How To ACCEPT PEOPLE?: Part 2: BK Shivani at Silicon Valley, Milpitas (English)

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    Whether it is situation or people, we either accept or reject them, states BK Shivani. Rejection means our mind questions people's sanskars and expects them to change. Acceptance comes with knowledge that each soul has carried sanskars and karmic accounts on their journey of many births. Accepting empowers people and increases the probability of them implementing our advice.
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  • @kgala1179
    @kgala1179 Před 4 lety +267

    Sister Shivani what you have said in the video, I actually tried..!! Of course it was difficult in the beginning to just let the other person keep doing what they do & not react or have a negative feeling about it..!! Just keep sending acceptance and not rejection for their behaviour..!! What also helped is knowing and understanding that they behave as per their understanding and we look at it from our point of view and when we keep reacting or rejecting them it actually worsens but when you don't react and just send acceptance. I didn't have to go to the person and tell them that I accept you or explain to them anything just sent acceptance in my thoughts and it actually worked for me..!! Especially in these distressing times of pandemic when you have no choice but to stay under the same roof with them..!! Thank you Sister Shivani..!! You're and inspiration to me..!!! Thank you ❤️

    • @swatiyadav7384
      @swatiyadav7384 Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks dear for sharing God bless you

    • @sudeshnapadhi7710
      @sudeshnapadhi7710 Před 3 lety +1

      Loo

    • @livanshi5508
      @livanshi5508 Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you for sharing your experience of change with changed behavior and I'm trying to do the same. Thank you for making me have faith . 🙏

    • @ramaraomanda1905
      @ramaraomanda1905 Před 2 lety

      Is it any changes you got to see after doing this

    • @subramaniamiyer8362
      @subramaniamiyer8362 Před 2 lety

      Dear sri gala, in sanskrit,there is two in word, "sweekar so upkaar"; if you accept what you are,as you are now perceive you are an army officer ,lost leg in shooting, accept the reality as of now,you do,perceive that lifestyle in changing scenario,, you are not have same body as a child,youth, adults etc 🙏🔥

  • @parthpatel3713
    @parthpatel3713 Před 2 lety +28

    Acceptance, Appreciation and Acknowledgement need of every soul.

  • @nidhisingh2490
    @nidhisingh2490 Před 3 lety +18

    I only radiate pure vibration,love,peace,purity,power, happiness,compassion to every soul on planet.

  • @AJDC0106
    @AJDC0106 Před rokem +13

    Just this morning , a customer of my mom is yellig at her because of a misunderstanding. I usually got angry at anyone who raise their voice at my parents or family but at that moment I remember this teaching. I remember that I and my mother are a powerful being and we know that the person who is yelling feels unwell and we need to bless her inspite of the action. I immediately applied what I've learend from this teaching and it feels amazing. I am vibrating on a higher state and I know that if I continue doing this I will help my mom and that person to feel good. Thank you Sis. Shivani for sharing this wonderful teaching to us💚

  • @varshabodhi5450
    @varshabodhi5450 Před rokem +28

    1. Accept who they are
    2. Don't talk about them to others
    3. Radiate your love, respect for them
    Just do it and see the result

    • @sanhitakelkar3691
      @sanhitakelkar3691 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Acceptance of a person, which is one sided, doesn't always work in relationships. If the other person comes in contact with u for short period of time it's fine. It takes two people to understand, accept, and love each other for any relationship to succeed. Not even parents will accept the child who doesn't love, respect, and understand. Relationships have to be mutual. One sided acceptance, love and respect in any long term relationship is destructive, sabotaging to the person who is adjusting. For the person who is toxic, and narcissistic he or she will be more than happy since the toxic person gets green signal to continue the toxic behaviour

    • @lovingthisagain
      @lovingthisagain Před 7 měsíci

      Thank you for saying this. I was thinking similar. I think Sister speaks to those who are well intended, but it would be really helpful at some point for her to teach people how to draw a line and identify people and situations to walk away from that will continously hurt, despite all sincere effort and good thoughts. @@sanhitakelkar3691

  • @nidhisingh2490
    @nidhisingh2490 Před 3 lety +17

    You are everhapppy,peaceful,powerful, lovely,healthy,wealthy soul with whom I seek forgiveness from my heart for wht I done in any previous birth & I forgive you for all u do to me. I give u only pure vibration,love,peace,power only blessing, blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing.

