Heartbreak // Season 2 Episode 2 | Honest Tea Talk

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  • In this episode, we talk about a topic that is very rarely spoken about in the Muslim community: Heartbreak.
    What has been your experience of speaking about heartbreak with others, and how have you managed heartbreak in the past?
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    Inspired by Jada Pinkett-Smith's 'Red Table Talk', 3 Muslim women have set up a platform to speak openly and honestly, giving viewers an unedited insight into the minds and life of Muslim women. Honest Tea Talk brings deep and often unspoken topics to the table to lay down our masks and start much-needed discussions about matters related to Muslim women and the ummah at large.
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Komentáře • 450

  • @rayaa1934
    @rayaa1934 Před 4 lety +431

    I literally am crying writing this. There’s a brother I was introduced to for marriage, I fell in love with him but qadr of Allah things haven’t gone as i thought. I’m so mad at myself I let my guard down too soon and I know I’ve fallen in love with him, literally my heart aches every single day. I needed to hear this podcast. May Allah reward abundantly my dear sisters. Please make dua that Allah fixes my broken heart.

    • @fatimaabatcha4925
      @fatimaabatcha4925 Před 4 lety +32

      Hang in there sis, may Allah ease your affairs. I will keep you in my du'a in shaa Allah. Love:your sister in the deen.

    • @amala1874
      @amala1874 Před 4 lety +32

      If it wasn't in your naseeb, have faith that what will come from God will be waaaay better 😊👌 He is Al Kareem!

    • @asmaaali630
      @asmaaali630 Před 4 lety +23

      It's never your fault to fall in love with the person you are getting to married with. As long as it's in halal pattern so, it all right so, take it easy on yourself, my dear sister. And hang in there 💜 btw, I'm in the same situation as you alhamdulillah and yeah, it still aches but take it easy on yourself and don't scold yourself 💜

    • @suziejms
      @suziejms Před 4 lety +29

      It could be that Allah is protecting you from something that you can not even see or imagine currently. Use this pain as an opportunity to deepen your closeness with Him and that it is temporary💗
      "و اصبر لحكم ربك فإنك بأعيننا"

    • @maryamnalumwale4118
      @maryamnalumwale4118 Před 4 lety +5

      Subhana'Allah my sister @Raya R , may Allah SWT strength you and help you get through it all Ameen, and gain all the blessings it has come with from the Most Forgiving, the Most Merciful In Sha Allah. He knows Best!
      And please sis constantly ask for forgiveness it is the best supplication one can ever make to the Lord of the Worlds.

  • @maysaahmedal-ammari7508
    @maysaahmedal-ammari7508 Před 4 lety +264

    These women are simply beautiful in mind and heart.

  • @hamida9553
    @hamida9553 Před 4 lety +190

    *He is breaking you to heal you.*
    “From the perfection of Allah’s ihsan is that He allows His slave to taste the bitterness of the break before the sweetness of the mend. He does not break His believing slave, except to mend him. And He does not withhold from him, except to give him. And He does not test him (with hardship), except to cure him.”
    ~ Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah

    • @mametollyfall8665
      @mametollyfall8665 Před 4 lety

      Mimi 94 beautifully said very profound quote 👌🏽

    • @mariasaber1117
      @mariasaber1117 Před 4 lety +1

      Wow, beautiful! He is breaking you to heal you. I love that. Thats excactly how I feel one year later after my breakup.

    • @hamida9553
      @hamida9553 Před 4 lety +4

      Maria Saber I too agree. We often fail to look at the bigger picture, but there’s always wisdom in His plans.
      “But they plan, and Allah plans. And Allah is the best of planners.” ~ (8:30)

    • @iamshahin
      @iamshahin Před 3 lety

      Thats beautiful!!!!!

  • @asmaidris
    @asmaidris Před 4 lety +114

    Hard to find beautiful raw sisters like you guys, who don’t wear makeup, don’t wear the latest fashion, and can talk about topics that people say hush hush about....I just love you guys! Makes us feel human again!

  • @ZainabaSow
    @ZainabaSow Před 4 lety +237

    Everything about this channel is so pure n soothing. It’s like your weekly dose of therapy 🙏🏾💚💚

  • @m.s.b4332
    @m.s.b4332 Před 4 lety +98

    Let's take a moment and appreciate the decoration and the interior design. Very calming atmosphere honestly.

