Should I COMPROMISE in Relationships?: Part 1: BK Shivani at Silicon Valley, Milpitas (English)

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    BK Shivani addresses how most people feel they compromise, adjust and sacrifice in relationships, yet family isn’t pleased. When we choose to do something for others, it is only because their happiness matters to us or for the relationship. Effectively we do it for ourselves. Let us do everything only after understanding that we are doing it for OUR happiness, not theirs.
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Komentáře • 517

  • @yogitajoshi
    @yogitajoshi Před 5 lety +750

    Rev. Sis holy soul Shivani ji... 10 yrs ago...I was in deep depression... I never visited a psychiatrist ... I watched and followed ur self Management videos as if word of God... Today I am the happiest one only due to your divine guidance... My Pranam at your holy feet... Lots of love and gratitude...❤

    • @dharmendarmanti1762
      @dharmendarmanti1762 Před 5 lety +10

      Yogita Joshi what have you done? Tell us more..that would be helpful..

    • @prabalsinghpnawar404
      @prabalsinghpnawar404 Před 5 lety +6

      Shivani didi is god pharista

    • @mahtazdin
      @mahtazdin Před 5 lety +3

      Good job!!:)

    • @celinetan8532
      @celinetan8532 Před 4 lety +12

      I almost plan a visit to psychologist, But i hold the plan after watch your video again and again.... I find peace from your every word....

    • @ashokwartak8421
      @ashokwartak8421 Před 4 lety +2

      YOGITA JOSHI ii

  • @madhusmitasenapati6791
    @madhusmitasenapati6791 Před 5 lety +433

    when tears roll down
    I search for your videos
    and yes every time these videos make me feel peace.
    thank you for making me to learn something Everytime and making me realize that only I can save everything.

  • @babitajain9444
    @babitajain9444 Před 3 lety +34

    U have changed my life Have transformed myself from a victim to a master of my mind Your words are magical

  • @hoor786
    @hoor786 Před 4 lety +204

    I wish this knowledge can be incorporated in our school lessons as a subject called Spirituality

  • @Sulbee
    @Sulbee Před 4 lety +71

    She's the mom we all needed

    • @rehanasarker
      @rehanasarker Před 3 lety +3

      Sorry i don't want to change my mom whatever she is.

    • @saiy4650
      @saiy4650 Před 3 lety +4

      Very true… her voice and words are soothing to the heart. It relieves emotional tension

    • @avanisagar6408
      @avanisagar6408 Před 2 lety +1

      She inspires us to become a parent our child needs🙂

  • @reemas8128
    @reemas8128 Před 5 lety +105

    She genuinely have an amazing words to resolve anything against anyone..
    I don't know what magic she has that makes everything appears so clear and easy..
    I seriously RESPECT you from bottom of my heart.. Amazing words.. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @84sahi
      @84sahi Před 4 lety +3

      Reema S I know right . She is amazing gift from god himself

    • @BharatPatel-or4on
      @BharatPatel-or4on Před 2 lety +1

      B. K. Shivani touches my mind, heart... Gives me extra strength to lead life happily, her speeches are quiet addictive, I listen n put into practice in life.... AMAZING... May God give bless her

    • @kajalpriya8467
      @kajalpriya8467 Před 2 lety

      Same condition with me.... Whenever i getting feel alone and something hurts then i searched these videos... And realy got peace 😇😇 thank uhh for making to have change mind

    • @kapadokija
      @kapadokija Před rokem +1

      Its a frequency😊

  • @breakthroughmoment1647
    @breakthroughmoment1647 Před 5 lety +71

    Rare is the person who can just be who they are without pretentious airs or feeling like they have to be a certain way in the eyes of others. We are like chameleons morphing and adapting to the commands of others. I have been in social settings where I didn't feel comfortable because of the image the members of the group had of me to be smiling, pleasing and agreeable all the time. I stopped going there because I felt like I was being fake. What I've noticed is the moment you change they think you are arrogant because you are no longer dancing to their music. Joseph Campbell said: "The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are." We've turned into people pleasers and doormats.

