Being Single Can Be a Good Thing For You (COMPILATION )
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- čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
- Tired of constantly being asked why you're still single or feeling pressured to find someone? Being single is not a curse, it's an opportunity for self-exploration and personal growth. From saving money and fortifying your friendships to pursuing your passions and being selfish without consequences, there are many reasons to embrace the single life. So celebrate your independence and subscribe to our channel for more empowering content about the perks of being single.
In this comprehensive compilation, we delve into the various aspects of being single, exploring the benefits and reasons why it can positively impact your life. From examining how your behaviors shape your single life to discussing the advantages supported by research, we cover a wide range of insightful questions.
Videos are Shown & References Can be Found in Those Videos:
Things Only Single People Can Relate To
Reasons to Stay Single
Behaviors that Keep You Single
Benefits of Being Single According to Studies
Timestamps (credit to user A55a551n)
1). Feeling replaced by your friends' significant other 0:40
2). Having to be the third wheel all the time 1:15
3). Having to stomach a lot of PDA 1:41
4). Always being asked why you're still single 2:24
5). Being comforted because of your relationship status 2:56
6). Being bombarded with personal questions 3:25
7). Constantly being set up on blind dates 4:01
8). Feeling pressured to find someone already 4:25
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Never had a valentine days so happy being single 😂
HI
How are you?
You saved a lot of money! @@dreamydavejr.6834
Happy Valentine's day
Is it supposed to console those of us who are single and lonely on that curse day 😂😂
Yes. Do not allow circumstances largely beyond your control to dictate your mental wellbeing. Get into Stoicism. Godspeed.
The day where all the couples around me are in celebration of eternal bliss, while I navigate the abyss.
Yes it is
lmao that’s what i said when i saw the title. good info but still 😂😂
Don’t worry about that. We single have our own day, that is every 11th November
I'm a 29 year old man that has been single for 29 years. I still have no need to change that. That's aromanticism.
I'm 22 and I'm the same way
So true even for me. And according to my calculations Psych2go have exactly one video on the subject of aromanticism. Also I see a lack of videos about asexuals...
Interesting that you still watched this though.
Is it b/c you still feel other things like s**ual needs, but not romantic-related needs?
Do you still get lonely, or just lonely for simple human companionship, fulfilled by seeing a friend vs desiring something more?
I ask out of pure curiosity; i want to understand!
@@IdislikeTechnology Hmm... No actually I don't have s***al needs neither. I love Psych2go and watch all their videos. I am also a very curious person who loves to learn about everything.
Tbh the only love out there is the love of god thats the true valentines day for me
I stay single because I have no idea how to be intimate with someone else even though I want to be
Same here
I just want to feel loved.
Edit: I wasn't expecting for anyone to even see this comment. But I greatly appreciate all the words said, despite being strangers on the internet.
❤ don’t worry you’re loved 👍
We're here for you! Everyone send hearts!
❤
As I see all the couples exchange sweet nothings, I'm left with the bitter taste of my own solitude on this cursed day.
These people in the comments don't understand the love you want and therefore aren't helping.
As a single person, I can relate. Yes, I used to be in a relationship. Sadly , and time and time again, it didn't work out. So, yeah, I'm better off single than with someone else.
This was dropped on Valentine’s Day 💘…. I see what you guys did there! ❤
Hope you enjoyed it! Thanks for being here early with us! You also get a virtual 🍪 and 🌹
on wednesday* there, i corrected your comment.
@@anderstermansen130 do you think it's this much important?
I finally reached my goal: full independence, first solo apartment, first real job. Currently enjoying this phase. I’d like to be in love but I’m not in a hurry. I want to enjoy this solo chapter of my life to the fullest as I’ve worked hard for it and as I’m blooming into the woman I’ve always wanted to become 😍 Enjoying my solos to appreciate my duo(s). When they’ll come, I’ll be ready 🔮
Times are changing.
Gaming consoles used to come with 2 controllers.
