Revisiting My Family Photos with my Birth Father & Celebrating My Birthday

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  • čas přidán 3. 04. 2021
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Komentáře • 238

  • @maureenackerley8024
    @maureenackerley8024 Před 3 lety +138

    It is so lovely to follow your life story. Your birth dad is so proud of you and loves you very much. Happy Birthday Alex, you look 19 years old not 29! Your mum and dad in New Zealand have raised a caring lovely young man. 🎂🎁💕

  • @TheWildManEnkidu
    @TheWildManEnkidu Před 3 lety +131

    Life is a strange thing. Did you ever imagine you would be where you are now, discovering, meeting, and spending your birthday with a family you never knew you had? Wonderful people who love you? It's like you've discovered an entirely new part of yourself that was missing. So, so happy for you. Beautiful family.

  • @NoirHammer
    @NoirHammer Před 3 lety +119

    I picked up on your father's concern about "regrets" and I think you really need to tell him in private that there are no regrets and only happiness.

    • @iddomargalit-friedman3897
      @iddomargalit-friedman3897 Před 3 lety +3

      Exactly my thoughts
      He's obviously not yet feeling completely secure in the relationship

  • @houseofjamilashairamarie5911

    I turned 29 yesterday. I met my birth father last year for the first time. Keeping a relationship with my birth father gave me the healing I've been looking for. I'm happy for you Sasha

  • @treshka6233
    @treshka6233 Před 3 lety +53

    The kindness of this video is out of scale

  • @TomNashTV
    @TomNashTV Před 3 lety +70

    Your Russian is getting so much better man wow

  • @jonaskessler326
    @jonaskessler326 Před 3 lety +62

    That’s a SUPER cool white jacket your dad bought you! Congrats on your 29th! 🎂🎉

  • @jaynareynolds3684
    @jaynareynolds3684 Před 3 lety +60

    I've mentioned it to you before, and I'll say it again.......continue working very hard on learning the Russian language. I realize you know how important it is, however as someone who is almost 70 years old, I'm here to tell you, it is more important than you can understand right now. When your dad grows old and passes away, you will then have no regrets you tried your level best to speak to him in his native tongue whereby your words can truly express your love to the fullest.

  • @freeyoutuber6703
    @freeyoutuber6703 Před 3 lety +14

    *I WISH ALL OF YOU THE BEST!*
    FROM KAZAKHSTAN
    ✋🙋

  • @georgiawegrzyn5297
    @georgiawegrzyn5297 Před 3 lety +28

    Wow, how nicely your father family dress up for your birthday, to make the day special celebration. Nice jacket !

  • @JulieJewelzKvasnicka
    @JulieJewelzKvasnicka Před 3 lety +68

    You look exactly like your birth father when he was in the Army

  • @theggbros
    @theggbros Před 3 lety +29

    Sonia!!! She is beautiful! She did a wonderful job!!

  • @melodyakbari1369
    @melodyakbari1369 Před 3 lety +10

    Okay Sasha or Alex beautiful story. Your sister and cousins are just so cute and you are the fun big brother enjoyable to be around with. They will miss you buying them ice cream when you are gone. How sweet to see the children bonding with you and the gift from the family the jacket looks so smart on you. To see everyone dress up on your birthday is so special. To see you and your birth Dad looking at those pictures is so precious. Every minute you spend with your Russian family is more than a memory to remember. So much Love coming out of the screen. Thank you for sharing your life and for all the world to see. We are like in the journey with you watching you from Canada and others whatever country they are from. Your Father's introductory and Sonia are tied 1-1.

  • @aminahforever4277
    @aminahforever4277 Před 3 lety +23

    Am teary eyed watching this. Sasha, you are one very lucky gentleman🤩.

  • @sharonstone3284
    @sharonstone3284 Před 3 lety +31

    It is very difficult to decide between Mihail and Sonia, which of them makes the best introduction. I can't conclude. Sonia is super cute though. 😉
    Your birthfather is a natural infront of the lens. I am delighted that you can spend time with them, ecspecially on your birthday.
    Looking forward to you seeing your brother in Russia.
    You are so humble and polite. I wish you tons of happiness.