  • @swetanevatia4602
    @swetanevatia4602 Před 2 lety +14

    After hearing the whole of this , i am so glad that i have lived this way for so many years. Just got an affirmation that I'm normal and not otherwise. Finding joy in knowing that I am in the right direction

  • @rajvee14
    @rajvee14 Před 3 lety +40

    I understood that everything I did for the important person in my life was for myself, for peace and harmony of the relationship. Though I made all the efforts but even expecting from the other person was getting me under pressure. Now, I am feeling way lighter. Thank you so much ❦

    • @vidyaprasad2876
      @vidyaprasad2876 Před rokem

      How wisdom ful soul u r to think in right prospective god bless you always with happiness and wealth and good health 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @him9859
    @him9859 Před 5 lety +18

    Behaviour and thoughts has to go together....any friction will reveal what the person actually is ... practice to sync the behaviour and thoughts.

  • @prachiagarwal3853
    @prachiagarwal3853 Před 4 lety +10

    Sometimes situations get so complicated that both the parties feel the pain. But none of them wants to compromise and accept each other's mistakes. When one person doesn't want to be the burden on other and tries to do things by his own..unfortunately other thinks that he doesnt respect n love him.

  • @sinasydney5220
    @sinasydney5220 Před 5 lety +23

    Thank You Sister Shivani... wonderfull as always... I count downs the days till you are with us in Sydney.. with love & blessings..
    Om Shanti ✨🌺

  • @NirmalRamdeehul
    @NirmalRamdeehul Před 5 lety +28

    I wish somebody would have teach me these in my childhood. I want to thank you didi for the beautiful message. Bhagwan apko hamesha khush rakhe..

  • @anitapaul3094
    @anitapaul3094 Před 2 lety +5

    Dear sis, ur videos soothes my soul. When my past memories triggers me, I immediately search for ur videos. Thank you for being such a divine soul.

  • @uma8966
    @uma8966 Před 5 lety +3

    I truly enjoying listening to her. So much wisdom.

  • @rravi1045
    @rravi1045 Před 8 měsíci

    After a few minutes of general comments/questions, Sister Shivani gets to the crux of the problem using the event and the audience themselves as an example!! Simply brilliant!!!

  • @sukh941
    @sukh941 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Back then I was a kid and my mother used to listen her , I never liked her cause I never understood her.But right now she is the only one who soothes my chaotic soul. Thank you so much. Om shaanti❤

  • @anilsharma-bq1ei
    @anilsharma-bq1ei Před 5 lety +9

    Thanks. Good listening, uncontrollable things made controllable.

  • @ruchikatikyani897
    @ruchikatikyani897 Před rokem +1

    Everytime I'm in pain, she come and just takes away all my pain. She is a true saviour. You are answer to all my questions. After listening you mind becomes so clear

  • @rincyjoseph4396
    @rincyjoseph4396 Před 3 lety +4

    Sis. Shivani...u r an amazing person....touched my heart and helped me to transform my heart... I really want to thank u for making me a peaceful human ..... May God bless u and use u to change the thoughts of many...

  • @shivansh..301
    @shivansh..301 Před 5 lety +35

    she is really god's gift to us. I always get my answers in her speech what I am searching in my inner tunes. so motivational and practical examples of our leaving lives.

  • @basashanker1965
    @basashanker1965 Před 5 lety +3

    This is the answer to all problems in life.

  • @dwagh4286
    @dwagh4286 Před 5 lety +14

    I got my propar relationship...beacause think only positive every time I'm peace...nd love u always my love cause u feel me so much.....

  • @simiremubalamaofeimu8166
    @simiremubalamaofeimu8166 Před 3 lety +6

    So much wisdom and thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us you are a blessing
    Love and light to you Xxx

  • @ubabita
    @ubabita Před 5 lety +15

    you are my God!!whenevr i face such situations i sit and listen !you can only give me strenght and positivity instantly!

