MOVIES I'M TOO SCARED TO WATCH

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    yes there are indeed movies I refuse to subject myself to, because I don't believe I have to in order to prove myself as a horror fan. we all have our limits, and there are a lot of movies in the horror genre for a reason: there's literally something for everyone.
    what are some movies that you're afraid or just refuse to watch?
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  • @meganthackery1609
    @meganthackery1609 Před 3 lety +4636

    The moment a man uses "little girl" in an argument.... it's over. He lost.

    • @hypnotistraywilliams
      @hypnotistraywilliams Před 3 lety +54

      I bet you win a lot of arguments...in your mind.

    • @Rick_Cleland
      @Rick_Cleland Před 3 lety +69

      I enjoy eating copious amounts of expensive cheeses.

    • @jenny-sue7174
      @jenny-sue7174 Před 3 lety +235

      He’s probably an incel.

    • @useth3forceforgood
      @useth3forceforgood Před 3 lety +326

      “Little girl” is such a weak insult. It’s just inaccurate, and reflects poorly on that dude’s character.

    • @useth3forceforgood
      @useth3forceforgood Před 3 lety +237

      @@hypnotistraywilliams Projecting a bit? Lol.

  • @drinkdrownsoda
    @drinkdrownsoda Před 3 lety +4110

    The “horror isn’t for you” comment is so pretentious and annoying. If you like horror movies, you’re a horror fan! You don’t have to like any specific film to call yourself a fan of the genre

    • @bladeeda2736
      @bladeeda2736 Před 3 lety +38

      sounds like horror might not be for you😬

    • @chaneh1887
      @chaneh1887 Před 3 lety +131

      Yes i mean , there like a million sub genre in horror...

    • @edwardchen9619
      @edwardchen9619 Před 3 lety +41

      some fake hips are just being too self-called "woke" and starting to lok down on ppl by comparing tastes
      like, you're already not "woke" by doing that lollll

    • @milkcatdog394
      @milkcatdog394 Před 3 lety +18

      Cute shinji icon ~

    • @croissantjpg4888
      @croissantjpg4888 Před 3 lety +85

      yea i dont get how someone can be so gatekeepy that they think you have to be interested in every movie of a genre. imagine saying "what you dont like every romantic comedy? guess youre not a REAL fan :/"

  • @tyagirodriguez4947
    @tyagirodriguez4947 Před 2 lety +815

    As a horror lover, and a rape victim, it makes me feel extremely uneasy seeing sexual violence in movies, particularly when it doesn't add anything to the story and is for shock value only. It feels like a such a cheap "thrill", and an incredibly overused one. This video legit made me feel seen and less alone 💞

    • @mr.e6748
      @mr.e6748 Před 2 lety +44

      I am scared to death by that kind of violence even as a rather large man myself. I cannot stand anything coming close to...anyways. I hope you are doing better.

    • @mauricea.tillman4956
      @mauricea.tillman4956 Před rokem +1

      It's so common in movies because "rape" is the closest violation to killing another person.

    • @tyagirodriguez4947
      @tyagirodriguez4947 Před rokem +20

      @@mr.e6748 Im doing great hahah thanks for the message 😊

    • @theobscenekiwi
      @theobscenekiwi Před rokem +41

      I feel like in a lot of movies, sexual violence against women is not meant to be shock value, but pure entertainment for people who like toying with the idea. So as a women myself, no thank you forever and ever.

    • @EFergDindrane
      @EFergDindrane Před rokem +17

      THIS. My horror is not your plot point, thanks. Make your statement in a more creative and interesting way.

  • @jobrasheare7856
    @jobrasheare7856 Před 2 lety +201

    If anyone has as much morbid curiosity as I do about these movies but won’t watch them, SpookyRice has done summary movies about basically any disturbing film on this list. That way you can get a good vibe without sitting through them 🤙🏻💖

    • @vivianaortiz3830
      @vivianaortiz3830 Před rokem +3

      I love his channel! He’s amazing

    • @mydamnself_7301
      @mydamnself_7301 Před rokem +1

      Spookyrice is awesome! Comes off as a good guy too

    • @beyourself1214
      @beyourself1214 Před rokem +1

      TheNewBee is a similar channel; that's how I know about The Human Centipede trilogy and Antichrist

    • @KittyPieVibes
      @KittyPieVibes Před 6 měsíci +2

      That or big will with “the brutality of…” series or even kill count. I always watch reviews/ analysis of movies I’m too scared of or read about them on Wikipedia

  • @NPS2204
    @NPS2204 Před 3 lety +5230

    I am not ashamed to admit I am scared to watch Cats (2019)

    • @Kittyraptor
      @Kittyraptor Před 3 lety +153

      I've seen and enjoyed Antichrist, and *I'm* scared to watch Cats...

    • @DiaryOfDefeat
      @DiaryOfDefeat Před 3 lety +82

      Cats will haunt me for the rest of my days

    • @NinjaBunni13
      @NinjaBunni13 Před 3 lety +70

      I watched Cats while intoxicated with my partner and we both can’t believe we actually watched it and didn’t just fever dream it. Was genuinely upsetting but a sick part of me wants to watch it again lol

    • @Miranda.macleod
      @Miranda.macleod Před 3 lety +7

      Saaaame

    • @kdsentertainment568
      @kdsentertainment568 Před 3 lety +18

      I watched it and i am not sure if i will ever recover from it.

  • @managicality
    @managicality Před 3 lety +1862

    If Snoop Dogg says it's bad then there's nothing else to discuss 😔🤚

    • @NukaCola514
      @NukaCola514 Před 3 lety +33

      Nah Snoop a loop has done some pretty bad and disturbing shit himself, like making a song with Corey Feldman 😂

    • @infectedstray2188
      @infectedstray2188 Před 3 lety +21

      @@NukaCola514 Corey Feldman was in The Goonies tho. Does that make The Goonies a bad movie?

    • @myettechase
      @myettechase Před 3 lety +14

      WAP still slaps tho

    • @infectedstray2188
      @infectedstray2188 Před 3 lety +7

      @@myettechase There's nothing wrong with slapping some nice WAPs.

    • @myettechase
      @myettechase Před 3 lety +7

      @@infectedstray2188 hm. Poor phrasing on my part 😅

  • @TheBlueJay69
    @TheBlueJay69 Před 2 lety +96

    If you were wondering, ‘The girl next door’ was based off the case of Sylvia Likens. It’s similar to cases like Junko Furuta and Suzanne Capper, in that she was tortured for an extended period of time, and eventually killed.

    • @MissJoy16
      @MissJoy16 Před rokem +2

      And to add to this-- "American Crime" is also based off of her and her case. One of them is a lot more fictionalized than the other....I think "Girl Next Door" is the one that is more fictionalized, but not 100% sure.

    • @jemmaswales8027
      @jemmaswales8027 Před rokem +1

      @@MissJoy16American crime is a lot more palatable and less hard to watch

    • @NYPD99STARR
      @NYPD99STARR Před rokem

      Junko stuck with me
      An american crime was the closest to the book.
      Suzanne capper...never heard of..

    • @gjh9299
      @gjh9299 Před 6 měsíci

      an American crime is about the same case

    • @Ariadne-xy8iw
      @Ariadne-xy8iw Před 9 dny

      In the case of Sylvia Likens (The Girl Next Door) the woman was not her aunt she was a stranger whose kids had invited Sylvia and Jenny to visit and Gertrude offered to take care of them while their parents were on the road with a carnival.

  • @rayecm
    @rayecm Před rokem +38

    I’m a woman who sometimes likes more extreme/shocking horror, including some of these movies, partly out of pure curiosity over the limits of art, and partly because it helps me deal with some of my anxieties and traumas in a controlled setting. BUT there’s absolutely no reason to say somebody HAS to like these movies or they’re not a real horror fan. Everyone has different boundaries and preferences. It’s fine and healthy to avoid things that make you uncomfortable! Like you said, we all like different things. Gate keeping over who’s a “real” fan of anything is the worst.

  • @Misswtfudge
    @Misswtfudge Před 2 lety +2219

    i’m honestly sick of “women being tortured” movies and that being considered must watch horror

    • @janedoh9021
      @janedoh9021 Před 2 lety +237

      As a rape/torture survivor: THANK YOU

    • @virgie4715
      @virgie4715 Před 2 lety +77

      @@janedoh9021 exactly. That’s not a horror movie a shtick.

    • @badlilkitty96
      @badlilkitty96 Před 2 lety +125

      @@janedoh9021 Thats why I dont like Rob Zombie movies. they are sooooo rapey. its not horror its just plain terrible to me as a survivor as well.

    • @Jen-kw2fn
      @Jen-kw2fn Před 2 lety +33

      Yes, exactly! It's been done and it's boring.

    • @ninzyroo4807
      @ninzyroo4807 Před 2 lety +3

      Agreed!

  • @MRW1NKLE
    @MRW1NKLE Před 3 lety +3495

    Calling you "little girl" was just the perfect combination of creepy and condescending

    • @Muskateering
      @Muskateering Před 3 lety +95

      Probably some guy who goes by the name Matt87Writer from what I remember, a real piece of §hit.

    • @mtaffer
      @mtaffer Před 3 lety +43

      More like someone just trying to be a jerk or a bully. Kind of like the cancel culture mob that hangs out there.

    • @madisonm9255
      @madisonm9255 Před 3 lety +3

      Agreed

    • @MikeG82
      @MikeG82 Před 3 lety +5

      i jokingly call my girl "little girl" and she always lights up when i say it

    • @cadthesecretmariolad9472
      @cadthesecretmariolad9472 Před 3 lety +133

      @@MikeG82 That's different from saying it condescendingly. Saying it as a term of endearment is one thing. Using it as a way of talking down to someone, or as a way of making someone's argument seem null and void is something else entirely. He was doing the latter. Hence why she was, rightfully, upset.

