Is All Hope LOST To Get Your Ex Back?

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  • čas přidán 10. 07. 2024
  • Coach Lee (on Instagram at RealCoachLee) answers the question, "Is all hope lost to get my ex back?" If your ex has said something to make you think the breakup is absolute or that there is no chance of the two of you reuniting, watch this video.
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  • @jonathanb6911
    @jonathanb6911 Před 2 lety +927

    I always wanted to be the guy in the comments saying my ex came back, and this time I am. Thanks, Coach Lee.
    She texted me after 1.5 months, and she's practically falling apart at the seams to meet.

    • @jonathanb6911
      @jonathanb6911 Před 2 lety +45

      @@Nathan-sq9xv never say never. I don't know all the nuances involved in your situation, but changes can happen in amazing ways, if you just allow life to unfold.
      Good luck

    • @joshuaprince5145
      @joshuaprince5145 Před 2 lety

      @@Nathan-sq9xv I can connect you with this powerful love spell caster that helps me attract my ex back in two days👇👇👇👇👇

    • @yuliaamarfi
      @yuliaamarfi Před 2 lety +34

      I'm happy for you, I hope I could be the one who wrote the same comment as well very soon!

    • @terrymccann2792
      @terrymccann2792 Před 2 lety +26

      9 months in I still put myself into that position of looking forward to writing the same thing - im feeling better and letting go and leaving it to her now

    • @travis1418
      @travis1418 Před 2 lety +16

      Giving the rest of us hope!! Happy for you!!!

  • @yahabibi6891
    @yahabibi6891 Před 2 lety +624

    Isn’t scary how you love them so much to a point where you actually start to hate them because of their actions, and when they wanna come back you don’t feel anything like before, ever again?

    • @11cesarrenato
      @11cesarrenato Před 2 lety +22

      yes, i think too much about this, like i've through before and this pain will go away

    • @siiNke
      @siiNke Před 2 lety +1

      Yes. You will just be over them.. Its just damn chemicals in brain.

    • @rgue5509
      @rgue5509 Před 2 lety +15

      wtf im not the only one

    • @websterfelicia86
      @websterfelicia86 Před 2 lety +26

      Right, I'm starting to feel like I don't even want to get back with him anymore

    • @gabe9646
      @gabe9646 Před 2 lety +26

      then that was never love. it was infatuation, and your desire to get back was only to fulfill your ego.

  • @Derek-rh9mi
    @Derek-rh9mi Před 2 lety +219

    “When a person breaks up with you, they’re not losing you, they’re giving you away.” So true. Breaking up is purely conceptual in the beginning.

  • @lnzprazak2711
    @lnzprazak2711 Před 8 měsíci +56

    What's strange is how two months can feel both like an eternity and yesterday. I don't know what he's been up to, but I've been working HARD on my emotional, mental and physical health. Somedays I want him, others I'm like, 'to hell with someone who didn't see my worth'. Isn't this a wild ride? Best of luck to you all 🖤

    • @johnbaker2966
      @johnbaker2966 Před 8 měsíci +3

      I couldn't agree more. I feel exactly the same. It seems like yesterday she dumped me, yet, it feels like an eternity. Some moments I'm doing great, others not so much. The funny thing is, I have way more to offer her than she has for me, but I fell in love with her heart, which doesn't seem to beautiful now.

    • @johnbaker2966
      @johnbaker2966 Před 8 měsíci +1

      How are you doing now?

    • @erik_pokecollector
      @erik_pokecollector Před 3 měsíci +1

      How are you doing?? we want to know!!!
      Anyway i'm living the same experience, just since half of January. Working so much on myself and giving her the break up and all the consequences ^^

  • @frankl7370
    @frankl7370 Před 2 lety +677

    I always find it weird that people think emotions and opinions can’t change over time. I’m sure there was a time your ex told you she’ll love you forever right?

    • @jamesrocks19
      @jamesrocks19 Před 2 lety +15

      Yup.

    • @face2799
      @face2799 Před 2 lety +91

      Yeah in my case it was not official but she said “I will always want you and want to be with you” just days before she ended it

    • @jamesrocks19
      @jamesrocks19 Před 2 lety +18

      @@face2799 she said the same thing to me.

    • @JihadBunnydick
      @JihadBunnydick Před 2 lety +30

      @@face2799 That sounds like narcissistic behavior

    • @jeffjones6089
      @jeffjones6089 Před 2 lety +24

      my gf told me at one point she wanted us to last up to a certain date atleast and told me to promise her i wouldnt break her heart.... i told her lets take it week by week and enjoy eachother. she agreed and 2 months later she ended up breaking my heart. go figure right?

  • @cnrailproductions8957
    @cnrailproductions8957 Před 2 lety +394

    I don’t want my ex back anymore I’ve learned there’s better people out there and I feel more free. And you will to if you don’t get your ex back. It’s alright cry do what you gotta do but move on and it will work itself out

    • @emilyweiler7843
      @emilyweiler7843 Před 2 lety +4

      Same here ...

    • @kasabov5747
      @kasabov5747 Před 2 lety +26

      @@davidgordon2406 It's like going on a video tutorial on how to make a Caesar salad, just to type a comment "I don't even like Caesar salads!"

    • @harshjones1688
      @harshjones1688 Před 2 lety +12

      I’m gonna get my girl back

    • @user-hk3el6wq9r
      @user-hk3el6wq9r Před 2 lety +6

      Thanks for your videos. I actually binge listen to them over and over. They help me stay focused, calm, and optimistic for the best possible outcome. Whether or not I get my ex back, I have the satisfaction of knowing that I'm doing everything correctly for the best possible outcome. The self improvement during this period helps distract myself from the breakup.
      Again, thank you.

