These are things that come naturally when you are comfortable in your own skin and are not nervous or anxious. Just relax and let the conversation flow. Pretend you're talking to a friend instead of someone you are trying to impress.
Thank you it's a good advice i Will talk to woman like they are friends it Will make the contact less emotional and stressful and more natural because i won't Force a relationship, and being more relaxed and dont try to impress her all the time i Will look and behave more natural 👍
@@mrbadass8907 No. Being relaxed is how a woman senses you are confident. The problem with guys is they try too hard to impress a woman that they start getting nervous and giving off needy / desperate energy. The only skills you need for dating is knowing how to carry yourself like a man of value.
Yeah when I dont try, they are all over me. The problem is, I'm not making an effort because I'm not interested in those women in the first place haha.
Wait. I heard the idea of being in a relationship is MUST BE HER IDEA. According to what your are saying if is must be her ideas she has to bring it out. If I take charge I should bring it up?
Just to say , genuinely , I used your theory and your past videos , got myself a date on ' Match ' , played it cool on the website , not mass messaging and had the ' confidence ' of thinking ' i'm attractive ' and the attitude of plenty of fish in the sea ( take me or leave me ) I also had a wonderful first date at the weekend , 1 hour turned into 7 hours ( we went to a concert that had tickets ) . I also just left a like , and let her come to me - she visited my profile - numerous times before liking me back this Friday , went out on the Saturday . I also just relaxed and told my rehearsed stories and diid the 3 cycles - set up for a dinner date at the weekend - top marks to you , sir THANK YOU Bobby !
Yes! Did practically the same thing. Went in with no expectations with take it or leave it attitude. We ended up so connected. Mostly because she was doing the same thing.
But to be honest, if there's no chemistry, it can also be that the girl is really cute but YOU didn't really feel it. Not every pretty girl creates a spark in you! It goes both ways
I noticed that when I go to a event , party, gathering, whatever it is I always get the ladies interested in me from not talking to any women at all. For some reason the most bullish alpha male always seems to gravitate towards me and strikes conversation. These guys are usually the loudest and most masculine dude in the room bit they gravitate to me and just start asking me questions and comparing views on different matters to the point where I feel like Im just entertaining this dude just so he leaves everyone else alone. This is the point where we are laughing and sharing stories and opinions and Ill look around the room and every attractive woman in the place has eyes on me at one point or another. So when Its time to go home my Wife would always say “Man…..every woman in that place had their eyes on you tonight.” And she would laugh😊 What an angel. I miss her……..she died not two months ago from cancer and here I am watching videos on how to date women when Ive never had any problem getting their attention cause the other guys would do all the work for me……they just gravitated to me. It was always fun thinking about how easy it would have been to take one of those women home but I was married. One time I was at a Christmas party with my Wife for a friend of hers. They had a live cover band that was really really good. The lead singer was a female , a bit chunky but very attractive and had such a good voice. It just so happened that between sets she came back to the bar area to get in line behind me to get a drink so I let her go in front and said “Go ahead in front of me cause I know youre probably thirsty after all those incredible vocals.” She said “Aww thanks.” I told her her band was one if the best Ive ever heard and that her voice was just phenomenal. I was expecting her to say thank you and leaving it at that but she began asking me questions ljke do you know the host and have you knew them long then she looked at me with that look that any man would have to be oblivious not to pick up on and she said “Did you come here alone tonight?” I was totally taken back and pretty shocked because It wasn’t even my intention to flirt with her I was just being nice and wanted to compliment her. So yeah I told her Im here with my lovely Wife and the girl kinda looked embarrassed when I said that and I felt like I didn’t do anything wrong she just read me the wring way. Later my wife told me she saw that singer looking at me like a tiger ready to pounce so I told her what happened. She said “You gotta be careful just being nice to people cause you got it goin on man…..’mmmmm.” Then of course my Wife would attack me in bed cause it turned her on. Now i’m remembering all these stories wondering if I still got what it takes to make women flock to me. My Daughters seem to think Im still pretty dangerous and they keep warning me to beware of young gold diggers and spinsters showing up at my door with casseroles……lol. One of my Daughters is offended I would even think about dating again but my Wife insisted many times that I find another wonderful woman to love when she passes. That was a hard many conversations to have because I never had any desire but after she passed that loneliness set in and that stuff is no joke….I dont wish this on any man foreign or domestic. One of my Daughters told me I just need to get out there and bang as many chicks as possible just to get it out if my system but I told her I don’t move that fast and Im not into STD’s. Im just hoping I CAN find another wonderful Woman at my age that isn’t a freaking mess. Im 53 by the way…..still plenty of mojo left and Im in better shape now than when I was in my 30’s. I just need to give it a try and be myself. Its kind of scary because I still have a pit in my stomach and feel like a magnet that lost its other half when Im in public. Kinda feels like learning to walk all over again.
