Oh gosh, it was worth listening from beginning to end! I've listened to a lot of coaches as they talk about magnetism, law of attraction, and manifesting. And you've sum it up and nailed it so well! I really appreciate your effort on putting an emphasis on inner work and being faithful to the new version of you. It is also worth mentioning that it helps to say a daily affirmation of ourselves as a habit.
This is perfect Natalie. 😊 I listened to your video while out driving this morning and just listened again to take notes. I love when you said, "the more you are doing you, the less you are doing them." Good one! And when you said, "you know you deserve to see yourself this way." Yes!! Thank you so much. Much appreciation for your guidance. You're a gem. ❤
The definition of insanity is to repeat the same action and expect different results. If you broke up, and you want them back, either you want the same problems back (which will break you up again), or YOU were the problem. In either case, either you or they are better off NOT getting back together, and roping them back in is selfish and wrong. NEVER EVER get back together with an ex - move on, learn to cope, and accept your new reality.
Thanks for this Natalie, exactly what I needed to hear today. I recently split from someone who walked away from me after 5 months as I'm avoidant in relationships...I then wrote her a heartfelt letter saying how I felt, and she rejected me again saying she didn't feel the same anymore.
That story ends now. I'm focusing on myself and my worth and value from this moment on. I have so much to offer it hurts, so thank you :)
Same with you, mines is avoidant and I’m getting better to stop being anxious. I want to be a good man, like my brother he is sweet, kind, mature and great healthy relationship with his beloved. I do anything to get back to my platonic friend and fix what I did. She was the one. Think she found the right one, me.
You and me two guys need to build up.
More! More! Success stories please! 🎉❤ excellent video!! Thank You
The universe sent you to me, just when I needed you most. Thank you so much ❤
Wow your take on this is so healthy, it's so empowering. I actually last night broke it off with a guy I was seeing. It was hard, he had qualities I could see in my dream husband, but my nervous system, body and mind were telling me at the time that he's not the man right now for me. Just patterns, wanted to see his ex, didn't make me feel safe and at peace. I honoured myself, made the right decision, though a part of me wishes for him to come back and apologise and realise why I felt so hurt and unseen. I am going to give myself that instead.
Dang, I had a situation with my now ex gf but I didn’t have the strength to cut things off when she voiced weird longing for her ex. She had made me feel so secure with everything else that I thought she’d get over it being with me. But for now she needs to be single to make her own (long story) choices. It hurts like hell but I know I need to just focus on myself now.
This is just what I need to hear and the fact that my name is Penni makes me happy! Can’t wait to listen to your channel❤
I love this message, thank you! Last year I manifested SP to fall in love with me. He did, and he said his feelins scared him so he pulled out of my life. I realize I was manifesting him to love me out of a sense of my insecurity. We've just started getting together again, and because when he was gone I detached and worked on myself, I'm feeling confident and strong, putting out positive vibes. I'm now manifesting a more defined outcome -- that we're a committed couple in love, sharing a life. It's a beautiful feeling to let go and rest in the assurance that it's done.
Question...when you reunited with him, did you call him or did you wait for him to contact you? Just curious.
@@blackcarriebradshaw No contact at all for 3 months. Then we saw each other at a social event. He was friendly, I was cordial but somewhat indifferent. From that point, I'd text a funny meme about once a month and we'd exchange a few words. After 3 months, we made plans to get together. He told me he'd heard I had a boyfriend (not true, just a casual date that a mutual friend saw me with) and he looked truly puzzled when I reminded him that he had ended it with me. I decided to drop the old story (no explanations or apologies needed) and focus on manifesting us as a couple.
@@sharoncoombs6895 Probably about 10 months. 2 months of things feeling distant and off. 3 months of zero contact. Then 3 months of limited contact, and then 1 month of more friendlier contact, then another few weeks of warmer contact before gettign together (due to distance, and busy schedules).
Don’t be a Simp, Let the ex head off to see how green the grass really is on the other side. Don’t waste your time on them, Move on to better things
If we want to choose the better this life isn't enough to find out that
@@s.s.raghavendra4903 I agree. Not only that, but if there were "better" out there, we wouldn't have come to this video in the first place. We also need to send vibes out to the ex that they can't find better than us, either.
