What Makes Or Breaks Relationships? Part 4: BK Shivani (English)

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    Relationships are built on the basis of how we think about each other, BK Shivani reveals. It matters more than our words and behavior. If there is a conflict, we will need to check and change our thoughts. Whenever we communicate, our thoughts, words and actions need to be in harmony. Being honest and encouraging honesty strengthens relationships.
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  • @MrHitessh
    @MrHitessh Před 2 lety +43

    'If something is not worth saying, it's not worth thinking'~Great words sister

  • @YogaKateYoga4YouthTT
    @YogaKateYoga4YouthTT Před 2 lety +98

    "We are not here to please the world, we are here to heal the world ..." a message worth spreading for sure ~ namaste

  • @bkpadmabkpadma7792
    @bkpadmabkpadma7792 Před 5 lety +199

    When I see your video
    My negative feelings disappeared
    ☺☺

  • @smaemarquez
    @smaemarquez Před 5 lety +242

    I feel that I am becoming a better person everyday with your help sister.

  • @sarphirii2324
    @sarphirii2324 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I started watching your video 3 year ago when i was totally broken, your videos heal me,taught me the right way to think, right way to live life, reunited me with myself. And till now you remain with me like God in every problem of mine, supporting me.
    You changed my life , i am grateful to having you in my life
    Thank you Thank you thank you so much 🙏🏻😊

  • @romagoyal9452
    @romagoyal9452 Před 4 lety +8

    Yess sister.
    We r not here to please the people, we r here to live a meaningful life nd to make strong relationship.

  • @mariab4905
    @mariab4905 Před 5 lety +237

    Thank you sister shiva I. Greetings from Canada. You have changed my life and my family and colleagues too are so inspired by you. Our lives are turning for the better and our stress levels are going down because of you. God bless you for all your efforts and wisdom.

    • @spritualsoul334
      @spritualsoul334 Před 5 lety +7

      Not because of her, because of you dear.
      I thik you didn't listen sister b k shivani carefully, she always says no one can please you and on one can hurt you.
      If u are happy or sad, these all emotions are because of you not others...🙏
      Sorry because my English is not good enough.

    • @anujshishodia5242
      @anujshishodia5242 Před 4 lety +3

      @@spritualsoul334 too good man... your english ....

    • @luhputuwitariathi1820
      @luhputuwitariathi1820 Před 3 lety

      @@spritualsoul334 i

    • @spritualsoul334
      @spritualsoul334 Před 3 lety +1

      @@anujshishodia5242 thanks bro. I still learning

    • @vedikasworld2377
      @vedikasworld2377 Před 2 lety

      @@spritualsoul334 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩😍🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩😀

  • @aimeesolognier2918
    @aimeesolognier2918 Před 2 lety +5

    OMG only recently I have been receiving these speeches and I have never heard someone more wise and enlightened, she is teaching me a lot! No spiritual book and I've had many have ever helped me like listening to her does

  • @sheetalmaini2302
    @sheetalmaini2302 Před 5 lety +24

    Thanku sister
    Very powerful line "we are not here to please the people"

  • @AlicyaSimmons
    @AlicyaSimmons Před 3 lety +12

    BK Shivani
    Thank you for evolving me along my path w less suffering and more tools to be elegant and gracious.

  • @lightandmight1817
    @lightandmight1817 Před 4 lety +31

    Om Shanti!
    Soul consciousness helps to build up the cordial relationships where as the body consciousness , to breakup !

  • @Shuvra_here
    @Shuvra_here Před rokem +13

    You are an angel to me! You help me to overcome everyday's obstacles! You are a "Farishta" to me. Thank you sister.❤️

  • @preetygirl1483
    @preetygirl1483 Před 3 lety +2

    I wish I give this video multiple likes❤️

  • @amooksharma4631
    @amooksharma4631 Před 4 lety +44

    Om Shanti.
    Applying this practically in daily life situations actually transform relations in a very beautiful way...

    • @nethravathib8796
      @nethravathib8796 Před 2 lety

      Come let us sit and resolve. Sister what u said regarding this sentence is perfectly true.Very well explained.Thank u very much sister.

    • @vaishnavi.29
      @vaishnavi.29 Před rokem

      Really?

