Here’s How Women “Test” You (And A Secret Formula to Always Pass)

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    Bobby here, and in this video, let’s talk about How to Pass a Woman’s Shit Test
    What’s the right attitude for responding to a “shit test?”
    First off, if you don’t know what a shit test is Its basically when a girl messes with you, accuses you of something, or subtly insults you.
    And she’s subtly doing this to see how you respond, to see how you react, if she can throw your off your game.
    So how should you respond when a girl throws one at you?
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Komentáře • 133

  • @zaymm10
    @zaymm10 Před 6 lety +3

    It's amazing that there are so many videos about this and this is the only one that makes total sense and gets to the point. Thank you

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 6 lety +2

      glad you found it helpful.

  • @davidlawson7786
    @davidlawson7786 Před 5 lety +9

    I don’t let nothing rattle me, I know when a woman is trying to see if she can get me upset, I usually laugh at them. Just be you, putting too much thought behind everything that happens to you, you come off as being too careful. Best things happen when you shoot from the hip. I usually can make a woman laugh and all her clothes just come flying off. I never had to work too hard at getting laid or finding a date. The hardest thing to find is a honest one. Most woman are gold diggers that feel entitled. Just be yourself, always come out on top.

  • @wizardofahhhs759
    @wizardofahhhs759 Před 5 lety +39

    I was at a party once and a girl sat down beside me and said "I can't get the cap off my beer" so I said "I have a bottle opener on my Swiss Army knife, would you like for me to open it for you?" she said "No, I'm a woman of the '90s, I can do it myself" and got up and walked off. Five minutes later she came back and said "Can you get the cap off my beer?" I said "No, you're a woman of the '90s figure it out yourself." She let out a big huff and stormed off. Was I wrong in what I said to her? I don't think so.

    • @geroestetumor
      @geroestetumor Před 5 lety +13

      You grab the beer and do it without saying a word to begin with.
      It is behaviour that women fall for. That is what they demand from a man.

    • @kimmer6
      @kimmer6 Před 5 lety +17

      Grab the beer, pop the cap off and down half the bottle. Wipe your mouth with your sleeve, let out a lion roar burp, hand her the bottle and say ''That's good fuckin shit!''. You might go home alone but you also might have saved half a million dollars in alimony.

    • @goodluckful100
      @goodluckful100 Před 4 lety +1

      Lol that was actually good you gave her a negative emotional experience that now she will associate with you. She most likely had you on her mind all night but JP the other guy that commented his way of handling the situation sounds a bit more ideal.

    • @goodluckful100
      @goodluckful100 Před 4 lety +2

      But to also add on to that situation. Going into interview mode and asking whether or no she’d like you to open her bottle was a big NO, because she already made her statement and it was clear what she wanted you to do, so asking her for permission to do so was completely unnecessary. If you would’ve stayed quiet and mysterious and opened it up the moment she made her statement she would’ve felt obligated to convince you to speak to her because she now wants a reaction out of you considering you didn’t speak you just ACTED. Now she craves your attention, say a few statements keep it short simple and open so that way she’s now even more curious to discover who you are and what you’re all about. Then that’s when you time constraint. Tell her you have to handle some business but take her phone and I mean TAKE IT by saying “ Let me see your phone, here you can have my number, feel free to use it” then leave the conversation there. Don’t say goodbye or wish her farewell leave the convo at feel free to use it after inserting your number. People who don’t start up or end convos normally come off as more different from the crown which highlights you in her mind not only you withheld info about yourself kept it brief and simple. So now it has her wondering about you. Not only you opened her bottle which gives a positive emotional effect then you have her YOUR number and not the other way around so now she has to take the initiative to contact you first. She has to show her interest. Now that’s how it’s done!!

    • @shoreline780
      @shoreline780 Před rokem

      The fact you had to ask says your weak. Who cares about her? Grow some balls.

