Channel Update, what's been happening

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  • čas přidán 3. 08. 2022
  • Just a quick update to let you know what's been happening regarding my wife. I also discuss future plans in the workshop.
    If your not already subscribed to the channel I would appreciate it if you would consider subscribing.
    I've also enabled superchats so you can support me & my channel. please bare in mind that youtube do take a cut of any donations made through superchats. if you would prefer my PayPal link is down below & if you're in the UK I get 100% of the donations. This is a great way to help support me & my channel making it possible for me to continue making content.
    I'm also on Instagram now so follow me if you like / grumpys.workshop
    I'm also on Facebook where I have 1 profile & 1 page.
    profile.php?...
    / grumpysworkshops
    www.starbond.com/?rfsn=551737... starbond ca glue use code grumpy for 10% off
    garagefloorsdirect.co.uk
    Use the code GRUMPY5 all in capitals to get 5% off
    Here is a link to my amazon storefront with all my affiliate links where you can check out all the tools I use, consumables, paints and finishes & other recommendations. Anyone who makes a purchase through one of my links earns me a few pennies but doesn't cost you any extra. This is a great way to help support my channel
    www.amazon.co.uk/shop/grumpys...
    Here is my new channel regarding my wife's condition. she was recently diagnosed with small cell lung cancer and brain metastases & has been given 1-2 years to live. On this channel I will be letting people know what's happening on our journey.
    / @meldaveslife
    Here is my PayPal link for anyone who wants to make a donation whether it's to help out with travel expenses, buy me a coffee or even towards this channel. I'm giving this out as it's been requested by a few different people.
    PayPal.me/gworkshop
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Komentáře • 74

  • @paulcooper9187
    @paulcooper9187 Před rokem +4

    Your Wife and Family must come first, I am sure everyone will support you in that. We can wait

  • @idlersdream826
    @idlersdream826 Před rokem +7

    All totally understandable Dave, take all the time you need, we’ll still be here.

  • @philliprees7704
    @philliprees7704 Před rokem +2

    My heart goes out to you and family i just come out of bowel cancer myself, your a good man ,we will always be here for you look afer your wife mate

    • @GrumpysWorkshop4
      @GrumpysWorkshop4  Před rokem

      Thanks mate, glad your outcome was a good one. Thanks for the kind words

  • @RpR_Makes
    @RpR_Makes Před rokem +3

    Sorry for your news, my thoughts and prayers are with your wife, you and your family.

  • @SteveMonk1956
    @SteveMonk1956 Před rokem +5

    Thanks for the update Dave, as before my thoughts are with you and your family, take all the time you need, we'll all be here whenever you feel the time is right. Stay strong mate, we're all behind you.

  • @howejones4126
    @howejones4126 Před rokem +1

    So sorry to hear about your wife, your family must come first.

  • @DocteGaby
    @DocteGaby Před rokem +1

    Very sorry for your wife. Take the time you need, we'll be there to watch whenever the next videos come out.

  • @tonyworkswood
    @tonyworkswood Před rokem +4

    I'm very sorry to hear the bad news. I hope they can work miracles to help your wife. Your right Dave about the channel, keep going you've done the hard work. Tony

  • @Poor_Mans_DIY
    @Poor_Mans_DIY Před rokem +1

    Wife first! Our prayers are with you and your wife.

  • @scrapwoodandy6600
    @scrapwoodandy6600 Před rokem +1

    Hi Dave my thoughts are with you and your family. Your woodworking family will always be here. Stay strong and look after yourself mate.

  • @essentialhandyman
    @essentialhandyman Před rokem +1

    Really sorry to hear the news wasn't great Dave. Wishing you both happiness for however much time you have left together. God bless mate.

  • @mornewucherpfennig1336
    @mornewucherpfennig1336 Před rokem +1

    We'll be here waiting for your next video, it does not matter what happens.

  • @ChrisLoganToronto
    @ChrisLoganToronto Před rokem

    You are at 3.5k subs, that is going to grow exponentially as you continue. You need to continue, there was a remarkable change in your delivery when you switched from talking about your wife, to talking about the shop and your plans. You need workshop therapy to help you through tough times. You are carrying a tremendous burden of worry and sorrow and fear right now. Everyone says talking about your problems helps. Well I for one have a hard time doing that but maybe alone in my workshop talking to strangers through a camera lens might be easier. I don't know, have not tried it.
    I'm here no matter how long between videos. Even if you just push boxes around and talk.
    Having been through only a couple day scare in a similar circumstance I can empathize with your feelings. It is a tremendous blow. We are all here for you.

  • @21stcenturycaveman33
    @21stcenturycaveman33 Před rokem +1

    Hiya Dave. It's a case of priorities buddy. Spending quality time with your wife and family and supporting them at such a difficult time is far more important than banging out vids at the moment mate. Thinking of you and yours Dave. THinking of you all, Des & Tina

  • @rodharris2915
    @rodharris2915 Před rokem +3

    First time commenting be gentle .from brisol originally spend time with your wife and family. life can be so cruel but you need to be there for them the channel can wait no regrets 👍

  • @nicandkathy
    @nicandkathy Před rokem +1

    So sorry your going though this. I am praying for you. Gob bless.

  • @CartersShed
    @CartersShed Před rokem +1

    Family first Dave. Do what you need to do for your wife your family and yourself.

  • @benjaqsonworkshop9974
    @benjaqsonworkshop9974 Před rokem +1

    We'll be here whenever you feel you can put something out. Hopefully working in there will help you stay sane. All the best as always. Ben

  • @sandman2651
    @sandman2651 Před rokem +1

    Hi dave, mel is so much more important than youtube mate she needs you more than we need content we will all be here as and when your able to spare the time.

