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When Favor D Blessings left her abusive marriage after six years and hoped that this would end her agony. But instead, the man has made it his business to torment her by stalking and threatening her. Favor D Blessings shares her experiences with us. She wants to use this to inspire others who may have gone through the same.
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No one is talking about her beauty 😍😍😍
Thanks mama 😘
Yes she's so beautiful.
I appreciate felister mueni for standing by me. Gal may God bless you so much for me 🙏❤️💗
Waaaah ladies this is a lesson" don't ignore Red flags waa Aki these men......it is always good to listen to our parents
Sadly, it's the lady who was pursuing the guy. He NEVER showed interest in her.
Mag nam that was my thought. She was the one suggesting let go see my parents, am coming to your place, let do a small wedding. The Guy had no interest from word go. Plz let learn to observe n see red flags
No the guy is Criminals, Criminals actors make a woman to be on her by self
The is Criminals
@@fiddiggokirimi9630 💯
Thank you for your honest reply,,
Yes,,
I actually hated this lady coz,,i thing she kept the pregnacy to bring back that evil man.
Lady,,you don't hv a kid with guy,,
You hv a your own baby angle...
You should hv concentrated with the baby ..not him.😢😢
You both ,never loved.this litle boy..i i'm crying..coz i feel so bad..ile toto went throu.
Because of his own mother..who is just thinking of marriage..and keeping this man..for herself.
Lady,you should hv given out the boy to be adapted..
Wewe uwende ukimbizane..na 'the lv of your life.."
Who never gave a shit of you.
Ai..so SAD!
I should hv not listern to this..
Makes me so sad..what that kid went throu.
Wooiy let us not ignore the red flag 🚩 guys especially ladies also taking someone back to your life you have to think 🤔 about some people come for a revenge 💔pole sana Damaris May God remember you
Red flags from the word go. As a single person I'm picking my lessons.
If things don't flow am not there to force them,anything forced is not worth fighting for
Exactly 💯 💯
I won't judge you, because one thing i know, when you are Inlove you can do anything just to be with the person you love.... Hugs❤️
Hii ilikua mapenzi ama ujinga, ladies let's learn to love ourselves
@@estherkeru2717 desperate house wife
I had never commented in any social media but this point hardly touch my soul,i have been in love so I know even if u see ten red flags u will still need that person it needs God mercy
@@nugwafortunatus3083 You are right... Unakuaga like"... Le me just give him another chance, maybe he'll change.... This life no balance😢
@@estherkeru2717 Uzuri ashajifunza.. She's not going back i guess
Red flags from the beginning Ladies let's not force issues please.
Everything was so wrong from the word go. Ladies never be desperate for a relationship when it's clear the man is not interested some of the signs here were so obvious the man was not inlove or ready to settle
True
Preach it sista
Please say it again!
Partly is because it has been hammered into our brains that we need a husband. So when a guy shows the slightest attention we start building a house, children in it, and a happily ever after!
She took herself to the man's place introduced herself as a friend ,forced the man to visit her parents ,suggest that they wed .from the word go she was in a relationship alone and loved a man who never felt the same
I don't know why many good girls end up loving bad guys. Bad guys have a way if confusing many straight forward ladies.
It's always good to listen to your parents, thanks for sharing your story
I like her English,, she is still beautiful
She's so eloquent. Wow. Her boldness and facial expressions are just wow.
Thanks
@Kelly oigianber I don't have HIV virus..sell the herbal to the positive ones.
My God when u think you have problems u haven’t seen a thing yet, thank u for sparing me and my kids
Sorry sis, indeed being madly in love can make somebody ignore everything kabisa.
That man didn't love you but unfortunately you couldn't see it,he was a liar irresponsible and foolish,l hope you are worlds apart with him
One thing i am grateful for. I always listened to my mom regarding relationships and basically life when she was alive. I introduced my boyfriends to her and if she wasnt comfortable,i was done.
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She said " I started seeing red flag after he started cheating" Girl the whole beginning of your relationship was red flag. Im sorry you didn't see.
You are right, from the day he told her that she cant visit, i think she was too blind
She was blind in love. Saw the red flags very very late
She was Soo desperate ...am Soo mad nkt!
parents and especially mother's were born psychologist, the unique things they see waaaaaa. Thanks for sharing your story I believe it helps someone outside here. Red flags are rarely felt when one is in love.
When you’re pregnant by a man and he lives with you does that mean he is your husband? I hear women claiming this quite often in Africa. He needs to be yours by legal means so you may have security for your baby especially.
