The Narcissists WORST NIGHTMARE: What Happens When You One Up Them

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Komentáře • 81

  • @Real2k25
    @Real2k25 Před 5 měsíci +74

    No need for revenge walk away never look back go live your best life

  • @inaphtali6176
    @inaphtali6176 Před 5 měsíci +81

    One day I just got up and said I dont need to do this and have gone no contact for nearly 2 months and it was overdue. It's great to let go of what is truly not for me. Thank you for all your videos and this community 🙏🏽

    • @anoushkamarcin
      @anoushkamarcin  Před 5 měsíci +6

      I’m so glad that you had the realisation and you did something about it. That shows strength and courage 🙏🏼 thank you for your comment and you very welcome

    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I was with 3 years, after 4 months i wanted him to leave, he did not left after 3 years. He said he is evil and a narcissist.

  • @augustrusso5413
    @augustrusso5413 Před 5 měsíci +22

    GO NO contact ! & run as fast as you can from them

  • @carlfamiano8577
    @carlfamiano8577 Před 5 měsíci +21

    No revenge, they need prayers. Amen ❤️🙏✌️

    • @Buttercup-vw2zo
      @Buttercup-vw2zo Před 4 měsíci

      YES.I have gone no contact with mine but I pray he doesnt go to Hell

  • @susannalavallee2348
    @susannalavallee2348 Před 5 měsíci +31

    No revenge...release!❤

  • @rajraghani1681
    @rajraghani1681 Před 5 měsíci +36

    6 months after my discard she showed up at my door. She wanted my 10 minutes. I rejected it. Then she showed fury! Started blabbering and accused me of bank fraud 😂 with no proof to back it up. I did not react. I summoned my landlord to ask her to leave. She left threatening repercussions. I’m still waiting. If I had reacted then I would’ve given her supply.

  • @MHLivestreams
    @MHLivestreams Před 5 měsíci +23

    It's all about letting go, it's quite something. Then we can live. 😎👌

    • @anoushkamarcin
      @anoushkamarcin  Před 5 měsíci

      That’s right and choosing ourselves for once and looking at what we can do for ourselves to help us enjoy our lives 😊

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen8140 Před 5 měsíci +33

    You did a video on rejection sensativity. Lack of reaction. Soon indifference. You focus on you. No response to stupid things. You can work on your triggers to lessen then. You can do the opposite of how you used to act.leave them alone. Detach emotioally to the extent you can. Don't react don't engage.

    • @anoushkamarcin
      @anoushkamarcin  Před 5 měsíci +2

      That’s right … detach from them and consider your needs, work on your triggers . You are spot on 👏👏

  • @John-sweeney333
    @John-sweeney333 Před 5 měsíci +6

    The narcissist is easy to defeat,let me explain.They calculate their plan, they then execute said plan.The unsuspecting person in the relationship with them needs to employ counter intelligence.The definition of which is not revenge, it is simply taking on the narcissistic person and using your intelligence to counter their plan.Leave them without a word ever being spoken, block them from any sort of communication.Turn your heartache and betrayal into rage which equates to motivation.Turn your back them,forgive them,yes you read that right,forgive them because nothing will annoy them more than that😉

  • @sjnardozzijr.7850
    @sjnardozzijr.7850 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Things I’ve learned:
    If the narcissist is talking , they are either not telling the truth or telling half truths…

    • @BNyaB
      @BNyaB Před 15 dny

      👍👍👍

    • @RBLTV1
      @RBLTV1 Před 12 dny

      Facts. It’s weird asf.

  • @jimbojones2457
    @jimbojones2457 Před 5 měsíci +9

    It's been several months since i walked away from my covert narcissist. I still feel some emotional pain but i think to myself....imagine how much pain i'd be feeling if i was still with her? Still being oblivious to her games? I truly wonder if calling her out on her narcissism, manipulation and compulsive lies caused her narcissistic injury? I'm now healing but it's taking longer than i thought. She really did a number on me. Thank you Anoushka. You have helped me so much with your content. You're a superstar!

    • @John_Wood_
      @John_Wood_ Před 4 měsíci +2

      same here. Wife left - only looking back this past few weeks and realising everything with her was a game. Nothing genuine, nothing kind.

  • @DavidVelasquez9
    @DavidVelasquez9 Před 4 měsíci +43

    Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it...

    • @DailamiPuang
      @DailamiPuang Před 4 měsíci

      there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Před 4 měsíci

      its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

    • @DailamiPuang
      @DailamiPuang Před 4 měsíci

      this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

  • @msingh9634
    @msingh9634 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Join the live ladies and gents. Seriously, the community is amazing and supportive.

  • @Joe-hf3cn
    @Joe-hf3cn Před 5 měsíci +5

    Yes, like walking away casually like they do

  • @jeromereed9245
    @jeromereed9245 Před 5 měsíci +13

    Thank you! I'm taking my power back day by day. I was devastated when my NEX over played their cards. I awakened and walked. No more drama, no more putting me down, no more manipulation. Focusing on school and chasing goals.

