Everything I wanted to know was covered in this video. It even explains where the place of unconditional love lies in all of this. Nada, you make this world a better place.
I just got rejected after a first date which I thought went really well, I'm SO confused, no idea what I did wrong... Well I've got a good idea, I started talking about conspiracy theories and I think I blew it. Thanks for the video!
You were being yourself and in the end that's all what really matters. You'll find someone compatible as long as you don't fear rejection and keep moving forward!
@Agnes M To be honest no, I still think about it from time to time. This is probably more down to the fact that I haven't met anyone else that I've liked as much or haven't been able to sustain anything serious with anyone as it's mostly situationships these days. I think I've just been particularly unlucky, I'm sure this won't matter when you meet someone else.
I appreciate and value your understandings. I am starting my spiritual path and feel fortunate that you are willing to share your knowledge and experience.
It all starts with silence towards them and in their presence. It's not on us to convince others of our worth, it's their loss not ours. I been rejected a lot, and because of that I decided to stop approaching women long ago. I've have never met anyone I felt worth the risk of rejection let alone investing any effort in. I'm done pursuing anyone who doesn't want me.
For me it was impossible to stay friend with a girl I thought she was my soulmate..after she told me that she love me like we are One ,I told her that I have romantic feelings to her but she respond in wery angry way that I am not her type...Later she told me that she love me but only as a friend..
I WASN'T my best self around him because i was so nervous. I think i said some wrong things. I thought for sure it e would meet again and id be more relaxed and my better self but that opportunity never came. Its over. Torture.
I’ve never been able to let go of any of the girls that rejected me, even if I only knew them as an acquaintance. If I develop romantic interest in them, I can’t drop that. I still miss my first love from when I was 14 years old, even though she never reciprocated romantic interest. Every single girl I’ve gotten a crush on still has a piece of my heart to this day. I hold onto the hope that one of them will change their mind one day, it’s turned me into a creep. I stalk their socials, hoping for a sign that they want me. I know this will only cause pain but I don’t see myself ever getting closer than this to an attractive woman. Does anyone have any advice on how to correct this behavior/thought process?
First of go no contact. Stop stalking their pages. Dont feed the beast. Put that energy into making yourself more attractive. I am not totally healed either after 1.5 years but I am going thru motions of moving on. I urge you to do the same.
Everything I wanted to know was covered in this video.
It even explains where the place of unconditional love lies in all of this. Nada, you make this world a better place.
I just got rejected after a first date which I thought went really well, I'm SO confused, no idea what I did wrong... Well I've got a good idea, I started talking about conspiracy theories and I think I blew it. Thanks for the video!
You were being yourself and in the end that's all what really matters. You'll find someone compatible as long as you don't fear rejection and keep moving forward!
@@insurgenthiphop5870 Aw thank you!!
Have you gotten over it? I am almost in the same situation
@Agnes M To be honest no, I still think about it from time to time. This is probably more down to the fact that I haven't met anyone else that I've liked as much or haven't been able to sustain anything serious with anyone as it's mostly situationships these days. I think I've just been particularly unlucky, I'm sure this won't matter when you meet someone else.
Hits so close to home right now! Thank you!
I appreciate and value your understandings. I am starting my spiritual path and feel fortunate that you are willing to share your knowledge and experience.
It all starts with silence towards them and in their presence. It's not on us to convince others of our worth, it's their loss not ours. I been rejected a lot, and because of that I decided to stop approaching women long ago. I've have never met anyone I felt worth the risk of rejection let alone investing any effort in. I'm done pursuing anyone who doesn't want me.
I’m so happy that the day I needed to hear this 4 years later the algorithm got it right hahahaha
Thank you this really is what I needed to hear
thanks! nice reflections
I really needed to listen to this my early 20s but nothing else matters now because I love to a person 100% who is
Me,myself
For me it was impossible to stay friend with a girl I thought she was my soulmate..after she told me that she love me like we are One ,I told her that I have romantic feelings to her but she respond in wery angry way that I am not her type...Later she told me that she love me but only as a friend..
Yes she was using you as a emotional outlet it seems and nothing more yikes RIP stay safe~
I WASN'T my best self around him because i was so nervous. I think i said some wrong things. I thought for sure it e would meet again and id be more relaxed and my better self but that opportunity never came. Its over. Torture.
A good thing is life is always best things are free of charge.
I see why pple settle now
I’ve never been able to let go of any of the girls that rejected me, even if I only knew them as an acquaintance. If I develop romantic interest in them, I can’t drop that. I still miss my first love from when I was 14 years old, even though she never reciprocated romantic interest. Every single girl I’ve gotten a crush on still has a piece of my heart to this day. I hold onto the hope that one of them will change their mind one day, it’s turned me into a creep. I stalk their socials, hoping for a sign that they want me. I know this will only cause pain but I don’t see myself ever getting closer than this to an attractive woman. Does anyone have any advice on how to correct this behavior/thought process?
First of go no contact. Stop stalking their pages. Dont feed the beast. Put that energy into making yourself more attractive. I am not totally healed either after 1.5 years but I am going thru motions of moving on. I urge you to do the same.
You're literally me but the male version
I wish I could help with some advice but I need some myself