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  • @IbnMurrah
    @IbnMurrah Před 2 lety +297

    *Mohammad Hijab & Mahdi Tijdani*
    0:00:00 | Start Of Stream
    0:02:57 | Clarifying Some Points
    0:34:04 | Is Redpill an ideology?
    0:40:36 | Divorcees & Pair Bonding
    0:48:24 | Divorcees vs. Virgins (part 1)
    1:00:20 | High Value Man
    1:08:17 | Divorcees vs. Virgins (part 2)
    1:22:30 | High Value Man, Hypergamy, & Homogamy
    1:55:06 | Is Redpill reductionist?
    2:12:09 | Concluding Points
    2:18:56 | Post-Discussion Comments

    • @aliazam1a10
      @aliazam1a10 Před 2 lety +14

      May Allah bless you akhi. From 9 hour DH to 3 hr Mohammed hijab, Jazakallah for navigating these videos easier.

    • @MS-dc2tt
      @MS-dc2tt Před 2 lety +2

      @@wrestlingjudoms1302 it’s more complements. Nothing wrong with complementing each other.

    • @tahsintahsinuzzaman781
      @tahsintahsinuzzaman781 Před 2 lety +7

      @@wrestlingjudoms1302 2:14:53 😂
      "But Mashallah, 6 foot 6, handsome, good looking, charismatic, strong way of speaking..."
      **snaps fingers**
      _"honey to the bees"_
      I'm done 🤣

    • @jerusalem5646
      @jerusalem5646 Před 2 lety +4

      There’s one thing that I acknowledge…. these dudes would rather live in England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 than Africa…. and this is what I don’t understand if religious beliefs are superior to the materialistic things of this earth 🌍

    • @habasoosy2202
      @habasoosy2202 Před 2 lety +14

      It's really disgusting and degrading to be referred to as a sexual organ. How is Mehdi calling women P***Y ?? It just shows that all he think of women as, that's what he sees and the only value. It's disgusting. And I'm sure he wouldn't be okay as being referred to as d*** instead of as a man. Women are nurturers, mothers, a garb for you, your partner, emotional support etc etc. Mahdi doesn't understand what women are , we are much more complex then how he's putting it.

  • @andybalding3573
    @andybalding3573 Před 2 lety +441

    Sorry to say this, but anyone who is content with the final message that was revealed to our prophet Muhammad (s.a.w), will see this red pill as another tool for iblis.

    • @mohammedmiah7554
      @mohammedmiah7554 Před 2 lety +16

      Misusing the truth will always be a tool for the Iblis

    • @Radec913
      @Radec913 Před 2 lety +21

      exactly muslims should stay far away from this crap

    • @SlazeM7
      @SlazeM7 Před 2 lety +67

      Redpill is like feminism. Tiny bits of truth mixed with whole lot of batil.

    • @andreeaboloca246
      @andreeaboloca246 Před 2 lety +2

      @@SlazeM7 like awaken feminism you mean :)

    • @uncleh573
      @uncleh573 Před 2 lety +5

      Keep the same energy with feminism

  • @fruitmonster7
    @fruitmonster7 Před 2 lety +195

    My mum married my father when he was poor and had nothing (while she was getting proposals from richer, more "handsome", higher in status men). She supported my father through everything and what made their marriage last and still be very strong today is both of their characters. As rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, look to their character and religion. My father thinks my mum is the most beautiful and best woman and she thinks he's the best allahumma barik lahum.

    • @gonzalesorgaz735
      @gonzalesorgaz735 Před rokem +1

      Ameen

    • @LoveCisse
      @LoveCisse Před rokem

      Mashallah

    • @user-si3et2ig9x
      @user-si3et2ig9x Před rokem +10

      May allah reward parents with jannah, but what you're saying has no benifit to the average young Muslim man, most and almost all women wouldn't do what your mother did, young men gotta face reality and own up to it and seek what women really want, so they can get married and pursue halal.

    • @SandiegoRockstar
      @SandiegoRockstar Před rokem +20

      That's nice but that is not gonna help the average guy whose looking to get married. He has to deal with the reality of most women.

    • @curiouscriticalthinker4901
      @curiouscriticalthinker4901 Před rokem +3

      Ya sister, our brothers shouldn’t fall in so called “high value” BS. Being high value in the current situation,wallahi, mahdi mentioned of taking multivitamins everyday,he doesn’t know most muslim man can’t afford it. In the same time,he acted like he was coming from common muslim man. NO,you’re not common muslim man,most common muslim man are to considered poor if his “high value” is taken into account. Most muslim toil hard day and night to bring food on the table,they have no time for pill and gyms. We should stop being so materialistic.

  • @Y95
    @Y95 Před 2 lety +257

    May Allah allow the preservation and elongation of the life and knowledge for Akhi Mohammed Hijab & Akhi Mahdi Ameen

  • @GringoleboZebulon
    @GringoleboZebulon Před 2 lety +174

    When Mohammad Hijab talked about the real value of a man, just reminds me of why I subscribed to him in the early days when he DIDN'T have that many. He knows, he was in that position where $$$ wasn't much but yet he was content and understood what a real man is and should be like. Look at prophet Muhammad PBUH the realest man that lived on the face of the earth. Look at the companions. Islam is very clear. Hamdulilah, i was in that same boat. Money never made me insecure, and I was always satisfied of what I have hamdulilah. A very rich man came to me one day offering me his daughter, who was very well educated and well raised. And him KNOWING FULL WELL that i wasn't making much...BARELY. I still remember him saying "Money doesn't make real men" when I told him about my situation.
    "Let a man's character be his currency; that will tell you what he's really worth - Tony A Gaskins Jr
    Hamdulilah always stay humble and everything belongs to ALLAH

    • @rustyray420
      @rustyray420 Před 2 lety +6

      Alhamdulilah brother

    • @tekkytekkers647
      @tekkytekkers647 Před 2 lety +3

      Alhamdulillah that is beau brother. But alot of women are rejecting men for financial reasons.

    • @Aquacrystal78
      @Aquacrystal78 Před 2 lety

      That's a beautiful story brother, SubhanAllah

    • @lightseeker2564
      @lightseeker2564 Před 2 lety

      I pray you two lead a happy life. Ameen

    • @AlphaMaverick1111
      @AlphaMaverick1111 Před 2 lety +2

      (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)

  • @eawadallah09
    @eawadallah09 Před 2 lety +284

    As a revert Muslim woman, I honestly think this man needs to go back and get a proper Islamic Education. He is talking out of emotion, feelings,ect... JazakAllah khair brother Mohammed for helping this man see his mistakes. InshaAllah he will acknowledge his errors.

    • @Big_Berber
      @Big_Berber Před 2 lety +79

      Unfortunately sister, he is right..it has become an epidemic the way sisters are deviating and adopting western Liberal lifestyle but expect men to still remain Conservative when it comes to their responsibilities..but the women can take you to the cleaners because see decided she is not having enough fun..Mahdi is right on all points the only thing you can argue with is the delivery

    • @laith9989
      @laith9989 Před 2 lety +38

      @@Big_Berber how so? Anyone doing something wrong does not justify anyone else doing something wrong. Tidjani clearly made mistakes, and Brother Hijab clearly corrected him, with the evidences. There is no shame in making mistakes if you recognize, reflect, and ask for forgiveness on them. Everybody is constantly learning

    • @wackypeace1135
      @wackypeace1135 Před 2 lety +6

      @@Big_BerberMuslim women are adopting western liberal values, so men should adopt a red pill ideology? Mehdi comes across as a man scorned, you can clearly tell he has a bitter resentment towards women and is trying to reduce all women down to gold digging leeches and men to sexual predators. He refuses to look at things holistically, and focuses on one element. Of course women want a man who cant comfortably provide for them, but not at the detriment of other factors such as faith, race. love, personalities, ideological compatibility etc.
      I may be wrong but to me these red pill guys have an inferiority complex and are trying compensate through this movement. Here is a tip for the red pill Muslims out there, stop chasing sisters that have a western liberal mindset, but the irony is you can't! because your just as entrenched in western liberal values as the women you are trying to accuse.

