6 Signs Someone's Secretly Suffering Inside
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- čas přidán 3. 08. 2024
- Many people go through life carrying trauma from the past. The people who may seem the happiest carry a burden that they don’t talk about, keeping it locked in their heads. But mental illness incidences are more common than you think, you’re bound to know someone who is secretly hurting inside. So here are a few signs.
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Here's another educational video! In this video, we will talk about 6 different signs someone is secretly suffering inside. What would that look like? It's normal for people to bottle everything up without telling anyone. If you are experiencing that, please reach out to someone to get help or talk it through. 💕
HI
Anyoung ^_^
@@ibrokyofficial2782 ?
The main problem is.. I don’t trust anyone
Even my parents
Hi :3
The worst feeling in the world is when you're suffering and you have no one to tell.
Wanna talk about it?
Jesus is interested in all your problems. He wants your disappointed heart; He wants to make you a new creation. If He calls your heart, answer “yes” to Him.
I feel like this too..ok feel I have no one to talk to about my hurt
God made everyone.
so regardless of what they think, He is outside the fishbowl, looking at us fish. and ready and willing to help.
@@VengefulPolititron not everyone is Christian
In an ideal world, this kind of videos would be the ones that become viral.
Yeah, but if that world's really ideal, these videos don't really need to exist
Before 12 hours while video is published 2 mins before...
Ah yes... YT is drunk once again
WHY AND HOW IS THIS POSTED 12 HOURS AGO💀
Sadly we have videos from Dream that are viral... With a community of toxic teenagers that believe they are a "supremacy" just because that green leech says so (smh)
@@nakshatramusic21 you probably missed the point of the comment. You see, this is a yin and Yang situation. If the world didn't have any problems, people wouldnt be uploading videos about how to help people notice problems. You get it?
“I heard a joke once: Man goes to doctor. Says he's depressed. Says life seems harsh and cruel. Says he feels all alone in a threatening world where what lies ahead is vague and uncertain. Doctor says, "Treatment is simple. The great clown Pagliacci is in town tonight. Go and see him. That should pick you up." Man bursts into tears. Says, "But doctor...I am Pagliacci.” -Rorschach
Lmao
@@Just_Ch4rles good joke, right?
@@Just_Ch4rles Do u know where the joke is from?
@@ScorpionStrike7 Nnnope-
Doctor: see yourself in a mirror then!
When you're suffering inside but you're too good at acting you're fine that others don't realize you're not ok ....
Story of my life...
I wonder when I will obtain my Oscar
haha i hid my depression for 5 years and im 13 🤡 and i was the one who told my parents and best friend about it
My entire life...
@@thetotallynormalsoul sad to hear but I can understand as I too but not long as yous ...I am 14 now...I didn't told my cousin sis the entire ...I decided to them her ...and thought of starting by saying one sentence 1st then to tell whole ...and I made a right Decision bcz after hearing that sentence she started laughing at me and said ” u r not a kid that you'll feel bad if your parents don't pay attention to you
Or bother about...you old enough to take care of yourself ...you are not a kid of 5 yrs you r old enough ..you r in class 10...."
I said that sentence about insecurity bcz i felt that it was far better and seemed normal than the others...thank god I didn't told anything except that ...or else I would be hurting myself only indirectly...and I don't know what if she told it to someone else...
Psych2Go: Doesn't upload for 24 hours
My anxiety: *Let me introduce myself*
Aww!
@@Psych2go Omg, I was certainly not expecting a reply. This made my day!😄
Lol
Anxiety can be so hard to manage!
@@HopefulTribe I do agree it is quite difficult to control your anxiety
Parents: We understand you the most, feel free to talk to us.
Also them: Just drink water it'll be okay. Go study.
why so true..
Asian parents in a nutshell
Lol
@@flyhigh247360 lol
So true lmao
"Do you sometimes notice your friend is joking about things that are... worrying?"
Literally me and all my friends: *making suicidal jokes 24/7*
Yup B) we all (hopefully) have good friends for us lol
It's a shame we never "hang" out anymore
@@lung74125 lmao omg noooo
Please take care of yourself and others. Notice something is wrong/out of the ordinary, say something! Some of the kids I went to school with were playing Russian roulette with a gun. They ended up in jail, one of them is gone. Please be kind to yourself friend. You're worth it!
Me and mine joke about ✨Arson✨
Psych2go: this is an educational video, don’t diagnose urself!
My brain: *proceeds to do it anyways*
Yup
Yup. Same here
Yeah that's why I stopped watching their videos for a while. I always do that and it is so damn annoying when I do!
self diagnosing isn't quirky.
I’m on the “I don’t even know anymore” side
I'm scared that I'm gonna see some of these signs in my friends one day
I’m already going through this with a friend.
I’m more scared to see some of these in myself (because I don’t have friends lol)
@@user-xp9sf2dx6t same
don't be scare they have friend like you
This video is me😂😂 Hopeless all the time
Amanda: do you know anyone who's secretly suffering inside ?
Me: well of course I know him, he's me
True to the 'T'💯
Exactly what I was thinking
Hello there
Haha same
i got 6/6 lnao
Amanda: “do u know anyone who is secretly hurting inside?”
Me: “well obviously that person is me, duuuuuuh”
Same here
@@soumyapurpleshimmer1153 Same here. I'm so isolated I've become two people to cope.