  • @antoniomememe4898
    @antoniomememe4898 Před rokem +1

    I'm sorry for pain, never give up hope God bless

  • @RagnBoneBrown
    @RagnBoneBrown Před rokem +2

    So sorry to hear this. Take all the time you need obviously, and be gentle with yourself mate ❤️

  • @jamesmorgan6472
    @jamesmorgan6472 Před rokem +1

    3000+ subscribers is something to be proud of. A lot of of people do realise how much effort goes into making videos. All the best to you and your family. We will all be here when your ready.

  • @charleydavidson69
    @charleydavidson69 Před rokem

    Hi Dave. Just found your channel. So sorry to hear what you are going through. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care. Kim

  • @kevinmatthews2620
    @kevinmatthews2620 Před rokem +1

    just subbed you Dave on the back of your box finger video, shocking to see you video tbh, myself having recently being diagnosed with a type of bone marrow cancer myself, and having to ring my son in America and tell him & his wife the news,luckily for me my son is moving back from the states with his wife & my grandson early next year, and while i have a raised risk of strokes/heart attack my long term prognosis is good, sorry to heat about your wife , like many have commented take all the time you need your wife and family are first, i have you back videos to watch in the meantime, be strong

    • @GrumpysWorkshop4
      @GrumpysWorkshop4  Před rokem

      Thanks mate I'm glad your situation has a better outcome. Thanks for watching & commenting I appreciate it

  • @rasmo243
    @rasmo243 Před rokem +1

    I think all your subscribers will understand Dave the channel is not on the priority list and totally understandable, sorry to hear this update keep your chin up mate.

  • @AndyCPugh
    @AndyCPugh Před rokem +2

    Family first, before the channel. Any decent person will understand that.

  • @gavinmiles5545
    @gavinmiles5545 Před rokem +1

    Take all the time that you need for your wife, family and for yourself. Your situation really puts priorities into perspective. Take care.

  • @lindacosgrove7824
    @lindacosgrove7824 Před rokem +2

    Hey Dave. I'm new to your channel and have been following your other channel as well. I can't imagine how difficult this all is for you and my thoughts are with you. As for your channel, please keep up with it as you can. It is totally understandable for your posts to be sporadic due to the situation with your wife. You, your wife and your family come first. Stay positive and I will keep you in my thoughts. Linda

  • @David.M.
    @David.M. Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the update. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

  • @JohnColgan.
    @JohnColgan. Před rokem +1

    Can see this video was a struggle for you. Thank you for the update, but wife & family come 1st. Your loyal followers will still be here no matter how long you take. Hope for the best. But you know the prognosis, I hope your wife has good quality of life till a peaceful end. Be brave. Be strong for her and your children, the will need your strength in this times. Take care my friend, my thoughts go with you all

  • @craigsinclair1560
    @craigsinclair1560 Před rokem +1

    Stay strong Dave, my thoughts are with you and your family.

  • @karlpopewoodcraft
    @karlpopewoodcraft Před rokem +1

    God bless you and your family Dave, my heart goes out to you all. X

  • @johnoldham2483
    @johnoldham2483 Před rokem +1

    Hi dave so sad to hear your news mate , i will be thinking of you and your family .

  • @WoodworkJourney
    @WoodworkJourney Před rokem +1

    My heart goes out to you both at this time. Don’t feel guilty about calming down on the channel fella, family comes first.

  • @lukek4516
    @lukek4516 Před rokem +1

    I have been a long time viewer of your channel. So sorry to hear your desperately sad news and well done for bravely sharing what you have been going through on the channel. Do you have a pattern page or channel membership that I could use to help support you going forward?

    • @GrumpysWorkshop4
      @GrumpysWorkshop4  Před rokem

      Thanks mate your views are very much appreciated. I don't have a patreon account but I am thinking of adding the join button although I can't really offer anything in return such as extra content. I do have superchats enabled but youtube do take a percentage. I have a PayPal link in the video description where people can donate. I will look into channel membership

  • @trevorb1239
    @trevorb1239 Před rokem +1

    So sorry to hear that mate, your face shows how upsetting it All is,my wife lost her mother under similar circumstances so we know what you are going through, we will always continue watching your channel , look after your family, take care Dave I'm praying for your wife, family and you 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Pete.Ty1
    @Pete.Ty1 Před rokem +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @AMG63
    @AMG63 Před rokem +1

    Hi mate, been thinking about you and the family today so thought I would drop you a message and ask how things are 👍 hoping everything is ok.

    • @GrumpysWorkshop4
      @GrumpysWorkshop4  Před rokem

      Had a rough couple of weeks. Around 2.5 weeks ago my wife had 10 seizures over 2.5hrs. We were told by paramedics that they were basically keeping her alive & we needed to make a decision whether they should continue helping her or stop & just make her comfortable. As her wishes were to die at home we told them to stop. She's a bloody fighter & refused to give in. We have the hospice at home care set up so now have hospital bed in the living room & carers & nurses coming in everyday. First 48hrs she showed no signs of coming around so we thought it was the end but as the days went by she's got better & is now able to walk from the bed to the toilet, she can talk & is aware but the memory is not so good. She gets very confused & comes out with random things that no-one understands. I'm basically her full-time carer. Cooking, cleaning, washing, online grocery shopping,, sorting out all her medication & making sure she takes it etc etc. I havnt left her side since it happened hence why no videos. Over the moon she's still here but she's not the woman I married if that makes sense. Obviously I love her but there's a part of her missing which is so sad. Thanks for taking the time to check in I appreciate it. I will do an update video on my other channel if & when I get chance.