    • @Blaze72sH
      @Blaze72sH Před 2 lety

      @@wackypeace1135 strawman and false equivalence.

    • @SA41959
      @SA41959 Před 2 lety

      @@wackypeace1135 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌

  • @TheTruthSeekerMe
    @TheTruthSeekerMe Před 2 lety +51

    Very respectful and important conversation. Appreciate it. Especially loved the ayat MH recited. Subhanallah

  • @familyaccount3137
    @familyaccount3137 Před 2 lety +31

    These live streams about different topics/issues in the community are extremely useful. Baraka Allah feekum

  • @abdullahX001
    @abdullahX001 Před 2 lety +71

    He has disgraced Sumayya RA… she did not follow Rasulallah SAW for his status, she followed and died upon Islam. Also does he forget Quraysh mushrik leaders offered Rasulallah SAW money, women, leadership, status… and he turned it ALL down?! How dare we focus and drive our manhood using such gross amounts of dunya when Allah has offered us so much better. Allah and His Messenger commanded us to treat women well, we will not humiliate and disgrace ourselves by following these hedonistic ideologies.

    • @elite7329
      @elite7329 Před 2 lety +9

      Mahdi is a clown.

    • @Kubilay3502
      @Kubilay3502 Před 2 lety +3

      She followed and died upon Islam, and who was Rasulullah again? Why was the prophet offered money women and leadership? Because of his status as Rasulullah, because he led the Muslims. Because he was the final messenger of Allah. And therefore if Islam was true was the man with the most status.

    • @abdullahX001
      @abdullahX001 Před 2 lety +16

      @@Kubilay3502 what on earth are you on about? Whatever you said makes no sense.

    • @aishaarshadalam3412
      @aishaarshadalam3412 Před 2 lety +8

      @@Kubilay3502 I don't think you got the point made.

    • @Kubilay3502
      @Kubilay3502 Před 2 lety +2

      @@abdullahX001 it makes perfect sense if only you used your brain, why did the quraish offer the prophet all that and status amongst them? As a compromise because he already had status higher then theirs (why else offer him a compensation status, wealth, women), if Islam was indeed the true religion he was the man with the most status, as some quraish started to doubt their power since obviously the Muslims were growing and some of their own became Muslim. In the end most of Arabia became Muslim.

  • @KishorPasha
    @KishorPasha Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks for this. Love and respect ❤️🥰❤️💚

  • @irg5124
    @irg5124 Před 2 lety +191

    Also I love the way brother Hijab carried himself through this entire conversation. The brother is very intelligent masha Allah, and mixed with a calm style - he probably one of the best Muslim representatives out there! Keep making us proud bro.

    • @mitchpeter5718
      @mitchpeter5718 Před rokem +6

      You’ve got to be kidding!! The best representation of Islam and Muslims?? Just asking for a friend!! I lost count of times hijab has said some vile stuffs

    • @YusufIslam1
      @YusufIslam1 Před rokem

      @@mitchpeter5718 you lost count? Which videos. Produce your evidence if you're truthful. Also if it has anything to do with CP.... 😭😂
      But anyways, let's see these *vile* comments you lost count on.

    • @Adam10412
      @Adam10412 Před rokem +3

      @@YusufIslam1 ngl I don't think hijab, May Allah bless him, is the best representative in terms of akhlaaq since he gets "passionate" sometimes although he's definitely very knowledgeable. I'm talking about akhlaaq specifically but better representatives imo would be Gabriel Al Roomani, Shariff from tap and saajid amongst others.

    • @YusufIslam1
      @YusufIslam1 Před rokem

      @@Adam10412 where besides what I already mentioned is the vile comments? Let's not shift it over to someone being aggressive or stern.

    • @vinobonito
      @vinobonito Před rokem

      He is to agressive, he can never be a representative of islam with that aggressivenes

  • @Trueone786
    @Trueone786 Před 2 lety +2

    MashaAllah…JazaakAllah Khair..for this much needed, and appreciated Clean Up Job. Respect due to ALL 🤲🏽👍🏽👌🏽🎯

  • @wanderingalchemist2451
    @wanderingalchemist2451 Před 2 lety +86

    Brother hijab is so intelligent and eloquent mashAllah. May Allah keep him steadfast and make him a pillar for the ummah and Islam, ameen.

  • @MahdiTidjani
    @MahdiTidjani Před 2 lety +61

    A pleasure

    • @mking8789
      @mking8789 Před 2 lety +10

      True, I agree M Ahmed, Mahdi stuck by his guns for what he believed in yet also acknowledged any miswords unintentionally.
      However I am yet to see Mohammed Hijab make an apology for the disrespectful stuff he said in his past videos

    • @smeshcel3025
      @smeshcel3025 Před 2 lety +11

      I think hijab was correct in regards to the language and refining of ur message in that regard. But ur content is really good most times. Inshallah just keep it up and work on that language akhi👍

    • @mking8789
      @mking8789 Před 2 lety +10

      Yes brother Mahdi, your content is refreshing for Muslim sphere. You speak reality which we cannot overlook. Im a single man and I experience what you cover. Keep up the good work

    • @abigailnoemimunozmartinez3096
      @abigailnoemimunozmartinez3096 Před 2 lety +10

      Brother Mahdi may Allah bless you. The First time I heard you talk in the 3 Muslim podcast you made me change my mind about divorce. I was about to divorce and thanks Allah I leasen to you points and I change my whole mind on this regard. Thanks.

    • @serkankoldere
      @serkankoldere Před 2 lety +5

      You carried yourself well brother, mashallah. While I don't agree with everything you said, I know you mean well and have iman. As long as your intentions are pure, you remain humble and hold tight onto the deen Allah will bless your efforts inshallah.

  • @wissamyassine1447
    @wissamyassine1447 Před 2 lety +35

    Mohamed hijab has the potential to be one of the best Muslim thinkers of our era. I really admire the guy. Ma shaa Allah, Allahumma barik

  • @creativehealth7916
    @creativehealth7916 Před 2 lety +39

    The brother Mahdi is speaking from emotions , why has he made it his life’s purpose to speak about who has high value and who doesn’t? The words he speaks and the terms “toxic waste” for example are really inappropriate, UnIslamic and rude, why is it necessary to speak about women that way?
    Brother if you have an opinion on what you are seeking for marriage or what your immediate family are seeking no one would judge you for that BUT to put out these opinions and preferences and degrade and belittle women is wrong and goes against many principles in the Quran and Sunnah.
    It’s extremely sad that the brother is a Muslim and he is speaking so badly of sisters and putting women down to get views and likes from like minded people. Regardless of your preferences you need to be respectful and open minded and follow the sunnah that every Muslim man and woman are to be married and given their rights - everyone is different and you have no right to speak for this red pill women hating minority!

    • @faresabushanab3669
      @faresabushanab3669 Před 2 lety

      Not really no, see if men such as Mahdi wouldn't say these things, the newer and pre existing generation of Muslim men would be lost. The last words of our prophet (asws) were to take care of women. Unfortunately the "muslim women" these days are not on par or even remotely close to what women were prior to the sexual revolution and ( female empowerment bs ) that poluted them. So why should men remain playing by the same docile rules and regulations that were handed down to us when no women is playing by the same regulations.
      I can understand that two wrongs don't make a right but You can't expect us to be traditional old valued muslim men, and you are not a traditional old valued muslim women. Simply put, you don't deserve that treatment of respect and do actually define as toxic waste, that's in a respectful manner.
      Nowadays, we don't have many women and it saddens us, which is how the redpill praxology was born, you're just men with vagina's; so until women choose to overlap and change the disgusting learned behaviours they enjoy partaking in, nothing will change. The very least men like mahdi are doing is warning the majority of men of what's out their and how to steer ear of it.