  • @merlinho0t
    @merlinho0t Před rokem +22

    The only movie I've ever seen where the sexual assault was very graphic and gratuitous but also was very crucial to the whole message and point of the movie was Irreversible. As a gay SA victim, I appreciated the film for putting you in the shoes of the victim and their loved ones, instead of just throwing it in for a graphic reaction. Its a very powerful and super disturbing film, but it has a very strong and important message.
    Edit: I really enjoyed Antichrist, even though the genital mutilation scenes were very hard to stomach. It's a film with a vague and complex lore around it, and Lars Von Trier always seems to make his films feel like completely different worlds even though they are set in our timeline, on Earth.
    I feel kinda weird now knowing I have seen every single film on this list minus the last one, the last one was made with zero substance or message it is solely for getting a shocked and repulsive reaction out of it viewers. I actually enjoyed a few of them lol. I can enjoy a disturbing movie as long as I don't find it pointless, or I don't feel as though they are just making a film for shock value. Films like Antichrist, Irreversible, and Salo have scenes where the directors intended to get a visceral and shocked and disgusted response from the viewers but they also have deeper meanings in the film and the graphic scenes progress and push the plot and the ideas the director and film are trying to get across.
    With Irreversible, I cried watching the scene where Alex is assaulted because it places the audience in her position of powerlessness and shock and pain. Irreversible proves to be both a scathing condemnation of how films have pornographically depicted violence against women and gay men and in turn, how our culture sexualizes women and victim-blames them when they are subjected to cruel acts at the hands of men. Or that's how I interpreted the film personally, and why I do place it very high on my favorite films I've watched.
    I can't even begin to make an entire commentary on Antichrist or this already massive comment will be even longer, there's so themes and ideas happening in it. It's almost too busy, but somehow it pulls it together into an unforgettable cinema experience, though I could have gone without the scissor scene. (Even though it also has a meaning to tie in with the plot and commentary Von Trier is presenting) One of the main questions Von Trier presents within the film is, "Is there anything more frightening than the idea that mothers may wish to commit infanticide?" That's just one of the many things happening inside that film. Its super deep and analytic almost, that I can completely understand why it is a massively polarizing film and why some people will never like it.
    Salo is basically a political statement about the power struggle that was happening in Italy during the 1940s. The film explores themes of political corruption, consumerism, authoritarianism, nihilism, morality, capitalism, totalitarianism, sadism, sexuality, and fascism. Once again, another film that can be broken down and studied and interpreted in various ways.
    TLDR: Basically what I'm saying is that even though these films contain various scenes of SA and graphic violence and subject matter, they aren't meaningless, to me anyways. I found strong messages and themes in all of them, being a SA victim and a gay man, they struck various nerves in me that made me appreciate them, hard to watch as they may be. I'm not advocating them in any way, since I know many people will still be triggered or upset by them and completely respect their opinions and distaste of them, I just wanted to explain their meanings to people who may read this that have no desire whatsoever to watch them. :)

    • @peytonpatterson8835
      @peytonpatterson8835 Před rokem +2

      very wel explained, i also liked irreversible but i have not seen the other movies on the list

  • @sirenasummers2599
    @sirenasummers2599 Před 2 lety +53

    I am a huge gore hound, I've watched horror for the last 30 years. When I was younger I would push to watch extreme horror out just to see how far I could go and curiosity, but as I've gotten older I find I no longer have the stomach for it especially after I became a mother. Everyone is allowed boundaries it doesn't make you less of a fan. Some people don't seem to understand that tastes changes, your boundaries and what you are willing to stomach changes. My husband still watches extreme horror like Serbian movie and Salo but I couldn't watch them, though I Loved movies like Green Inferno, I also loved irreversible, but I also soured on cannibal holocaust once I learned of actual animal cruelty.

    • @nightmarefanatic1819
      @nightmarefanatic1819 Před rokem +1

      Green Inferno was actually not that bad to me, I thought for sure it would be a lot worse given what inspired it and who directed it, but it felt kinda tame all things considered.

  • @thebestoflast
    @thebestoflast Před 3 lety +2695

    I literally refuse to watch anything with real animal cruelty, people eating feces and extended sexual assault scenes. I can't think of a good reason to have any of that. It just screams "Ooh look how edgy we are."

    • @jasonramos1233
      @jasonramos1233 Před 3 lety +358

      not edgy, it’s literally glorifying things. all these movies glorify a ton of shit. it’s disgusting. that isn’t film it’s trash.

    • @carlyfontane8310
      @carlyfontane8310 Před 3 lety +183

      @@jasonramos1233 I sort of disagree not every movie with extreme violence or sexual assault is trying to glorify it or doing it just for the sake of being edgy like The nightingale is a very powerful film for me

    • @jasonramos1233
      @jasonramos1233 Před 3 lety +149

      @@carlyfontane8310 no yes! i love the nightingale. but i’m talking about a serbian film type of movies. those are horrible. but yes nightingale is an amazing film

    • @undergrounddojokeyboardcag701
      @undergrounddojokeyboardcag701 Před 3 lety +24

      There's two things to remember here.
      At the time there was this push for film makers to push the limits of what art was, they wanted to see what they could get away with. This is why all those stories of directors and film makers being arrested and all these court cases, happened in the 60s and 70s and not in the 90s. I definitely would not equate it to your modern edgy internet person, as there was legitimate art and government issues at the core of of all of this that we had to sort out.... hummm.... then again i guess we could say that about the internet as well given that there are notable and notably large, groups who are pushing for the concept of the first amendment being applied to major social media platforms (and i actually agree with that). But... Meh, whatever.
      Second, the animal cruelty thing, this was a very different time. Animal rights had really just started to catch hold and most people were not overly concerned with a turtle being killed on film. I was partially raised by a grandfather who had a farm and while i did not like how unnecessary the killing was (that could be argued though) i definitely didnt have a guttural reaction to the killing itself.
      After the 60s and 70s, when we get into the gore and exploitation of the 2000s.... yah, i guess you could say people are doing it just to be doing it, whatever. Its not my cup of tea but i guess it holds its place in film.

    • @undergrounddojokeyboardcag701
      @undergrounddojokeyboardcag701 Před 3 lety +27

      @@jasonramos1233 You know what?
      Im going to point something out here and as i said in my last post, these exploitation and super realistic gore movies are not something i really care for. Ive seen hundreds of them but i pretty much stopped watching them quite a while ago.
      I will quote something i hear from Jay on Red Letter Media all the time.... those movies you're saying are so horrible and terrible... you remember them.
      You probably don't even remember the last 10 movies you watched. If you watched 3 movies last week, im betting you barely, of at all, remember details of those 3 movies.
      But you'll remember that one time you saw AntiChrist 12 years ago.
      You'll remember Serbian Film, even though you saw it half drunk, 10 years ago.
      And you'll definitely remember Cannibal Holocaust even though you saw it one time, in 1993.

  • @kittygrimm7301
    @kittygrimm7301 Před 3 lety +3419

    “You can have anxiety and be a horror fan.” I’m a horror fan *because* of my anxiety.

    • @PossessedbyHorror
      @PossessedbyHorror  Před 3 lety +322

      amen

    • @missymurder1602
      @missymurder1602 Před 3 lety +17

      @@PossessedbyHorror
      if its ok to recommend a movie to avoid for your next installment...
      try to skip "Jesus Christ Serial Rapist"
      sounds like fun.... not always

    • @chucklebutt4470
      @chucklebutt4470 Před 3 lety +21

      @@missymurder1602 Whoa, that's a bomb ass movie title! The movie sounds pretty shitty though:
      A schizophrenic man who believes he is Jesus kidnaps women who refuse to believe his delusion He videotapes himself with these women he has tied up in various states of bondage. He sends videotapes to the media labeled "Gospels of Blood," which are just photographs of naked women in bondage, usually crucified in some way, with the camera panning and zooming over the photos. These photographs account for more than half of the running time. There is no diegetic sound, only a few title cards, although there is a soundtrack of heavy metal music.

    • @KorpsePaintKlown
      @KorpsePaintKlown Před 3 lety +14

      Mine is from my severe OCD lol

    • @huntergathererwoman4401
      @huntergathererwoman4401 Před 3 lety +5

      Hmmm-maybe that's why I watch so many horror movies.

  • @Poppins242
    @Poppins242 Před 2 lety +10

    I can watch most disturbing, extreme movies but once you have seen it you can't unsee it. You are right your boundaries are for you. That fellow calling you a little girl is pathetic. Just keep doing your thing xxxx

  • @libby5742
    @libby5742 Před 2 lety +22

    Yes Sarah, promote those healthy boundaries boo!! I still remember watching The Hills Have Eyes when I was 12 or so and the severe SA scene traumatized me so much. I’m in my mid-20’s and I still refuse to rewatch that movie.

    • @lrb938
      @lrb938 Před 2 lety

      In the remake or the original ? Bc in ive never seen the original but own the remakes and don't recall there that many in them

  • @JoshuaDb_The_Witness
    @JoshuaDb_The_Witness Před 3 lety +2997

    I'm a 50 year old male, with CPTSD, ADHD, and HSP, and I have been a horror fan since grade school. And I have my own boundaries and triggers. Some films, I wish I hadn't seen. Age, gender, has nothing to do with it. I dig your video. Consider me a new fan.

    • @hailburgerking9080
      @hailburgerking9080 Před 3 lety +70

    • @Alysana2604
      @Alysana2604 Před 3 lety +57

      Yoooo I have CPTSD and ADHD as well and none of my therapists get why I am so into horror while being traumatized and super anxious irl.

    • @bo2720
      @bo2720 Před 3 lety +18

      Just wonderwing which films they are ? I am the same never watched cannibal holocaust, faces of death etc and I am a huge horror fan

    • @ayla2316
      @ayla2316 Před 3 lety +14

      I have autism and adhd and I agree

    • @Bat_Boy
      @Bat_Boy Před 3 lety +15

      I’m 58 years, and a long time horror / disturbing / weird / “it’s so bad, it’s good” fan. (This is how I describe them).
      TWO movies that mentally destroyed me:
      House (1977). This movie tore my soul apart, because it defies category, and this mentally broke me. You can say it’s an experiential film, but you’d be wrong. The problem with this movie, is that it is not of this universe. It exists outside of it, where the laws of physics does not exist.
      Birdemic. This POS supposed “it’s so bad, it’s good” is endlessly frustrating because it is so bad, it’s SO VERY BAD, it hurts the mind. I wanted to rip my eyes out with a warm spoon after bravely watching this garbage.
      Everything else...I get it. Dirty, disgusting, filthy, profoundly disturbing...no problem, I understand. Ask me to watch House and Birdemic as q double feature, and I’d rather get a rope and a stool.
      Peace! ✌️

  • @leftmybabyblue
    @leftmybabyblue Před 3 lety +1060

    I want every movie from now on to be rated by how much Snoop Dogg liked them.