    • @sunitadias6080
      @sunitadias6080 Před 3 lety +1

      Bk Shivani said... Don't treat any one like God. God is God .. we are all souls. Once we treat someone as God...it's a hindrance to meet God n we will.never meet Him.

    • @pa2359
      @pa2359 Před 3 lety

      God's creature not God. This is nothing but size of an atom

  • @eclipzclan9418
    @eclipzclan9418 Před 3 lety +2

    Love your speech always give me peace of mind thank you so much teaching us the right decisions in life ❤

  • @smitamaskare4593
    @smitamaskare4593 Před 3 lety +3

    You are a great source of inspiration for me.thanks Shivani di . whenever I find myself in adverse situation your words always guide me,make my mind peaceful and the things become clear. Thankyou so much.

  • @Nikita-gd4iy
    @Nikita-gd4iy Před 5 lety +6

    Thank you Shivani Didi for your wonderful guidance. I believe that I got connected to you because I was going through lot of stress in my life and didn't had anyone who would understand my pain and guide me ... So I look upon you as my elder Didi always there to help me in every situation of my life. Your magical words just take off all the worries and today I am a much better person than I ever was... I have learnt to self introspect in every situation. Thank you Didi 🙏

  • @shalinidesale6002
    @shalinidesale6002 Před 3 lety +1

    I am so happy with Bzl shuvani didi. She is my strength. She is saying every word for good work done by me.

  • @rushabhvora3549
    @rushabhvora3549 Před 3 lety +2

    Shivanididi is really a great inspiration. Her inspiration has changed my life style. She is really very sweet divine soul.

  • @shivshakti2266
    @shivshakti2266 Před 5 lety +7

    Om shanti sister Shivani.
    This video is a bk hit video.😃

  • @SapnaSehijpal
    @SapnaSehijpal Před 2 lety

    She is a true blessing to this world and humans in need

  • @garimasingh4586
    @garimasingh4586 Před 5 lety +18

    Whenever i am in difficult situation ...i connect to u..through my thoughts...life is beautiful being with u every sec...u r an angel...u r always in my heart..om shanti shivani didi😊😘😘😘

  • @samilarungapamestry6466
    @samilarungapamestry6466 Před 5 lety +3

    Om shanti..thank u sister for being my inspiration..

  • @nasimaakter1103
    @nasimaakter1103 Před 2 lety +3

    I always listen ur videos. It gives much peace and happiness.

  • @sidharthasatapathy3491

    Sister Shivani ji 🙏🏻 Is so blessed, and she keeps us blessed always by her lectures, she is changing our lives, she is impacting our life by giving us the art of thinking right, no matter what. Jay Jagannath, Om Shanti.

  • @sureshmeena2406
    @sureshmeena2406 Před 4 lety

    ॐ शांति दीदी..आपने रिलेशनशिप को बहुत ही सरल तरीके से समझाया है, लोगो को सीखना चाहिए। पता नही क्यों लोग इतना दुखी हैं।

  • @alwaysreadytohelpb5027
    @alwaysreadytohelpb5027 Před 3 lety +6

    Choice is different thing. But should we compromise the health and lives of ourself and our children. Even if we radiate understanding and remain stable but what if I think a thing is good or harmful for my child and my wife think the other way. Compromising doesn't always mean petty things like making choices

  • @SurajitDas-ji2yl
    @SurajitDas-ji2yl Před 2 lety +4

    I am healing day by day...... Thank you so much didi. ❤

  • @nagajyotibhat3445
    @nagajyotibhat3445 Před 7 měsíci

    Dhanyavadagalu 🙏💐

  • @S_Nayana
    @S_Nayana Před 5 lety +2

    Beautiful msg sister 🙏, Om shanti

  • @RamjanAli-ix7kd
    @RamjanAli-ix7kd Před 2 lety +1

    Your guidance regards to our life absolutely right and helpful. Thanks sis.

