Narcissists Are Sooo Boring
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- čas přidán 10. 06. 2024
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Boring and predictable...
They are boring because they are always right and oh so perfect 🥱
They are boring.
I dont know about that...narcissists are pretty charming lets be honest.
He didnt like boring, but it was the most boring relationship i ever had !!
Same!
It takes just one person to make a relationship boring
Empty vessels.
A narcissist wastes an incredible amount of emotional energy to acquire what they want or need thereby eliminating any possibility of them ever having real vivaciousness or real aliveness, which results in them being very boring emotionally….
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Totally agree! They are so boring, they are very busy too, busy to lurk on social media to get supply, because their supply, even friends won't last, when one supply leave, they have to take time look for another one
Youre right about busy...I started seeing one in 2019...fast forward to this week she has been confessing sporadically about ex's and allsorts she has slept with number half a football team. Do I believe its more yes now after what I have learnd about N behaviour. I have see she was prepared to do anything to manipulate me from pretending she was a sexual abuse victim to swearing on her childrens lives, to using now Christianity to pretend no doubt looking for her supply. Now I would say to anyone when meeting a new person nothing is a given but stay in your head not your heart dont fall for love bomb or compliment tactics...dont give away your trust so easy...dont ignore red flags "if in doubt leave it out" and last but not least I know its not easy but dont give away your life story because they will cherry pick what you say to become exactly what you want to draw you in.
they are crazy lazy. repetitive. so predictable once you know... absolute skin deep.
once you have heard their stories...
RINSE REPEAT.
Facts
I noticed that about them myself, there's actually very shallow people, not very well read, cultured, don't really know or understand much, science, philosophy, art, history, all of it, they're dull and simple minded really.
They really are sulking and not appreciating or enjoying anything except making you feel miserable.
Or doing something dangerous or unsustainable 🙄
What they want is secure you as a supply and giving all the positive energies, care, love, laugh to their friends and to their future supplies. Then they gonna blame you for everything if you leave them.
💯 well said ❤
I believe this because I realise I was the one bring all the energy to do different things.
You are right, they are so boring: the same bs day after day.
They're as interesting as a little kid to talk to. We humor the little ones to be kind and loving, but it's wearisome in an adult, and their lack of interest in you gets irritating, and then insulting, fast.
I said to my narcissistic sister in the past "Go and sit in front of a mirror and have a chat with yourself because you're the only person allowed to speak and you're the only person you want to hear speak."
Full no contact now with her and with my folks too.
Have u noticed change at all from your sister? I’m hoping and praying for change on this girl i really like. Cuz I don’t wanna judge her like we don’t wanna be judge either.
@@leetos.4915 I can't give advice to your question.
My sister - No change behind the scenes. Outwardly as gregarious and lovely as ever.
They don't and can't change. It's beyond them and they are incapable of true self reflection, growth and change.
Any semblance of change seen or experienced by their supply/friend/lover/spouse is a manipulation to keep supply and control. They will resent the person they are doing it for, then revert to old behaviours and recoup the cost via emotional reactive abuse when they get tired of the charade of niceness. It's all a cycle of abuse.
I'm pleased to be out of it. I know the signs now thankfully to the likes of Anoushka.
@@ApocalypseofMichael I find it hard to accept this reality from their imperfection. It’s just hard me to move on cuz I already love her and it’s not sign of my weakness at all. I truly believe God designed us Men to Love Women and Women to respect us Men. But like u said it’s really hard for me to grasp this kind of truth.
@@leetos.4915 love must be given and received between two people. Respect is part of love; mutual respect and mutual love.
One of the the hardest things for me when I was in a romantic relationship with a narcissist was the grief of realising that the person I loved so much, was not real but was in fact a projection of me and how I love.
It's a strange old place of Being, mourning the loss of a love who never actually really existed. While they were already onto the next one...
@@ApocalypseofMichael I’m currently keeping a record of screen shots on her social medial on Facebook messenger as she kept expressing herself to public (indirectly) to me every time she shares her thoughts or feelings. I think I might give it a year or so for enough pattern to convince me that she is a real narcissist or moved on already or have so called another supply she’s messing with on her social media accounts like instagram or messenger. Anyway we in long distance friendship as of now. I appreciate these kind of videos cuz who wants to suffer in this kind of fake relationship, no one at all! Experience from yourself is really something I can cherish also for my own benefit. One of the most interesting story I heard from these CZcams blogger when he wrote this e book is that he said the top reason for someone to become narcissist is become sometime they were probably molested when they were children. It’s a kind of touchy subject they can’t reveal at all so they are very protective for this kind of trauma to not talk about it at all so they keep it to themselves. Anyway with all do respect to you Im no shape or form this is something took place with your family. Thanks Mike for sharing thoughts.