  • @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
    @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Před 4 lety +97

    So many people came walking around with broken hearts
    That made me cry

  • @stupidintellect2474
    @stupidintellect2474 Před 4 lety +87

    I experienced 2 different heartbreaks close in time to each other. And aliyah's advice of praying to Allah subhannallah worked for me. I suggest choosing a time where you can pray and no one is with you, even if it's just 2 sunnah rukuus. And pour your heart out to Allah, he knows what's in your heart but the fact that you have turned to Him and put your trust that talking to Him is going to help you find a way out, you can finish the prayer content that Allah loves you and will most definitely take care of you. Read the translation/tafseer of surah Duhaa. Beautiful!
    Also, it's very easy to get frustrated that things aren't coming to you quick enough, we must always remind ourselves that something may seem good but it's bad for us or that something that seems bad may actually be good for us. Allah knows it all at the end of the day, and the events in our lives fit perfectly together like jigsaw puzzle. May Allah bless you sisters. Xxx

  • @muhammedshafie990
    @muhammedshafie990 Před 4 lety +33

    I love how the girl in the middle hitting it right on the spot rather than sugar-coating the issue hypocritically...

  • @amala1874
    @amala1874 Před 4 lety +147

    This talk was so reassuring 🙏 Many of us watched this episode currently experiencing, or having had experienced, heartbreak. If I may share some useful reoccuring tips I keep coming across:
    -three main adhkaar you should increase during hardship: istighfaar (astaghfirullah), salah on the Prophet pbuh, dua of Prophet Yunus (la ilaha ila anta subhanaka inni kuntu min al dhaalimeen)
    -dua, dua, dua, as much as you can, whenever you can
    -firm belief that after hardship is ease, and Allah has your best interests at heart ❤ May Allah make it easy for us all! Ameen🙏

    • @harunbinyamin1492
      @harunbinyamin1492 Před 4 lety +2

      MaashaAllah .......i really loved your opinion ...i believe it heals 100%

    • @ramatouliembye7593
      @ramatouliembye7593 Před 4 lety

      MashaAllah this is perfect!

    • @faeshanoor4129
      @faeshanoor4129 Před 4 lety +1

      I really need to do this to go through this test shukraaan 🙏🏻😓

    • @roseofjenna
      @roseofjenna Před 4 lety +2

      I love your explanation. Praise Allah because he has given us the formula to deal with all situations in life. Yes, heartbreak too. We just need to remember them and apply them. I truly believe that Allah heals a broken heart, and whatever the type of heartbreak we are facing, patience is one of Allah’s most powerful formulas we have, although it is difficult, but it is that patient we need to have to let Allah heal our hearts

    • @dahaliabdulai485
      @dahaliabdulai485 Před 4 lety

      I deserted God and I was punished a great deal up to date I'm still suffering despite repenting many times all because of oppression by my partner. Pls help in prayer.

  • @teabooksandallthingscoffee7570

    The tea just keeps getting hotter and better!🥳🥳🥳😍❤

  • @purplebear445
    @purplebear445 Před 4 lety +26

    I have some knowledge to share regarding heartbreak which i learnt from my own experince: STOP LOOKING FOR HAPPYNESS IN THE EXTERNAL , HAPPYNESS COMES FROM WITHIN. find urself and be happy and compelte all on ur own!! People think happyness comes from another persn or external thigs but IM TELLIG U... U CAN BE HAPPY AND COMPLETE ALL ON UR OWN!! Find ur own goals, find ur self , love urself!!! Then u will never get heartbroken. And u will attract top quality relationships

  • @fanreedmedia8300
    @fanreedmedia8300 Před 4 lety +24

    "People are fearful of entering the space of acknowledging the fact that, this hurts!!"- Sister LaYinka... APT!!❤️❤️

  • @bambanjie9926
    @bambanjie9926 Před 4 lety +61

    Heartbreak shakes me to wake up and help me see I was worth so much more than I was settling for.

  • @oneafricaseries1090
    @oneafricaseries1090 Před 3 lety +12

    Truly love how real Aliyah is. She truly brings the raw truth to the forefront of the conversation. Thank you to all 3 ladies, MashAllah

  • @haalabeeba
    @haalabeeba Před 4 lety +45

    Mashallah! Thank you sisters ♥️ May Allah grant you Allah Jannah. Ameen. Your voices are soooooooooo needed. Please keep going strong. I love what Aliyah said "Allah loves the broken heart...." and then her explanation. Beautiful points from you all. Also, thank you Layinka for outlining in very clear terms that we're human and that Islam has not come to strip us of emotion. It is totally OKAY to love or to be in love. You all are so brilliant talented educated and grounded in Deen. We need your work to go viral and gain a huge platform throughout the world. insha'Allah it'll definitely happen. :)

  • @BasiraLawal-RN-BSN
    @BasiraLawal-RN-BSN Před 4 lety +16

    MashaAllah. One of my worst heartbreaks was by someone I considered a best friend. I still remember it till this day. Some heartbreak also comes from family. SubhaanAllah.