Great video and glad iv stumbled upon you... its been a few weeks and everyday is difficult but im working on myself ❤
Amazing content that helps us all and we can’t thank you enough!
You are just Divine the way you speak to my soul is just .... Thank you 💝
After 3 years of trying to manifest my SP without giving up... with a heavy heart I admit defeat...I have nothing left to give... Thanks Natalie for trying to help me
I am mesmerised by your Teaching. God bless you and your words of wisdom. powerful and True! What you are saying is True 100%
@Vincent-vk4ku www.asthepenniesdrop.com/thecollective
Is the answer x
You are so motivational, Natalie. I'm so happy to have bumped into this video!
First time see your video!!
Great message and thank you!!!
Hey Natalie!!! Your self love workshop worked super fast! My SP showed up in the most bizarre way asking for help for him and the third party 😂. I’m helping (it’s a bullying situation and I have the ability) but maybe I should just stop talking to him and get back to working on self concept. Thank you
Natalie, this video is exactly what I needed. I had everything in front of me and didnt take care of it. I didnt take care of myself.
I am going to be intentional and align myself with my dreams and be a better version of who I was at my best.
Thank you
Thank you Natalie! Your videos help me so much!
Thank you for your kind video i never looked at my my situation like this i have been ill very ill i just ripped up the list you said and made a new one within ten minutes it was full i hope it works i have nothing to lose my imagination know no bounds i only time will see what happens but thank you. You opened up my eyes to see what i was doing and help me when i was at my lowest point my tears are gone to what i cannot hold on to and made me believe in myself
Natalie , love your work and wardrobe , you block it out of the park 🥰 may I also ask where this sweater is from ? Best advice and fashion channel for sure :-)
Fantastic Natalie…very talented…TY.
For there are quite a few different versions of these techniques out there,, I just want to let you know your video was extremely instructional and very well communicated. Will keep you posted😊
@brendanculliney502 yes it sure did,Thank you ! I have a few things I'd like to pick your brain about, things that you mentioned in your video about doing this technique and after you have the individual back in your life.
I understand you're probably a very busy individual and a lot of people would like to speak to you for a moment or two, I'd be more than happy to give you details and I do have a couple of questions, I really don't feel comfortable sharing them publicly do you have an email address that I could contact and give you the details? Either way I think it's very cool on your behalf for reaching out and checking up, for I am grateful that you even put that video out there. Yourself being one of less than a handful of people I have watched videos on the same subject of manifesting,,All of it helped . However you're the only one that has taken the time to ask me . Again that is very cool and greatly appreciated !
ty! you helped me so much with this one.
Hi Natalie 👋. It's been 1 year this month since I stumbled across your CZcams video and your message today I can see and feel your words more clearly now that I have done the work on myself. 1 year of therapy, 18 books on self examination all seem to come together so that I can really manifest my special person. I always wanted to believe you I just was not ready to absorb it correctly. I can say with faith and positive energy I do understand your manifestation messages more clearly today. Than you! Kelly in Kirkland WA. Cheers!
You explain so well 😊
I wasnt going to comment but I need to say this. Your voice is so calmimg and beautiful and reassuring. You confirmed im doing everything right even though my 3D reality has yet to align. Im doing the spiritual work and I know God is pleased with me. I'm not concerned with any 3rd party because this is about a once in a lifetime connection we shared that CANNOT and IS NOT one sided. Our hearts were joined on a level that's even hard to articulate. I am not concerned with whats going on in the background. That information belongs to God. I accept my role to continue healing, living, laughing, loving, building, being, I am doing this right and there is no timeline. A love this deep cannot be bound by space, time, restriction, phases, or earthly understanding. Bless you beautiful bless you for your confirmation and sincerity that has brought me so much peace today in my fleeting wobbly state ❤ So it is.❤ Already done ❤
Best video on manifestation I have seen today..thankyou for the insightful explanation 🙂
This was very therapeutic 🙏
Thank you so much you’re amazing. I’m so glad I found you on CZcams. You have changed my life a lot.❤
thank u. U give me many courage
Thank you Beautiful Natalie, so nice seeing you, your hair is looking sooo good too and you are glowing love and hugs Donna Sydney Australia
Thank you Natalie I had to hear this 👍👍👍👍😘😘
I truly needed to see this video today… I am becoming my god self. With every principle, there’s a promise ❤️ I’m coming back. Better than ever 💚
Natalie, You rule the planet!
