Can women have male friends? w/ GINGIE POP | BeerSos #56

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  • čas přidán 7. 12. 2023
  • Hey guys, Nico & Derek here! On today's episode of BeerSos, we are joined by Amy! Amy shares her experiences with the power dynamics between men and women, and gives us insight on being a woman in the tattoo industry.
    We hope you enjoy it!
    🎙️| Hosted by Nicolas Phonsavath & Derek Zhu
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    Follow Amy:
    Instagram - / gingiepop
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Komentáře • 76

  • @gingiepop
    @gingiepop Před 6 měsíci +225

    I had so much fun with you two!!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼 also love how the very beginning and end of the podcast talks about blumpkins and being naked LOL

  • @flamingkarismaminho1319
    @flamingkarismaminho1319 Před 6 měsíci +288

    dressing as your guests is so cute omg

  • @macgarcia01
    @macgarcia01 Před 6 měsíci +204

    u guys r so ADORABLE it’s so refreshing seeing men who don’t have any toxic masculinity

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  Před 6 měsíci +51

      🙏🙏 toxic masculinity has ruined reps of so many

  • @juniperstink7550
    @juniperstink7550 Před 6 měsíci +89

    yall look too good in eyeliner… do it again

  • @Kvzuma
    @Kvzuma Před 6 měsíci +106

    Why you both look THAT good in that eyeliner hahaha most underrated podcast.. yall just popped up in my recommended yesterday.

  • @arenaarena___
    @arenaarena___ Před 6 měsíci +92

    everyone needs a supportive friend like nico

  • @anacano3669
    @anacano3669 Před 5 měsíci +52

    The group hug was so sweet and needed

    • @gingiepop
      @gingiepop Před 4 měsíci +3

      Agreed 🥺🥺 they so sweet

  • @bea-dd8vp
    @bea-dd8vp Před 6 měsíci +57

    nico looks so good with eyeliner omg

  • @fareedhazaina3143
    @fareedhazaina3143 Před 2 hodinami

    Imagine having a crush on them and you don't even have to go "stalking" to get to know them, you just watch their videos and all they talk about is themselves or their life experiences which is funny and wholesome to watch. This is just the best! I love your interaction and conversation is so fun! ALSO y'all are so CUTE

  • @nycmattt
    @nycmattt Před 6 měsíci +37

    You literally said “can i be lazy and not heal?” at 5:40. Lol.

    • @gingiepop
      @gingiepop Před 4 měsíci +8

      HAHHAAHAHHAAHAH omg I knew there was a reason I said it

  • @kennediallison
    @kennediallison Před 6 měsíci +44

    i love the rawness of the convos ugh this podcast is everything

  • @lumii3252
    @lumii3252 Před 2 měsíci +12

    so thankful for her vulnerability

  • @flamingkarismaminho1319
    @flamingkarismaminho1319 Před 6 měsíci +37

    idk how your podcast hasn't blown up yettt

  • @gracielmesmari
    @gracielmesmari Před 6 měsíci +43

    she was so sweet !! i love the whole vibe switch up for ssn 3

  • @GillianHinton
    @GillianHinton Před 3 měsíci +8

    “Where is this dynamic born” is such a great question, it’s the deeply embedded and insidious patriarchy that teaches: men know what’s right and women do what they’re told, therefore appeasing the “male gaze” and creating situations where women doubt themselves and the validity of their experiences. It’ll keep happening as long as women keep invaliding themselves. It can get better when they (and other people who don’t identify as male) share their stories, and when men actually listen, like you guys are doing so wholesomely in this video :’) It requires open ears and open hearts, and an ego that doesn’t demand being at the forefront of the conversation.
    I really appreciate you guys are talking about some real topics, and asking important questions, as well as sharing your ideas and experiences too. The 10 of Swords can be a sign of old ways of thinking and being ending, and the beginning of a new cycle, just like some of the topics you’re interacting with in the podcast. How do we move towards a more compassionate, aware, and loving future?
    Thanks for creating and conversing and keep going :)

  • @guiomardart
    @guiomardart Před 2 měsíci +5

    I had a different interpretation of Nicos 10 of swords. You may never see this lol but still.
    I think it's about releasing yourself. Like instead of agonizing about if something was or was not good enough. You have the mind set of, it's over. I posted it. It's as good as I could make it.
    And finding ways to end the anxious train of thought by reminding yourself that there is only so much you can do. At a certain point you have to call it. And terrorizing ourselves rarely produces higher quality outcomes. So that mind set may answer the other question of how do I raise the quality.
    Best!

  • @rae1549
    @rae1549 Před 5 měsíci +13

    a new podcast to watch religiously thank GOD

  • @Val-pq8nx
    @Val-pq8nx Před 3 měsíci +11

    Im a new viewer, found y’all through insta yesterday. Truly refreshing to hear men supporting women, and calling out this toxic masculinity bs. Thank you guys, and Gingie for sharing her experiences. Much love 💜💜

  • @emmabulick
    @emmabulick Před 5 měsíci +4

    Love your guys’s podcast and love how comfortable you made her feel!! More videos like this :) 🫶🏼

    • @beersospodcast
      @beersospodcast  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Oh my god Emma HII Thank you so much!!!!! 🙏🙏

  • @rae1549
    @rae1549 Před 5 měsíci +6

    i found it really interesting how you guys were trying to dissect and theorize on social issues and i enjoyed the introspective approach you guys took … not so common nowadays:P

  • @Queerbbby
    @Queerbbby Před 6 měsíci +16

    Yall look so good with the tanktops !:)

    • @catsarefancy9053
      @catsarefancy9053 Před měsícem

      I agree. This should be a crop top only pod from now on.