'He said/she said' type of monologues, best thing is to gently wander off.
We romanticize them in our minds to create who we want them to be for us. But they are not able to fulfill these fantasies . It starts with us and it will end only when we acknowledge this and move on instead of trying to force them to be who they are not
They like to hear Their own speech sweet talkers no actions
Yes Boring and annoying you nailed Annyshka❤
SPOT ON.. Anoushka’ Just repetitive bores! (rolling eyes and yawning constantly!)
I leave in silence depeche mode style lol
😍
Can agree with this. After the initial excitement dulled, we stopped doing anything, planning or going anywhere! Just sat watching TV at a weekend and he just drank and was asleep by 6-7pm. What a boring life it became. I got rid!
I always had to listen to what he had to say but he never ever ever cared or wanted to hear my take on anything! And as soon as I wanted to speak.... he would yell at me to shut the f up!!😡and then when he was done saying what he had to say after me just listening (like a lil dummy) he would just hang the phone up on me not giving me any chance to give my point of view about anything!!! So damn disrespectful😡😡
Yup when you do try they cut you off or no response
"Control interaction" is the word Anoushka! Yes, communication is one way, when I was with this narcissist, one time he was telling me about his favourite band, and I casually told him I don't like that band, he got offended! I thought we were just having a casual conversation, but why was he so offended by my opinion, I was scratching my head. Ultimately, one has to agree to disagree with a narcissist, I did that but it was so draining and exhausting. I told him that he can't force someone to like something. Everytime I have to pretend to like something I actually find boring, this feels so wrong.
Yes so true Anna ! She couldn’t stop talking about herself ! The most self absorbed bore !
Tell me about it, he keeps talking about the stuff that he enjoys, initially I was ignorant, i will tell him my opinion, but he got offended, that after, whatever he told me, i just say "ok", period or just keep quiet and let him enjoy his "own conversation", yes, it's BORING!
It's all ME ME ME best to get rid of. They not that smart & funny. Always have the same conversation
@@Agheel963 So true indeed me me me !!! She should have stared on the show Mastermind and your chosen subject tonight Is ME all about me 🤣🤷♂️
I remember looking at him and thinking how boring he is. Talking to my best friend and telling her how predictable his routine was. I even confronted him and asked him why he was so routine about everything, just to a T by the book. He said he likes living like that and that’s it’s good for him and that maybe I should be more like him 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I said your just boring sometimes. He didn’t say anything back. We were watching American Psycho w Christian Bale, the beginning where he’s tells the audience his routine when he wakes up and my eyes got real wide and i said “omg that’s you!!” And started laughing obnoxiously of course 🤣🤣🤣🤣 to keep it from being too serious but yeah, umm psychotic a hole. I’m sure his new wife that he married after only 4 months divorced from me is having a blast. She sure made the right decision, selling her house, moving right in and throwing every red flag under the rug and letting him mentally abuse her kids bc he’s jealous of them. Good times!!!
Oh yes, he does the same thing everyday, sometimes can be NOTHING 😅😅
I've likely consumed thousands of hours of different types of narcissism related content, yet this might be the video that finally helps me to break free from a lot of the things that I thought were going to be death sentences, no matter what I knew about the psychology of it.
Everything else is essential to know but the topic of this video just really gives me some type of closure and permission to move forward never look back and find better people because there ARE better people and why would I waste another minute with the humans that deplete me.
My ex done whatever was the easiest
Thank you Anoushka for jogging my memory 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I was always asked how are you as if she was breathing but would never probe why and try to understand . The ultimate window dresser
That’s exactly what happened lost interest and said “just no” lol spent too long with one narc to not see the bs of another!
I aslways wondered why they worried about wot you was doing and not wot they are doing your haveing fun and they just keep gas lighting you up...