Woohoo Bobby I have been on this self development journey but I can definitely see potential ❤❤❤ on working on this pillars for my self I don't feel like I need a woman in my life I got divorced 2 year ago turning the page over and starting fresh on the market 🎉🎉🎉🎉
If it's this complicated now I just don't care. I believe the attraction is there or it's not. Every long term girlfriend I have had it just happened with no thought. I'm the same with all my dates. It's just a numbers game is what it appears to be.
This was huge Bobby!! I would get stuck in the fun topic and found it so hard to transition even when looking back I needed to hit the offramp and transition onto another topic.
the fact we have videos like this says alot of about where we are as men and as humans great video Bobby but man you thought this stuff would be more common sense.
If it feels easy you got the right girl in front of you. If it feels difficult or awkward then you don’t. As a man your job is to be fun and entertaining. And eventually to rock her in the bedroom. Never express how you feel or help her with anything. It will land you in the friendzone. IF you get ahead of her or make the mistake of opening up then start dating again to keep yourself busy pursuing all the other great women out there - there’s plenty of women looking for a great man. Good luck
Bobby, I'm 66 years old as was my date, our conversations started out with her telling me her boundaries, her line in the sand, we spent 3 hours of her telling me her past experiences, we are both Christian people, I couldn't get a word in??
what about if you are in a relationship that is getting boring for her.... what can be said or done to bring new and more excitement into the relationship?
That is what I still asking myself after two marriages . I wouldn t know. Just be yourself and when that is not enough then it is what it is. Leave and try again. Never change for no woman. Be kind and you did your best if you were/ are Just yourself.
Plan a trip somewhere or take her to do something fun that she's never done before. It helps to do something different from the everyday normal routine.
Hey Bobby Rio. I hope you're doing great. You're so cute and you speak English beautifully. But I for one believe that masculinity role doesn't necessarily mean that the man should make the first move and experience rejection. I think it's about showing green light. Then either the man or the girl can safely make the first move.
I thought of a clever name for the triangle diagram. Since it gives you the capacity to get with a woman: "The Fux Capacitor". Doc Brown can sue me. Looks kind of like his invention.
Interesting that all of this comes naturally to me & always works to get with the girl but after 6+ months it’s tough to keep going naturally. Does that mean the relationship is dead? Lol I’m curious but it kinda sucks lmao
Bobby your a great coach but I think if u guys upload examples of guys actually trying this in girls that would help alot sit back and get an idea 💡 and learn by watching the hole scenario in real life
If all else fails guys, just default to the questions Andy asked Beth in the 40 year old virgin: Beth: Can I help you? Andy: I don't know. Can you? Beth: Are you looking for something? Andy: Is there something I should be looking for? Beth: We have a lot of books. So, maybe it depends on what you like. Andy: What do you like? Beth: We have a great section of...do-it-yourself. Andy: Do you like to "do it yourself"? Beth: Sometimes. I mean...if the mood strikes. Andy: How is the mood striking you now? [they both laugh] Beth: What's your name? Andy: What's your name? Beth: I'm Beth. Andy: Andy. Beth: Andy. Don't tell on me, okay, Andy? Andy: I won't. Unless you want to be told on...Beth. LOL What a boring a$$ video this was! 007
@@conlawmeateater8792 bro I feel stupid because as men u have to put 100% of dos and don't if u say or do something it's game over its like walking in a mine field women have it much easier on the dating world they know someone is going to aproach or say something depending on the game u got she either decides to give u a chance or not like your not in control they are but I'm done chasing or acting nice around women I would never change who I am or act certain way just 4 a girl to like me I'm done playing stupid games if they like u they like u why make it complicated or go through a whole list just for women to like you ohh I have to do this or that ridiculous no way it's an unfair game where women have the upper hand but I'm changing the rules or even the odds that's why u can never let a women dictate your masculinity u can't never let women take advantage treat u like nice guy modern women have killed it never again ain't falling again women turn men into what they hate most
If women were as thirsty as men, then the dynamic would be completely different. Hint hint men, if you are confident, competent, reserved, and interesting, then most of what is put forth in this video becomes effortless. If it seems like effort, then you have work to do.