  • @bryndrson8289
    @bryndrson8289 Před 3 lety +32

    Love this channel. Alex deserves more subs

  • @neil6765
    @neil6765 Před 3 lety +12

    Happy Birthday from Wales UK

  • @katheryns1219
    @katheryns1219 Před 3 lety +29

    Wow, your Russian has been improving by leaps and bounds since you got to Russia. Keep progressing as you continue your journey!

  • @yardrail3432
    @yardrail3432 Před 3 lety +12

    Always inspiring. Just love catching up with these wonderful natural people and how they share their love for each other.

  • @barliegirl5374
    @barliegirl5374 Před 3 lety +41

    Gee, I wish this for my son. One day, I pray that he will get to go to Russia and meet his family in person. He's known practically his whole life, but we never got over there.

    • @constanceglad32
      @constanceglad32 Před 3 lety +1

      Now it's much easier to do this. Maybe he needs just a little bit of help and encouragement?

  • @estellesmith6418
    @estellesmith6418 Před 3 lety +12

    Oh Misha, Sasha will NEVER regret making contact. Look, I don't regret that he made contact....it made MY world bigger. 🤣

  • @pavelyazev4393
    @pavelyazev4393 Před 3 lety +18

    Hi Alex, I have been watching your story almost from the very beginning. I want to tell you that you are a great guy. I wish you the success in your live. Be sure to invite your father and his family to look at New Zealand. I think it will be a big event for them.

  • @emeraldaphrodite2745
    @emeraldaphrodite2745 Před 3 lety +15

    White denim looks lush! Looking trendy, Alex, suits well!
    Happy belated Birthday, Sasha!! Stay blessed!
    As always, sending much love and best wishes to your massive extended family! You are all so lucky to have on another in your lives!
    Kindest regards from the UK xxx

  • @hemikiwi817
    @hemikiwi817 Před 3 lety +18

    С Днем Рождения, Алекс. Твой русский становится лучше!

  • @glenmcb5179
    @glenmcb5179 Před 3 lety +15

    I really enjoyed this video everyone is so happy 😊

  • @carlworrall
    @carlworrall Před 3 lety +16

    Its amazing how you are all trying to communicate with each other and learning each other's language as you all have something to say but hard at the same time. Amazing to watch and thank you to you and all your family for letting us see your honest journey.

  • @AntoinetteEmily
    @AntoinetteEmily Před 3 lety +6

    Oh my goodness this made me so emotional. I love your relationship with your birth father. Your videos in Russia are just amazing. That white jean jacket looked so good on you btw.

  • @LoboLady2007
    @LoboLady2007 Před 3 lety +9

    Your gonna love your 30’s it is better than your 20’s. It seems like life becomes more stable and your finally are looked at as an adult and not a “kid” looking to extend adolescents.

  • @kissey5
    @kissey5 Před 3 lety +6

    You can recognise happy birthday in any language

  • @shashilalgupta1745
    @shashilalgupta1745 Před 3 lety +9

    God is great family reunion . Video is so beautiful .

  • @katherinekeon7034
    @katherinekeon7034 Před rokem

    His heart is so loving and kind. I remember when the first video when he picked you up when you are tall man. And how he calls your biological mother mama and then her name. It gives her that respect to he is such a kind man his heart is so loving generous for giving he seems genuinely concerned for you for your biological mother for your adopted parents how grateful and thankful he is that you found him and he hopes that you do not regret it. He has a wonderful man. You are blessed in the hardship of finding that you had so much love everywhere. Sometimes hardest situations bring love that we didn't even know was there. So amazing

  • @dovlab3089
    @dovlab3089 Před 3 lety +14

    С днем рождения Саша! Пусть твои мечты сбываются, очень рада за тебя:)

  • @girlfromlebanon
    @girlfromlebanon Před 3 lety +10

    Happy belated birthday from Toronto, Canada!