  • @jameskennedy588
    @jameskennedy588 Před 5 lety +2

    Very smooth responses!!!!!! 💯

  • @Skyisnotalimit
    @Skyisnotalimit Před 2 lety +5

    If you ignore them, they’ll end up having to give somebody else headaches and tons of problems.
    You’ll end up having your money, your freedom, and your life healthy and great. If I get shit test thrown my way, I just say, -God is present, he just told me to walk. Their faces… it’s hilarious!

  • @oibal60
    @oibal60 Před 5 lety +20

    In today's #METOO era, any response, no matter how benign, will be used against you. #MGTOW

    • @kimmer6
      @kimmer6 Před 5 lety

      My approach to high maintenance looking women is to pick my nose then lift a leg and blast out a giant fart. They walk away 100% of the time. I figure it saved me about $6 million dollars over my life time.

  • @lennyblunden872
    @lennyblunden872 Před 5 lety +5

    Im not sleeping with you= i wasnt offering, your not my type.
    Hold my bag= only if you hold mine.
    Your a player= im not player i own the team.
    If shes late and doesnt apologize, cut the date short and say you have other plans.

    • @goodluckful100
      @goodluckful100 Před 4 lety

      lenny Blunden 😂😂😂😂. I LIKE YOUR MANHOOD.

  • @dhershey712
    @dhershey712 Před 5 lety +2

    Agree and amplify. Good strategy.

  • @elciomartins3235
    @elciomartins3235 Před 2 měsíci

    Hey, Bob
    I want to thank you for lowering down the length of your videos
    Now I can watch them all

  • @gregfortmayer4535
    @gregfortmayer4535 Před 5 lety +15

    in short just be yourself and dont be intimidated. Make small talk and joke about everything. If they feel comfortable around you you have a better chance of being laid.

  • @philiplancaster9668
    @philiplancaster9668 Před 6 lety +48

    Why can't people just be nice to each other? What's with this 'shit-testing'?
    No wonder so many men are "red pilling".

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 6 lety +16

      women do it unconsciously.

    • @philiplancaster9668
      @philiplancaster9668 Před 6 lety +9

      Bobby Rio
      With all due respect, I don't think so: not in this day and age, with all the sense of entitlement they take. They know exactly what they are doing, and what they can get out of men.
      What if men started doing the same to them? then there'd be an uproar!

    • @jameskennedy588
      @jameskennedy588 Před 5 lety +1

      It's the way they are wired! I feel you on that though.

    • @wizardofahhhs759
      @wizardofahhhs759 Před 5 lety +12

      Most if not all women who do this aren't worth a decent man's time. My wife never "shit tested" me when we started dating and we've been married for 20 years. We respect one another, and shit testing to me is a form of disrespect.

    • @voiceofexperience
      @voiceofexperience Před 5 lety +2

      Blame "the selfish gene".

  • @SoulDelSol
    @SoulDelSol Před 5 lety +3

    I fail these tests all the time and i dont give a fuck, im just gonna be real and be me. I dont have time for playing games and if that rules me out of her book then good for me, i prob just dodged a bullet

    • @SoulDelSol
      @SoulDelSol Před 5 lety

      Ps in past year alone i cant count how many girls ive been with and ive been having sex for 22 yrs. Maybe this is how kids do it nowadays. Im my own man tho. U dont like it, that's fine with me

  • @jotenboffen
    @jotenboffen Před 6 lety +33

    Video REALLY starts at 4:15

    • @davem6210
      @davem6210 Před 5 lety +1

      Thank you. I too hate long drawn out videos. Just give me what is relevant and I'm happy.

    • @gozdebayraktar1103
      @gozdebayraktar1103 Před 5 lety +1

      jotenboffen yo big facts thanks!

  • @benniagos
    @benniagos Před rokem

    This is powerful!