    • @giving1261
      @giving1261 Před 2 lety

      ÷ ¹³07²75³79⁴: MANIFEST A SPECIFIC CALL OR TEXT FROM SOMEONE SPECIAL. l Know a specialist that can help you with the manifestation.

  • @markzig1429
    @markzig1429 Před 2 lety +175

    It is UNBELIEVABLE how 100% correct Coach Lee is.

    • @m1ll1on4r3
      @m1ll1on4r3 Před rokem +2

      Any experience you wanna share with us ?

    • @markzig1429
      @markzig1429 Před rokem +1

      @@m1ll1on4r3 This was a year ago, so I don't remember everything exactly. But I do remember her sending me a message that read almost word for word how Coach Lee said she would. I remember going back and reading it while listening to his video. Almost exactly word for word! However, her message came before I listened to Coach Lee's video, and I did not react how he suggested. I wish I had come across Coach Lee a little earlier than I did. My ex has now gone back to the man who physically, emotionally and mentally abused her. A man who she told me was a narcissist, a compulsive liar, a textbook sociopath, "the worst person she has ever known" and someone who she feared "was capable of murder" (her words). And she lives across the street from me.

  • @Greendoves
    @Greendoves Před 2 lety +277

    Don’t loose hope. After three weeks of no contact I broke it & wished him happy birthday he responded and we met for coffee that day. I’ve done a lot of reflecting and watched tons of your videos which kept me going. We’ve learnt a lot whilst we’ve been apart and we need to communicate better and stop taking each other for granted. I’m going all in as I’ve always held back through fear of being left. Thankyou for keeping me company on those long sleepless nights 💖 hang in there beautiful people xx

    • @chaunceythomas4531
      @chaunceythomas4531 Před 2 lety +6

      Keep us updated 🙂

    • @Rizzy_K
      @Rizzy_K Před 2 lety +42

      It sounds like you guys had a fake break up if you only were split for 3 weeks. Also, although you guys are reconciling, I don’t think coach lee would’ve advised to wish your ex a happy birthday. Shifts even more power to your ex.

    • @everilliem3292
      @everilliem3292 Před 2 lety +25

      3 weeks is certainly not enough to grow or really work things through

    • @peterhoffman6896
      @peterhoffman6896 Před 2 lety +9

      32 days of NC and seems like she moved on. Smh.

    • @everilliem3292
      @everilliem3292 Před 2 lety +6

      @@peterhoffman6896 Stay strong brother! Happiness is from one's self.

  • @ezzg7503
    @ezzg7503 Před rokem +4

    Coach Lee is definitely the best of the best out there, absolutely everything he says is so true and his voice is also so smoothing in a time when we're feeling rather low.

  • @George-Aguilar
    @George-Aguilar Před 2 lety +58

    Why would I take someone that discarded me and left me for trash. It’s been 2 years. I treated her good for 20 years. What a waste. Now I am so much better!

    • @RealCoachLee
      @RealCoachLee  Před 2 lety +26

      Sounds like there are better things out there for you.

    • @George-Aguilar
      @George-Aguilar Před 2 lety +11

      @@RealCoachLee Thanks Coach Lee, your videos helped me through the hardest part. I’ve learned happiness must be found within first. I’m in better shape, making more money and planning to travel. I still care for her, but I’m learning I deserve much better.

    • @larrylovejr82
      @larrylovejr82 Před 2 lety +1

      That's awesome !! Atleast your happy now. I take about topics like this on my CZcams channel 💯.

  • @nathanieldonley5502
    @nathanieldonley5502 Před 2 lety +58

    I love the way you ended this video. It relieved a lot of anxiety. Thank you Coach Lee for your integrity!

  • @hollyirisdrucker2201
    @hollyirisdrucker2201 Před rokem +17

    Three months after my breakup my Ex came back after I went into no contact. And started dating again. I met a nice man and I liked him a lot. When my Ex called me I was polite but, I told him the truth. After that he came on real strong. He asked me to meet him for coffee.. I met my Ex and he looked like hell. He told me he wanted another chance. I told my Ex I was open to that but, I wanted to move slowly. He agreed and we are now taking our time enjoying each others company. Hang in 😁 take care no contact works.

    • @jannlewandowski5540
      @jannlewandowski5540 Před 11 měsíci

      hollyirisdrucker, that's the smart thing to do, and I wish you both well. Coach Lee would want you to join his workshop, which will help you both immensely.
      know it's really difficult and I've certainly been there. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @hashemmohammedi4541
    @hashemmohammedi4541 Před 2 lety +12

    After five weeks of the breakup, today I miss her again, but this video gives me energy ,thanks coach lee

  • @tachi5408
    @tachi5408 Před 2 lety +98

    Perfect timing, my emotions have been coming back so been feeling down, thank you for this video. Feel that much better again:)

  • @ruffatonido5496
    @ruffatonido5496 Před 2 lety +51

    20 years but you look so young. That's just amazing. Thank you for helping me through those times of agony. Been cheated by my ex and he twisted the story made me a villain so people would not judge him whenever they would see him with someome new. Good thing I've came to ur channel,and learned a lot. Ur teachings made me calm and handle the situation with dignity. Now i am fine and i no longer care about him. I'm gonna wait for that man who is deserving having me.

  • @walterott3161
    @walterott3161 Před 2 lety +21

    Everyone of your videos have gotten me through these tough times..thank u coach lee

  • @emilasnamso1
    @emilasnamso1 Před 2 lety +60

    Coach Lee your videos bring me so much comfort (and hope) whilst nursing my broken heart 💔 Thank you 🙏

    • @kettymulauzi6124
      @kettymulauzi6124 Před 2 lety +2

      I feel for you. Am in the same situation though and have been watching coach Lee's vedios and they give me strength.