  • @arenscarano4806
    @arenscarano4806 Před 2 lety +17

    As someone who does actually like some of these movies, I think it's so so important to respect people who won't subject themselves to certain things. At the end of the day, being a fan of horror is about enjoying it, and if you force yourself to watch things you hate you're unavoidably going to fall out of love with the genre

  • @tiffani-amberstuurman2016

    This channel has become my postpartum comfort channel 😭😭 I was even binging videos an hour before I went into labour 🤣🙌

    • @MissJoy16
      @MissJoy16 Před rokem +5

      I hope you and baby are both happy and healthy now!

  • @paulstewart4077
    @paulstewart4077 Před 3 lety +1853

    I'm a 53 year old male, love horror but can't watch torture or possession movies anymore. Something about having kids that changes your taste.

    • @ComradeChyrk
      @ComradeChyrk Před 3 lety +54

      For me having kids made horror all the better. What didnt disturb me before now does.

    • @guillermocarrillo8377
      @guillermocarrillo8377 Před 3 lety +33

      Is this the new "I'm 14 and"??

    • @basicbitch8874
      @basicbitch8874 Před 3 lety +5

      Why possession ? I dont get the connection with you having kids

    • @clarawilliam6564
      @clarawilliam6564 Před 3 lety +98

      @@basicbitch8874 Probably bc a decent number of possession movies do involve kids.

    • @jamielehman4934
      @jamielehman4934 Před 3 lety +56

      I just hate possession movies because they're all the same. Some good kid, gets possessed, starts doing weird stuff, talking in a deep voice, cursing, and flailing their arms a bunch as a priest is attempting an excorcism 🥱

  • @sarahchillomg2946
    @sarahchillomg2946 Před 3 lety +1286

    That guy calling you "vanilla" as he blatantly ignores your boundaries because that's what he thinks bdsm is

    • @tegridyfarms6851
      @tegridyfarms6851 Před 3 lety +159

      I think its much simpler than that. He is a little basement kiddo that thinks watching the most gory horror movies will make him a "real man". hes compensating

    • @addisonb.1356
      @addisonb.1356 Před 3 lety +5

      @@tegridyfarms6851 true!!

    • @ichigokage
      @ichigokage Před 3 lety +64

      “You don’t adore A Serbian Film? You vanilla little snowflake!” Ugh

    • @ccamilacedeno
      @ccamilacedeno Před 2 lety +83

      he probably watches movies that glorify rape, animal cruelty and sexual assault and thinks that if you’re disgusted by that you’re “vanilla”

    • @mrusername3438
      @mrusername3438 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ccamilacedeno Can you name a single movie that glorifies that stuff without looking them up?

  • @OriginsOfSmith
    @OriginsOfSmith Před 2 lety +2

    This is really refreshing to see. Sometimes I tried to “enjoy” movies that weren’t my thing even though I knew they wouldn’t be before I even watched it just for the sake of the Horror Fan title. Thank you for your awesome perspective on this!

  • @GoeticJeffy666
    @GoeticJeffy666 Před rokem +7

    This might sound strange but I love THE GIRL NEXT DOOR. Blanche Baker and Blythe Auffarth gave absolutely gut wrenching performances. Also the innocent, sweet relationship / friendship between David & Meg just made me cry at the end. It's weird probably to people that I love this film but it's cause I'm immersed in the characters (mainly Meg) and you'd just wanna ripp through the screen and save her. Like that's why... It's an extremely disturbing and depressing film but also a brilliantly acted one too. It feels so raw and unsettling. I'm not ashamed saying I cried at the end, the way David and Meg looked at each other broke my heart 😢 Sorry if this spoils some things for people but the film has been out for a long time and the actual story of Sylvia Likens sticks close to this story so you'd know probably

    • @user-hv5wi6nd4i
      @user-hv5wi6nd4i Před 6 měsíci +1

      This is a good movie that was watered down but still disturbing. It is a hard watch which should not be watched as a typical horror. Brave performances from the cast.

  • @kitnal4143
    @kitnal4143 Před 3 lety +974

    This is why I Marie Kondo my movies. I look them up and ask "in the end, will this spark joy?"

    • @audreybea4013
      @audreybea4013 Před 3 lety +22

      omg same haha I'm very interested in the horror genre but I've probably only seen about 10 horror films, I usually like to watch movies that'll make me feel better, or sad movies when I'm sad idk why

    • @edwardchen9619
      @edwardchen9619 Před 2 lety +15

      ahahahaha using marie kondo as a verb

    • @harveydodd8803
      @harveydodd8803 Před 2 lety +1

      I guess I don’t see that as a workable philosophy for living. Sometimes you find connection through pain. I can’t imagine tossing out all Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Marvin Gaye, and Frank Sinatra music because it doesn’t spark joy while listening to it.

  • @strbourne
    @strbourne Před 2 lety +1318

    My partner can't watch movies with sexual assault or rape scenes, and since dating them I've noticed just how often sexual assault is used in movies to get a cheap visceral reaction without actually having to write a good plot

    • @inactivechannel6365
      @inactivechannel6365 Před 2 lety +138

      It’s always extremely unnecessary too. Like you don’t need a 20 minute rape scene to get the point across, or a rape scene at all. It’s just exploitative and repulsive for the sake of being disgusting.

    • @amethyst1267
      @amethyst1267 Před 2 lety +14

      my thoughts exactly

    • @siobhanphoenix8068
      @siobhanphoenix8068 Před 2 lety +1

      Unfortunately a lot of men have this kind of fetish and that is why they like those scenes. It's really sick and in a bad way. It's been fetishized in film for a long time. When people call it "rape culture" it isn't just being imagined when it's all through the movies and fetishized teaching new generations to fetishize rape which is an act of violence.

    • @OKHolly
      @OKHolly Před rokem +21

      I absolutely agree with you! I believe that you do not need to have these scenes in order to demonstrate someone's evil and cruelty, or to help the audience understand the victim's trauma. A good writer would be able to do this effectively without resorting to such a horrifying tactic. Anyone who includes these scenes is just a bad, lazy writer, in my opinion.

    • @Drayton-tv1tz
      @Drayton-tv1tz Před rokem +2

      In some cases, I would completely agree in that matter. Films that have explicit rape scenes that are just unnecessary and most of the time they are just trying to win over the title for most disturbing film. However, I would completely disagree if we were talking about Irreversible a film that includes a revolting rape scene that lasts pretty long but, in that film, it's a bit different understanding how it approaches these aspects of rape and the unrepairable events that occur afterwards. It's a film that's notorious for that one scene but it's used in such an implanting tone that no other film at that time was willing to extend (especially on topics that are so traumatic). Irreversible's talented director and flipped chronological order on how these events come to be is why I believe that despite it being probably one of the hardest films to watch it stands as probably one of the most important as well.

  • @AndiCat14
    @AndiCat14 Před 2 lety +20

    I have a hard enough time sitting through animal abuse in movies even when no animals have been harmed. But knowing that a certain movie's abuse was REAL really pisses me off.

  • @greenghoul157
    @greenghoul157 Před rokem +12

    You can both love horror and have boundaries, I enjoy a good scary movie but I would still never watch Salo or A Serbian Film, I also hate seeing unnecessary sexual violence

  • @viggothysinistertoaster2696
    @viggothysinistertoaster2696 Před 2 lety +1248

    As long as you LIKE horror, you’re a horror fan. End of conversation.

    • @atomiccritter6492
      @atomiccritter6492 Před 2 lety +10

      I think because of 2 factors Horror can be very divisive or diverse. 1st horror is largely a personal taste thing, people get scared by different things which other may find laughable 2nd possibly because of the wide range of fears its possibly the only genre which has a large amount of sub genres. Horror is a broad church

    • @greendayfreakism
      @greendayfreakism Před 2 lety +1

      Bubu Baba

    • @MrBlock-qe7hi
      @MrBlock-qe7hi Před 2 lety +9

      @Ghostface👻🔪 I think that’s a slight stretch I think that just means you’ve liked a single movie in a wide range a horror fan is someone who likes the horror genre not just a single movie

    • @someoneyoudontknow6083
      @someoneyoudontknow6083 Před rokem

      @Ghostface👻🔪 The only reason I've watched some horror movies is because I like the stories in them, but can't stand the aspects of them that *make* them horrifying. So I'd go so far to say I am not a fan of horror despite watching them.

    • @o3w3ooc63
      @o3w3ooc63 Před rokem +1

      666 likes

  • @milkchocolate6719
    @milkchocolate6719 Před 3 lety +690

    This is why I love the movie Funny Games. It flips the mirror to the audience and pushed the question "why are you watching this and what are you hoping to see?". Alot of extreme horror fans don't like this movie because it purposely doesn't show alot of gore and doesn't contain any nudity when the female actress is in a comprising situation. It also gets flack for being long and a bit boring, but the whole point is to say "why would you want to see that? Why do you want to see her in this awful situation? Why do you want to see this family suffer? Why are you watching this?". Personally, I think it's one of the best thriller movies I've seen because it actually creeped me out and left me thinking after I turned it off, instead of relying on shock value and cheap jumpscares.

    • @PossessedbyHorror
      @PossessedbyHorror  Před 3 lety +133

      YES loved this movie for this very reason so good

    • @emmal2001
      @emmal2001 Před 3 lety +2

      Yessssss this movie stayed with me

    • @milkchocolate6719
      @milkchocolate6719 Před 3 lety +39

      @Jackie Nova I get how it could come across that way definitely. I think it was more aimed towards people who think you can't have a good horror movie without extremes like sexual assaults or extreme gore (to the point that if it's not there, people will dismiss a film immediately). And at directors who make down right disgusting films and hide behind the label of "shock horror".

    • @milkchocolate6719
      @milkchocolate6719 Před 3 lety +10

      @Alex Marrone I suggest you watch it! It's easier to come up with an opinon on it after you watch. Just keep in mind, the director even said most people either love it or hate it depending on their taste in horror movies.