This is so so accurate Anoushka
You hit the nail on the head 👍
So true, Anushka, good reminder. Thank you ❤
YEEEEEEEESSS!!!!
What happens if you tell them that they are “boring” 😅 just curious, I may actually try it.
It would be a giant blow to their ego😂
I can listen and be present. Sometimes, I have to work harder at it than others such as when I am stressed, but I can do it. However, I have met people who aren't interested in listening and being present at all. They do all kinds of ill-mannered things when you try to talk. They talk over you, interrupt you, drown you with hours long monologues, turn their back to you. I've had times when I didn't get a chance to complete a single sentence because they wanted the floor only for themselves. Plus, they repeated the same story over and over in some cases. And two of the people I know who do this fancy themselves to be highly spiritual and post about "Love" all the time. There's always a factor of delusion present. Well, there would have to be because an adult should easily recognize this as unacceptable behavior.
So true! I would sit there listening to him talk about himself thinking to myself " this is the most boring thing I've ever heard". He would tell the same stories of his wonderful achievements over and over until I would say "yea, I know, you've told me five times already." He never realized how uninteresting he was. He got mad at me for not being impressed.
I concur. They are literally one man show.
Annoying yeah 🔥❤️🔥
So much like ground hog day it was about the status money the house and yes when we did actually sit down she was boring I’m so glad I’m out it’s took a whole year this month but I do get it
Hello Anoushka I interacted with you on your live the other day but I have 2 YT accounts the other one I go by Ajax Norton but its the same guy here. Keep it up!!!
That’s true
Very much like my psychopathic mother that has me stalked by all sorts of ridiculous people. She manages to pay some people on social media that she knows that I have made friends with it doesn’t take me very long to work out from their energy but they have similar energy to my mother, I caught her in the act one day when I was speaking to a sergeant, senior officer, and by chance, my phone seem to be recording the vocal, so I have proof of my mother trying to set me up with police with her false accusations after God knows who she paid to side and pulling my business
Started a silver fox...turned into Karl from up!
Thats very true they want you to like every thing thar they like nothing that you like its beneath them
Narcs things that they are some kind of gods - but in reallyty - they are one big nothing.
Sooooo boring. No intellectual stimulation. Same old script/ lies 🤦🏿♂️
He tickled me and i looked at him and told him I dont feel anything and he stopped and i told him ( you dunno how to play or tickle a woman to make her laugh. ) they are dry and boring. The go to the next supply thinking the grass is greener on the other side but they go in and again its a shocking disbelief and the grass isnt greener on the other side. Good riddance no contact and blocked
His favorite thing is yeah you can can shoot through meaning follow him not him follow me
Thats when you see the fake happy side of them they are boring wow totally makes sense now
I think some narcissists get bored of their situationships then find one of us and try to settle for a while I will say to try a "stable" relationship for a few years but about 5-7 years they get bored of a good life and want to go back to their old self or tactics then move on to someone else. I have never "dated" as known in the present times with that hook up culture but when they spot you they know you are different and they see something "special" but even that wont hold back rhe narcissists because they cant have a normal life for an extended period of time.
He was so much fun during the love bombing phase!! And then... well... that changed, just like he did.😂
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What's the saddest part of all?!!?
Too much drama. A real waste of time. Life is time
I will say narcissists cant have a long term relationship with a normal person "acting" normal for more than 4-7 years. I say for a strong "empath" once it gets involved with the strongest of their kind thats the time frame I think it takes to figure them out. But what a lesson learned with 47 yrs old and 4 "long term" relationships with narcs I give up I think I hang my boxing gloves for good 😂
Boring conversationalists indeed they are😊
Maybe I've od on red pill but 90 percent of women are like this...nowadays I've never met a loyal womam..I apologize for blaming ppl talking bout narcs if u truly want to help block, outsilence ignore that simple ...I'm hurt too a lot u Coach ppl capitalize on narc relationship it sux but I obsessing watched these vids 24 7 I might been harsh on u but I feel stuck watch these months since seen on off nightmare 2 hrs away and and I understand a lot of people have overdone it like me people are overdoing it like I have
Boring and lazy 😂❤
Predictable and boring. No substance. Endless cycle of nonsense. The “hey” text. So Boring. 🥱
Funny but true. Or just stupid emotions. Brainless...
people in general can be boring, has nothing to do with being a narc ffs. Your intro screams narc.