Society HATES Women in Their 30s | (male podcasts, age shaming, anti-aging market)
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Society clearly has an issue with women turning 30. From age shaming, to the anti-aging market, it is something we see everyday. In this video, we will be breaking down how and why society hates women in their 30s.
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Hey someone is pretending to be you in the comments smh
Yes I got a message too that says send a direct message, but I think it's a scam!
@@diandriasmith889 it is indeed a scam! That’s not me
Why would any woman or girl give af what these down low women-hating lo lyfz say. It’s beyond obvious that the dudes in video were all DL and hate women. I feel sorry for any woman who doesn’t get that
@@ToniBryanneTV men don't hate women in their 30's they just don't care about them in the same way that women don't care about a man that is short, doesn't have a job or lives with his parents. its odd how men not giving women attention when they want it is seen as a personal affront to their existence.
Aging is a privilege because not everybody gets to do it. 🕊️
Aging is the alternative to dying so... Please God, lemme age
💯
Period. ❤🙏🏽
As someone that has just turned 30 and has been dealing with depression for most of their life, I have to remember this.
I finally got old enough to tell a youngin you better hope to get to my age hun ...I finally get what my granny was talking about 😂
I think this whole hating 30+ women thing is really silly bc their little 18 to 24 year old girlfriends WILL turn 30+ eventually. U can't stop aging.
This is what I ALWAYS say!! It’s not a compliment to crap on women 30+ to uplift me when I one day will be 30+😭
They’ll just swap them out and upgrade them like cars. Male perspectives on women are truly disgusting. 😑 The more I hear, the more repulsed I am.
@@LoneWulf278 this is exactly why I refuse to date and be with men that harp on only dating women before the age of 30, these men are more likely to cheat or seek out younger women the minute you as the main woman in their life hits 30.
@@LoneWulf278 thankfully it’s not everyone. But unfortunately men don’t correct other men in their behavior, if they observe a situation like that. That’s why incels feel justified in their actions
Amen to this ❤
It's funny how older women are referred to as "used goods" as if a woman in her early 20s wants an old, used up creep in his 40s. It's so hypocritical.
How can a man be used up ?
@@elitecoder955 have you guys seen yourselves?? I'm sorry but men age so badly havig beer bellies from drinking all their 20s and just living unhealthy lifestyles then blame all their problems on women to the point that the media is calling it an "epidemic" because men are bitter and lonely lol
@@elitecoder955 How can anyone be 'used up'? People are not objects or commodities.
Another thing I don't understand is that if EVERY woman in her 20s is sleeping around or going from relationship to relationship according to these men, aren't these guys pursuing the type of women they claim to dislike if they're going for women in their 20s? LOL.
@@Ang36914bingo ! Don’t ever listen to a man ! Anything he tells you he don’t like he likes ! And these younger chicks have 5 kids by time they’re 30 ! So let them have them
As a woman in her 20s, im extremely put off by older men who try to disrespect women their own age. It just speaks to their lack of maturity
That’s exactly what woman do with men their own age ..call them little boys the shame as well this isn’t 1 sided
and the fact that they want someone younger to manipulate. Often times they have nothing to offer the women who are their own age.
@@bavj3395 girl please
@@bavj3395 Perhaps they should stop acting like little boys, then.
@@LivyRivy they are calling the little boys because of age
I’m 37. I feel good. I look good. I got married last month. My bank account is full. Ladies, life GETS BETTER with each age. Embrace it.
How many eggs you got left?
@@zootjitsu6767probably more than what’s in your bank account.
@@zootjitsu6767who said her and her husband even want kids?
@@zootjitsu6767 Get out of people's reproductive health. So strange 🥴
YAAAAS!!!!!!!! Live your best life and live it fully.
With age comes experience and with experience comes discernment. Sexist, predatory men don’t like discernment because it doesn’t benefit them.
Exactly
Exactly! We live in a patriarchal society that hates women period.. but misogynistic men do find some value in younger naive, inexperienced women they can groom (& exploit). Misogyny will promote the system that benefits them… they will always push for women to center their lives around men by criticizing & shaming women who don’t. I hope we all realize that the “women hitting a wall” ideology is literally based on the idea that a women who no longer gives a guy a b0ner is useless. Men who believe this rhetoric have “conditional value” for women, to them a woman’s worth comes from how she serves him… not who she is.
Exactly, they want to take advantage and "mold" (cough* cough* Groom), young women. Women in their 30s already know that game and aren't playing it. Plus, they can use financial support as a tool to keep them submissive. Especially when they impregnate them young and depend on their finances. Also, many of these dads take no accountability with the single mothers they make.
Period!
womxn detected, opinion disregarded
I would feel like a failure of a mother, if I had a son who was on the internet talking like that about women 🤯
Bahaha, probably someone hurt his ass 🤣
Somebody needs to contact the mothers of these "men" and see what they have to say about their sons being hateful and disrespectful.
Yeah I’d be so embarrassed if my son held those nonsensical views let alone put that mess online 🤦🏽♀️
@@jessicaHcatallot of them are "boy moms" who are misogynistic themselves
😅 To be honest, most women are failures at being Mother's. Otherwise we'd have more husbands and not so many baby daddies.😅
As a 50 yr old women, my advice is to ignore whats being said on social media. The people who hate others based off of looks/age are simply projecting thier own insecurities on to others. Who cares what they think? Just live your life and focus on confidence which is the most attractive quality a person can have 🙂
Beautifully said! I’m 35 and celibate and couldn’t be happier with my own life. True I have had heartbreaks, but they shaped me
Just turned 46 & agree with you 💯!! People rely too much on how they're perceived or what others think of them on social media. Social media is cool but it's ok & a NEED to put the phone done. Watch your fav movie, go on a walk, eat your fav ice cream but most of all enjoy life ❤😊
😂
Can I get an Amen...or rather an Awomen up in here?
Older women give horrible advice to younger women. You are being very unhelpful to younger women. Women have an expiry date and they need to hear it. Generally, men will not offer women marriage after 30 and sex is over by the time you are 40-45. You should advice women not waste their time in their youth, to only date for marriage, to keep their body count as low as possible as men value youth, beauty, fertility and purity. Generally, men do not care about your career, money or education. Do not advice women to copy your mistakes, to end up lonely and sad.
I believe a big reason why some men have a problem with women above 25, other than a creepy fetishization of adolescent bodies and mindsets, is also the fact that they're threatened by women who got their shit together. I mean it's a lot easier to impress someone young, insecure and impressionable and who still didn't reach much in life when you have a shitty job, bare minimum accomplishments and childish world views lmaoo
absolutely. they know they don‘t have anything meaningful going for them expect for superficial things like money and „status“ in their little make-believe world, which is why they can‘t keep good relationships either and continously date around. it‘s sad, really
Preach
Yeah. It’s just a fetish. But they want to intellectualize it to validate it. It’s still meaningless. 🙄
Agreed, they're perpetuating the cycle to younger generations. I'm 32 but thank goodness I had a variety of close friends growing up where we didn't harbor such resentment for girls when they were getting scooped up by them Vultures.
Exactly!!! That’s exactly why they say that we “expire” at 25.
Honestly, I was hit on by men WAAAY more when I was under the age of 18 than I ever have in my 20s and I’m only 25. It’s a disturbing realization.
Omg same ! I would go to nappy clubs and predatory men would wait outside or be inside and try to talk to girls that were underage. Now that I am starting to hit some of the ages of the men I dated and I cannot fathom dating younger or even older now tbh. My partner and I are the same age and I feel like we grew up together.
You are right, interest from men when under 18 is disturbingly high. I’m from the UK so we wear uniform and you would think that my school blazer would be a CLEAR sign I’m underaged and would deter these perverts, right?