    • @Shatterspeed
      @Shatterspeed Před 3 lety +1

      Oooh, that sounds very interesting!

  • @KelliJ_
    @KelliJ_ Před 2 lety +3

    Yes. Yes. Yes. This just absolutely solidified something in myself and I feel so validated! Love this and your channel, subbed for sure. 😍🥰

  • @Bubbybean
    @Bubbybean Před 2 lety +11

    Thank you for this. I’m so passionate about horror movies, but i know my boundaries. I absolutely cannot watch rape scenes without bawling my eyes out or going into a panic attack. I want to enjoy the movie not fuck up my mental health.

  • @BenefitCounterbench
    @BenefitCounterbench Před 3 lety +653

    That edgy gatekeeper is hilarious. "Look how cool I am for finding animal cruelty, sexual assault, and nauseating violence entertaining!" Was he rejected by his high school crush, so now he wants to prove that he's a tough man for liking gore or what? I always see an overlap between horror gatekeepers and incels...
    Edit: gore and horror are not the same genre, but some moviemakers pretend they are. The goal of horror is to scare the audience, not to make them rush to the toilet...

    • @goobypoo7815
      @goobypoo7815 Před 3 lety +32

      Yeah they both seem to enjoy violence against women

    • @saladpizzarestaurant9394
      @saladpizzarestaurant9394 Před 3 lety +19

      Yes gatekeeping is wrong. But so is shaming people who are fans of extreme horror movies.

    • @goobypoo7815
      @goobypoo7815 Před 3 lety +44

      @@saladpizzarestaurant9394 I'm not shaming them for liking extreme horror movies, I'm shaming them for gatekeeping and being weird about it

    • @Neo_Geisha
      @Neo_Geisha Před 3 lety +5

      I've always loved gorey horror films + video games. But I can easily understand why they don't appeal to everyone. I'd imagine that most who don't enjoy gore aren't a big fan of the horror genre. At least the ones made since the 60's. Gatekeeping is annoying, though.

    • @goobypoo7815
      @goobypoo7815 Před 3 lety +17

      @@Neo_Geisha but gore isn't all there is to horror. I don't like gore at all, but I will deal with it if the movie is extremely interesting/scary. I like the psychological thrillers the most because they don't need gore to be good/fun horror movies. Also I feel like the person talking down to Sarah was referring to exploitation films and not just gore, but I could be wrong.

  • @JK-sc8th
    @JK-sc8th Před 2 lety +641

    I'm almost fifty and have been watching horror movies my whole life, and I totally get what you mean. My own personal "line" is incessant cruelty under the pretext of horror. To me, a horror movie should be, you know... SCARY. If it's just watching abuse for 90 minutes then I'm tapping out. If that makes me soft in people's eyes then so be it.

  • @UnholyTaco666
    @UnholyTaco666 Před rokem +3

    I am absolutely a horror fan partly due to my trauma as a woman, and it has been so incredibly validating and just generally therapeutic. Good for you, setting and keeping boundaries for yourself. That is so admirable.

  • @ellyelly7235
    @ellyelly7235 Před rokem +2

    I found your rant at the beginning very reassuring. I've been hesitant to call myself a horror fan because I prefer B movies and obscure movies to the jumpscare heavy classics, so thank you for making me feel validated.

  • @flyingninjamimejr
    @flyingninjamimejr Před 3 lety +447

    Part of adult hood is knowing your limitations. I can’t watch medical torture or rape and that doesnt make me any less of a horror fan

    • @kellymcphaul2793
      @kellymcphaul2793 Před 3 lety +68

      I feel like rape just isn’t something anyone needs to show or allude to. But hey maybe I’m just not a real horror fan. Rape is horror in it’s own self without including it in any media.

    • @pippin3168
      @pippin3168 Před 3 lety +56

      @@kellymcphaul2793 exactly. Rape is something women have to fear happening to them every day, always looking over their shoulder. If you enjoy watching rape scenes you’re not a horror fan you’re a sadist

    • @meganmorgan8597
      @meganmorgan8597 Před 3 lety +28

      I have severe ptsd from traumatic sexual assualt by a family member when i was 14. Im 38 with 2 kids now. The family member was in a position of authority (law enforcement) and had access to and used weapons. Not only do I have emotional scars, I have physical scars. I have to google every single movie i want to watch bc i can't watch certain things. Sometimes I get really mad at myself and try to watch or push thru...and i regret it every time. I thank God for my partner. Not only is he aware of my past, he will google movies also for me, when I have nightmares he helps me tremendously ground myself. Uniforms. Cant do em. Beards can't do em. Mirrored aviator sunglasses, alcohol cant do em. If im in public and he sees any of this *POOF* hes right there. Sometimes he sees this stuff before me.
      Anyway yea i can't watch anything like that and i understand how it may be part of the story but does it actually need to be seen? No.

    • @icetrey7209
      @icetrey7209 Před 3 lety +22

      @@meganmorgan8597 I’m so sorry you went through that but I’m glad you have such a helping and kind partner. Have a good day

    • @jessi5872
      @jessi5872 Před 3 lety +12

      @@meganmorgan8597 I feel you there on some things. While my abuse history isn't as bad, I was victimized both by a partner and by the legal system afterwards. After a very public meltdown in a movie theatre while watching Fifty Shades of Grey, I learned I need to check into basically every movie before I watch it.

  • @XTCYDVL
    @XTCYDVL Před 2 lety +1706

    as a person who can't watch certain horror movies/series because of r*pe scenes, this helped me feel less alone; thank you.

    • @sophie427
      @sophie427 Před 2 lety +92

      You are for sure not alone in this!! SA is even more scary and upsetting because it's something that is most likely to actually happen to someone (or happened in the past). I often can't watch these movies either way, because the response the rest of the characters have to it just upsets me even more.

    • @kiamckenz
      @kiamckenz Před 2 lety +124

      they shouldn’t even be in movies anyway, it doesn’t capture any “raw emotion” it’s just traumatizing, people forget subtlety is everything you can tell the audience a SA happened without showing it on screen

    • @XTCYDVL
      @XTCYDVL Před 2 lety +59

      @@kiamckenz i can definitely see where you're coming from with that, and honestly yeah in most cases it isn't even necessary to have those scenes, it's feels so...exploit-y?

    • @emilew2123
      @emilew2123 Před 2 lety +33

      SAME. I love to see a good revenge story but I can’t handle an SA scene more then 1 minuet. And I think 1 minute is plenty of time, like you show what’s going on and we get it. You don’t gotta show the entire 20 minute ordeal. I understand that some film makers are trying to show how awful and uncomfortable SA really is, but I feel like some film makers just do it because it’s gruesome.

    • @lou2288
      @lou2288 Před 2 lety +19

      Evil dead caught me off guard with the rapey tree scene. It was pretty triggering for me. Also warning incase you didn't know this about evil dead, the first movie

  • @NIkkosKarabis
    @NIkkosKarabis Před 2 lety +5

    I remember trying to watch The Shining (Kubrick's) and having that feeling of yield and deep evil coming from that hotel. The first time I stopped watching it, I turned off my computer and I left the room (it was dark)... The second time I watched the whole thing, and I loved it... a pure classic!!!

  • @mattgraystone4658
    @mattgraystone4658 Před rokem +1

    There are so many different types of horror and you like what type of horror you like, good for you for standing up for yourself and don't worry about any negative opinions on what horror you personally enjoy

  • @teetheatersanonymous
    @teetheatersanonymous Před 2 lety +1285

    this video should be called “traumatizing movies that I won’t subject myself to” 😓 I don’t think it’s even a matter of being scared, it’s fair to avoid extremely triggering/graphic content

    • @theaitokyo
      @theaitokyo Před 2 lety +6

      so unrelated, but i LOVE your pfp 🥺. where’s it from ???

    • @teetheatersanonymous
      @teetheatersanonymous Před 2 lety +7

      @@theaitokyo it’s shaymin, a pokemon :)

    • @merbish7962
      @merbish7962 Před 2 lety +11

      I totally agree. There should be laws to filmmaking that ban things from being portrayed in movies. It’s not necessary in the first place.

    • @darriengreen5561
      @darriengreen5561 Před 2 lety +4

      @@merbish7962 🤨

    • @merbish7962
      @merbish7962 Před 2 lety +23

      @@darriengreen5561 I don’t think we need to see people being tortured or raped. There’s literally no necessary reason to see that happen on screen in a movie. It’s disgusting.

  • @spookyastronauts
    @spookyastronauts Před 3 lety +294

    Cool video Sarah 🤘🏼 thanks for standing up the the gatekeepers

    • @kiwi_dont_fly381
      @kiwi_dont_fly381 Před 3 lety

      @@jeffpray2915 what

    • @atomiccritter6492
      @atomiccritter6492 Před 2 lety +1

      I think people on this comments section misunderstand the concept of gatekeeping. They are NOT preventing you from watching what you want to watch. OK the comments of said gatekeeper are stupid dickish and patronising...but not gatekeeping. Its much like me saying youre not a horror fan because you like 80s horror...how on earth does that prevent someone watching an 80s horror? How exactly is a comment preventing someone having access to stuff?

  • @shastasketches1986
    @shastasketches1986 Před 2 lety +5

    In "Girl Next Door", in the true crime story, Gertrude was a complete monster to Sylvia.

  • @bmljenny
    @bmljenny Před rokem +1

    I saw Nekromantik on the night that the Toronto Blue Jays won the World Series in 1992 or 1993. We suffered through this grim and disgusting film and then emerged into a wild party of positivity and cheering with people driving around hollering and horn blaring. It was quite the emotional roller coaster.

  • @yolandaponkers1581
    @yolandaponkers1581 Před 2 lety +284

    I want to be scared, not scarred, when I watch a horror film. I want to be creeped out, but I don’t want to be depressed and a lot of the violence against women and animals in horror films just makes me sad and angry.

    • @mydamnself_7301
      @mydamnself_7301 Před rokem +5

      Exactly. Horror is supposed to be "exciting" in a certain way....if someone is "excited" by that it's obvious they are watching these movies for different reasons....just my personal opinion

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Před rokem +4

      But violence against men is completely fine to you

    • @marianadamelio
      @marianadamelio Před rokem +9

      ​@@IkesPimpHandmen don't usually get raped in horror movies

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Před rokem

      @@marianadamelio are you acting obtuse on purpose? Are are you actually under the impression that r**e is the only violence that exists?
      The majority (over 90%) of homicide victims in movies(and in real life) are men. Why is your empathy only limited to women?