Now you only get 1. :(
Ohhhhh...... didn't know that. :'(
atleast we still got the switch
I have never been in the situation where I needed more than one.
Pc masterrace bro.
I realized this too..
I was in a relationship for over ten years, granted it wasn't a happy one due to abuse but I felt more lonely stuck with them than I do now. Being single isn't a bad thing if you refocus your mindset, I'm finding joy in my hobbies once more, I'm learning things they refused to let me try and turning my home into my own cosy abode. There's this beautiful post I once found that says when you are finally at peace with yourself, love doesn't compete with your past but your comfort and happiness; if they can't compete with your safe zone be wary. I'm happy in my own company and really not anchoring for love any time soon 💗
I've been single most of my life. I'm ACE and that can be difficult, for other people to understand.
I tried relationships before, but I just feel nothing, no mater if I'm taken or not. To me, being single is the better route.
Others won't feel, I don't like them, when I take a lot of "me" time. I'm an introvert and don't feel that romance is my thing. Give me time to listen to music and draw. I'm good. 👍
I've made compromises and will meet others in the middle, but I more of a lone wolf, doing my own thing.
Single or not, all of you have a wonderful day, every day. 🎉
I related to most of what you said. I'm asexual, but also a wlw, and i admit that i have to work on many things about myself, like the fact that i never came out to anyone, because i know that it will disappoint my parents, i'm almost 30 and i'm still afraid of it, lol.
However, i also never felt the urge to date, so never saw the need to come out, i never fell in love, but am sure that any other type of attraction is exclusively towards women. I'm also an introvert and spent a lot of alone time just listening to music or even doing nothing at all. Sometimes, i do feel like i'd really like to have a girlfriend, but i don't know if i'd be a good girlfriend.
I kinda just accepted that i might be single for rest of my life and it doesn't scare me like it does to others.
@@menotme4602 Yes, I felt the same. As a woman, I get pressured and see how everyone wants to sugar coat things, on a surface level.. when it comes down to it, I enjoy my peace of mind. It's nice to know, others share the same feeling I do, about this.
I kinda relate to this to the people out there whether your single or in a relationship happy Valentine’s Day ❤👍
Thanks
Timestamps
1). Feeling replaced by your friends' significant other 0:40
2). Having to be the third wheel all the time 1:15
3). Having to stomach a lot of PDA 1:41
4). Always being asked why you're still single 2:24
5). Being comforted because of your relationship status 2:56
6). Being bombarded with personal questions 3:25
7). Constantly being set up on blind dates 4:01
8). Feeling pressured to find someone already 4:25
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Happy Valentine's day to everyone who see this. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
We need the timestamps LOL Thanks A55. You get a cookie while you're figuring it out 🍪
@@Psych2gothank you. " Breaks cookie in half" here take the other half Psych2Go
Psych2go viewers trying to cope after watching this video : challenge level IMPOSSIBLE😂
I see it as a time that might not last forever. There’s a lot of freedom in being able to live on your terms and not having to take others into consideration. Learning to love yourself is a truly rewarding experience. Does valentines annoy me? Not as much as I thought it would. I get to celebrate myself and my friends and family. Not all love has to be romantic.
I felt a little down today, but after some thinking, I’m grateful that I’m single for the moment. Because I don’t have worry as much as I would with someone. I have my own freedom and can enjoy myself.
I both am not ready to be in a relationship because I have to work on myself and I don’t get many chances to come in contact with guys. As weird as that sounds since they’re everywhere, what I mean is I go to an all girls college so the only few men I see are students’ significant others. I’m also bad at socializing in general but it’s worse with guys, so even when I was in constant contact with guys in prior school years, I never had the courage to talk to them without thinking they’re judging me constantly
As a single man who plays videogames in my freetime outside of work and also terrible at social interactions with strangers, take this very terrible advise with absolutely no guarantee or veryfied truth to it: _If you can sit next to a man and not have the urge to want to speak about random nonsense the whole time, If you don't take out your phone to check some arbitrary social media status every 5 minutes and if you manage to put a slight slime on your face (even if shyishly)_ .Then you'll most likely be alright somewhere down the line.