  • @chansam8966
    @chansam8966 Před 5 lety +8

    Thank you sister Shivani for sharing your knowledge! Bless you!

  • @neetujain9268
    @neetujain9268 Před 5 lety +25

    Om Shanti 🙏 I always feel very peaceful n happy vn I listen to you sister,

  • @rashmikapoor3549
    @rashmikapoor3549 Před 4 lety +1

    Delves deep into emotions....

  • @bhuvaneswariramya3113
    @bhuvaneswariramya3113 Před 2 lety

    Thank you shivani didi . Om shanti.

  • @sandhyamannotra6627
    @sandhyamannotra6627 Před 5 lety +72

    I am a big fan of sister shivani. She is very sweet. She is a great inspiration with sweet sweet voice.

    • @ashishgemologist
      @ashishgemologist Před 5 lety +1

      Sandhya Mannotra yes u r right....I'm also fan

    • @hansadalal3708
      @hansadalal3708 Před 5 lety

      Sandhya Mannotra

    • @ambecappmanikam3351
      @ambecappmanikam3351 Před 5 lety

      Couldn't agree more with you, Sis. Om Shanti.

    • @nidhibhatt1773
      @nidhibhatt1773 Před 3 lety

      @@hansadalal3708 qqqàq

    • @sunitadias6080
      @sunitadias6080 Před 3 lety +1

      Instead of being fans...we should implement her talks. I'm sure she doesn't want fans... Fans is not a nice word for a person like her...feels like some kind of materialistic word

  • @arunarajeev2751
    @arunarajeev2751 Před 3 lety +18

    Whenever I am undergoing stressful times,I connect with you and it gives me a lot of relief. But how can something work in a relationship if it is not happening from the spouse.

    • @bekind4137
      @bekind4137 Před 2 lety +1

      True … my inlaws are so manipulative… even my husband…

  • @maheshwari122
    @maheshwari122 Před 2 lety

    Wenever am in pain r sad I listen to shivani didi n follow her vedios n feel very light heart thank u so much n om shanthi.

  • @lalithahanumanthu2427
    @lalithahanumanthu2427 Před 5 lety +2

    Profound insight di. Om shanti.

  • @neharana3252
    @neharana3252 Před 4 lety +1

    She is A pure soul😇😇

  • @bankaiknoyak6539
    @bankaiknoyak6539 Před rokem

    Shifting the relationship simplicity into a little complicated one this touch my heart ...I need to twist that back thankyou for ur message maa.♥️

  • @ketkismart4946
    @ketkismart4946 Před 2 lety

    Om Shanti. Thank you very much. Shivaniji.very nicely explained.🙏🙏🙏

  • @guruneel8343
    @guruneel8343 Před 5 lety

    Om Shanti... Thank you for this video

  • @sherbanomhussain3371
    @sherbanomhussain3371 Před 5 lety +6

    Be let people be who they are ,it's a beautiful sentence of this speech 👌

  • @Great-Bharat-1
    @Great-Bharat-1 Před 5 lety +7

    Pl sis make 1 video on ego and self centred in family .
    I now down in your feet sis .
    Lots of love sis

  • @sahelisengupta7220
    @sahelisengupta7220 Před 3 lety +2

    Can't thank you enough Sister Shivani ❤️

  • @nibeditas.parida5269
    @nibeditas.parida5269 Před 2 lety

    Beautifully explained 🙏🙏

  • @karunasharma4681
    @karunasharma4681 Před 2 lety

    A big fan of her voice and practical examples

  • @katlehomotale7050
    @katlehomotale7050 Před 4 lety +15

    Dimakatso Motale
    I'm 65 years old. Grudgedges I've been holding for decades I'm releasing because of your vidios and a room is open for better things