    • @bangchanswebbrowsinghistor5145
      @bangchanswebbrowsinghistor5145 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@IkesPimpHand of course you had to make that about yourself

  • @pastaboiii3324
    @pastaboiii3324 Před 3 lety +256

    Antichrist (2009)
    The Girl Next Door (2007)
    Cannibal Holocaust (1980)
    Salo 100 Days Of Sodom (1975)
    Nekromantik (1987)
    August Underground Mordum (2003)
    Irreversible (2002)
    Melancholie Der Engel (2009)
    All of the movies 😊

    • @agstinacueva1673
      @agstinacueva1673 Před 3 lety +7

      I've watched cannibal holocaust and salo, and to me they are average films I would not consider them to be uncomfortable but that's just my twisted brain 😂

    • @Ali-cn1gq
      @Ali-cn1gq Před 3 lety +4

      @@agstinacueva1673 SALO THAT WAS SOO GROSS

    • @spaceananas666
      @spaceananas666 Před 3 lety

      Literally seen Every August underground and mordum it's my fav, It has a fucking budget of 300 dollars and it's visually really Amazing and credible

    • @Sanjidub
      @Sanjidub Před 3 lety

      thank you very much

    • @cainthings
      @cainthings Před 3 lety +1

      Most of these I already have watched and *FOR ME* these aren't the worst thing ever. But they can be pretty harsh for some.

  • @miamiapia
    @miamiapia Před 7 měsíci +3

    i just found your channel! as a horror lover who's a woman, i have watched countless horror movies with so much unnecessary sexual violence towards women that gives nothing to the story. i hate that these are male writers, producers, and directors making these films too. i feel like such a big part of the horror genre is men making women even smaller than they are in reality. where as i can see it is horror because that is in fact scary to me as a woman, i don't need scares like that when i am constantly scared that those things are actually going to happen to me and these male directors and writers have no clue how real that fear is to just play with and put on film.

    • @big_gamer1234
      @big_gamer1234 Před 6 měsíci

      i hate it too. i roll my eyes whenever it starts to happen in a movie. used to repulse me but now i just dont care. i just think its hilarious and pathetic how much they rely on it for cheap scares.
      i also feel like it says something about the writer and director. probably one of their sick fantasies.

  • @twelvechimesitsmidnightpod

    Totally! I have a somewhat narrow range of stories. I used to try to endure everything, and also had the revelation that I could still be a fan without watching everything. :)

  • @jackthekiller091
    @jackthekiller091 Před 3 lety +443

    that rant about gatekeeping was the tea though, gatekeeping in horror is the worst for sure

    • @declanp1
      @declanp1 Před 3 lety +2

      I don't notice it, but then again, I couldn't give a shit what anyone thinks anyway! 😂

    • @karatechap555
      @karatechap555 Před 3 lety +7

      In any cultural art form really.

    • @atomiccritter6492
      @atomiccritter6492 Před 2 lety

      Im unfairly singling you out ...explain exactly what gatekeeping is...I almost guarantee you wont be able to explain what it is and how it applies here

  • @prettymamacita9586
    @prettymamacita9586 Před 3 lety +469

    I’m 49 and have been a huge horror fan my whole life but I’m not into gore,it’s not for me but classic thrills from horror I LOVE!✌🏼

    • @erikramaekers63
      @erikramaekers63 Před 3 lety

      Do you like horror from the golden age (1931-1946)?

    • @douglascampbell9809
      @douglascampbell9809 Před 3 lety +4

      @@erikramaekers63 I would say 1931 to say the late 60's. That way you get all the better Hammer Horror films.

    • @applemusic751
      @applemusic751 Před 3 lety +19

      Frrr I will never watch gore movies bc those types are not scary n they are lame as hell. Into more of that paranormal, psychological, supernatural type shit but seeing ppl kill each other is not interesting lmao

    • @pattycannon1804
      @pattycannon1804 Před 3 lety

      Same here

    • @Venya9
      @Venya9 Před 3 lety +4

      Could've typed this out myself! Gore just disgusts me too much.

  • @hunterstiles9602
    @hunterstiles9602 Před 2 lety +2

    This was an incredible video. Seriously, huge amount of respect for this. Personally, I have watched every movie you mentioned; I didn't enjoy the majority and the others that I "enjoyed" have been purely because there were watched at a time when I wasn't doing great and for some reason they kept me going. One movie that I'd recommend
    you steer clear of is Trauma (2017), it's a Chilean movie and has many of the themes discussed in this video. I regret watching it honestly. Take care you wonderful human

    • @aimee_austin
      @aimee_austin Před rokem

      I completely agree. Stay clear of trauma. Alot of the time I enjoy horror movies cause they offer some sort of comfort and remind me that they’re worse things that could happen.

  • @Macktastic7
    @Macktastic7 Před rokem +2

    A friend of mine and me are huge horror fans and we always get together to watch new movies we haven't seen as well as enjoy some of the classics quite regularly. Over the years we've been slowly watching more intense films until we both decided to try and brave Salo. I bought the movie and we were both pretty excited to see just how much we could handle but still haven't gotten the nerve to actually watch it. I bought it almost two years ago lol

  • @mooksplays
    @mooksplays Před 3 lety +589

    It's so odd that i absolutely understand where youre coming from with the "common theme", cause as woman i can't watch brutal SA/kidnap/torture movies anymore. I used to be able to watch them, but now it just gives me major anxiety. Remembering back to having watched megan is missing, the girl next door and irreversible, i just feel sick, because this shit happens in real life too.

    • @jaquelinezini
      @jaquelinezini Před 2 lety +18

      I didn't have a big issue with this types of movies, but Megan is Missing disturbed me way too much. I do get anxious now if there's SA.

    • @stephaniehavoksen1761
      @stephaniehavoksen1761 Před 2 lety +11

      Exactlyyyy. The reason Megan is missing really messed with me was because it could so easily be real. Like stuff like that happens in real life. Maybe I’ve watched more “graphic” movies, but that one is one I’ll never want to watch again

    • @emmalemay4129
      @emmalemay4129 Před 2 lety +3

      Yes I feel the same way. As a survivor of SA I have a lot of trouble watching movies that are highly exploitative of women (especially). I do however see the appeal of the "realistic" horror movies like Megan is Missing, I think because it's so real it is that much more effective. But there is a line to it, I think it is only good if it's written well and not just played out for shock value. There are good ways and bad ways to tell stories and if a story must include SA and torture I think it should be written properly.

    • @valmacclinchy
      @valmacclinchy Před 2 lety +3

      The Girl Next Door is loosely based off a true story. The true story is actually much worse.

    • @user.7710
      @user.7710 Před 2 lety +1

      i watched An American Crime (similar to the girl next door) when i was way too young…i was 9 and 11 years later it still haunts me. it’s horrifying. i’m not sure how it was only rated R but Scream was almost rated NC-17 because of a few bloody scenes.

  • @kittygrimm7301
    @kittygrimm7301 Před 3 lety +442

    Also, The Girl Next Door is *really* not worth it for other reasons than its disturbing content. You see, Jack Ketchum heard the story of Sylvia Likens (the girl who was tortured to death by her caregiver, her kids, and their friends) and thought it would a good story for a novel. He approached Sylvia’s sister, Jenny, to ask her permission to write and publish the novel as long as he changed the names. Jenny said no because she did not want to relive the trauma of watching her sister being tortured and she didn’t want her sister to be remembered in that way. Did Mr. Ketchum respect her wishes? Nope, he went ahead and did it anyway! He also went out of his way to embellish the story to make it even more gruesome and disturbing, going as far as adding a rape scene and molestation subplot that did not happen, purely for shock value. Basically, The Girl Next Door just exploits the very real torture of a very real girl and I regret watching it after learning what I know now.

    • @vantastic9367
      @vantastic9367 Před 3 lety +11

      You are aware that Ellen Page played Sylvia Likens in the other movie about the incident called an "American Crime"? Anyway people should know Sylvia's story and that the monsters that did it barely served anytime for torture, now laws have changed. Jack Ketchum is a true crime novelist like Anne Rule, this isn't the only crime that he's written about, derp.

    • @spookyspice596
      @spookyspice596 Před 3 lety +49

      @@vantastic9367 An American Crime at least has the decency to respect Sylvia’s memory by portraying her as a person and not a punching bag and more is implied than shown. It also came out *after* Jenny’s death.

    • @vantastic9367
      @vantastic9367 Před 3 lety +3

      @@spookyspice596 Both films came out in 2007, ya big derp.

    • @occludedzeitgeist
      @occludedzeitgeist Před 3 lety +34

      @@vantastic9367 *elliot

    • @vantastic9367
      @vantastic9367 Před 3 lety +6

      @@occludedzeitgeist Ellen Page at the time of the movie.

  • @1ivingdeadgr189
    @1ivingdeadgr189 Před 2 lety

    Well said!! Different things affect different people, it's subjective you can't call someone out for making a decision not to see something because it will make them uncomfortable that should be praised more than anything. Better to avoid than to trigger anxiety or uncomfortable emotions some may not deal well with

  • @Passionhearted1
    @Passionhearted1 Před rokem

    HA! I was searching for 2021 horror movie playlist & come across your video and you look too familiar. I have been subscribed to your other channel for a decade & never knew you had this one too!! Yay, have not seen you stroll thru my feed for a long time & glad to see you're still here!

  • @iAnneart
    @iAnneart Před 3 lety +507

    Gender gatekeeping is present in literally EVERYTHING (e.g., certain music bands, movie film buffs, pro gaming in twitch, especially rock or metal music and like you mention, the horror genre.)

    • @mjthedealer
      @mjthedealer Před 3 lety +6

      It was just some random “clown” who made a negative comment. Just block them/ignore it & keep it moving. A majority of this comment section portrays this “gatekeeping” as an actual barrier that prevents her/people from the opportunity to do ANY of these things and that’s just not true. In 1st World countries we can literally do EVERYTHING.