  • @MrQazwsxedc111
    @MrQazwsxedc111 Před 4 lety +25

    You ladies are phenomenal Allahuma barik. I'm not a 'commentor', but I just had to this time. Your videos simply get better and better. This one in particular I thought was amazing. I had to watch it in 3 parts because I kept finding myself in a pool of my own tears. Oh this was so organic, refreshing and REASSURING! Heartbreak is a gruesome thing, but they way you ladies addressed it and broke some of it down......i dont know what to say besides jazakumAllah kheyr and may Allah continue to bless you and bless this channel! Ameen.

  • @dembobatchilly3143
    @dembobatchilly3143 Před 4 lety +60

    Walahi this is the thing that I just needed this whole while.
    It’s like you were speaking directly to me Mash’Allah.

  • @oromochic1993
    @oromochic1993 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you to the woman in the middle for not swaying away to the different kinds of heartbreak . You have no idea how much solace you brought me with those words 🥺

  • @uyghurgril9530
    @uyghurgril9530 Před 4 lety +9

    Alhamdullilah, You are truly doing honest topics. May Allah give more Patient and Imann to Muslim Brothers and Sisters who are suffering and May Allah guide us to the right path. And I will be very appreciated if you do an episode about Uyghur Muslims from occupied East Turkistan. All The Best.

  • @user-ru5dq5mr7w
    @user-ru5dq5mr7w Před 4 lety +16

    I have never confessed my emotions to anyone before, because i fear heart break so much. Not only romantic emotions but also friendships , i never told my friends i loved them until i was 19 yo. Im turning 20 this year:')

  • @knowledgefountainbooks4657
    @knowledgefountainbooks4657 Před 4 lety +16

    Asalamualaykum, you three sisters have shared a topic hardly ever spoken about in our community. I honestly hate when someone is heartbroken and then they are given advice to snap out of it and then told that it’s being ungrateful etc.. or likening their sad and down situation to be ungrateful to what Allah has given them and that they should be patient etc. Not everyone who is butt hurt is ungrateful or doesn’t have patience - it’s a human thing to feel sad, down and like life is finished, but it doesn’t mean they don’t like or love their religion! Jazakillahu Khayr for your show. I pray Allah allows you 3 to benefit even more ameen

    • @HonestTeaTalk
      @HonestTeaTalk  Před 4 lety +3

      Ameen!!

    • @hyrunnisa997
      @hyrunnisa997 Před 4 lety +3

      Yes!!! Absolutely!! Its not so easy to just say move on and get over it...those are some harsh words for people who just went through a devastating relationship. You need time...you need love. You need acceptance and understanding. We should be saying "I'm here for you when you need me". "I empathize and you can cry as much as you need" let's not belittle peoples feelings by telling them to move on.

  • @sarahschwarz9972
    @sarahschwarz9972 Před 4 lety +29

    Absolutely Sumayah; why do we have to drag people through the processes that made them heartbroken in the first place? Those issues can be discussed later. Let's recognise our common humanity and heal first. Lessons can be learned later.

    • @ummismail20
      @ummismail20 Před 4 lety

      I love your last two sentences, sis = 100%

    • @SuperCornTVwithMrsDee
      @SuperCornTVwithMrsDee Před 4 lety

      Yes! This I needed to hear so bad..profound words of wisdom, broken down to where even a baby can understand..

  • @jessicachin5357
    @jessicachin5357 Před 4 lety +25

    I will be here every week my sisters. Keep up the good work.

  • @ztop9626
    @ztop9626 Před 4 lety +62

    I don't want to tear up. I fell in love with someone during my undergraduate Studies for 3 years and my dad rejected him when we decided to get married. I can't say everything but the pain and bitterness led me to depression.

    • @aisharicci6400
      @aisharicci6400 Před 4 lety +11

      I am so sorry and am sending you hugs and may Allah swt make it easier for you.