Even if a man will judge you(r looks) in their mind, they will not treat your badly if you are not nagging or "overly present".
At least this is what I would say...
(don't use italic command keys...)
I wish I saw this when it first came out. I needed this. It makes me feel better. Thank you
this is the right length of vid and its prospectives are from multible sides , i like !
Hey, at first I wanted to rush into a relationship because half of my classmates are dating, and I wanted to try it out. That was during highschool... looking at it now, I should've told myself to be content with being single, because atleast I now have the time to invest in things I have the time to do, as well as being okay with being alone! To all the other peeps who are single, don't forget to tell yourself that it's okay. It's okay to be single, and it's okay to not be ready for a relationship if you yourself know you can't do it right now. Don't worry and be happy!
Everytime i overthink something, one of your videos pop up and it helps lol. Like maybe i do just need to stay single. Even though i have never been in one before.
Thanks for meaningful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
I have never had someone to celebrate Valentine’s Day in my entire life
I love this video very special & important.
A very considerate video 👏
Damn you were waiting to drop this vid huh lmao
But in all seriousness. We gotta love ourselves, TAKE CARE of ourselves, stay fit, and stay healthy
Thank you Psych2go! I'm single and I loved watching this on Valentine's day! I made raspberry white chocolate brownies for this special day raspberries to celebrate this red themed occasion:)
Interesting, and a great vid. On top, you released this 10 minutes after Aperture uploaded the same themed vid
Thank you, Psych2go! ☺️ This is extremely helpful, relatable, and inspiring. 😄🐢
Thank you for joining early! Hope this video helps you!
It's great! Thank you. 😄
I can describe myself as a Sigma Female. I have learned to embrace my weirdness and uniqueness. Hard for me to find someone I can connect with. Plus I have been single over 11 years. My Valentine’s Day was awesome 🤩. Spoke to my family.
As a sociopath materialist, I approve this 🗿
I feel fine being single, when valentines came this year i didn't felt lonely or sad, i spent time with my friends and just enjoyed the things that make me happy, i'm not insecure about my appearance, i know that i have things to work on to be a better person but i love affection just as everyone else, i'm just not desperate to get it fast (Remember the fast way it's not always the best way), i want things to flow naturally and i really want to feel that i'm really attracted to the person im supposed to be in love with and i want to make sure that person feels the same way with me.
It's nice to have someone to share your life with and sometimes even a little necessary to have an special connection with somebody when things get rough, but being single is cool as well, you have a lot of time to spent on discovering yourself and grinding good habits and fixing problems to become a better human, at least that's my perspective, so to anyone who feels frustrated out there, this is my advice: Stop worrying about it and just enjoy life, persue your goals, don't depend just on love from other people to be happy.
Love yourself first before wanting to love someone else :)
I relate to many of these points.
YOUR VOICE IS SO COMFORTING
Is it a bad thing that my life goals and dreams are currently overriding my will to start a relationship?
It is good to have a stable foundation ready for when you are in a relationship because you don't want to go into one because you are unstable and unhappy but don't let your goals keep you from ever having a relationship or neglecting one if you get one. That is if you want one in the first place which I'm going to assume you do.
@Psych2go Thanks to put up on these videos..these are very informative and awareness seeking things people should know..
Keep making such videos on Psychology and stuffs
Lots of love 💖 from India
Thank you for your kind words and support!
I am 16 years old and i have mental health problems it's because of my toxic family that treated me badly ,so i believe inside my thoughts that other people that i will meet in my life will do the same to me as my family have done to me , i have trust issues, have Gamophobia which is fear of marriage and philophobia which is fear of falling in love or fear of having deep connection with someone
Interesting timing.
Yeah I relate to some of them that’s okay I’m happily single that’s wonderful thing.