    • @naylasworld2351
      @naylasworld2351 Před 3 lety +61

      @@mjthedealer it doesn't stop her from watching and enjoying those movies but it is annoying to have little boys trying to quiz us on those subjects for no reason.

    • @ElChuntyCabra
      @ElChuntyCabra Před 3 lety +2

      lol chicks are so cute :)

    • @drflatlinethakilljoy1025
      @drflatlinethakilljoy1025 Před 3 lety +7

      @@naylasworld2351 people tend to ask questions about similar interest for example if i know a friend likes a band i know i might ask them "her have you herd their first album" because 1.if they havent i could give them the name so they look it up 2.talk about what they liked or didnt liked idk why some girls always act like because you ask them questions you are tryna call them out or something also yeah gatekeeping is a thing in alot of things because old school fans get annoyed when something becomes trendy and everybody jumps on the fad band wagon and a lot of these things have grown into cultures sooo yeah its pretty annoying when someone dont know were the history or have appreciation for the roots that have grown into the culture its like saying your a huge tupac fan when you herd like 2 radio singles and bought a shirt at walmart your not a tupac fan you dont even know the majority of his work gatekeeping is a thing to sham trendy posers cuz they should be shammed also u cant cry about "sexism" because someone said little girl then use little boy as an insult thats called being a hypocrite and even if its unjustly annoying its still a first world problem.....only the ignorant and uninformed complain about gatekeeping u gotta problem with it learn a thing or 2 and prove ur stripes like the rest of us do.....girls hate it when they dont treated like royalty and call it oppression not understanding thats how most men live their entire lives... i look forward to your angry reply

    • @Fluffybunniii
      @Fluffybunniii Před 3 lety +27

      @@drflatlinethakilljoy1025 ok but gender gatekeeping really is a thing. Stop missing the point.

  • @ianjphil
    @ianjphil Před 3 lety +379

    With Cannibal Holocaust, it was hearing that they “de-shelled” a live turtle that had me say NOPE!

    • @JoeyCaps34
      @JoeyCaps34 Před 3 lety +13

      They have an animal edit. Real animal deaths are cut out. It's truly a classic and must see. Find that version.

    • @kitnal4143
      @kitnal4143 Před 3 lety +108

      @@JoeyCaps34 "must see". Meh I prefer my horror to not make me genuinely upset in the end. I have no time for movies that see edgy for the sake of it.

    • @drfifteenmd7561
      @drfifteenmd7561 Před 3 lety +1

      They have the full video on CZcams, I watched it and it was extremely disturbing.

    • @kevinpeterson1398
      @kevinpeterson1398 Před 3 lety +2

      You DO understand that that happens nearly every day down there. Because the natives have to eat as well. That's called reality and it's a place we all live in.

    • @Valentine-jo7ls
      @Valentine-jo7ls Před 3 lety +67

      @@kevinpeterson1398 And it has to be filmed and profited off of because? If someone doesn’t love watching real violence they don’t have to.

  • @deja3963
    @deja3963 Před 2 lety +1

    Your list is a lot of my personal favorites and must watch’s haha

  • @yusefendure
    @yusefendure Před 2 lety +2

    Just saw this, and I'm with you 100%. Watched horror all of my life and will apologize to no one for excluding movies that glorify rape, torture, and gratuitous violence.
    I'm new to your channel and wondered if you've reviewed 'The Babadook?'

  • @threesugarssevensugars2113
    @threesugarssevensugars2113 Před 3 lety +657

    for anyone who has a morbid fascination with these types of movies but can’t bring themselves to watch them, the channel spooky rice does really good videos summing them up and reviewing them, including a fair amount from this list. he’s also very entertaining and i really recommend his videos!

    • @kearasell8447
      @kearasell8447 Před 3 lety +71

      I love watching his videos! I have a morbid curiosity, but I'm also too scared to actually watch these movies

    • @PollyW326
      @PollyW326 Před 3 lety +60

      I find “watching “ these movies through him so much easier to stomach. Plus I can quell my morbid curiosity. Kinda like watching through my fingers... hands over my face. LOL

    • @aaronheadley6836
      @aaronheadley6836 Před 3 lety +13

      The Horror Geek is cool as well

    • @Showakusei
      @Showakusei Před 3 lety +8

      i watch his videos too! but it’s more like listen in the background because he includes some of the footage and I can’t bear to look at it lol

    • @sarahthomas4959
      @sarahthomas4959 Před 3 lety +6

      Yes! It’s the only way I can stomach hearing about these types of movies.

  • @drkarla
    @drkarla Před 3 lety +343

    Overly and unnecessary gore, r4pe and torture(mostly on kids and animals) is something that i don't like and that doesn't make me less or more of a horror fan, we all have a limit.
    I love your videos girl keep going♥️

    • @moonchild3028
      @moonchild3028 Před 3 lety +21

      Mostly on women as well :(

    • @StrangeMachines1
      @StrangeMachines1 Před 3 lety +9

      I am ok with gore , but I totally hate watching animal torture.

    • @zenithobsidian6554
      @zenithobsidian6554 Před 3 lety +19

      Yeah horror is my favourite genre but I generally don't like to watch shit that has graphic rape/sexual assault scenes because well... it's triggering and not fun to watch! It's a fucking downer.

    • @Holy_Frakula
      @Holy_Frakula Před 3 lety +8

      I feel the same. I like horror but make it scary. We all know what fucked up is. I dont need to see fucked up it isnt scary its just gross for the sake of it and that to me isnt the essence of horror. Maybe others disagree but thats my two cents. Nothing weird about that sentiment whatsoever.

    • @leslyegallegos4660
      @leslyegallegos4660 Před 3 lety +2

      @@papaya216 what is that? I’m curious now but don’t wanna look it up 😅

  • @sebass337
    @sebass337 Před rokem +6

    that comment at the start…… every really great cultural thing is almost guaranteed to have shitty gatekeeping fans. Horror, Metal, Sci-fi, Fantasy etc. all have people who say things like this, and that ‘rant’ at the start honestly fits so well with all of this

  • @iamjacksselfloathing4857

    Every decade and genre of horror has standouts that are worth watching. Some just go to a darker place than we all would care to travel. A fan just has to appreciate the appeal of horror and the thrill one gets from stepping into the dark. Your list sounded perfectly reasonable to me!

  • @kelligray1848
    @kelligray1848 Před 2 lety +151

    You TELL THEM girl! It’s called being a normal person who knows themselves well enough to know your boundaries. It’s called having a healthy psyche.

  • @greyharlow1553
    @greyharlow1553 Před 2 lety +526

    for those of you who DO want to know more about these movies, i know SpookyRice does awesome breakdowns of super disturbing horror and thriller movies!!! nothing at all wrong with having boundaries. don't subject yourself to things that will ultimately end up hurting your psyche. :(

    • @theaitokyo
      @theaitokyo Před 2 lety +34

      this is so important! don’t let anyone downplay your boundaries. i also enjoy some of those channels that do a short 10m-20m type of video summary on a movie. there’s this one channel i forgot the name but they recap scary movies using a AI voice from online lol.

    • @LindseyCafe
      @LindseyCafe Před 2 lety +29

      I WANT to watch these movies but know I won't like it, so instead I watch SpookyRice cover them and it satisfies my curiosity :)

    • @sophie427
      @sophie427 Před 2 lety +4

      How in-depth does SpookyRice's breakdowns go? I'm the morbidly curious type, and I know that I can't even handle more details than "it involves SA." I am really interested in film / horror film but I know my boundaries leave little room to enjoy anything.

    • @LindseyCafe
      @LindseyCafe Před 2 lety +10

      @@sophie427 Definitely more in depth than that- sometimes he shows things too! For me it's great bc I can take a 10 minute wrap up divorced from having to actually feel involved, lol, but he absolutely explains what happens

    • @theaitokyo
      @theaitokyo Před 2 lety

      @@sophie427 foundflix is also a good channel! highly recommend

  • @notsubtle8065
    @notsubtle8065 Před 2 lety +1

    Megan is missing is the scariest thing i ever watched as a young adult. That shot ( if you've seen it, you know) that almost put me in tears and no

  • @PaigeIrene15
    @PaigeIrene15 Před rokem +1

    I have several I won’t ever watch! But several of my favorites are also some pretty hard hitters too lol so it depends. The story can help to almost make the disturbing aspects tolerable. Some of these movies were discussed in my horror cinema class which was cool

  • @xxxmochibaby
    @xxxmochibaby Před 2 lety +284

    Omggg I watched “the girl next door” (torture version) by accident when I was a kid while trying to find the “the girl next door” (romcom version) and it traumatized me deeply. I still think about it as an adult. I honestly wish I had never seen it or knew of its existence

    • @nathanhogge5968
      @nathanhogge5968 Před 2 lety +3

      Was the opposite for me

    • @Sadie-rai
      @Sadie-rai Před 2 lety +25

      I did the exact same thing. The first horror movie I ever watched and I was seriously young that movie messed me up but it was so horrid and real and raw because I remembered being told about the case it was based on and I couldn't make myself look away 😭

    • @theaitokyo
      @theaitokyo Před 2 lety +9

      ohmygod that’s horrible. i remember the romcom. i couldn’t imagine what you were thinking when you stumbled on the horror one.

    • @Tranceforever87
      @Tranceforever87 Před 2 lety +2

      Stuck with me for a very long time too

    • @danayates924
      @danayates924 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes me too. It bothered me for a long long time. I was one and done. Will never watch it again.

  • @laylaveil
    @laylaveil Před 3 lety +196

    I watched almost every one of this movies, i don't recommend it. Specially Irreversible. The year that i watched it i was sexually assaulted and i got a panic attack by watching it. No, no one told me what the movie was about, it was a friend that is a horror fan like me invited me to watch movies and it was even more shocking to watch that scene cause i didnt expected. Im really scared of walking alone in those type of places cause i remember that scene everytime and I don't want that to happen again. I love horror but animal violence and rape are a big no for me, im tired of the multiple sexual assault scenes that are in this genre.

    • @florriedavey
      @florriedavey Před 2 lety +8

      I am so sorry that this happened to you. Sending you love and healing ❤

    • @aeshaabdulla4206
      @aeshaabdulla4206 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes exactly!!