    • @raxmacail
      @raxmacail Před 4 lety +6

      I can't imagine sister
      I am so sorry

    • @amaldahir3746
      @amaldahir3746 Před 4 lety +5

      May Allah heal your heart and bring happiness to your life again 💕

    • @y_4683
      @y_4683 Před 4 lety +5

      May Allah make things easy for you. Keep making dua because no one can ever close a door that is meant to be opened for you.
      Know that Allah is most wise. He will give you what you need and is better for you in the perfect time InshaAllah.
      Don’t lose hope. You have the best of planners planning your life for you. Sometimes we think we know what is best for us but we really don’t.
      Sister you’re not alone. I pray that Allah gives you the patience you need.
      Ameen.

    • @asmaidris
      @asmaidris Před 4 lety +1

      Subhanallah, people still do this? May Allah make it easy, I know harder said then done.

  • @rebelwithahaloxx1002
    @rebelwithahaloxx1002 Před 3 lety +2

    Had my heart broken last year and then I grew the closest to Allah. Alhamdulilah.

    • @johnalex236
      @johnalex236 Před 3 lety

      my dear let me introduce to you dr usifoh who help me bring back my ex after many months of separation

    • @johnalex236
      @johnalex236 Před 3 lety

      On WhtsApp message him

  • @ummulayyina8503
    @ummulayyina8503 Před 4 lety +12

    SubxanAllah! 😭 I think it speaks to my heart what Layinka said about Lost. I lost my daughter and every time when I’m happy without her, I feel like I should’nt feel that way 😢

    • @Sumayyahsikiru
      @Sumayyahsikiru Před 3 lety +1

      May Allah grant you succour ya Ukhti. I pray Allah grants you genuine happiness. Your daughter is in a better bi idhniLlaah. ❤

  • @asmahassan5559
    @asmahassan5559 Před 4 lety +12

    Masha'Allah another amazing video! I think another type of heartbreak that we don't often talk about is the one we experience when we've done something wrong in a relationship, especially if this results in the end of said relationship.
    A few key lessons I've learned from this kind of experience is that:
    1. Allah swt is the most forgiving, even when we feel unworthy of forgiveness, and we should never place limitations on His capacity to forgive.
    2. Forgiving ourselves and receiving forgiveness from the person we've wronged are two completely different things. We aren't owed forgiveness but that doesn't mean we can't make peace with ourselves.
    3. We can't change the past but we can learn from our mistakes and use those hard earned lessons to better ourselves.
    4. We're all a work in progress. Our mistakes don't define us but the way we choose to deal with them do.
    5. Make dua for the person who you lost! They may never be a part of your life again but that doesn't mean you can't actively pray for their happiness and well-being. This is especially helpful if you're dealing with a lot of guilt. Plus the angels will make dua for you when you do this so it's a win-win situation!
    Jazakallah kayr you lovely ladies for making these videos. Please keep them coming! May Allah swt reward your efforts ❤️

  • @ajmahamr
    @ajmahamr Před 4 lety +5

    im crying. this channel gave me light. Alhamdulliah for this channel.
    i am experiencing the same situation where i am inlove with someone else. i am now taking my space and turning over to Allah to ease my pain. it is hard every day and night to feel so heartbroken and u cant even do anything about it. it makes u crazy, but with dua and prayers,i know that i will be well. Inshaa Allah.

  • @studentlearning7805
    @studentlearning7805 Před 4 lety +33

    I agree with you completely. During my early age, during my late teens, I felt in love not because I loved for some physical attraction but, for his support, caring and passion he showed me duting my darkest time in my life. My dad came in the middle of that he told me someone came asking my hands for marriage and he told him yes and I am going to get married in one month. He made all the wedding arrangement without my in put. He told my mother if she said no or did something foolish she will be out of our lives and I will announced to people that she is dead. I was 22 years old ( we are talking about 37 years ago). I didn't work, I was on last year of college and no choice but married to this 14 years older than me. ( I am still married to him). The young man was there during my wedding and supported me and my mother ( my mother was pushing him into marring my younger sister ) but, he told my mother that he loves me was planned to marry me and now that hope is gone he just wanted to go far far away and he did. I lived my life in heartbreak for long ling time. But now I don't have and feeling, I don't care about me, just wanted my children to be happy, successful and strong in their lives.

    • @saniyashanavas3060
      @saniyashanavas3060 Před 4 lety +2

      I am so sorry about what happened to you. I hope at least your present husband treats you well.