Hey Bobby. I have question that screams for an answer. Why is it that it’s all about women not men? Why should we do our best to impress women but they should not do their best to impress us? Shouldn’t it go both ways?
If you're going to wait for a woman who treats you as well as you treat her you're going to be waiting a long time. Living in the realm of how things should be versus how things are will be a stumbling block to your success..
The dating strategy between men and women are different. It's been like this in almost all species within animal kingdom. Women seek the best male. The males are the sellers and the females are the buyers
I need help I'm in a bit of a situation. So we used to go to the same school until I moved schools but luckily I got her phone number on the last day. I'm usually the 1st one to text but I kind of say the same thing each time like "hows school going" And I know you shouldn't do the same thing over and over again because it makes you predictable but I have no idea what else to say. So what is a good conversation starter
Because it takes that much amount of time to fill people mind with bs only for them to take a test that means nothing later on in life. I learn 20 min in a workplace more then 2 years in school. That says the system is highly inefficient and outdated
It got to be really complicated if needed 10 different formulas, triangles, phytagoras, loop of that triangle, impress her and to make that happen, make your own greatest jokes every time unique ones to make her laugh, which would then be used as a bridge to be able to flirt in a way the btch doesnt get scared and so on... Maaan... this is fcking mayhem or some...
Boy, women are so simple, just like 50k years ago. I feel I am watching a training for a dog license. I wish I was gay. Probably the only way to have deep conversations in a relationship.
Guys listen up, this guy is all about text book hypothesis, not real life. So don't subscribe to his channel unless he can prove real life and not text book hypothesis
Chemisty ; the masculine/feminine roles.. ffs. This has been a major piece of what I've been missing.. like forever. Where was this in all of the fking pu crap I've looked at? Sigh. Better later than never but still..
@@BobbyRio I hear you but after some thought.. I don't think you have to "lead the way" all the time to be a man. I guess it's - how i hate this word- calibration. Sometimes you want to take the lead but a lot of women are sensitive to being domineered over. And that's where the crux lies. Its in those little grey areas where it's difficult. Maybe the way you come across is more important than taking the lead most of the time - and some of the time would suffice...
My first girl made it so easy. It was never this complex but watching this, i realize I already do this. But my first girl I was shy af at first and she even had to talk me into asking her out. We'd sit in the car and talk for hours and even sleep until the next morning. No smashing yet but when we did... She's the one I lost the v card to and I'm a quick learner. She wasn't a virgin but after about 1 or 2 months... She couldn't turn me down. Anywhere I wanted it... We did it and I love public places. These days it's so many games. Parents could be upstairs and minutes after they went upstairs...drawers off. I'm still shy a little at first but in the bedroom I'm a totally different beast. It's like that's where I can just be me.
A Total waste of time watching this guy bableing on and on just go see a movie or do something to talk about afterwards and then the ice is broken. All this BS means nothing. You are never going to learn it just do it
OH MY GOSH!! are you nervous or unsure? .. After all these years. STOP Saying RIGHT after so many sentences?? Why do you need anyone's validation or approval for what YOU the experienced teacher are TEACHING?.. consciously or unconsciously! dang, and "you know" and "like".. man, so annoying and tiring after all these years.