  • @Spedewcation
    @Spedewcation Před 3 lety +4

    I have been saying 'No' and then I even add "Arre sach bola to bura kyun maan rahe, nahi aaungi to nahi aaungi, false hopes kyun dun?"
    And listening these words from you today made me realise how much energy I was saving. 🙏🙏 Thank you! ❤

  • @farhatr2399
    @farhatr2399 Před 4 lety +8

    Hi Maam am from Lahore pakistan.I have never seen a better speaker than you,Your words affect the heart,My all best wishes fr you

  • @lightandmight1817
    @lightandmight1817 Před 5 lety +9

    Omshanti !
    Soul consciousness builds up the True relationships whereas the body consciousness breaks it !

  • @madhuvijayasingh
    @madhuvijayasingh Před rokem +2

    Extraordinary representation of our daily ives in India. And genuine and sincere and workable solutions too! What an amazing grasp of human psychology.

  • @prachikori5908
    @prachikori5908 Před 3 lety +12

    Her videos are the answer to all my worries. Thank you for everything that I have been able to overcome with your help.❤️

  • @ghughumaal3284
    @ghughumaal3284 Před 4 lety +24

    Sacrifice and empathy makes a relationship...
    Ego and jealousy breaks a relationship
    Primarily

  • @kalpanaagarwal2165
    @kalpanaagarwal2165 Před 3 lety +5

    Sister Shivani u have change my life in a positive way👍U r angel. Thanku didi

  • @nikitashachatterjee8996
    @nikitashachatterjee8996 Před měsícem

    I feel so proud now sister, in my whole 30 years of life, i was always honest with myself, which I call 'being true to my own consciousness'.

  • @Asdf88889
    @Asdf88889 Před rokem +4

    Thank you sister
    Your knowledge and Baba's blessings and power helps me to create perfect harmony with everyone.
    I love a pure divine soul and accept her unconditionally. We are Baba's children

  • @ashishdhande1368
    @ashishdhande1368 Před 4 lety +1

    Those Who speak the truth.... People don't have courage to except the truth...... They always delivered the magical thought for society

  • @galespressos
    @galespressos Před 2 lety +2

    Your lectures always help, but this one I don’t know how to practically do. I’ve got to work on me. Thank you always.

  • @divinechild5857
    @divinechild5857 Před 2 lety +10

    My relationships are getting better. Thanks God and Shivani ji. I feel grateful to help people out with their family and relationship issues.

  • @riteshchoudhary9745
    @riteshchoudhary9745 Před rokem +2

    Your way of explaining to any topic is outstanding.......it's showing how much you connected to God .....your each bit of word have a great meaning 😀 ...changing and being a good human being day by day 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @oorjitasharma14
    @oorjitasharma14 Před rokem +1

    I cry while listening to you. You emit such positive energy that nothing feels impossible. Om shanti.

  • @sushanta7402
    @sushanta7402 Před 3 lety +16

    Watching her videos and introspecting myself is the best moment of my day. ❤

  • @luckysanjeev7575
    @luckysanjeev7575 Před 3 lety

    Sewa is our results.. Sewa is our nature.... Insaniyat ka hona hi jindgi hai good God bless you always ji

  • @invincible5939
    @invincible5939 Před 5 lety +10

    Very true! Relationships can nver be forced.

  • @rashmikap4373
    @rashmikap4373 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thankyou Sister..Your speech is Fabulous..Daily I use to hear your speech and trying to come out of Toxic relation ship..How much ever we are good and transform good energy still we donot get valued and highly defamed and put me down even still I try to make relation ship strong and bonded but nothing works if the other partner is highly controlling and gaslighting and the people of victim..Trying to get more energy by watching your video sister

  • @robertjohngeorge7671
    @robertjohngeorge7671 Před 2 lety +5

    🙏Thank you Ma'am for making a note on the value of Honesty 💐for Self & Others

  • @mathichandra2747
    @mathichandra2747 Před 3 lety +2

    Very true sister.
    At times of depression your words console the hrart.

  • @srijadutta2120
    @srijadutta2120 Před 3 lety +8

    Whenever I feel everything is clumsy I just listen to you hour after hours ❤

  • @meghasharma4945
    @meghasharma4945 Před 5 lety +10

    This is so exact and true... I'll definitely try to follow this... Till date I used to believe that we can end any misunderstanding by talking... But it's not always...

