I’m A Nonbinary Trans Woman | Rose Montoya
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- čas přidán 28. 04. 2021
- This is less of a coming out video and more of an educational video on all things nonbinary and my identity as it currently stands.
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I keep going back and forth on if my discomfort with referring to myself as a woman is due to some internalized transphobia from not passing and an understanding of how society at large still sees me or if I may be non-binary. This was very enlightening and has given me something to think about. Thank you. It's also wonderful to see more people discovering more about themselves and becoming more comfortable with their identity. ❤️🏳️⚧️
Thank you so much for this video! I’ve been struggling so much with dysphoria lately and feeling so conflicted about wanting to “pass” and be accepted as a woman while also acknowledging that I don’t want to perpetuate the binary. You are seriously someone I look up to as another non binary trans woman. Thank you so much for using your platform to educate others and affirm people like me. Sending you so much love.
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This has been one of the most clear explanations I've come accross. I love how open you are about who you are. I only hope that society could get it's act together. It breaks my heart that those who struggle with gender identity are ostracized. Please, continue to be outspoken in this! ❤
The second i read the title to this video, i started to cry. I have been trying for a long time to find the words to explain how i feel inside and you have said them all. THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!!!! YOU ARE AMAZING IN EVERY WAY!!! :)
Those nails are everything! I feel like I could really relate with their video. Thanks for the awesome video!!
self reflection is so important for happiness and thank you for speaking about this stuff 💕 your nails are great too btw
I have been learning so much watching your videos. Thanks for bringing us along on your journey!
Starting my gender transition at 44. Listening to you has been so helpful to me. I get so confused about things sometimes, but you address everything that confuses me and puts me at ease. I have had multiple surgeries like you, but I still don’t feel like a woman yet. I guess because hair removal is so difficult to achieve and access. Thank you for all your helpful information. You are great.
I'm so glad you're talking about this, I've gone through a bit of a similar journey, but in another direction, as a nonbinary transmasculine guy.
Rose's videos are helpful and insightful in analysing how queer people present ourselves to the world - I look forward to their content and feel empowered seeing them embrace the variances of queer bodies as beautiful :)
Thank you so much. I really appreciate you 💕
I love that you explained this. I’m a proud trans woman that was even confused about this topic. Thank you for that 💕
Hi Sammy you're beautiful ❤❤❤
Heyy girl! You look AMAZING! Can't wait to watch your video now 😊😙💙
omg you helped me so much!!
They’re so in tune with the idea of gender. This is how I always thought of it as and they put it more eloquently than I ever could. I’m a trans non-binary female as well but I was assigned female at birth. I always thought it was confusing for me to not still include female in there. While I do feel like I was born in the wrong body I also don’t want the male form at all. Sometimes I feel masculine, sometimes I feel feminine but I always am still overall a woman.
Thank you so much for sharing this! I'm AFAB and I've been going back and forth about not feeling "agender enough" to identify as nonbinary but also not feeling like I'm just a woman or limited to being in just that binary gender role. For a long time I felt like "I don't have body dysphoria so I can't be Trans right??" But I feel like you described exactly how I feel about my gender
I'm also a nonbinary woman! I like to say it's like being a dual citizen of gender!
Rose is a pioneer and beauitiful. I'm so proud of you!
Well said! You're so well spoken! I love your hair too! I can relate soo much
This was such a lovely educational video, thank you for making it Rose!
Rose has a beautiful smile, and I bet they would be a kind and supportive friend!
Thank you for this video! I feel like now I understand the topic so much more, I love how you broke it down to pieces, it's very helpful. Lots of love to you XX
Rose is an amazing and inspiring person and I love learning more about them ❤️
I appreciate you so much! Sending you love
So informative and well explained...
Ooh, this is sooo relatable to the way I ID in most every way you've discussed. My thanks for this, as it puts more clearly and cogently my own recent thoughts on the topic.
Hey Rose, I really enjoyed this video, you are so educated in this field & I learned a lot so thank you. 😊
This is a really good explanation of being non binary. I have always just considered myself a transgender woman but now I’m actually reconsidering after you explained what non-binary is. Thanks Rose your videos are always so amazing and informative while still being directly to the point. 😊
I’m sending you so much love. I can only speak for myself and how I personally feel. I’m so glad you felt you could relate!
Aww thank you for your sweet response I’m not sure if you follow my Instagram or not but I’m equally masculine and feminine I’m definitely glad I’m on hrt and have been for almost 3 years now (and I wouldn’t change a bit of it) but this makes soooo much sense after you explained it. Thanks again Rose your awesome!
Started spiro yesterday and really struggling with understanding my identity and what is happening to me and Rose you’re a life saver. Seriously, you’re so incredibly grounded and thank you so much for you being you. Love the nails!