  • @DailyOwO
    @DailyOwO Před 27 dny +1

    Thank you coach Lee. I've been binge watching your videos these past two weeks.
    Thank you for being my support.
    Whether she comes back or not, I know I'll survive this.

  • @JD_BigBLANKETS
    @JD_BigBLANKETS Před 2 lety +201

    Hey coach, after 10 months being separated from my wife we’ve finally started reconciling. I’m so thankful for your emergency break up kit. She’s saying she loves me, hugs me & kisses me and we’re talking about eventually getting a place together.
    I did a lot of self reflecting, I got a amazing new job, changed up my look (cut my hair, new tats & confidence) & I’ve come to peace living on my own. It’s just the sexual side of things she’s still a bit on edge about it
    She wants the emotional side of things, she’s said how hard it was being away from me because I was all she knew. & at the beginning before going into no contact I was her emotional support. Big mistake ik but yes I finally got myself to step away. All that without the full physical side of things. 12 year relationship with two young kids

    • @Steven-gg1bn
      @Steven-gg1bn Před 2 lety +10

      You're giving me hope. It's been 11 months for me so a little bit longer but just maybe... who knows...

    • @Rizzy_K
      @Rizzy_K Před 2 lety +5

      Her being on edge about having sex is a bit of a red flag to me because if she’s hugging kissing telling you she loves you and you guys are married, why isn’t she engaging in sex? Do you know if there’s another guy in the picture or maybe there was another guy while you two were separated?

    • @JD_BigBLANKETS
      @JD_BigBLANKETS Před 2 lety +16

      @@Rizzy_K she attempted to rebound at one point. I took coach lees advice and went full strategic no contact at that point. Only speaking about the kids or when she reached out. That clearly crumbled on its own. I did all the wrong things coach Lee states at the beginning 🤯😨 I was surprised how accurate Coach is. When we started reconnecting fully my wife sent me this message
      “Believe me when I say it’s been horrible being away from you. You’re all I’ve ever known and I feel like a piece of me is missing.”
      Stay strong, & trust me. Staying away works

    • @Rizzy_K
      @Rizzy_K Před 2 lety +11

      @@JD_BigBLANKETS I’ve been NC for 106 days. I’m so tired of this

    • @highlyegucaded5710
      @highlyegucaded5710 Před 2 lety +5

      3 months for me. It’s been a roller coaster. One day she says she doesn’t think this is the end of us. Another day she’ll say she has ZERO feelings for me anymore. At this point I don’t know how to feel or what to think she actually feels

  • @agnieszkadrewniak-kim3114
    @agnieszkadrewniak-kim3114 Před 2 lety +35

    Dear Lee many many thanks for those videos, they really help to get through the tough times of a break up. I had joined the ‘ no contact army’ 7 weeks ago and staying strong 💪🏻. I like your sense of humour as well 😄😄😄 thank you for being there 🌈🌟💖 lots of love and light to you and your family 🍀

  • @LifeCrusaderCoaching
    @LifeCrusaderCoaching Před 2 lety +7

    I love the one-liners delivered with a straight face...Coach, ever considered stand up comedy? 🤣

  • @skyeblu1477
    @skyeblu1477 Před 2 lety +15

    Couch Lee thank you so much, i did the NC rule and my ex reached out to me after 30 days. It wasn't easy though.xx

  • @momentswithrussell
    @momentswithrussell Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you so much coach lee you've been with me in my worst times✨

  • @garyheydenrych3850
    @garyheydenrych3850 Před 2 lety +5

    Hi Coach after all the drama , heart break and the fall out. The betrayal of a best friend and his wife and my church paster. And after listening to the anxiety music you have posted. I've decided I'm not going to wait for her I'm going to live on persue my passions. I'm going to come through this stronger, healthier and more grounded. A better person for it. I loved her dearly but the way things went down. I'm not sure if a reconciliation is possible. Enya helped me.

  • @natasharosemillscoaching
    @natasharosemillscoaching Před 2 lety +7

    Great,advice, allowing space to give them an opportunity to miss you.

  • @garethedwards6331
    @garethedwards6331 Před 2 lety +4

    Dumped after short relationship, did no contact for about a month, decided to reach out for advice. Arranged a phone call and it went pretty well, she reached out a couple of weeks later to see how I was getting on after her advice. She has also started liking my social media posts from my recent trip away and we have texted a little! Keeping it casual, will probably talk again in a few weeks, wish me luck, trying to build up to a meet! These sort of videos have helped me cope so much with how to act and behave despite how hard it is not to want to chase them. Thanks Coach Lee!

    • @silviam.9224
      @silviam.9224 Před 2 lety +1

      Updates?

    • @Z0FFY512
      @Z0FFY512 Před rokem +1

      man you reach out asking for advice is not romantic things, it’s a friendship things, you dont do it

  • @ceeze9923
    @ceeze9923 Před 2 lety +6

    I would like to say thank you Coach Lee for your videos. God works through you to reach the Mars l masses.

  • @Mzainie
    @Mzainie Před 8 měsíci +11

    After 5 months of no contact, I still get panic attacks and anxiety. 😢

    • @rwentfordable
      @rwentfordable Před 5 měsíci +2

      I know the feeling. I got really bad at 8 months. It's weird.

    • @steffybreezy8505
      @steffybreezy8505 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@rwentfordable same .. 7 months.

    • @vickysk9681
      @vickysk9681 Před 3 měsíci +2

      10 months. Everyday is a battle. and I lose most..