    • @thembisaodendaal
      @thembisaodendaal Před 3 lety +1

      I'm so excited that a person you age is still open to learn new ways of life.Theres hope for us all...good luck on your journey

  • @savitrigoswami4541
    @savitrigoswami4541 Před 5 lety +2

    Very good thankyou sister
    Om shanti

  • @SaiSeshadrischoolRampakhana

    The video guides, life travel...
    All are Golden words...... 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @DEARTETE
    @DEARTETE Před 2 lety

    Oh my word.i love u.
    Thank u for the teachings

  • @dhananjayshende4919
    @dhananjayshende4919 Před 2 lety

    GREAT GUIDENCE SHIVANI DIDI 🙏 Path of Happiness..... Whatever I have done so far is only for myself ...OM SHANTI

  • @mifortalezaesmife3715
    @mifortalezaesmife3715 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for your videos I am sharing the information is so good 😊 👍Blessings

  • @jesskaur9676
    @jesskaur9676 Před 5 lety

    Thanks Di , Om shanti

  • @manpreetsharma2217
    @manpreetsharma2217 Před 4 lety +3

    Shavini didi is very inspried to me .she is very sweet voice .l am big fan of you .🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ratneshvishwakarma1301

    Thankyou so match for this video.

  • @sonisherpa2139
    @sonisherpa2139 Před 3 lety +1

    blessed to watch your videos in lockdown.
    Love from Nepal

  • @breathoflove9740
    @breathoflove9740 Před 4 lety +6

    Great speech. My mentor. Thank you Sister Shivani for beautiful speeches. Om Shanti ❤

  • @ashishshah5667
    @ashishshah5667 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much dear divine didi ji 🙏🙌💐❤️
    Please bless me and all

  • @MeenaSharma-dd8or
    @MeenaSharma-dd8or Před 2 lety +1

    No word to say thanks to her. Only want to express that her guidance has changed my life and my thinking completely. I try my best to keep happy my all relationship and I don't know if they are happy or not with me because to be happy or not it's only their choice. I can just make feel them happy. But to be happy or not, This is only up to them. But I feel myself the happiest person in the world. Because of her, I have found GOD.

  • @amardhillone08
    @amardhillone08 Před 2 lety

    Very nice explanation
    Stay blessed 😘 🙌

  • @HemNursingBrainery
    @HemNursingBrainery Před 5 lety +10

    U are such a great to explain and I can now fix it into my equation . Blessed to have people in our holy country INDIA

  • @geetagiananey231
    @geetagiananey231 Před 2 lety

    Lots of love and gratitude 🙏

  • @nuzhatkhan3530
    @nuzhatkhan3530 Před 2 lety

    I am happy and healthy and peaceful soul .Thank you God .thank you so much .

  • @kempegowdah7636
    @kempegowdah7636 Před 5 lety +1

    Om shanthi and thank you sister

  • @copywritersblock
    @copywritersblock Před 7 měsíci

    I wish there were subtitles for the Hindi parts.

  • @poorvisingh232
    @poorvisingh232 Před 2 lety +1

    17:54 Just wow, loved the way this was taken and I got my answer. Thankyou.

  • @nuzhatkhan3530
    @nuzhatkhan3530 Před 2 lety +10

    My son Mubarak is normal .He can speak and understand. He can do anything. He can do everything .He is totally fine and fit .Thank God .Thank you so much shukriya shukriya shukriya .

    • @vidyaprasad2876
      @vidyaprasad2876 Před rokem +1

      Yours child is ablessed soul and always be fit nd fine by meethe baba blessings

    • @user-ke3qs2pn4i
      @user-ke3qs2pn4i Před měsícem

      May god bless him ❤️

  • @nuzhatkhan3530
    @nuzhatkhan3530 Před 2 lety +1

    My husband is healthy and happy and peaceful soul .He is totally fine and fit .Thank you God .thank you so much . .

