Falling in love with each other | BeerSos #66
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- čas přidán 15. 02. 2024
- Hey guys, Nico & Derek here! On today’s episode of BeerSos, we ask each other The 36 Questions To Fall In Love, and things take a bit of an unexpected turn.
We hope you enjoy it!
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It's only been 2 days and the support and love this episode has gotten is unreal. Thank you all so much for watching and commenting the sweetest things ever, and I hope that my vulnerability arc can push some of you struggling with the same problems to start your healing journey too
💗
Love you guys
the absolute confidence that nico had saying humans have two pancreases is crazy cus no we don’t ??? 😭
Wait we don’t have two pancreases
i hope derek realizes we appreciate him being vulnerable and we like to see that side of them
Not me tearing up watching Derek and bamm!! His face covering the whole screen... I choked on my spit so bad😭😭
These two have such a beautiful friendship and bond 😭
Watching them discover adult things (like how eating healthy effects you) is hilarious to me.
Why did no one let us in on this eating healthy thing bro 💀
this is the first full episode i’ve watched after seeing a few tik tok clips, and i immediately subbed. as a dude it’s lowkey healing to watch other dudes be honest and open while also being funny and entertaining as hell
Thank you so much!!!!
“The City Needs Me” needs to be the title of Derek’s memoir.
Platonic soulmates really wish I had a friendship like this
Derek eye rizz is crazzzyyyyyy
Seeing how much derek changed is so comforting to me🥹 seeing him enjoying life and being positive gives me so much joy 🫶🏽
I really hope you guys to be famous one day, and can share all those experiences with the world ❤️
This episode was nice as it really felt like you two were really connecting with the questions. Also respect to derek for crying on camera, he has definitely grown emotionally
53:04 I genuinely had to pause, my mom unalived herself and the last thing she texted me was “I’m sorry you hate me” I just wish she had known how much I loved her
clicking on the episode to laugh just to end up crying
as someone who lost their dad i used to take out my anger and resentment on my mom too, i started crying so hard LMFAO then the cut to dereks face made me DIEEEE #thecityneedsme
53 min had me like why am i gonna cry unloading my dishwasher… y’all are so real for that
i've been listening to beersos for maybe a month.. but it feels like i've known you guys for years because you grow so fast!! i look up to both of you as individuals but also as a model of an ideal friendship, being able to trust each other so deeply and accept change... u guys are gas
GASIUS MOMENT
was not expecting i would cry over a beersos episode, well derek made it possible
ngl "I never peed myself again" just completely changed my life perspective not even kidding wtf
My therapist told me that kids are incapable of rejecting what their parents tell them. It is survival instinct. They are wired to please their parents in order to stay fed and alive. However what the parents want are not always what the kid really wants and this imprint can lead to psychological confusion when they grow up and negatively impact their lives. So, some adult problems can trace back to childhood. This is why it’s very important for us to seek help from counseling to help us give the imprints back to the parents and say “this is not what I want and I give it back to you. I want to be me.”
Dear Derek and Nico, I sincerely hope you can get help to find yourselves and become you. The sooner you do this the better you will be. Don’t let the childhood imprints keeping affecting your life that eventually leads to consequences if ignored.
I love you two. ❤
Love you very much legend thank you for this message. Ur therapist is hella smart I never thought about that before. U shared some gasius bars and we appreciate it a lot ❤️
I can’t believe you guys kept such a vulnerable moment, just looking Derek’s face as he was talking made me start crying. My cat even came over to check on me lol. As always, amazing episode dudes. The 36 questions was such a genius idea. Hope you guys are doing well, sending love from Texas 😊
Nico has such a big heart for Derek especially considering that he cried when Derek explained his fathers passing :(
Derek my heart broke into pieces seeing you cry. I really hope you get to mend your relationship with your mom. We love you!