    • @glurppuffloid9796
      @glurppuffloid9796 Před 2 lety +5

      @@faresabushanab3669 But you MUST, did allah give you permission NOT to take care of and love women, even if ALL of them left islam and acted like non-muslim women (which is a claim I have a hard time believing)
      The answer is NOT red pill, treat the women as Allah commanded you to, with love, compassion & understanding, and as a society and community we can work together to improve ourselves.
      No one is saying fornication is okay or that being unjust is fine if done to a man from a woman, but the answer is NOT to crawl into the same gutter. there is no war between Men vs Women in the Muslim community we are ONE body, this Men vs Women is a non-muslim issue. furthermore, we have more important challenges to fave and actual enemies trying to kill muslims in the real world, focus more on them, this whole unionizing against women thing is dumb, and instead of that focus more on teaching islam instead of some bargain with the world's women to force them to cede to your demands.

  • @Someone-ct2ck
    @Someone-ct2ck Před 2 lety +28

    2:39:50 that was amazing. You guys are good together. We need this show every Saturday.

  • @sherbetmjjLEMons0
    @sherbetmjjLEMons0 Před 2 lety +76

    This guy really said the Prophet pbuh had his nine wives due to status, how insulting is that to the mothers of the believers. Making it out like they didn't recognize his perfected character. Smh.

    • @SlazeM7
      @SlazeM7 Před 2 lety +24

      So deluded into his ideology that he does not even realize the blasphemy upon the mothers of the believers.

    • @tekkytekkers647
      @tekkytekkers647 Před 2 lety +5

      To say the prophet SAW status didn't play is very delusional

    • @SlazeM7
      @SlazeM7 Před 2 lety +12

      @@tekkytekkers647 You are taking the stepping stone to the rafidhi ideology. The Quran is clear, however, 33:28.
      Btw, why just limit it to the wives of the Prophet (SAW) did the companions including Abu bakr, Omar, Uthman and Ali (RA) also follow the Prophet (saw) because of his status?

    • @saqii2930
      @saqii2930 Před 2 lety

      @@tekkytekkers647 He was known for his good etiquettes. The only think was him being married to more than 4 wife at a time. Only he was allowed. Prophet muhammad scw was orphan and poor so i think he didnt have that much social value

    • @tekkytekkers647
      @tekkytekkers647 Před 2 lety

      @@SlazeM7 First of all wash your dirty mouth before you ever call me a rafidhi- how is talking about the Prophet SAW status disrespectful. He was given the highest status known to man "THE MESSENGER OF GOD", are you going to deny that too? That is completely different- why are you comparing a relationship dynamic between a religious/political dynamic. Status plays a part in attracting a wife- just look at celebrities and how the woman chase after them. to deny this is idiotic.

  • @saidassassi177
    @saidassassi177 Před 2 lety +30

    the main idea of brother Mahdi is that look take the majority of men and ask them what do you want? they'll tell you " this thing and that thing "
    But that's not Islam. We are Muslims we see what Allah and his Messenger ordered us, not what the majority wants.

    • @youtubeowl9544
      @youtubeowl9544 Před 2 lety +1

      🎯 This! JazakAllah Khair akhi.

    • @Akkhenaten
      @Akkhenaten Před 2 lety

      Yet Islam did not come to suppress the fitrah, rather to put boundaries and guidelines to it…

    • @MKRNaqeebi
      @MKRNaqeebi Před 11 měsíci +1

      also if I like something it does not mean this thing is good for me

  • @yes-wo7qn
    @yes-wo7qn Před 2 lety +2

    JazakumAllah khair brothers, Subboor in the end ma sha Allah dropped gems Allahuma barek♡ may Allah guide and bless mahdi as well...

  • @AyeshaKhan-mk3so
    @AyeshaKhan-mk3so Před rokem +8

    I have the utmost of respect for brother hijab. I have been watching him since the very beginning. He’s an absolute gem Allahuma barik. Such a classy individual. We need more ppl like him.

  • @nadiray2107
    @nadiray2107 Před 2 lety +11

    Bless you brother Mohamed Hajib,real man

  • @raafat.gilani
    @raafat.gilani Před 2 lety +17

    It needs to appreciated that the disagreements were dealt with in a civil manner and Islam was the standard of value judgement and Mahdi was honest and retracted statements.

  • @JonasHassibi
    @JonasHassibi Před rokem +25

    2:27:33 that ramble is gold. I cannot lie that parts of Red Pill affected me in a negative way and this debate really beat it out of my system. Thank you

    • @sugaz2099
      @sugaz2099 Před rokem

      MashaAllah I'm Happy for you. Us women should stay away from Feminism and men from Red Pill that's the ONLY way it will ever work

  • @peacenow6618
    @peacenow6618 Před 2 lety +9

    May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!

  • @thomasbuxton2648
    @thomasbuxton2648 Před rokem +26

    I’m Ngl, I’m hopelessly envious of my friends who managed to marry in their early twenties, when they were half broke, had nothing to their name. These guys can take comfort in the fact that their wife loved them for who they are, rather than a mechanical analysis of how useful they are in terms of what they can provide.
    As you go into your late twenties as a man, you have to increase your financial and social status because now, the period of finding someone naturally who loves you for you is gone. Now, you’re judged for how many boxes you can tick off. It’s really depressing

    • @TheZMasterful
      @TheZMasterful Před rokem +1

      there is no unconditional love

    • @AA-xu5uy
      @AA-xu5uy Před rokem +2

      unconditional love does not exist. In islam you have to provide for your family and if you can't (meaning you are broke) you are in fact not doing what you are supposed to do.

    • @AA-xu5uy
      @AA-xu5uy Před rokem +1

      @AlYamani its from islam to spend your money on your family and towards sadaqa.

  • @fbr29
    @fbr29 Před 2 lety +48

    Brother M.Hijab this was much needed your delivery was excellent and I think you definatley humbled MT. Like you mentioned his audience consists of young impressionable brothers who are taking his non-islamic ideologies. When you said "no-one should ever get left behind", that is exactly what islam is about having mercy and compassion for others we should be focusing on bringing muslims together not causing a divide. May Allah bless you because we truly need more brothers like you. Jzk

  • @NoNames824
    @NoNames824 Před 2 lety +19

    Love Hijabs recitation of Quran 🥳

  • @barkenair3826
    @barkenair3826 Před rokem +3

    MashAllah it’s nice to see those humbling moments in between where brother Mahdi is being quiet and listening to Brother Mohammad- and Where he asks him if he knows such and such and Mahdi humbly says he doesn’t know. I respect him a lot more in these moments & that he’s actually showing a willingness to be open. The humility is reassuring than those giving “narcissistic “ with all due respect- vibes.
    Mahdi is very intelligent mashAllah TabarakAllah but there things about the things he says that I find a bit hmm.. He is bold in his convictions..

  • @Mjdd16
    @Mjdd16 Před rokem +20

    This reading Quran part is just so Beautiful 1:01:15

  • @thepathofguidance5684
    @thepathofguidance5684 Před 2 lety +49

    This discussion leaves a bad taste in the mouth especially from this western influenced 'how to get women' brother. We are supposed to change people and societies brothers not confirm and accept its 'reality'. We have come as vessels carrying reformation for society. Pious men for pious women, yes the pious still exist and yes they do still marry but wallahi it's becoming a shrinking group in the west.
    Advice to brothers, don't fall for this nonsense of being a 'high value man' to fit into expectations of westernised muslim women of the west. Perfect your faith and more importantly...be willing to travel to the Muslim lands where you will more easily find a 'proper' muslim wife.