  • @firuzarakhimova8797
    @firuzarakhimova8797 Před 3 lety +1

    С Днём Рождения Саша!Какой классный парень🥰

  • @evagustavsson3554
    @evagustavsson3554 Před 3 lety +8

    Sasha, ti molodec! Ochenj horošo govorish po russki.
    I am happy I found your channel. You are spreading so much joy with your story!

  • @damianavoneric9991
    @damianavoneric9991 Před 3 lety +6

    Alex, enjoy your time with your family!❤️

  • @mwoodson3649
    @mwoodson3649 Před 3 lety +9

    Happy Birthday young man!!

  • @rockandblues3635
    @rockandblues3635 Před rokem

    maybe his father feel guilty but you can tell his father miss him & love him so much, god bless them

  • @fraidysteinberg2365
    @fraidysteinberg2365 Před 3 lety +5

    Your sister is the cutest! Love

  • @jacintadiogo2295
    @jacintadiogo2295 Před 3 lety +7

    Happy Birthday and Happy Easter...From Canada...

  • @iperezable
    @iperezable Před 3 lety +2

    Aww the little cousins ♥️ how cute!!! The little boy is picking up English very fast as well! Happy birthday!! 🎂

  • @debbiea6782
    @debbiea6782 Před 3 lety +17

    The picture of your sister, dad, and stepmom should be updated. It’s time to include you. They can put them side by side.

  • @judifricke6368
    @judifricke6368 Před 3 lety +5

    Do you feel you Mother Country calling you home? Is that how you feel? And your birth father.... that is your roots. Hold on tightly to it. He loves you so. I hope you call him Dad one day as well.

  • @lorettajones5076
    @lorettajones5076 Před 3 lety +7

    That was wonderful..Alex you are the best!!!

  • @nicklasgrande6508
    @nicklasgrande6508 Před 3 lety +10

    Another great video, this channel is a hidden gem

  • @decowomen
    @decowomen Před 3 lety +3

    It would be so cool to see them visiting you in NZ!

  • @ngengoseke6344
    @ngengoseke6344 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow Alex that was so cool and happy birthday. I like the way you are looking after your Sister, and she's very intelligent and like the way you are teaching your Sister English and she has lovely English accent, I like the way you interact with your Dad and he is a good Man with a big Heart ❤ . Alex you are an intellect, wise and humbled young man and like the video.
    God bless your family. 🙏🙏

  • @louisasmiles
    @louisasmiles Před 3 lety +20

    I love Sonia messing about in front of the camera.

  • @Pixlanta
    @Pixlanta Před 3 lety +1

    Sonia's cousins are sooooo cute❤️👍🏼

  • @billyjac3816
    @billyjac3816 Před 3 lety +7

    Sonia's intro was fantastic! She's such a character, so pretty and so funny! Your videos and family are always a pleasure to watch as well as they're helping me on my quest to learn the Russian language. Happy Birthday! 🙂👍

  • @lorrettacrowley5922
    @lorrettacrowley5922 Před 3 lety +4

    So Happy for you and both of your of your wonderful families . Little miss Sonia is a little Ray of sunshine 🌞

  • @capeclearisland
    @capeclearisland Před 2 lety

    I love how Misha is such a dad - adjusting your new jacket and fixing you up

  • @ivorymccloud5470
    @ivorymccloud5470 Před 3 lety +3

    I love Sonia she's such a sweetheart

  • @fortymillioncoins9066
    @fortymillioncoins9066 Před 3 lety +4

    Happy Birthday! с Днем рожденья!

  • @robinellison6708
    @robinellison6708 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm so happy you had a wonderful time! You can tell you are loved by both families!