    • @studentlearning7805
      @studentlearning7805 Před 4 lety +3

      @@saniyashanavas3060 Thanks. But, he is the same one whom I married 37 years ago. In the old mentality and life, you couldn't say no to your parents and wouldn't be the one brings shame to the family so you take what ever decision made for you by your parents in my case by my father. I won't do that to my children now.

    • @rozewater7548
      @rozewater7548 Před 4 lety +1

      Allah (SWT) said ( perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.) -Surat al baqarah : 216- May Allah reward you with jannat al firdaws sister.

    • @Sami-gn3sm
      @Sami-gn3sm Před 4 lety +1

      I hope your husband loves you and your children

    • @studentlearning7805
      @studentlearning7805 Před 4 lety +4

      @Jaleel Akhtar No the victim is not my husband or me was my father (AR), didn't know the religion very well, that is not to force your daughters to marriage. Alhamdulillah I am fine, my kids are fine (adults now) and my husband too. We are just living our golden age by remembering Allah, and my going to masjid for every prayers and attending haleqas.

  • @jeehan47
    @jeehan47 Před 4 lety +11

    Omg 😱 this video was released at the right time, I think it speaks to my heart and soul because this is what I needed to hear. I am going through a heartbreak, and what everyone around me keeps saying is that someone better will come to your life. But right now I don’t want to hear that, I want to heal and stop this pain Ya Rabb! The level of pain and hurt I feel right now only Allah knows, and he is the only one that knows what’s best for me and knows why this is happening. I will keep praying
    Thank you so much, I believe this video was really made for me 🙏🏼 you guys have really spoken well in this episode.

    • @Sumayyahsikiru
      @Sumayyahsikiru Před 3 lety

      This is so accurate 😭

    • @spookyfish6981
      @spookyfish6981 Před 2 lety

      "But right now I don't want to hear that, I want to heal and stop the pain." Absolutely. When in pain you can't see that far beyond the next heartbeat and you just want to make it through the day without every breath hurting.

  • @sf6510
    @sf6510 Před 4 lety +9

    May Allah protect us from going any more heartbreaks or breaking someones heart.

  • @ariyoabiona1606
    @ariyoabiona1606 Před 4 lety +19

    May Allah be pleased with you sisters. I was in love with a lady some time back but she was Christian and i did not want to marry a Christian.She did not even seem to be interested which it even more painful. I prayed to Allah for something better. Allah gave me someone much more better than i thought i deserved. Alhamdulillah, Allah always come through for the patient.

  • @nerishaib7810
    @nerishaib7810 Před 4 lety +3

    These are the conversations we need to have on a daily. No one should have to suffer in silence because they feel ashamed of committing a sins. Sins were created for us to get closer to Allah. If there wasn't sins then dua wouldn't have been there. Sometimes in life we have to go through trials to get to a good place with Allah. This was my test. I had to go through bad things to get to Allah. I am happy he never left me but brought me closer to him. This channel is amazing and I support it 100%. As muslims we need to support eachother because this is one of our test as humans . Is how we help eachother .

  • @bayniakate9580
    @bayniakate9580 Před 4 lety +5

    Mashallah this episode remember me about the story of Zayneb and her husband رضي الله عنها , the daughter of our beloved prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم .

  • @mariamnafi
    @mariamnafi Před 4 lety +1

    absolutely loved this episode. your voices are so pure and soothing

  • @sumayyah2216
    @sumayyah2216 Před 4 lety

    I love that you guys are having these kinds of conversations, this is stuff that we all need to hear because we all go through things like this! Thank you!

  • @modestbyfreedaz2944
    @modestbyfreedaz2944 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you for sharing ladies ❤️.
    My own experience with heartbreak lead to my journey of self love and self worth.

  • @Nada-hot-takes
    @Nada-hot-takes Před 3 lety

    This was truly amazing. I really needed it and it helped me beyond what you can imagine. Thank you. I cried, I listened, and I even took notes. Please make a part 2.

  • @hibooa5035
    @hibooa5035 Před 4 lety +1

    Very much needed to be heard. Thank you sisters because you spoke the truth that has been suppressed.

  • @SowMe_AF
    @SowMe_AF Před 4 lety +6

    Mach'Allah, how peacefull, and heart balancing it is to hear your words Ladies!! I definetly felt being part of the conversation, truth is that 1/2 hour runs too quick, listening to the three of you!! God Bless you all!!💗💞💗

  • @fahmidasharmin8857
    @fahmidasharmin8857 Před 3 lety

    I feel so safe on your channel, I feel like I can be heard without being judged. Thank you sooo much for these videos.