    • @notforsale1264
      @notforsale1264 Před 2 lety

      I agree with you but you need to know that we live in a small world and these feministic ideas are everywhere and the so called Muslims countries are full with corruption , still there is a need to combat these ideas with good ideas so men don't fall into the red pill loop

    • @mohammed96011
      @mohammed96011 Před 2 lety +9

      Well said brother I agree.
      However, I'm sure you can find a good pious woman in the west too. Dont generalise like Mahdi does.

    • @thepathofguidance5684
      @thepathofguidance5684 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes I'm sure you can find nice Muslim woman in UK but it's getting hard. Not to mention the families at least in our local community often marry them off to people not suitable. Feminism and similar ideologies have not quite reached small villages in Muslim majority countries to the same extent.

    • @mohammed96011
      @mohammed96011 Před 2 lety +2

      @@thepathofguidance5684 I absolutely agree.
      I'm looking to get married from back home.

    • @user-nr1vv8lj4s
      @user-nr1vv8lj4s Před 2 lety

      Both feminism and red promote zina and fornication it’s not acceptable. Feminism is not necessary in Islam as women have the rights already the western women are still fighting for. Don’t need to copy the west their societies look rich and fancy but principally, spiritually, and morally it’s going through a crisis. We need to change as a ummah post colonization era tainted our societies. We need to go back to following the sunnah and Quran there is no need for feminism women are given rights and provided by the men in their walis or husband, and men have rights as well women needs to fulfill in the by taking care of the home it’s a joint effort marriage and both need to fulfill their rights.

  • @sammu
    @sammu Před rokem +22

    Let me attempt to sum up this entire conversation: There is a couple that's fighting. They go to a third party to solve their problems. Hijab is like the spiritual guide that is telling them both how to behave and what is the ideal situation and how they should resolve their issues while Mahdi is the lawyer for the guy's side, working on his behalf and interest.

  • @lilacblue783
    @lilacblue783 Před rokem +5

    It's nice to see two brothers with different ideas have a healthy discussion

  • @hafsa1698
    @hafsa1698 Před 2 lety +112

    All I hear this guy saying is “I accept your premise but I’m still gonna say what I said” so basically he just doesn’t want to admit that he is wrong.

    • @ahmedgurey7870
      @ahmedgurey7870 Před 2 lety +4

      Strawman argument what did he say wrong? All he did was use poor language.

    • @aliwalid325
      @aliwalid325 Před 2 lety +7

      sorry sister but this is wrong..in some points he said he was wrong in his use of language. others he said he was completely wrong; and some he said that he is still with his view.

    • @procrastinator8817
      @procrastinator8817 Před 2 lety +1

      Stay mad bushra

    • @superpenguinius1011
      @superpenguinius1011 Před 2 lety +10

      @@ahmedgurey7870 Wasn't he the one who said experienced women are disgusting? He's basically calling some of the wives of the prophet SAW disgusting...

    • @superpenguinius1011
      @superpenguinius1011 Před 2 lety +5

      @M Ahmed "What a stupid comparison! How is the wives of the Prophet (saw) the same as the modern women in 21st century, Western world? He’s talking about women in the 21st century, not 7th century Arabia 🙄. Why do idiots keep comparing yourselves to our beloved Prophet (saw), his wives and also his companions. We are nowhere near to their stature in Islam. Stop taking people’s statements out of context. He’s clearly speaking of women today, especially women who jump from one man to another, without thinking about consequences and their children from those marriages. Many points of his, I agree with and many of the misogynistic (red pill type) undertones, I don’t agree with."
      I don't think you know that we're supposed to at least try to be like the sahaba. That's besides the fact that there is a hadith which mentions that some Muslims will be on the level of sahaba.

  • @veganinthecity3749
    @veganinthecity3749 Před 2 lety

    Ohhhh been waiting for this!!!!

  • @HappyBloke81
    @HappyBloke81 Před rokem +3

    This was all love and what a big man the guest was. Good on you all

  • @aaee2683
    @aaee2683 Před 2 lety +6

    Muhammad WELL DONE 👏 ✔

  • @mohammadarabsson6280
    @mohammadarabsson6280 Před 2 lety +64

    Don't be a child, marriage is a multi factorial decision. That should be religiously, socially, psychologically, and biologically conscious. People should ask their family, friends and people of wisdom from their knowing for advice, not the messed up social media influencers with their trendy pieces of complete nonsense philosophies.

    • @wanderingalchemist2451
      @wanderingalchemist2451 Před 2 lety +1

      Well said....subhanAllah what a world we live in today.

    • @ofroaddude5859
      @ofroaddude5859 Před 2 lety +1

      How was your statement relevant to what mahdi was saying? All I am reading is fairytale accounts on is happening in real life. How is your statement of any substantial value that one can use beside getting likes????
      Mahdi is telling people hey if you see signs like x, y, z, then do this or don’t do that BACKED by empirical data. Then you come to counter with a PC statement

    • @paikuhansensei815
      @paikuhansensei815 Před 2 lety +1

      @M Ahmed brother the early muslim societies and the Muslim golden age was also capitalistic, but with a moral integrity not like now.

    • @paikuhansensei815
      @paikuhansensei815 Před 2 lety +1

      @M Ahmed most people commenting here are still very young abd and can't understand, specially all this "white knights" they don't understand the nature of human behavior in relationships and how "modernity" has changed everything compared to how previous generations lived.

  • @innerspacequantummedia1120

    Love most of the show and knowledge, excellently finished off. Love the ending of both saboor and hijab.

  • @TheFreakyVibes
    @TheFreakyVibes Před rokem +14

    mohammed is so intelligent, I feel like I'm watching a father talking to his teenaged son going through that rebellious phase

  • @dbcooper28
    @dbcooper28 Před 2 lety +9

    *Main principles of Dawah*
    - 1 Sincerity of the intention, that you are inviting people to Allah and no one else
    - 2 Only speak what you know and stay away from subjects you have no knowledge of.
    - 3 Be cautious, use your experience and utmost wisdom to call people to Allah.

  • @peacenow6618
    @peacenow6618 Před 2 lety

    Jazakallahu Khayran Ahsanul Jaza

  • @sofiakhan2612
    @sofiakhan2612 Před 2 lety +87

    Tijani learnt nothing from this discussion. The new video he made after this is spouting the same red-pill ideological nonsense. Brother Hijab, with all due respect, you were far too lenient with him. This disgusting new cancer in our community has to be rooted out.

    • @samik3184
      @samik3184 Před 2 lety +14

      will you denounce toxic feminism that's rising within Muslim women just as passionately?

    • @rathernot6660
      @rathernot6660 Před 2 lety +27

      @@samik3184 Akhi take back your words. You assume she is a feminist. I am a man, I don't agree with this red pill guy, neither do I support the feminist ideology.

    • @999legend8
      @999legend8 Před 2 lety +25

      @@samik3184 don't be silly, boy. Just because someone is against this filth that is red pill, doesn't make him or her a feminist. Red pill is as false as feminism.

    • @MariamAK-uq6vp
      @MariamAK-uq6vp Před 2 lety +13

      @@samik3184 yes as a muslim women, I denounce the toxic ideology that is feminism and red pill! young Muslim children need to learn that Islam is complete, we don't need anything else!

    • @ZAKITHE3RD
      @ZAKITHE3RD Před 2 lety +5

      Ofcourse women hate it. Youd rather watch Mufti Menk teach our youth to knit and continue to raise the collective estrogen levels of the ummah😂. Boys dont be fooled by anyone, do your own research and make your own decisions, and fear no one in the path of Allah. And if u can, be loyal.. to 4 women. 😊💪

  • @sakuram146
    @sakuram146 Před 2 lety +82

    Love brother Hijab's references to Quran and hadith 💯

  • @purveyorofproof
    @purveyorofproof Před rokem +3

    The high value man concept is based on dunya standards...alhamdullilah we have the best example of thE ideal man and it is our NABI S.A.W. We should aim to emulate him and we will be rewarded InshaAllah

  • @shayed9930
    @shayed9930 Před rokem +1

    Jazakallah brother hijab.

