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- In this video, we are going to talk about why you can’t have connection if you want perfection. Fearful avoidants tend to be very afraid of connection. Trying to be perfect and having the perfect relationship, can stand in the way of you connecting.
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00:00 Intro
01:05 Connection
02:02 Focussed on approval
06:00 Connection is important
07:30 It's already here
09:30 Outro
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Video Title: Why you can't have connection if you want perfection
This video is about: Why you can't have connection if you want perfection, but It also covers the following topics:
Perfectionism
Connection
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Thank you, this has been great reminder not to fear the connection
Daaaamn Paulina, its like you are in my head. I recently wrote in my journal about this exact topic! You are too good at this, keep it coming. Much love
Thankyou Paulien, this video was very important for me; a supremely helpful and inspiring insight. Thankyou again!
You’re amazing at what you do! Many many thanks😊
I’m new to this channel. Ive been trying to understand FAs and through CZcams, it helped a lot. In my opinion, you explain so clearly. I just wished we could help FAs change with out help instead of waiting for them to do it themselves. Understanding them is helpful for those who has a relationship with one…or those who wants a relationship with one
@@Amybhds I don’t think wanting someone to be healthy is bad. But I do understand your point. Forcing someone to have elective surgery is not right. It should be their choice. Sure it may make their life easier, but the side effects could be bad and there are unforeseen results. I guess I just want the FA to love me back and die me to feel love too
What about perfectionism in a partner rather than ourselves? :)
That's what I thought the video would be about! When I was super FA that's what I thought was necessary to have a relationship- the perfect partner. But that keeps everyone at a distance because literally no one is perfect! Perfect FA strategy 😜 plus if they're perfect we'll never need to communicate! Such a win! 🙈🤣
there's a good pete walker article on this. he calls this part of us the "outer critic"-- a part that is very judgemental and even mean towards others in an effort to protect us. ofc no one is perfect so by rejecting everyone we stay alone (and to this part, that means "safe)
can it also be the feeling of fear to connect because you are scared about the future ?
I must admit I don't watch every video of yours cause the titles often make me think, 'duh, I already know that' - but this one was actually very eye-opening. thanks, i'll try to remember of what you said here more. in the meantime, is suddenly losing interest in people you liked when you're down in the dumps something natural, or does it happen to FAs only/mostly? cause... ugh.
Connection is here and now.