PLEASE... STOP saying "Right" after every other or few sentences! MAN! .. lol.. Is this the way you talk to / with women too? and if you do they have to get extremely annoyed at you and have to want to hit you in the mouth and leave /get away from you in just a few minutes! dang! lol
It comes naturally if you are a man who has confidence in yourself not being afraid of rejection just being you who you are as a person knows how to start a conversation with a wonan of any subject in general gotta know how to get your game on if your shy and dont talk much she knows your a boring person and most woman dont like boring guys or man , me for example i been there done that when i get married have families i retired from it cause your family your kids is your number one priority and if the wife says your boring that her not changing herself to be a grown mature adult woman
Where's your advice on what to do when she's starting to pull away from you or how you get a woman back that you feel that you're losing where's the magical text message?
These are things that come naturally when you are comfortable in your own skin and are not nervous or anxious. Just relax and let the conversation flow. Pretend you're talking to a friend instead of someone you are trying to impress.
Thank you it's a good advice i Will talk to woman like they are friends it Will make the contact less emotional and stressful and more natural because i won't Force a relationship, and being more relaxed and dont try to impress her all the time i Will look and behave more natural 👍
A man without technical game is just a man moved by its intuition ,leading to beginner mistakes
What you just described is only part of it, you actually do have to adjust your mindset tho
worst advice ever. dating is a skill, it take time to get use to.
@@mrbadass8907 No. Being relaxed is how a woman senses you are confident. The problem with guys is they try too hard to impress a woman that they start getting nervous and giving off needy / desperate energy. The only skills you need for dating is knowing how to carry yourself like a man of value.
If a guy simply doesn't care what a woman thinks of him and just speaks naturally, the right ones will be attracted to him
Yeah when I dont try, they are all over me. The problem is, I'm not making an effort because I'm not interested in those women in the first place haha.
Wait. I heard the idea of being in a relationship is MUST BE HER IDEA.
According to what your are saying if is must be her ideas she has to bring it out.
If I take charge I should bring it up?
Just to say , genuinely , I used your theory and your past videos , got myself a date on ' Match ' , played it cool on the website , not mass messaging
and had the ' confidence ' of thinking ' i'm attractive ' and the attitude of plenty of fish in the sea ( take me or leave me )
I also had a wonderful first date at the weekend , 1 hour turned into 7 hours ( we went to a concert that had tickets ) .
I also just left a like , and let her come to me - she visited my profile - numerous times before liking me back this Friday , went out on the Saturday .
I also just relaxed and told my rehearsed stories and diid the 3 cycles - set up for a dinner date at the weekend - top marks to you , sir
THANK YOU Bobby !
awesome to hear, glad you putting the stuff to use!
Don't do long dates, man. Also, she gets one date a week from you, no long text conversations, and she contacts you at least 70 percent of the time.
@@GUITARTIME2024 Exactly! Most guys won't listen to that advice. Only 3% of men will listen. I too follow Coach Corey's work.
@@billyr.1703 he's great!
Yes! Did practically the same thing. Went in with no expectations with take it or leave it attitude. We ended up so connected. Mostly because she was doing the same thing.
But to be honest, if there's no chemistry, it can also be that the girl is really cute but YOU didn't really feel it.
Not every pretty girl creates a spark in you!
It goes both ways
yes, very true.
Facts. I’ve had dates with knockout level women, and I just wasn’t feelin them. Some were shallow gals. Some just clearly were wrong for me.
@@JackDubya80 i like it if the girl is a bit cheeky... that turns me on... Ok a bit looks is also necessary 😉
If your younger, tho...
Take the notch on your post
This video says there is no spark. You create the spark.. If you don’t feel it then you don’t feel like making them think there is a spark…
This guy is a genius honestly made me an alpha. Most important thing I’ve learned from him is that women are lead by emotion!!!
thanks, glad you finding the videos helpful, and women def lead by emotion :)
I assure you that you are not an Alpha my friend
@@-HiddenInPlainSight-hater
@@zalodelsolar3366=confirmed lower IQ
@@-HiddenInPlainSight-you can assure the guy he's not alpha even figuratively speaking, i.e. within a specific domain.
Mmmmmkay gamma.
This is one of the greatest insightful dating tips on internet
We all love Bobby ❤
Some of this is genius Bobby. Thank you for what you do to help us.
Thanks, Alex
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I noticed that when I go to a event , party, gathering, whatever it is I always get the ladies interested in me from not talking to any women at all.
For some reason the most bullish alpha male always seems to gravitate towards me and strikes conversation.