Life lesson: don't wait to tell people you're sorry and that you love them. You don't know what you could be missing out on.
im so glad you two have the friendship that you have, that kind of bond is truly irreplaceable
I think your guys' strong point with your podcast is honestly your authenticity, strong sense of individuality as well as your amazing connection to each other. It's honestly the main reason I keep watching you guys and recommended you to my friends! Mishaps with the camera/audio/editing will always happen, but honestly I like it because it makes it feel so legit and human. I'd recommend to keep up what you're doing and believe in your own visions bc I think you really got gold here. Hearing you trying to compare yourself to other podcasts like Joe Rogan is like, no dude, first of all he started from scratch as well, and also, he's Joe Rogan, you guys are Beersos - very different things! (I genuinely much prefer the latter)
Just my two cents, but I really wanna press that as long as you guys stay authentic, you're golden :) big love 🙌❤
i’m also bad at being vulnerable and watching derek cry over something i also have a similar regret on made me cry too 🥲 we love vulnerable men!!!
This is the first podcast I’ve ever watched all the way through and enjoyed yall have such a beautiful friendship 😭😭😭😭
legit always makes me want a friendship exactly like this they’re so caring to each other
holy shit im crying in the middle of my work,,,,, i cant watch this anymore
went thru a school shooting scare yesterday (im in America lol) and this helped brighten my day :D you guys truly do have the, “I’m okay” influence
1:24:24 Beersos has been my favorite podcast since I discovered it, no big podcast can beat the honesty and relatability of you. Pls don't get too worked up in entertainment, views and performance and keep being this truest authentic version of yourselves!
And just look at the comments y'all have the best followers already, yk it's like the dick size, this is a boyfriend channel, if the numbers go up, the fanbase will change, and in my CZcams experience as a viewer, negatively. I don't want you to be Joe Rogan
derek crying broke my heart
I haven’t cried in MONTHS. Almost A YEAR. I’ve become emotionally numb…..can’t believe I’m shedding tears rn. I’ve always felt guilt when it comes to lashing out on my parents or having a strained relationship with them. Damn…. Thank you for being so vulnerable Derek. I can feel the sincerity through the screen ❤
i always love watching yall cause i never see asians discuss family issues like yall do so vulnerabley but still chill abt it its so so relatable man the derek crying moment reminded me of my family it’s so comforting
I LOVE BEERSOS FRIDAYS reporting back after I watch
Reporting back: cried at work 😭😭😭🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
NOOOO AMYYY WE R SORRY 😭
your guys’s friendship is so endearing love this ep
Overthinkers by nature and by that you are naturally growing, maturing and making amazing content. Congrats for that
🙏🙏🙏🙏
In the middle of this episode I realized you guys look so much how me and my BFF communicate, and that's the reason why I feel so comfortable watching this.
And this episode is now my favorite!
Luiza, my BFF, out of suddenly passed away just a week ago, watching u guys having a fun and truthful time together reminds me of her and me.
Loves from Brazil
Dereks tears are so satisfying to watch
Dude 😭
yooo TUD my future college :)
@@brotbrotbrot not in a bad way. I mean like it’s good to see him open up. Makes me wanna too
@@Mikazuki_augus544 eww.
@@Mikazuki_augus544eww
You guys have become my comfort and seeing Derek's growth is truly amazing and even inspiring. Nico and Derek, you guys are made to be successful wherever you go ✨✨✨
THANK UU WE LOVE U. U r way too kind 🫶😭
You guys have actually helped me mentally. When I get home from school or work I’ll watch you guys to decompress. A lot of what you guys say I resonate with. Especially with Derek and I don’t think he knows how much he’s helped me. I’ll be thinking about things you guys say throughout the day and idk I feel like I’ve mentally grown bc of you guys! Thank you for this podcast keep making more content!
Well, it's because of love that I dare mention it - seeing you Derek break down and be vulnerable with Nico just shattered by heart. And how beautiful that you guys comfort each other. Such a safe, healthy relationship. Nico was correct: this is actually the love of your life. If ever I've seen true love, here it is. Ironically, the more vulnerability, the more we all respond to the conversation. The comedy reels us in, but the heart you show is what keeps us. We're right here rooting for you.
i've never wanted to hug someone so bad, i know thats a cliche but genuinely i was like aching to comfort him, i've said it before and ill say it again but this podcast gives me whiplash in the best way, ya'll will talk about eating poop then in the same conversation open up about one of your most painful memories. It's really beautiful tbh.