  • @rajatm_yt
    @rajatm_yt Před rokem +7

    1. Acceptance by not questioning their sanskaar
    2. Not talking about it to others otherwise the sanskaar will become stronger
    3. Radiate what you want them to become in order to change their sanskaar

  • @PropertymommyZA
    @PropertymommyZA Před 2 lety +28

    Just exactly what i needed to hear...this morning when i was taking a shower as i was ask the universe: " what would it take for me to have a good relationship with my husband" and then this popped up. i am soo grateful for this, i am hoping the universe will give me strength to always remember this session everyday. thank you soo much~!❤

  • @xyzzz2003
    @xyzzz2003 Před 2 lety +29

    Ma'am you are amazing... seriously that's wisdom and intelligence...
    moral of the story 90% of world problem can be solved with "acceptance and love"💗

  • @nidhisingh2490
    @nidhisingh2490 Před 3 lety +8

    I radiateeee
    every soul on planet only a pure vibration,love,peace,power, blessing,purity,only blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing & blessing.

  • @sruthir9110
    @sruthir9110 Před 5 lety +70

    What an effective way of counseling done by this great soul...can for sure transform people!!! thank you very much!!!

  • @shantarao7563
    @shantarao7563 Před 2 lety +11

    I need to do this acceptance attitude transformation right now. And I am committed to changing my thoughts with mindful awareness. Thank you Sister Shivani ji for this timely wisdom with such compassion!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ubseggie
    @ubseggie Před 2 lety +6

    I was having hard time to accept my friend. Her way of being was contracting inside, I felt that I can not be fully myself, she felt tough, walled up. But listening this video helped me to understand how I was rejecting her internally, rejecting who she is, it is her, I don't have to label this person, I love and accept her. She is a soul that living long time . I will continue to practice this. Thank you so much for enlightening messages

  • @sarangnagbhidkar4956
    @sarangnagbhidkar4956 Před rokem +2

    I can see 1 great pure soul is sitting on the stage and guiding other souls. Shivani di, you are an angel ♥️

  • @runneryg
    @runneryg Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you, Sister Shivani, for helping me to see the light with my daughter, who is coming home from university. Who doesn't what to come and see me this Christmas but will go to her mum's house to visit her and not feel like rejecting her! for it. Are sun scars don't match. I will send her love and ask God. Om Shanti.

    • @swatiyadav7384
      @swatiyadav7384 Před 3 lety

      God bless You n shower You with all the happiness

    • @nelehlang1022
      @nelehlang1022 Před 3 lety +1

      Someday your daughter will come to you as well👍

  • @olakunleatoki15
    @olakunleatoki15 Před 3 lety +19

    My Understanding of The Grail Message makes it easy for me to understand every thing you are saying.
    May The Almighty bless you in your efforts at making human beings better..

  • @cheerstohealth6132
    @cheerstohealth6132 Před 3 lety +10

    Priceless teachings by sister Shivani ....changing so many lives

  • @techytubeyt
    @techytubeyt Před 3 lety +22

    What a positive vibe and positive energy you have... Really feeling so positive after watching your videos 😍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @jijibhatia6747
    @jijibhatia6747 Před 5 lety +6

    I attended this program,there was plan drop silence in hall. Every one was feeling your vibrations.
    Omshanti di

  • @carlosavila.291
    @carlosavila.291 Před 2 lety +10

    Thank u
    I am very lucky to have found this 🙏🌱

  • @statesman4800
    @statesman4800 Před 5 lety +55

    acceptance is freedom for both the people... when we don't accept one's nature and expecting them to change according to us means we are not allowing them to be the way they originally are, with FREEDOM... It means we are taking away the other person's independence to be themselves when they are with us...
    then who would like to stay in such a relationship?
    so we must accept... and true acceptance comes from RESPECT AND LOVE...

