Spending Time With My Birth Father and Family in Saint Petersburg, Russia

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Komentáře • 402

  • @TomNashTV
    @TomNashTV Před 3 lety +237

    Warms my heart to watch this

  • @elizabeth568
    @elizabeth568 Před 3 lety +187

    It’s so cool to see your relationship with your father develop even more

    • @juliesprik9479
      @juliesprik9479 Před 3 lety +1

      Love following your adventures, Alex! Hello from the USA 💘

  • @basedinme9828
    @basedinme9828 Před 3 lety +32

    your dad smiles look so happier

  • @elizabethhiggins3206
    @elizabethhiggins3206 Před 3 lety +70

    You are your birth father’s double, what a lovely wee sister. Xx

  • @EyesonEnforcement911
    @EyesonEnforcement911 Před 3 lety +155

    I'm so happy you posted this video, Alex. Your father is an amazing person, you can just see it. Dont even get me started on how cute your little sister is!! Have an AMAZING time !!

  • @joannpalmieri4741
    @joannpalmieri4741 Před 3 lety +3

    You can feel the love and special bond you share with your birth father and sister. Wonderful family times !

  • @mick3001
    @mick3001 Před 3 lety +113

    Misha is a special dude, and so are you Alex, big fan, love the videos and your story.

  • @iamcherreymaiya
    @iamcherreymaiya Před 3 lety +14

    Your father is so adorable.

  • @oliviamcmunn2819
    @oliviamcmunn2819 Před 3 lety +26

    Ah Sonia is so delighted to have her brother and you're dad looks so happy

  • @debbiea6782
    @debbiea6782 Před 3 lety +47

    This made me smile. You’re an awesome young man. So happy you have such a great relationship with your family.

  • @DominicaRepublica
    @DominicaRepublica Před 3 lety +5

    I love seeing your father. He's always so happy when you are around.

  • @suellenandrews8024
    @suellenandrews8024 Před 3 lety +13

    Hello Sonya from Ireland ex. Australia. You look so much like your biological dad and am so happy it has all worked out so well for you all.

  • @camelez_zit
    @camelez_zit Před 3 lety +151

    I understand why Misha might feel embarrassed (even though he should not!) to speak any English. My parents are the same, they are ashamed of pronouncing words incorrectly. It's kinda sad considering that they grew up in different times, and it's totally normal that they don't have any English knowledge. We appreciate the effort, it's awesome! Good to see such nice people. :)

    • @gailwagner8115
      @gailwagner8115 Před 3 lety +16

      That is so very true.. And he should not be ashamed one bit we all learn the language by making mistakes! No shame in learning :-)

    • @anatolikalyuk
      @anatolikalyuk Před 3 lety +6

      As a linguist, I can say that it’s a typical problem of grown-ups - feeling ashamed of making mistakes while learning a non-native language. Setting aside all the other circumstances (the lack of additional neurons that infants still have), this is one of the main reasons children tend to pick up foreign languages way better than adults.

    • @Nonames569
      @Nonames569 Před 3 lety +1

      @@user-on2bt2kb8r That depends. I live in Russia and speak 5 languages. I’ve got technical education.

  • @privatename8228
    @privatename8228 Před 3 lety +26

    This video brought happy tears to my eyes. So special! Very touching. Thank you for sharing these magic moments with us all.

  • @georgiaharringtonferrell6770

    Your dad is such a lovely person, I love seeing your relationship forming even after years apart. So happy for you

  • @pippa2641
    @pippa2641 Před 3 lety +35

    So cool. :) Nice one Alex. You have a lovely Russian family. You can tell how very happy they are to have you with them. Enjoy your stay. Sonia is a cutie and your dad has a very infectious smile. Enjoy the rest of your journey. Look forward to your next vid. Take care and be safe.

    • @juliesprik9479
      @juliesprik9479 Před 3 lety +6

      Hi Alex! Happy hello to your little sister and your family and friends! Your birth father is always so happy and friendly. Maybe you got your love of cooking from him!

    • @t.t6191
      @t.t6191 Před 3 lety +4

      I know right.. such happy, kind and loving people.. i love seeing how thier family is going...

  • @paulrath7764
    @paulrath7764 Před 3 lety +20

    Your birth-father has been so open to you and accepting of his new “journey.” And, he’s always smiling!

