How Single Moms Can Raise Boys Into Exceptional Men- Dr. Alduan Tartt
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- čas přidán 25. 08. 2024
- Psychologist Dr. Alduan Tartt provides seven tips for how single moms can raise boys to be exceptional men regardless of circumstance. Single moms have been and will continue to raise boys into the world's most powerful men.
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Here in 2022 trying to find ways to properly raise my 7 year old son as a single mother. Some days are easier than others but I am being obedient to God and focusing more on finding ways to continue making my son an exceptional man! Thank you for this.
@Jasmine Ramsey I know exactly what you mean by saying this. How are things going for you?
I dont believe in making excuses for dads! Many of us mothers go through the same exact struggles and we don't abandon our children.
I agree whole heartedly!!!
I’m a single mom of 3 with zero involvement from my kids dads and you just changed my life with what you said, thank you 🙏🏼
I mentor a boy with a single mom and am looking for ways to inspire him.
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom! I am a single mother of 3 teen boys and a little girl, with no family to help. It is most definitely a challenge! I am so glad I found your channel. Thank you
You have blessed me with this 6 year old video. God bless this man in the Jesus' name- Amen!
I'm pregnant with a baby boy and trying to read up on how to raise a gentleman. Nice video
I AGREEEEEE WITH YOU
Amen! Give our sons a relationship with God. Raising my son to be a man of valor.
Just came across this video and wow! This confirms all the things my instincts have told me in the reading of my son. It's tough at times but he's a great kid. THANK YOU so much for this insight.
Right on time.... Needed the advice for my son, so Good... Thank u
Ericka Dillon right on time! I know that’s right!
Thank so much gotta change my attitude because sometimes my son behavior is really hard to deal with he's only 4
Dear Alduan, I want to thank you for your honest and real advice. I am sitting here in South Africa with a 14 year old son and you have now caused me to cry my eyes out :D Your advice is spot on and your heart felt goodness touched my heart today. Never stop believing and doing what you do. You inspired me. Sending you blessings all the way from Sunny South Africa
So much help 😩 I love this . I didn’t realize I lacked in so many areas . Today is the start of a new beginning !
THANK YOU!!!! I WAS RAISED ON THE SAME MORALES YOU TALKED ABOUT... NOW I HAVE 2 GRANDSONS WITH SORRY DADS MYSELF AND THE GRANDFATHER IS IN THEYER LIFE AND WE HEAR WHAT YOUR SAYINY EXACTLY 💯 😉....YOUR AWSOME!!!!!
I'm a Muslim mum with a husband so I'm not a single mum but needed to hear this so much good advice wish you could come to the uk and so talks
My son is realy proud that I am a doctor, we have vacations and a good life, but it also robs my time. I want to give him more time, but how?!
Amazing video! Thanks for all the info. I will implement immediately, as a single mother of three boys. I love how you've instructed to "parent from the overflow."
Thank you for this video, I'm having so much trouble with my son. I'm praying to god for his help and giving me strength.
As a single/widowed mother of a 15 year old son, this really gave me a lot of insight and tips on raising a son and not to baby him simply because he is my 'baby' and i'm a nurturer and 'helicopter' type mother. Thank you for sharing!
How are things going, miss?
Dr alduan, thanks for the tips. Although not going to college doesn't equate lack of success. We needed to hear these tips to be exemplary mothers, teachers and inspirers to our children
Single mom of 7 (3 boys)
You can do it Rita!
Single mom of three boys never married never had a long term healthy relationship . I'm poor I don't get child support. Nobody really understands my situation and I NEED videos like this thank you. Been isolated in an RV for two years due to poverty and covid. They never had a male role model ...ever. No family around us. I'm very confident and tell them we are what we are and I'm happy with that and there's nothing wrong with us but my 14 year old DOES think we are crappy compared to the world . the dad's have never been there but they met a few times but there is no bonds there and it's safer this way.
The math thing is what I told my kids that we accept that turnips cannot be tomatoes ...that doesn't mean a turnip is bad and it's not my fault I don't have relationships but still fought to have kids because I wanted them :) it's not the dad's don't want them they just aren't dads
Praying for your success and endurance needed to be a single parent. I was poor I had to believe that I need to do what I need to do to make my kids life better. Ex. Going to school, more than 1 job, career mentoring, personal mentoring, faith mentoring. See if there are free job resources career resources in your state. My state had funds for certificates in specific areas of study.
I wish you and your kids the best.
Thank you so much for this...As I continued the work in progress of bettering myself, unfortunately the collateral damage became my relationship with my STBXh/sons father...There's an order in place prohibiting contact on both sides for safety reasons so at this point all I can do is pray that he does what he needs to do to see his son...his reasons are exactly what you speak of...please keep doing what you're doing...I got so much encouragement from your video as I experienced feelings of sadness recently realizing that as more time goes by it seems that this will be my unintended situation...when you said that we CAN raise a man, it's all about our attitude, that was HUGE for me...with God first and support and self-care, I now feel prepared...May God bless you mightily...
Faith, I sincerely pray that all works out and that you find peace and resolution even through the storm!