  • @aartih8280
    @aartih8280 Před 2 lety +4

    Have been listening to Sister's videos for quite long time thankfully I am able to practice and implement these learnings
    I accept everyone in my life as they are
    This has become my mantra for life and I am feeling happy and peaceful
    Thank you Sister

  • @tydtarot
    @tydtarot Před 5 lety +6

    Shivani Di you are really good. God bless you so that you keep encouraging this world to be more positive. Thank you for changing my life . You are my idol. I am 26 years old software engineer .

  • @colouredlioness2199
    @colouredlioness2199 Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you so much!!! Pls translate the English subtitles properly pls. It is not done... the Hindi sections aren't translated.
    I enjoy one episode as soon as I wake up. Great information and way of living. 🙏🏾

  • @FarahHalim
    @FarahHalim Před 2 lety +20

    It has been so difficult for me to accept my partner as we think and do things so differently. When you questioned can you do it, can you accept without questioning? I laughed. then you said, don't worry he will change... (10:33) and I was shocked you read me. The two talks have been so enlightening. They are a mind opener and also a reminder of things. Thank you for sharing this online.

    • @livanshi5508
      @livanshi5508 Před 2 lety +1

      Please do comment here when you see good changes as it'll help me to follow this with faith and give me answer to alot of really difficult situations
      Thank you🙏

    • @lovingthisagain
      @lovingthisagain Před 7 měsíci

      @FarahHalim, did you do this and did it work from 2 years ago?

    • @juveriaafreen14
      @juveriaafreen14 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@lovingthisagain
      koi kisi ke liye nahi badalta no body wil chang for you..people are heartless now a days..just accept how they are with out excepting any thing in reture just do ur best but dont expect he wil change..just change ur self and execpt ur life and partner as they are..

  • @juliacommisariat507
    @juliacommisariat507 Před 5 lety +21

    Very useful Sister Shivani the example of the flower made it so clear, it's amazing how you keep your material always fresh and engaging it's a joy to be a part of your classes. Thank you very much

  • @sulakshananagaonkar4283
    @sulakshananagaonkar4283 Před 5 lety +11

    Great Shivani Didi, You are a blessing to the World 🙏🙂

  • @readingsbycara
    @readingsbycara Před 3 lety +5

    *Sanskars* = (loosely translated) values or ethics
    ♥️

  • @tulippetal
    @tulippetal Před 2 lety +1

    People should be kind for each other not rude not lie not fraud each other

  • @pradeepsarmalkar6990
    @pradeepsarmalkar6990 Před 4 lety +12

    Lots of love and ❤️ gratitude to you Didi. You have thousands of blessings. 🙏🙏 Om SHANTI

  • @anushasr7716
    @anushasr7716 Před 4 lety +11

    I am blessed to hear her speech

  • @gayatarinaik9964
    @gayatarinaik9964 Před 2 lety +2

    Om Shanti 🌹🙏🌹 Thank You Dear Sister 🙏🌹🙏 I like to hear You always. After hearing You , became change in my life style, I m always talketive, less talking Now I became polite,

  • @kalpanabhattarai2923
    @kalpanabhattarai2923 Před 5 lety +7

    You are brilliant Shivani Didi. Om Shanti.

