Men Fall In Love When They Feel This EMOTION In Your Absence

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  • @JonathonAslay
    @JonathonAslay  Před měsícem +3

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  • @BirdieHaze2207
    @BirdieHaze2207 Před měsícem +28

    I feel like I don’t want to do it again cause it takes me years to get over it. When I love someone, I really love them. 💔my last love is an avoidant and I was cut off, and out overnight. Nearly 7 months and I’m still devastated. 😢I adored that man.

    • @netdetective5240
      @netdetective5240 Před měsícem +4

      Never give up ❤

    • @staceywood7800
      @staceywood7800 Před měsícem +6

      Awe. So sorry that happened. Even the most tender genuine love can’t always break down walls 🌻💛

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  Před měsícem +5

      Sending you light and love ❤️

    • @therocknrollcook
      @therocknrollcook Před měsícem +6

      My last love also an Avoidant. He discarded me 9 months ago. I am finally over him. It can and will get better I promise you. ❤

    • @melanietaylor3735
      @melanietaylor3735 Před měsícem +5

      You’re not alone sis…It takes me a long time time too😞It’s not fun… Scared to fall in love again….

  • @reginawoess4928
    @reginawoess4928 Před měsícem +15

    I was shocked when i started talking to the man im with now he admitted he was looking for love and hopefully his forever person. He first told me he cared for me before i told him i cared. He doesnt seem to have any fear of love or being in a serious relationship.

  • @maureenagnes6675
    @maureenagnes6675 Před měsícem +9

    I honestly agree that emotional intimacy is most important that is what makes you feel conectado with another human being.

  • @Fran-yp8ux
    @Fran-yp8ux Před měsícem +2

    It took me 3 years to get over a 20 year relationship, then I became avoidant on entering another relationship for fear of that time to heal….. I’ve just met a wonderful man & he gives me butterflies, I forgot how much I love love ❤️

  • @user-pc9br6uv1c
    @user-pc9br6uv1c Před 10 dny

    I do understand I was with my partner for over 40yrs she was the love of my life. It’s been 4yrs and I’m still healing her loss. I’ve been watching all your videos and I just wanna say thank you for everything about your advice. And all your I will be ordering your books too!

  • @katherinegenchi3774
    @katherinegenchi3774 Před měsícem +2

    It has taken me 10yrs to grieve but I just turned the corner. Love your videos thankyou

  • @suzannecoslove
    @suzannecoslove Před měsícem +3

    Relationship trauma and ambiguous loss are very real!

  • @user-cl4dv4sb7y
    @user-cl4dv4sb7y Před měsícem +5

    Thank you Johnathan! Preach it!🌈🌈🦋💕😇🤟🏼 Love, TexasSparklesUSA!🇺🇸

  • @sandyherrick6832
    @sandyherrick6832 Před měsícem +5

    I think what you're saying is well worth listening to.The work is in the doing of these things.

  • @cindym5290
    @cindym5290 Před měsícem +1

    Totally Agree .. emotional intimacy is So Hard for me to get Over..Thanks Jonathan,

  • @cindym5290
    @cindym5290 Před měsícem

    Agreed, so Refreshing to hear about actually addressing the emotions WE All have from true attachments in life that end..

  • @Peoniesplease555
    @Peoniesplease555 Před měsícem +2

    I’m in the middle of The Untethered Soul! It’s pretty juicy! What a great idea to listen to it on Audible while driving around - I’ll take it!

  • @KeishaKiger
    @KeishaKiger Před měsícem +3

    I’m glad somebody asked about saying I love you. I went through that same experience today asked my boyfriend. I’ve almost here if he was in love with me and I was a bit shocked that he said he didn’t know how to answer that so we broke up today so that was validation that he would know then.

  • @JeanSmalls-ui4fj
    @JeanSmalls-ui4fj Před měsícem +1

    Father Alex mention! I love it, Father Alex don’t play 😂

  • @julieangle9721
    @julieangle9721 Před měsícem +3

    I sure enjoy listening to your reasoning, you do a great job ❤ hugs 👍🙏

    • @maureenagnes6675
      @maureenagnes6675 Před měsícem

      Kind of feeling Sad today but i really appreciate all your advice jonathon,i saw a movie called África mía with Merryl Streep and theiir is a quote in the movie where She says when the pain becomes unbarable She says hold on for 5 min. More and then i know that i can stand anything.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  Před měsícem +1

      Thanks for listening

  • @deberabaileyschroer1637
    @deberabaileyschroer1637 Před měsícem +1

    Appreciation and conveying that to friends or family, more importantly the person who holds our heart can change lives. It’s the highest compliment and sincerity we can give to the most important people in our lives.