  • @Fralsii
    @Fralsii Před 3 lety +46

    Looking forward to seeing the video "My birth parents visited me in NZ"

  • @janeshea1798
    @janeshea1798 Před 3 lety +60

    Ahhh that is a wonderful video with your birth father and family. Happy memories for you Alex. Enjoy your time with them.

  • @carly1478
    @carly1478 Před 3 lety +28

    Misha's prononciation is just fine.. I'm American and we are not picky at all on things like that but honestly his was great 🙂

  • @NewEarthWellness
    @NewEarthWellness Před 3 lety +3

    What a sweet family. So exciting to hear them learning English. They did a great job.

  • @JonnyGranger1
    @JonnyGranger1 Před 3 lety +1

    2.53 I wish most adults were as happy to enter a room like that

  • @aliciabalchin7277
    @aliciabalchin7277 Před 3 lety +11

    Sonia is so sweet and speaking English.

  • @treetop1491
    @treetop1491 Před 3 lety +100

    When you are with your birth mother you look like her, when you are with your birth father you resemble him as well. (Thumbnail: smile and eyes). I guess you are just their son🤷🏽‍♀️😊☺

    • @cog1888
      @cog1888 Před 3 lety +4

      I totally agree with you, Treetop! :)

    • @Anca820
      @Anca820 Před 3 lety +4

      He has Tatiana's facial shape but Mischa's smile and eye set (and pleasant demeanor!) The best of both bio parents!

  • @georgepetrin1334
    @georgepetrin1334 Před 3 lety +7

    The look on your face is glowing which reflects how happy you are there with your birth father in St. Petersburg. The relationship with your sister is wonderful--I can see how happy she is the see you. Your father is probably the most excited at your being there. He probably sees himself in you when he was your age. Your unexpected coming into his life is one of the joyous moments in his life. I'm sure you all a great time.

  • @reneelanier3475
    @reneelanier3475 Před 3 lety +15

    You look just like your birth father!

  • @souvenirjpgr
    @souvenirjpgr Před 3 lety +27

    Wonderful family Alex. Tell them Michael from China says hello. Awesome

  • @willowluna5618
    @willowluna5618 Před 3 lety +7

    Love Misha! He's so joyful and always smiling!

  • @barb679
    @barb679 Před 3 lety +10

    Hello from America !

  • @petrovaanna5267
    @petrovaanna5267 Před 3 lety +5

    Какой замечательный папа!

  • @KIWI2theNight
    @KIWI2theNight Před 3 lety +128

    You should bring your Russian family back to NZ for a holiday.

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  Před 3 lety +83

      Plan is for them to come to New Zealand sometime soon! :)

    • @frida507
      @frida507 Před 3 lety +24

      "You should" - I guess "bringing" a family from Russia to New Zealand for holiday is probably not cheap... It's like halfways round the globe and they are ... 4 people? Two kids, but anyways... + Covid times.

    • @TheQueenIsWithin
      @TheQueenIsWithin Před 3 lety +1

      @@frida507 Anything is possible in this life.

  • @aswaltan8962
    @aswaltan8962 Před 3 lety +18

    We are happy with your family smile!😁

  • @kissey5
    @kissey5 Před 3 lety +20

    I have been watching from the start and hope to watch more as bond gets stronger, love from Scotland alex

    • @MrSakulent
      @MrSakulent Před 3 lety +1

      Sonia's English sounds a bit Scottish to me. Maybe because she rolls her R nicely ... 😁

  • @PipoGirlTv
    @PipoGirlTv Před 3 lety +14

    I enjoyed every bit of this. Your russian sounds so good!

  • @mishlenn
    @mishlenn Před 3 lety +15

    Alex, your Russian is getting better and better. Now you can communicate with your father without any interpreter. This is awesome! Молодец!

  • @archies5841
    @archies5841 Před 3 lety +19

    Alex, I am so happy for you and your family. I hope you enjoyed the pancakes. Wish you all the best.

  • @lizfdez193
    @lizfdez193 Před 3 lety +6

    I'm so glad you guys keep in touch and spend time together

  • @memehallwelsh1661
    @memehallwelsh1661 Před 3 lety +38

    You and your sister look alike.