  • @srinivasanrengarajan3911
    @srinivasanrengarajan3911 Před 4 lety +1

    Sisters of Brahma Kumaris teach you how to live. They radiate positivity. Application of sanatana dharma made simple & beautiful. Thank you for representing such a peace loving organization. I am grateful

  • @sanhitakelkar3691
    @sanhitakelkar3691 Před 2 lety +4

    Im a doctor and l think a person s behavior is not only about the sanskar, what spiritual person always say. It's better to learn about psychology and human behavior related to it. If everyone and everything got corrected with love and positive thoughts, we would not see chaos, suffering and pandemic around us!

    • @jayalakshmiperera811
      @jayalakshmiperera811 Před 2 lety

      Of course, you mean more recent experience.

    • @gxt6827
      @gxt6827 Před 9 měsíci

      In spirituality, we never correct other people, we only make our lives easier while dealing with so called toxic people!!!! 😊

  • @breakthroughmoment1647
    @breakthroughmoment1647 Před 5 lety +7

    Beautiful, Sr. Shivani! Thank you so much.

  • @lightandmight1817
    @lightandmight1817 Před 4 lety +3

    Om Shanti!
    By accepting the Truth , it becomes easy to accept people !

  • @jitenmakhija7567
    @jitenmakhija7567 Před 10 měsíci

    Yes Didi. Accepting inside my mind, accepting in my thoughts - about people around me; it helps me to understand them. What a loving definition! How true definition of compassion, love and respect! These words reveal their meaning to me to some extent, now.

  • @vradha1728
    @vradha1728 Před 4 lety +2

    Namaskarams to BK Shivani mam🙏

  • @pramodgopalakrishna2731
    @pramodgopalakrishna2731 Před 2 lety +1

    Om shanti, thank you so much angel Didi sister Shivani ji, feel blessed

  • @tuesday9822
    @tuesday9822 Před 5 lety +32

    Instead of i love you , its better to think i accept you, bcs we dont comprehend love in the right sense

  • @manavxd7168
    @manavxd7168 Před 5 lety +11

    Om shanti sister..you know you are a gem for us you have changed my mindset love you so much i am coming out of major heartbreak your videos your knowledge are changing my life thankyou thankyou thankyou🌹🌹🙏

    • @runneryg
      @runneryg Před 3 lety +1

      Mine too.

    • @lifeisbeautiful3019
      @lifeisbeautiful3019 Před 3 lety

      Same here Bhai ! 😃
      I really feel now that life is btful u can understand that seeing my youtube channel name ( I changed it after becoming sister shivanis follower )😊

  • @remyamohan1602
    @remyamohan1602 Před 5 lety +8

    I love you Mom. This is awesome 😃

  • @madangangwar8533
    @madangangwar8533 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you madam ji for good motivational speech.

  • @bhawanapant7620
    @bhawanapant7620 Před 5 lety +6

    Didi, you are a divine soul.....transforming our lives....a new perspective towards life.....very positive approach. .thank you di for channelising our energy into a positive track ...

  • @Carolinejongphu
    @Carolinejongphu Před 4 lety +3

    So authentic ! Thanks Sister Shiv🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mynameisgp1
    @mynameisgp1 Před 3 lety +3

    Sister Shivani !! We would like to get more videos in English. Thank you very much!!

  • @srinivasj2428
    @srinivasj2428 Před rokem

    Sister shivani your speech is excellent and fantastic every word is clear and understanding I love you I love you ❤️🌟🌟👏🌹

  • @amanadhikari3575
    @amanadhikari3575 Před 5 lety +9

    Om Shanti sister🌹🌺 it feels so good to hear you!! Thank you🙏

  • @meghasa8416
    @meghasa8416 Před 11 měsíci

    Sister Shivani may God bless you. Thank you so much ❤

  • @angelicsingh1170
    @angelicsingh1170 Před 5 lety +6

    Perfect blend of love, peace and creating harmony in relationship..luv u di

  • @ballyBe_
    @ballyBe_ Před 8 měsíci

    Beautifully spoken. Such gentleness to your words. 🙏🏽

  • @pigeonlite
    @pigeonlite Před 5 lety +6

    So profound. Thank you

  • @harmitjutla103
    @harmitjutla103 Před 4 lety +2

    Wahaguru ji bless you with long life.