Nope, still got constantly harassed.
Visit Jamaica, it’s the land of pedos.
Same. My walk to work was brutal when I was 16 for that. I haven’t experienced that when walking in the same way since I turned 18/ 19 even though my weight and everything is the same (not that it’s bad to not be).
I noticed the amount I get catcalled has plummeted since being too old to wear a school uniform (but also the most times I was catcalled was in my potato sack of a uniform yikes)
The fact that some men think women 30+ are damaged goods is so disgusting. I’ll be 33 this year, I’m single and I have no children. I guess I am doomed 😂. We have a saying in Spanish “mejor sola que mal acompañada” meaning better alone than in bad company. Live by that every day.
The fact that you're Latina, single, and childless is an even bigger red flag. Isn't family supposed to be number 1 in your culture? You would have done it like 10 years ago. You are damaged goods.
@@LeeEverett1 lmao dang bruh
Women sabotage each other with bad advice. Everything this lady spews leads too many women regretting listening to it.
@@verbadum2298lmao sure. Even widowed women are happier than widowed men 😂.
@@mooniemajique OK you are disgusted about men's preference and what are you going to do about it, post a comment so other women can agree with you? And what does that do for you?
I remember my mom always said I hate turning 30 and she passed away when she was 28 . I am 29 now and I know being alive is a blessing.
That is so sad I’m sorry for your loss :( enjoy living your life. It is indeed such a blessing ♥️
Womp womp
@@Cateater123are you 5
@@Seruzulhe has 56 comments on this channel😂😂
@@Seruzul No it's just a male so nothing of importance lol
They like younger women so it's easier to manipulate and control them. They know they can't do that with older women.
And leave them single mothers at a high rate and I am young saying this!!
*ahem* leo dicaprio *ahem*
Thats not True. Women should stop lying to each other and stop assuming, Thats not the reason men who are successful choose to date women in their 20s.
@@nsbm159 yes it is. Otherwise you would just be with women your own age
@@nsbm159 Yet none of you predators are are wifing them you leave them single mothers or a Trophy to show off but we all know why she’s with you for money not love
I’m 21 and I am so disgusted in men and the way they view women. When they say “don’t date women in their 30s cause they are “used up and traumatized “ who do you think traumatized them ???? I can not for the life of me stand men. And whenever a 30+ year old man comes to me, I ignore them cause I know he was not picked for a reason
Exactly
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They’ll never hold other males accountable because they stay on code with the degenerate behaviors
exactly...who traumatized them? Any disputes and arguments I have with women, can be forgiven or ignored most of the time. The type of trauma men inflict runs deep and its unforgivable afterwards... and they are so emotionally unintelligent, that they don't care.
@@oooo000oooo true I’ve heard of stories where men tie women down with babies, men that weren’t supportive during miscarriages, men that beat women, woke up everyday on a mission to hurt their partners , pocket watching husbands who don’t work then after traumatizing them, they wanna traumatize the women who start their 20s
My mom turned 63 this year and found her love two years ago. They will marry this year. It’s never too late to find love, ladies.
I love this! Congrats to your mom!
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Same whit my mom too I forgot my moms age uhhh don’t ask me why I forget but yeah I forgot it is 48 or 49 idk
This is so sweet :)
God's timing is always right....right? ;) @@Stinkyfefefe
Dear fellow 20-29 yr olds. Older men looking for younger women is predatory behavior. Ask yourself if you’d look at a 14 yr old boy and think, that’s a great partner. One, it’s vile and two, its taking advantage of their immaturity. Let’s avoid these dusty older men. Remember, if there wasnt a legal age, they would be marrying 14 yr olds like they used to in many societies.
You should be made to wash your mouth with soap. No, men do not go after 14 year olds - that is a child. Did your father go after 14 year olds when he was young? No, let me guess you were raised by a single mother, you therefore have no clue. The reason why men go after 18 year olds (you are an adult at 18 - 3 years after puberty) is because 21 year olds are already run through, with double digit body counts. You cannot turn a 304 into a wife.
There is a saying:" It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt". I think you exemplify that. No, normal men are not pedos and do not chase after children. Men value fertility and women peak around 21. The reason why some men will go younger 18-19, is because, in our "modern" society a 21-year old woman has on average seen more pee-pee than my doctor (he is 70). Ugh :(
Sorry you feel that way but your feelings are as valid as guys feeling regarding younger women.
it's not predatory behavior. Youre just delusional
Lol women dig money and status which older men have compared to younger ones .
This pairing will never fail keep crying.
Girl, I will be 30 this year. I cannot tell you how freeing it is to just ignore men. They can call you bitter, they can say you're going to die alone with a bunch of cats, that's just them projecting their own fears on to you. They know that they have peaked. That's why they're sad. That's why they're bitter. That's why they're angry. It has nothing to do with women. Women are just the punching bag. Enjoy your 20's don't take life too seriously. You have nothing but time on your hands.
I turned 30 in March ,93’ babies 🩷
Yup. I’m at peace keeping that nonsense out of my life. Not worth my time.
I’m 28. I ignore them too. I just travel solo. I love life 💕
Is it you ignoring men … or men starting to ignore you 🤔
@@Krwler Can you yell “pick me” a little louder, I don’t think the deaf clowns could hear you from your one bitch circus act 🤡
As a 38 year old woman I have to admit that there is NO WAY I'd want to go back to my 20s. I LOVE being in my 30s and being more secure emotionally, mentally and financially. I was so angry/mad at the world in my 20s and so lost.
I had fun in my early 20's, but I was always in classes or on the go in my 20's and getting money from my mom. 30's are actually the decade where I started to see the fruits of my labor.
I agree. I’m thriving at 35 and finally loving myself. F others opinion of me
Let me guess and single and lonely.
@@GoodVideos-ry5ie what gave you the impression that I'm single in my comment? Also, just because a woman is single doesn't mean they're lonely. You seem very immature and have alot to learn about life.
@@saramatthews7159 and perhaps argumentative, opinionated, combative, emotionally unavailable and masculine? Sounds like every woman your age, who is single.
31 year old here! I got some of the best advice from a gay black man in his 40s about turning 30, he said his 30s were everything people said his 20s would be, he was more confident, he said to travel more, and he was more financially stable. That resonated with me so much and made my 30th bday more fun! ❤️
And then he got aids
@@seventhcompactor1505I just know ur typing hate comments in your basement, with no female in sight.
@@ambo9569 The sugar dating reality must depress you.
Why ? Wig girl? Too fat? Smelly vag?
Him being gay was irrelevant to your story
@@Blackhaze3000 Why on earth should it be censored? For women who dates men, man who is dating men is more relatable than your average straight guy, when it comes to some life perspectives. The friendship is more likely to be genuine too.
Like how lesbians and biwomen can relate about things concerning dating women when talking to straight guy friends.
That gag is the women in their 20s don’t want them either.
I’m 32 and my girlfriend is 21 and very beautiful. Sorry, old woman.
@@RodyHack_ you are an exception you dumba**
@@RodyHack_ Hopefully she's smart enough not to get pregnant by you predator.
@@RodyHack_ Hopefully she's not dumb enough to get pregnant by you predo.
How women cope is to deny reality. Look at Leonardo DiCaprio. 19 year old women will sign up to be his temporary girl. Women will always want successful men at every age.
The older I get the more I dont care about getting older. I am 39 and grateful to be almost 40. Also the older I get the more I tend to tune men out and their delusion/foolishness.
I'll be 39 in August and honestly this is the best I've ever felt in my life. I've been tuning out everybody's foolishness as well lol. I just enjoy my peace.