    • @user-gc8dh2tm7p
      @user-gc8dh2tm7p Před měsícem +1

      Going on 6 months, no idea what to think

  • @topman984
    @topman984 Před rokem +9

    Coach Lee is right 100% . I lost my ex after breaking up due to poor Managment from me after my breakup. I didn’t give her the breakup I was begging and bleeding and this got her away of me miles. It’s now 9 years after breaking up. I know my mistakes now during the breaking up I was too weak man and I managed the breaking up time poorly that’s why I lost her completely. Back in these days I didn’t know coach Lee videos. But his videos helped me understand a lot of what went wrong

    • @jannlewandowski5540
      @jannlewandowski5540 Před 11 měsíci

      topman984, DO you know if she's still around and single? I'm asking for a reason. Coach Lee has an excellent video called If you think your ex won't come back, watch this." It's excellent. We had cases up to 20 yrs. I saw a couple (on the News) that reunited 30 yrs. later. If she's spoken for, I recommend Coach Lee's Workshop for you. It's brilliant!
      Been there-I know how tough it can be. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need!

  • @theodusowens6954
    @theodusowens6954 Před 2 lety +2

    Been watching his Video for some time. I promise they bring me much comfort especially during my anxiety. You think about them all the time. Before you go to sleep and the first thing when you wake up. You hope for any sliver of hope. Been broke up since September 2nd. I had pleaded and almost begged her not to leave.I wanted to Marry this girl (Still do) I had to fall back... Too many ways she kept telling me she isn't there yet. She reaches out from time to time asks how I am or hows work. But anything about US she shuts down. I'm using NC and Radio silence now... I'm sure its gonna take some time for it to take its effects, but I'm hoping it brings her back because I miss her so much.

  • @Ch2.0ris
    @Ch2.0ris Před rokem +1

    This is your best video so far.. I am mesmerized

  • @serpico7308
    @serpico7308 Před rokem +4

    Dude
    Just now seeing this.
    I am in a dark period in My life.
    You have helped me tremendously.

  • @bookwarmtee7750
    @bookwarmtee7750 Před 2 lety +30

    No matter what I will be fine 🙂
    I am so happy thanks to your videos!
    I just love how much power I hold for myself. Makes me feel good inside!

  • @Liz-dragon-street.
    @Liz-dragon-street. Před rokem +5

    If a person is breaking up with you ...
    Take a few months 2 go through the break up..
    Feel the pain!
    Watch coach Lee❤
    Afther some months the pain starts less and less... (it took me 6 months) then i found peace in myself.
    I found my life back ..
    Day by day i started 2 feel stronger and there are days i'm like, damn i don't need him😊
    What he did 2 me was wrong! What i did 2 myself has nothing 2 do with self respect!
    I will get there.
    My life is getting better and better, do i really need him in it again 🤔
    Damn, i love it, he is going through stages but then an the other hand i also go through stages..
    Take time 2 heal foks🎉
    And then when you are no longer in the controle of the ex you can find out (if he reach out) if you want them back ✌🏼
    Much love from Amsterdam
    Love you Lee you gave me so much with your video's 🙏

  • @cocochannel8932
    @cocochannel8932 Před 2 lety +3

    I love how @coachlee is so enthusiastic about his clients and broken hearted people! He is our secret weapon ⚡️

  • @sellitall811
    @sellitall811 Před 2 lety +18

    'Sometimes people get mad at me.' 🤣🤣🤣🤣 'And you dwell in darkness without them.'
    Coach Lee is so humorous, all my laughing facial expressions show under my mask! You are a riot, Coach Lee! ❤️

    • @kaylacupido9884
      @kaylacupido9884 Před 2 lety

      I always laugh when he says "and you dwell in darkness without them" 🤣🤣

  • @MissRegina79
    @MissRegina79 Před 2 lety +5

    I really needed this video… thanks Coach❤️

  • @MIKE0o0o0o
    @MIKE0o0o0o Před 2 lety +12

    Its funny how it seens that after the break up you have to "return" all the happines you got from the relationship, you do that by suffering a lot.

  • @SS-in1ts
    @SS-in1ts Před rokem +2

    One of the best videos on CZcams. Ever. Thanks coach!

  • @intesarsalim8031
    @intesarsalim8031 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much coach Lee ...ur videos are always making me feel strong and making me to stand on my feet ...During the no contact period. ..ur analysis on human psychology. ..seem to be the real one ...Thanks for uplifting my spirits.

  • @cocochannel8932
    @cocochannel8932 Před 2 lety +3

    You crack me up @coachlee “dwelling in darkness.” So funny and So true

  • @marlecmarine5393
    @marlecmarine5393 Před 2 lety +6

    Excellent video by Coach Lee, delivered with a calmness, confidence and knowledge that 20 years of experience in this field brings. Great advice as usual.

    • @alphamadaki8055
      @alphamadaki8055 Před 2 lety

      +2348101367929⏭️⏭️⏭️⏭️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup..,

  • @lemooncakee
    @lemooncakee Před 2 lety +5

    I’ve been waiting for you to upload a new video! Coach Lee you always speaking facts, thank you for your advice. You really changed my mindset, thanks to your videos. God bless you ❤️

  • @radostinatodorova4711
    @radostinatodorova4711 Před 2 lety +23

    Watched all your videos each one few times. Was hoping for a new one , thank you so much

  • @denisse010188
    @denisse010188 Před 2 lety +62

    I’m hitting the 5th month mark of NC and imma be honest that’s there’s still rough days where I’m questioning what I did wrong. It was a short dating window but it hurt more than any other relationship I had. I think it was the fact that I’m in my 30s and that things were great until the last 2 weeks where it just fell apart really out of no where. The part that hurt the most was when he said we can be friends even when we had a whole discussion about how we were not looking for friends and how we found it irritating when people want to friend zone you. Oh well, not my first rodeo and life really does go on.