  • @Titali-nv8lw
    @Titali-nv8lw Před 3 lety +5

    Dear cutest Husband Pravin,
    Past is past..it's over..from today my every thought for you is extremely pure❤️❤️Past is past..it's over..our karmic account is over now..Now we have extremely beautiful karmic account❤️❤️❤️From today my every thought for you is extremely pure and extremely beautiful❤️❤️❤️❤️I love you sweetheart..❤️❤️Tula takleef dyaycha mi vichar pn nahi karu shakat..I am sending you that level of purity that you will feel pure,feel peace,feel happiness,will feel light❤️❤️❤️❤️I understand law of karma❤️❤️❤️❤️ShivBaba is with me to face the consequences ❤️❤️❤️Pata nahi maine tumhe kaunse dard diye he..I understand your pain❤️❤️I understand you..Shivbaba is protecting you

  • @antotaiji
    @antotaiji Před 4 lety +11

    Dear sister Shivani, you have been great inspiration toward a deep inner transformation.
    With love, respect and blessing to you.
    OM Shanti. 🙏❤️

  • @nikitaarora5859
    @nikitaarora5859 Před 2 lety +4

    Dear Shivani di, You have been a great inspiration to all of us , as I am following you from few days a back and I actually feel like some changes in my soul and mind 😊

  • @2COOLARYANA2
    @2COOLARYANA2 Před 2 lety +8

    Sister you have changed my thinking about LIFE.. you are an amazing woman
    Alot of love and light to you sister. May you keep inspiring and changing the world this way. You have changed me completely, I am able to connect with myself and God even deeper everyday. I feel Blessed 🙌 😇

  • @nishatyusuf6663
    @nishatyusuf6663 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you. I just want to say that the norm and society has a great influence over our lives. It's like we are mostly forced to do things even if we don't feel like

  • @elimz8690
    @elimz8690 Před 5 lety +27

    Really needed these words. Thank you sister💜

  • @modhurima2739
    @modhurima2739 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you very much sister! Thanks for the radiation of positive energy!

  • @preetgill6690
    @preetgill6690 Před 2 lety +1

    You are Angel soul Sister Shivani. You have change me. Thankq so much inspiring is. Love from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦. God bless all.

  • @haiderilyaz6592
    @haiderilyaz6592 Před 5 lety +91

    Iam Nighat from Quetta pakistan . Madam you are amazing. Thanks for all this knowledge of living true and happy, healthy life with wonderful relations.

    • @bkshivani
      @bkshivani  Před 5 lety +30

      Thank you very much for your pure wishes. Thank you to God for His knowledge and love, and for connecting us all together.

    • @priyankaghare345
      @priyankaghare345 Před 5 lety

      @@bkshivani
      Mins

    • @sureshnehra9570
      @sureshnehra9570 Před 5 lety

      O
      Pp

    • @dr.meghapatel6957
      @dr.meghapatel6957 Před 4 lety +2

      BKShivani your speech and ur thoughts and ur power of positivity keep us together... always inspired me lot 💖 u r my strength of life didi 🙏 thanks

    • @tsleducation1747
      @tsleducation1747 Před 4 lety

      priyanka ghare

  • @garvitasingh7260
    @garvitasingh7260 Před 5 lety +3

    We please each other by lieing to each other.
    Let's allow people to be honest. It is fine to tell the truth and not depleting our enery.
    Let them give time to take care of their state of mind.
    We aren't here to save the world but to heal the world.

  • @KristnaSaikiaBillFortuneEagle

    Haha I liked it how you put it , two people meet & talk ..Things go wrong . Instead create a new thought about that person & relation

  • @anniequreshi6776
    @anniequreshi6776 Před 3 lety +1

    Wht makes & breaks relationship ? Simple !! Family !! Most of the time !! Parents , family they can make u or they can break u completely ! They hv both the power !! & If u r nt into meditation or don't hv extreme will power then u r gone case if they break u .. ohh afterwards u can get into this meditation 😀then nobody can touch u !! Nt even ur family !!

  • @prasannachettri9521
    @prasannachettri9521 Před 5 lety +7

    The ad before the video is beautiful,heart warming

  • @monikaemmi
    @monikaemmi Před 5 lety +31

    👏I also used to say truth to people.....n they got hurt by my words......bt due to this my image becm bad in their minds.....
    Bt still m satisfied.... n no guilt ... coz i dnt lie to myself n them too.....