As I get older, I also start realizing most men aren't even worth getting upset over because they "don't want you." With all these weird men out here, getting ignored by a majority of them and being able to go about my day is nice.
And this is what they don't want to happen . They want women to keep on that hamster wheel of seeking their approval for your whole life.
Exactly
It’s a privilege to even have good health these days
A lot of ppl I went to school with have passsed away
Very sexist to box men as such. No wonder men prefer younger women. Less judgemental.
34 years old and still having to beat men off me with a stick. Please don’t let dusties make you feel unworthy.
My mom is 68, and still gets male attention despite being married and older, so these dudes saying men don’t want women in their 40’s+ are on some bull.
@@thiccredgyal3404 The 30s can be great. I'm 33 and gained muscles and curves in my 30s. Although I was smaller/thinner in my 20s I wasn't as strong, healthy or as happy. It's funny how the 20s are so glorified and yet they're some of the most difficult times in people's lives and not always the most enjoyable. I'm glad these younger women are discerning enough to see right through these types of men and saving themselves a lot of trouble.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809most men will sleep with anyone. The idea is that younger woman are more desirable for long term relationships if u want children.
Let me guess, the only attention you are getting is from men who want sex or short term stuff. There are no quality men looking for longterm relationships with women your age. That is pure bs.
Most if not all the attention you are getting is short term sexual attention NOT marriage attention. Even sexual attention is going to come to screeching halt one day and much sooner than you think. Buckle up.
As a man who just turned 41, I prefer women who are 35 and up. People age differently but that's totally fine. Just continue on your timeline gracefully. Don't pay any attention to these red pill fools.
I'm glad I stopped listening to these RP men a while ago. They were the definition of real "Toxic masculinity". It was cancer to my brain throughout my late 20s until my first few months into being 30. I was brainwashed and warped. Not letting that happen again.
Your parents guve you good values
Finally a sane man😭😭
The way I was raised, both of my parents told me ‘You’re a child till 19, a girl in your 20s, and real womanhood begins in your 30s’. I’ve never felt rushed, I tuned 30 this year and I look and feel younger than I did at 21. It ultimately doesn’t matter what anyone says, because if you’re a caring, kind, balanced person, you will either be lucky enough to find your counterpart or live an unbothered life. Literally the only way you can lose is if you’re ‘honored’ by one of these red pilll men’s attention.
I just turned 30 this year and I swear us women can just never win. My 20s were absolutely terrible and I’d never do it again. Now, you’re just more wise and you listen to your intuition more ❤ thanks for this video!
Thank you for saying this. I’m turning 30 this year and have been having an existential crisis. This gives me something to look forward to.
30s is a great decade! 35 currently and feel the most stable, and most sure of myself, than I ever have before. I was all over the place in my 20s, especially early to mid, but during my 30s I’m super happy :)
Im 20 and also struggling so to here this gives me so much hope
Ladies, do NOT let any of these stupid ass TikTok’s or videos make you think 30s is the end of the world, I promise you this is the most fun I’m having plus, you look better as you age! 🥰💅🏻👑
@@havefaithincards6283 can you explain how you were all over the place?
I’m thirty people think I’m 22 on a daily basis that is literally the only reason men my age or older approach me. I spent all of my 20s being single because I didn’t want to succumb to being a mans doormat. I am still currently single, and a huge red flag for me is men preying on younger women because of their lack of discernment. I’d rather die alone 🤷🏽♀️
This comment is so me!! 😂 you told no lies ❤
@@mulesalumina7220 society could never make us feel that desperate for a man lmao 🤣 I’m glad you agree!
All of this‼️ I’m 29 and men swear I just graduated high school. I stopped talking to a older guy because he kept saying I was 22, even though I told him several times I was 28(at the time) . He desperately wanted me to be younger to soothe his ego, even though he’s twice my age.
@@lalat5899Naaaaaahhh this man is delusional
So men who date younger are predators? My sister once dated someone 12 years younger than her.
I feel that as a 30 year old woman my life is just beginning. Forget what these insecure "men" think. We as women have more purpose than being barefoot and pregnant. 🎤
Why are men always (insert derogatory term) for having a preference while women's preferences are celebrated?
Beginning of the wall, your peak to date men is gone . Go try women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@maatonne typical gynocenterism when you give women the right to talk
i have an older cousin who’s around 34 and he’s always asking me to put him on to my friends or girls around my age (i’m 20 btw) and i asked him why and he said they’re more “fresh”. i’ve never been so disgusted in my life.
Warn your friends in case he weasels into their dms
More ‘fresh’ aka easier to fool, control, manipulate, dominate and overpower
@@alkahinat4558that’s what it boils down to with these “alpha male” types, I was disgusted with the one who said guys like me should go with 18 year olds in particular and I’m pretty sure some of them would go younger if they could.
If any older man said that about me (20’s), I’ld be incredibly disgusted too. Yuck. No wonder so many women prefer remaining single now.
These creeps will keep on creeping.
your cousin sounds like a creepy handsy uncle 🥶
“Aging is a privilege” yes ma’am
Unless you use that privilege to be a raging ass hole. 😂
I cant believe in this, this is crazy. When I was 30, long time ago, I never thought about that, I met my husband by 29 and got married by 35 and now I have a family. Society wants woman to marry at 20 again? That is what my mother did and let me tell you it was not good for her to have two babies at 23.
Yeah I swear during 2000s/2010s I thought it was normal you marry at like 27/28 or be engaged/serious relationship expecting that. Now it looks like people feel pressured to be settled down by 25 and depending on the area you're from I know people from high school who got married and had children at 19
@@jessienerdis4179 exactly! When I was on my 20’s during the 2010s, no one in my group was talking about this pressure. It was understood that your 20s were for you to enjoy, find your path and travel. I feel for those ladies with this fear of turning 30, this is some red pill poison.
In the 2010s I always told myself I would have children between 30-35
Now in the 2020s I feel pressured to have them at 25-30 idk why (I'm 19 so I have time lol)
@@nikemaraje5 I’m 28 and none of my friends have kids. We are all in long term relationships/married and traveling. Don’t feel pressured! Enjoy your life. I’m married and plan to have kids around 30/31. In the meantime, I’m planning a trip to Norway, Sweden, and the Yucatán just this year. Japan for my birthday next year. Remember social media is just that. Don’t let it guide your life or expectations of yourself 😅
@@jessienerdis4179I thought it was normal to marry by 27/28 when I was younger, but I’ve met so many older people from a generation where marrying 18-25 was normal, and they all said they wished they’d waited because in retrospect they were too young, so imo this just goes to show how societal standards don’t always match up with how people truly feel or think.
As a secured 46 year woman, by the time most 20 & 30 yr olds get this age my dear sisters, the last thing you'll worry about is the weight of others' opinion of you.
Keep leveling up mentally, emotionally and financially. They'll be alright, trust me!
Let me guess, you are still single?
the belief that women over 30 are less fertile is not only unbelievably dehumanizing, but also fucking ridiculous. I'm the oldest of 5, and my mom had me in her 30s
I’m almost 33 and these stereotypes about women in their 30’s is wild to me. I met my husband when I was 27, became a wife and mother at 31. Obtained my masters degree at 32. Ladies, do NOT allow others to dictate your VALUE. Your 30’s are literally your golden years and peak!
Thank you 🙌🏾
Facts ! My mom got married at 28, had me at 32
No its not, stop the cap.
@@maatonne lol yeah ok 😂
@@catieq5270Yea, peak in what?
Calling an 18TEEN year old a "woman" and citing the legal age and saying to go after them is crazy.
Imagine that even 20+ year old women are being ignored...
@@missstranger7697i got too old by a 50 yr old man at 22.
@@IPx3_Broken Sadly these are girls not women, because they are underage. But due to problems they have from homes, they easily get prayed by older men.