These guys are usually the loudest and most masculine dude in the room bit they gravitate to me and just start asking me questions and comparing views on different matters to the point where I feel like Im just entertaining this dude just so he leaves everyone else alone.
This is the point where we are laughing and sharing stories and opinions and Ill look around the room and every attractive woman in the place has eyes on me at one point or another.
So when Its time to go home my Wife would always say “Man…..every woman in that place had their eyes on you tonight.”
And she would laugh😊
What an angel.
I miss her……..she died not two months ago from cancer and here I am watching videos on how to date women when Ive never had any problem getting their attention cause the other guys would do all the work for me……they just gravitated to me.
It was always fun thinking about how easy it would have been to take one of those women home but I was married.
One time I was at a Christmas party with my Wife for a friend of hers.
They had a live cover band that was really really good.
The lead singer was a female , a bit chunky but very attractive and had such a good voice.
It just so happened that between sets she came back to the bar area to get in line behind me to get a drink so I let her go in front and said “Go ahead in front of me cause I know youre probably thirsty after all those incredible vocals.”
She said “Aww thanks.”
I told her her band was one if the best Ive ever heard and that her voice was just phenomenal.
I was expecting her to say thank you and leaving it at that but she began asking me questions ljke do you know the host and have you knew them long then she looked at me with that look that any man would have to be oblivious not to pick up on and she said “Did you come here alone tonight?”
I was totally taken back and pretty shocked because It wasn’t even my intention to flirt with her I was just being nice and wanted to compliment her.
So yeah I told her Im here with my lovely Wife and the girl kinda looked embarrassed when I said that and I felt like I didn’t do anything wrong she just read me the wring way.
Later my wife told me she saw that singer looking at me like a tiger ready to pounce so I told her what happened.
She said “You gotta be careful just being nice to people cause you got it goin on man…..’mmmmm.”
Then of course my Wife would attack me in bed cause it turned her on.
Now i’m remembering all these stories wondering if I still got what it takes to make women flock to me.
My Daughters seem to think Im still pretty dangerous and they keep warning me to beware of young gold diggers and spinsters showing up at my door with casseroles……lol.
One of my Daughters is offended I would even think about dating again but my Wife insisted many times that I find another wonderful woman to love when she passes.
That was a hard many conversations to have because I never had any desire but after she passed that loneliness set in and that stuff is no joke….I dont wish this on any man foreign or domestic.
One of my Daughters told me I just need to get out there and bang as many chicks as possible just to get it out if my system but I told her I don’t move that fast and Im not into STD’s.
Im just hoping I CAN find another wonderful Woman at my age that isn’t a freaking mess.
Im 53 by the way…..still plenty of mojo left and Im in better shape now than when I was in my 30’s.
I just need to give it a try and be myself.
Its kind of scary because I still have a pit in my stomach and feel like a magnet that lost its other half when Im in public.
Kinda feels like learning to walk all over again.
“You’re not going to say, I’m going to have to spank you to your female boss” Well, now hang on there Bobby… maybe you’ll get a raise if you do
Woohoo Bobby I have been on this self development journey but I can definitely see potential ❤❤❤ on working on this pillars for my self I don't feel like I need a woman in my life I got divorced 2 year ago turning the page over and starting fresh on the market 🎉🎉🎉🎉
If it's this complicated now I just don't care. I believe the attraction is there or it's not. Every long term girlfriend I have had it just happened with no thought. I'm the same with all my dates. It's just a numbers game is what it appears to be.
This was huge Bobby!! I would get stuck in the fun topic and found it so hard to transition even when looking back I needed to hit the offramp and transition onto another topic.
😁 I have those "connected, extra element" conversations with my friend's girl friend. 😋
The lighting makes it look like your hair is purple grayish which is kinda cool 😄
true lol
Eating Ben and Jerry's at 2 am dam that's a fine example of an emotional experience.
the fact we have videos like this says alot of about where we are as men and as humans great video Bobby but man you thought this stuff would be more common sense.
for some it is, for others, especially 'introverts' like me, it was something i had to learn.
@@BobbyRio for sure thanks for the videos and advice its always good to see what areas we can improve on.