Same
Okay i came to this video to understand people more so here we go,stephanie,i dont kniw much about ur life but i do know sometimes people dont care about u ir maybe ur just too scared to say,well just remember u are human too and its important to take care of urself and not hide any of ur feelings.And im saying this to all the people in this reply section.You guys all matter too so dont hide ur emotions
@@alb12345672 okay i qent through that and im still going through it,it may seem normal to u and for me it was but sometimes u become more than one person,and im gonna tell u this.Take ur own time when it comes to socializing,i dont know much about ur life but dont stay hidden forever.The heart and mind can be two different worlds,u have to be one person.Trust me,when u question whats the right thing(mind's perspective) and then question what u want(heart's perspective) its hard to get a clear answer so socializing can make u become one person if ur surrounded with good people so goodluck with that everyoje here!i wish u the best of luck
My colleagues made fun of a suicide incident, they laughed and even said that they'd slap their children if ever they would do the same.
I couldn't bear with the insults.
I hate it.
My mom made fun of a 12 yr. old who offed herself..
I am so sorry you had to hear that ❤️ No one should ever have to!
I am not trying to be rude but those kind of parents will be one of the reasons why their future children might choose that way to escape.I am scared.
@@iamjungwonimkorean3347 Parents are usually the reason for their children's thoughts and actions
If they didn't give them the emotional support they need, even if they think they've been good parents, then of course their child(ren) is/are gonna have problems
For example, my mom made me have suicidal thoughts when I was a kid/young teen
And when she'd yell at me, I'd yell back that "you make me wanna kill myself"
And yeah, she slapped me then locked me in the bathroom
I mostly had to cope with the trauma myself, but luckily I didn't go through with it since I had comfort in knowing my sister was suffering like me
Although she'd never say anything about her thoughts unless I'd point out the obvious like, "Mom makes me wanna die." And she'd be like, "Yeah, I hate her too."
And also my dad was there for us
He wasn't good with words at the time, and didn't have nearly enough wisdom as he does now, but having him show he cared for us with his actions made me think, "Maybe if Daddy cares about me, maybe I'm worth being cared for? Maybe there's more to me and I shouldn't listen to mom. Maybe I'm worth something? Maybe I should continue to live."
The thing is, extroverts like me especially need outside comfort and will be driven insane if they're not given the proper counseling growing up
It's harder for an extroverted child to live with an introverted family because they need that verbal connection so badly, and it's suffocating to have no one to talk to
I've always had an easier time grasping concepts and figuring out how and why people do what they do myself, than most people
For kids that don't have that ability to reason and think so logically that early in life, they must feel like everything is their fault and/or feel trapped with nowhere to run, and no reason to live
I mean, even to this day my sister still has no sense of self-worth, still thinks she's useless and worthless, and still is so affected by what our mom says to her
If our mom yells at her and tells her to "SHUT UP" when she's kindly trying to explain why they're reusing an old battery from the basement, my sister will become depressed for days
Meanwhile if our mom says that to me, plus threatens to slap me and throw me out on the street, I'll just feel disgust towards her, devalue her words, and take away all respect I would normally give to any other person
Despite my sister having better grades than most of her peers, she still isn't emotionally strong
I've made many efforts to help her with that, but it's hard to change 21 years of deep, ingrained, self-demeaning words stemming from our toxic mom
Btw, my sister is 3 years older than me
@@SakuraTsukino27972 Thank you for sharing what you and your sister have gone through and are still going through.21 years is really a verry long time.Your sister might be into a conclusion that life is like this and she can do nothing about it,maybe that is why she is not able to do anything about what your mom is saying.It becomes hard to see what we really are when we are exposed to only being complained.You just can't bring yourself up to think what they say is not the reality.You don't have to care what they say.Could you show this message to your sister if possible,I am going through something similar to your situation.All I want you to tell is,it is your life NOONE KNOWS YOU BETTER THAN YOURSELF,you don't have to get the approval from anyone to live your life.If you know the reason and have the clarity,why you are doing something it doesn't have to make sense to others,they will understand when the time comes or probably could never understand it but we need to move on with our lives.Sometimes I have these thoughts inside me like,''If we are going to let our life and our feelings get effected because our mom or dad said something I don't think it is our life anymore.''So I want you to keep this in your mind,if she yells at you pretend like you care and then do whatever your heart tells you,you can't make everyone accept or understand why you are doing something and it is COMPLETELY OK.It is your life don't let ANYONE tell what you have to do.In all of those years your mom didn't change what she is,but I hope you change how you react about that.[My words might not bring instant change in you but I hope they help you to know that you being you is not the complaint but her complaining about everything is].You still have your little sister to support you and I personally think it is the biggest blessing.If she is making you depressed I want you to interact less with her.I mostly stay in a seperate room from my parents because everything I do is against their interests but it makes me happy so I don't care,even if it is a small thing. I Pray that one day your lives change into something you always wished for.[I am really sorry for this big text and I am bad at English :,)]
It's the fact that this video came into my recommendations says a lot 👁️👄👁️
From a fellow ARMY: Hai Blink :D
@@strawhatluffy992 💜💜
Pls i see you everywhere i go- Am i everywhere you are or are you everywhere i am
It came in mine a few times - even on my other accounts
this only came to my recommendations because i watch this channel a lot lol
When you've been feeling emotionally dead inside for years and keep the thoughts of suicide bottled up so no one knows you're still grieving from that type of loss.
If you can, please: Find a hotline to try talking to and just vent. They're there to help.
@@greatwavefan397 I'll try to, just trusting someone with anything personal about myself and what I've experienced has never realy gone well and it gets played down as unimportant.
@@Shalashaska13 if you find thd right friends or/and the right therapist it wont be unimportant. And feelings are never unimportant 🍃
@@Shalashaska13 i feel you bro i had a mental breakdown before i went to sleep and my brother had to calm me down i wanted to just suffocate myself
@@myeyesfeellikecrap3510 Thats how it all started. I had a mental breakdown at work for the 4th time working at my previous job and from there I just wasn't the same. Went through so much in the past 4 years after that that I quit my job cause of the grief i was in and couldnt handle the stress cause I would've more than likely have been already dead by my own hand if it wasn't for the few friends who cared about me.