  • @lindelanimashaba1684
    @lindelanimashaba1684 Před 4 lety

    Finally got the answer thanks

  • @maaifoediedelarey4335
    @maaifoediedelarey4335 Před 5 lety +5

    Yup, this is good advice - you will be shit tested many times, by all types of women - this is a simple formula to apply instantaneously without groping for a proper reply, especially if you're not used to it. Once you become more used to it and more proficient, you can improve your own style. For example, when you get this one specific shit test : "just friends, ok ?" that approach will do fine, but one needs to keep in mind that it's important to also make your intentions clear to any woman right from the very start, without overdoing it obviously - this will prevent her from putting you in the friend zone in the first place. So a good response would be to agree & amplify, but add a proviso with a straight face : "however I can't guarantee that I'll never try get into your pants" or something similar, depending on the type of girl - follow your instinct as well - this will serve notice on her.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 Před 5 lety +1

      This reminds me of something this girl said to me. She said something along the lines of ''don't expect any sex'' and from my response, she could tell I genuinely had no concern either way. I had a 'take it or leave it' attitude. When she realized this, suddenly she changed her tune to ''what makes you think you could resist me so easily?'' After that, she was the one trying to initiate the sex...
      Always make them work for it I say...

  • @benfrank8649
    @benfrank8649 Před 6 lety +35

    Seems like too much work. Why not just act naturally? Just act like you? It seems like it you are reacting in a precalculated way it defeats the point of a relationship.

    • @javierrosas2851
      @javierrosas2851 Před 6 lety +5

      It’s a little game bro. That’s why some guys are called players. They know what’s up and PLAY along. Play = fun, fun = attraction😉

    • @HandsomeHybrid
      @HandsomeHybrid Před 6 lety +1

      Ben Frank it sucks having be the man! The alternative is to be lazy and make love with your hand. LOL

    • @ganktuh
      @ganktuh Před 6 lety +5

      Because it's realistic observations, it is what it is. Play or get played

    • @catchwrestler3532
      @catchwrestler3532 Před 5 lety

      *You made my life*

    • @triplex2912
      @triplex2912 Před 5 lety +2

      Ben Frank Yes,how the hell did our fathers and grandfathers cope.!?
      No Information Technology maybe.

  • @jimbeam4140
    @jimbeam4140 Před 4 lety +1

    There are tons of videos on Game out there but this video is critical to know and understand. Bobby Rio (or whatever his real name is) provides extremely valuable information here, especially the part about loving shit tests. If you learn to expect them and love them, you'll save yourself so much emotional grief and enjoy Game much more. Thanks Bobby.

  • @trevor4188
    @trevor4188 Před 5 lety +13

    Don't bother. Just pump and dump.

  • @apabperu5599
    @apabperu5599 Před 6 lety +5

    Practical and to the point. Thanks

  • @markl1733
    @markl1733 Před 5 lety +3

    Warning: This video is not about real shit testing. What this guy is talking about is just minor league messing with you intended to figure out who you are. The examples given here are exactly what the man says, mere softballs tossed your way to check your reaction. Anyone who has been married or otherwise in a serious relationship knows what REAL shit testing is all about, which is a woman's way of trying to deliberately challenge and manipulate you while pretending otherwise. In short, when a woman is actually shit testing you, she is throwing hardball trying to see if you will back down, so she can push you around or sucker you into doing what you otherwise would not do. Real shit testing requires a very different response to pass rather than just casually tossing the softball back her way.

    • @algorhythm4593
      @algorhythm4593 Před 5 lety

      Mark L That type of "s--t"-testing you speak of...NOOOOOOO!!!!! Pitcher is trying to hit the batter! This is the game of love! Eject her from the game!! Next on the mound....

    • @markl1733
      @markl1733 Před 5 lety

      @@algorhythm4593 Oh no. If she were really trying to hit you, so to speak, that would be something else entirely. Most women are afraid to do that, for good reason, either because of the reaction it would provoke, or because it would end the relationship. What I'm talking about is psychological, a way for women to try and control the relationship and keep things on their terms. This goes back to the garden of Eden. Men can be real jerks at times, and I make no excuses for our failings. But we were designed to be the leaders in the relationship, and women were designed to respect that. Real shit testing is what happens when a woman resents that natural aspect of the male/female relationship and comes up with all sorts of maneuvers in order to try and take control. It can happen during dating, or in a long-term romance, or in marriage itself. But a woman will do these types of maneuvers despite her love and attraction for you, not because she doesn't care. That's what makes it quite different and much harder to deal with than the little games being described in this video.