That’s cuz they r
As if older women don’t approach young boys saying “your gonna be a little heart breaker” or something along the lines of “wait until your 18 im gonna come back for you”
i’m kinda glad men are feeling bold enough to bitch online cus it just tells women who’s cool and who’s someone to avoid
Honestly. Its easy to weed out the weirdos bc they love sharing red-pill content.
I remember being 17 & being told by a man that I was too old.. it’s crazy out here y’all
I wish i could have a droplet of men's audacity
I’m 27 and I was told by a guy on social media that I have a few more years before it’s all “over for me”. Ironic that I’m in a relationship so I don’t care if some men think that I “ lose my value “ once I turn 30. 🤷🏿♀️
So dumb and it’s literally an age like how dare you continue a normal human process!
I bet he’s the same guy crying about women on dating apps
They seriously need to read a Developmental Psychology book and learn what is truly old.
@@missandry2669 They be the EXACT same group of men. 😂 Lol
it’s bonkers how men will go out of their way to shame a women for being over the age of 25
this is literally a predators mindset that they spew so openly and publicly😂 absolutely vile
For real!!!!😂
Like they’re literally so dumb. They don’t realize how it actually looks and sound. You look and kind of sound like a creep my boy.😂
men still gonna be like this regardless of your shaming language
Women like older men...
I don’t
If you are going to say women hit the wall and you won't date a woman in her 30s, then don't complain about women saying they won't date a short guy or guys under 6 ft.
Ironic because if you are going to have your own standards regarding dating tall men or whatever preference you have, then don't hate about men's preference for younger women. (which is this whole video).
As a 6ft guy, we don't. We want a young virgin, not some old used up hag.
They don’t just hate women in their 30s, they hate women in general and it’s so sad 😞💔
Modern women don't derserve any attention by men at all today thanks to feminism, emancipation and the internet with dating apps, onlyfans, insta and TikTok. For a man it's easy to live by himself without stress and having to fulfill a thousand of expectations of a modern woman
😶
it's obvious.
i feel like a lot of women here are missing that point.
I didn't know finding someone unattractive means you hate them, by your logic its women who hate most men.
@@maatonne not really considering that womens looks are constantly picked apart, i mean look at the early 2000s women were always being dragged for filth for their apperance. Not to mention they way that society sees womens value is soley based of their looks and not their achievements. At least with men, theyre allowed to have other things to make up fo their lack of atttractiveness.
@@maatonne Y'all are raised to be misogynistic, get it roomie.
Lol News Flash, the women in their 20’s dating guys in their 30’s/40’s are GUARANTEED to die alone since their partners is older AND men die before women. So What is the point of wasting your life being “trained” by a weirdo who peaked in HS if you get the same outcome as the women who spent their life living for themselves? I’m 25 by the way ❤
Exactly.
Go head girl!
Facts
I’ve tried to explain this to men who try to scare young women by claiming we’ll die alone. I’d rather die alone than stress myself looking after a grown child.
I'm 25 and been married to and older man since i was 18 and now suddenly have started to see clearly...I wasted all those years with him it makes me so sad and mad at myself
Even if I would be able to live forever, I will never be able to understand society.
A lot of these men here disagreeing are proving your point. I am 35 now. I think i look better at 35 than when i was 18 or 20.
Men like what what we like. Date women
all women say they look better when they're older too, it's a form of defense mechanism
Same! I had a major glow up once I hit 30 because I started to lose a LOT of weight. From my early teens to all of my 20s, I was always shifting between thick to slightly overweight.
I never saw myself wearing a bodycon dress or anything form fitting in my 20s, but now I rock them 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.
nah it s cuz they are @@Victhemighty
@@roxyglow9670 whatever helps you feel better about your rapidly declining value
Men bully women and that's crazy that the society is okay with that
They don’t really get past that playground, antagonistic energy and it’s quite weird.
It goes both ways.
If you are one sided you think with bias.
Ive seen women bully men for other things.
Ive seen men bully women for other things.
We are all humans. We are not that different as you think
@@amukbir8777I agree with you! I’ve experienced both really amazing and also cruel behaviour from both genders. I will never hate on any whole gender for that reason. These gender wars are full of hurt bitter people. However, I’ve also learned a lot about human behaviour from all of it. It has opened my eyes to a lot and I will say I’ve learned the MOST from the men’s side
I will never understand how being in your 30s means you are "old" when a full human lifespan can stretch to 100 years 😅. Not only that but society gotta stop using age as an insult when we're all gonna be than age one day. With so many young people dying tragically, it's actually amazing to live that long in this crazy ass world.
Stuff like this reminds me of the Japanese phrase "Christmas Cake" where unmarried women over 25 were considered undesirable and past their "prime". Just nothing but sexism and ageism all around, it sucks.
Mixed with ped0philia. But people aren’t ready for that conversation. 🌚
@@LoneWulf278 thank youuu!!!
Forties are still young in the game of life! It's mind blowing to how people don't look at the full picture lol. If you've "aged out" of your prime by 27 or whatever, there could be 60 plus years of life left! How absolutely ridiculous a mindset!
Women need to pushback heavily against it with strength. Not crying and being sad and defeated because they believe the bull crap. They need to start supporting each other. But sadly many older women seem to be obsessed with all kinds of weird things (including their teenage and adult sons) instead of being carefree, confident and wise in their presentation to the world.
It is really sad. I hope this changes in the future.
@@hawkrose2698 I completely agree.
The fact that women get bashed in their 30s and men get praised in their 30s is WILD to me. Also, these older men only want to manipulate the younger women, because the older women can see through their BS. (Yes, I am saying this as a 20 year old woman...)
Same, I’m in my 20’s I’m not attracted to my elders 😂😂 they need to move along
U ever considered that life may be rough for most men in their teens and 20s? While u were in ur prime he was going thru it. Yall were lied to
@@sdothoward2743 Men have no problems in life, seethe and cope with your retracting hair line. Nobody cares how much you "suffer".
For starters..men and women are different therefore look for different things..and are treated differently..they also approach life/dating differently
And women like older men...😐
@@sdothoward2743 you’re delusional if you think women aren’t going through it in their 20’s too, not everyone is a sugar baby getting free trips and on OF lol we work, we go to school and we build our futures the same as any man and the world is much more unsafe for women then it is for men, we face the most abuse and even more discrimination in the workforce especially if we’re women of colour or pregnant while working and then on top of the daily challenges of life we have deluded men like yourself gaslighting us and implying that our problems don’t exist
"She's been through too much" translation "We put her through too much".
Exactly! I know of so many of those men irl . THEY are the very “chad” and “Tyrone” that they complain about. Ran through 15 to twenty young girls, turned them into baby mamas, bust them upside the head due to control issues and then left them high and dry playing all types of games to not pay for their children. THEN move on to the next victim.
Well my mom died at the age of 26 in 1995, so I feel immensely blessed to be turning 31 this year.
Men online are disgusting. And what some men don’t get or will never understand is how a lot of women are much happier WITHOUT men. I loved turning 30 and at 37 I’m looking forward to 40! I hated my 20s, I was lost and didn’t have much going on for myself. In my 30s I finally found my career and bought a home.
I'm very happy for you that you are living life and taking care of yourself ❤ I'm only 20 and want nothing to do with men like yeah sure "there are good men out there" but i still want nothing to do with relationships, marriage nor kids. Even sex I don't desire having it any time soon ..I'd rather please myself plus, I'm planning to get my tubes burnt, cut because I never want kids plus throughout history up till now, men have not evolved ever like I'd rather get my bag up focusing on my mind body and health .
I laugh when they think it's a threat to tell women they won't end up with a man. How is that a threat?