@@RobbieBobbie98good luck! i hope it's going well
Rose, I am a 53 year old transwoman She/Her and I just barely starting transitioning 6 months ago. I get what you say anf the way it works for me is because I have been living my life as a man for my entire life that my behavior and the way I handle myself is very masculine because that's what I'm use to and that's how society has made me and programmed me. And I absolutely hate it because it makes me confused and it makes me feel as if I'm Non-binary. But my whole life as a child I've always felt like a woman and I've always wanted to be a Cis woman. I've always hated being a guy but because I've been so use to living as a man that sometimes I feel I'm Non-binary but I keep on going back and fourth and I feel that I belong on the female spectrum despite my lack of femininity. Does that make sense? Another words. JUST BECAUSE I'M NOT FEMININE ENOUGH DOESN'T MEAN I'M NOT BINARY TRANSGENDER WOMAN. I wanted your opinion on that. That's how I feel personally. Thank you for the video ❤💃♀️🏳️⚧️💙🌸💙🌸💙🌸🦋
Thank you soo much for this video!!! I've also realized recently that I am a non-binary woman (I didn't know it was even possible until a month ago...) With that being said, i'm a french speaker and french is a frickin mess when it comes to gender (every noun has a gender and adjectives are gendered too)! For that reason, i'm still more comfortable with She/Her (elle) pronoms because I feel like I would be misgendered a lot otherwise...
At least, we still have "iel" pronouns witch is a first step to allow people to claim their nb identity, then the administration and educational system need to fully recognize it. It's a start, sure there still so much to do but we should see it as a real change. So society can see it as a natural evolution that is needed.
Thank you so much for this video, I've been trying to explore my own gender and I relate to alot of what your talking about and feeling, wishing all the best🧡🧡
You're SUCH a beautiful person! Thank you for this video 🩷
I’m so proud of you !!
rose is an amazing person. They seem really nice. (me practicing)
Oh my god thank you so much 😊 sending you love
Thank you for this explanation ❤️
Your words are so honest, kind, and relieving. There's a lot of trans people on internet who make videos to respond to anti-trans or anti-non binary comments or people, and many times even using humor, you can feel the hurt, and the almost aggressive tone when they express "I exist and fuck you if you don't like it or don't understand it". Of course those claiming are necessary, but here, the way you choose to express it, explain it, without any barrier or judgement to others because your main objective is to enlighten and educate people by sharing true words is a real medecine to it. You goal is to reunite people whoever they claim to be, and give them the opportunity to understand each other and that is a blessing. Thank you.
We need many more trans people, who can opt to choose HRT and genital reassignment, and who are not hindered in the process by the medical profession or others. I would like to see the transitioning process made much easier and faster. You are beautiful!
Brilliant! Thank you 😊
ROSE ,Y❤️U ARE A STUNNING LADY !
I think of non binary as just being a person rather than conforming to a role or male or female.
Hi. I really appreciate this video. Thanks.
Rose, after hearing this video I believe you are more aware of who you are as a person than many human beings your age. I'm glad I chose to watch this video of you.
❤️❤️❤️ I love your TikTok channel as well.
You’re amazing 😻
Thank you Rose 🌹 I love ❤️ everything about you
You are amazing 😍
my word you have to be the most beautiful person i've ever seen!!!
You're so happy and wonderful for the explication Non binary transgender to the definition and representative is interesting your video
I admit it's all very confusing so "human" is the only label I can get on board with. You're beautiful they way you are...beauty is beauty regardless of gender.❤
Its not confusing at all and it never was, you creeps just make it confusing cause you are attention seeking, damaged narcs.
@@calistafalcontail Don't forget to take your "Crazy Pills"...Hope your day gets better ❤
I love Rose, they are VALID
Thank you so much for making this! I’m a trans woman and I started my transition in February. I’ve been struggling to accept the masculine parts of myself and have felt like a fraud at times. I didn’t understand what non-binary was, you helped me understand better. I related a lot to what you were saying. I now realize that Im a non-binary trans woman and that it’s okay to have some masculine qualities.
Very well explained
Very nicely done, And respectful to the people around you, So many people have done it in a way that the people hearing it that they feel like it's being forced on them With a my way are the highway attitude. your done in reassurance way that this is for me for these reasons and have I will present myself, you can except it or don't accept it this is your choice and I'm still the person you've always known. This is who I am for me.
I didn't know who you where until I saw you in an episode of motor mythbusters ( The only reason I looked it up because you resemble one of my ex's), You're a very talented person I Forward to seeing you in more episodesire as watch the rest of shows, I just found the show this week.
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oh my god! you are a very beautiful princess! i love your eyes so much!