  • @OriginalAndroidPhone
    @OriginalAndroidPhone Před 2 lety +50

    Ughh, total and foolish ignorance. Our mothers and sisters. May Allah bless them, regardless of whether they completed their deen by marrying or not. Divorced or not. Inshallah he will learn as he gets older and wiser.

  • @AbuJackson27
    @AbuJackson27 Před 2 lety +71

    Pleas don't put this Video down. It is one of the best streams.💪🏼❤️

    • @equityjustice2695
      @equityjustice2695 Před 2 lety +12

      I agree, Especially since Mahdi made excellent points. Bro HIJAB wasn't getting the point.

    • @AbuJackson27
      @AbuJackson27 Před 2 lety +3

      Both of them are my brothers🤝. Left you have a brother who tells the brother on right what he has done wrong and he admit it with beautiful humble. That's what our Ummah should do like our prophet peace be upon him said:"You are the best fellowship that rose for the people. You command the right and forbid the wrong and believe in Allah ... "
      May Allah forgive our shortcomings. Amin.

    • @SA41959
      @SA41959 Před 2 lety +2

      Agree! Brother Hijab knocked the red pill out of this confused little man. 👌

    • @MaryamMohammadisa
      @MaryamMohammadisa Před rokem +1

      @@equityjustice2695ur mahdi is misleading

    • @SRNK...2127
      @SRNK...2127 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@equityjustice2695you're tapped in the head like your cult leader Tidjani ... Brother Muhammad Hijab totally destroyed this DAMAGED REJECT NARCISSIST in a way that he resorted to buttering brother Muhammad Hijab up
      😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

  • @essa200911
    @essa200911 Před 2 lety +34

    Islam is from Allah and Allah created Humanity and knows what they are more likely to follow and what fits them. Allah didn’t create this life for men or women. Allah created this life and divided different responsibilities for each to see who do better.
    Always remember the key for heaven is not your gender or wealth or race…etc the key of heaven how to make all of this in the path that Allah created not what your desires created..~

  • @break4love23
    @break4love23 Před 2 lety +24

    I wish brother hijab would open up a school. I have 3 children and wish for them to be as eloquent as him.

    • @umarr6221
      @umarr6221 Před 2 lety +2

      The school of youtube

    • @MehediHasan-to8wb
      @MehediHasan-to8wb Před 2 lety

      Same as u sister

    • @aishaarshadalam3412
      @aishaarshadalam3412 Před 2 lety +6

      Encourage your children to read books. All kinds. Non fiction and fiction. Expand their knowledge. Allah will grant them eloquence in speech.

    • @redman6790
      @redman6790 Před 2 lety

      Homeschooling is the best root in shaa Allah

    • @haichteaque2929
      @haichteaque2929 Před rokem +1

      Sister he has sapience institute for this very purpose

  • @88Grimmjow
    @88Grimmjow Před 2 lety +48

    Hijab quotes Quran and Sunnah
    Mahdi quotes red pill movement.
    Mahdi makes an excuse every time that it's a poor choice of words and that he agrees with Hijab, but goed makes videos against what he is saying.

    • @consultmetech5841
      @consultmetech5841 Před 2 lety

      Do you say the same when it comes to business, politics, law, etc?

    • @kakarote100
      @kakarote100 Před 2 lety

      @@consultmetech5841 apple and orranges?

    • @consultmetech5841
      @consultmetech5841 Před 2 lety +1

      @@kakarote100 How so? If red pill is a praxeology rooted in navigating the current paradigm, then surely capitalism is the same, as an example.
      Islam has its own set of laws, policies, economics, etc. We would be foolish to ignore that reality in the name of "Qur'an and Sunnah," instead of navigating it through what is permissible. Red pill is the same.
      Mahdi doesn't encourage brothers to commit zina, to engage in khalwa, or anything that will lead to it. He simply takes what is the current reality and adapts.
      Anyone who doesn't adapt within the current financial system - for example - will be broke, save a few.
      Likewise, the majority of Muslim men will be unmarried, lonely, and sexually frustrated if they are experiencing being single into their 30s IF they continue to follow the descriptive rules of hypergamy and modern feminism that exists in the west.

    • @mark-kq7rc
      @mark-kq7rc Před 2 lety

      @@consultmetech5841 but he accusing muslim women of being virgin or not! and redpill movement has some truth but it is has a lot of falsehood, its pseudoscience and taking certain studies that agree with them but i must say there are some truth to it and we should deal with these issues regarding marrige! also he talks bad about divored women

    • @mustafaaziz343
      @mustafaaziz343 Před rokem

      @@consultmetech5841 do you think Islam doesn't cover those subjects? Redpill goes directly against the quran and sunnah. It's a disgusting ideology for weak incel losers.

  • @SlazeM7
    @SlazeM7 Před 2 lety +61

    "Redpill" and "feminism" are two sides of the same coin in addition to being misnomers. Just looking at their advocates' knowledge of Islam, manners, behaviors and married-lives tells you enough about their respective movements.

    • @mirzafardeen1257
      @mirzafardeen1257 Před rokem

      Yeah and we can't kill Redpill before we kill feminism.

  • @sakuram146
    @sakuram146 Před 2 lety +75

    Alhumdulillah for Islam

  • @abdelw
    @abdelw Před 2 lety +43

    I was poor and not necessarily good looking when I got married to my wife 20 years ago.
    Nothing beats love and affection.
    I'm not saying it's ok for a man to be poor. No.
    It's only best to be with a woman of your social condition who has a pure and sincere heart.

    • @Altair-El-Haddad
      @Altair-El-Haddad Před rokem

      Yeah that was 20 years ago, times are different, women are money hungry now.

    • @abdelw
      @abdelw Před rokem +1

      @@Altair-El-Haddad
      I hope you'll find the right one for you.

    • @nightrider6830
      @nightrider6830 Před rokem

      ​@@Altair-El-Haddad If you are pious, you will attract a woman who is pious. Don't worry about "Most of the women" part

    • @Altair-El-Haddad
      @Altair-El-Haddad Před rokem +1

      @@nightrider6830 the world doesn't work like that, it isn't Disney world.

    • @nightrider6830
      @nightrider6830 Před rokem

      @@Altair-El-Haddad The world works just like that.Birds of same feather flock together. You will able to spot a good woman only when you are good and you know the characteristics of a good woman. Don't expect something you don't deserve. Yes, good women are rare. But just do your part and leave the rest to Allah.

  • @abcdefghijk1024
    @abcdefghijk1024 Před 2 lety +90

    Any man who calls himself a 'high value man' 🤢

  • @JK-me1du
    @JK-me1du Před rokem +12

    Watching some other videos I felt Hijab was an egotistical man always on men's side and being harsh and unkind to women but this video has changed that. I can see that he genuinely does care about his wife and Muslim sisters. Appreciate this video. Both feminism and redpill are toxic.

  • @freeyourmind7538
    @freeyourmind7538 Před 2 lety +31

    I have to be honest, as a Hijab fan, I agree with Mahdi, high valuable/status man and income is a priority in marriage these days even in so called muslim society. Its not the sunnah way but hey, thats the way the cookie crumbles.
    I say this because i had to go through this, i couldn't get married in the UK because i was broke while all my other friends could because they had money, car and a home(mortage) and the amount of bidah in the marriage ceremonies would put the ancient pagans to shame, as you know Islamic knowledge is never questioned when marriage is brought up. However, i had women lining up in Pakistan to marry me even though i was jobless, simply because i was a free ticket for them into the UK as this would raise the woman's status, her family will be like, 'my daughter lives in England now', she has a strong safety net.
    My status was very high in Pakistan simply because of my British passport and nothing to do with my character/islamic principles.
    Mahdi put it straight, Hijab is a VERY desirable man, and its not easy for him to relate to us. Im not so much into Mahdi (seen a few videos),

    • @homtanks7259
      @homtanks7259 Před 2 lety +1

      Make it a win win situation, and stop whining!