"Some of the seemingly most happiest people carry a burden they don't talk about, keeping it locked in their heads."
*Sayori has entered the chat*
* *I gently open the door...*
❤️
That's exactly what I was thinking when they said that.
sayo-
Why this feels so familiar
Child: Stress, pain, sadness and secrets
Mothers : It’s all what their devices are doing and the social media. Take away their IPads and Laptops
TRUE DAT
That’s soo true, after all that you’ll just be even more sad, and lonely because you won’t be able to socialise with your friends anymore
Soooo True
It’s such a exaggeration, really sometimes it helps a lot more be off the internet, it can let u think clearer and focus on more productive stuff. But the parents should actually talk it out rather than just only removing those devices
@@eriottomakurashi true
If ANYONE is reading this, just want to say HAVE A GREAT DAY! Stay SAFE always. 🙂
Thank you!! It's my birthday today
@@savageunitato100 happy birthday
@@eatyourcereal4747 thank you!!!!
@@savageunitato100 well happy bday 🎂🥳🎉🎈🎁🎊
@@zainabalrushdi6187 Thank you so much!!!! 😁😁😁
Every day I asked my friend how he was doing when I knew he was hurting and I really cared about him... then I told him about my pain and he left me when I needed him the most. Why do people who I care about always leave me? It fucking hurts
Thats my fear
Yes I feel like im all alone all the time ..its like others dont see the pain im feeling ..i feel nervous and scared all the time on the verge of losing everything again . I just keep falling victim to the pitfalls of life ..i try to always do the right thing as in being respectfully to others ..but so many times I get taken advantage of ...i guess because im naive . but I always feel like im not good enough ..because of how others treat me.. I feel sad and weak ..this is hurting me deeply inside . hope I didn't feel so bad all the time
He probably tries to hide the pain, no matter what, at all costs.. even if it means not helping his own close friend when they’re struggling. As someone who’s been on both sides and is trying to become a ‘normal’ person at the moment in the healthiest way possible, this is something I’m definitely trying to get better at handling
Humanity at it's god damn finest.
Is anyone else feeling that during the quarantine his mental health is getting more fucked up •-•?
Ye lol 😂
Yes its like life just paused ..now back to the bullshit
I don't have friends enymore.....help
Especially sucks when all emotional connections feel strained and it's brought more to the forefront
Quarantine actually helped me some, lol
*when your crush has all the signs:*
😩 second-hand *p a i n*
Now you can be the healing love interest
@@hedgehogz_rockz9325 yeag but sometimes it ends up badly, because it might become sort of a parent and child relationship
But it doesn't always end up like that, it kinda depends but there is a chance
@@hedgehogz_rockz9325 but sometimes it ends up REALLY good. So it's like a hit or miss lol
@@littlebettachild8647 go for it!
@@hedgehogz_rockz9325 surprisingly and ironically he was the one who confessed
Upsides to alien abduction:
1. Get to see spaceship
2. Meet new people
3. Break from day-to-day responsibilities
4. Free snacks
I was about 7 when all this started and at first, I thought it was just normal but after some time I realized that a lot of mental problems are happening with me.
1. Social Anxiety
2. Depression
3. Anxiety
4. Insomnia
Basically, I was not happy with life. I knew that my parents were being partial between me and my younger sister. It seemed as though I was the unplanned child. Once it reached an outrageous point that my parents put an AC in her room but not in mine!!! I was heartbroken. I think that they aren't even my parents. Whenever I try to tell them about my insecurities problems, mental health they start saying that I just seek attention. Yes, I seek attention I also want love. I NEED care. I am just an outsider no one cares what I am going through. Whenever I try to tell my parents about myself, they don't listen and I run away with my eyes full of tears and hands shaking. I've been dying to say this for 4 years but no one cares. I cry every night till about 5 am and my parents are still wondering why my eyes are sunken. I'm a straight-A student but my parents never understand that this is connected to me being depressed. I study to keep myself out of the miserable feelings. My parents once said that 'Your birth cost us so much. You are lucky that you are getting those basic amenities. We never thought we will have a child like you who is not satisfied with anything' That's the most hurtful thing I've ever heard. I never want anyone to hear such a thing from their loved ones. I really wanted it to be the last thing that I heard. I even tried to tell one of my close friends (actually the only friend I have) about this but all the same, I ran away and didn't see her for about 6 weeks. People think that I am happy but they don't know about this whole big paragraph that I wrote above. I can't even seek professional help considering I'm just an 11 year old and that my parents don't believe me
Virtual hug sending. Know that someone is always watching you. You may not know it, but believe me, there is.
Thank you for your story, I hope all is well, I too am suffering, but let it make you stronger, so that maybe one day you can use that old pain to relate and help others through hard times. Don't let other people hold you back just be the best you that you want to be!!
Hope you're doing better, we all love you, virtual hug for you ❤
All of this signs are describing me. And nobody will ever know what am feeling
Hey! I love you!
We all know your feeling cause were you
Trust me mate we know what your going through and we are here to help!!!
I'm one of who suffering inside ,
the problem is when you have a lot of anxiety and depression and problems inside yourself and you just kept inside you can't screaming or crying
And feel like there's no one for you such a lonely scene!
Do you want a hug?
me to i told my friend once
@@thecommenter2711 good comment
Also other mental issues besides depression and anxiety. Like nobody talks about eating disorders, or OCD. Often times, those can lead to depression and anxiety, but depression and anxiety aren’t the only problems people face, and other problems can be harder to spot.
It takes time
Keep calm about that deep emptiness, don't worry it will be alright
I would like to help people that are suffering from depression or going through something bad, but sadly I have no people surrounding me
Ok. Can you shoot me? That'd be great, thanks.