Rose you are so beautiful your eyes
How can you be both non-bionary & transgender ?
You are very smart and beautiful!!
They nailed it on this video. Thank you, Rose.
I feel the same way. ❤
Brave,smart, beautiful, and super sexy!!! Love you!
i also feel like you but not quite fully connected with womanhood even though i feel connected with women lol i still at times feel connected with manhood probably equally, i used to go with gender non conforming then mostly go with gender fluid the most though non binary and trans femme i am using more these days i feel a bit more, yeah demiboy/demi girl i don't connect with nor agender. i am just lowkey trans hair and nail XD my favorite things including beard too
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Hey Rose, I am a non-binary transwoman too. Rose, They are very cute with their tattoos and their nose piercing
I wish I could explain this to my family as im trying to transtion at 49. Why does it have to be so black and white ????
Hey Rose you gorgeous
Did they just assign us homework? Well ok then, Rose :-P Love ya!
Maybe I am a non-binary woman, since I've heard « they are a woman », and I felt really seen lol. I would guess that's the most non-binary woman experience of them all 😂
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No disrespect at all to you , but how can you be a woman and also non-binary ? I think it's just all so confusing but I love your journey
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You're gorgeous nice complexion you're 🥰
I would like to convert, but I live in conservative societies
Yeah...I still don't get it. The terms tran woman and trans man exist on a binary. How can you be a non binary trans woman? Do you identify with the binary or lie outside it?
like they said in the video: gender is a social construct. we were taught to believe that there were only men and women, when in reality gender is a spectrum. rose feels connected to her womanhood, she also feels connected to their nonbinary identity. being a "man" or a "woman" can mean whatever you want it to mean.
This was an interesting video and perspective. Gender is not a social construct however, there is virtually no scientific proof for it being a social construct. It's sad there is so much of this confusion in today's western culture. Every human was created in God's image and there was purpose and intention to each child being born with certain genitalia, a certain set of chromosomes, and DNA. Having feminine tendencies does not automatically make you a woman or transgender. Both genders experience a variety of tendencies, that doesn't mean you need to now redefine your identity. God loves you and cares for you, find your identity in God's love for you, not what this confusing world says.
Preciosa 😘
I do respect you of course. Im just still trying to understand like does this mean you would only identify as nonbinary now or as the the title said nonbinary transwoman? Im not judging just trying to understand I mean the nonbinary I get i have nonbinary friends but from what i know of nonbinary its basically nothing gendered period and adding transwoman in there just makes for an added layer of confusion if that makes sense. Obviously ill call you whatever you prefer its just kinda confusing. Nothing but respect and love for you though.
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Well, then every human being on earth is non binary xD none of us is just their gender. we're all also lovers, friends and so on 😄
You're not wrong, but billions of people would still strongly disagree with you, unfortunately. That's why terms like "non-binary" exist and have value, at least for the time being.
You a beautiful woman and more can i no say,and what other people say,is not intressting
You are beautiful baby ❤❤❤❤
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I love you, period. But you DON'T! 💔
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I don’t get it, how do u be a blend of genders and a girl at the same time? I’m trans so I’m not being mean. I just don’t get it
Mind your business💋
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to me you are women you not binary.🔥🔥
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You've transitioned from one gender to the other, but you're not either gender?! Explain to me how this is possible, why you went through the procedure, and when this madness and screwing around with science is going to stop please.
Not to push back on who you know yourself to be, but has gender ever truly been binary? There may have been a time when people claimed to agree, more broadly, than they do now, that there is only man and woman and that man and woman only means this and that, but it’s all been observably bullshit. Women cannot live up to what is said to be the definition of high femme at any given time in history and neither can men live up to the hypermasculine ideal. It’s sort of a gendered way of understanding perfection in my mind. So you may have a man that identifies as hypermasculine, but outside of respecting their “gender identity” most people can agree that he cannot live up to that ideal at all times and therefore isn’t.
THESE are the bravest people JoeK Biden has ever met?
This man is very sick...
absolutely not I'm not confused by your identity you are a beautiful Trans woman/ woman I could absolutely never refer to you as a man or see you as a man I'm certainly not blind there's nothing wrong with my vision you are a beautiful woman and I adore and admire you so much yes I'm very attracted to you Rose but I respect you so very much I always will and I do think you are a good person and will never hold anything against you becuz I'm not shown any attention back that's okay that is on me that's not on you because you dont have too I understand and respect that because I respect you and admire you for the beautiful Goddess that you are, take care Rose your true ally and admirer robert 😊❤️❤️💋💋
Beautifully explained. Listening to you I just realized I am a Non Binary Women. These video's are realy helpful. You are a Super Host and Presenter on this topic. We need more people like you to make the public understand us. 🗯💥🗯💥