Best video from BR I have seen in that it seems very actionable
glad you enjoyed.
So good to hear it was helpful
If it feels easy you got the right girl in front of you. If it feels difficult or awkward then you don’t. As a man your job is to be fun and entertaining. And eventually to rock her in the bedroom. Never express how you feel or help her with anything. It will land you in the friendzone. IF you get ahead of her or make the mistake of opening up then start dating again to keep yourself busy pursuing all the other great women out there - there’s plenty of women looking for a great man. Good luck
That's terrible advice. Are you being the woman in this scenario?
Well done. Enjoyable learning.
Painting houses can also bring chemistry:
Jimmy Hoffa: I heard that you paint houses.
Frank Sheeran; I also do the carpeting.
From: The Irishman.
Bobby, I'm 66 years old as was my date, our conversations started out with her telling me her boundaries, her line in the sand, we spent 3 hours of her telling me her past experiences, we are both Christian people, I couldn't get a word in??
what about if you are in a relationship that is getting boring for her.... what can be said or done to bring new and more excitement into the relationship?
You do something to make her chase you. It usually re-sparks it.
Pull back, don't be available so much.
That is what I still asking myself after two marriages . I wouldn t know. Just be yourself and when that is not enough then it is what it is. Leave and try again. Never change for no woman. Be kind and you did your best if you were/ are Just yourself.
Show her the spots on your penis??
Plan a trip somewhere or take her to do something fun that she's never done before. It helps to do something different from the everyday normal routine.
Hey Bobby Rio. I hope you're doing great. You're so cute and you speak English beautifully. But I for one believe that masculinity role doesn't necessarily mean that the man should make the first move and experience rejection. I think it's about showing green light. Then either the man or the girl can safely make the first move.
Hey Barby, hows it hangin? great video!
Thank you
I thought of a clever name for the triangle diagram.
Since it gives you the capacity to get with a woman:
"The Fux Capacitor".
Doc Brown can sue me. Looks kind of like his invention.
I practice all this stuff at the cash register as a Trader Joe's. I'll make the girls laugh so loud everyone will look at us 😂
When they find out that I can't physically have sex ,there are no second dates
Find a girl at church and tell her you don't believe in pre-marital sex, except Oral... thank me later 😉
Fix your ED then and stop watching porn
Interesting that all of this comes naturally to me & always works to get with the girl but after 6+ months it’s tough to keep going naturally. Does that mean the relationship is dead? Lol I’m curious but it kinda sucks lmao
It's difficult to create all the three fun, connection & intimacy if you ask me
You’re not alone in saying that, many guys have trouble with it. But thankfully it’s a skill you can learn just like any sport
@@CoachCalvin l can't create all the three
Bobby your a great coach but I think if u guys upload examples of guys actually trying this in girls that would help alot sit back and get an idea 💡 and learn by watching the hole scenario in real life
Get out there and try it yourself!
This is a Master Class
glad you enjoyed
How do I do this with a girl from work?
If all else fails guys, just default to the questions Andy asked Beth in the 40 year old virgin:
Beth:
Can I help you?
Andy:
I don't know. Can you?
Beth:
Are you looking for something?
Andy:
Is there something I should be looking for?
Beth:
We have a lot of books. So, maybe it depends on what you like.
Andy:
What do you like?
Beth:
We have a great section of...do-it-yourself.
Andy:
Do you like to "do it yourself"?
Beth:
Sometimes. I mean...if the mood strikes.
Andy:
How is the mood striking you now?
[they both laugh]
Beth:
What's your name?
Andy:
What's your name?
Beth:
I'm Beth.
Andy:
Andy.
Beth:
Andy. Don't tell on me, okay, Andy?
Andy:
I won't. Unless you want to be told on...Beth.
LOL
What a boring a$$ video this was!
007
Harvard could do a 1 year course on all this stuff
If the woman and the man has some chemistry going on there, the man should get his test tube out! Great vid here.
For DNA check
Bobbys best...
glad you enjoyed.
