Can’t Get Over Your Ex? Watch This
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- čas přidán 15. 05. 2024
- After a breakup, the combination of heartbreak, loneliness and missing your ex can be incredibly challenging. This video will give you practical, actionable steps to help you get over your ex and stop thinking about her.
And then you just really can miss someone's presence in your life because true connections are far and inbetween. These things help, but if someone rare leaves your life, it's going to be a hit no matter what you have going on. I lost someone bc it was just bad timing, and yes I have the ability and understanding there is something similar or better out here, but....but, that could take a long time if ever and that is what hurts the most.
Walking in faith with a broken heart sometimes there's moments where I feel like I'm spiritually walking on Legos. Emotional whiplash and I'm sure that's why I'm so fatigued! Thank you Meghan!❤
What just happened to me. Divorced her because she started making fun of my disibility.. 6 month later wanted to work things out with me . Told me how she wanted to work it with me because she still loved me and our boy was going to be out in bad situation- one month after that she said she went on bumble found a guy who is debt of a morgage and left lol. Never trust them
Exactly what just happened to me. 2 years together. Lived together for 1.5 years. Moved out 3 weeks ago. I completely lost myself and didn’t recognize myself in the mirror. Being separated and not talking I’ve began to find myself again. Do I miss her? Yeah but only the positives I wrote down all the negatives and just think of that now. And there were many more negatives than positives. Also, she is a covert narcissist confirmed by my therapist. Broke up with me 5 times through fights she instigated. I finally walked. Lol so it’s similar to withdrawing from a drug. Stay strong Gents 💪🏼
Appreciate you sharing your experience. Wishing you a successful come back brother.
Confirmed by your therapist through your perspective. What was she like in the beginning? Sometimes women change because of the way the man treats them in the relationship. If you aren’t safe to love she can’t love you properly. She can’t do all the things she use to do because she isn’t secure. Men always say “women are crazy” without taking into account how they drove the woman to that point.
@@CreaTiffany111 hey great question. I don’t think she is crazy but I do know she is not open to therapy or inner reflection. It runs in her family and her family enables her behavior. Her mom is still single was an alcoholic for 18 years (now sober) I love her mom. Her dad has been out of her life since she was 13. It was always me apologizing and trying to fix the relationship and taking all accountability. She apologized maybe one time in the entire relationship. No accountability.
In the beginning straight love bomb sex first night and all the time it was like a drug, met her mom in a couple weeks, pretended to like all my hobbies and interests only to resent them in the end. Family trips together which were great, fake future talking was sending me new apartments she wanted to live in together 2 weeks before the breakup, she only had a couple close friends from childhood, her family wanted us to get married 1.5 years in. pretended to like everything I liked and accepted my views which were complete opposite of hers. Politically, morally etc etc. she began to have to control everything, where we lived, what the house decor was, all the gifts she gave me were gifts that she liked - materialistic things that I never asked for and yeah it was wild.
Difference is I know I could have done better and was constantly trying to improve but at some point a woman has to make themself feel safe and secure. She wore a mask in public and would come home and shit talk everyone around her family, friends and I’m assuming me when I wasn’t around. Instead of talking through conflict lots of triangulation. She did try but she never communicated what she actually needed she admitted she held grudges tho and that ultimately will never work in any relationship regardless of how the guy shows up.
Dumped me 5 times mid fight throughout the relationship when she was not getting what she wanted and a guy can’t just guess what someone wants. It’s a two way street. Also never cooked at all. I was an object to her. We lived together for 1.5 years of the 2 year relationship. I ended up moving out because she didn’t want to work things out and every time we broke up she would start a fight throw her hands up say I don’t want this anymore. I’ve been in 3 other relationships and have never experienced a woman this insecure no matter what I did it wasn’t good enough. I could have been better but I truly did everything I could. Men need to be met half way. And communication and resentment and grudge holding kills the relationship 9/10 and majority of the time it is the female who cannot express their emotions. Even if they are in a “safe” space and she was.
This is the best explanation on how to get over the pain of my divorce. So easily understood. Thanks!!
@@zakirazak5812 you’re welcome!
Man, this really helps a lot and puts things to perspective. Thanks you, you're helping a lot of people :)
@@yamankhoi I’m glad you found it helpful!
Great advice. Thank you.
My pleasure 🙏🏼
Look at relationships like a multi-table tournament poker professional views tournaments. They know they will likely not convert any given tournament, but that if they play their A-game consistently they will win long term. Don't drag past failures into new people. Start over, like the MIB zapped you with that mind eraser thing.
Good video. Practical and informative. Thx.
My pleasure 🙂
Amazing view, thank you
I’m glad you liked it 🙌🏻
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is chamani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@@peterwilliams6361 You are in a very bad place right now and i understand that You want her back. I was in similar situation and i can tell You that You shouldn't be with someone who don't wanna be with you. For first 3/4 months after breakup i was in exactly the same position ("i want her back"). But after some time i realized that i deserve someone who choose me everyday and who love me unconditionally.
I'm not a man so probably not your target audience but damn I found this helpful thank you. Straight to the point and practical...just like my ex 😭 ugh whyyy 😆
@@amelie-db7gu 😂 I’m glad you found it helpful!
Good content bro keep it up 👍
I appreciate that man, thank you 🙏🏼
This just taught me how to live
I’m glad you liked it 🫡❤️
I did what you suggest here, as ,yes ,, I had to cut away from the past and rebuild. I did however run into a slight problem. I payed the mortgage off , got into seriously good shape , I was entering age group races etc . Reeducation,, I read and read and read ,, problem,, I couldn’t find a woman to keep up with me,,mentally or physically, I ended up with 20, plus ,, that I put in the friend zone . I have remarried, ( 14 years ago ) . But for years I took out or saw for the weekend, women who accompanied me ,while I completed my pass time activities,, typically they did that ONE ,, problem was I did hundreds, my interests were limitless theirs were limited
What if there really wasn't any negatives with them 😔
Nope.. there is always something fishy with them..the only thing is we put them on pedestal like God
@@S_24120 what a sad point of view to have that something MUST be "fishy" with every woman ever. maybe you've just been fucked over too many times and your perspective is skewed, but there are truly good women out there. good luck mate
There may not be anything negative we can think of for them, so think more widely about the relationship, eg ways you weren't compatible. Breakups aren't always about people being wrong, but just not right for eachother
Try to think if there really aren't any negatives, it can be hard to find them when your brain automatically puts that person on a pedestal and only fetches for the good things. And if you really can't think of anything bad then why did the breakup happen ? Why were you incompatible, you can still find acceptance in not being the right person for each other or right person wrong time. And even if lets say this person had no flaws, usually those people are boring, and the people that have some issues can sometimes give you the best relationship you'll ever experience.