  • @willtemsmom2538
    @willtemsmom2538 Před 3 lety +13

    You and your birth father look a lot alike

  • @Anca820
    @Anca820 Před 3 lety +21

    Seeing you and the children was the best part!😊 And Mischa is definitely on fast track to a cult following too!🥞

  • @davidtatevosyan2909
    @davidtatevosyan2909 Před 3 lety +1

    You are an amazing guy... when I start watching your story, I start crying. Your kindness is indescribable

  • @firuzarakhimova8797
    @firuzarakhimova8797 Před 3 lety +2

    Спасибо родителям за замечательного сына!

  • @t.t6191
    @t.t6191 Před 3 lety +7

    I always feel happy after watching your videos Sasha.. thank you for sharing your wonderful journey with us❤🙏❤

  • @frenckky
    @frenckky Před 3 lety +11

    I love how you being surrounded with kids. I can’t wait the time that you would make your own family. I know that you’d be a great father one day 😊

  • @Schacal6666
    @Schacal6666 Před 3 lety +1

    Your sister is adorable! Shes truely russian. Your whole family is blessed.

  • @manxkin
    @manxkin Před 3 lety +3

    Hello from the U.S.!

  • @jasmin0930
    @jasmin0930 Před 3 lety +9

    I just also wanted to say to you Sasha that Misha is a wonderful person he could have been bitter learning that he had a son in his 20s and never got a chance to see him grow up or a say in his adoption but instead he is kind and compassionate to both you and Tatiana and grateful to your mom and dad for raising you. He has opened his heart and his arms to you and that is wonderful to see and I can certainly see where your kindness and compassion come from. I know that someday they will visit you in New Zealand and have just a wonderful time as you are now having in Saint Petersburg with them and I for one can’t wait to see those videos.

  • @natasastankovic7622
    @natasastankovic7622 Před 3 lety +7

    Amazing videos! You can see the warmth and love between your birth father and you

  • @rinawaller1830
    @rinawaller1830 Před 3 lety +2

    Your little sister loves and adores you ❤️🤗

  • @helennn9
    @helennn9 Před 3 lety +21

    I love your videos and your story!
    Misha is such a kind person.

  • @Martina-Kosicanka
    @Martina-Kosicanka Před 3 lety +11

    I wish you the most great time with your second family!

  • @timcarlos
    @timcarlos Před 3 lety +4

    As always, smiling from ear to ear because of your video! Your bond with your blood family is so inspiring.

  • @limbo232
    @limbo232 Před 3 lety +5

    That was such a special video!!! Thank you for sharing!

  • @TheVenezolana13
    @TheVenezolana13 Před 3 lety +6

    I love watching you guys..what a strong connection ❤️❤️❤️

  • @punkyduckscn2732
    @punkyduckscn2732 Před 2 lety +1

    I love Alex’s father and sister. It’s always heartwarming to watch his latest installment ♥️💫

  • @agricolaregs
    @agricolaregs Před 3 lety +1

    That’s beautiful. Your sister is a doll. And you look like each other. And you both look like your dad. Beautiful.

  • @sharaimakara9578
    @sharaimakara9578 Před 3 lety +4

    So happy to see you visiting your family Spasiba

  • @cathyann7183
    @cathyann7183 Před 3 lety +4

    You look so happy, thanks for the update!

  • @DreamingWithEyesWide
    @DreamingWithEyesWide Před 3 lety +7

    I just love the joy in all of these videos. They're such a beam of happiness in these upsetting covid times.

  • @angelacreech9978
    @angelacreech9978 Před 2 lety

    Your father seems like a very sweet man with a kind smile and your sisters precious

  • @cherylsutherland9464
    @cherylsutherland9464 Před 3 lety +4

    I love following your journey with your Russian family , I am also interested in your NZ family & your extended NZ family ,
    I wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart , your NZ parents have done a wonderful job in your up bringing & shaped you into the person you are , my heart goes out to them !!
    You are a wonderful person , enjoy your Russian Family , your little sisterSonia is sooo cute ,
    Please keep us updated dated with your brother & his fiance , also there wedding ,
    Keep safe & GOD BLESS YOU ALL🙏🏻
    From Australia 🇦🇺

  • @nandinos
    @nandinos Před 3 lety +3

    It's so heartwarming to see you and your birth father's family bonding with one another! Such precious times. I'm sure you're enjoying every moment!