  • @hbestinternetwatch
    @hbestinternetwatch Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks for showing and giving all the strength to move on with life.

  • @neha995
    @neha995 Před rokem +2

    Wow just when I thought I have seen all the videos ...I find a new one with beautiful message and teaching us a beautiful way of life

  • @sanjayarora856
    @sanjayarora856 Před 6 lety +72

    Pour soul
    You are really God’’s angel

  • @FeelGoodWithin
    @FeelGoodWithin Před 4 lety +1

    Yeah it's more important to understand ur self than others.

  • @haritharatnal3062
    @haritharatnal3062 Před 2 lety

    This video I'm watching at morning 4 o clock after having clashes between me n my hubby. This is sudden shock for me. He wants to get seperated from me. That's really shocking for me. I love him so much even now. I don't know why am I not getting angry on him after all everything. I want him to be happy forever.

  • @PePaaBo
    @PePaaBo Před 4 lety +3

    I don't know how you do this but listening to you always brings my peace of mind. Thanks a lot for being there.

  • @MichelleAdongo
    @MichelleAdongo Před 5 lety +6

    Thank you so much sister Shivani, you've changed my life

  • @kajalshrivastava8513
    @kajalshrivastava8513 Před 5 lety +6

    I love it. I got too much knowledge by ur thoughts n it's really work in my life to stay positive every time.

  • @paschainjesus
    @paschainjesus Před 2 lety +1

    We are Not here to pleasing the world.
    but we are here to heal the world.

  • @vinodsingh-gr1xj
    @vinodsingh-gr1xj Před rokem

    Sister Shivani, your wise words and it is partical in our daily lives, I your talks of early September 2022 was marvelous I was was overwhelmed.thankyou.

  • @optimistic8836
    @optimistic8836 Před 4 lety +6

    It's good to hear from you because it will increase my positiveness and makes me feel better internally.👍

  • @varushar1
    @varushar1 Před 5 lety +2

    Bless you Sister Shivani. Om Shanthi 🕉️

  • @cameronpatrickscott
    @cameronpatrickscott Před 7 měsíci

    Absolutely spot on, thanks for the reminders, big love x

  • @pramodsingh4383
    @pramodsingh4383 Před 6 lety +1

    Your words sister shivani has been great inspiration and help in creating and develop very positive thought and powerful attitude.

  • @bihardarshan6365
    @bihardarshan6365 Před 5 lety +1

    Spectrum is so clear, GOD does teach us , you r! sister shivani , powerful God's instrument.

  • @nikkapoor4765
    @nikkapoor4765 Před 3 lety +3

    Sister ,we can be same inside out but cant ensure others are too.till that doesnt disturb us it is quite ok.
    Om Shanti

  • @vaishalibhat2439
    @vaishalibhat2439 Před 3 lety +1

    Love these words Didi... "Allow people to be honest with us"...Day by day by your speeches I am becoming more and more honest with my people

  • @user-ve3bz1oq9t
    @user-ve3bz1oq9t Před 23 dny

    Yes ! Honesty is the best policy.

  • @ritikarai5600
    @ritikarai5600 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you shivaniji for this wonderful Knowledge. I had come in association with Brahmakumaris organization through your talks on Astha channel and after around 5 yrs I discontinued my contact with BK organization because of some reasons but today my friend sent me this video and I liked it so much may b because here only practical issues are discussed and not all those unrealistic bk gyan imparted in bk centres.

  • @farhanazm
    @farhanazm Před 4 lety +1

    That’s very true, it’s much safer and easier to speak the truth then lying. My religion also teaches me to speak the truth and I try my best to follow that teaching.

  • @sarbjeetvirdee1754
    @sarbjeetvirdee1754 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you sister you gave me such understanding that I was able to change my mind set and made it so strong it won't fall again..
    Thankyou everything is blessed

  • @rocknroll6187
    @rocknroll6187 Před 4 lety +2

    Shivani Didi
    Your advice really help me whenever I am moving through a rough phase

  • @ornychowdhury4760
    @ornychowdhury4760 Před 4 lety +7

    You’re the most wonderful soul ✨💕

  • @tejusane1
    @tejusane1 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank U Baba. For the clarity

  • @zoyamadhavan3869
    @zoyamadhavan3869 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you sister Shivani

  • @arunadargopatil8052
    @arunadargopatil8052 Před 4 lety

    Thank you didi sooo much.. U are just amazing.. U r always changed my state of mind 🙏🙏🙏

  • @arpanvirk9743
    @arpanvirk9743 Před 5 lety +7

    This was really nice to hear And Keep up the good vibes Mam😊

  • @gulshanarafath6816
    @gulshanarafath6816 Před 2 lety

    Keep up the good work,that you have been there I really like how you put up with every line that you say.