  • @carshi7177
    @carshi7177 Před měsícem +1

    This makes so much sense.
    I asked my boyfriend to watch Beauty and the Beast with me and he said no. When I tried to convince him, he called me a control freak. I'm hurt.

  • @elizabethhoward6349
    @elizabethhoward6349 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you from South wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 UK. Absolutely love your videos ❤ x

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Před měsícem +1

    You've really grown, Jonathan.

  • @sophiebertrand6188
    @sophiebertrand6188 Před měsícem +3

    I’m very confused by this… the love of my life passed away last year. In 33 years we never had an argument, doesn’t mean we didn’t have rough patches in life, but boy were we in non stop love. This was both our second marriage, the first was a nightmare and a fiasco for both of us. We remembered we had been someone else’s nightmare before being each other’s dream. LOL. Lately i became closer to a church fellow musician I often played guitar and sang with. The relationship (no intimacy involved) is so complicated, push, pull, frustration… He has been in the « friend only drawer » for ten years in my life. I never had to over explain my feelings and needs to my late husband, he could exactly know what I needed. Vice-versa. I think I was on another planet for all these years LOL!

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  Před měsícem

      What was confusing?

    • @sophiebertrand6188
      @sophiebertrand6188 Před měsícem

      ⁠@@JonathonAslay I’ve been listening to many of your videos, I’m blown away by the content. Your explanations and examples are clear. I find relationships and dating very complex now, i mean, I have this memory of a spiritual sacred intimate marriage, high bonding , simplicity with an very loving man, my best friend. Now I wake up all imperfect, awkward, incapable of expressing my feelings properly,and paranoid on top of it! . . . I feel good being single now, and safer this way. I guess It makes me a big time avoidant. Perhaps it is a part of grieving. Thank you for your research and caring advice. Also for you personal input!

  • @rapturesoon6567
    @rapturesoon6567 Před měsícem +1

    Excellent info!

  • @maxmaroni7175
    @maxmaroni7175 Před měsícem

    First time I heard such excellent videos!

  • @sally5256
    @sally5256 Před měsícem

    This was lovely! Appreciation 🙏♥️

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  Před měsícem +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @sally5256
      @sally5256 Před měsícem

      You bring such great insight and perspective - especially for us older adults. I always learn something new from your videos! Thank you 🙏♥️

  • @rhondagriffiths570
    @rhondagriffiths570 Před měsícem

    Always enjoy your podcasts!!! 🤗

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Před měsícem +3

    Hey Jonathan. What happened with your ex? I was rooting for you. I love Alex too but he flirts with the new age. There are some dangerous aspects to that. For example, he advocates Shamanism & hallucinagetics. I do like his content. Most of it. Great video, by the way. I hope you find your WIFE.

  • @amazynga8868
    @amazynga8868 Před měsícem

    He is silent and disappeared.
    After saying he just wants to be friends now, before he said he wants to get married but now he has changed.
    What's wrong with him ?

  • @patriciapage4625
    @patriciapage4625 Před měsícem

    Jonathan, the Question I had was for my friend. Ty

  • @angelalandson9187
    @angelalandson9187 Před měsícem +2

    😂Lol I watch Father Alex too he's funny @ times but sometimes way too toxic ☣️for me I laugh more watching your videos 😭🤣😂 especially your role play of us women halarious 🤣

  • @bhagavatilad3268
    @bhagavatilad3268 Před měsícem

    Yes when you say you’ve done the work you can’t really say you are completely healed we’re all evolving and that can take time when you realize that that was just a minute fraction of your healing you still have eons to go it could be in this lifetime or many lifetimes to come this is my understanding but I am grateful to where I have come in my own healing process it has taken years and a wealth of knowledge I feel I am close to attaining that beautiful unconditional love you are talking about an even when I do attain some form of it I believe there will be constant work to be done on both of our parts to keep it. This is a very difficult journey you have to change everything about yourself including the way you think. I knew I’m making progress because someone told me the other day that I was kind or I am kind. I’m putting this out there in case it may help someone. I was and still am the drama queen but it just happens I can’t control it I believe when you are accepted for who you are kinks and all is part of the healing.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  Před měsícem +1

      I agree... doing the work is an ongoing process 🙏

  • @susanharrie3326
    @susanharrie3326 Před měsícem

  • @ginam.4990
    @ginam.4990 Před měsícem

    ❤🌻🌞

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    @sandiwhitten9497 Před měsícem

  • @dawnriel5915
    @dawnriel5915 Před měsícem