I saw y'all on Instagram and i am locked up bro I can't stop, y'all are so my vibe and the way I started bawling cz I got the same damn trauma 💀😭
I had a hard day but now I feel like life is okay
y'all be fr derek has a fucking hot crying face. we luv u
What a GREAT and LIGHTHEARTED CHILL episode you guys!!!! Love you!!!
I’m actually bawling my eyes out rn. You guys have helped me so much. I recently started watching Beersos, but so far, you guys have helped me change for the better and improve the way I view life. I’m still struggling with so much, but hearing you guys share your stories has truly helped me know that everything is going to be okay. I'm about to turn into an adult, and I feel like I'm FUCKED, but you guys give me so much hope and comfort. Seeing you guys work hard and live life to the fullest even after all you’ve been through is so motivating. This podcast is so full of raw emotion. I don't know how to word it, but you guys are so fucking real. I’m truly wishing nothing but the absolute best for you two!!!
i say this w my whole heart im so grateful i came across yall like never before have i cared this much about a podcast dawg
You guys make me look forward to Fridays😭🙏 thank you for another fire podcast
this is by far the best beersos episode yet, and so much hit close to home. and i just want to say how happy it made me to see Derek and Nico being vulnerable with each other and us listeners🫶
You guys just keep getting better and better with each episode. Truly premium content!
you guys have a friendship that i’ve been dreaming of for years now.
57:11 The way i got a shock when Derek said Namibia! Lol fellow Namibian 🇳🇦 here , love and appreciate you guys fr !
12:19 listening to this podcast made my life ok, I have sth to look forward every week 🤍😭🙏
I really hope you guys know how good this podcast is and how much I appreciate yall. Because honestly, it's one of the things I look forward to the most in the week; it's my "I survived another week" prize. Derek, thank you for being so vulnerable about something so hard and personal. Growing up I also felt a lot of resentment towards my mom and there were times I didn't understand her and the sacrifices she made for me and my siblings. As I got older the guilt became and is overwhelming and horrible to live with. But I hope you know that being an ungrateful horrible kid is normal especially with what you went through. Your mom even though she might not outwardly show it, loves you unconditionally. I apologized to my mom for not understanding her and she told me that she understood. That she made mistakes and that she was sorry for them too. But that there's nothing I could say or do that would make her love me any less. I hope you heal from your traumas and I hope that the relationship with your mom grows and you can move away from that guilt.
I’m so excited for this episode ❤
1:23 you guys could be staring into the camera doing nothing for 3 hours and id still watch yall
U guys legit keep me afloat,luv ya✨
from my perspective (someone who’s been watching you guys for months - love all episodes btw) seeing how much derek has accepted change and is trying to change more and more everyday i feel so happy, like the improvement is acc crazy and i feel so glad that he has nico by his side cause he’s so supportive and such a good friend. overall i’m so happy that u guys are finally getting the recognition that u guys deserve i acc see you guys as role models🤍
Role models is CRAZY!! Thank u so much super glad u enjoying the episodes 🙏
im new here but i really like how comforting yalls podcast eps are, it feels like im hanging out with a group of friends :) definitely going to continue watching u guys
12:01 ; no lie, you guys have succeeded in this, this podcast is so chill but fun it's a nice lil escape
I'm being sooo serious rn, I've genuinely started to look forward to new episodes lately 🥰❤️
Came to this yt video from Spotify bc I wanted to share my love. Guys I love u guys. Plz plz plz keep it up omg. The vulnerability and candidness yall keeping on coming through with is what made this pod such a staple for me for everyday type shi. LIKE IM ALWAYS FEELING GOOD AFTER LISTENING TO U GUYS and that’s pretty rare for me so ty lmao. SENDING SO MUCH LOVE FROM ACROSS THE BORDER! RAHHHH!! ( also burgers at mcd’s are like 6 bucks in va..)