  • @prabhasinisahu3518
    @prabhasinisahu3518 Před 5 lety +10

    Om shanti🌸thanks sister.🌹

  • @foreverwithparamita
    @foreverwithparamita Před 2 lety +1

    Acceptance is love .Love is acceptance .❤️

  • @mythreeshagowda6535
    @mythreeshagowda6535 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sister Shivini for the knowledge shaved on the society. I am very pleased with the advice. Not only I will try practicing it, I will tell people who are receptive. 🙏🙏

  • @ritzrw
    @ritzrw Před 3 lety +1

    Thanku sister Shivani..u chaged my life

  • @sandhyakeskar4214
    @sandhyakeskar4214 Před 11 měsíci

    Didi you r simply greate..
    Your examples are very very nice and easly understood what you want to say..thanks didi..Om shanti

  • @farahnaz8885
    @farahnaz8885 Před 5 lety +12

    Om shanti
    Good evening 🌆 deedi,
    Feels real good to listen to you!
    🌷💐🌺🌼🌸🌷🌺❣️❣️❣️

  • @anitajulaniya1959
    @anitajulaniya1959 Před 3 lety +1

    How well simplified!

  • @kempegowdah7636
    @kempegowdah7636 Před 5 lety +2

    Om shanthi and thank you sister.

  • @anue84
    @anue84 Před rokem

    Powerful message. Thank you .

  • @S_Nayana
    @S_Nayana Před 5 lety +2

    Om shanti sister , thankyou very much 😊🙏

  • @conybio28
    @conybio28 Před 5 lety +2

    ACCEPTANCE is the way of LIFE.

  • @knowledgesphere2433
    @knowledgesphere2433 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you sister. I have not and cannot get a better way to live than this. Om Shanthi!!!

  • @samanthaneary1795
    @samanthaneary1795 Před 11 měsíci

    So True Well Done God Bless Sister Shivani

  • @saritarajwani4789
    @saritarajwani4789 Před 5 lety +2

    Om shanti sister Thankyou very much for your nice videos

  • @alixcardinaud9952
    @alixcardinaud9952 Před 5 lety +9

    Beautiful, very helpful. Thank you 💙

    • @singlaanil9028
      @singlaanil9028 Před 4 lety

      You. Should start from your. Self. Charity. Always start from. Home mend your self than. Pointing. Others be role models. For. Others

  • @shashisinghritu8942
    @shashisinghritu8942 Před 2 lety +1

    ॐ शान्ति 🙏🙏🙏

  • @paulkj8340
    @paulkj8340 Před rokem

    Thank you sister for your teachings

  • @ashishshah5667
    @ashishshah5667 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much divine didi ji 🙏💐❤️🙌

  • @seemadutta671
    @seemadutta671 Před 5 lety

    Thanks Didi for sharing great thoughts

  • @anjandas968
    @anjandas968 Před 2 lety +1

    Good evening🌙🙏🌹 om shanti

  • @wawanowa8775
    @wawanowa8775 Před 3 lety +2

    You are really change my mindset being more peace and calm inside so I'm ready to radiating love. Thanks🙏

  • @alkakindo
    @alkakindo Před 2 lety

    I can listen to her all day

  • @kamaladeviseeneevassen5070

    om shanti maa acceptance is the beautiful words to me n the worlds

  • @rajubaheti8246
    @rajubaheti8246 Před 3 lety +1

    Exallant Beautiful knowledge thankyou so much
    didi omshanti

  • @luckydesilva6733
    @luckydesilva6733 Před 5 lety

    Thank you sister. With love and respect .

