How Girls "Test" Guys | How to Handle These "Tests"

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  • čas přidán 3. 07. 2024
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    So how do you handle it when a woman starts testing you, when she starts busting your balls, giving you shit, or just being flat out rude to you? That's what Rob Judge and I are going to be talking about in today's video.

Komentáře • 101

  • @davidosalsero2519
    @davidosalsero2519 Před 2 lety +8

    Got it! Years ago, before I understood, I just by smirky thinking, came up with the brilliant response to this TEST - she said "You always turn your phone off when you are with a woman!". I slowly said "Yes, I always turn my phone off when I am with a woman, and there's also lots of other reasons why I turn my phone off". TEST PASSED!

  • @lastwhtknight3002
    @lastwhtknight3002 Před 3 lety +7

    Rob Judge always adds so much value to the topic. This was a big one for me. Thnx Bobby.

  • @despabikes
    @despabikes Před 3 lety +12

    It’s never been so easy for me to tell what somebody’s thinking while looking at their face as it is for me when I look at Bobby’s face while his partner is speaking. LOL. This video had some good information though.

  • @eddie1579ful
    @eddie1579ful Před 3 lety +2

    Great job Guys! Love your videos! Keep them coming 👍😃

  • @sulaimanismail8820
    @sulaimanismail8820 Před 3 lety +1

    Coach you learn us what we need of relationships thanks

  • @joevas9528
    @joevas9528 Před rokem +1

    to the shoe shit test, even a " Sounds like someone's jealous." or.... even " good observation, you may be a keeper after all." might work

  • @moonbeam2062
    @moonbeam2062 Před rokem +6

    I've got a different take on these "tests" that you're talking about. I believe that some girls just like guys , find themselves in the same boat of not knowing what to say to a guy that they want to have a conversation with. So, for lack of anything better to start conversing with you, they will throw a little insult at you similar to what you guys mentioned in an effort to start talking to you. It's actually a sign of an insecurity, immaturity and unsureness on their part of how to pursue a guy they have an interest in. (Yeah, surprise, surprise, girls are not naturally born all knowing and powerful in controlling the chase. They are human. They put up a front and a facade because they also are trying to learn how to get a man at the same time men are learning how to get a woman.) In the past, I've actually reacted angrily to a girl for insulting me and the surprise on her face was revealing in that she didn't expect that reaction. Which is telling! Because normally you expect someone to get upset with you for insulting them but instead the look on her face indicated she was actually hoping I would jokingly take it and reciprocate by engaging in some talk and flirting which was really all she was trying to do. I've also flat out told women, "Sorry babe, but that is NOT the way to win me over. Try just being nice instead!"

  • @othonpedro2870
    @othonpedro2870 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for your videos

  • @cry2love
    @cry2love Před 3 lety +3

    I'm a scrambler myself, I scramble snow away from my driveway every winter.
    I have a 34 minute long video tutorial from my dashcam.

  • @rod779
    @rod779 Před 3 lety

    I really appreciate the story

  • @thomasferraro7338
    @thomasferraro7338 Před 2 lety

    good stuff guys

  • @nonenone6884
    @nonenone6884 Před 17 dny +1

    What do we get if we pass their test

  • @neilbradley
    @neilbradley Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great video! But am I the only one who's bothered by the audio channels being swapped? Bobby's on the right in the audio, and Rob on the left, but the opposite on screen.

  • @akonemanaba4183
    @akonemanaba4183 Před měsícem

    I understand tests now

  • @carpe_poon5761
    @carpe_poon5761 Před 6 dny

    “Why you wearing running shoes in a bar?”
    Me: “Did you get those shoes from a sex worker?”

  • @Holypikemanz
    @Holypikemanz Před 2 lety +1

    Dude thats an EPIC story. Remaining calm when she is calling me a "cockroach" is a real fing test.

    • @someone7773
      @someone7773 Před rokem

      🤣

    • @jocular1910
      @jocular1910 Před měsícem

      Sir, excuse please, if someone calls you a "cockroach" you should respect yourself enough to consider it a personal insult. Do something about it.