Nywele ya Yvonne iko sawa
Thank you so much
@@YvonneKawiraTuko si rahisi wemen wacomment hiyo comment ,na wanaona,they assume kama mtu amebarikiwa ugakira Niki🤔
@@georginamakena1660 hahaha Make mwari wetu. Wi nkoro mbega. Asante sana dada
Such a beautiful girl with low self esteem.
A good Talk many lessons. I love the gentle spirit in Vyonne. She give the guest sufficient space to talk.
Damaris, thanks for sharing your story. You are saving some souls out here. Thanks for sharing everything that you were going through. There's hope.
True. Somewill will be saved
God will guide you through ,,, it's not your fault to love but what i am sure is that God will pay him as he deserves , keep pushing it cause you're winning
*TRUE MAN AND WOMAN COMES FROM GOD*
Haki you were forcing things from the beginning, thats the biggest mistake you did
Talk of being informed of her husband's status and she still take it lightly 😳😳😳 atymes l don't understand women nowonder sometimes God is quiet on us... aaaai 77 red flags and your still blind 🤔🤔🤔🤔
This princess she was soo cute on her graduation gown ohh my God pole mama even now u fearfully n wonderfully made🔥🔥🔥
You should have listened to your mum, she read the signs earlier than you. Some men will never mature.
This is painfull story 😭😭 Let God protect us
She's a strong lady.
Thanks for sharing this
Wanaume kwani mnatakanga nini.? This lady is very beautiful
Fellow Kenyans, the only thing we're supposed to force is the key gates not relationships.
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Yvonne you look great hair style and everything
No one is talking about her house manager 🤷🤷May God bless her..... This is so painful story pole sana wa Musyi
I am lacking words .........Mungu ni WA maajabu
Sanaaa
Hugs dearie .you don't deserve that life I must say you are so brilliant..it's never too late..just turn the page dama
I cant judge u mwiitu wa mwaitu,theres a bright future ahead
I'm surprised to hear that solid food was introduced after two years. Pole for the ordeal though
She's so beautiful 😍
Yvonne is becoming beautiful day after a day. Money is guduooooh🤣
Pole sana, it's part of life👍🏽 part of growing too.. Sending you love and light 💕
Mbona hujamalizia.. What happen?
Kwani how am I designed, from the first few lies to how she is received at his place, I would not even have bothered. I would have looked for a kiosk, drink tea and go home in peace. A man who is serious does homework on how parents are visited. The day you find yourself managing that process Pls laugh 😂
Ati when did u start seeing red flags? 😂😂😂😂
I know right
The story is heartbreaking,,, stay strong God got you❤
One thing I always celebrate is God got my back
Life isnt fair,,good hearted persons mostly find monsters of the opposite gender..i felt for her
Waiting for part 2
Mwa ngai. Although am not an angel, that guy was never serious. It's just by luck to get a partner who understands you. Marriages are built through patience.
Waiting for part 2 please
You are beautiful and may God bless you.
Whaat painful waiting part 2
Thanks Damaris for your story,God will never leave you,The man will face his consequences from God,God will punish him,though,we should not force love,let a man fight to get you and give him many many tests to know him before putting him in your life,most men are wicked,don't show a man that you love him even if u really love him,lnstead,show a man that you don't care and can live without him,the only person you should show him,is only your real respectful husband,who has given u respect from the begging(waiting for part two)
Thanks dr..part two is already out
I do feel sorry for people but I just don't understand how she could overlook all the red flags! This guy did not marry her neither did he pay dowry and he never paid rent and as if its not enough he told you that he was not ready to be a father, why would you continue living with him and even allowing him to be violent in your home?
You got a good point I think it’s pure foolishness and naive ..we got to use common sense ata kama ni mapenzi haiiiii..tuache kuchukuliwa utoto na ujinga na wanaumne…tujipende kwanza…
Some women are just sick in there heads ...like who does that even the most desperate idiot can not go that far nkt ! Amenibore
Nakisoma Kyukoothe aki kana wazembanitye na kia mwathani .
Part 2 please
The mattress was worn out 😳
God bless all the Women we really go through alot in silence😭😭
Sure
Watch out for part two tomorrow, Wednesday at 9am
Anticipating
Thanks for sharing your story. You have really encouraged me mum.
Yvonne love ur hair
Oh my God. I know her hapo around barazani 🥺😥... May God protect you Damaris
Amen wamusyi
My strong and beautiful inlaw ❤️❤️❤️ I love you so
Thanks mum. God is great
Gai Dama.... I remember you we used to live in mombasa .... with Akina Noleen ondiba, your siz n the crew... woi pole...