  • @sdomain7018
    @sdomain7018 Před 4 lety +3

    Beautiful talk. Thank you sisters for being open and honest. It really was helpful.

  • @juliejongkryg6296
    @juliejongkryg6296 Před 4 lety +3

    I thoroughly enjoy your talk, and look forward to watching the next one. Thankyou for sharing.

  • @diebiraf
    @diebiraf Před 4 lety +4

    I so enjoy y’all sisters that I don’t want the talk to end. Listening to HTT is the only time I get to put words on how I am really feeling. I can’t thank y’all for that. May Allah forgive us all and guide us all.

  • @zaineahmed566
    @zaineahmed566 Před 4 lety +2

    You sisters are ace! Thankyou for addressing and advising. May Allah shower his mercy upon all!

  • @suziejms
    @suziejms Před 4 lety +2

    SubhanAllah, it seems like these videos always come out right when you need it. JazakumAllah khier sisters, your work is much needed.

  • @fatimakhatun4623
    @fatimakhatun4623 Před 3 lety +1

    Amazing advice! Love this part: "Facing the pain is not going to be easy but it's part of the process".

  • @greenwallclock
    @greenwallclock Před 4 lety +2

    I find these talks very interesting. You don't know which turn this conversation is gonna take and the volume and diversity condensed in this half an hour video is Mind Blowing. Keep making them. Do not stop.

  • @jennyrayman2505
    @jennyrayman2505 Před 3 lety

    I am in my 50 years and I am soo benefitting from their sessions. Thank you very much !!

  • @drnausheensaba4021
    @drnausheensaba4021 Před 4 lety +5

    Love u all ...everything u all spoke is so much reality and so much true that happens but never addressed and spoken about...

  • @kainatemran7254
    @kainatemran7254 Před 4 lety +13

    Thank you so much sisters! Because of the way I grew up, I genuinely thought that it was impossible for someone to fall in love outside of marriage, and so when I did and it couldn't go through I was confused and heartbroken - but didn't realise it was that. I thought you could only fall in love once, I didn't know there was this concept of healing, moving on and love coming through again. I just didn't know!
    I have learnt so much, and how little I knew about human emotion, I strengthened my relationship with Allah during this time and how I would raise my children differently, and be more open with truths, because otherwise they go alone wondering what is this feeling, can humans really feel like this? It is a journey I went on all alone but even though it shouldn't have happened, like you said we are human and I have come out so much stronger, less naive and closer to Allah insha'Allah.

  • @OromoShawtyy
    @OromoShawtyy Před 4 lety +1

    Such great content! we all needed Honest Tea Talk and I'm loving the consistency with the quality videos!

  • @aaishahibrahim8639
    @aaishahibrahim8639 Před 4 lety +3

    I really enjoy you all watching you get together for these little tea talks😆😍

  • @NappyAndStoned
    @NappyAndStoned Před 4 lety +6

    Jazakallaah Khayran for these sisters. Wow Subhanallah 💜

  • @khadijaali9045
    @khadijaali9045 Před 4 lety +3

    mashallah, we needed these kinda conversation in the Muslim community. We shouldn't feel ashamed for
    talking about our emotions, we are humans too it ok to express how your feeling👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @nesmayassien5413
    @nesmayassien5413 Před 4 lety +1

    That is the BEST talk I have ever listened to in my ENTIRE LIFE ♥♥

  • @naima981
    @naima981 Před 4 lety +2

    What a beautiful episode, thank you❤️❤️

  • @HAli3291
    @HAli3291 Před 4 lety

    This was beautiful. Thank you sisters. I really needed this. ❤

  • @tiadarragbi9318
    @tiadarragbi9318 Před 4 lety +2

    Well said and jazakillahu khayrun for opening this space to talk abiut the untalkable. So real and from the heart. These series have really helped me thru the difficulties im going thru

  • @nerishaib7810
    @nerishaib7810 Před 4 lety +1

    Everything about this video is AMAZING - esp the ending.

  • @muhsinainshaallah1
    @muhsinainshaallah1 Před 4 lety +1

    As a mother that truly requires loving your children unconditionally which means I have dig deep through the judgment from the community, shame that you feel, guilt for feeling that way and truthfully know that your child is enough with all their changes, challenges and getting up after they fall.