    • @anoushkamarcin
      @anoushkamarcin  Před 5 měsíci +2

      I really love this for you. Doing you, changing goals making your life happen 😊 this is what it is about.
      Thank you so much for your donation … keep levelling up ⬆️ and going forward 👏

  • @leeben1504
    @leeben1504 Před 5 měsíci +6

    If it weren't for my best friend and these videos i probably would've snapped at some point since her last round of messing with me. Its good to put terms and names to her behaviour. Still healing but being aware is helping a lot.

  • @perla5921
    @perla5921 Před 4 dny

    This wasn't meant to be a game, but he made it one

  • @Eire32
    @Eire32 Před 5 měsíci +6

    She was always working and had body dysmorphia and I was walking on eggshells with her it only lasted 5 months No sex she punched the wall in her job spends hundreds every week on clothes and comes from a terrible background all the kids and her were in care and gos crazy for nothing also always breaking promises after she discarded me I let her have it sent her loads of Narcissistic videos she was always doing her eyebrows she had every symptom the rage I treated her better than my own
    she was 13 years younger than me I’m so glad I found these videos

  • @unknownentrappment_ed3522
    @unknownentrappment_ed3522 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Thank you so much Anoushka.

  • @TruthandJustice-hz9nv
    @TruthandJustice-hz9nv Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for this, Absolutely tremendous, No need for revenge, The best revenge is no revenge, Not to be like that, Wise Stoic, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high :-)

  • @ovidiuovidiu2313
    @ovidiuovidiu2313 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thanks!

  • @arcticauroras9627
    @arcticauroras9627 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Info n real life queen

  • @krisannaviglione1364
    @krisannaviglione1364 Před 5 měsíci +4

    My soon to be ex covert husband told me I was just a pawn on his chessboard after financially backing a business that we are partners. Self sabatooging the business so I don't get anything at the end.

  • @Petruss67
    @Petruss67 Před 5 měsíci

    Klopt.... ga zo door !

  • @user-fd2wv1zc6t
    @user-fd2wv1zc6t Před 4 měsíci

    I’ll tell you how crazy my covert narcissist female was! She told me after coming back to the relationship for a couple months and wreaking havoc and then monkey branched with a client to have a roof over her head that she was on a “healing journey “ WTF? I didn’t know about these people at the time and after researching her behavior and what she did to me tells me self aware and way more dangerous than I ever imagined

  • @christinemanigian209
    @christinemanigian209 Před 5 měsíci +3

    2ndary Supply to Covert Narc: "Meet me at the club this Friday night as I'm in town for the weekend. Let's catch up."😉.
    Covert Narc to Main Supply: "I need a boys' night out. I would like to fraternize with my friend Sam. I've been home with you all week, went shopping with you all day, now I need some guy time."🤥
    Main Supply to Narc: "I thought we were going to have a nice evening together? "☹️
    Narc to Main Supply: "This Valentine's Day is all for you. 🌹I'll make it up to you, my dear. You go out to a movie with Cassandra tonight as I'll be with Sam."
    Main Supply to Narc: "Ok, I'll call Cassandra now. Don't be too late."😢
    This is the meaning of "Covert Narcissist."👺
    *Names have been changed.

  • @unknownentrappment_ed3522
    @unknownentrappment_ed3522 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thanks

  • @seeUnique1
    @seeUnique1 Před 5 měsíci +4

    🎤💥YEPPERS! THE BACKFIRE IS BRUTAL FOR THE NARC. I will not let the enemy have his way. Period!☝️😎 I will never accept make-believe. I will be me regardless of the circumstances. The narc is and has always been behind me and beneath me. 😊I am Royalty according to my Jesus! That is my focus. Jesus loves me over man 100x100 infinity. Soooooo.....

  • @kekoab2213
    @kekoab2213 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Going to our mediation before filing for divorce. I am working very hard to regain my power back by then. My ex is such manipulator and controlling .

    • @John_Wood_
      @John_Wood_ Před 4 měsíci

      I'm in mediation now trying to get more access to my children. The quite and unassuming wife turned into a monster once she got what she wanted. She won't give an inch in mediation, next step court.

  • @isabelleparise5607
    @isabelleparise5607 Před 4 měsíci

    Putting god first in our lives is a must for all situations.

  • @ovidiuovidiu2313
    @ovidiuovidiu2313 Před 5 měsíci

    Hi Anoushka , congratulations and good luck in what you are doing for those who have been through relationships with pathological narcissists, i want to ask if you want to address a topic closely related to relationships with narcissists especially after divorce, they apply alienation parental where please explain to us how one can communicate with the narcissistic parent for the good of the child because the narcissistic parent does not in any way want a natural and healthy connection between the child and the parent he alienates by turning the child against the empathetic and loving parent.
    Please explain to us if there are ways in which we could help with guidance the child who spends most of the time with the narcissistic parent, how can a child go through childhood with the narcissistic parent more easily? thank you with great gratitude❤

  • @penkapetkova428
    @penkapetkova428 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Maybe it is a good idea to say from time to time that you are going with them - this will shock them ! Oh also out of the blue go out to somewhere with someone or alone.