I" m very happy !❤
I absolutely love my single freedom status. I am happy for my friends who are in relationships and decided to be glued to their partners. That means I can game while listening to music in peace, while I miss those friends....I'm also glad that they've ditched me for their partner and i hope they remain distant
single for 7 years. after such a long time, i really dont have time to focus on that anymore. if it will happen, it will. if not, then not. what matters, is that i have my freedom and can dissapear for month or two and no one will disturb my peace during that time:)
8 things single people can relate to
1. feeling replaced by your friends' significant other 0:40
2. having to be the third wheel all the time 1:16
3. having to stomach a lot of PDA 1:41
4. always being asked why you're still single 2:24
5. being comforted because of your relationship status 2:56
6. being bombarded with personal questions 3:25
7. constantly being set up on blind dates 4:01
8. feeling pressure to find someone already 4:25
8 reasons to be single
1. save money 5:34
2. you can fortify your friendships and family relationships 6:11
3. you can explore new hobbies 6:42
4. you can go after your dream job more easily 7:08
5. you can be selfish without consequences 7:44
6. you deal with less drama 8:14
7. you master self sufficiency 8:41
8. you still experience the excitement of finding your soulmate 9:08
10 behaviours that keep you single
1. you have cynical views about love 10:06
2. you set unrealistic standards 10:34
3. you have set too many deal breakers 11:01
4. you have unresolved past trauma 11:35
5. you have low self esteem 12:07
6. you have a fear of happiness 12:43
7. you have trust issues 13:25
8. you think you will lose your independence by being in a relationship 13:50
9. you want someone you can't or shouldn't have 14:27
10. you don't learn from your mistakes 14:50
few benefits of being single
1. strengthening bonds 16:11
2. permission to be selfish 16:55
3. look within 17:55
4. mental health 19:00
hope this helps.
I was upset knowing I was single, but it helped me. Thanks a lot! ❤
You're welcome 😊 Thanks for watching and supporting our work!
@sofivieira740 Cope lol
I want a relationship, but I'm not ready for it.
I always thought that I was making bad choices, and I did cause I'm not ready. So, I decided to live my life while coming in terms with that notion and who knows, maybe I'll meet someone during my 20s or later. I know I'm not going to be left out - why I know that? Plenty of times I thought of giving up, but something in me refused to give up. Hope? Determination? Desperation? I'm not sure, I'll find out if I keep going. And I advise everyone to keep going or else they'd self-fulfill a fate unworthy of them.
This video gets me and why I stay single
It’s nice but can be lonely when you’re involuntarily single.
I'm contemplating if i even want a partner, i dont want to lose my peace and freedom ❤
I'm a pretty social person, but I like to keep my social circle small and manageable. I think I'm a "social introvert" where I crave interaction, but I do enjoy alone time. That said, a lot of my friends have gotten into relationships and moved on from me and it's becoming more and more lonely as the years go by and while being single is nice, I do want that kind of relationship in my life. I don't come across friends very easily, much less girl friends, so getting to know someone on such a level that I can see them as a girlfriend is next to impossible to me right now. Also, I wish people would set me up on blind-dates, at least I'd be trying people out. Oh well, I'm nothing if not patient.
😭 I love thiiiis
Battle cry! Kiyiyiyiyi!
I've tried dating for about 6 years, and honestly thinking I'm too emotional fragile for a relationship. One bit of criticism and I get embarrassed and withdrawn.
I've never experienced anything but being single. Loner for life I suppose
Thankyou ❤️😊
You’re welcome 😊
BLESS YOU. 😂❤
I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m a complete hopeless romantic. But at the same time I’m a little scared of being in a relationship. So I want one but I don’t want one. I’ve thought about all the points made in this video many times though. So I’ve just been waiting…and trying not to think about it 😅
31 years of this but luckily don't have many friends
Love yourselfs today do things that make you happy. 😊 Thats what I am doing. 🎉
Everybody in love and i'm falling behind. I don't even think that single is a good thing for me, anyways Happy Valentine!!🎉🎉💘💘
T-T It's so FRIGGING TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have been single for the past 3 and a half years and overall im cool with it all my friends are in relationships and I don’t envy them personally I would lose myself life is just more simple now. Im taking my time may look into dating in a few more years.