    • @freeyourmind7538
      @freeyourmind7538 Před 2 lety +7

      @@homtanks7259 not moaning just stated an opinion on how this discussion went.
      And for the record, im happily married. (Alhamdulila)

    • @homtanks7259
      @homtanks7259 Před 2 lety +4

      @@freeyourmind7538 Al hamdulilah, brother. May Allah fulfill your prayers, amin.

    • @thepathofguidance5684
      @thepathofguidance5684 Před 2 lety +4

      It's hard bro finding the pious women.

    • @freeyourmind7538
      @freeyourmind7538 Před 2 lety +3

      @@homtanks7259 ♥
      Ameen, and one of my prayers is to see you and chill with you in heaven 😉

  • @knobl3506
    @knobl3506 Před rokem +1

    Hijabs recitation was beautiful truly have me power while working from home.

  • @georgenicolacopoulos1042

    Subhanallah the faces of the believers and their behaviour always shine and the opposite also applies.

  • @sahibaar5266
    @sahibaar5266 Před 2 lety +12

    47mins. What would the brother expect a woman who was sexually abused to do? She comes to Islam knowing it’s the truth to be judged and shunned by the Muslim men who wouldn’t choose her because of her past and deny her a chance of happiness? This is not Islam and defo not the sunnah

    • @aishaarshadalam3412
      @aishaarshadalam3412 Před 2 lety +2

      This guy is ridiculous. May Allah guide him. He sounds like a complete idiot and I'll be honest I feel sorry for whatever woman he is married to because from his views it sounds like he looks down on women and just sees them as a means for sexual satisfaction. He only takes on the responsibility of marriage because he gets to have sex. What a joke. We just need to look at the Prophet pbuh and his marriages. He showed so much love and mercy and compassion to his wives. He truly loved them. And was he not the best of men? He said about Khadijah ra "Her Love has intoxicated me." I mean come on. That's absolutely beautiful. Look at how the Quran talks about marriage, how Allah talks about marriage. Men and women are garments for one another. How beautiful is that? This man has reduced marriage done to the basics, stripped it of emotion and love, just a hollow contract, and made it an empty husk of what it should be. I feel sorry for the men who believe him. May Allah guide us all ameen.

    • @sahibaar5266
      @sahibaar5266 Před 2 lety +3

      @@aishaarshadalam3412 couldn’t agree with you more sis. Every woman has her journey and this man has no compassion. I agree. Feel sorry for any man or woman who listens to his rubbish. I can’t believe he had naima roberts on his podcast with her agreeing with him. I was shocked!

    • @Abu-Kurdi
      @Abu-Kurdi Před 2 lety

      @@aishaarshadalam3412 "I feel sorry for the men who believe him" most of what he says about women is true.

    • @aishaarshadalam3412
      @aishaarshadalam3412 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Abu-Kurdi May Allah grant you better women figures in your life if you agree with this guys ideas. I'm sorry if you have a terrible mother, sister or wife who apparently are exactly like this guy describes.

    • @Abu-Kurdi
      @Abu-Kurdi Před 2 lety

      ​@@aishaarshadalam3412 alhamdulillah i have a good mother and sister. my mother married my father even though he was poor, and the mahr was low. she was with my father in both his good and bad times. my father was always good to her, never abused her. i don't think i can have a better woman figure in my life. i don't always agree with mahdi, but he's right about a lot of what he says on women.

  • @mohammadarabsson6280
    @mohammadarabsson6280 Před 2 lety +7

    اللهم صبرنا كما صبرت محمد حجاب وزدنا وإياه صبرا

  • @qabaselfurjani3973
    @qabaselfurjani3973 Před 2 lety +7

    Amazing debate akhis!

  • @seekfactsnotfiction9056
    @seekfactsnotfiction9056 Před 2 lety +6

    _This was a great discussion worth the time to be addressed so that the youth are enlightened about how to handle certain sensitive issues and how to approach/address criticism while respecting our revert brothers and sisters in Islam. Alhamdulillah We all benefitted. A book I would recommend for any student of knowledge to benefit from before he talks about any issue is:_ *تعليم المتعلم*
    _"Alhamdulillaaah, I know you don't like this ... Alhamdulillaah!_ 🥊🦅

  • @abrotheronline9555
    @abrotheronline9555 Před 2 lety +9

    We have the ideal and we have the reality.
    Brothers are focusing on deen and character but get overlooked for marriage by brothers who (in their observation) have more money, more status, more assertiveness and better looks.
    So what should they do?
    They go to places that they believe will give them the qualities that make them more desirable for marriage i.e. some of the elements of Red Pill.
    Sheikhs, scholars and public speakers quote the Quran and Sunnah in terms of advising brothers of the correct type of character to adopt to make them ideal husbands.
    But are the sisters adjusting their criteria for marriage in line with this same advice that the brothers are given?
    Brothers are struggling to get married and so they are going to sources to alleviate this struggle.
    Therefore, should we be addressing the brothers that are going to these sources to remove the difficulty, or addressing those sisters that have expectations making it difficult for the man to marry them?
    OR... (my preferred approach) address both men and women.
    Address the men that aren't owning their responsibilities and address the women that have unrealistic expectations.
    AND.... address the Sheikhs, scholars and public speakers in regards to them adjusting their approach and providing advice from The Quran and The Sunnah that is better suited for the times and issues we are currently facing.

  • @shifa6874
    @shifa6874 Před 2 lety +3

    1:00:00
    You nailed it brother
    So called "Value Man = Qaroon"

  • @Just_logic
    @Just_logic Před 2 lety +25

    Use of proper language is always important. Don’t get stuck behind ego. You know what Allah says about ego.
    I agree with him with regards to second wife.

  • @ayjay7425
    @ayjay7425 Před rokem +4

    Lots of respect for mahdi for owning up to his mistakes.

  • @Jaafar1603
    @Jaafar1603 Před 2 lety +36

    This Guy is not entirely sincere when it come to his point of views. He does not have any acedemic background. He just define from his specific experience and generalise it to everyone else.
    And how he spoke to the reverted sister. The fact that you first need to discuss with your “seniors” to know whether you want to apologise. You made a very bad call there. You are an adult man. Is it that difficult to define that for your self

  • @user_1234abcd
    @user_1234abcd Před rokem +11

    as a revert muslim woman i really want to thank mohammed hijab for defending our honor
    and i‘m quite disappointed to hear that there are brothers with this repulsiv mindset like mahdi‘s
    may allah guide him🙁

    • @muhammadomar1319
      @muhammadomar1319 Před rokem +1

      What repulsive mindset?
      All I see are facts, yes his language is questionable and needs to controlled which he has now changed a lot but the message still stands.
      What exactly do you disagree?

    • @Islamzebest_m
      @Islamzebest_m Před 11 měsíci

      @@muhammadomar1319trust me he didn’t change

  • @MohammedMohammed-pc5bg
    @MohammedMohammed-pc5bg Před 2 lety +2

    May allah guide uss all to the straight path

  • @sjsxf1450
    @sjsxf1450 Před 2 lety +4

    Muslim women and men should be respectful to each other, even if they disagree on some points.

  • @battlefortruth5593
    @battlefortruth5593 Před 2 lety +13

    Mahdi , was right the essence is still true

  • @goodboy5843
    @goodboy5843 Před 2 lety +44

    I have seen half of this video and making this comment: I found problematic the approach br. Mahdi has taken. Actually, he has chosen the red pill over the shariah. I don't know if he realizes that. He was saying that to see the whole picture. By saying this he was referring to what the red pill study has shown and In general what humans desire. But don't he understand that the red pill prescription comes from the study of human desire or their thinking. But the shariah comes from the wisdom of Allah(swt.). If you ask random man in the street whom they prefer to marry, a divorcee or a virgin. Despite what the people have responded to, shariah is true not because of what human thinks or desires rather it's from Allah. The whole picture is "does sharia tell us not to marry a woman who has been divorced three times? Does shariah says those women are evil?" If not then we don't care what does red pill or a study says.