    • @JeroldBoy0407
      @JeroldBoy0407 Před 2 lety +4

      I hope your doing ok now :)

    • @rikahoshizora493
      @rikahoshizora493 Před 2 lety +18

      i absolutely hate how assault kind of gets even fantasized about in these movies, like why do we NEED to see someone sexually assaulted? I feel like if ppl need sexual assault in your horror movie to get people talking you may have issues LOL

    • @RhomboMus
      @RhomboMus Před 2 lety +3

      Yeah I get you there I unfortunately watched Midsommar without realizing there was a huge graphic rape scene. As a survivor I had a full on breakdown after seeing that. Still a horror fan, but I wont touch anything with rape or torture.

  • @michelegraham1181
    @michelegraham1181 Před 2 lety +1

    YES! Everything about this video, yes! I am a female that loves horror, but I just don't want certain images in my head. I watched a Whatculture video in which they described A Serbian Film (and it was not descriptive) and I got PTSD just from watching that CZcams video. But I've come to realize that there is maturity in setting healthy boundaries and not crossing lines that you're uncomfortable with. I went in blind to a movie called Baskin, and I didn't think it was scary, it was just depraved. I felt icky afterward. Like you said, why do that to myself just to prove a point? Great video! Thank you! You talked about a lot of movies that are also on my red list. Thanks for the heads up on some movies that I was not aware of!

  • @michaelfivas9256
    @michaelfivas9256 Před rokem +2

    Sometimes you know something is crap so you pass on it. Rather than trying to unsee it just don’t see it.

  • @Luvandrockettes
    @Luvandrockettes Před 3 lety +180

    you are so right about the gatekeeping, let's all enjoy whatever we enjoy.
    Also I've seen most of theses movies and i could've live my life without traumatizing myself

  • @Autumn-rt8jg
    @Autumn-rt8jg Před 2 lety +344

    To this day, nothing has scared me more than that one episode of courage the cowardly dog where that guy breaks out of a mental hospital and starts cutting everyone's hair..... I wish I was kidding, I genuinely couldn't sleep and had to talk to someone abt it

    • @daydreamfuel5781
      @daydreamfuel5781 Před 2 lety +26

      Bro same, but with that “return the slab” guy ;-;

    • @emaleigh7812
      @emaleigh7812 Před 2 lety +19

      that show gave me sooo many nightmares as a kid😭 like how was it a kids show?!!?

    • @Jess-Rabbit
      @Jess-Rabbit Před 2 lety +14

      That show freaked me out bigtime as a kid but I for some reason kept watching. I think I pretended like I was "hate watching" it because Courage always annoyed me, but really I was kind of disturbed

    • @theaitokyo
      @theaitokyo Před 2 lety +4

      i hated that show growing up… it was so scary and weird for no reason! i still hate it.

    • @caxtillo9876
      @caxtillo9876 Před 2 lety +5

      For me it was the episode with the zombie director and that moon head thing from the episode about Eustace having to grow crops before the full moon?!! Creepy stuff, but awesome show.

  • @chuckpereda
    @chuckpereda Před rokem

    Totally agree on the gatekkeping, and you're spot on on everything you said, having said that... Nekromantik is pretty tame, mainly cause the effects are pretty cheap, there is a bunny being skinned that's completely uncalled for, but it's not all that it's cracked up to be. I was actually surprised.

    • @chuckpereda
      @chuckpereda Před rokem

      Also, Gaspar Noe is a provocateur, absolutely hate that about him...

  • @duncanreitz4671
    @duncanreitz4671 Před rokem +1

    I think I'd be able to watch the stuff in the disturbing iceberg. However, I get easily startled/frightened by loud noises, so I genuinely dislike going into Haunted Attractions. The last time I went into one I think I was just hella bored during a vacation to Mackinac Island.

  • @caitlinpowell5422
    @caitlinpowell5422 Před 3 lety +55

    Horror gatekeeping is so weird like... being scared can be such a personal experience and limits you put on it are so personal how on earth can you tell someone they’re doing it ‘wrong’

  • @joeyjo-joshabadu9636
    @joeyjo-joshabadu9636 Před 3 lety +537

    There's a whole "iceberg" list of disturbing movies now, most of which you would probably want to avoid watching.
    "Wendigoon" made a great video on that recently.

    • @andnowyourot
      @andnowyourot Před 3 lety +31

      His video has a bit of misinformation in it. He states that a handful of the movies contain illegal content which is not true. Excluding all mentions of the illegal content his video does give very, very brief descriptions of the movies.

    • @kayredmond2395
      @kayredmond2395 Před 3 lety +13

      I preferred Mista GGs take on it, he didnt discuss every movie on there as he watches disturbing movies and gives them reviews for his channel. He just explains a basic plot of the movie and whether he might watch it for his channel or not.

    • @joeyjo-joshabadu9636
      @joeyjo-joshabadu9636 Před 3 lety +2

      @Thefemalearrow From what I've heard it's mostly fake snuff, but I'm not about to find out...

    • @realrealityeast6278
      @realrealityeast6278 Před 3 lety +9

      @Thefemalearrow Faces of death are legit deaths on camera so the fact that is in the middle probably the last few layers are purely snuff. I've seen a soldier get his neck sawed out in real time while hes gasping for air in one faces of death. No way its fake as it was online when I was a kid and there wasn't the kind of editing they had today.

    • @t3ch5upp0rt8
      @t3ch5upp0rt8 Před 3 lety +6

      @@andnowyourot I mean the iceberg did have Cannibal Holocaust on it and that movie did have actual animal cruelty and that's pretty illegal, not saying everything was accurate I wouldn't know personally but saying none of the movies had anything illegal in them is probably just as inaccurate. Not trying to argue just saying

  • @CarolineCP
    @CarolineCP Před rokem +2

    I'm fed up of wannabe "hardcore horror fans" contest, aka "duh! that wasn't even scary I yawned lol". Entertainment isn't a contest, boundaries are personal and to be taken seriously, and as long as someone enjoy horror movies, whatever subgender it is, they are horror fans. Full stop.

  • @soupy55
    @soupy55 Před 2 lety +4

    (Bit of a late comment sorry)I’m a horror fan with cptsd who also happens to be a woman/afab. Thank you for this. I cannot handle anything s*icide or anything sa. It doesn’t make me a fake fan or anything it just means I know my triggers and my boundaries and try to look out for my mental health.

  • @panjamysy
    @panjamysy Před 2 lety +378

    I can't and refuse to watch movies containing animal abuse or torture, etc. Cannibal Holocaust keeps being suggested to me and I'm like "No. Never." We all have things we don't want to see.

    • @christianlacroix5430
      @christianlacroix5430 Před 2 lety +4

      Oh. Sarrah, how many dead animals have you eaten only last year ?

    • @FatherStack
      @FatherStack Před 2 lety +2

      Watch an animal cruelty free version.

    • @luwucien
      @luwucien Před 2 lety +8

      I watched, like a third of cannibal holocaust. It's not only abhorrent in its themes and content, it's just a bad movie over all. Same goes for a Serbian Film

    • @Blackenedwhiplash
      @Blackenedwhiplash Před 2 lety +2

      I agree. I will say, there apparently is a cut of Cannibal Holocaust with all of the animal scenes omitted, and it's available on one blu-ray release that I know of, so if you ever were curious enough you could watch that. But I am on the same train as you, I don't want to see real animals being harmed. Idk if I will ever watch the cut version or not myself

    • @John-nh5bk
      @John-nh5bk Před 2 lety

      @@luwucien I actually kinda liked it, though the animal deaths were obviously distasteful.

  • @infiniteeclipse1552
    @infiniteeclipse1552 Před 2 lety +632

    I saw “I spit on your grave” when I was in high school and I felt so uncomfortable and ended up getting made fun of, a 15 minute rape scene made me more aware of PTSD from films. I think some of these movies are similar to the shock videos of the early days of the internet. Its ok to not be ok with some of these.

    • @gargoylebonfreekygaming
      @gargoylebonfreekygaming Před 2 lety +4

      I watched faces of death 1-4 and both banned from tv

    • @dawnofthewalkers4915
      @dawnofthewalkers4915 Před 2 lety +26

      Call me insensitive but I personally don’t see how someone could develop ptsd from a horror movie.

    • @gargoylebonfreekygaming
      @gargoylebonfreekygaming Před 2 lety +1

      @@dawnofthewalkers4915 you're right

    • @justinejustice_league1857
      @justinejustice_league1857 Před 2 lety +14

      I thought last house on the left was the looooongest uncomfortable assult scene ever and I saw it in theaters. You could hear a pin drop.. then I saw I spit on your grave😱😱

    • @RhomboMus
      @RhomboMus Před 2 lety +13

      @@dawnofthewalkers4915 personally I find the notion offensive as someone who has PTSD and walked in blind to Midsommar.

  • @Leggo-Of-My-Draco
    @Leggo-Of-My-Draco Před rokem +1

    I agree, The Girl Next Door one was very twisted, sick & sad

  • @tlpricescope7772
    @tlpricescope7772 Před rokem +1

    The film “”An American Crime” was a film that documented the story of the real girl that the film, “The Girl Next Door” was inspired by. I can’t watch either.

  • @oecfim
    @oecfim Před 3 lety +145

    love how you cleared that person who made that immature comment. who gets upset over the type of horror movies people enjoy.. we have to love horror movies with extreme gore (something that crosses the lines) to be considered a true horror fan? it’s literally not that deep. we’re all just here to enjoy.

  • @hannahxo9024
    @hannahxo9024 Před 3 lety +77

    I've seen The Girl Next Door and it's so heartbreaking, it's not even that graphic it's just heartbreaking that it actually happened in real life, I had difficulty sleeping for a few days :(

  • @abrilri4633
    @abrilri4633 Před 2 lety

    I love horror and as you said, it got to a point where I was subjecting myself to themes I couldn´t handle just so I could say I watched this or that. It only made me feel bad and teared me a little bit apart from the genre. I enjoy it so much more now that I learned my boundaries.

  • @danadoozer9990
    @danadoozer9990 Před rokem +1

    I won't even watch a movie where they pretend to kill animals, I CANNOT deal with that at all, could never watch it for real! Thanks for the heads up!