  • @agbordaniels
    @agbordaniels Před 3 lety

    What’s the classical response to I have a boyfriend or can we be just friends?

  • @KeepItFresh02
    @KeepItFresh02 Před 5 lety +2

    i used to be in a relationship with this one girl.. im sure she did these a few times. but I ran into hard times and she started doing it a lot and broke up with me cause I would feel unconfident etc in my regular life. I was a martial artist and black belt. very confident in that but my career and actual living situation was messed up at the time so I was abit on the downside of life. I now make 6 figures and this sort of stuff would roll off no problem. Why would she do this at such a bad time. makes no sense.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 Před 5 lety +1

      ''Why would she do this at such a bad time. makes no sense.'' It makes perfect sense. Never forget, she's not with you for who you are, but what you provide. It does not make sense because you are looking at it from the perspective of her caring about you as a person, as opposed to an object that provides something.

  • @richardjeffery517
    @richardjeffery517 Před 5 lety +1

    Test me and im gone,shit only gets worse as time goes on

  • @ckyung1312
    @ckyung1312 Před 4 lety

    4:28 - Agree. Amplify. Disarmed their attack! Be a charmer.

  • @busTaGTx
    @busTaGTx Před 6 lety +1

    Question here mate: my friend had a cat in his arms and said the cat is his baby. This chick asks him / tests him by asking him if "that thing" is really his baby. He replied with "you're a thing and your forehead is huge" in a mild angry tone. She started laughing. Did he Pass or Fail the test??

    • @usetheforce9836
      @usetheforce9836 Před 5 lety +1

      IMHO he did perfect... I can almost picture his response, with a slightly down-talking (but playful) delivery.
      He more or less told her that this was his world, and if she wanted to be part of it, SHE had to accept HIS ground-rules, otherwise, the door's over there. Excellent. Although, honestly, I see why many guys would be hesitant to get strong with a chick this way, especially if she was hot (or hotter than usual).

    • @Mr1cabbage1
      @Mr1cabbage1 Před 5 lety

      UseTheForce your well on point..in fact now you have her complete attention you now ask her to comply with a request u make like..u wanna stroke my baby..this makes her either challenge your request or looks like a pussy by walking away..either way u win.

  • @YondaimeApproved
    @YondaimeApproved Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you 🙏🙂

  • @robertl.7657
    @robertl.7657 Před 6 lety +2

    Shit test ,LMAO ,YOU'RE THE MAN, Lead her

  • @pascalsilvestri6319
    @pascalsilvestri6319 Před 5 lety +1

    At 2:43 you said that the phrase " I have a boyfriend " can sometimes be a shit test. Question : how the fuck am I supposed to know if she is telling the truth or if it's a shit test when she says that she has a boyfriend ? What am I supposed to do just after she has said that ?

  • @mahalasanarayanidigitalank730

    DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DISLIKE AND TEST BOTH ARE LOOKING SAME

  • @Amos-xt4dn
    @Amos-xt4dn Před 2 měsíci

    Living with an incurable disease is so hard, but you just have to live life day by day as it goes by (Cancer sucks)

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      @scott-pk4ox Před 2 měsíci

      It's never the end of the world, but all problems can be solved. I never believed in miracles until Quelani Eileen Freja helped me save my son.

    • @Amos-xt4dn
      @Amos-xt4dn Před 2 měsíci

      Who is this Quelani Eileen Freja? And how can I get in touch?

    • @scott-pk4ox
      @scott-pk4ox Před 2 měsíci

      Check the web

  • @shortstories3756
    @shortstories3756 Před rokem

    I was told a women "Even my area code is not good enough for you!" She laughed

  • @dickhute21
    @dickhute21 Před 5 lety +1

    When she asks for something, say no. Problem solved; shit test passed.