  • @robertuceda5121
    @robertuceda5121 Před 3 lety

    Rob and Bobby! with covid season, and hopefully the vaccines tested and ready to work, and hopefully CA governor maybe easing the restrictions, what are your thoughts about meeting cool women now in SoCal with this pandemic somewhat in full bloom? hopefully the vaccines can turn the tide by March? thoughts?

  • @johngeoffrey9768
    @johngeoffrey9768 Před 3 lety +1

    I am going through that test right now, I hope I haven't fucked up, thank God I am seeing this video now

  • @parzivala4669
    @parzivala4669 Před 3 lety +20

    Haven't watched the vid yet but I know we are being motivated to buy THE SCRAMBLER for 18 minutes😂❤

    • @zking8438
      @zking8438 Před 3 lety +3

      I swear....every video is just a sales pitch to buy a video or pdf or to subscribe for one program or the other😂🤣😂

    • @MrEstuse
      @MrEstuse Před 3 lety +4

      TRUE!!! Lmao but... gotta admit they know what they’re talkin bout. F it okay I bought it about a year ago didn’t finish it but def learned some stuff... I’m jealous they’re making money off it but props to them get your money and it’s worth it. Picture “how to win friends and influence... yada yada “ you know the book mixed with “Hitch” so wel it’s that for relationships and it’s good to know. Cause you might think they’re teaching you to “play the Game” but girls need and want that.. cuase it just makes it exciting and they want to know the real you... everyone is attractive in their own way. So once a girl gets to know you they B hooked

    • @lastwhtknight3002
      @lastwhtknight3002 Před 3 lety +1

      Dont buy it. Just keep losing w women. Thats a gr8 strategy. Good luck.

    • @parzivala4669
      @parzivala4669 Před 3 lety

      @@zking8438 I know right😂😂😂

    • @parzivala4669
      @parzivala4669 Před 3 lety

      @@MrEstuse yup,they do know many stuff

  • @GodsMan500
    @GodsMan500 Před 3 lety +9

    You guys should get away from the concept of "passing" tests. We should not seek to "pass" tests, but rather to "HANDLE" them.
    Also, 2% of women will not test. My fiancé is my fiancé because she is feminine, caring, submissive, and introduces peace and never drama into my life. In 5 years she has not tested me once. Go for the upper 2% guys. Never try to "pass" tests, instead learn to HANDLE them.

  • @captmack007
    @captmack007 Před 3 lety +1

    This is a test. Only a test
    We now return you to your regular scheduled program.

  • @lovel2940
    @lovel2940 Před 3 lety +3

    Dude just come across it channel and this is an absolute goldmine... For simps, 'nice guys' and toxic relationships. Both in the comments and he videos. Keep the cringe coming! lol

  • @amanjonheyp9689
    @amanjonheyp9689 Před 3 lety

    if you fail one test ?then end the chances?

  • @moonchaintv
    @moonchaintv Před 3 lety

    If u get a hair cut or clean shave or dye your hair is this a form of a pattern interrupt for phase 1

  • @aurelioesposito6661
    @aurelioesposito6661 Před 14 hodinami

    Every time a girl plays her absurd little test game I start smiling like an idiot because I know that a part of her values my approach positively.
    And it's embarrassing 🤣
    But I must say that it has often worked because it's not what they expect 😅

  • @cobhamsama6204
    @cobhamsama6204 Před rokem

    I have just blown the test. How do i redeem it?

  • @phillip6083
    @phillip6083 Před rokem

    Her:
    "you know im not going to sleep with you"
    Him:
    "Wheww! Im SO glad you said it first!."

  • @kerik7176
    @kerik7176 Před 6 měsíci

    If a girl says "I'm not going to sleep with you!", you respond with "Of course not, we'll just F and go home to sleep!"

  • @k.i.i.3699
    @k.i.i.3699 Před 3 lety +12

    To be completely honest… I genuinely do not see Rob attracting females. I could be completely wrong but that’s just my impression of him. He puts off a sort of needy/spasmodic vibe that would turn off most women. Again, maybe it’s just me that thinks this.