  • @Sergio-nb4hj
    @Sergio-nb4hj Před 3 lety +694

    Honestly, "extreme horror" of this type really just feels like stuff made to give neckbeard edgelords something to be elitist about because most people won't actually sit down and watch for long enough to realize all these movies are piles of crap. You're not missing out on much by avoiding these movies.

    • @JR-rk3hs
      @JR-rk3hs Před 3 lety +68

      “All these movies are a pile of crap”... and you call people who like extreme horror pretentious? Way to pass judgement on an entire subgenre and fanbase because of your own biases.

    • @demondude665
      @demondude665 Před 3 lety +14

      Movies like Martyrs and Cannibal Holocaust are as good as they are because their ethical/philosophical messages are bolstered by brutal, visceral, and deeply discomforting imagery and themes. “All these movies are piles of crap” Lmao I can’t tell if you’re a neckbeard edgelord yourself and just projecting, or if you don’t even believe what you’re saying and you’re simping for the cool CZcams horror woman

    • @demondude665
      @demondude665 Před 3 lety +7

      Although I would like to add that the real animal cruelty in Cannibal Holocaust was unnecessary, that there’s nothing wrong with not wanting to see that, and that there are versions of the film from which those scenes were cut

    • @charlie-vn9ze
      @charlie-vn9ze Před 3 lety +20

      @@JR-rk3hs maybe some people would rather not put themselves through hours of exploitative media. having an opinion different to your own is hardly pretentious…..

    • @demondude665
      @demondude665 Před 3 lety +9

      @@charlie-vn9ze are you being willfully obtuse because you don’t enjoy movies with extreme content, or do you genuinely not know the difference between “I’d rather not watch movies with extreme content” and “all movies with extreme content are piles of crap”

  • @sourpatchkid394
    @sourpatchkid394 Před 3 lety +250

    I’m sensitive and I’m a horror fan. I like paranormal and fun horror. Or thrillers. Nothing with kids. I pretty much agree with your whole video. I don’t want to be upset.

    • @apersonwhoexists888
      @apersonwhoexists888 Před 3 lety +18

      same here I'm not sensitive but anything involving hurting kids has me out the door

    • @jameshead833
      @jameshead833 Před 3 lety +1

      @@apersonwhoexists888 how do you feel about young Tommy Jarvis in f13

    • @scaramouche6870
      @scaramouche6870 Před 3 lety +2

      I’m a horror fan and I wish I was sensitive, it’s part of the fun 😐

    • @bluegrays4357
      @bluegrays4357 Před 2 lety

      And animals too mostly

  • @mangantasy289
    @mangantasy289 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm a female and always seeked horror movies since early age age (always begging my mum to be allowed to watch more, and I really say she did a good job in judging what I could handle when I was a kid. First ones would be things like "Gremlins" or "House" series, gradually getting scarier. Never really fired back.)
    But I have also many issues, including anxiety and having experienced some traumata, can be very sensitive and unsecure, but still enjoy watching horror movies. But I just can't watch a certain type of humanoid aliens (due to some really hard situation in childhood where I happened to see one single such image, completely out of the blue and unrelated to horror movies watching that just was enough to make me loose it in that already vulnerable situation).
    I'm over 30 years old now and still such images would give me horrible nightmares. Like the ones in "Signs". Not even that a hard movie, but I can't watch it for the type of aliens it shows. Almost embrarassing, but I just can't help it. I prefer Xenomorphs 😅.
    So just saying I totally agree on what you say at the beginning of this video. The horror genre is far to wide and various tolike all of its content equally. Thinking otherwise (and publically attacking people for their opinion) is just short-sighted.
    I definetly like your content. (and ordered some movies you made me curious for.)
    We don't choose our triggers and it is only fair to avoid them.

  • @josemorales-uv8hv
    @josemorales-uv8hv Před rokem

    “Many of us have lines that are very uncomfortable to cross” 🙌🏼🙌🏼 YES

  • @tayloreatsny
    @tayloreatsny Před 3 lety +111

    Serbian Film is definitely something I will NEVER watch.

    • @cherizangel
      @cherizangel Před 3 lety +30

      I watched it, and was thoroughly disgusted. I never thought I had a line with horror. That was my line in the sand.

    • @pinkbeatle2012
      @pinkbeatle2012 Před 3 lety +11

      I've watched it once and probably won't watch it again.

    • @ayana9490
      @ayana9490 Před 3 lety +8

      its horrible in every way.

    • @saladpizzarestaurant9394
      @saladpizzarestaurant9394 Před 3 lety +6

      I have seen it few times. There are few scenes I hate(anyone who has seen the movie knows what I'm talking about) but overall it not as bad as everyone says.

    • @lobesmcgee
      @lobesmcgee Před 3 lety +6

      If you watch behind the scenes footage, it makes the movie not nearly as bad as it seems.

  • @amzybabes193
    @amzybabes193 Před 3 lety +52

    Girl next door is based on the story of Sylvia Likens, Gertrude wasn’t her aunt, she was just a family friend that took her in. I listen to a lot of true crime and this was the only one that really turned my stomach and I couldn’t stop thinking about ...

    • @vantastic9367
      @vantastic9367 Před 3 lety +1

      The crime scene photos from the Sylvia Liken's case are all over the internet, the movie wasn't that bad or scary, more sad than anything.

    • @nessyness5447
      @nessyness5447 Před 3 lety +3

      The fact that the other kids participated with equal brutality is horrible.

  • @aprilboyd9104
    @aprilboyd9104 Před rokem

    Just seeing this video and I agree with you wholeheartedly. There are movies I will not watch still that have been out a long time. Movies I wouldn’t watch when I was younger or freaked me out they do not anymore, but there are still horror movies I will not watch! I do love horror.

  • @tatubby4513
    @tatubby4513 Před 2 lety +2

    This is gonna sound bad but there was one point where I was heavily depressed after having been through trauma, I found myself watching more of the types of horror movies that most people have found disturbing. I watched I spit on your grave . The scenes in it were very graphic but what I will say that as a survivor of SA(I’ve been doing trauma work for a couple years now) and watching such a dark film I have a controversial opinion. I think that it’s semi important to still portray this theme but I think maybe less visual portrayal and more implied. But I feel like yes it’s definitely not for everyone, but there’s a bit of empowerment in watching them get revenge, where in life some of us couldn’t. That being said I think it’s important to know your boundaries and your limits with horror because I still kinda regret watching it when I did.

    • @jackkelly5167
      @jackkelly5167 Před rokem +1

      i agree 100%, it’s extremely validating for films to focus on SA when it’s done in a tactful way, and in some cases has made me feel less alone. it’s all about the way it’s portrayed. i will never respect or watch a movie that uses SA as shock value or as something other than 100% evil and vile

  • @paulnelson5144
    @paulnelson5144 Před 2 lety +197

    I have seen most of these films and I support your sentiments. I’m a middle aged guy and a life-long horror fan and I used to think I had to subject myself to extremes - in film, in literature, and music. I used to like the edges and the uncomfortable places. I outgrew all that. And I have a lot of stuff in my head I can’t get rid of. Don’t ever push yourself into territory you aren’t comfortable with and certainly don’t let anyone gatekeep your decision not to!

    • @theobscenekiwi
      @theobscenekiwi Před rokem +11

      Agree! When I grew up those internet sites with real violence and accidents were super big, and so my friends subjected people to it for "fun and laughter". I still vividly remember them and wish they could have been a bit more grown up about it, because those pictures will never leave me.

    • @flamingsalamander4974
      @flamingsalamander4974 Před rokem +5

      @@theobscenekiwi I've seen some horrific shit online. Stuff that has fucked me up for the rest of my life. You're not weak for choosing not to watch these.

  • @joeyday576
    @joeyday576 Před 3 lety +106

    Brilliant topic for a horror channel. Personally, I can't watch anything in the "torture p0rn" genre. That stuff doesn't scare me but just makes lose all faith in humanity. There's enough in reality that makes me feel that way, I don't need to watch movies that reinforce it.

    • @314159BC
      @314159BC Před 3 lety

      I watched movies like Hostel and the first couple Saw movies, and then Green Inferno, I decided that I didn’t like the torture films... and then ended up watching the French Marytrs because it seemed like it was a favorite on most lists and it completely fucked me up.
      I want to be scared and even terrified, but I hate that those films are what it takes to push me to that limit.

  • @tiffanymobley145
    @tiffanymobley145 Před měsícem

    Ones to avoid that weren't on this list, that tick a lot of the same boxes, and that I haven't seen mentioned in any of the comments yet: The Poughkeepsie Tapes and probably both Terrifier movies. Even an old movie buddy of mine who isn't bothered by anything told me The Poughkeepsie Tapes messed him up.
    I'm also very sensitive and I thought it was something I should "fix" because I hated the way things affected me. Back in the day I tried to desensitize myself by watching most of the movies on this list because I was sick of being an anxious, PTSD-ridden mess. Some of the scenes (Antichrist scissors scene and girl next door blowtorch scene especially) have lived unwelcome in my head ever since and pop up at the most random times. But it's funny because the thing that ended up actually helped me learn to calm my own panic attacks/episodes was playing through horror games with jump scares like Amnesia: The Dark Descent. Even now when I find myself getting extra anxious, I'll play through a scary game to kind of get it out of my system. I'm sure there's some scientific (probably chemical) explanation to it but it's helped way more than watching every over-the-top messed up movie I could find on a list somewhere.
    I think a lot of people are drawn to horror because it helps them process their own trauma and grief. Sometimes, horror feels like home if you grew up in certain environments. Either way, I try my best not to ruin my own day by forcing myself through something I know is going to leave me feeling tainted or sick afterwards.
    This was a lot of words to say I'm glad you found your boundaries and that you're respecting them instead of letting other people bully you into crossing your boundaries to prove something that never needed proof in the first place.

  • @zoefinch8631
    @zoefinch8631 Před rokem +1

    i actually became a horror fan because of my fear of blood and anxiousness around violence. i thought it was an embarrassing fear to have especially if friends wanted to watch a horror film at a sleepover. i watched scream at aged 12 or 13 and loved it, the gore wasnt as bad as i thought it would be and i slowly got into more extreme horrors trying to break through my anxieties about each film. i still refuse to watch human centipede though lol