Auh remind me haki
Reach her plz
@@favourd.blessings5903 woooiii pole sana
@@jdeejedida6923 it's well mama
@@pipipipi287 this is a testimony actually we should thank God
First one to comment 😂😃 Leo Nalala n viatu
Men men men
Ladies be careful with this gender
I'm mad at you now☹️..... One phonecall is enough for you to run for your son even without asking permission at work
Exactly ,,but instead..she cadl..the so called baby daddy..coz that is not her husband.
Part two plz
Part two coming up tomorrow. Stay tuned
😭hugs my sister Damaris
It's not good to judge,unaweza jipata kwa hyo situation of which you will be seing things are normal, bt have courage.
We as women lets learn that we can make it without men because some makes as to loosd'
Its true...love truly blinds you😂
Part two
How does someone introduce you as a workmate and start forcing him to visit your parents and go forward ety you planning for a wedding
Very beautiful woman she reminds me of my nutrition teacher she looks like her
She is my sister ..madam Christine right?
@@favourd.blessings5903 she is called peris
@@annerose3310 oooh
Things women do for LOVE waaaaaaah
She so beautiful,, kamba girls are always beautiful and tall, especially the ones from kitui.
@@vincentomondi5612 u can say that again 🥰🥰
@@miriammichael6759 it's true, kamba girls are always beautiful with natural beauty, tall and attractive..Their eyes are beautiful..
Pole mama
l know Damaris she used to stay in Shanzu she was my friend
Aish, you really wanted a relationship/marriage that you forgot your worth
Unaenda nyumbani kwa watu bila kusema😂you gat jokes
Kuja na nyama na maziwa ni common........Anyway God help us men..........
Penye nimekuwa pissed off...nikuskia umeambiwa mtoi ni mgonjwa n unalala na unakula..ungeraukia huko
I thought ladies who have fathers in their lives can do better when it comes to relationship. Haki mapenzi wewe 🙆
Part two 🙇♀️🙇♀️
Part two coming up tomorrow. Stay tuned
Part two airs tomorrow at 9am
Stay tuned and thank you for watching ❤️
Never ignore redflags
I think u are too negative my dear,it is true hiyo unaita mouth ulcers utibiwa hivyo,hakuna parent anaeza taka kuua mjukuu wake😥😥😥😥
Hug's Damaris
Too many red flags ... You could have seen that coming tho
What happened to the subtitles in this video.
Red flags na mapenzi ni vitu mbili tafouti.... Sorry dear
Where's part 2
From the word go the guy was not serious red flags all over.🤦
you're beautiful 👍
The way this story is going, something need to be done on the boy child. This man seems very out of touch with everything even how to be human.
Pls naomba muwe mnatumia kiswahili
All those red flags and you still went ahead and became pregnant for him.smh
I think all womens problem starts from men became before you get involved with a man you are doing great in life.
Yes most of us our stories are, I met him and then.... mess after mess
All women problems starts with women...women should love themselves more.....we sacrifice alot for relationships and we think with emotions instead of using our heads...
Where is part 2
Part two of the story airs tomorrow at 9am
Stay tuned and thanks for watching ❤️
Aiiii wee nawe izo red flags zilikua mingi sana. Hta ka we we mistakes. aiii!
Why is there an obsession with marriage in African countries? I have 3 children by 3 different women, one Black American, one white, and one Kenyan and never married any of them. I raised all my United Nations kids as a single father and looking at all the marriage headaches I hear about in Kenya, I made the best decision. My children are now adults and think of me as an angel dad.
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Not all marriages are like what you see in the media. I think it is good that Africans value marriage rather than just have women raising kids on their own like what you are suggesting. Children need stability except when it is abusive. But I also think that marriage for the sake of marriage is not worth it.
@Queen TC I actually agree with all that you have said here. We sometimes go to extremes as Africans. I was just disagreeing with the other extreme where some cultures have children with different women and never marry them leaving women raising children on their own. We should meet somewhere in the middle I think.
Some cultures do not advocate for marriage and guess who is on the losing end? I can assure you it is not the guys. I have seen many women in some of these cultures left alone without even the dads being in the picture. I prefer my African culture to that mentality. Marriage is good but it has to be healthy or people should just divorce, and Africans have to also accept divorce because women stay in violent relationships sometimes because the culture makes them stay, sometimes it is even the church. I agree that some things should change but we don't have to throw away our whole culture away.
Next time please remember not to do switching with your language. We follow from different countries and sometimes do not really relate to the language.
Na why didn't you go for your baby immediately..yaani wewe