I went separate ways with a gal right at a year ago.
I Loved her as much as My Mom and Sister.
I can't thank You enough for Your videos.
Hi Natalie, love this message! What’s your view in manifesting as in ‘it’s already happened, I.e. we’re already back together, we’re in constant contact etc etc’ how the Neville community would teach it, or manifesting it as ‘they miss me, they still love me, they want us to start over, they can’t live without me’ etc as though it ‘hasn’t already happened, but obviously thinking this way would anticipate the outcome of being together
Natalie has lots of videos on those subjects. You will have to select her on your subscription page and you will see a few years worth of videos. Happy hunting 🙏🏾
Thank you. Changing the script of my life.
I would love a video on how to keep him when I manifested him back. That’s very important to be ready for it.
Before I watch this, if you broke up maybe it’s what should have happened in the first place, watching a step by step tutorial for a relationship to return is a crazy concept. Her advice is good but just grow to be a better version of yourself for the next person! Don’t be obsessive over this one person that you drive yourself to insanity thinking you can’t be with anyone else. Everything takes time.
Today which is Christmas Day, 2023, I was sure my person, who is in no contact with me, would at least text “Merry Christmas. “ Instead I manifested text messages from 2 other exes. My heart aches and I am feeling angry that I was not enough in his eyes.
BRILLIANT !!!!!
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this we were together for 12 year and she recently broke up with me it was all my fault and this break up let me see that I was taking her for granted and I'm really going thur it right now
Anything can change! You can change…if you want too! Healing self love etc….and so many more coaching services are available in the links below the video to guide you to becoming the version of you you deserve to be and to manifest them back xx
I became a better version of myself. Changed my job from being a waiter to a career path in recruitment business. My physique changed a lot - I have got a well body built. I did teeth implants so I am not scared of smiling when I feel to. I have done multiple courses connected to my bushcraft passion. I see people as individuals rather than genders or races. My sense of humour became accepted by the other people. I have great contact with all my family members. I finished my therapy, understanding how my childhoods trauma was limiting me. Why she still keeps ignoring me after 4 years. I know we are right for each other, now, after past me doesn’t exist. Any guidance there?
Sounds gorgeous darling!
Hello if you are you interested in getting your ex partner back?? type yes if you are interested
I miss him so much, I want him back so bad, but I don't know how to not be sad, it hurts like nothing's ever hurt before. Why does it have to be so unfair?
forget about it manifest it but dont obsess i did this came back after two months
Write down what's blocking you from getting back with then
Write down what you see in yourself, see your self worth
Write what you want you want to happen, be consistent on wanting them
Love this!!!!
Hi, Natalie. How long did it take you to have a solid self concept and what steps you took? You spoke about this but, I don't know, some meditations or other strategies. This is my goal now, I'm feeling it's key to have a very solid self concept. Thanks for this wonderful video.
It takes as long as it takes but I know for me it was years of starting and stopping and then going all in. Remembering we are on a journey of healing and always learning and growing….the more you do the work the quicker you feel the shift within and experience your outer reality from this new identity. Your true self. Remembering it’s a way of life not just a few weeks. It is a daily practice of growing and learning….trust is key here too xx
The universe brings people into and out of your life to teach you something. I've learned so much about myself via my recent relationship, which ended in October of 2022. Instead of trying to manifest someone back into your life, spend time and reflect on how you could have been better, learn to set personal boundaries, etc. Remember, you are not your thoughts or past. Peace and love to all
Thank u universe
Wow... just randomly came across your channel after my horrible breakup.
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop definitely did working back on my confidence, knowing my worth! New subbie
amazing! And if you want further help just check out the range of services I offer confidence is something I has to work on which is why I created the radiate confidence workshop! All links below and again welcome xxx
New Story: He finally understood my worth and said that he realised that he loves me. He regrets for treating me poorly. He dreams of marrying me. He WANTS to marry me. He LOVES me. He is a green flag now. He is now scared to lose me. He wants to become a better person for me. He introduced me to his family and friends as his girlfriend/wife to be. He now respects me. He thinks I’m the best thing that ever happened to him.