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 3 lety +1

      rob is probably the best i've ever seen at it, and i've been in the dating advice space for 12 years, instagram.com/robjudge/

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 3 lety +4

      @@despabikes yea i don't disagree about the videos lol... but talking on camera is not nearly as easy as it seems. Also, Rob's girlfriend was sitting in the room with us watching us record, so i'm sure that added to his nervousnessness.

    • @dannyblade6824
      @dannyblade6824 Před 3 lety +1

      @@BobbyRio I think Rob was very clear with his message and he explained it perfectly.

    • @jonathonholifield5900
      @jonathonholifield5900 Před 3 lety +1

      @ K.I. I. Shows how much you DON'T know. You can't tell he's confident as f***? And he makes girls laugh? Have you watched anything other than a few clips on CZcams? You know nothing. If all you're going to do is try to tear these guys down, then go get back on your Nintendo, little boy. Because some of us are actually learning a lot

    • @supersecret39
      @supersecret39 Před 3 lety

      @@jonathonholifield5900 I see your point. There’s a difference between talking to a woman & then there’s making a CZcams video for an audience

  • @anomad6314
    @anomad6314 Před 3 lety

    Great

  • @amanjonheyp9689
    @amanjonheyp9689 Před 3 lety +1

    any trick to obtain hair like yours?

    • @cuddlycooper8169
      @cuddlycooper8169 Před 3 lety

      3 cups of Quaker State Motor Oil, mix it with several teaspoons of talcum powder to get ride of the dark brown colour. Mix it with honey to make it stick

  • @josedias5978
    @josedias5978 Před 3 lety

    I like this video

  • @EasterEgg-dn9kd
    @EasterEgg-dn9kd Před 3 lety

    Omg I really need some mentor to help me, how can I contact you as my coach please

  • @bikemike1118
    @bikemike1118 Před 3 lety +1

    Rob‘s girlfriend was present ...🤣

  • @josedias5978
    @josedias5978 Před 3 lety

    Just like to know does this work on female councilors and
    Their female co--workers

  • @jonathonholifield5900
    @jonathonholifield5900 Před 3 lety

    Nice beard, Rob. Looks a little too neat though; you might want to let it get a little wilder-looking

  • @mehradalemipour9111
    @mehradalemipour9111 Před 3 lety

    Man , i learn it alot of you, i wish i know you sooner , unfortunatly im in iran for now & i cant buy youre products , as soon as i come back to canada i buy every thing you ... i just want it to thank you & youre team and say i have a lot of respect for you for sharing to us youre ..... youre a great man , i owe you, you are doing a great job and many men i know at least in iran & canada , you,change theyre lifs and of course my life , thank you , thank you , thank you , sorry for my english , im not so good at it , god bless you , 🙏🙏👍👍

  • @mccm3663
    @mccm3663 Před 3 lety

    Be like water.

  • @paultexasusa1366
    @paultexasusa1366 Před 2 lety

    Just stay neutral and relaxed

  • @petergar2451
    @petergar2451 Před rokem

    36 year old with a High body count, I'm here learning to keep a gf after a 10 year relationship 🤦

  • @poppingfreestyler5787
    @poppingfreestyler5787 Před 2 lety

    Bro live your life don’t care if they test you or not if they leave you always get an other one thats the purpose just do your things remember always you get an other if she left you the next one is coming

  • @Evermore2017
    @Evermore2017 Před rokem

    God forbid a women isn’t pleased. Pfft.