  • @mlfitness67
    @mlfitness67 Před 5 lety +2

    Alpha Male strategies told me the secret

  • @brayo.4793
    @brayo.4793 Před měsícem

    What if she says you are really quite aren't you?

  • @ganktuh
    @ganktuh Před 6 lety +1

    All this stuff was explained by mystery years ago

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  Před 6 lety +1

      but 99% men still failing tests

  • @RobGravelle
    @RobGravelle Před 6 lety

    Sometimes not so subtle jabs! ;-)

  • @goodluckful100
    @goodluckful100 Před 4 lety

    THIS IS WHY I LOVE BOBBY!! I use literally all his knowledge and it WORKS WONDERS!! Literally!!😂🥰 Women are so predictable to me nowadays. I totally thought they were hard to get and too complex but now i can easily guess there next move. And it helps me realize my mistakes whenever I do come up short. Now i become more effective for the next woman. And his knowledge works ON ANYONE.

  • @72u40
    @72u40 Před rokem

    Was this intentional?

  • @someoneanonymous2740
    @someoneanonymous2740 Před rokem

    Thank youu

  • @dutchapache3264
    @dutchapache3264 Před 5 lety

    lol i was looking on ut and fpund this i tougjt what is wrong with some girls but they just test men

  • @72u40
    @72u40 Před rokem

    …And you’re wearing a grey hoodie. Grey area. In medias rad. And yes, I meant in medias rad instead of in medias ras.

  • @azservices
    @azservices Před 3 lety

    This is exactly what I talk about in this video:
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  • @greenknight2143
    @greenknight2143 Před 6 lety

    She gave me the shit test over messaging but I just laughed at it and enjoyed her company. Even though she tried to p*ss me off

  • @lex3729
    @lex3729 Před 6 lety +1

    Thufferin' Thuccotath!

  • @CrashPCcz
    @CrashPCcz Před 6 lety +1

    Sick of "how to pass" approach. I ain't do any of that shiiit. We need some tutorials on how to heal fukt women....

  • @thepermanentfatlosssolutio9010

    Hey Bobby does this work on mothers. I have an annoying g mother who shits me all the time. Not to create attraction but respect. Can I use the "SHIT TEST FORMULA" on her?

  • @rogerachimon4424
    @rogerachimon4424 Před 5 lety +2

    Are all women around the world ,like the same,, they
    all play the same.gsmes???

    • @goodluckful100
      @goodluckful100 Před 4 lety +1

      Roger Achimon Most women do it subconsciously. They are emotionally oriented.

  • @brianhoule3219
    @brianhoule3219 Před 4 lety

    She was testing me to see how far she could push me before I'd sleep with her !
    I laid off of her signals and later found out the reason she was doing this was because she had always been treated like shit !
    Her test was to see if I was going to hop all over her like guys in the past!
    Well I didn't and I guess I passed with flying colors !
    Some women are ready for a normal guy in thier life !!!

    • @Skyisnotalimit
      @Skyisnotalimit Před 2 lety

      Dump idiots like that man. If men treats her like shit, she’s probably just that.
      They spread their legs for badboys and cries when treated badly, when there are great men out there getting discarded for wrong color of their shoes.

  • @shessoheavy6130
    @shessoheavy6130 Před 5 lety

    That Tic Toc commercial is some annoying shit.

  • @donborracho3019
    @donborracho3019 Před 6 lety

    I hate the gray area. Never something i would do. I tell people all the time. I do black or white. NOTHING in between. Life is not a game. That's the problem. To many people are fuckin playin.

  • @iamhe7651
    @iamhe7651 Před 5 lety

    Lmao

  •  Před 5 lety +7

    You're a weird dude, and boring, I'm amazed you ever pull!

  • @PraveenKanwarMagic
    @PraveenKanwarMagic Před 6 lety

    first