    • @tiktokasylum5186
      @tiktokasylum5186 Před 2 lety +2

      He saying a virgin woman is better for marriage than a non virgin woman. Not that you can’t marry a non virgin which isn’t the point he was making.. actually in the western world if you ask the man who would he marry he will say non virgin mostly because they have experience and know what they are doing and that going after a virgin woman is weird..

    • @tekkytekkers647
      @tekkytekkers647 Před 2 lety +2

      Everything the red pill community preaches shouldn't "theoretical" apply to a muslimah on her Deen. If a brother is looking for marriage simple avoid feminist problem solved you don't need the red pill communities.

    • @mustafaaziz343
      @mustafaaziz343 Před rokem

      @@tiktokasylum5186 this is against Islam

    • @tiktokasylum5186
      @tiktokasylum5186 Před rokem +1

      @@mustafaaziz343 what are you on about
      .. please learn your Deen before talking about what’s against Islam.. here is a Hadith that’s encouraging virgins over divorced older woman.
      Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:
      While we were returning from a Ghazwa (Holy Battle) with the Prophet, I started driving my camel fast, as it was a lazy camel A rider came behind me and pricked my camel with a spear he had with him, and then my camel started running as fast as the best camel you may see. Behold! The rider was the Prophet (ﷺ) himself. He said, 'What makes you in such a hurry?" I replied, I am newly married " He said, "Did you marry a virgin or a matron? I replied, "A matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you may play with her and she with you?" When we were about to enter (Medina), the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Wait so that you may enter (Medina) at night so that the lady of unkempt hair may comb her hair and the one whose husband has been absent may shave her pubic region.
      sunnah.com/bukhari/67/17-19
      Wallahi most of us are just poisoned by western propaganda

  • @azizabdurazakov8547
    @azizabdurazakov8547 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love this guys! This guys are lions!!!

  • @khalidkhalifali4165
    @khalidkhalifali4165 Před 2 lety

    Great video! Masha Allah!

  • @hisforheart6507
    @hisforheart6507 Před 2 lety +4

    *Today*
    *Everybody knows* the Price
    of *Everything* and the Value
    of Nothing
    *And who Knows* it ALL Best
    Except *ALLAH*

  • @user-kn5lc2zo2c
    @user-kn5lc2zo2c Před 2 lety +5

    Mahdi has now made it his livelihood and income doing this kind of work. He will find it very hard to leave this lifestyle and from promoting these kind of views which go against Islam. This is why its important to start the foundation of making money completely halal, because if you don't it is inevitable that when you start making money that you can't leave even when that money is unlawful.

  • @talatshahgmailcom
    @talatshahgmailcom Před rokem

    MashaAllah great discussion. I've learnt so much from your talk.

  • @blitzdelivery4479
    @blitzdelivery4479 Před 2 lety +2

    Very beautiful discussion between both brothers. I'm not taking any sides just promoting this video!

  • @gajiburrahman7378
    @gajiburrahman7378 Před 2 lety +44

    I think brother Tidjani is describing what he believes to be the reality on the ground.
    And brother hijab is describing what the Islamic ideal should be. So for example:
    Islamic ideal: marry someone for their piety and character.
    Reality: most people marry for looks and Status.

    • @mohammed96011
      @mohammed96011 Před 2 lety +15

      Yeh but if you train the muslim community to the reality and propagate to conform to it, it is a defeatist mentality.
      We should be propagating the ideal until it becomes reality, with the use of knowledge.
      A reality does not make it right. If one day society was such that the reality became - the only way to get women was to give up your religion completely and chase money (because women now find that attractive) - it doesnt justify us doing and propagating that.
      As muslims, we dont conform to the reality just because its reality. We seek to change that with our dawah. Reprogramming minds with islam the the haqq.

    • @kakarote100
      @kakarote100 Před 2 lety +7

      @@mohammed96011 Yeah, change their perception of reality so society has more deen minded people than duniya minded people. Tidjani and his followers themselves have become duniya minded to oppose other duniya minded people. Notice, how their topic of discussion is always about women, sex life, how to dominate women and how to look 'desirable'. Tidjani talking about these topics 24/7 in his channel, makes me wonder if this is all that swirl his mind. The deen is not in the heart. Such people perceives reality differently from the people of the deen.
      These people are the victims of "ideological subversion". If you ask them they won't be able to tell you what it means.

    • @gajiburrahman7378
      @gajiburrahman7378 Před 2 lety +2

      Of course, you guys are right, we should strive for that Ideal. But it's easier said than done.

    • @mohammed96011
      @mohammed96011 Před 2 lety +4

      @@gajiburrahman7378 no one said it would be easy. Everything is earned in life.

    • @albanian8095
      @albanian8095 Před 2 lety +5

      @@kakarote100 you dont understand mahdi is saying what muslims women now days are asking for what the demand is hes saying be religios dont neglet deen but alos be suscesful and make money and hes speaking facts . musmim women want the basics 5 daily prayers zekat if yoy uave those is oke but when it comes to money thay wont more

  • @user-et2ng1qb2m
    @user-et2ng1qb2m Před 2 lety +5

    Sumayah R.A. did not die for RasoulAllah s.a.w due to 'status'. She died for her deen, for her belief in Allah S.A.W. She died because she refused to turned back from the Kalimah.
    We can't stop the foolish amongst us from going against each other *HOWEVER* including RasoulAllah s.a.w, his family or his companions needs to be a hard no zone.
    As for this nonsense on both sides:
    "The believing men and believing women are allies of one another. They enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and establish prayer and give zakah and obey Allah and His Messenger. Those - Allah will have mercy upon them. Indeed, Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise".

  • @amalia512
    @amalia512 Před 2 lety +3

    11:51 i was shocked to hear that a'udzubillah
    Btw Jazakumullah khayr brothers 👍

  • @Bombo10
    @Bombo10 Před rokem +1

    May Allah reward and guide both brothers and guide us all. I feel like there is an element of missing each other's point in this debate. To the extent that they're not even sure what they disagree on. Maybe there is less of a need to refute the red pill "observations" and more of a necessity to warn against a worldview overfocussing on them which the 2 brothers could do in agreement. There's definitely a marriage crisis in and outside the ummah and we need practical solutions. Allah help us 🤲

  • @habasoosy2202
    @habasoosy2202 Před 2 lety

    @Subboor Ahmad, can you please post the most recent Saturday night live please. Unfortunately I wasn't able to watch it live. Jazakallah brother.

  • @FayazKadir
    @FayazKadir Před 2 lety +26

    my wife had men in her life before me.. some men were kind to her and some not so kind... I was a virgin.. I knew it before I even married her....So what? We are 9 years married, going 10.. 4 kids and counting.. I am the happiest in my life.. I will never regret that decision of marrying her...

    • @TC-ts2ns
      @TC-ts2ns Před 2 lety +1

      Happy for you!

    • @al.jibran
      @al.jibran Před 2 lety +6

      As long as you are both happy and raising your kids with Islamic values, that's all that matters. May Allah bless you and your marriage.

    • @TravelwithRia92
      @TravelwithRia92 Před 2 lety

      Mash’Allah 🥺🥲 beautiful may Allah continue to bless your marriage.

    • @excusemeforbeingsorry
      @excusemeforbeingsorry Před rokem +1

      Takes a different type of man to turn a blind eye to something like that. may Allah grant you barakah in this life and the next, ameen

  • @aarfeenanees9147
    @aarfeenanees9147 Před 2 lety +47

    Basically, Brother Mehdi has two types of ideas
    1) Correct ideas but he delivers them with bad language.
    2) Unislamic ideas.