Being an aromantic, the title is reassuring
My singleness is slowly killing me. I’m surprised I’m even still here with how my life is spiraling downhill
Sending you love ❤️
Every video in the past few months were exactly what I needed to hear at every time. Kinda crazy, but maybe not? 🙂
Its perfect Video for me
Hope this video helps you!
Beautiful 😊❤
Thank you! 😊
I made the choice to be single like 17 years ago. I never had a problem with #1or#2 PDA doesn't bother me either. Most of my friends chose to be stay single as well. I used to be pressured. If I ever get lonely I just go to a couplea house who argue all the time and it reminds me of why I chose to be single and stay that way.
I've experienced in relationship but i broke up so early bcause i don't know what to do together. I was 14 back then (frontal lobe wasn't well developed yet lol). He is so kind, i hurt his feeling even he said he's okay. Now I'm 27 made me realised, my situation is like, right person wrong time. Now that guy already engaged with beautiful and talented girl. I definitely no match with her. He deserved girl like her after all. I'm so happy for them, he found his happiness.
For me, i haven't think to get a partner yet. Got a lot of commitment, and so much thing to deal with. I guess i already comfortable being single. (i hope my mom won't see this 🤣)
Every year I aways feel bad for not being in a relationship, especially when I got older but this video reminded me that it's not that bad and heck, it's even better
"In a healthy relationship you should never have to sacrifice your personality, your independence or who you are..."
After observing parents, I conclude that this line outright rules out starting a family unless you are a born parent.
Yep sometimes it's hard in relationship not much freedom not can't save money for yourself loses friends can't do much with friends
Yes!!!
Happy Valentines Day! A single guy here and i just wanted to remind all of you that some of the best love you can feel is your love and that you dont need anybody to assure you. Love you all and have a wonderful Valentine!
Lovely comment ❤
Me: realizing I'd rather support my friends or even my crush in a relationship as if they're a ship than being in one myself. Tried twice and dislike how I was seen just as a means to satisfy the others' desire. I stood up for myself, said no and left. 😊
being single "CAN BE" a good thing? it truly "IS".
As someone who’s single and who desperately wants a girlfriend thank you for making this video
I’m currently 20 and living in a small town, it’s very depressing and I fear that once I’m done collage I may not get another opportunity to meet a girl that I like. I’m hoping once I’m done collage I will be able to move to a big city and will have a better chance to meet girls and for a romantic relationship with one.
Just a heads up: I'm nearly 40 and believe me, after college things may not necessarily change for the better, even in a big(ger) city.
I am one such man who this has happened to, life just gets more crowded and smaller, ironically enough.
I decided to stay "Single", but I still have a kind of valentine or significant other.I decided to stay single to develope myself freely and being able to love home freely, without the need of searching for a replacement. He currently can not feel the same and that's actually fine, because somehow we are still very close and something is slowly developing. It simply needs more time than the casual dating. The funny thing is, I am so happy and satisfied with that^^
Thank you Psych2Go.. I am learning being "single" does not mean you are "lonely".
You are 100%! Being single doesn't mean you're lonely.
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC FAMILY, I WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS MORNING, HAVE A BLESSED DAY TEE 🙏💯💙💪
Losing all hope was freedom.
I just to need to remember that I do not need to explain my no when rejecting romantic relationships that I do not want or need to be in. Just boundaries when people have problem with me being single, especially my narcissistic mother and sister.
I am single for 1 year and have double feelings. If I see my friends having a relationship for years of even gonna get married. At the end of the day being alone missing someone to cuddle with love. I am thankful for my friends and mom get love. But missing the love love.
I am thinking starting dating but scared of online platforms with as good and bad experiences. And with my mental illnesses and situation It is more difficult finding someone who accept me.