  • @MilkSoup0
    @MilkSoup0 Před 6 měsíci +6

    you guys are so funny this is my new favorite channel

  • @MariyeThings
    @MariyeThings Před 3 měsíci +6

    44:31 i instantly subscribed after this.

  • @evareumann8597
    @evareumann8597 Před 6 měsíci +13

    I love her perspective I relate to so much of what she says

    • @gingiepop
      @gingiepop Před 4 měsíci +1

      Men trauma support group 😔🫶🏼

  • @ChristopherRobinIsCrazy
    @ChristopherRobinIsCrazy Před 18 dny +1

    I love this episode so much, and I love your responses to her stories, but I just relate to the fact that she keeps feeling like she needs to explain why those experiences were traumatic, like it's constantly feeling like you're over-reacting because that's what society makes it feel like

  • @teagz2
    @teagz2 Před 6 měsíci +32

    this was a really interesting ep guys! loved amy and you should so do a yoga vlog lolll

    • @gingiepop
      @gingiepop Před 6 měsíci +3

      love you too 🥺🥺 I’d be down for that vlog WOOO

  • @ogremilk_
    @ogremilk_ Před 5 měsíci +8

    not nico namedropping eywa lmaooo

  • @olavoclaus1746
    @olavoclaus1746 Před 5 měsíci +2

    brazilian fan!! rlly good episode guys!! :)

  • @catsarefancy9053
    @catsarefancy9053 Před měsícem +1

    lol I love when she’s on the podcast things are so much more unhinged

  • @derekzhu7116
    @derekzhu7116 Před 6 měsíci +3

    i love you guys rlly

  • @yvonnewaterman9349
    @yvonnewaterman9349 Před 18 hodinami

    39:31 I hope y'all have watched mean girls since this episode came out it's too iconic. It's like saying you haven't seen star wars....a crime

  • @pooperloud
    @pooperloud Před 5 měsíci +2

    New viewer, already hooked. Btw The woosh at the end of the intro drowns out the "sos" part so I couldn't figure out how the name of the show is pronounced for the longest time 😅

  • @heyitsnandinii
    @heyitsnandinii Před 6 měsíci +2

    more vids like this pls!

  • @sudereyhanotaner6809
    @sudereyhanotaner6809 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Was genuinely suprised that this was so unproblematic

  • @thedizonmustard
    @thedizonmustard Před 5 měsíci +7

    irrelevant but these boys are just so pretty and gingie absolutely is too LOL

  • @ChristopherRobinIsCrazy
    @ChristopherRobinIsCrazy Před 18 dny +1

    ‏‪58:13‬‏ I love my guy friends and I always wanted to befriends guys but every single time they said they have a crush on me in some point of our friendship, they never did anything to hurt me tho and always respected my feelinga‬‏

  • @joshyyylopezzz8089
    @joshyyylopezzz8089 Před 6 měsíci +10

    DEREK LOOK FINE ASFFFF TEEHEE

  • @alanna__
    @alanna__ Před 2 měsíci +2

    Petition for you guys to wear crop tops and makeup every episode. love this ♥️♥️

  • @johnjclawson
    @johnjclawson Před 2 měsíci

    Derek is def a dreamboat

  • @skakkohh1
    @skakkohh1 Před 6 měsíci +9

    derek lookin hella fine

  • @soek4263
    @soek4263 Před 5 měsíci +6

    can she make a comeback

  • @harsheh
    @harsheh Před 6 měsíci +5

    eyeliner so hot today ughhh

  • @qwertyuiopz123
    @qwertyuiopz123 Před 2 měsíci +2

    How they dont know msn.....I am so old lmao

  • @tamarafilipov7704
    @tamarafilipov7704 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Bro Nico looks so sexy and sultry in this outfit and the eyeliner and hair just ugh it's GIVING

  • @Val-pq8nx
    @Val-pq8nx Před 3 měsíci +1

    You guys should go on the Dropouts podcast. It would be a cool colab 😁

  • @luci7331
    @luci7331 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Y’all are beautiful

  • @theminayang
    @theminayang Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤

  • @Val-pq8nx
    @Val-pq8nx Před 3 měsíci +1

    💜💜💜💜

  • @GillianHinton
    @GillianHinton Před 3 měsíci

    guys i live in Vancouver can we hang out

  • @Nico-pd2ds
    @Nico-pd2ds Před 6 měsíci +1

    Undeniable allegations

  • @Dolltronvr
    @Dolltronvr Před 6 měsíci +1

    You guys need to do some taste tests

  • @brotbrotbrot
    @brotbrotbrot Před 5 měsíci +4

    gabagoo

  • @beyarosso69
    @beyarosso69 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I’m loving this femboy look on you both, fantasy 3way 😸

  • @GwenchanaHabibi
    @GwenchanaHabibi Před 5 měsíci

    brah, why u guys have body like a pre-teen girl with those shirts 😂😂😂

  • @Hierophage
    @Hierophage Před 6 měsíci

    Tarot?! More like the Devil's Picture Book!

  • @igotnojams_jiminee5498
    @igotnojams_jiminee5498 Před 2 měsíci

    Love u guys❤