  • @Oldentucky4
    @Oldentucky4 Před 3 lety +1

    Alex Happy Birthday! I'm enjoying watching your video!😍👍

  • @willowluna5618
    @willowluna5618 Před 3 lety +4

    Love watching your videos and following your journey! Your birth father is so full of joy, love and pride for you. Sister Sonia is adorable and growing up to be a character. 😍❤️

  • @jenp3847
    @jenp3847 Před 3 lety +7

    Happy Birthday!

  • @gostavoadolfos2023
    @gostavoadolfos2023 Před 3 lety +3

    Your Russian and Kiwi families are a treasure.🥰🥰🥰

  • @Guest-fw6do
    @Guest-fw6do Před 3 lety +5

    More videos! 😊 thanks for sharing us your journey!

  • @cherylsutherland9464
    @cherylsutherland9464 Před 3 lety +2

    Absolutely gorgeous Alex , so happy you had a wonderful birthday with Your Russian family & extended Russian family , you are so special & amazing,
    Look after yourself, as you continue your travels 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻
    From Australia 🇦🇺

  • @mariannesnead6919
    @mariannesnead6919 Před 3 lety +2

    Bravo sonya

  • @banemattiebrahaspat4902
    @banemattiebrahaspat4902 Před 3 lety +1

    Happy birthday Alex may god continue to bless you

  • @ruthtaylor2220
    @ruthtaylor2220 Před 3 lety +3

    Waww very nice jacket🤗,Happy birthday 🎂🎂🎂

  • @roberthuber9417
    @roberthuber9417 Před 3 lety +6

    I am so happy for you ! Your a lucky man !

  • @theobservertheseekerthewan1824

    God Bless You! So Wonderful your Outcome finding your Birth Parents, Wow Your Birth Dad, absolutely loves you!! You Look SO Like him, and your sister Loves you as well! Your Birth Mother, seems to be struggling with opening up to you, but you can feel the Love!! Thank You for sharing your Story!

  • @infoffice
    @infoffice Před rokem

    Какой красивый у тебя папа и мама. Ты сам прекрасен. Поэтому тебя и выбрали.

  • @suzukibeane1220
    @suzukibeane1220 Před 3 lety +8

    Happy Birthday, Alex. May all your birthday wishes come true!
    Happy Easter to both your families.

  • @debraboyea7776
    @debraboyea7776 Před 3 lety +2

    Loved this Alex. They love you so much.

  • @reneelanier3475
    @reneelanier3475 Před 3 lety +2

    You are a twin to your Father!!!!!

  • @iainmoone4403
    @iainmoone4403 Před 3 lety +6

    A Belated Happy Birthday Sasha/ Alexander hope you enjoyed your day and all is good with your good self ?

  • @anaragalaxy5112
    @anaragalaxy5112 Před 3 lety +5

    You are incredible Alex! Happy 29th BD!

  • @firuzarakhimova8797
    @firuzarakhimova8797 Před 3 lety

    Какой замечательный Саша ❤️

  • @laurenewartcarroll726
    @laurenewartcarroll726 Před 3 lety

    I just love the relationship with you and your birth father as well as with Sonia.

  • @abdhasann
    @abdhasann Před 3 lety +1

    from Indonesia : All your video are very touchy

  • @lorrainegatzke1048
    @lorrainegatzke1048 Před 3 lety

    You are blessed beyond measure Alex. A very touching and love filled birthday. Lots of love to all on your side. 🤗😘💖💖💖

  • @ladybearbaiter
    @ladybearbaiter Před 3 lety +3

    Happy Birthday

  • @silkekanter2779
    @silkekanter2779 Před 3 lety

    Sascha, best big brother ever.

  • @richardowens4889
    @richardowens4889 Před 3 lety +2

    The outtakes are the best part!

  • @nandinos
    @nandinos Před 3 lety +3

    What a special way to celebrate your birthday! Misha's army photos are so interesting. Although I preferred his baby photos 😂 I don't know any Russian but it definitely looks like you're getting more fluent. Looking forward to seeing your next adventure in Arkhangelsk!