I mean, same but i actually spend like 90% of my time in my bedroom, and i barely talk to people and i guess it's the same for most depressed people so that is something i can't help with '-'
Please surround me :((
@@yepwhatever1142 lmao same ahsgsggsha
@@forgor4410 you can talk with me? Only if you want you can send me your any social media username trust me I will hear everything and we can be good friends too ig 💜
It's hard being the funny kid. For example; I've tried telling my friends how rough my week was and they just laughed at me the first 5 seconds. Every 5 seconds they'd just laugh.
I haven't contacted them in 3 years since then. They never noticed.
same..they thought i was joking when i said my grandma passed away..
This is true as the funny person in my class..
Destructive behaviour. I have one friend who likes to destroy things, and they say ‘they can’t stop.’ Sometimes they have mood swings, where they’re jumpy and aggressive and the next moment their yelling and seemingly happy. they relate to most the symptoms here, but I don’t want to talk to them about it, because they probably don’t listen. It might have to do with autism because it runs in their family (they have 2 family members who ARE autistic) Does anybody suggest anyway I can talk to them? Please.
I don't think u should jump right into the topic. Maybe u can invite them to hang out or do something they love. Then while having a normal conversation just try to squeeze the topic in and if they actually open up or begin talking about their insecurities that's great! But if they start to feel uncomfortable or aren't ready to talk about it then don't pressure them. Spend time with them too! But be sure to give them space. Try not to get angry with them if they do something stupid and be tolerant. And try to avoid talking about anything that makes them insecure or sad, u should talk about happy things to distract them from dark thoughts. Good luck, ur a really good friend and I hope ur friend gets better! 💖
(P.s, I'm not a professional or anything so I'm not sure if my advise would work, I simply wrote it from experience)
Her voice was so calming that even my pet dog refused to go for a walk 😊😊
Thank you psych2go ,it was
my first comment in your channel 😇
Her voice is very calming I do agree
1. their personalities suddenly change 0:47
2. they have mood swings and become easily irritable 1:15
3. they withdraw from people they used to love 1:51
4. they don't practice self-care 2:20
5. they feel hopeless and a sense of despair 2:48
6. they don't love the things they used to enjoy 3:29
I hope I could help! (:
Thanks! :)
This is obviously me
Maybe I'm suffering from the inside-
Thanks Time traveler
Time travelers back again skjgb
worst feeling is craving love and affection but getting told by everyone you have to love yourself first what if i just want comfort and someone shoulder to cry on?
Me: Could you imagine if we all jumped off a building?
My group of friends: Yeah that would be amazing
That one mentally stable friend: WHAT?! NO WHY WOULD YOU EVEN-
Im that one mentally stable friend lmfao. Its always good to have one in the group so they can help the others out with mental shit
If your friends all jumped off of a building, would you?
@@forgor4410 uhmmm...sure
@@forgor4410 sure maybe
@@forgor4410 I have no friends but yes I would
I’m so glad someone helped me seeing these signs in myself and helped me get the help I needed back then! Hope everyone else has the same opportunity. Until then, stay safe and know you’re heard and loved!
I just lost someone that I truly love - no explanation, nothing. I'm not even suprised that everything mentioned in this video applies to me.
I am so sorry for your loss. May God give you the strength to bear this great loss
@MAGAT slayer Your comment just made my night. Thank you so much for your kind words ❤
When you have all this problems but no one believes you and even afraid don’t want help and suffering from high anxiety yup that’s me
Yeah sad reality....
Funny how all my friends never know how to support me and never know I'm upset unless I start crying, yet I immediately know when they're upset
Your pain might not be your fault, but your healing is your responsibility. ✌🏼💗
And others responsibility is to put you down for no reason. This sucks people always talk to their convenience
@@nehaelis8323 dear, I hope you are okay.
Actually, it's their sick mentality. There will always be some people who'll start their day by the thoughts of somebody's ruin... But trust me they are creating their own doom... Coz, what a person is doing to you, he/she will receive it on their face from somebody else... ✌🏼😐
This is me
I deal with depression anxiety stress and am suffering inside the only thing is i have to keep it all in because im afraid that if i tell my parent they’ll yell at me.
Do you have maybe a close sister or brother? Maybe take some time off to spend with them it might help you out a bit.
*I'm sorry if you have to go through this alone*
😞
oh okay, your parents sound awful. I’m so sorry. what if you could begin with sharing about this fear of expressing yourself? I’d hope that would prime them, kinda soften their hearts so when you open up more they respond with more love. I imagine most parents must feel a fair bit of responsibility for their offspring’s mental health while under their care. Could you clue them in without blaming them for anything?
@@stayinginbedallday-_-160 I have 5 sisters and 1 brother but all but one is younger than me. My older sister is 14 only a year older than me but were not that close. But thanks for your concern
@@skyeseas there not awful i mean they feed me clothe me and put a roof over my head. There are certain things that i can tell them but my feelings is one that i cant talk to them about last time i told them i needed to see a counselor my mom flipped out and didn’t let me leave the house for a month but hey it doesn’t affect me as much anymore. Its stupid because im the only one of my siblings that has to deal with my parents shit #cant wait tell im 18
@@serinety2595 watch ekhard tolle vids on youtube for mental illness
Just wanted to say that if you are someone who's secretly hurting on the inside, everything's gonna be fine, you're not the only one who feels like this. Remember that we'll all support you through your problems :)
I fell in love with a guy who is clearly suffering (that's why I'm seeing this video rn, and my thoughts are confirmed), but I'm so helpless about it.. He is an introvert. He won't open his heart to me, he barely talks to me and sometimes would leave me on read and other times he interacts with me irl.. Idk but I heard that he loved a girl for years and she didn't (maybe that's the reason?) I literally don't know, idek if he still loves her... Only if he lets me get deeper in his life:(
Man the love I hold for him, is insane!! I would literally choose him over anyone in the entire world! I hope he releases his worth in my eyes before it's too late
Maybe try to catch him on with his interests that you share then once you get closer to him he might open up
you are both unhealthy.
your love is too extreme for barely knowing him. it's called infatuation.
you are co dependant.
you need to be attached to others.
he will remain aloof and selfish until he processes his past trauma.
you cant help him, or love him into being fixed. he had to learn to love himself. on his own.
and he needs a good male role model. no woman can fix him.
this is all fact. I know it.