That is easy
Damn that's alot of effort can't believe women have it much easier on the dating world its ridiculous
There's no way in the 80s and 90s men had to jump through these many hoops just to get the cookie just to even have a casual relationship. Ridiculous
@@conlawmeateater8792 bro I feel stupid because as men u have to put 100% of dos and don't if u say or do something it's game over its like walking in a mine field women have it much easier on the dating world they know someone is going to aproach or say something depending on the game u got she either decides to give u a chance or not like your not in control they are but I'm done chasing or acting nice around women I would never change who I am or act certain way just 4 a girl to like me I'm done playing stupid games if they like u they like u why make it complicated or go through a whole list just for women to like you ohh I have to do this or that ridiculous no way it's an unfair game where women have the upper hand but I'm changing the rules or even the odds that's why u can never let a women dictate your masculinity u can't never let women take advantage treat u like nice guy modern women have killed it never again ain't falling again women turn men into what they hate most
If women were as thirsty as men, then the dynamic would be completely different.
Hint hint men, if you are confident, competent, reserved, and interesting, then most of what is put forth in this video becomes effortless. If it seems like effort, then you have work to do.
Most women lose in lose , even my own Mom
Hey Bobby. I have question that screams for an answer. Why is it that it’s all about women not men? Why should we do our best to impress women but they should not do their best to impress us? Shouldn’t it go both ways?
Is not about impressing a girl it's all about attract a girl so she strats to chase you 😁
If you're going to wait for a woman who treats you as well as you treat her you're going to be waiting a long time. Living in the realm of how things should be versus how things are will be a stumbling block to your success..
Women should also work hard to get men.
It should and it does.
If a man has standards the woman will have to work hard.
Why are women not putting in the work?
Because we guys are too easy.
The dating strategy between men and women are different. It's been like this in almost all species within animal kingdom. Women seek the best male. The males are the sellers and the females are the buyers
It's more of a continuum than an equation.
I need help I'm in a bit of a situation. So we used to go to the same school until I moved schools but luckily I got her phone number on the last day. I'm usually the 1st one to text but I kind of say the same thing each time like "hows school going" And I know you shouldn't do the same thing over and over again because it makes you predictable but I have no idea what else to say.
So what is a good conversation starter
You ask her out. That's what you do. If she says no or gives excuses, you don't contact her again.
How can you listen to this voice for more than 10 seconds without throwing up?
im sorry you're having a bad day. Things will get better for you, I promise.
Bobby you are incredible Come here to Ireland I invite you to me - best greetings ❤
There's a small mistake in the title.
thanks for pointing it out, fixed.
Where can I learn about keeping long term relationship,sparks ,tensions, romance, and talk thats where I mess up onceI have a relationship 😅
here's a couple recommend on that topic: czcams.com/video/ZNuWGlllyQ8/video.html
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Write a book
He did a lot of programs and products.
@@arminxvs3372 I know what I typed
@@Notabot437 You need a hard cover book or would an e-book be fine?
@@arminxvs3372 paper would suffice
@@Notabot437 Yeah that ain't happening anytime soon I fear.
If she's talking about her kid, the only transition to make is a transition to a different woman.
Thanks to you Bobby, girls cant stay off my ----
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Dude do you just randomly make this shit up in your room 😂
I wish these videos would've been step-by- step instead of too much talking and rambling
Too much hard work!! LOL"
How drained empty each month?
If u connect u connect. It's not something u can manufacture.
Sure if she makes it easy for u. But 99% don't make it easy. So let's be real !!!
Why does it take 25 minutes to tell us how to get her attracted in 5 minutes?
I gave up
Why does it take going to class for weeks and studying for hours to pass a 30 minute test in school?
Teaching a skill always takes much longer than using the skill
Because it takes that much amount of time to fill people mind with bs only for them to take a test that means nothing later on in life.
I learn 20 min in a workplace more then 2 years in school. That says the system is highly inefficient and outdated
money=chemistry
how much money??
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Cant i just win the lotto?
I have an idea you get a female and you can act it out
The guy who built the wall is not good at this
Mother helped build it.
Painting the inside of a closet sounds a lil sus
18:00 most creepy stuff to bring intimacy into. Its not natural at all
It got to be really complicated if needed 10 different formulas, triangles, phytagoras, loop of that triangle, impress her and to make that happen, make your own greatest jokes every time unique ones to make her laugh, which would then be used as a bridge to be able to flirt in a way the btch doesnt get scared and so on... Maaan... this is fcking mayhem or some...