  • @joyjeffcoat8711
    @joyjeffcoat8711 Před 3 lety +2

    Sonia adores you

  • @robinellison6708
    @robinellison6708 Před 3 lety +2

    Looking forward to your next video of you visiting your brother and his family! 😁

  • @nadyamaximova7478
    @nadyamaximova7478 Před 3 lety

    Михаил, очень рада за Вас! Рада, что судьба подарила Вам такое везение с Сашей. Вы очень добрый, неверняка. Бог все видит.

  • @seangilmartin6768
    @seangilmartin6768 Před 3 lety +4

    Happy belated birthday 🎈

  • @phyllisb5984
    @phyllisb5984 Před 3 lety +5

    Hi, I notice that your birth father and family call you Sasha. I think I missed the why behind this, but I have the sense there is a nice story there. Would you remind us please?

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  Před 3 lety +4

      Hello! Yes even though my full name is Sasha Alexander Gilbert, Sasha also is a more informal and friendly version of Alex :)

    • @TheAllyMi
      @TheAllyMi Před 3 lety +2

      In Russia you call an Alexander always Sasha, as a short form. Like you say Alex in other countries 😅 its the same with Michael and Misha

  • @judyesford6973
    @judyesford6973 Před 3 lety

    I loved this video the children are so cute . And your Birth dad and wife are great people.also surving your country in your army is a honourable duty . Your video,s make me happy.

  • @isabelsvideos7552
    @isabelsvideos7552 Před 3 lety +1

    So beautiful to see how much your birthday loves you. Beautiful to see your connection.

  • @MauriceBln1
    @MauriceBln1 Před 3 lety

    What a touching story and your father seems to be a really great person. He makes a very nice impression. Good luck in your future and best regards from Germany.

  • @calendar53
    @calendar53 Před 3 lety +4

    I am from Kazakhstan! Nursultan is the new capital.

  • @kasparaspetrauskas2181
    @kasparaspetrauskas2181 Před 3 lety +2

    Hello from Lithuania! 🇱🇹
    Since I'm new here I haven't watched all of the older videos yet (hope I will someday😀) but so far what I've seen, these video are really entertaining. This is very nice of you that you keep that strong relationship with your birth father and sister and create new memories together. Looking forward to more videos of your journey👍

  • @starcharx9139
    @starcharx9139 Před rokem

    Not me feeling emotional when your dad helps you with your jacket😭

  • @pearlburl
    @pearlburl Před 3 lety +3

    Happy birthday!

  • @georgepetrin1334
    @georgepetrin1334 Před 3 lety

    A wonderful moment with your father looking over the photo albums.

  • @jeanpitt7401
    @jeanpitt7401 Před 2 lety

    How cool, everyone was dressed up nice for your birthday and taking time with your sister to and from school.
    I am enjoying watching your journey with your birth parents a d Russia.

  • @carlab.1225
    @carlab.1225 Před 3 lety

    Happy Birthday! You have a lovely family! Much Love from USA!

  • @diniemadsen4778
    @diniemadsen4778 Před 2 lety

    You don’t look 29 and what a nice family you have.

  • @maggie210
    @maggie210 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for another beautiful and heartwarming video❤❤❤❤The jacket is aweesooome🤩👍👍👍Your father has a very good taste!Sonia must be so proud to have you as brother👧👦!You are all such a beautiful and caring family!Please give a tons of kisses to Sonia from my part and of course to everybody else😘😘😘😘😘😘😘Hope to hear from you very soon!Sending all the best from Croatia!

  • @lorrainequinn
    @lorrainequinn Před 3 lety +2

    I love every single minute of these vlogs. So happy for you Alex 💝

  • @heimdallwg2112
    @heimdallwg2112 Před 3 lety

    Greetings from Serbia to you mate.
    This is amaizing.

  • @suemick8709
    @suemick8709 Před 3 lety

    Misha is so grateful and thankful to have you in his family he almost always makes me cry. The kids all did great with your English tutelage. What a lovely little sister you have. She's a bright little spark😊