I lived it. and science has proves this pattern. it's what happens because of narcissistic families, and psychology.
@@ashcash0123 thank you!
@@VengefulPolititron well I appreciate your reply! I may agree on the infatuation part and all other parts
But I doubt the fact that I am Co dependent, I don't feel the need to be attached to others. Before falling for this man, I spent almost 3 years of my life without being romantically attached to ANYONE , even tho I knew new people and I had a lot of male friends
So I, myself, wonder how did this happen! It drives me insane and I overthink why do I love him so much when I really don't know him enough. I'm a practical person, I rarely fall for anyone, my whole life I've only LOVED 3 men including him and if I did fall for anyone.. I always take my time and it happens after we get to know each other and spend months together
But for him it was different, I don't know how everything was rushed but it just happened and I firmly believe that this is love, maybe I felt sorry for him.. Idk!!! the more I try to find an answer, the more I suffer and I'm still hurting, I still can't move on:(
These days we don't talk and we graduated so no more classes together, and I don't think I'm willing to text him or see him any time soon. As a person who truly loves him, I wish him recovery asap
@@littlesurprises2844
well thanks for appreciating my advice.
hmmm. perhaps it's just the toxic "chemistry" of people who has similar childhood trauma. I met a girl once and I was so attracted to her... I didn't know why. huge passion. very explosive encounter the first time.
it's cause I'm a narc, she's a co dep.
also, you might have magical thinking, that a relationship will help you, so you're careful to pick the perfect one.. instead of alot of trying and failing.but you should watch videos on CZcams about - attachment style -
fear of abandonment, caution about getting too close... often results in getting too close to quick.
very very high standards... cause you don't want to be in a bad relationship, like your parents...
so you have standards of perfection, which cannot be met, so it limits the risks of relationships
I used to be suffering inside too. I used to self harm and try ending my life and did not tell anyone. I bottled everything up but realised it was a big mistake. I opened up about my feelings long back, but please dont repeat the same mistake I did. Have a good day.
Hi Nakshatra, thanks for sharing your experience! You did the right thing to open up and you're on the better path now! I hope others can see your comment too! - Cindy
I just can't open up. I don't feel like I have somebody I can easily share stuff with...and about finding more people, I am always scared of judgement and back-biting. I don't even know who I should open up to because whenever I try a bit, something happens that makes me regret it......
the problem i have is that i don't even know what i'm opening up about. my thoughts and emotions run helter skelter in my mind like tiny little screaming men with tiny little spears and i can never keep track. articulation is especially a case. i mean, i know what i mean but i don't have words so it's a fog and i can't sort anything out. when i tried opening up, tried to at least make it make sense, the person didn't understand. of course, how do i expect them to when i don't understand it myself?
Uk it was exactly the same case with me, I didn't even know what all this mess is, crying out for no specific reason, but to get yourself clear, I highly recommend starting a JOURNAL. i could really sort out a lot after I started doing it, there's still more to go but just give it a shot.
Yes guys. I journal too.
How relatable is this !
Its been more than 6 months since I have even left my room properly...and the lockdown has worsened things ! Idk why I have literally deleted all my social media handles from the past 6 months & I dont even feel like replying to anybody's calls...not that I want to be rude, I just dont feel like it. As a result all my friends have just forgotten that I even exist.
And even when I am with someone...I am just present physically, mentally I'm just lost...sometimes I spend an hour or two with someone & then come back & think was I even there...days pass, months pass...I just feel I'm just stuck in a dark place that has no exit. I question my existance at times.
I used to read books, dance, study hard & be a happy person 3 years back...now I dont have the energy to even get out of bed ! I just keep wondering how did I even do all of it in the past or how are others leading a productive life. Just feels like a useless piece of shit.
I hope I'm not the only who's feeling this way....and these video's sort of make me feel not left out. Because my parents are never gonna understand how I feel & I dont want to hurt myself more by telling them how I feel. And I dont have anybody else to talk. Its such a lonely situation....days r just passing....
I can relate to your every word :'(
Im glad your channel gets the attention it deserves! It’s really good and informative too!
"Do you sometimes notice your friend is joking about things that are... worrying?"
Me: *-laughing and making suicidal jokes 24/7-*
I really like the jumping to hit the notification bell animation! It's so adorable!
Thanks for noticing Rburbr01!! You're the best!
this channel is so helpful and so frustrating at the same time. like yeah, I know I have issues and I'm trying my hardest to learn about them, but I need other people to see these videos, not just me!
I love it that you put out these videos that help a many people as well as it makes me understand what is going on with me. I have chronic pain and there is no help. So these sufferings can also be when a person is physically suffering. I does not always have to do with these severe mental health problems. It is not nice when people think that I changed because of mental health. My bedroom is messy and I have changed because every move I make hurt so bad, I could climb the walls. From the outside I look good, so people think I am physically fine. There is no help for people like me, only judgements by people that have no idea what chronic pain sufferers go through. Thank you for you videos.