  • @mazmaj3014
    @mazmaj3014 Před 4 lety +1

    I am so thankful you guys have done this episode, it’s helped me a lot may allah bless you in ways you can’t imagine

  • @safefastdriving6946
    @safefastdriving6946 Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks for the tea talk

  • @Sarafara7
    @Sarafara7 Před 3 lety

    Can’t describe how much I needed this

  • @AM24796
    @AM24796 Před 4 lety +1

    Jazakumullahu Khayran for yet another honest and accurate discussion. You guys are doing a great job Masha Allah, may Allah bless you. Heartache is undeniably a painful process but discussing it the way you sisters did is helping me to cope with mine and to also realise that heartache is normal and acceptable so thank you once again :)

  • @saj9221
    @saj9221 Před 4 lety

    Ok I just discovered you guys today and I have never been so grateful for procrastination. This is amazing and I think i'm going to have a marathon and possibly procrastinate even more

  • @mariamkadiri8891
    @mariamkadiri8891 Před 4 lety +4

    Masha Allah, may Allah bless you guys for this, I needed it

  • @BintAbdullahi1
    @BintAbdullahi1 Před 4 lety +3

    Absolutely love it as usual ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ingazujeva7325
    @ingazujeva7325 Před 4 lety

    Really needed to hear this chat

  • @rafiahmuhammed441
    @rafiahmuhammed441 Před 2 lety

    This is so real...thank you sisters for making this video. May Allah reward you all.

  • @NM-ud4mb
    @NM-ud4mb Před 4 lety +8

    Can’t wait🎉

  • @Betulz7
    @Betulz7 Před 3 lety

    Oh my God I am crying like a waterfall . this is really touching and every word They said really resonated with me. it’s hard to get over a heartbreak you feel betrayed, lose, grief, anger, frustration like all those emotions and trying to be patient at the same time it’s really hard but with every hardship there comes is ease that’s the promise of Allah. And for those who show beautiful patients there is great reward and remedy. beautiful patients is also not just being passive but trying to process and heal and learn.
    Love the ladies. Keep up the good work. May Allah bless you all

  • @lamaryam
    @lamaryam Před 4 lety +2

    ❤️thank you for this discussion.

  • @selinareid1884
    @selinareid1884 Před 4 lety +1

    May Allah put barakah in the tea talk episodes, ya’ll real and I love real honest women

  • @sanahshah8213
    @sanahshah8213 Před 3 lety +2

    This video tugged at my heart strings and was exactly what I needed to hear. It was so refreshing to hear muslim women talking about those taboo topics. Jazakallah Khier sisters may Allah reward you abundantly for teaching me that falling in love is a valid emotion. The dua at the end made me cry!

  • @user-qe1mk6xk1z
    @user-qe1mk6xk1z Před 4 lety +3

    This is just wow...
    Thanx 4 this..

  • @fathersunglasses6085
    @fathersunglasses6085 Před 4 lety +64

    I'm a simple person 😎. I see an Honest Tea Talk episode; I click ☺️😅
    Edit: Contrary to what you may believe us men can also be quite emotional; it affects us too; though we try to keep it hidden 💪😅

  • @BiliMaffy
    @BiliMaffy Před 4 lety +6

    I can't talk about experiencing heartbreak without admitting I've broken 💔 a few hearts myself, albeit that was never the plan, as I'm soft hearted myself.
    I've experienced a few heartbreaks, but it's not something Ive been able to discuss openly. The closest to sharing was confiding in a few trusted, close friends who know my story.
    I can't possibly marry every man that saw me as a "prospective" wife, or every proposal that came my way. So, a few brothers were disappointed for that.
    I have experienced abandonment and neglect as a child- so suffered a massive broken heart by a blood relation!
    I also forfeited a true love to do the right thing. The knowledge didn't come early enough. In the end, a believer must believe in and accept Qadaar! And that's what I've done bi ithnillah!

  • @rashidabashyr6324
    @rashidabashyr6324 Před 4 lety +2

    Jazaakumullahu khair, thanks so much sisters uve really spoken out my heart today

  • @ramlayussuf5860
    @ramlayussuf5860 Před 4 lety +1

    Love that you always keep it raw and real! May Allah bless you abundantly for the amazing work you're doing. Ameen Ya Rab.
    Much ❤❤❤

  • @UIAL570
    @UIAL570 Před 3 lety +1

    Where was this when I needed it??!!!