  • @NAAVVlogs
    @NAAVVlogs Před 2 lety

    Thankyou for all your guidance and positivity 🙏

  • @mayuridivekar1734
    @mayuridivekar1734 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you so....much sister🙏🙏I m really thankful to you.

  • @samysgreatvinessgv3509
    @samysgreatvinessgv3509 Před 5 lety +6

    Very heart touching and truly effective words sister thanks a lot

  • @prashant199219
    @prashant199219 Před 3 lety +3

    Didi , this session was just Awesome! Thank you DIdi! Lots of happiness to you!

  • @sanamkhatun4554
    @sanamkhatun4554 Před 3 lety +1

    Just fantastic & really healing

  • @maryamlakhdir4617
    @maryamlakhdir4617 Před 3 lety +1

    I just love your advices. Really helpful ❣❣❣

  • @DDtwerty
    @DDtwerty Před 3 lety

    Thank you Sister 🙏 Need to hear this 🙏

  • @pallavibansode7360
    @pallavibansode7360 Před 4 lety +3

    heartly thankful to u mam u really change my life my thought my thinking thanku so much god bless you

  • @hasnaatasaddes
    @hasnaatasaddes Před 2 lety

    Maam u have changed my life... I love someone .. He is so nice. I did not understand him..he is so nice..after u i changed myself... Stay blessed

  • @bhagyashreenair2788
    @bhagyashreenair2788 Před 4 lety

    I always love listening to shivaniji
    It helps in day to day life in great way.Thank you so much

  • @dhrutikahalpati5270
    @dhrutikahalpati5270 Před 5 lety +2

    What a great speech love it thanks for this video

  • @shradhasaraogi8916
    @shradhasaraogi8916 Před 5 lety

    U r correct mam.. Even I also seen it whatever u told ... Completely agree with u...

  • @arzeen
    @arzeen Před 2 lety

    Love you 🧡❤️💚You are helping me and making my thoughts right 😃💜

  • @mefamlamo5358
    @mefamlamo5358 Před 4 lety

    Thank you ma'am. I really like and feel good to do it practically. 👍😊

  • @hanishmurpana158
    @hanishmurpana158 Před 5 lety +3

    Nice video trying to be truthful sometimes hurts the other person its all we've learnt so we tend not to tell everything about the past to someone whom we care and love to the core

  • @michellemendes5778
    @michellemendes5778 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank u for the video this healed me

  • @nehagupta7649
    @nehagupta7649 Před 5 lety +1

    Shivani Didi bhut achche se btati h , I do this , she is right it works.. om Shanti 🕉️

  • @nallasubrahmanyam9656
    @nallasubrahmanyam9656 Před 4 lety +2

    Excellent presentation about our lives.

  • @manishapat6732
    @manishapat6732 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you so much Didi 🙏 from bottom of heart.

  • @oats2224
    @oats2224 Před 5 lety

    What will we do by thinking about the past... absolute...👏👏👏

  • @lingarajkashyap9681
    @lingarajkashyap9681 Před 2 lety

    OM NAMAH SHIVAY. OBSERVED AND ENJOYED VOICES VISUALS OF BK SHIVANI AND HER DELIVERY OF SPEECHES ON WHAT MAKES OR BREAKS RELATIONSHIP IN VIDEO STATUS. ACCEPTANCE IN ALL FORMS AND RESPECTS MAKES RELATIONSHIP STRONGER AND REJECTION IN ALL FORMS AND RESPECTS BREAKS THE RELATIONSHIP SOONER. I AM AN INVINCIBLE SOUL. I AM A DOMINION OF PURE HOLISTIC AND ENLIGHTENED SOULS.

  • @leelajmj1357
    @leelajmj1357 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou Sister for healing me thru this solution