Hi - first time commenter - am in the process of rebonding with my ex (so great to hear your voice / have a good evening darling most recent interaction yesterday) meeting on Sunday - how to maintain energy in interim?
Tbh...after broken up for 9 months, blocked for 4 after a bad fight.... I'm finding it hard to believe I can pull this off...
Beautiful presentation ❤
They dumped you. Move on with your life. I got dumped on December 28 2023 after 16 years. I was sad and hurt but, they dumped me. Time to move on and focus on me not getting my ex back! Why would I want someone that doesn’t love me. Move on and don’t look back is my advice.
@jaydub7386 Wherever you go, there you are! 😂 How is that old bitterness working for you and all the people in your life?
Thankyou ❤
Out of nowhere as I was listening to you she called me I didn’t pick up my phone then she called again and told me she bought me something
Thank you Natalie, you are the best coach I ever had, you are always there when I need you x
The last thing I truly remember my ex saying is that she would always be the best thing to ever happen to me and that’s my one phrase that keeps pulling me back as Natalie says here
Can’t get back a woman who is broken from past relationships trauma. Let em gooooo! They just end up unhappy and cheat on you
Thank you
Why would you want someone who doesn't want you?
Idk i suppose it's a naive question and i was always taught to keep moving forward and they are an ex for a reason. Love and peace for those struggling with situations like this.
How about this- there was a time I rejected that person. Things weren't always aligned.
6:55 change your inner story. Script a new story. Create magnetic energy
Stretching these basics for 22minutes requires some stomach to follow. Nice girl thou.
Been doing most of this for months im happy work on myself im manifesting i see signs.. less now but still see some but no movement the latest from my sp was very negative yes i know i shouldnt look at that or talk about it.. would be nice a big sign to really show me that we belong togheter...some days im not sure what to think even tho im very positive
Natalie what does the other person think when we do this work on us and when we manifest or say our affirmations. Everytime I close my eyes or if I think about us being married and living together and how much my SP loves me I get a huge body goosebump shudder of excitement.
They think what you think they are thinking xxx law of assumption xx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDropNatalie if you say what I think they think why is it she’s not showing up to me yet the way I am seeing her !!, I am seeing us and it’s been over 2 years now . I do value myself , and know my worth and value, I’ve never chased her, I’ve never begged or pleaded I’ve just loved her and loved her hard.
I will give it a try. Hopefully it works. I miss him sooo much
So it's been 3 months and I haven't heard anything, nor have I contacted him. But today I sent him a "❤" and 1/2 hr later he called but did not leave a message. I could not take his call bc I'm at work... not sure if he'll try again. I'm feeling a little anxious.
If they don't love you then they don't love you. You won't get them back.
I’m very grateful. I’m sure you are an angel that came into my life ❤
I never know that I would ever see my lost lover until I came in contact with Dr Femi who made my dream come true by bringing my lover back when i taught all hope was lost after trying all my best but all to no avail I just want to say thank you Dr Femi for bringing my Love back to me with a powerful love spell. Reply me let me tell you how to meet Dr Femi
When someone doesn't want me I don't want them either
Great video but i dont want any of my exes back 😂 lol
Thank you for this video. My ex just unblocked me after 6 months and i still love her but im not gonna reach out, im just gonna focus on me and let her figure it out.
Fucking amazing! Well done! 👍 but when she does do not play silly mind games! Be in your heart ❤️
We dated. But just shortly. I love how we’re both sober. I’m spiritual he’s finding his way. We’re just friends on Facebook and nothing more. I do want more. I know we can be more. He had a lot of good things to say to me in a letter. And what’s weird is why we’re still friends on Facebook but we don’t talk.