  • @radomircodreanu2501
    @radomircodreanu2501 Před 3 lety

    Good job Alex. My mom worked in orphanages and is heartwarming too see children like you and family reunions. You have an amazing biological dad and a mom. Womens are more fragile so they need more help and support. Take care.

  • @janicelaurin7263
    @janicelaurin7263 Před 3 lety +9

    Awesome to see Misha again! I understood the few words he said in English perfectly! Sonia is so cute and I am glad that they are teaching English in her school. She can recite the alphabet! Also, they have a very cute little cat! Loved seeing the little kids at the end of the video with you teaching them some words in English.

  • @beverleydoolittle824
    @beverleydoolittle824 Před 3 lety +7

    Such a heart warming video. Always a good day when you post.

  • @elinazalite1541
    @elinazalite1541 Před 3 lety

    You look JUST like your dad and a little bit like mama tatjana . All your videos make me tear up. So sweet

  • @sarahgraves7860
    @sarahgraves7860 Před 3 lety +2

    So nice to see you visit with your father and sister. You look so much like him!

  • @sharimorris1021
    @sharimorris1021 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for posting another video. You have done a wonderful job documenting your journey and your videos are uplifting to watch.

  • @emeraldaphrodite2745
    @emeraldaphrodite2745 Před 3 lety +4

    Don't worry about your first pancake/crepe, Alex! In Russian they say: "Первый блин всегда комом" - first one turns out always wonky! Alas, yours one was looking good - I guess it's that NZ tan :))
    It's so weird to see complete strangers on the internet and be so happy for them and simultaneously having that feeling of relatability and melancholy! You are such a special young man! Genuinely wishing nothing but the best for you and your family and always looking forward hearing updates from yourselves!
    Папа Михаил, если Вы это читаете, то знайте, у Вас просто замечательный сын! Я думаю, Вы им очень гордитесь и безмерно любите его! Это видно по вашей искренной улыбке и счастливым глазам! Могу представить, как Вы рады, что вся ваша семья в сборе! Надеюсь, мы скоро услышим от Алекса, как все любящие его люди собрались в Новой Зеландии! Уверена, вас всех ждет много-много лет совместных путешествий и приключений, открывая ваши маленькие мира друг другу!
    Всех благ вашей дружной и, как Вы сказали, очень большой семье! Приятного вам аппетита и берегите друг друга!!
    Honestly, so heart-warming and pure this is! Your parents and your biological parents are so so proud of you, Alex! You have gained so much love and building a massive bridge between cultural divides - so great to see you building these relationships, nourishing real friendships and soul-connections with your family and new mates in Russia!
    Stay blessed, Alex! Massive hugs and kind regards to your WHOLE beautiful blended family!! Love from the UK xxx

  • @EimJhae
    @EimJhae Před 3 lety +2

    your sister is so beautiful. ♥️ love from 🇵🇭🇰🇿

  • @ronnienestor
    @ronnienestor Před 3 lety

    Beautiful and inspiring story.
    You can feel the love and connection between the son and father. They also look the same.

  • @Alexandar1236
    @Alexandar1236 Před 3 lety

    Its rare to see such a pure soul. Молодец братан!

  • @lorrainequinn
    @lorrainequinn Před 3 lety +6

    That warmed my heart so much 🌹

  • @margrg21
    @margrg21 Před 3 lety

    You all are amazing. You have dad's warmth and empathy.

  • @Neojhun
    @Neojhun Před 3 lety

    The best part your sister has known you her entire life. No missing years.

  • @iainmoone4403
    @iainmoone4403 Před 3 lety +2

    Brilliant Alex your little half sister is coming on leaps and bounds in English like you are head and shoulders in speaking Russian well done both of you!
    I'm practicing Russian for the moment listening and repeating and I'm slowly trying my best to pick it up at over forty years old?.
    Alex enjoy your time with your family in St Petersburg and be safe and well and have fun with all of your family! . Bye bye from a Scotsman living in England. 🇬🇧🇷🇺

  • @nallavebaptist
    @nallavebaptist Před 3 lety

    What a delightful family. Your little sister is a real joy

  • @belindarayner2101
    @belindarayner2101 Před 3 lety +7

    keep spreading your compassion its truly beautiful x

  • @mariamccool7532
    @mariamccool7532 Před 3 lety

    Hi Alex, I can see how much your birth Father loves you, and you him. And also I can see the love your birth Mother has for you too. Maria. 💗💗