The PDA thing: when I was in relationships and hanging out with single friend(s), I never PDA’ed so I don’t make my friends feel awkward. When we hang out as friends, everyone is just friends in a friendly setting.
Really nice video as always! I'm single and I never was in a couple and I think taht it's a pretty accurate video.
Also a have a question : I went to school today and during the few minutes I wasn't at my desk I received a *love* letter.First time that someone gave me one(even if i don't know who is it). There was a meeting location so I know who asked me out but she seems to have erased the meeting location and I don't have any more info taht she wears glasses and that she was in the same classroom as me at least one hour but I'm not sure that its' a true love letter or a fake one. as i type thsi it's almost 7:20pm the same day.
What should I do? I felt pretty weird never had thsi sensation in my life but it doesn't feel normal.Yeah I know I'm pretty young but could someone help?
Ask the individual directly is my advice. If they are confused, just explain that you got the letter and thought it was them.
My last and only relationship ended 22 years ago in a traumatic way that destroyed my ability to trust anyone in a romantic capacity. I've heard it said and I've learned from experience that talking about what happened in a past relationship is a dealbreaker when trying to embark upon a new one, but I feel that information needs to be put out there so that my prospective SO can understand why I'm hesitant about this or reluctant about that or downright panicking about the other thing. Without that vital context, they'll just think that I'm uninterested or possibly even hostile to their advances, but with it, I still scare them off. It's a lose-lose proposition. My last SO did me hella dirty and I feel that's irrevocably impaired any potential future relationship opportunities.
I wish I was single again. I have been married for almost 22 years and I regret it that I fell in love with the wrong person. I should've notice the red flags about my husband and his family before I got married. Then I would've broke up with him and moved on. Great video. Thanks
Why are you then still together?
❤❤ The first part of animation is extremly cute! adorable❤❤❤ I want to hug. I am a chronic single. Some part is due to insecure attachment style, some is because of insecurities, some is derived from bad experiences... I hope to blossom more following year as a single person
I'm a single Pringle this year and I'm making Valentines for my friends and having treats with my family! Valentine's Day doesn't have to be sad if you're alone romantically
100% agree with you! Loved your perspective. It doesn't have to be romantic with a partner. You can have valentine's by yourself, with family or even friends!
single = peace
I imagine myself when I’m older single with a roommate possibly few, or a dog or cat for emotional support, when living on my own as a grown adult!
I'm so painfully forever single, I don't even get the "So when are you getting married?" Everyone knows it ain't happening. Even people I don't know.
I’m single not by choice, but in my world we get married. No one came and asked I have come to terms with it. Being single can be fun.
Hate being single, but always end up with people who don't know what they want or at some point exploit me. :(
Quit trying to guilt-trip me. I'm tired of being single.
exactly, this video is just a one sided agenda to make single people feel complacent.
Don’t actually have any choice in the matter, it is what it is
Hey, Psy2go Can you make a Video of Many types of Trust issues, i just realised That Not only checking Someones phone, Location are trust issues but Not showing Emotions, to them beacuse of begin afraid
17:40 This face reminds me of the dancing Toothless meme😂 Idk why
We get it! Pro Avoidant. Good luck with that. God loves aging spinsters and their cats too!
Hii I love your videos sm!! Could I make a video request please? I got some stuff going on for a while. ^^
Hello! What's your request? :) Thanks for commenting early!
@@Psych2go I have a homophobic dad and I would love to hear your thoughts and ideas on that topic so maybe something about how to talk with parents or any close people about sexualities? I recently got to know that I'm lesbian and I can't talk with my parents about it because I don't know how and also because of my dad not accepting LGBTQ+ people or the community.
I can relate to these. Mostly when those people are doing nosy excuses as if they are brainer when comes to relationships. I always straight forward telling it's not their F businesses. I blocked them by telling they should mind their own life. I had been doing this for years and their mouth kept jaw dropped and shut up. 😂😂😂
Single life: Where the only committed relationship you have is one with your own solitude.
3:59 mom has done this section to me 😅