  • @freakynikki08
    @freakynikki08 Před 2 lety +33

    It's supposed to be our 3rd anniversary in 3 days. After almost 3 months of our breakup, I'm deciding to just fully let him go & let go of the hope we'll get back together. Something in me says it's never going to happen. It's just painful trying to cling on to that tiny flicker of hope so I choose to just move on. On our supposed anniv, I'll write a "closure letter" and burn it along with the everlasting rose he gave me.
    Wishing everyone else luck and hoping you all find peace and happiness, with or without your ex.

    • @aseeyahsalihu4158
      @aseeyahsalihu4158 Před 2 lety

      I can recommend you to (Mr oduma )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems

    • @aseeyahsalihu4158
      @aseeyahsalihu4158 Před 2 lety

      Message or call

    • @aseeyahsalihu4158
      @aseeyahsalihu4158 Před 2 lety

      十2348073788494♻️♻️🎦🚻识你...

    • @lisabaughn
      @lisabaughn Před 2 lety +3

      How's everything going now? I'm beginning to feel the same way. I don't think I will ever hear from him again and I'm really starting to just let go, after about a month and a half of NC. We had a great relationship and I didn't think anything was wrong. Then out of nowhere, poof. 😪

    • @ovigavril7191
      @ovigavril7191 Před rokem +2

      Update ?

  • @michaelbannon4467
    @michaelbannon4467 Před rokem

    Thank you for this video... Spiritual food at the proper time.

  • @carmensmith1453
    @carmensmith1453 Před 2 lety +3

    Words of wisdom from coach Lee ...too many tears in this relationship he's no longer handsome to me ...

  • @valisgkaraoke1167
    @valisgkaraoke1167 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for this amazing video, it did help me very much, life goes on.

    • @alphamadaki8055
      @alphamadaki8055 Před 2 lety

      +2348101367929⏭️⏭️⏭️⏭️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup..,

  • @gabbymontoya2085
    @gabbymontoya2085 Před 2 lety +23

    Just when I was questioning this today how odd.. with prayers and guidance ..

  • @Punchemyster04
    @Punchemyster04 Před 2 lety +15

    Glad to see you post man good work

  • @robertwhitehead5886
    @robertwhitehead5886 Před rokem +3

    This guy is the real deal.

  • @Neonravekid
    @Neonravekid Před 2 lety +32

    The irony of the timing of this video....

  • @keepgrowing9941
    @keepgrowing9941 Před 2 lety +8

    Attendance check: present, coach lee 🥰🙋🏻‍♀️ sunday morning here. ♥️♥️♥️ i really need this, coach. Thank you very much. Stay safe coach, and keep inspiring us. ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼

  • @unimportantsir7915
    @unimportantsir7915 Před 2 lety +28

    my ex came back after 1 month but it was really good relationship, long distance at the time and a lot of things happend but now its perfect again :) Thanks coach lee you helped me with breakup anxiety so much :)

  • @haroldcook5360
    @haroldcook5360 Před 2 lety +3

    All of you're videos are so full of great interest and information that's real good for all of us!!

  • @ben5091
    @ben5091 Před 2 lety +6

    Excellent video, coach. I needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @mk_cosmetics106
    @mk_cosmetics106 Před 2 lety +12

    You are such a good man ❤️ you have a golden heart 💛

    • @alphamadaki8055
      @alphamadaki8055 Před 2 lety

      +2348101367929⏭️⏭️⏭️⏭️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup..,

  • @jiayingliu8538
    @jiayingliu8538 Před rokem +4

    Everyday, I get up, the first thing is listening to your video, i am continuing the NC, but i still feel extremely hurtful at night, I always have bad dreams at night

  • @JulieZeller
    @JulieZeller Před 2 lety +3

    Mine said "We have no future together." Yet for the 4 months post break up he kept talking to me...and flirting. Know better. CUT THEM OFF. No contact until they really change their heart. It isn't worth the hurt.

  • @worlocx2939
    @worlocx2939 Před 2 lety +34

    To everybody reading this, I was a very positive man, suicide and depression never made sense to me. But breakups hurt you so bad man. My girl broke up with me 4 days ago, and I felt so lonely, I feel like nobody was gonna have my back, depressed, and even had suicidal thoughts. But then I consulted to my friends and family and things got better. But just a reminder to ya'll boys OR girls, that breakups hurt your partner so bad, so think twice, thanks

    • @eddyfnb5148
      @eddyfnb5148 Před 2 lety

      I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,

    • @eddyfnb5148
      @eddyfnb5148 Před 2 lety

      Message him now via WhatsApp

    • @eddyfnb5148
      @eddyfnb5148 Před 2 lety

      ±19199806974⏯⏯️🇺🇸

    • @eddyfnb5148
      @eddyfnb5148 Před 2 lety

      ±19199806974⏯⏯️🇺🇸

    • @ToxicVerixfy
      @ToxicVerixfy Před 2 lety +2

      Bro you got the online as your back bro breakups are no jokes they hurt alot its been for me 3 weeks almost just doing No Contact rule for 3 days now but shits hurt bro been praying every day to give my soulmate back and i promise to god to never lie again so i get your feelings its okayy man emotions makes your stronger and healthy later on i hope and pray for you too to get your ex back if you believe in your heart you going to get her back in the future keep that promise in your heart🙏🏻

  • @Rip5Minor1
    @Rip5Minor1 Před 2 lety +3

    Hello Coach Lee!
    I was wondering if at some point, you'd be able to make a video on exactly how to handle different dynamics between the dumper and dumpee after the ex starts to reach out more and what not. I know to use no contact, not ignore the ex, and to be reserved and stuff, but I'd be really interested in a dedicated video on how to handle certain situations after there is more contact happening. My ex has bantered with me multiple times now, trying to pull the "you never say hi to me anymore" card, and she has tried to ask me about like, everything thats been happening in my life but im not the one carrying the conversation. She's becoming warmer and opening up more to me, which is nice. I don't want to ignore her, but not sure what would be considered too much talking/too much intimacy shared.
    I think you get the idea, don't wanna ramble on too long, but would be a neat video idea to see your advice on!