  • @ainulhasan9523
    @ainulhasan9523 Před 2 lety

    Nicely presented. Thanks

  • @rupalishah9811
    @rupalishah9811 Před 5 lety +4

    sister u made me to be on my decision.thanks a lot for ur advice

  • @rajeshwaridash2811
    @rajeshwaridash2811 Před 3 lety +1

    My morning srts wid Ur voice meditation session Sister , Ur beautiful thought sessions Always puts me on track ,whenever i do anything wrg, I m realising quickly otherwise phele to lagta tha mene to kuch galat kiya hi nahi n abb jab pata lag jata hai kaha galti ki to usi wakt sudhar bhi leti hun...u r lyk a angel for me Sister ...May God gives u ...N thank You Sister ...Kai sare logo ki zindagi ko behtar banane k liye ...Omm Shanti 🙏😇

  • @SSD80
    @SSD80 Před rokem +2

    I really thank you ...Today I live happily because of you only.I was in depression from last 7 years.Took depression tablets. but now today I'm very Happy due to you.I daily listen you.

    • @shirinlakhani6432
      @shirinlakhani6432 Před rokem

      How u stopped tablets? I tried but failed

    • @ruksarharoon7278
      @ruksarharoon7278 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@shirinlakhani6432 it's not easy but POSSIBLE I was also on medication but stopped within three months and watched shivaniz videos and others like sandeep maheshwari and did a lot of self work and I managed to stop them

  • @cricketnme101
    @cricketnme101 Před 4 měsíci

    Am blessed cos my parents believe in accepting people as they are! Thats been my upbringing

  • @shilpashah2021
    @shilpashah2021 Před 2 lety

    SUPERB EXPLANATION Sister 🙏🙏

  • @rinamaya8858
    @rinamaya8858 Před 3 lety +3

    You have create a big shift within us, thank you 🙏

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  • @ankitapiplani8266
    @ankitapiplani8266 Před 7 měsíci

    Om shanti, thank you

  • @FatimaKhan-fi5xs
    @FatimaKhan-fi5xs Před 4 lety +1

    I like all ur videos. It gives good advices.

  • @reenachauhan7239
    @reenachauhan7239 Před 5 lety +7

    Mam u r realy an angel fo me..❤️u

  • @leenabhatia8305
    @leenabhatia8305 Před 8 měsíci

    MY GURU MY TEACHER 💗. HAPPY TEACHERS DAY MA😊

  • @gyanadhishdash2274
    @gyanadhishdash2274 Před 3 lety +2

    Always remember that home is the greatest heaven

  • @hemanthjha3080
    @hemanthjha3080 Před rokem

    Nature of the authoritarian which starts from family then society school, job....is to be in control of....
    If one likes to be of free will the one has to leave or compromise.

  • @tinaaaravvlog3620
    @tinaaaravvlog3620 Před 9 měsíci

    Om Shanti 🙏

  • @rashmiruchi7414
    @rashmiruchi7414 Před 5 lety +5

    Wow I just luv to listen ur single word
    Thanx to gve us such a thoughts

  • @PrasoLife
    @PrasoLife Před 5 lety

    Thank you sister Shivani🙏

  • @poemong3906
    @poemong3906 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you God for everything I managed to found a good and kind teacher who can guided me to more higher spiritual exercises ❤🙏

  • @rajarshimahapatra44
    @rajarshimahapatra44 Před 2 lety

    Lets not be in the ignorance of reality.. if one's betterhalf is doing something wrong and its identified, one cannot simply have the approach of "let everything go on its own". Ergo to be free from all these the very soul concept of life thst is"who am i" has to be deeply understood. And madam, u keep continue this .. you are doing the life of many good.

  • @anitasamantaray7583
    @anitasamantaray7583 Před 2 lety

    In my tough situation when i open CZcams, the right vdo which is appropriate for that situation ,shown in home page.... After viewing then all troubles disappear and miracle happens... problems solve out through ur magical words...