my friend, do you have a link? Thank you
You are very much handsome already, you don't need the course
This the best video on the planet
glad you found helpful
@@BobbyRio I am also a subscriber of your channel sir, this resonates with one of the videos you did about a man imposing his world to women...a man having a strong world that absorbs the women..
I was and or am with a woman who has asked for a break and of course you know what happened and she has pushed harder as friends and she has has told me that she has messed up and slept with a nother guy she has also continues to stay in contact with me and I am lost with this
A question: What about a video on where I can meet high quality women? Particularly after university/college (I am in my earlys 20s).
There is no answer or places to meet high woman...infact there us no high values women....don't even thing about that cos the one that is high value won't even look ur way as long as u don't drive Lamborghini...so best is to be ur self work make money take care of ur life ur bills, and what isnurs will walk through to u...if she finally become the high values or not ots left for u to decide if u want her or not.
@@tksongsTV another bitter loser
❤❤❤❤❤I love you Vanessa 😊
Great video and lessons 🎉
glad you found helpful
How does this all work if it's your ex and she's with another??
❤
The blonde girl was way into it in that movie clip.
Taylor Swift ♥️🌷
A comment for the algorithm!
Damn, Taylor Swift. I'd just get outta that bar😂
Got a question. I am a teacher and have been working at school for 2 years now. There is an IT teacher woman at the age of 40, married. I am 36. During teacher meetings she started to notice me more and I felt that we started to establish a connection. She tested me indirectly while she was talking to another tutor about a student calling him a ‘fool, stupid fool’. Here I know for sure emphasis was done on me, I was standing close to them and looking at lessons timetable. I showed a slow subtle smile and confidently went on my way. On another day when I came in a room for a meeting she was sitting at a library talking to a library woman worker. I said hi and started to go to the hall, but this woman teacher said ‘Come here’. This was for the first time she was not wearing any make-up at all. And later when sitting on my right she was throwing glances at me. We felt connection and I want her. What could it mean?!
Full stop. Shes married dude. Back off.
@@jdebiasi you are right
it means you have little experience with women and every sign of attention giving to you, makes you drool like a simp?
and you prolly put them at a pedestal too lmao
am i right or am i wrong?
@@lok6314 i have little experience, yes. Deep down i consider her as a more experienced , but i do not consider her as prize. I walked away from the library after meeting - at that moment i heard her sight deeply. There was some connection and sexual tension… But i never show that she is better than me, well at this point i try to figure out maybe i am too passive. I behave in this way so as not to appear a needy simp.
@@lok6314 Right for me... 🤣🤣
inner game, thats how. Get your boundaries together, and don't be afraid to say no to her.
yes inner game is the foundation
I would prefer a very simple life😊
Well I don't have the ability to tell the truth and tell a woman that will be going to Hawaii in a couple months so I can't be throwing that kind of game around😅
😊
Bobby Singh rajput mass 😎
time for a green screen upgrade, feels like i'm watching a video from 2012
I wouldn't know it was her. I've only heard of her but I never seen her.
Idk if u have had experience with a long distance relationship before but that might be something interesting to talk about 🤷🏼♂️
yea good topic for a future video.
I would've never said weird. That makes you weird 🤣
Can we get a person to drop a video that actually shows examples and goes out to do this to people. Lol writing on a board is one thing but actually doing it is another.
I’m reminded of a joke: Three guys are riding in a pickup truck. Which one is the Cowboy. The one in the middle, because he doesn’t need to drive and he doesn’t have to open/close the gates.
The guy in the middle doesn’t have to do any work.
Bobby, some of us guys are slaves to the these dumb dating apps. Any help with getting a woman's attention would be amazing. Thanks for you videos.
I noticed that reminding myself to smile at them always gets their attention, and most times, a smile back
Hit the gym. Work on your photo game. No selfies, most the time don't even look at the camera, you want photos to be candid. Getting their attention is the easy part, keeping it not so much
@22:14 I heard fun-to-mental
The abbreviation TLDR can also translate to Too Long Didn't Listen..fuck me just out with it ffs
We called this "negging" back in the mid 2000s
Sounds impossible and complicated but then again when heave modern women never make it impossible good video sounds too good to be true 🤣
Careful not to get creazy guys ….what about a little more real love ❤️ and a little less playing games ? 😅👍
Dont be naive guys. Andrea wants u to be soft so they can crush you.
Women totally go for the guy that play these games. They absolutely do. You ladies don’t admit it, but you absolutely totally go for the guys that play the games and play them correctly. You have to play these mind games with women. If you don’t you lose. The guys that win play these games.
I am sorry if it offends you that this man is talking about games to play. But he is absolutely right. The men who get the reward are the men who play the games. The guys who don’t are the guys that lose and that are mocked.
Living with an incurable disease is so hard, but you just have to live life day by day as it goes by (Cancer sucks)
It's never the end of the world, but all problems can be solved. I never believed in miracles until Quelani Eileen Freja helped me save my son.
Who is this Quelani Eileen Freja? And how can I get in touch?