  • @arcticauroras9627
    @arcticauroras9627 Před 5 měsíci +1

    At least you look ok n ain't got problems finding

  • @Hobbit55-xw5th
    @Hobbit55-xw5th Před 4 měsíci

    My Narcissist mother tried to force slippers onto my dying fathers swollen feet just because she wanted to go out for a drive in his mobility car, i was his career and driver when i told her to stop and was being filmed she went crazy throwing the camera against the wall then started on me, stating no one tells me what to do, 7 years after both parents passed away i still suffer from flash backs from her behaviour toward myself growing up into adulthood.

  • @Hood1ne337
    @Hood1ne337 Před 5 měsíci +2

    🔥

  • @Identifyplumbing
    @Identifyplumbing Před 5 měsíci +2

    I've started this evening. She messaging all day about money and control. We've been divorced 2 years! Still messaging

  • @DRUMofTRUTH
    @DRUMofTRUTH Před měsícem

    Well they love and live in a nightmare so this is true love then!

  • @user-su9yp8bu6q
    @user-su9yp8bu6q Před 4 měsíci +1

    I didn't need to do any type of revenge my exes life has fallen apart since I kicked him out kinda feel bad for him has nothing to offer anyone to bad couldn't see it sooner

  • @Levon_James5150
    @Levon_James5150 Před 5 měsíci

    Food party 🤣🔥❤️🔥✌🏽

  • @laurienordin2076
    @laurienordin2076 Před 5 měsíci

    so what do you do when they send their flying monkeys around asking questions? ie: sending you an email thru a flying monkey that they haven't heard from this person and they know you are their friend, how are they doing? does one just Not respond to the email?

    • @phoebsc5993
      @phoebsc5993 Před 5 měsíci

      Block, block block. Screen shot as appropriate if emails are threatening. Could be of use if police involved at any stage. Flying monkeys eventually get bored. No contact is exactly that...thats how you take back your power. This means leave social media to protect yourself if necessary. Focus on you, no peeking on social media. Look after yourself, be with real friends and family. As soon as you go no contact, block block block....you have won! Build those boundaries and look forward to the future where all the pain, toxic behaviour.....is gone. Its wonderful on the other side....post narc. One day at a time, claim back your space, your life and heal. You will be surprised down the line how strong you are and how much happier.❤ This channel was a godsend to me when I was suffering from narc issues. Good people here will connect with you and it helps the healing process. You have done nothing wrong...narcs brainwash you it's all your fault. It's not. Treat yourself like gold, cos that's what you are)❤

  • @user-ge6ky6ix5e
    @user-ge6ky6ix5e Před 4 měsíci

    No contact for one year after that i sent a message since he lost his mom but no reply from his side

  • @NH-zu9cl
    @NH-zu9cl Před 4 měsíci

    👏👏👏

  • @hopeazzzieya1019
    @hopeazzzieya1019 Před 4 měsíci

    Is my boyfriend a narcissistic person when he has two lovers without my knowledge? I just found all this on his phone and saw two numbers that he blocked and suspicious. Apparently all this time, he's been playing behind me without me knowing.

  • @arcticauroras9627
    @arcticauroras9627 Před 5 měsíci

    Queen Bee needs wings flapping fast rate

  • @sheilayagodzinski5747
    @sheilayagodzinski5747 Před 4 měsíci

    They know you care ? Yes you care about yourself, is that why they trigger you ? What if you care about yourself not them or do they not care why you are triggered . Maybe they don't know you don't care about them anymore.

  • @HASMUKARMATRASHA
    @HASMUKARMATRASHA Před 5 měsíci +4

    Noononono what revenge what bullshit game just over

  • @MissyMuthaTruckiN
    @MissyMuthaTruckiN Před 5 měsíci

    i can only greyrock so long. next step is CPO and constitutional carry

  • @MENTALHEALTHWITHLUKE
    @MENTALHEALTHWITHLUKE Před měsícem

    Getting revenge makes you no better than them. We broke up over her disgusting behaviour. We had a big chat about changing and making it better. At that piunt i had no clue. We got back together but she had me back to get me back.
    The final discard was the worse thing ive ever gone through. She found out i was looking at these videos and flipped. Had a public meltdown. And smeared me.
    Did i play a part, hell yeah, course i did, and i dont care. A narc is a narc. Now, 2 months later, life is being kind to me. She has very recently smeared me again on her socials. This time, you wont get a peep from me. I honestly do not care. Is boring. If thats what she wants to do then crack on. You do you and I'll do me. Her current smear holds no substance. If her circle wants to believe then good on them. Shes blocked and deleted on everything so i honestly couldnt care less. Life is good. I lost an awful lot on that final discard. 3 months later ive got everything back, only its better. The only "thing" missing is the "thing" i do not want.

  • @benhulme2863
    @benhulme2863 Před 5 měsíci

    You call watching a camera winning. And religion will fail you every time and that’s a stone cold fact.

  • @hughiecarins-og4js
    @hughiecarins-og4js Před 3 měsíci

    Please get to the point