  • @sudharathi7628
    @sudharathi7628 Před rokem

    ❤❤
    Very inspiring lectures Di 🙏🏻
    Each & every word 🥹

  • @jyothikodali9778
    @jyothikodali9778 Před 7 měsíci

    I truly have a problem with my husband. Truly your sayings are helpful. How can bear continuously abusing ( psychologically ) person. He’s not a flower , he’s a stone

  • @nonexistenty4152
    @nonexistenty4152 Před 4 lety +1

    Amazing video. It helped me so much :)

  • @soothingrelaxmusic7855

    SIR, I am going to join this series today.. i was already taking some examinations from my offline coaching but those r off topics and not in syllabus pattern, i was just waiting for this chance that u start a rank booster series so that i can join. Thanks for giving this opportunity to all the NEET aspirants.. because test bohot hain online mein, par genuine level ka paper kahi nhi milta, and i follow ur videos dedicatedly.
    THANK YOU FOR SUPPORTING.

  • @ningyoh3490
    @ningyoh3490 Před 2 lety

    This is the best opinion n outlook

  • @ThinkHatkee
    @ThinkHatkee Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you dii for your videos . 🤗

  • @oermilachan9312
    @oermilachan9312 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you sister

  • @user-ib4uj3hn6f
    @user-ib4uj3hn6f Před 3 měsíci

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @ushabailey4725
    @ushabailey4725 Před 2 lety

    I love the talks!! Maybe I should learn Hindi!! Thankyou Sister!!

  • @bkritikapuresoul8912
    @bkritikapuresoul8912 Před 3 lety +1

    Om shanti🙏🙏🙏🙏🥰

  • @teeI0ck
    @teeI0ck Před rokem

    this is a beautiful talk

  • @agnessphiri8093
    @agnessphiri8093 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @omshomestead
    @omshomestead Před 4 lety +2

    grateful I happened upon you, female leader

  • @kuljeetreallife
    @kuljeetreallife Před 5 lety +3

    Om shanti sister 🌹

  • @remorossi5487
    @remorossi5487 Před 2 lety

    Except your self first and except others after your inner world is your peace

  • @PriyaSingh-dc2qb
    @PriyaSingh-dc2qb Před rokem

    Thanku universe ❤️

  • @gayatarinaik9964
    @gayatarinaik9964 Před 2 lety +1

    Om Shanti 🌹🙏🌹 my anger also became less Thank You Dear Sister You became in life Always 🌷🥀🙇🌟🌹🙏 I am Thanks to You and Baba 💖 Dadiji 👣 Thanks 🙏🌹🕉️🌺 to Brahma kumari Saustha.

  • @gouravchauhan6650
    @gouravchauhan6650 Před 5 lety +1

    Om shanti Di

  • @kamalachettri1483
    @kamalachettri1483 Před 5 lety +1

    Happy New year Shivani Didi ji om Shanti

  • @lejijancy
    @lejijancy Před 5 lety +3

    Ma'am, I really appreciate your advise. In real life that cannot be practical. When you sit and talk you can talk all good things. I accept but that cannot be practised as we are living in a very bad world and the competition is very stiff and if we are very submissive then we are thrown out from everywhere.

    • @devisudhakar822
      @devisudhakar822 Před 4 lety

      But v dont get any thing back

    • @rimzb
      @rimzb Před 2 lety

      It's not about being submissive. As long as your thoughts and intentions are pure and strong, you will always have the upper hand. Also, your beliefs create your reality. You have already written down your reality - living in a bad world, competition everywhere, don't get what we want, cannot be practiced. If one incident made you think - I'm a good person but bad things happen to me. There you go, you have already decided. If you change the way you think and no matter how bad, you start seeing the blessing in everything, your outer world will start reflecting that. As within, so without!

    • @prernasoni4494
      @prernasoni4494 Před rokem

      ​@@rimzb so trueee

  • @sonij5466
    @sonij5466 Před 3 lety

    🙏🏻 om shanti 🙏🏻 Tysm sister