Check the web
It's very easy.. hook her with your game.. once you hook her.. treat her like shit.. then she's hooked.
The more I listen, the more I think I’m shit
Taylor Swift ? Not impressed. How someone moderately talented like that can get so popular and rich is a mystery. Says a lot about the masses.
you would be intimidated if she was standing in front of you in a bar. its ok to admit it.
@@BobbyRio No , i wouldn't be. I've encountered several well known people ( American , British , French ) in the music business , because i worked for an engineering firm that designed and built stages ( for example for the Werchter music festival in Flanders , Northern Belgium ) and i have to say , many times i was fairly underwhelmed. That's not to say i couldn't be impressed by a woman , but it would be because of her personality , attractiveness , intelligence and charm. Not her fame or wealth. Like i said , showbizz people have rarely impressed me.
@@guntertorfs6486 Yes, you would be intimidated. Deal with it, dishonest person.
Not in the slightest. Just the opposite. My assumption is every celebrity is a dolt. Change my mind.
Plus I've never heard any of her songs.
Be on a time limit…. In and out. Your too damn busy to mess around
World of Warcraft is low key addictive as fuck.
Good grief 😅
@18:00 sounds made up . Nevertheless, a moderately decent example. You can do alot better. Were you winging it? Sounds like you are freestyling
Steve Buscemi looks like steve Buscemi on crack
tru lol
Bobby you and Chris are fucking geniuses.... U guys help me alot... Thank you
Can you match my level of thinking, I bet you do????
This is the Shit. 👍
Only thing I disagree with you is leaving out the fact there is a place and time to be apologetic. For example: If you creep her out to the point where she feels triggered by you and not talking to you again, you have to apologize to her after she cools down to see you have social awareness. Now what a lot of males do is they aplogise and become needy to ask her out instead of walking away. If you do this correctly, you can date others and come back to her and set the tone. Women don't look at past if enough time is gone pass. They look at the new you. What I'm saying is bit advanced if a guy don't know what he is doing.
yes, there is a time to apologize for sure.
Everyone in today's world became a genius. Oh no.
These things might work in the west however totally irrelevant in country like India ( Most of them if not all of them )
I have Questions that don’t have answers! Do you have them?
Bro I’ve wrote u 3 years ago, use infographic not a board and a marker cuz it Tameka it look old fashioned and like we are at the class
So 3 years and u still single ?
Just asking cause u r still here
@@imsp6851 no just sometimes reminding myself of some game stuff, I’m a young bull so don’t force relationships desperately
Maybe u are right I better unsubscribe. This guys talks too much, he could have cut it short! I need bullet points
Alright I’ve changed my mind, he s giving value even tho makes long videos. I’m staying. I just watch this channel like once a year, maybe should. A bit more often
this video doesn't have a whiteboard :)
My advice is , The best way is make your passport , save money , travel to Asian traditional countries, and marry traditional Asian woman , and have life
A rambling 25-minute speech.
OK, it works with weak, stupid and unconfident women. BUT it does NOT work with strong, confident, mature women.
Get to the point,
Omg “don’t have to worry about consent” you kidding me? Total low value move telling a girl you will take her to Hawaii after 1 kiss
Hey bro I got some questions ask u , I need ur help and advice for something
Actually as you get older not sure why you really care about this stuff lol
This guy is not good at expressing himself. 1 example: @14:33
Idk bro. This guys videos are pretty good.
@@madamkirk yea, unless you are socially awkward and have little sense, this is all pretty basic knowledge. That's why I can confidently say that he is not that great at expressing himself. I know what he wants to say or is trying to say at times and I want him to get it out in a relatable manner... Which he sometimes does. Other times, he has issues
ok. thanks for the critique.
@@emprrah OK. I understand what you mean. Just, I appreciate him because the content overall is good and has helped me. So I guess the glass is half full for me.
BS scammer
Your stories are not necessary. In fact, they take away from the content and I tune out.
Like, like, like, like, like, like. The most annoying word spoken by the most annoying people.
terrible advice trust me… this all sounds cringy and creepy
Go away this is for men only. You can’t trick us
To be clear, Adam was indeed a little on the creepy side and one step away from the "grab 'em by the p*ssy" assaults of trump. And he thinks he's smooth? Players are creepy, just admit it, even if they are successful. Get the guy a disco medallion a little coke spoon and play him some Bee Gee's...I find the whole thing interesting but I never had to do any of these Bobby Rio things as a preordained plan in my entire life and I've done just fine.
I will keep an open mind but you guys who play my sisters like this are not really what it's all about.
It's pretty easy for me. If they are not a virgin they get zero respect from me. I will never marry them so it will all be based on sex. So if she's a virgin then she'll get my respect. Period. End of story. 99% of all women's problems stem from the fact they did not remain virgins until they were married in my opinion. They will never truly respect their husband because he wasn't their first and it shows weakness that the man was willing to marry her anyway after getting her back blown out by another man.
Bro why you stop working with Jon Sinn?