Very interesting and thanks for the guidance and I know its about self love and knowing your worth! 👉💗🦹♀️💫
I want my wife back. I love her very much
Thanks natalie he is on my way❤
What happens if no contact and working on yourself makes your ex reach out to you to say "Hope you're doing alright" (after they ended things), but she is still not taking responsibility for the pain caused or making the effort to reconcile/rebuild the relationship? I don't believe in ignoring the person or sweeping things under the rug and pretending like everything is ok.
if she is reaching out that is a good sign but dont expect them to admit guilt,also they might be trying to start over with a clean slate,,you also could be dating a narcissist lol
I got a text on Monday, graphically saying he still thinks about me, if you get what I mean. Said he’ll arrange to meet ‘very soon’ and when I said ‘looking forwards to it’ he said ‘me too ❤️’ since then he’s gone quiet… I’m not sure what to do, I’m not texting him though
@@safe_tv have seen him a few times, he’s still cool after we see each other though - it takes him weeks to get back to mentioning seeing me again - last time I saw him was a week ago when he gave me a list of things he’s got planned for himself and his family next month…still trying to stay positive and chase away the negative thoughts… it’s the long game with him I think x
@@Ampe96 have seen him a few times, still trying to stay consistent to my manifesting - can be tough as I’ve been unwell and that makes me feel low about myself at the best of times but hanging in there thanks for asking x
This video is so powerful... thank you so much Natalie... I have a question... it was me who broke up with my darling, because he did something that hurt me a lot and in angry I broke up telling him that I no longer wanted to hear from him... is it still possible to show his return even if it was me who broke up? Sorry for my bad English I am french and I listen to your videos with subtitles ^^
Yes! It’s what you want not what happened you focus on xx
I am 71 years old and I broke up with my ex girlfriend 70 years old. Back in May 2023. I have been on dumpers remorse all eight months regretting everything. I have tried all kind of things to get her back. But she’s not coming back, she is seeing a guy who is working on remodeling her basement. Pretty convenient. I have tried manifesting many many times. Nothing happens.
Maybe it’s time you put the focus on to you and break away from the energy from this person. The art of letting go….braking the energy by focusing on you and loving you seeing your worth and value is the art of no context check out my no contact videos xx
I know he will come back,I dumped him because I couldn’t take it anymore and I see he’s terrified now and trying to fix it. I wanna allow it to him,I want him to put more effort and I want him to really show me he can change and that I’m the one (duh) but I don’t know how to approach him and how to react on his messages. Like…should I replay? Not replay? Take him back? Keep pushing him away? How long? Do hot/cold? I don’t know what to do
Everything you said is true, but why would you want someone who Ghosted you.
My wife left me after 20 years together. I did all the things you suggest. I got confident, sexy man. I bought house, I learned many new things.
It did NOT work. We get along well, I meet her every week, but there is no hope to reconcile.
So what she’s saying is just to get subscribers? Because I noticed when people ask a certain question she tells them to join her fb group. This whole video had nothing to do with actual manifesting.
thank you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANKS Natalie 🙏🏼 for sharing all good advice and videos!
I’m in no contact with my ex gf (dumper) about 4 weeks now. She sent me messages then later “unsent” them before I could read in fb chat. This was 2 weeks ago (I stayed away from the chat for about 2 weeks)
Should I ask her about the unsent messages? Or continue with no contact?
Thanks 🙏🏼
Thank you! If you’d love guidance with manifesting or how to manage situation you can join my free Facebook group or you can look at the variety of coaching solutions I offer all links are below xx
Thank you so much!! I will definitely join and check out the group. I’m very grateful for all the advice and for your reply back 🙌🏼
This is my last chance to get my babies & my girl back as our beautiful family for an amazing life Natalie; she ran back to her rebound when I thought we were working to get back together 😢💔 I found out yesterday but I am giving up now letting it go to the universe applying this. I am a far better option, an epic lover & the best dad & I am getting myself better everyday! I won’t have to chase anymore. Loving myself again.. Stay tuned all!
I do believe in the law of attraction and in what you said BUT. What if he never wanted to be in relationship with me officially and he didn't likes many things about me that I can't change? ( phisical ). Maybe there are some walls that can't never be climbing even if I firmly believe that he Is my man. What do you think?
I can't see how this would work though. If the person does not see you in your new self, how could they possibly know. They will still hold the other version of you that made them leave
I want my ex back, however I want a better version of myself and of him when this happens.
me the same. I believe this happens to u and me. Keep doing!
I want my ex back too. But not for like 2 or 3 years. After I've become a successful musician, and I'm the king. I want her to come back and be my queen❤
@@micahrutland9021yes! After a split don’t accept them back for some time. Each person needs to evolve and learn from the past to make it work better the second time ❤
how's it going @@tranguyen8392
Yes same .. I'm working on myself now . Hope he's also