@@lorrilewis2178 I have yet to have a man answer that question
@@ladybug3380 They can't conceive of a woman being happy on her own!
@@lorrilewis2178 Exactly! Studies continue to show women more than men are actually happier single. The wrong man will bring nothing but strife.
I’m 38 and these dudes not living that life. Dudes that touch grass and not in front of mics letting everyone know how corny they and how they really don’t know how to interact with women. Those men don’t do that. My dating life is pretty fun and the men are fun. This is some real fear mongering. I’m very honest with everyone I’m not coddling anyone. I’m very direct and clear. I love my 30s and I’m not broke which is GREAT🤣🤣😭
Bingo 💯👏🏾
Thank you so much for reminding us of that! I hate how easily I keep forgetting that truth.
Yesss these weirdos can’t hold a conversation with women their age for shit and want naive impressionable women that don’t know who they are yet if they step outside into the real world adults of all ages are dating,marrying,fucking etc
Facts. The guys at my college don’t act like these corny dudes. I’m sure some of them have certain thoughts, but even if they do it’s not on the scale like these dudes on the internet, and they’re pretty good about realizing when their thoughts are wrong. I was talking to one dude, and he told me when he realized that his mom was a person, and that he had a duty to help with house work because he also lives in the house. I thought that’s was amazing.
@@itiswhatitis1080 nope , not really , there are different types of couples with a large gap couple such as my parents
theres a litteral study that says women get more beautiful in there 30s
So women that's 38 have more of a sexual value then women 21??????
Jesus, you are obsessed. @@yessir8805
Not a chance in hell..
The lies women tell themselves to cope is beyond sad. Men will choose younger their whole lives if given the choice.
@@verbadum2298 Men aren’t “choosing” anything now that women as a whole have realized that most men aren’t attractive. Why do you think most women have bisexual/gay tendencies? Women are attractive. Men are not.
The more I hear men talk negatively about women and assume we are used up in our 30s, the less I want anything to do with them. They don’t sound like they could add anything positive or valuable to my life. I’ve heard single and celibate women are happier in life overall, even in their twilight years.
Men who want 20 year olds who themeselves are not in their 20s are the worst kind of men lol not being attractive to them is a blessing!
I'm 38 I don't take into consideration a woman's age, as long as the attraction is mutual.
@@Sagefrakrobatik you have to date mature women in her 30s
@@user-io3ru9tc1d do you realize how difficult it is to find meet and approach women in general, let alone women of a specific age group?
@@Sagefrakrobatik as long as the woman is older than 25 I think it's ok
@@nikemaraje5 if two consenting adults are able to make it work I don't see the issue. I saw a guy 49 comment about dating a 24. I'd hate to miss an opportunity to date a beautiful woman simply because of her age.
I’m 25, 26 in September, and I feel like I’ve only just started to look my best. I feel like I look like a WOMAN. I’m energetic, I’m confident, I’m powerful - I’d never go back to 21. Especially not for the benefit of an Alpha Bro 😂
I’m 23, 24 in July and this year I started to get my womanly weight
Girls are pretty but women are beautiful!
@@elenam3798 I know right?! It's like there she is!
Very true i would never trade my current age 25 right now for anything as being 21. I'm feeling a whole other level of beauty, confidence and inner peace with myself. Infact I'm even looking forward to being thirty. When i tell people they think its weird but i don't pay attention to it because of the wisdom and maturity that comes with age.
I’m 23, prior to this year I was depressed, not taking care of myself and looked my worse from ages 17 to 22. I’m looking forward to 25 as I finally care about myself, I think I’ll probably avoid dating. It looks chaotic.
As a newly happy 37yr old, from my experience when I was in my 20s all I wanted was a husband but the men who were my age and even older were only looking for a fun time. They didn't want to be "tied down" in their "prime." So to hear men in my age group and older express their disdain for us is wild! It doesn't make any sense! Lol In other news, my advice to women period is to decenter men and see how joyous your life will be!
So are you older single mother with multiple baby daddies that was promiscuous in her past with the bad boys?
This animosity towards women in their 30s reminds of the animosity towards popular and/or pretty girls in high school who didn’t date the nerdy guys and those nerdy guys have a fantasy of them being broke and alone while they make the big bucks. It starts young :/
Yah, but those young hotties usually do end up broke and broken ,and it's fun to see
@@seventhcompactor1505Chronically online Redditor, balding, depressed man take
@@ambo9569 You can list the worst man you can imagine - even he'll want a woman in her 20s.
@@seventhcompactor1505 so what does his preference have to do with older women??? Like women have their own lives to livw and are not living for you??
That’s because a woman in her 30s becomes a woman! She’s much less influenced by voices of her youth. She’s found her own voice and is fine tuning by the day. I always said that when I turned 35, my “smart chip” clicked in. I all of sudden realized that what others thought of me, wanted from me was FAR less important then what I wanted and thought of myself! Nothing is more threatening to a weaker man than a woman who knows her self. More competent men will see you as a blessing not a threat.
Lol keep on dreaming. A smart, decent or successful man easily finds a girl under 26 and that's what he is attracted way more than a nerving woman +30 with a high bc
it took you that long to get a epiphany? age has nothing to do with that.you was just stuck up and ignorant at your own will.
Yessssss. I've been with my husband since I was 17 and now at 36, I realized how much he's been manipulating me and always gas lighting. So I have been putting my foot down like never before.
@@junieboom602 Tell me one of these gaslighting examples.
The way these men talk about 25+ year old women and singe mothers is so rude
But when you talk about bald men short men broke poor men ugly men or single dads like that it’s a issue
But if you talk about single dads bald men ugly or poor men it’s a issue 😂
@@missandry2669 all of this tho 💯 .
@@missandry2669 no, that would ALSO be rude and nasty and shallow.
You see, it doesn't MATTER what hangs (or doesn't) between your legs.
The fact is, A$$holes come in all shapes, sizes, cultures, creeds, and genders.
Shallow worthless nasty vile rude pieces of human garbage exist within BOTH genders!
And ALL are wasting an equal amount of our precious oxygen!
So, no worries, there is no double standard.
Just a double dose of morons and a$$holes from both sides.
Peace.
They hate women i will never understand this hate against women. The fact they born with benefits like being physically stronger but still feel insecure to control women it’s insane..
I was scared to turn 30. It hit me hard. Did noteven enjoy my birthday, but I have to admit im so much more content confident, stable, know what I want. I left a relationship that was going nowhere and am dating the love of my life. Im 32 now and looking forward to the next few years.
Until he dumps you in a year, because he can find a hot 24 year old
@@seventhcompactor1505 gosh who hurt you?
@@rhurhu2510his high school crush probably liked someone else and now he spends the rest of eternity blaming women for his failures
My life has debunked every societal stigma. I’m 32. And I’ve always looked like a teenager. I’m 4’11. And people have always relegated me or reduced me to a child. And about fertility, I’ve had two babies 10 months apart at 30 and 31. I think men on these podcasts and CZcams channels are stupid. A woman at ANY AGE can be desirable. Thank you Toni for this commentary!
@@provobeats8105 I settled? I’ve been with my bf since I was 15. Try again sir 😂
@@teejthebrownbratt1725 You settled. You married a poor guy
@@teejthebrownbratt1725ok, men don't want to miss out on all your youthful years. You gave that to your boyfriend. You didnt meet him at 30...
I'm 45, 5' tall, with big eyes and a round face. No one believes me when I tell them my age. They even change my birth year on the register when I buy booze and give me a, "B*tch, please" type of look, hahaha. These podcast bros are nothing but liars and scared, insecure creatures.