The past years I’ve been pretending to be happy but deep down im crying inside
What about someone who is secretly suffering inside but don't display any of these signs? Someone who hides them really well? How can you tell if someone who has a clean room, keeps interests, and has a consistent personality is secretly suffering?
If u are close to that person u will surely notice any kind of change. It would just be the way they talk or words they use. Minute details. Just try to observe them
@@tweedyparam8951 got it
sometimes it's just a feeling, so you can try paying extra attention to the little things and making sure they know you're there for them either way
@@d.9882 Thank you
I have a friend like that I’m worried about. They are doing everything right like working out twice a day and eating super healthy but their mood is all over the place and aggressive sometimes. So it’s hard to tell but something does feel off so I try to be more compassionate with them
I've been one of your followers ever since because I can relate and depend to your videos of my issues like anxiety, now I took all my courage to have someone to talk to, I can say this is my worst pain about my grandma's death, I can feel guilt to not see her for the last time because of long distance, other problems and the situation now. She suffers a lot due of her sickness and endures it just wait for me to come home, I can't imagine how scared she was and can't do anything about it. I feel so down and anger towards anyone and everything, I can't even talk with my family here or to get in touch with my family in other country, I'm afraid to show them how hurt it was, I know we're all grieving but I don't know how will I go on. I know sooner I should be move on and I'll try my best to cope up. I hope for more of your helpful videos ty
🎵🎶”I’m laugh-ing, on the outsiiide! Cry-ing, on the inside!”
I hope ur ok
I do the exact same thing.. I’m here if u wanna talk about it
"They don't practice self-care. Do your friends look thinner than normal?" - It's probably a thing that happens, but I guess most people get fat instead of thin. It's easy to order fatty junk food instead of cooking a well balanced healthy meal. Also, not doing any sports (anymore) will do it's thing...
Be glad that you live on the other end of the spectrum. Try walking in my shoes then say that. You literally would not have made it through any kind of tough trauma.
@@michellekirkendall5153 As if being overweight would be healthy or anything. Just because anorexia is unhealthy, doesn't mean that obesity isn't also unhealthy. Both are physically and mentally harmful.
Yeah but people getting thinner probably happens more often than you think. It’s not that they’re eating healthier it’s that they’re pretty much not eating at all cause there’s just no motivation to do so and loss of appetite is a thing and stuff
I actually got thiner ..I rarely leave my house or move at all..yet I’ve lost over 40 kilos
Going trough this situation can make you lose your appetite ..I still eat all that unhealthy stuff
I just can’t bring myself to eat more than 1 meal a day without feeling sick
I lost 145 pounds and all my teeth I dont look like myself anymore and when you lose you're structure in you're face you lose you're appetite i hope no one has to know this feeling ever
It's okay. You don't have to hide your tears. The world is harsh sometimes, but the people who love you are there for you. You are hurting so much, and it's incredibly hard. The world might feel like it's against you. You don't have to smile. It's hard, but you are loved. Hang in there
Nah never trust anyone , they could use it against you ❤️
@@danae.stardoll7947 I can only trust a few people, but I always keep an eye out👀
This made me cry.. thank you
@@akvp1e keeping a eye out for selener 👁
To be honest everyday I am suffering from depression and anxiety but the sad reality is no one gets what's wrong with me including my parents and best friends
All they think that I am tensed about studies but I am tensed more about other things , trauma and grief that I experienced in my life.
After I started watching your videos I always tried to share my experience with one of my best friends but I can't able to speak.
I just get thoughts that they might think I am mad or speaking just random things.
I don't have a friend that is like this but oh boy do I feel these moments every now and then. Especially when there are so much schoolwork to do, I would usually load up a minecraft world and destroy everything in my path and also kill villagers
Having all these signs present plus an ignorant and insensitive parents make it even worst. If I'm not broke af now then I would prolly get help on my own. Since professionally reaching out for help isn't free, that's why it's a burden every single day. Hope we get the help we needed ,
Same here your not alone
@@Alexis-lj6ry aww, sending hugs for you ;
@@elizabethheather2543 sending hugs to you too ,
My parents scream at me because I am shy and tell me they need to 'fix' me. There is nothing wrong with me I just chose to communicate in a different way.once I am comfortable I become the most silly and funny person ever. I can be shy at times but that is because I have been bullied since the age of 6-8. But even if my parents don't understand me who will?
That is so sad. Don't listen to them. Not everyone can be an extrovert. Everyone take their own time to ease up to people. You don't need to be "fixed".Be yourself. Do what you feel comfortable doing. Don't force yourself to do something you don't feel comfortable doing. Have a nice day.
@@ironman2165 Agree
Take a page of advice out of a motorcyclist's basic training...
"Ride your OWN ride."
It's the first warning (often) given to new riders. Literally EVERY decent biker-safety course, instructor, and experienced rider will tell you something like it. What it means is that you ride at YOUR OWN pace, instead of trying too hard to keep up with other people. It means NOT popping wheelies first thing out of the lot, even when you're around dozens of "friends" begging you to try... NOT cranking up the throttle to see what a brand new bike can do... NOT pushing limits and trying to lane filter or share with other bikes and vehicles too early... etc...etc..etc...
"Ride your OWN ride."
In your case, it's YOUR life to live. Nobody else has to deal with the consequences. YOU do... AND you only get ONE life to live.
Now, I don't mean you can't listen and even consider other folks' advice carefully. At the end of the day, however, it's still YOU who ends up dealing with the shrapnel and cleaning up the mess... not them... even your parents. ;o)
Thanks a lot guys I am improving myself...I am trying to be more confident and authentic to myself. The thing of riding your own ride is so true. Thanks a. Lot☺️☺️
@@alpercyjackson2076 Always welcome. We believe in you... You can get "there" from here. ;o)
You know what kind of sucks, this past year during quarentine I got depressed and gained weight, this has caused me to become self conscious. At school everyone knew me as the fun kid but now I'm quiet and reserved and I try to be who I was a year ago but it's so hard to pretend to be happy and deep inside be crying
Please comment on my channel and vent out your feelings. I'm gonna try helping you okay?
