#1 Sign Someone Is Going To Attempt Suicide
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- čas přidán 14. 03. 2024
- After losing a wife and dad to suicide this is to me the number 1 sign that someone is going to attempt this with their life. If you are struggling and looking for resources www.aa.org and www.na.org are great resources to help.
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Im in my 40s. Struggling with depression off and on through life. Decided that I was going to finally do it. I DID become happy. It was a weight off not feeling the burden anymore. I got things ready, I sorted stuff out, I paid for my casket & cremation etc so my family didn’t have that stress after. I sorted out a painless and non messy way of doing it. I made sure my family wouldn’t find me that way. It was SUCH a weight off. I was relieved!
But towards the end of my process, I had a heart attack. I didnt die (obviously lol) but I was terrified. That “choice” was taken from me. Laying in that hospital with doctors around working on me and all I could think about was… I just want to see my babies ONE more time. PLEASE 🙏 I hope I live to see to say goodbye.
Everything changed in that moment. Death went from being a way out and peaceful, to downright terrifying. It gave me a new take on the way I looked at death. Having that heart attack was the best thing that happened to me. I found the value in spending all the time I can with my children, partner and my health. Funny how serendipitous life can be sometimes.
I love hearing these moments of realization. Thank you for sharing! Incredible and I hope you are moved ot share it often in videos of this nature. I bet it could save people.
I spent eight years completely perplexed about why my last conversation with my best friend was so optimistic. He was making plans and showed a genuine enthusiasm I hadn't seen in him for a while. This video helped me realize that it was most likely the relief of self-acceptance, as he had decided on what he felt was the best escape for him at the time. He was at peace with his decision and wanted to check in on me so I wouldn't worry. Thank you for this video!
I’ve heard about this with people newly starting antidepressants. You start to feel better and actually have the energy or motivation to commit the act of suicide versus being so depressed that you can’t find the motivation to do it. Heartbreaking.
Yeah, I'm on antidepressants, and the first 6 weeks, before they really start to work, are really dangerous. Because after about one or two weeks, you get a serge of energy from them, but your mood doesn't improve until about week 6. I had to be on 24/7 suicide watch when I started them, and those weeks were really hard on me and my family, but fortunately I made it, and in the end, I think anti depressants really saved my life.
Thank you. I've been struggling for all my life, I meds or therapy has helped. Have a family history of sucided and yet my family tells me it will pass. I'm trying and I ask the Lord for strength everyday and than thank him for it. Blessings to you🙏
Same exact situation here. I’m with you and know this unrelenting pain all too well. I sincerely hope you prevail through this debilitating and crippling disease.
I’m going thru it really bad right now. Ive dealt with depression in the past but nothing like this.
Send it up to the Lord, it will help.
Get professional help, try new things. A person can change a lot with some changes and some time given. Life can get better.
You alright man?
You’re not alone. I’m with you
Try a full body detox and go high raw fruits n veg. It will alkeline your body and of course walks in nature. You are stronger then u think 💯 🖼hope u are thriving sooner then soon! Peace.🌻 Surrender to Love.
My heart is with you brother.
One i feel is very common with the younger gen is the amount of joking about being suicidal, it is not a laughing matter in fact it will promote suicide
And for those who are thinking about ending it or just stopping it please just reach out to someone you know will care, i believe that you understand what you are going through so don't wait just go to someone you know and speak about your problems
People would rather have a friend cry on their shoulder than to cry at their funeral
I'm younger, and morbid humor and sarcasm is my way. However, I agree with you beyond measure. As someone who lives with suicidal ideation daily, it's. just. not. funny. I've got thick skin, uet when folks makes these seemingly harmless jokes, it rattles me to my core and can even trigger me. I even feel obligated to check-in and offer support, even if I know they were joking because you never be too safe. People describe me as happy, bright, outgoing, but the darkness is always lurking. Thank you for saying this.
Praying for everyone who is sick and suffering ☘️🙏☘️. Please 🙏
So TRUE. GOD BLESS YOU.
It's also like when they are happy seeing you fake happy... The depression tells them look at how much happier they are now that they think you're ok. So when you leave and stop Burdening everybody with your pain. Look at how happy they are... look at how at peace they are How beautiful and relieved they are. Don't you love them? Don't you want that for them?. So yes, it's best if I just leave. People who are suicidal don't want everybody around them to hurt at all. In fact they try and leave them and set them up for success Even give to them what They cherished not just to remember them, but set them up to have A boost no one ever gave them to give to somebody who can use and cherish and get the most out of the things we can't anymore.. That's where justifying, I'm just spreading my misery comes in and it's not completely false.. That happiness is so bitter sweet because it's not real happiness. The only part that's real is They have a chance To be successful and to heal And thrive in a way I don't in this life anymore. Not the way I expected not the way I have control or power over anymore... I suppose some people feel happy for their relief. But it's mostly for those around them in these moments. Too often Suicide information makes it all about the person committing suicide Relieving their pain.... NO That is not often the case.