I was fine with turning 30 because I was in good shape, healthy, and accomplished. I looked forward to working remotely (from my home office or a hammock in Ibiza), taking my dog for walks to the farmers market, rooftop brunch on weekends, volunteering, and decorating my condo with a ton of plants. I’m 31 now and my fiancé and dog are my family (we don’t want kids). I have an amazing network of friends and church family too. I love others and I am loved. Life is what you make it ❤
I’m 31 and am finally authentically myself and do not tolerate BS anymore and that’s empowering. And I’m not used up mmmk still married and conceived my daughter at 29 and been with one man proud of it.
Exactly 🙌🏾
That's absolutely beautiful! God Bless you and your family 🙏🏻💕
So lucky 💖
But your husband most likely shares the same belief as all these men. Im starting to think I dont wanna lose my virginity at all to any man.
@@Beaneabean don't care didn't ask. You do NOT know this woman, and you do NOT know her husband! People who are willing to lump every. Single. Person. Together because of gender, race or religion, is actually the worst one out here. Not all men are the same. As not all women are the same. Not only is it bigoted, but it's juvenile and ignorant.
When a fellow sister shares her testimony of a wonderful, blessed life, don't spit on it! Celebrate with her and be happy for her. That is true feminine celebration 💕
To all the beautiful ladies out there...
Your 20s is the decade of discovery. You're taking the time to experience things and find out who you are and who you want to be. Enjoy the more carefree moments, learn from your mistakes (and we ALL make them, trust me, and that's okay), and know that you still have so much life left.
Your 30s is like a new beginning. You've found out so much about yourself, what you love, what you hate, what you want, and I think with what you've experienced in your 20s, you apply it to your time now. I have more patience, more understanding, more empathy. I can shrug off the things that used to drive me up the wall in my 20s, but I also know when to stand up for myself and choose me. The confidence I have now is beyond what I've ever had in my life.
There is nothing to fear with growing older. Every year that you're alive is an accomplishment. Every year is something to cherish, because so many do not get that chance. But you have. Make the most of it. Be kind to others and to YOURSELF!
Much love to you all!
Such a wonderful message, I thank you for taking the time to type this up and may you have a lovely day!
These guys are just jelly that women in their 30s wouldn’t chose to “settle down” with them so they have to trick young inexperienced girls into dating them 😒😒
Why is it always undesirable men going online talking about women who don't even want them? Like, who is checking for you, sir?
😂😂😂 I notice that also. I hardly ever see attractive men talking about foolishness online or in real life.
lol 🤣
I’m 35 and I feel more happy, beautiful and confident in myself. I feel like in your 30s and 40s women are in their prime. I was loss in my 20s. Some of these men that say they don’t date women that are 30 and older is because their not accomplished with theirselves usually. They can’t handle a confident woman that is comfortable in their skin.
Delusional
@@LeeEverett1Says the guy commenting on a woman’s platform because he’s so miserable and has nothing better to do.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809Can’t that be said about you though? Is commenting on CZcams videos ever an indicator that someone makes good use of their time?
I am with you on this . Every age has its own charm and positives ,not just the 20s. Every person is different not everyone peaks in their teens or in their second decade in their life .
As a 42 yr old woman, listening to these grown boys is comical. Even in my 20’s nothing about them would have screamed prize. I love being an older woman. We have our own men are not our priority because we travel we work we take care of our homes and selves. And at the end of the day you can’t stop the aging process so why stress about what happens to anyone human. I am so glad I’m not in my 20’s today yikes all the stressing about things that won’t even matter in ten years
I’m a man who’s 28, and here’s what I think of this stereotype.
A man who says that a woman is basically useless after she turns 30 is vile as hell, and they’re basically justifying 60 year old men dating 18-25 year old women. Pretty creepy tbh. Also, it could lead to men, who are TRULY down bad, going down a dark path. Not me tho, because that’s not my speed. That’s not the type of man that my fam raised me to be. For me, I wouldn’t mind dating a woman who’s 27 or 30 because the only thing that matters to me is if she’s someone that I can vibe with and share a good laugh with. 👍🏻 Simple as that.
You either gay or pandering bruh. Most me that's successful if they not married, they going date younger. Universal biology.
As a 46 year old single woman its shocking how men look at women who are no longer in their 20s i dont look my age but i dont lie about my age and the look on men face when i say 46 is hilarious ive had my children and im not going 2 hate myself or settle because im older so if i find a partner thats cool if i dont thats cool 2 i will continue 2 be a happy well traveled single woman these podcast dudes are miserable dudes who have problems with women period honestly they prefer the company of men so just say that and leave women out of the conversation 😂 btw i had my last child at 40 my mom had me and my little brother after 40 and i have a aunt who had her last child at 49 so they need a new excuse 2 hate us lol
They want a child. I would be disgusted more than anything
They want girls
As 28 yr old man its shocking how women look at men who make under 6 figures, i dont makes 6 figures but i take care of my household and family. When i worked hard my entire 20s im not gone settle when i get in postion and pick the youngest least baggage woman.
Woman say they dont want to be told what to do not her daddy but want men to take care of them like their daddy.
But i get it. Women rarely care about men struggle soo im glad men starting not to care about yours, buy a dog die alone!!
@@johnbrown7192 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 u sound lonely
@@amongus9270 that's fine, sleep great knowing old bitches being discarded because they got ran through in their 20s or wouldn't touch a guy who made 60k with a stick, you sound like another dumbass single baby momma bahaha 🤣🤣
Warms my heart
I find it so strange that I've had the literal opposite experience to this. In my teens and 20s I found it almost impossible to get a boyfriend. Guys didn't want relationships and children?! That was the absolute devil to them. Now I'm in my 30s, tons of guys who rejected me 10 years ago are throwing themselves at me now and I've lost interest. Men get very desperate in their 30s... and I have the absolute pick of the singles now whereas in my 20s I struggled. I looked great both then and now by the way, so looks hasn't come into it. I live in the UK. Also in the 30s there is a huge wave of divorcees/ people coming out of long term relationships, so the market is quite abundant.
Yessss!!! And as a woman’s sexual peak is in her 30s she is more confident sexually. I wanted marriage and kids in my 20s most dudes older and my age did not want that. Now I’ve been into hooking up and exploring my sexuality and all these dudes even younger ones they all want relationships smh 😂😂😂
Dude, yes. This was my experience as well. All through my late teens and early 20s when I'd go back and forth with dating sites/apps, so many guys my age would say " no long term relationships, IDK what I want, just looking..." ect. I was so defeated trying to find a guy that I straight up didn't go on dates from 22 until 27. Now that I'm in my 30's I get a lot of attention and it confuses me.
Spot on
I’m turning 27 in August and I haven’t always felt this way but I now get excited to get older because I find that the older I get, the less I care about what people think and the more I know myself. Aging is a beautiful thing in my opinion!
Soon being called a boomer and have to admit your privilege.
yeah 20s-30s are both really early in life too. just being able to continue being alive in the present is a privilege
30 is still very young. Even for women. Women in there 30s are not older women. They are still very young.
I'm currently 29 (going 30 on december). At first I was afraid but seeing comments like this makes me relieved! 😊
I’m 34, in a good marketing career not married or have kids as I haven’t found the right man. I actually wanna avoid the men in these podcasts & i have a very fulfilled life. They can’t manipulate or lie to us because cuz we know better. I do have high standards, if you don’t add to my life, i’m better off being single. I’m also not what they describe bitter or ran through i’ve always avoided promiscuity & I’m actually positive & happy ❤ a lot of what they say is to drive hate views and clicks
I can relate girl! It’s hard out here especially if you are conservative:( Nobody courts anymore!