    • @terael5637
      @terael5637 Před 2 lety

      Hello! How did things turn out between you two?

  • @themetalave
    @themetalave Před 14 dny

    After a year I am still here...Heal everyone..Take your time...Focus on yourselves...No contact is the only way for even a slight chance of rekindling a relationship.

  • @adimasturd
    @adimasturd Před rokem +1

    This man is a genius

  • @MrSchmerzen98
    @MrSchmerzen98 Před 2 lety +5

    I'm happy for everyone that got their exes back or that moved on to a better future. My case is lost. She's gone for good, she even got a new bf and has been dating him for some months now. I'm at a better place than I was in the beginning of the BU, but I'm not "there" yet.

    • @janesalonga6835
      @janesalonga6835 Před 2 lety

      Stay strong everything will be better. How long were you in NC?

    • @MrSchmerzen98
      @MrSchmerzen98 Před 2 lety

      @@janesalonga6835 ever since day 1. About 10 months now

  • @kookaburrapants3106
    @kookaburrapants3106 Před 2 lety +4

    stopped counting days of no contact but it’s been well over a month! perhaps for the best :) good luck to everyone

    • @alicesmith5904
      @alicesmith5904 Před 2 lety

      I can recommend you to a man who heIped me bring back my ex, Wh'tsapp him

  • @emmacarlavelayo7911
    @emmacarlavelayo7911 Před 2 lety +2

    Hello Lee! Sorry for my late comment 😅 busy at work though cuz im a RN Vaccinator here in my country 🇵🇭 Keep up the good work cuz am your loyal follower of yours! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mikesamson1972
      @mikesamson1972 Před 2 lety

      +2349155456138⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

  • @TonyRossiImpactGlobal
    @TonyRossiImpactGlobal Před 2 lety +2

    Ex wife and I have been divorced for 20 years. We spent almost every day together from March-June and then it stopped, I was very upfront about what I wanted, her. She said she wanted to go slow because she “wasn’t there yet”. Anyhow she broke it off end of July saying she just wanted to be friends. I declined and told her I wasn’t interested in being just friends and to let me know if she changes her mind. That was 7/27, it’s 11/11…only contact was when she called me, I missed the call. She called my son and asked if I’d bring her daughter to cheer. I did, but really no conversation other than thank you. Not sure what to do…

  • @yasisanger619
    @yasisanger619 Před 2 lety +6

    I needed this

  • @jefffariss1685
    @jefffariss1685 Před 2 lety +14

    I got dumped less than two weeks ago, we had just gotten back from a weekend beach vacation. I thought everything went great, awesome trip and we both had a lot of fun. Then I get the “I don’t have the same feelings anymore”. I was in shock, I thought I was so caring and considerate to her wants and needs so it hurt. We haven’t talked much after, she just wanted her stuff back. It really hurts that she doesn’t seem to care anymore

    • @CryThunderdarealone
      @CryThunderdarealone Před 2 lety +1

      Update?

    • @jefffariss1685
      @jefffariss1685 Před 2 lety +8

      @@CryThunderdarealone I absolutely forgot I commented on this video. The short of it, she came back. Coach Lee is absolutely correct, and no matter how counter intuitive it seems, no contact is the answer. The more difficult thing is, you may not have loved that person the way you thought you did, and certainly having the relationship snatched away is where most of the pain and desperation comes from. I couldn’t trust her the way I did, I didn’t love her the same. I always found myself second guessing her intentions and how long it would last. It ended once again, about 3 months ago, but this time, I didn’t want her back. I even went so far as to block her. At the end of the day, I was worse off with her than by myself, and I needed to heal from not only trauma of the relationship but things that would hinder my future relationships. No matter how much you love someone Danny, you’ve got to put yourself first, because no one else will. You will heal, don’t get me wrong, it’s hard, today may not have been great but tomorrow will be better. If it was meant to last, it wouldn’t have fallen apart so easily.

    • @CryThunderdarealone
      @CryThunderdarealone Před 2 lety

      @@jefffariss1685 Hey Jeff, I really needed this right now. Just passing one month of NC and I’ve been really putting myself first this whole month, I’m definitely a better version of myself and that momentum is gonna keep on going! Today was especially hard but I think it’s just the loss that’s getting to me. Upwards and onwards friend, if it was meant to be it wouldn’t have fallen apart so easily 💪 thank you so much for that Jeff!

    • @ovigavril7191
      @ovigavril7191 Před 2 lety

      @@jefffariss1685 how long after she came back? I am asking ,because I think it’s the same thing for me ,it’s almost 2 weeks ,I did NC right away…

    • @lottofever3061
      @lottofever3061 Před rokem

      @@ovigavril7191 update?

  • @De_Los_Her
    @De_Los_Her Před 2 lety +2

    Great insights! 💥

  • @xtc2006
    @xtc2006 Před 2 lety +3

    How are you not verified yet Coach Lee?! You def deserve that check next to your name

    • @RealCoachLee
      @RealCoachLee  Před 2 lety +1

      I am on CZcams and FB. Just not Instagram yet.

  • @prospervilla9021
    @prospervilla9021 Před 2 lety +5

    I laughed upon seeing the title
    But stop and asked my self .. "Is this my situation?"... I answered.." No!...but this is my video to watch😘

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 Před 2 lety +11

    My mind tells me I should move on from her because she doesn’t deserve me. But my feelings and emotions keep pulling me back.

  • @nazi6676
    @nazi6676 Před rokem +1

    You are so professional sometimes you say something that have exactly happened to me....