    • @m..1047
      @m..1047 Před 2 lety +5

      @بُب بُب Dont know why your defending MT though. Salafi Sheikh I've asked said do not listen to this person. Why didn't you ask the ulema first before promoting? Do you want the sin of misguiding people? Better to ask people of knowledge then give ur own opinion.

    • @m..1047
      @m..1047 Před 2 lety +4

      @بُب بُب sheikh assim al Hakeem. I asked him myself. Go ask him if you doubt me.. He has a website where you can ask I didn't mention his name just some of what he what he does/says. He said do not listen to this person. And before you go saying 'I don't take from him' Do you really think the senior ulema will agree with MT as they are far stricter in these things. Fear Allah. Stop promoting/ defending him. Soon I will try to ask the senior ulema if I can.

    • @m..1047
      @m..1047 Před 2 lety +2

      @بُب بُب no I specifically asked him about this individual. Not mentioning his name but what he specifically says and does Thats another fatwa of his ur talking about which was on red pill not MT. Ask him if you don't believe me. But no ur besotted with the guy

    • @aneesa3516
      @aneesa3516 Před 2 lety +3

      He was also imprisoned for beating his ex wife.

    • @m..1047
      @m..1047 Před 2 lety +1

      @بُب بُب I say it again. Go ask the sheikh if you don't believe me.

  • @hisforheart6507
    @hisforheart6507 Před 2 lety

    *High Value believers*
    *Are those*
    *Who are constantly* maintaining their
    *Returning to ALLAH*
    In humility;
    Meaning; *all the way up*
    until death takes them, they constantly attribute "it" ALL to ALLAH
    What is "it"
    *La hawla wala quwwata illa billah*

  • @Rowena410
    @Rowena410 Před rokem +2

    I totally agree Mahdi has a worldly and secular idea of "high value" Man and Woman. Muhammad, Aisha, Khadija whe´re high valuable people because they did put there trust and faith in Allah and lived there relations like Allah wants it. With respect, kindness, humbelness and most of all faith.

  • @mohammed96011
    @mohammed96011 Před 2 lety +12

    The problem with Mahdi is that he puts too much emphasis on the means then on the success given by Allah in a relationship. No doubt the messenger of Allah told us to tie our camel, but ultimately Allah is the source of success. The problem with red pill is that it has a deficiency with Aqeedah.
    Why do you think we have salatul istikhaarah is islam? Because, even if the means you have taken point to the fact that an option is 100% perfect or non-perfect, Allah ultimately is the source of success and grants it.
    Allah can also grant success against all odds even when they appear to be the worst option.
    Brothers and sisters, focus on your deen, consult Allah and you dont have to worry about anything. It has all been decreed in the preserved tablet.
    The means is not everything, your relationship with Allah is everything and following his shariah. Take the means (not to the extreme Mahdi proposes), but emphasise your relationship with Allah more. He is the source of success and will not let you down

  • @user-ee6td1tl3c
    @user-ee6td1tl3c Před 2 lety +48

    The simple life is underrated. Redpill guys and feminists can learn a thing or two from my mountainfolk grandparents.

    • @satellite964
      @satellite964 Před 2 lety +3

      Mountainfolk are not equipped for onslaught of the modern world, I'd say they'd do way worse. That said all three (Redpill guys and feminists, mountainfolk/older gen ) need to go back to the Quran and sunnah.

    • @subwayshah212
      @subwayshah212 Před 2 lety

      You are from Crazy mountain

    • @mohammed96011
      @mohammed96011 Před 2 lety

      Lol I like it

    • @kroposman2302
      @kroposman2302 Před 2 lety

      Welp, I'd better start packing for Afghanistan.

  • @millionfish
    @millionfish Před 2 lety +1

    Can someone cut the last minute of the video and post it to tiktok. JazakAllahu Khairan.

  • @istriver.
    @istriver. Před 5 měsíci

    MashaAllah!
    Muhammad Hijab will InshaAllah be rewarded with a special place in Jannah, for the huge amount of effort he is making, in terms of guiding the muslim youth and preventing them from being misguided.

  • @mohammedrahman1278
    @mohammedrahman1278 Před 2 lety +7

    Mohammed hijab maa sha allah with out love the is no relationship if a man does not love his wife the will be no strong marriage keep it up Muhammad.

  • @sj4695
    @sj4695 Před 2 lety +6

    Salam, what time is the funeral prayer for the red pill thomasiyoon?

    • @hsundercover9234
      @hsundercover9234 Před 2 lety +2

      butthurt qawwamun viewers have nothing to do but to drag RP men (who chase excellence) down to their level of misery.

  • @akram.ibrahim
    @akram.ibrahim Před 2 lety +1

    MashaAllah that was a great chat, learned a lot!

  • @user-xx1tp8kn5w
    @user-xx1tp8kn5w Před 4 měsíci

    Brother Hijab I really appreciate you and for having this discussion with this man.

  • @Shuayb_ibn_Saleh
    @Shuayb_ibn_Saleh Před 2 lety +18

    This guy has gotten his knowledge from the fresh and fit podcast, where they bring a panel of women and put them on the spot and speak about high value men yada yada yada blah blah blah the thing is a high value man doesn't refer to themselves as high value. Islam is perfect and the teachings of the prophet are complete. Women and men need to follow the sunnah not red pill

  • @OriginalAndroidPhone
    @OriginalAndroidPhone Před 2 lety +45

    This is some toxic stuff that madhi did.

    • @mk-ld8ih
      @mk-ld8ih Před 2 lety +2

      Lol are you one of those feminazis?

    • @QuranicRemembrance
      @QuranicRemembrance Před 2 lety +18

      @@mk-ld8ih You know there’s a middle area. Not supporting some Redpill ideas doesn’t make someone a feminist.

    • @kabhussain3113
      @kabhussain3113 Před 2 lety +8

      @@QuranicRemembrance , wasting your time explaining to these guys..
      They might wake up from their stupidity when they are older and still single as no women would want to be treated with the contempt they show..

    • @hsundercover9234
      @hsundercover9234 Před 2 lety

      @@kabhussain3113 lol keep barking and wishing for people to be dragged down to the same level of misery as you. the only muslim men successfully doing polygyny are those chasing excellence as the RP tells men to do.

    • @kakarote100
      @kakarote100 Před 2 lety +1

      @@hsundercover9234 go chase your excellence. most of the redpillers and feminists hardly pray their salat. but they sure like to be under the impression that they are the better muslim. stay true to your delusion. the ummah doesn't need you, go be a red piller and show the world what you're made of.

  • @abdulaskar3831
    @abdulaskar3831 Před 2 lety

    Liked this vid a lot

  • @quratulaintariq847
    @quratulaintariq847 Před 2 lety +22

    lol this guy has no idea about what woman want, and is making sweeping blanket statements according to his own experience or limited knowledge. Character of her husband and his sincerity is the most important for a woman. With regards to financial status on a man, she has the right to marry someone of similar socio/eco status, she has the right to marry someone as similar as possible to her, so its easier to adjust. As men, you should respect that, instead of complaining about it. And, many many woman even compromise on that. What is unattractive: lack of wisdom, lack of kindness, lack of gentleness in speech, being overwhelmed by insecurities, not being aware of the sensibilities of their women, being a workaholic and prioritising money instead of the home.

    • @tiktokasylum5186
      @tiktokasylum5186 Před 2 lety

      Actually it’s looks number 1 then character..

    • @hiphopuniverse1041
      @hiphopuniverse1041 Před 2 lety

      @@tiktokasylum5186 muslims are living in lala land.

    • @sunwukong32
      @sunwukong32 Před 2 lety +2

      @@hiphopuniverse1041 how are you talking from outside the club 🙄