  • @standardperson3189
    @standardperson3189 Před 3 lety +1

    Do you even have a gf is the question

  • @ToruKurosawa
    @ToruKurosawa Před 3 lety +1

    Rob Judge looks like the main bad guy in a Farcry game 😄

  • @luxolontamo4440
    @luxolontamo4440 Před 3 lety +1

    There's this one girl who kinda tested me and said something like 'I'm too much of women for you" as in I wouldn't be able to 'handle her' and I kinda ignored it but she finally says I should prove myself then I straight up said "I won't do that" so after that day we never really spoke again few days later she started reaching out again, saying "You seem too happy lately who's this mysterious girl who's making you happy" and she offered to come to my room the following day but never came that's another story .. but what starked with me is, I really didn't know whether I passed the test that day or was my response too confrontational maybe a bit calling out

    • @bikemike1118
      @bikemike1118 Před 3 lety +1

      Never doubt your reaction - your answer came from your unconscious mind and therefore was „better“ than from your (over-j thinking brain. And first of all it was her being kind of rude to you ...not the other way round

    • @psychoandfbi
      @psychoandfbi Před 2 lety

      U did pass the test that’s why she offered to come over. But she purposely didn’t because she wanna cocktease u and make u come back to her again after losing u.

    • @rogerdodger6025
      @rogerdodger6025 Před 3 měsíci +1

      The important thing is that you were congruent with your response and it didn't knock you out of your frame. At the end of the day it doesn't matter. The less you care the more you win.

    • @luxolontamo4440
      @luxolontamo4440 Před 3 měsíci

      @@rogerdodger6025 Thanks for the response man. It's been 3 years since and this is still valuable stuff.

    • @luxolontamo4440
      @luxolontamo4440 Před 3 měsíci

      @@bikemike1118 Even after this long, thanks man.

  • @yaayayayyayaayyayayay
    @yaayayayyayaayyayayay Před 3 lety

    Well imma change my test now so u better think of some better tips mister ps. This came up as an ad 😒

  • @mircearizoiu2992
    @mircearizoiu2992 Před 2 lety

    I failed all of them with a girl, fuck

  • @jonathanvermillion7263
    @jonathanvermillion7263 Před 3 lety +1

    It’s a dominance battle happens with all animals , a man comes out a man by being the dominant and casing submission

  • @davidholt1250
    @davidholt1250 Před 3 lety

    Gentlemen. What do have to say about "Gender Fluid" stuff that a lot of women and men are brainwashed with these days? How should we approach it without being dicks?

    • @rogerdodger6025
      @rogerdodger6025 Před 3 měsíci

      Laugh at it. If a chick brings that up you should RUN.

  • @marcain123
    @marcain123 Před 3 lety +2

    I think i got a test from this girl in my class. Our teacher makes us work in groups, and this time we were in a group. Is my response a pass or no?
    Her: ughh, why are you in my group
    Me: i know we're all getting A's now
    Her: haha

    • @sa1ntrow311
      @sa1ntrow311 Před 2 lety

      Pass, have u got her now ?

    • @sayareyes3387
      @sayareyes3387 Před 2 lety +1

      Just to clarify though that passing the test just makes your relationship one step ahead, it doesn't necessarily mean that passing equals she's totally into you now. There's a lot more to talk about like flirting and making her feel she trusts you and is attracted to you enough and take it to the next level.

  • @morgo72
    @morgo72 Před 3 lety

    Haha how wasted is the dude on the right

  • @celebrityalphamaletalkscam5661

    The best ways to pass shit test is not to give a fuck about the tests. If u go on a date worrying about passing shit test I'm sorry but u have already failed them. When a girl u are on a date with makes a smart ass comment on what you are wearing u can chose to ignore or say too bad I love what am wearing and switch to a more relevant topic.

  • @someone7773
    @someone7773 Před rokem

    The 15:59 final thoughts is basically all you need

  • @campingforayearrenoheart5908

    Your a cockroach nooo your a creep lol , way to loose a girl , but good recovery for a stalker lol

  • @lonewolf-nr4sm
    @lonewolf-nr4sm Před 3 lety +2

    Crap

  • @JFMPP
    @JFMPP Před 3 lety

    Well well well...
    We meet again 😳
    👉👈

  • @oliverveale7053
    @oliverveale7053 Před 3 lety

    1 have a car money like 2 an a half man but in real live will be woman's hi wants drugs?

  • @scottstone1475
    @scottstone1475 Před rokem

    I love Bobby but I have no idea how rob does so good with girls..his voice sounds like rocky after he just God beat up by clubber Lang..not all the time but he has his moments