  • @kurtzriley
    @kurtzriley Před 2 lety +2

    I’m 2 weeks in to NC. She wanted to keep entertaining the village even though we had something really dope going and she had some past toxic relationships that almost seemed like she looked at ours through smoky glass. It felt like she was just waiting for me to hurt her like her past partners and she couldn’t commit. Just one of those things u have to let the universe handle after u give it ur all. I hope to be back here after she reaches out. In my benefit I’m about to be too busy to even entertain other women in my life, time to elevate my friends 🙇🏻‍♂️😔

    • @nuhubakut3304
      @nuhubakut3304 Před 2 lety

      Hello I'm so excited my broken 💔💔 relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we leaving and happily together, I got help from a great man he's real and specific 💯

    • @nuhubakut3304
      @nuhubakut3304 Před 2 lety

      Contact him 👇👇

  • @christianklein1632
    @christianklein1632 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for everything Coach Lee you are an angel.

  • @doublea125
    @doublea125 Před 2 lety +48

    The end is near Coach. She'll be coming back soon. How do I know? A mutual friend told me it was free balloon animal day. She could have asked for her favorite animal, an octopus. Instead, she got a penguin, which is mine. This was about 2 weeks ago. She still has it in her office, even though it's lost quite a bit of air.

    • @danvo1571
      @danvo1571 Před 2 lety +7

      hahaha aww

    • @giving1261
      @giving1261 Před 2 lety

      ÷ ¹³07²75³79⁴: MANIFEST A SPECIFIC CALL OR TEXT FROM SOMEONE SPECIAL. l Know a specialist that can help you with the manifestation.

    • @TheEmpress808
      @TheEmpress808 Před 2 lety +2

      Lol this was cute to read. Best of luck to you mate. 🤙🏾

    • @rival_04
      @rival_04 Před 2 lety

      Update?

    • @Road2Jannah416
      @Road2Jannah416 Před 2 lety

      Update?

  • @jaimemint405
    @jaimemint405 Před 2 lety

    Hi Coach Lee, thanks for your top notch Clips, they helped me a lot, the best thing is, i loved her, but it turns out, she has now a new boyfriend half of my age, an entrepreneur owner of a construction company, so the no contact rule does not really work out, but thats okay, we are "friends" and i am over it, mostly! ;-)

  • @CarolinaWhite-kp8xz
    @CarolinaWhite-kp8xz Před měsícem +1

    I love your coaching❤

  • @alyssaroberts2675
    @alyssaroberts2675 Před rokem +3

    Hey coach Lee, for about a month after the breakup I was doing the whole begging and pleading thing which now I know was the wrong thing but I never spewed anger and the last messages we had about a week ago I said it was probably best for us to take each other off social media and he agreed he didn’t want us to unintentionally hurt each other with our posts but expressed that it hurt his heart to do so but he understood. I told him he can reach out to me sometime and he said he would so I decided to go into no contact until he reaches out. I hope it was the right thing to do to take him off social media because it was only bothering both us seeing the other person. It’s a confusing process I wish I had seen your videos sooner.

  • @c-fo3335
    @c-fo3335 Před 2 lety +3

    This hit the spot! Been separated and letting go, but she just text me a few days ago and said “I still care about you and I’m not a heartless bitch”. Well, i said thank you but you dont have to tell me how you feel-Im not stupid. TTYL…

  • @justplaindan9595
    @justplaindan9595 Před 2 lety +1

    I had so much hope and everything and I believed in my heart that me and my ex had something sooo special , talked to me about so much intimate details of her life and lots of passion 😪 she assured me that what we had wasn’t a rebound and that she knows she wants to be with me long term (3months only ) out of nowhere she broke up with me over text saying “some girl I’ve been talking to can have me and she had enough “
    Don’t know what to think rn

    • @alphamadaki8055
      @alphamadaki8055 Před 2 lety

      +2348101367929⏭️⏭️⏭️⏭️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup..,

  • @FellowGiant
    @FellowGiant Před 2 lety +1

    Was in a 5 year relationship with a girl got broken up little over 3 months ago it’s def stings everyday she just turned 25 I’m 23 we had something special and I def miss her these vids have def been helping

    • @nuhubakut3304
      @nuhubakut3304 Před 2 lety

      Hello I'm so excited my broken 💔💔 relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we leaving and happily together, I got help from a great man he's real and specific 💯

    • @nuhubakut3304
      @nuhubakut3304 Před 2 lety

      Contact him 👇👇

  • @signsignsign74
    @signsignsign74 Před 2 lety +8

    Coach Lee, how much can medication help someone get over the feeling of loss during a breakup? 13 months here of no contact after my breakup of a 6 year relationship.

  • @sellitall811
    @sellitall811 Před 2 lety +4

    'You were just as attractive the day you were when you DUMPED me.' 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mikerozic7225
    @mikerozic7225 Před rokem +1

    Coach Lee Thank You!

  • @virginiashepard3232
    @virginiashepard3232 Před 2 lety

    I am amazed at your wisdom.

  • @haiyenmai8703
    @haiyenmai8703 Před 2 lety +5

    I have watched all of your amazing videos, followed every steps and my ex finally came back after no contact. But he isnt trying to earn me back, he treats me casually. i expected him to make a lot more affort for me to feel safe and secure again but he said he already did his best. We're back together but it doesnt feel the same anymore. Idk if im the problem here...