You guys do help with mental health so much, and help me break down things in my life yall are doing great
😭😭thank youuu!! So glad we could help
As someone who is also part of the dead dad club this episode really got me…
yooo loved this episode and excited for the next one. But after not crying for a long time, you guys made me cry for literally over 2 hours.
this podcast made me realize that i like listening to podcast because it’s like listening to my friends. and watching this made me realize how i have found my platonic soulmate.🙂
When Derek started to talk about his own personal experience with his mom and and him. I stared crying and thinking because when I was 13-15 my parents went through my messy divorce I just remember having so much resentment towards my mom so much and I can remember just hurting her in anyway possible because I would always just blame her for the whole divorce and for the reason why I was the way I was at the time and I regret so much because it really affected our relationship and I feel so bad and so disgusted in myself for that
52:27 broo istg i cried for 5 mins 🙁
i look forward to every friday cuz of this
This podcast is so comforting and hilarious, you guys are gonna make it big!! Much love from Belgium🕺🏻💗
Im crying omg😭😭 ive only been watching yall for like a week but it broke my heart seeing derek cry, i almost cried myself
You guys are amazing and i relate to yall in some ways, i feel like u guys r the best friends i never had or something, ur friendship and bond is so nice and i hope i have a friendship like u guys one day
I was soaking in my tears and then Derek was like 🙂no body mention this 💀
just found a new content to watch while i'm eating, thanks ya'll
Came across these guys recently and love every episode 😂 also love your bromance
rooting for y'all and this friendship so damn hard
when i realised that you guys don't even have 10k followers i was literally so shocked, i love this podcast so much and it doesn't even compare to the bigger podcasts for me because beersos is just so much better. i definitely see beersos getting really big in the future so at least i can say i was here before you blew up 😛
Shit i think im fallin in love with these guys
Came back from the Mother Days podcast. By hearing both of your stories and you guys talking about the relationship with your mom, I can tell you guys had a difficult childhood. You cope by using (dark) humor an although you play nonchalant, I know you guys do care and have some hurt and trauma where your going through. I can find myself in these similar feelings like not being capable to be vulnerable in front of my mother, being embarrassed as a kid about the situation at home,.. I myself often feel unheard by my best friend. I'm really happy, and it warms my heart that you're there for each other. You don't see it enough that guys can be vulnerable and tender with each other.
Hugs! 🩷
i just had a really bad day, been feeling down lately and watching your podcast is so relieving, i just feel like im having a late night conv with friends, where you talk about anything. but anyway love u guys
i watch it while being druuuuunk and i love it, love u guys !!!
I love this episode, I feel like Im already best friends with you guys just watching this 😂😂😂
i know damn well when nico is actually trying hes good asf at singing
you guys are literally the strongest people, more power to you guys!!❤
THANK YOUUUU❤️❤️
i fw yall heavy❤
This podcast is unfortunately so relatable but I fw it fr 🔥‼️
bro im not even capping when i say i didnt want this episode to end
this is the first video ive seen of you guys and i really really liked it!!
Thank u so much for watching super glad u liked it!
derek i wish i could give u a hug! stay strong .loads of love
i'm listening to this and life is okay
Nico is so sweet for immediately hugging Derek
Your friendship is too beautiful 🤧🤧
this video made me feel so well i cried a lot but it was so nice. Its nice to know that is ok to feel hurt and that im allowed to recover n try to be better
I love you guys so much and I send all my love and support to your healing efforts
Does fake dating your friend on valentines count as not alone?
Well, you gotta do what you gotta do
This is valid
@@workingonit940 Well thats true
@@beersospodcast okkkk😌
My day is made.
I just want a friendship like this
I didn’t know I’d be crying to a BEERSOS podcast 😔
my comfort podcast this episode was soooo beautiful
🫶🫶