  • @_kabseh
    @_kabseh Před 3 lety +1

    I am watching this for a second time. Heartbreak is beyond the impact of a romantic relationship. It can be your current job loss, friendships dwindling in a different direction, or losing a battle with your inner self. SubhanAllah the discussion in the video transpired into realizing healing comes from your relationship with Allah.
    Trust the timing...

  • @niabrown3627
    @niabrown3627 Před 4 lety

    I love.... these talks. I’ve missed really healthy. Not trashy, immoral talks! I’m so happy I came across your channel!

  • @alyajabr1381
    @alyajabr1381 Před 4 lety +1

    Gives me Energy ,thank you soooo much

  • @umm2656
    @umm2656 Před 2 lety

    You know sunhannullah these topics you have done are wow so needed and so beneficial and these videos are getting eatched everyday by new people and continuing to benefit people. Iam so grateful for each one of you and what you bring to the honest tea talk table. Amazing ladies Iam a young women myself going through many of the things you have disscussed and because you have shared your expirences you will and have made it easier for many muslims to get through these times jazakallahukhair and may allah grant all 3 of you and me and the beliving men and women jannah al firdous ameen. Thhank you, proud of you guys and honeatly have been a role model for me in some very difficult but made easy alhamdullilah situations

  • @aneesamusa1826
    @aneesamusa1826 Před 3 lety +1

    I haven't even listened yet, but you ladies are just awesome...I came across your talks at a time I needed them the most. May Allah bless you for bringing such a much needed platform to muslimahs like me that have been searching for this.

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      @johnalex236 Před 3 lety

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      @johnalex236 Před 3 lety

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  • @iamshahin
    @iamshahin Před 3 lety

    Love you all! The depth in you sisters is mind-blowing which tells me you have been there and dealt with what you are talking about. It is not superficial knowledge, it's experiential. Alhumdulillah for all of you

  • @deadbeat5560
    @deadbeat5560 Před 3 lety

    I love you sisters for all your work you put in such beautifully honest videos! ❤👍🏼

  • @ahmedislam8506
    @ahmedislam8506 Před 4 lety +3

    And jazzakallah Kheyr for the Honest Tea talk sisters really changing the society seeing your videos really make me happy for that may Allah make us those who benefit from it

  • @nasteexohqalinle186
    @nasteexohqalinle186 Před 4 lety +3

    Asc sister thank you 🙏 so much for this episode I really need this to heart it for my broken heart 💔 now I know how to heal it last three months I was telling people I need space and subhanalaa Muslim people don’t understand giving the person space again thanks you guys for explaining such good way.
    Sister from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @huma4725
    @huma4725 Před 4 lety +2

    This is free therapy. Jazakallah!

  • @andreaboyd3433
    @andreaboyd3433 Před 3 lety +1

    Listening to the"Heartbreak" Issues enlighten my heartbroken heart. Thamks for sharing I needed to hear this. Jazakallahu khair hababti ukhtyies of Honest Tea Talk may Allah subhana wa ra ala grant you true success in the Akhirah. Amin

  • @fatmawarda1639
    @fatmawarda1639 Před 4 lety +3

    Honest Tea Talk always awesome
    Jazak Allah khair

  • @Sunnah554
    @Sunnah554 Před 4 lety +1

    Actually i have never known about the existence of this channel 👍. very educative indeed may Allah reward you all

  • @honeyfigdarling
    @honeyfigdarling Před 3 lety

    Beautiful episode. Thank you.

  • @runichowdhury4645
    @runichowdhury4645 Před 3 lety

    sisters you have answered to my pain. I'll always use this sentences to help me move forward. bless you all. Ameen

  • @jessapausanos
    @jessapausanos Před rokem

    Crying so hard with this episode while listening in Spotify just came here to write down my thoughts.. Very relatable. I'm moving forward and doing well, I'm even labeling my self that I've already moved on, but the pain still there and realized that I'm still enduring the pain... but the best thing of what happened to me is that only Allah knows my real pain, without speaking word for word Allah see it, because I did not share it to everyone, someone knew the story but she know is I am fine.. Best connections that Allah and I have because of this kind of heartbreak and pain.. Jazakallah Khair sisters for talking about this topic.. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @fatimabintmuhammad8990
    @fatimabintmuhammad8990 Před 4 lety +3

    Ma sha Allah sisters you got me in tears! The talk is real and warm it made me feel understood ,when i myself couldn’t understand somethings . jazakom Allah kollo khair ! ❤️💐