I had very mild depression before but I got good grades, had extracurriculars, talked with people, had school friends and everything was pretty much fine. It got so much worse though, even my family noticed how I changed. I have a therapist now though so I hope I'll feel better soon! Also I downloaded a bunch of mental health apps
Stay strong...Do the things you love and forget about the things that depress you. Know that there will be many people that still care about you, even me, a stranger who you'll probably never meet. ❤️🩹
i know someone who relates to all of this so much its terrifying and the worst part is that its me...
Man...This channel is wonderful! Wish I've found it in January,when I had a deep stress episode. Either way, your videos helped me a lot in understanding what happened then,and how to avoid it happening again. So, thank you!
To be honest, I seem to be the most happiest person in my class... Everyone thinks that I'm rich, I'm lucky, I don't have troubles, etc... But that is far from truth... I just hide all my sorrows, I don't like to tell my troubles to everyone... And moreover I take everything positively...
my friend has not been talking for like a week and i’ve been super paranoid as to what could be wrong-
this video now makes me strive to be funnier and more emotionally supportive so i can make her feel better if there’s anything bothering her when she comes back
Im so happy for clicking this video accidentally i wasn't aware of anything in life i grow up alone without a family on my side to love or guide me i learn things in life by my own i always thought myself useless and lazy all day but this channel gave me awareness and notice i have mental problems and i wasn't useless but phys/emotional & mentaly exhausted for taking my pain and problems by my self but i rather kept it to my self and typing my story internet hidden than telling it to people who have doubts that im suffering it hurts but there's nothing i can do
I used to be in deep depression I left my every single friend, I started being mad at everything, now I'm all fine but I still miss my friends
Watching your channel's videos is a type of therapy too 💙💙
Ugh I've struggled mentally my whole life.. this video hit hard... people around you could actually not be fazed by someones clear signs. I'm seeing a therapist who mentioned bipolar disorder could be something I have.. I don't know how to handle that... I know people judge others for having this all the time... I'm just scared
The same is happing to me
Same here i have
-Develop Mentally Delayed (my learning Disability)
-Tourette Syndrome
(I have bad Anxiety/Panic Attacks,Suicide Attempts/self harm,alcohol Addiction and other shit but its personal, used to have Night Terrors,Body/sensory issues/bladder issues/Eggsma wich is dry skin patches i have its not that bad really just on tiny parts on my body hardly bad and hardly noticable)
I most likely have
*BIPOLAR DISORDER*
*DEPERSELEAZATION/DEPEREALEZATION DISORDER*
*COMPLEX POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER*
*EATING DISORDER*
Due to the ongoing years of witnessing multipal traumatic events
And prolong years of ongoing Physical,Verbal Emotional Abuse And neglect and witnessing Domestic violence and Animal Abuse in my own Home.
Many things.....
I prefer physical sufferings if people around me appreciate and support me rather than suffering inside because people around you doesn't even care about your mental and emotional health suffering...
This is relatable my past with my mom for things I'm not going to get into. But I do have a counselor for these things and I lock up in my mind thank you psych2go you are a big help to!!
The one dislike is the suffering inside but doesnt want anyone to know his secret
Edit: can we get a 69 likes?
Edit 2: HELL YEAH 69 likes was ez to u guys
Kinda true
i'm the 69th like
@@wsofea poog
*their
As me entering middle school, your videos are really helping me prepare for 6th grade. Thank you for making these videos. The help a lot. :)
Very well done presentation. I am sure that you will be helping many people with this video. Thank you ever so very much!
“Self-care”
*me with a hella messy room dark eye bags and not eating*
Amateurs.
SAME XD
*Æ M A M Ţ ƏŲ Ŕ §*
I usually never share my emotional problems with my parents because they usually say " it's because you spend too much time on phone "
I know well that isn't the reason though...that's why i usually share with strangers....I wish my crush would read this😂😂😂😖😔
:'( Sometimes it's not just the phone. Do you have any close friends you can talk to?
@@Psych2go umm no ..I have a friend but she is studying in other city and busy all day so I don't call her and other than her nope
@Cookie Crumb yup ...I will try calling my friend ...well thanks
I display all of these signs. I'm a soon-to-be graduate from high school and I'm uncertain of what my future will be.
It's a daily routine for me to deal with a dark empath in my life, this person is always trying to apply pressure to me or provoke me in some way shape or form.
A lot of my family has biased opinions and toxic ways; my mother and father both have BPD, but my mother was a Highly Sensitive Person as well.
I'm sure that the HSP has been passed down from me and I'm still debating every say whether or not I have BPD, ADHD, or simply too much trauma and not enough self care.
I'd love help from a professional
I love how your voice is solo soothing
Excellent overview!
"Did you think of someone in your life that displays these signs?"
Well, of course I know him. He's me!
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help...
Remember if you have a friend or loved one who is acting strange you have to talk to them and really listen to what is on their mind. Do not give them unsolicited advice that can only make situation worse. Just tell them that you are there for them and telling them that you understand what they are going through.
Well that would never happen bc I CANT explain what's my case. I, myself doesn't know what is wrong with me, how am I supposed to explain to others?
@@zainabalrushdi6187 You need to speak with a Mental Health Specialist. Only they can understand whats really going on with you. If anyone tries to tell you to "get over it" or "things will get better" that is not going to help at all.