@@DeematheFashionDesigner no they don’t. I am going to a singles event 2mz in the hopes to meet more like minded people
@@Smita-Says I wish! I need to start doing that! I hope you find him🙏
@@DeematheFashionDesigner hope you do too ❤️❤️
Exactly!
It's the boring misogynistic message by men. I had a friend tell me how fallen I am because I am past 25. I blocked him 😊
The age of expiration sinks every year. In a few years men will thin women expire at 18. Mark my words.
@@KamuSaladi absolutely. Thank you for fixing it
@@pastelqueenwudel it's ridiculous. They've started targeting young girls.
@@pastelqueenwudel They keep moving the goalpost. First it was 25, then it was 30, now I heard that it's 40.
Before the 70s, more mature women were considered beautiful
As a 27 year old man, thank you for this video and all your very informative insights. I don’t understand why a lot of men dislike women their age or older. I love their perspectives on life, their lived experiences, their maturity and their grace and beauty. My fiancée is a 25 year old woman and I would have loved her just as much whether I met her now or at 35. This idea that their age is a reflection of who they are as a person is nonsensical. I also have sisters above 30 who are beautiful in every single way and I cannot fathom men describing them in the way some of those did in this video. I will do my best to hold other men accountable and uplift women. You all deserve so much better.
Your actions do not align with your nonsense. If a 30s woman was so great you could of gotten one but chose 25 young and fertile woman instead.
@@verbadum2298 Respectfully, I didn’t go out of my way to find a 25 year old for a partner. I met her through my friends and peers where we are all around the same age. You completely missed my point. I can date someone my own age and still uplift older women
@@itsble I'm saying you would never choose someone who was 35 over what you got because you had options. These old broads need to understand that they can only get guys with no better options which won't be all that great which is advice to pick your fate when you're young and desirable. The misinformation leaves a lot of women resentful that they bought the baloney while they were young and are now regretful they bought the lies. Telling women they'll have at 40 what they had at 20 is harmful lies
It’s so sad to see that some men and women reduce the value of women based on their age :(
I had my first baby at 25, pregnant at 24. I’ve been with the same man on and off since I was 13. We’ve literally been through everything you can imagine. Even child loss. We lost our son a few weeks after he turned one because his pediatrician failed to diagnose a heart condition. Aging is a privilege. You are not promised the next second of your life. Cherish it.
I'm sorry for your loss 🩵🙏🏾😞
Agreed! ♥
Speaking as a 31 year old woman, I think it all boils down to jealousy and envy that a lot of adult men feel towards women who are in their 30s and up. So, they use scare tactics to keep us humble and hold marriage over our heads. A lot of women are beginning to realize it benefits men to be married more than them, which is why a lot of women are holding off getting married or refusing to. And that scares the men.
Lmaoo it is very much a humbling tactic to accept the less-than that some men bring to the table. My ex literally told me that I am getting older & no one would want me so I better just make it work with him. Sir no, single is a choice too 😂
@Classy Coder - Nicole B. Yes! I'm so glad you were able to leave his ass behind. It is better to be single and thriving than with someone and miserable.
That’s a good thing
LMAO its called biology, read a book or something.
Lol women don't control marriage, it's not your choice
I'm 36 African American female and I look damn good for my age.I look like I am 25 and I feel 28. My parents taught me that age is a state of mind..i could careless what people think. I have no kids,I am stable,loves to travel,and turn up.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Black women who take care of themselves typically age well
Go off, Queen!
Ngl I'm greatful to be a lesbian the more I see of the "manosphere" and all the gross feelings they have towards women while still trying to pursue women.
I can't imagine how annoying/worrying it would be trying to date as a straight woman knowing that you have a decent chance finding a dude that actually believes those toxic things; especially when the peope who spread that garbage keep getting more reach and popularity.
It makes sense men hate women getting older. We become smarter and wiser. We already mature faster than them ! Majority Men are low-key jealous of women. In a lot more ways than one 😅
Yep.
That’s why they’re so violent and angry towards us
Also we look better than them 😅 even into our 40s.
Yes. More women really need to know that men are capable of, and often times are, deeply envious of women. Some of it is at the biological level and some of it is because they perceive women to have "easier" lives due to the very narrow range that patriarchal masculinity allows them to exist in without having their masculinity (identity) questioned and then dismissed.
@@highjohnroot This is becoming increasingly clear to me lately.
My grandmother passed at 96….30s is still a child actually…older women will tell you if you need to feel better about it. Society thrives on women’s insecurities. You’re very smart my love to realize it in your 20s! Keep teaching the truth! Men who are not lead by God are naturally looking to exploit women.
"30 is still a child actually"
Are you stupid? Your fertility literally tanks in your 30s and most of your eggs are gone by 35.
30s isn't a child , you must be soo protected out from the real world to think that , you pretty much have had no character development in your 20s . Also don't bring god into this , like women don't act nasty
@@elitecoder955 God is the center of life and the anchor to our understanding. You better get into the Bible, your battle is not with me.
@@elitecoder955
She's saying that 30 is still very young relative to people in their 60's and beyond.
@@Torfordor don't be overdramatic woman , twisting words . 30 ain't young and neither is 18 or 20
Aging is actually like a positive dating filter. Men I dated in my (early) twenties were the worst I ever came across. Better, kinder, genuine more mature/competent men approach you as you progress in age. I am glad that narcissists like Andrew Tate and others like him are being so blatantly vocal about their predatory tendencies so women can take note and avoid them at all costs :)
Keep coping White♀️, your demographic is not known for aging well.
Better, kinder, genuine more mature/competent? How do you distinguish someone who is a narcissist like andrew Tate to the contrary?
sorry but these kinder men don't actually want a used up garbage like you, because you couldn't get them when you were young you hate them, so now you want these 'kind' men to settle for less with you.
OMG...for real. The quality of man I attract now in my 40's is sooooo much better than in my 20's!
It's very hard to distinguish - especially in the beginning when you don't know someone very well. From what I have observed, the wisdom that comes with age helps one to better distinguish the difference between the predatory psychopaths, and the good, genuine and confident men. Also, it seems that less narcissistic/psychopathic types approach more mature women because they may be harder to fool/take advantage of than a much more naive girl in her early twenties, or fresh out of high school. Everyone is a much easier target when they are young.@@Unknown-pc4yy
I'm 35 year old man now so I'm considered "unc". When i drive Uber on weekends, young women flirt with me alot and even ask me to hang out and party with them. I then tell them my age and suddenly they are disinterested. I noticed the reason i get attention from them is simply because i look younger. Saying all that to say this: Those older manosphere guys who say they get all the attention from young women are all paying for it. Young women are more comfortable with men their own age or at max, within the 5-year age gap. Past that, he will always be "unc" to her and to be quite honestly, you don't want that type of relationship with a romantic partner.
O.k. " Unc ". Thank you for the life advice. I hope your my driver if I come to your city😊
When I reached my 30s, I feel like I look and feel alot hotter than I did in my 20s. In your 30s, you know how the world works, how to feel good in your body, I did alot of self healing in my 20s, which helped me enjoy my 30s.
I got hit on alot more in my 30s because of my confidence, gaining a sense of humor and being able to go with the flow. Now, Ive found the love of my life because I knew what type of man I wanted to be with.
The internet is an echo chamber, ladies, live your best life! 30s are amazing!
Some of us get better with age.
You can "feel" hotter but are you tho?
@@minamuse. When it come's to attractiveness your own opinion matters the least.
I never had that "turning 30 crisis" so I can't speak to that, but I'm nearly 39 and I have never been more fulfilled - the lessons I've learned, the self respect I've gained, the conviction I have with myself - the strengths that you develop by growing older are irreplaceable.