Boy, women are so simple, just like 50k years ago. I feel I am watching a training for a dog license. I wish I was gay. Probably the only way to have deep conversations in a relationship.
If there was something you could say to make 99% of girls feel "chemistry", wouldnt that make "chemistry" meaningless?
childhood story was boring lol
With that voice….. phew, no way br
Too complicated for short term relationships.
You gone spank her bobby ???😂😂😂😂
Best to not study chemistry but accounting. Because alimony is expensive.
Is this guy actually in a relationship??
happily married.
Does this work on an ex?
Its takes forever for him to spit out the info ..fluff video...
Guys listen up, this guy is all about text book hypothesis, not real life. So don't subscribe to his channel unless he can prove real life and not text book hypothesis
Chemisty ; the masculine/feminine roles.. ffs. This has been a major piece of what I've been missing.. like forever. Where was this in all of the fking pu crap I've looked at? Sigh. Better later than never but still..
i was missing that for a long time and very often let the woman take the lead...
@@BobbyRio I hear you but after some thought.. I don't think you have to "lead the way" all the time to be a man. I guess it's - how i hate this word- calibration. Sometimes you want to take the lead but a lot of women are sensitive to being domineered over. And that's where the crux lies. Its in those little grey areas where it's difficult. Maybe the way you come across is more important than taking the lead most of the time - and some of the time would suffice...
So, you think its a good idea to ask a woman how many vibrators she has ????? I'm not sure about that line??????????
It's teasing. If she answers "6", then either she's teasing you back, or be prepared for a wild ride.
And then you get with her then the misery starts.
Ugh. too damned complicated. I am staying single. My last girlfriend fell in love with me and cast her net on me. It was easy.
My first girl made it so easy. It was never this complex but watching this, i realize I already do this. But my first girl I was shy af at first and she even had to talk me into asking her out. We'd sit in the car and talk for hours and even sleep until the next morning. No smashing yet but when we did... She's the one I lost the v card to and I'm a quick learner. She wasn't a virgin but after about 1 or 2 months... She couldn't turn me down. Anywhere I wanted it... We did it and I love public places. These days it's so many games. Parents could be upstairs and minutes after they went upstairs...drawers off. I'm still shy a little at first but in the bedroom I'm a totally different beast. It's like that's where I can just be me.
Women don't feel butterflies if you are a ugly guy
Man u not saying anything worth nothing.
A Total waste of time watching this guy bableing on and on just go see a movie or do something to talk about afterwards and then the ice is broken. All this BS means nothing. You are never going to learn it just do it
Too complicated!! Snap out of it!! I’ll make it easy!! You like me? I like you!!!
OH MY GOSH!! are you nervous or unsure? .. After all these years. STOP Saying RIGHT after so many sentences?? Why do you need anyone's validation or approval for what YOU the experienced teacher are TEACHING?.. consciously or unconsciously! dang, and "you know" and "like".. man, so annoying and tiring after all these years.
having a bad day?
PLEASE... STOP saying "Right" after every other or few sentences! MAN! .. lol.. Is this the way you talk to / with women too? and if you do they have to get extremely annoyed at you and have to want to hit you in the mouth and leave /get away from you in just a few minutes! dang! lol
Good hypothesis' but all this is text book dude. Get out of the books and talk real life
It comes naturally if you are a man who has confidence in yourself not being afraid of rejection just being you who you are as a person knows how to start a conversation with a wonan of any subject in general gotta know how to get your game on if your shy and dont talk much she knows your a boring person and most woman dont like boring guys or man , me for example i been there done that when i get married have families i retired from it cause your family your kids is your number one priority and if the wife says your boring that her not changing herself to be a grown mature adult woman
May be marriage in tr
Where's your advice on what to do when she's starting to pull away from you or how you get a woman back that you feel that you're losing where's the magical text message?
even when these 3 exist ..how u make move to kiss her lips?long story i know...haha
Watch for the woman's subcommunication. She'll let you know when she wants to be kissed.
The chemistry 🧪 is either there or not if you go on a date and you are not fully attracted to her it’s not there