Parents always say that they're there for you , but never do, they ask you to ask for help when you need it, but when you do they ignore it, that's the reason many people prefer to not socialize with other people knowing they won't understand
O_O!!!! Oh man! This is totally me! I have been trying to fix my issues and I know it's all rooted in the trauma I've been through.. but this just brings it all to a point that is easier for me to understand. Thank you for adding the self-care bit at the end. I've been working on my routine for a long while. I'm getting better every day~ For me though? I've found that learning to let go and accept that everything happens for a reason, that people aren't monsters, that parents are human too and make mistakes, and realizing that most everything that happened to me was completely out of my control, much less my fault..... are all the things I needed to know and learn in order to begin truly healing and give the world another chance. I know keenly that I'm a vase that has been shattered countless times, but now I'm putting myself back together with gold at the seams.. using all I have learned & experienced to empathize with & help others so no one else has to suffer as I did. Well... when they're in my presence at least~ lol Trauma within us leads to creating trauma in others.... The trauma & pain of those around me caused them to lash out at me, giving me trauma... I have since learned that it is possible to heal oneself, but if one has a little bit of help & guidance from others. Studying psychology, Zen, & Taoism helps~ At least it did for me. The answer for each soul is different & unique to each individual. One thing I do know though is that one must NEVER give up! One is only ever truly lost if they give up. As long as they keep moving forward? They will find their way at their own pace, if they so choose~
What if outside sources make life unbearable? Not really a personal choice at that point is it?
I've known someone since 1st grade and I think his dad is physically abusive. Everything adds up for it as well. He's accident prone and most of the stories he tells for broken bones or bad bruising on the ribs are so unbelievable I don't know how anyone can think they're true. He makes jokes about not liking his dad that much and he's extremely protective of his 3 sisters. I noticed his personality drastically change in 2nd and 3rd grade. I've spoken to another friend about what this boy might have gone through (because any perceptive person can see he's not ok) and she actually said the same thing as I thought. He also is one of those loud annoying kids that are really tall and kinda buff. He acts all high and mighty at school but I think that's because at home his dad is a mess. Im not very close to him at all and genuinely I don't know what to do to help him because I don't want to jump to conclusions (which I already did) but I don't want to talk to him about it because he'll probably close me out. I'm also friends with one of his close friends and she told me that he would call her and cry on the phone for hours. I'm genuinely so worried for him. I'm also worried for his older sister because she's not biologically the dad's daughter and I know of too many sexual abuse situations especially because the girls gonna be a senior in highschool next year and is gorgeous
If it isn’t to late you should talk to a teacher about it
... this is literally everything I'm experiencing right now
I remember the days: when you were sad and you told friends something, they asked if they could help instead of being like "mood" or "sameeee"
So when I was eleven I would end up losing my dad due to a heart attack. I can say that I went through a good amount of things including somethings in this video mentioned. I particularly remembered trying to shut myself out from others and distance myself from the whole ordeal instead of living with the reality and coping with it from there.
I will say the loss really affected me, it caused me to think more about what I did, it also led to me doing things I’m not proud of. But it also brought me to a point in life I just don’t believe I would have gotten to had it not happened the way it did. I took up more responsibilities, I helped my mom with more things around the house, I hammered down even more on getting school work done. It caused me to mature a bit early on.
While I’d like to say that I got past this point of grief alone, it really was my friend down the road who helped me greatly. He was there when it happened, and he knew what I was going through. So having a friend(s) to support me in that situation was great as it really helped me get to where I am today.
So the point is, my advice for anyone who comes with anything like or similar to this, don’t hesitate to talk to a friend, don’t think that by shutting yourself out that your helping yourself as it really just hurts you even more and it strains and hurts those around you who may also being feeling that same grief (or whatever it is).
p2g : do you know anyone going through this?
me : yeah lots of people, me, myself, i, moi, the list goes on
I know those people
I am crying at night because my BESTIE was a fake friend u make my day❤️🤚😭😭😭😭😭💔💔
ouch. I am sorry to hear :(
If my friend would to that
I would be sad af.
cause he Is the only one I really trust
Let's cry together then.....🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️😔😔
I'm struggling with depression, and high anxiety that's even leads up to panic attacks and I don't even to begin how well you describe in these kind of videos. I relate to this video alot and I even scare myself with self isolation.
Very helpful thank you so much.
dude you just taught people HOW to hide their suffering inside.
I now live with the fear of my friends seeing this. I dont want to make them worried
Thank you very much! I learn a lot! God bless us all!
my depressed friend has 5 signs out of these 6.. thank you for making this video. I have and always will try my best to look out for them.
I had depression and Ive been getting out of it slowly I’m starting to eat more(I used to go a week at a time to a couple days without eating,parents didn’t really notice😔)and I’ve become a lot more social and starting to talk about stuff to my friends a lot more openly(I didn’t talk about it all before)and I’m gonna be seeing a therapist soon because I’ve had suicidal thoughts before and they sometimes come to my mind so I’m hoping a therapist will help even though I don’t wanna see one my friend is making me 😑 and anyways sorry for wasting your time with my problems 😅
Wow
I hope your channel gets more views and subs cause you all are creating awareness about everything ^^❤
yes, It deserves more subs ^^
@Future Philanthropist Neil stop it
Had been feeling this since I was a child, so people can't say my mood is changing. Wish I got help sooner. Don't wait if this happens to you.
Always like your video 🧡
WHY AM I SO DUMB-
I THOUGHT THE TITLE SAID
"signs someone's secretly *STUTTERING* inside.
thats why i was like-
*STutTerinG????-*
"Did you think of someone in your life that displays these signs?"
Yes, me
😔
Always perfect timing, today was a really bad dissociated day and confusing day
"Do you know anyone that displays these symtopms"
*Let me introduce you to myself*