I just turned 40. I never went through the 30 crisis either. It must be a new phenomenon. And I feel so sad for younger women to go through this so early. I haven’t even hit the 40 crisis. Not only bc I still turn men down, but bc majority of this stuff online is just false.
I’m 40 and didn’t go through this either. Been with my partner since 27 and we have seen and done so much and are both the same age and aging happily together. The thirties is awesome!
You look 50
My university friends and I all turned 37 in 2019 and we randomly decided to go all out and celebrate tf out of ourselves for each birthday. We just decided to go over the top and travel to fancy destinations to hang out. It was amazing.
Then Covid hit and we nearly lost one friend to it, she won’t ever be the same. And no one was travelling or even leaving their house so nearly 3 years went by before we could all get together again.
Looking back, I’m so happy we had spent that time with each other and made memories in 2019 when we could.
Ladies, life is short. Don’t waste time on your birthday thinking about what you don’t have or someone else thinks you should have done. Know that each year you have grown wiser and probably more beautiful (because beauty is confidence) and no matter what your age, you deserve love. Be proud of the hurdles you have overcome and make sure you celebrate with the people who have supported you along the way.
Ewww. That video of the guy talking and saying "she's unable to be molded and trained" that's disgusting. Women shouldn't be "trained" like dogs. Gross gross gross
Look at all the women commenting. They are not happy. They say everything like an affirmation statement. Look at a 22 year old woman with a strong masculine man and a couple toddlers in a park. Everyone will see an enviable happy family. Not a blended family with a bunch of half siblings and step parents. Women are destroying the family.
If you’re in your early twenties, I encourage you to date someone close to your age who shares the same values you do and build a life with them. Don’t try to skip ahead, grow up together, it’s beautiful. I’ve been with my husband since I was 22, married at 25, first baby at 27 and we’ve grown up so much in the past five years, have shared so many firsts and have become adults together.
Side note, if a man says a 30yo is used up and he’s over 30, he’s probably still going to feel that way when you’re 30. Don’t waste your time on any man who feel the need to put other women down to prop you up, especially based on age (an inevitable fact of life), that’s just gross.
Once you decentralize men from your life, everything really doesn’t matter. You won’t be worried about your weight, skin, subjective “attractiveness” etc
Everything you said is fine, but you should worry about your weight for health reasons and not men because plenty of men still want overweight women.
THIS IS A FACT!
Men can & do dictate what other women use as pressure on themselves. Society is literally made up of.. people.
I’m 23 and I’ve never been boy crazy but as I turned 20 and people started to over sexualized me I started to avoid men. And the moment I had a partner and intercourse at 20 it has been non stop rubbish. So i deleted Instagram cause I would rather die than let a balding 32 year old man tell me im not value able cause im 30!?! Tf
😅😂😅
@@joeydoherty368True. The best advice for a women is really to just live for yourself, within the constraints of not harming others.
Men were your center? GIRL!!!
Im in my 30s and these internet men be lying. In real life they date 30 year olds, single mothers, loose women, etc. They like to talk that stuff online tho.
They pander to incels chronically online
LOL reminds me of one who got clowned, Donovan Sharpe (BLK guy). Talked all that mess about dating younger women and avoiding older women... come to find out he's married to some woman who's clearly his age (she's whyte) and doesn't look like much. And I think she's a single mom (although I'm not sure--but I know something about children was brought up). These dudes lie for real lol.
Yup!
Yeah 20 year olds aren't attracted to these rats
Only low value men do date 30 yr olds
My mom met my dad when she was 30, married at 33, had her first kid at 34 and me at 38. And she loves it. She graduated university and got a job she loved, she dated, she went out with friends a lot. I can guarantee that she wouldn't have had even half as many cool experiences if she had met dad straight after uni or had me and my brother in her 20s.
How can you guarantee that, with your feelings?
@@maatonne My dad is autistic so he would've hated a lot of the trips mom went on before, and mom is the sort of person who would've felt bad going without him. Mom moved halfway across the country, away from her friends, to be with dad so she wouldn't have seen them nearly as much if she'd moved earlier. Also raising two very autistic kids is practically a full time job lol, she could barely go out for even a day when me and my brother were younger, let alone the trips she went on before.
@@Moo-2310 Is traveling the only cool experiences someone can have?
@@maatonne nope, but they're most of the ones my mom has had and tbh her life has been pretty tame since she had me and my brother.
@@Moo-2310 Maybe she could've other ones later on in life after you guys grow up if she had you guys younger.
They had me worrying too for a minute, then i thought about it. I was treated worse by men i dated when i was in my teens and early 20's.
Facts.
The irony of not wanting an older woman who has had multiple heartbreaks just to go seek a young woman and then break her heart. The only alternative to aging is dying and as someone turning 30 this year I’m welcoming this new decade of my life.💖
The poor choices are made by young girls. They are to blame that they prefer f-boys or men with high status, these kind of men don't want long term relationships, that's pretty obvious, but obviously women have a way higher drive. It's no secret that most women in their twenties sleep around with the same 15% of men they meet via dating apps
Did he say he want to go break their heart or are you literally making this up to seem like you have a point?
Dude, I’m 31 in a couple of weeks, and I’ve always been single. I lost my 20’s to being chronically sick.
Not everyone over 30 has been ‘living their best life’. Any man who thinks this way deserves to be unhappy and alone.
I, too, spent a good chunk of my 20s dealing with serious health issues. Dont beat yourself up over lost time, by the way, its a trap.
Gotta look at what you learned in those years and see how that can benefit you aswell. Not a waste, many important lessons learned, just not what you originally thought you'd be prioritizing in your 20s.
@@rachaelbrugmans4309 Yes! And we deal with it now, everyone else seems to get hit in their 40s & 50s.
@@RachelJayne92 EXACTLY!
So when these guys who prefer under 25 year olds turn 60 would they still be into 25 year olds? This is creepy.
Any man from the age of 18 till the day they die will find women in their 20s the most sexually attractive. Yes 60, 70, and even 80 year old men will still look at 25 year olds, they just don't act on it because they know they're too old. It's not that difficult.
Any man find women more attractive that's 60 then 18-30 is weird.
@@LeeEverett1 That's true.. That cannot be denied. It's natural for men to get sexually attractive to a young woman 👠
@@LeeEverett1creepy
I receive an increase in male attention every year older I get. I am 26. Women over 30 have surpassed these men in every form of excellence and they know it
As always, beautifully said ❤️
My soulmate came into my life when I was 31 and we got married 6 months later. My life has continued to blossom, got fit, accomplished goals, and I’ll be 33. Aging is a blessing, but take care of yourself and don’t get caught up in trends🥰
Beautiful! I hope I find mine soon! 🙏🙏
In Disney movies, or cartoons notice how the old woman is usually the villian.
Any "man" who has this kind of nasty attitude towards women over 30, are the most insecure and toxic men that exist.
I am 31 and have never been happier, more stable, at peace, and in the best shape of my life. I have also never been hit on/asked out/pursued more in my entire life, by both older and younger men 😂
These clowns havent got a damn clue what theyre talking about. Just out here projecting their own fears onto us. 🤷♀️ What a shame.
Honestly as a 30 something I get a strange sense of satisfaction that my very existence upsets idiot manbabies so much
Why is it whenever a man has a preference it’s toxic/insecure I think y’all want a traditional man but don’t want to be a traditional women
@@Jb64271 Preferences are fine. Being nasty towards a whole group of people because they aren't your preference, is what isn't cool.
@@sarahmiriam3950 women are sensitive of their age on avg so any preference a guy has on age girls are always offended by but y’all need to realize it’s not necessarily about age it’s about how much more likely bad qualities have time to form it’s not a age shame it’s a choice shame
@@Jb64271I don't want a traditional man. I want someone who treats me as an equal.