This is the best 👌 thank you I have o many practical ways to help raise my son .. thank you
i already said...it starts with family...once they leave...its how they treat their family is how they will treat their own!
I’m a new mother to a beautiful baby boy. I’m off with a great start after watching this. Thank you
I appreciate your intro. I am a single Mom from divorce after 10 years of marriage. I never kept my sons from their father but he decided to leave the country in 6 weeks. Packed two suitcases and has been gone for a year. Hardly FaceTime our sons. He is contributing financially because I had to go through the courts unfortunately. People feel bad for me and act like my sons are going to fail at life. That is not an option for them in my eyes. I will do all I can to help them be healthy, Goal driven, loved, intelligent, teach them to make conscious decisions in life, experience being supported by their tribe and be a supporter of their tribe, know their presence in my life and our families life are valued. I communicate with them when I am in a space were I’m not fully emotionally available and I need a minute so that I won’t be short tempered with them… I call it personal time lol I’m starting my art business and they see me working and developing myself. Every day after school, we do homework together and read together. I have many discussions about life with them. I support anything they do. I brought my sons to college campus that we drive by many times and when we took a walk through the campus… and I talked about how the extra studying is to help him get to a higher level like college… it increased his desire to learn. It’s a hard job to be a single Mom but to see their happiness and how much they try… heaven on earth!
This video may have been posted 8 years ago but I just came across to it, and it’s the right time for me as I start my journey with my 2 yr old son. Thank you, Dr.!
Amazing. You are so encouraging! I love that your words provide guidance and inspiration at the same time. I'm so glad to have stumbled upon your video.
I’m married with a present father and we found this helpful in 2023
Very inspirational. Thank you
In 2020, I needed to hear this. Thank you for the blessing.
I'm am glad. This made me smile.
Your teaching is excellent. I'm so glad you didn't leave The Lord out of your teaching.
Crystal, without God, I don't have a base. God is my rock!
I am a new supporter .....You are great at what it is you do, this is he third video I watched and I will continue on :)
I look forward to your views being in the thousands, millions :) you deserve it!
its not just african american men who need this!
Loving video, thank you for posting, Gbu :)
I definitely took notes Thanks so much for the video
Great information.
Thank you for an amazing video!
Awesome video!
Thank you for this
Awesome video😁😁 It really helped me...such a blessing.
God brought me to this video today because I needed this perspective. Thank you.
Ms. T, I pray that what ever is going on passes and gets successfully resolved.
@@DRTARTT1 Thank you
Thank you.
Thank u so much for this
Thanks Dr you came at the right time my son is 14years smart & I'm busy searching for a mentor & I'm also planning going back to school at 48years. I'm proud of my work 🤗
wow, i love the penny as a reminder to praise and encourage!
Very interesting!Thanks for sharing!
Good parenting advice for all
These tips are top tier, thank you Sir 🙏🏾
Wow I Love your video. Great advice it really gave ma clarity on how to raise my son! Me and my sons dad are seperated and it's a little difficult for me. It's exactly how your saying. Thank you and God bless you!
This is very helpful. Thank you🙏
Yes! Thank you & God Bless.
So what happens when you feel guilty for taking care of your needs first? Also, what's the best way to explain this to your children?
La'Cresha Lee I could be wrong here but I truly believe that if we can't take care of ourselves we can't take care of our children so sometimes you have to put yourself first as long as it doesn't come to the point of neglecting your children
Spot on. Thank you!
Great video!
Thank you so so much ❤️
Well said sir. I love your optimism.
Thank you so much
I'm glad it helped
great Video!!
Some moms are raising child alone because their husbands are working like truck drivers, men who work in the oil industry, etc.
Great tips!!
great Video
This is great information
Holy crap that just changed everything . ASK first ...THATS THE PROBLEM my kids are entitled that means cuz they get up do tech I'm out of control with that n fight after this IS my issue!!! Read the Bible before the tech ASK first RIGHT FRICKIN ON!! AWESOME SAUCE.
Beautiful! Go and up in Jesus mighty name!
Thank you Dr for speaking life to my son this morning 🔥💪
Very very good! Amen!
i really needed to hear this... thankyou
Brandi clemons I love it when people are seeking to better their lives and especially their children's lives. Kick butt Brandi
thank u so much!
i was raised in in the 60s and my pops gave one warning then he put hands on my brother and i. we both turned out alright. no jail time and married with kids. we learned at the school of hard knocks..lol
Some things from old school need to return, Brooks.
Thank you so much for making this video really gives me strength
As a young single mother raising a man
Thanks!
My older son said mom you can't raise me? You will have to let me do me? Your a woman you don't know how to raise me. You don't get me you'll never be able to raise me into a man? And all I can do was say sorry and walk away.
This was a very helpful video! Thank you!
I am interested more in what your saying around 25m.
I have a young boy who is very very smart.
Will you be coming back to the Philadelphia area?
by jumping in a time machine and choosing a better father for their kids that's the only way how.
Um… shaving and changing a tire has nothing to do with being a male
Boys needs to learn these things. Girls need to learn to change a tire too. The point is boys need to be shown how to do things expected of a man. If you are talking about something else, my apologies.
great Video!!
Spot on. Thank you!
Thank you so much
Thank you.