Especially
In this type of situation. Now I say that from personal experience. When your struck down by a life-altering illness, whether it be physical or if somebody's just been mentally ill all their life, they do feel like a Burden. And they feel like the more that they share this with other people and ask for that reassurance And that support that they need. You have to understand it's not unrealistic to know that we're bringing other people down. And we don't want or try Ever to purposely do that.. And it's not a joke, so seeing people happy to see that You're happy And have put on this mask of this is gonna be over and you're going to be relieved soon. It's a mirror it shows look at how much better they are.. Look at how everybody is going to make it! This is just the proof I need they are so much better off. I'm sick and i'm poisoning the people around me with my needs... I'm hurting them. They can't take care of me? And that's wrong of me to ask or want for them.. And To everyone this is actually Not selfish At all or unreasonable to think. It's not just about our pain. Or wanting to get out. Many people think people with terminal illness. That's all they can think about maybe at the end because it's excruciating. And that is why I am in support of death with dignity and exit For those people but what i'm talking about Is more often the case when somebody is dealing with chronic problems. That don't take their life but Have Dibilitated them to the point of not being able to be themselves... In that case It's about everyone around them. We have already faced we are never Going to be the same... And gone through those trials and tribulations For years Grieving and trying to fight. And the concern is giving And sparing everyone around us, we love dearly Or has ever been a friend to us. There are people who commit suicide who are just wanting an exit Of course. But this situation I can personally attest to is often The case nobody talks about In depth. And happens more often than people understand. This is thought about and fought through for years, Even decades. Finally, knowing those around you are better off and You have reached your limit. What can you give back To them? Robin Williams was a perfect example of this... I just wanted to share this So you're able to understand what's really going on in Somebody's mind and their heart In this Particular situation that is not often talked about but is very common now with chronic illness. Just know they Never wanted to hurt you And the apology is Giving You this happy memory as well. Putting on this mask as well as anything that can help set you up or you can use for the future.❤ It feels like mercy for something you can't control anymore. Give them everything you can to help them and make up for what you've taken, and you leave Them with all your love... OK I just needed people to understand this. Please and I hope it heals So many people to hear this. I do believe suicide is not the answer. Keep fighting, but for those of you who needed to know. I'm sorry this was so long but I hope this heals your heart In a way you needed like never before ❤
No esperé encontrarme con este amable señor, pero aún así, el mensaje que me dió fue uno de los más lindos y esperanzadores que pude haber encontrado jamás. Le doy las gracias a youtube por traerme hasta acá y a usted por hacer este maravilloso contenido. ❤❤❤
I am so thankful to have found you.
Over the last few years, I myself have lost a handful of family and friends to suicide and been getting worse with my mental stability over the years. Seeing you do these videos for us gives me hope. Motivation even to try to better myself. Much love and keep doing what youre doing! ❤
Thank you
I used to walk around wirh a qigong healing day and night for 19 years. My goal was to help people with physical pain and sickness. Oddly what i didn't realize how many people would just confess to me everything and anything.
Thank you for this. People don’t always catch onto this. It’s very rare that this sign is caught because it seems like they’re okay. The only time I feel like this is a real sign that they are healed is if they’ve had a true encounter with God. Otherwise, the sudden happiness is almost always a sign they’ve already planned out how they’re going to die and when… thank you for educating people!
Thank you for this message. You know exactly what you’re talking about. It spreads great awareness and offers me hope along with so many others. God bless you
U know some of the causes of anxiety and and major depression is related to your family members..would talk more and go into little more details on depression and all that comes with it..but I don’t like putting my business out there for everyone that reads these comments..I’m currently going through some things that’s freaking more than anything else I have been through..# life’s disappointing journey
I feel you. I sometimes want to share at least in the random youtube comments but i cant risk having anything that can be turned against me 'publicly'. Even in a different account im anxious for some reason. Whatever, i wish you all the best and stay strong! Its hard not to feel alone when going through stuff and literally being alone with it but what else (besides the worde option thid video is about) can you do other than keep walking, lifes not a movie right?
Sick ,and not being treated .Suicide not easy ,so thats a good sign .I think a lot of people will not be medically treated soon .I mean a lot more than there was before .
Sending love friend
I told my family and they didn't care
I can relate. This advice isn't for everyone. A lot of people are suicidal because they don't have a good support network, and have cried for help and been ignored and dismissed. Sometimes ypu are just around shit people that make you miserable, but there's always a way to turn things around so long as you stick around to do so ❤
@@sparkle2843 thx that make me feel better 💓
Watch dr Gabor matès podcast about mental health and trauma, itll help u so much
He’s telling this from personal experience. You can tell
I've not seen that happen ... I think there's a variety of behaviors for any situation one might observe. What I saw is being normal and striving NOT to show any behavior change.
Can you tell we how you survive from your suicide
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Ephesians 2:8-9
8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.
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