  • @awesomefire7117
    @awesomefire7117 Před rokem +4

    My ex broke up with me about a month ago after a 14 month relationship. When it first happened (by text) I asked her a bunch of questions by text. I told her I wanted her back but never begged for her back. We had a brief phone call where we both cried. A week and a half later I broke no contact because I saw that she had unfriended me from all social media and it panicked me (this was all before I had seen any of your videos). I asked to meet her in person because she said she hadn't planned on breaking up by text and wanted to talk in person. She agreed. We met up and she said that she wanted to be friends but I said I didn't want that. She was crying while asking to be friends. She gave me some reasons why she wanted to break up which didn't make sense to me and after watching these videos I understand why they didn't make sense. I asked clarifying questions, but ultimately I said that I understood her and that she knew my position. She hugged me all the while crying and telling me that she had been in love with me. I walked away without looking back. It's been a week and a half of no contact. I'm hopeful, but I'm wondering if I messed up by contacting her for several days afterwards and asking her all those questions a week and a half later in person. We both cried during the initial phone call and I cried during the in person visit, but nothing overboard. A little sarcasm on my part but no anger or name-calling. I guess time will tell and either way I'm going to work on myself.

    • @jannlewandowski5540
      @jannlewandowski5540 Před rokem

      Awesome fire, Working on yourself is ALWAYS a good move. Take time out for yourself, see your friends, start a hobby, etc. There's so much you can do out there. Most of all, take care of YOU! Hugs..♥️⚘️⚘️

  • @jaredvaughan1665
    @jaredvaughan1665 Před 2 lety +1

    Great logic!

  • @abizarhussainpoultrywala259
    @abizarhussainpoultrywala259 Před 8 měsíci

    V true n nicely explained really helps a lot do deal vd ur x i like it keep it up

  • @Potato-lq5sc
    @Potato-lq5sc Před 2 lety +12

    6 weeks no contact after a two month relationship and I’m kinda envying all these success stories of peoples exes coming back haha (can’t relate). It was my first relationship (not his) and after reflecting back and reading ‘get the guy’ by Matthew Hussey I’m starting to realise how little I knew and all the mistakes I made during the relationship. Not sure whether he’ll come back now or whether he’ll ever know what I’m truly capable of, but I’ll trust the process of no contact and allow the best outcome to reveal itself

    • @christopherrobindysart
      @christopherrobindysart Před 2 lety +6

      a two month relationship isn't really a relationship. not much for them to miss

    • @Potato-lq5sc
      @Potato-lq5sc Před 2 lety +2

      @@christopherrobindysart it was actually two and a half months

    • @lolmeercatz10
      @lolmeercatz10 Před 2 lety +3

      @@Potato-lq5sc I had the same thing I feel you, same length super intense

    • @lolmeercatz10
      @lolmeercatz10 Před 2 lety

      @@Potato-lq5sc did they come back to you yet? I'm like almost 60 days no contact

    • @meenudedha16
      @meenudedha16 Před rokem

      Update?

  • @rodrigonatal8412
    @rodrigonatal8412 Před 2 lety +19

    I feel as God is talking to me thorugh you whenever I watch you videos... thanks alot

    • @RealCoachLee
      @RealCoachLee  Před 2 lety +18

      As my father-in-law says, “God has spoken through a donkey on more than one occasion.” LOL!

    • @wintoby
      @wintoby Před 10 měsíci

      I agree 👍 like God speaking.

  • @farinahmed2100
    @farinahmed2100 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Been in no contact for five monthes where the relationship lasted for four months. I swallowed the hard pill. He is never going to be come back but practicing no contact gave me a different sort of self esteem which I didnt have previously. If no contact doesn't work on your ex then it will do magic on you.

  • @naiko6700
    @naiko6700 Před 2 lety +1

    He and I have already broken up and he said he knows what it's like to lose me and doesn't want that, that I'm his better half, that after all the fighting it made him realise he wants to be with me forever. At the time of the breakup he told me to move on and not wait for him, he seemed so sure of his decision. 5 days later he reaches out to me and we want to work it out.
    6 months later we still have problems, mostly me tbh, I'd get upset at small things etc and he breaks up with me again and says move on again. Two breakups. It's been over 2 months now since the breakup and mutual friends have said he's moved on. I don't think he's coming back again because he's already come back once and it's highly unlikely now or at all that he'll come back a second time but tbh I'm not ready now or anytime soon, I need to heal and work on myself

  • @luza8154
    @luza8154 Před 2 lety +7

    I broke up my fiancé of 2 years , the attraction fell because of his relapse , or relapses 4 to be exact , I tried to be the supportive fiancé, but every relapse ate at me , it took a piece of me , I am in love with him , but now I need to love myself , I lost myself helping him pick up the broken pieces , but it was the broken pieces to my heart every time , I know he loves me , but he loves his drug more than me, so I left , I miss him dearly , but this is one of those situations where if you stay you will be dragged down to hell with them , and I can’t go there , it breaks my heart

  • @JihadBunnydick
    @JihadBunnydick Před 2 lety +33

    If an ex says I miss you. Respond with "What do you miss?" Presents a bit of a challenge.

    • @alicesmith5904
      @alicesmith5904 Před 2 lety +1

      I can recommend you to a man who heIped me bring back my ex, Wh'tsapp him

    • @giftyosas5152
      @giftyosas5152 Před 2 lety +13

      They miss breaking up with you to feed their ego 😂 jk

    • @wintoby
      @wintoby Před 10 měsíci

      I agree 👍

  • @italianbabyyx3
    @italianbabyyx3 Před 2 lety

    We had an amazing relationship. I gave him everything. It’s been 3 months. We’ve had good and bad contact. Nothing about our relationship besides fighting. He cheated on me and left me for that girl and he’s the happiest he’s ever been. He told me he couldn’t “get there” with me but he can get there with her. I recently reached out to talk because he had my mail and I took it too far by accidentally talking to him as my friend. He got frustrated and blocked me. Crazy when you think you know someone in and out, and they can leave you at the drop of a dime. But He wants to be “amicable”.

  • @amymitchell1054
    @amymitchell1054 Před rokem +1

    Yes coach Lee!