  • @tatianach917
    @tatianach917 Před 3 lety +2

    He is such a Russian dad 😢 his smile is very sincere and open

  • @ngengoseke6344
    @ngengoseke6344 Před 3 lety +1

    Hi Alex, you have your Dad smile and your sister so cute and smart. AWESOME big family and you are Blessed. From London/UK

  • @lindsaydavies9775
    @lindsaydavies9775 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for your posts

  • @sherrinvale
    @sherrinvale Před 3 lety +8

    We loved the train ride between Moscow and St P’s

  • @carollawrence6461
    @carollawrence6461 Před 3 lety +2

    Hello little Sonja. It makes me happy to see you on Sasha videos and to hear you speaking English. Keep on practicing ...you have excellent pronunciation. Love to you and to your Dad and of course to Sasha......from Canada.

  • @roderickcordova614
    @roderickcordova614 Před 3 lety +1

    He really looks like his daddy😊

  • @bethawwad
    @bethawwad Před 3 lety

    Your dad and you share the same beautiful smile and seem so positive. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @justhaulincars
    @justhaulincars Před 3 lety

    I am blessed seeing how you've have reconnected with your birth family and how you've got closer with time.

  • @melissahernandezm379
    @melissahernandezm379 Před 3 lety +3

    I love your birth father he’s so sweet ❤️❤️❤️

  • @katheryns1219
    @katheryns1219 Před 3 lety +3

    Very sweet. Looks like you were there for the Масленица celebration - when you eat all the bliny you can! I loved that holiday. You did much better on turning the blin that I did when I tried! I also love how you're working with the kids on their English. How lovely to connect with your sister. One thing I discovered in working with Russians is that reciting the alphabet isn't something kids learn to do. I'm glad she learned the English one!

  • @frenckky
    @frenckky Před 3 lety +3

    I love it. That you put bloopers :).

  • @nuralina
    @nuralina Před 3 lety +4

    Молодец, Алекс, обучаешь потихоньку язык. Всегда с удовольствием смотрю твои видео. Вот бы еще чуточку медленнее говорил, может быть что-нибудь и поняла. ☺

  • @elvirahamilton-6199
    @elvirahamilton-6199 Před 3 lety +1

    Английский у Сонечки очень хорош! Very good, Sonya ! Я счастлива за вас всех! Very happy for all of you !

  • @JG-bi3he
    @JG-bi3he Před 3 lety +3

    The cat ❤❤❤
    Yummy pancakes got me hungry lol.

  • @dmitry7751
    @dmitry7751 Před 3 lety +3

    Alex, your Russian is getting better and better. Keep practicing!

  • @tijanapopovic1324
    @tijanapopovic1324 Před 3 lety +1

    Privet from Belgrade, Serbia, to you and your familly, my slavic brother

  • @sophiemansell9813
    @sophiemansell9813 Před 3 lety

    You, your sister and birth father all look so similar and have the same warm smile and eyes.

  • @marieboutin9054
    @marieboutin9054 Před 3 lety

    Alex is a sweet young man. All the efforts he has done to find his biological family are incredible. he is probably right to have done so, to find his Russian parents. But he must love his adoptive parents. They have been wonderful people; so generous, willing for Alex to meet his biological family. It must not have been easy for them.

  • @Mary-by1nx
    @Mary-by1nx Před 3 lety

    Sonja, wow wonderful English, you must teach Alex! Hi 👋 from Kansas, USA
    Misha, how lovely for you to invite us all! Looks like you'll have just enough pancakes for everyone! Did you teach Alex how to flip those cakes?
    Alex, enjoy your family & thank them for their hospitality! I forgot Sonja's mum, hello to her as well!
    Blessings on you all🤗
    Misha's pronunciation was impeccable, couldn't find even a tiny fault!👏👏
    Thank you so much Alex for sharing, its beautiful 💗

  • @SuzyLife84
    @SuzyLife84 Před 3 lety +4

    lovely familys❤️

  • @eloisebush4595
    @eloisebush4595 Před 3 lety

    Sonia is cute.she loves having another big brother.precious.