We NEED to Talk about Trisha Paytas (I’m Legit Mad about This...)

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  • čas přidán 9. 12. 2020
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    Hi everyone, welcome to Abbey's Kitchen! In today’s highly requested video, we will be taking a look at highly controversial veteran CZcamsr, Trisha Paytas.
    A few disclaimers:
    1)The information in this video is for education and entertainment purposes only so you should always speak to a health care provider about your unique health needs.
    2) Don’t forget to please be kind in the comments, here and on Trisha's channel.
    3) A trigger warning that some graphics and discussions may be disturbing to some viewers, particularly those who have battled or are battling disordered eating, so feel free to skip this video if that sounds like you.
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Komentáře • 1,5K

  • @hannahblevins7416
    @hannahblevins7416 Před 3 lety +3470

    This whole time I thought Abby was standing. And I was today years old when I noticed she’s sitting down

  • @michellekilcoyne5508
    @michellekilcoyne5508 Před 3 lety +3116

    I hate the idea of "rewarding" yourself for restricting by eating. So many people eat in terms of rewards and punishment and it can destroy your relationship with food.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +182

      Totally!

    • @elizabethfontanez6630
      @elizabethfontanez6630 Před 3 lety +55

      It’s like ISNT the reward what you worked towards??????????

    • @miriamhavard7621
      @miriamhavard7621 Před 3 lety +10

      Such a very important point!

    • @waturiuiuiuizifa
      @waturiuiuiuizifa Před 3 lety +26

      I did this and it totally destroyed my relationship with food and probably F*d my métabolisme

    • @ludmilamaiolini6811
      @ludmilamaiolini6811 Před 3 lety +37

      @Joanna R. well, it’s an essencial activity, a source of pleasure, it has an effect on your appearance, your identity can be tied to your food choices, food can be a part of relationships, memories, cultures. It isn’t impersonal, like buying cleaning products or refueling your car

  • @DaniJean1
    @DaniJean1 Před 3 lety +596

    She’s pretty open about her eating disorder, binging and extreme restrictions.

    • @freakwithafaceYO
      @freakwithafaceYO Před 3 lety +29

      Which is great for educating people. But if you only watched Trisha's videos where she's overeating and restricting, its glamorizing the disordered eating.

    • @undercoverfangirl5491
      @undercoverfangirl5491 Před 2 lety +7

      @@freakwithafaceYO Yeah, but that parts not her fault.

  • @contemplativeone1005
    @contemplativeone1005 Před 3 lety +193

    Abbey, thank you for handling ED topics so professionally by including experts in the field and presenting research where appropriate. So many influencers only speak to their experience with ED, weight loss, or whatever the issue, but it’s refreshing to see someone presenting an unbiased view.

  • @midnight3946
    @midnight3946 Před 3 lety +1277

    I'm really glad that you have started talking about overeating. Not because I don't appreciate your takes on undereating individuals, they probably help me more, but because Nuance is everything, especially on the internet.

  • @immiscible17
    @immiscible17 Před 3 lety +2963

    my favorite dietitian meets my favorite dumpster fire

  • @TuMadre6995
    @TuMadre6995 Před 3 lety +203

    i was in a cycle of constant "last suppers" and "diets" and gained 20 lbs in one year. breaking free of that has been so helpful!

  • @tasnim1559
    @tasnim1559 Před 3 lety +943

    omg i was not expecting this one at ALL

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +60

      I hope you enjoy it!

    • @ashcatchum
      @ashcatchum Před 3 lety +8

      Were you though? Lol it was bound to be coming eventually lol

  • @jakubmarszaek8330
    @jakubmarszaek8330 Před 3 lety +240

    "it's probably not clear what her intentions are" - this quote is literally summary of Trisha' carrier

  • @ObesetoBeast
    @ObesetoBeast Před 3 lety +2937

    Ok Abbey I see you!

    • @Vexarax
      @Vexarax Před 3 lety +93

      You're awesome John! :D

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +516

      👋 oh hi friend!

    • @amandamiller8421
      @amandamiller8421 Před 3 lety +22

      Getting INTO it lately!!

    • @amandamiller8421
      @amandamiller8421 Před 3 lety +505

      @@TheFrugivorediet yeah how dare two relevant CZcamsrs who both talk about diet and health "suck up" to each other 🙄

    • @sXePunkV2
      @sXePunkV2 Před 3 lety +433

      @@TheFrugivorediet Go sit in a corner, eat a banana and stop thinking you're relevant these days.

  • @Linda-ic1il
    @Linda-ic1il Před 3 lety +439

    I feel binge disorder is a chemical imbalance and should be taken just as serious as any mental illness such as depression, panic attacks, social phobia and so much more. I do feel binge disorder is very serious and I feel her pain. It's very sad, I don't know much about her but I see pain,

    • @gemadylangfelder781
      @gemadylangfelder781 Před 3 lety +22

      It is a mental health disorder in the DSM-V

    • @beraudmusic
      @beraudmusic Před 3 lety +32

      Thisss! So tired of people thinking it’s just people being lazy/not having self control. It’s literally a mental illness.

    • @afferlfan
      @afferlfan Před 3 lety +8

      It's extremely dangerous too, especially if you're already overweight or obese.

    • @ratkid4560
      @ratkid4560 Před 2 lety +3

      Tbh, I kind of class anorexia, bulimia, bed + osfed involving a mix of those 3 as kind of one big ed. Especially when behaviours can be shared between disorders, it's the mental aspect, and it's common for people to shift from one ed to another, especially in recovery. I hate when people always neglect bed bc as someone dx w bulimia, when for me the binging aspect has ruined my life more than anything other aspects, even when I was starving.

    • @henny8883
      @henny8883 Před 2 lety

      All of the mental illnesses you listed aren't taken serious

  • @ardenigleheart9467
    @ardenigleheart9467 Před 3 lety +1211

    Lol can’t believe we just found out freelee hate watches this channel. I think that’s a sign of success Abbey

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +196

      🙌🏻

    • @victoriatomkowicz1932
      @victoriatomkowicz1932 Před 3 lety +10

      How did you find out ?

    • @Maryam-du7zx
      @Maryam-du7zx Před 3 lety +52

      @@victoriatomkowicz1932 she replied to obese to beasts comment

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 Před 3 lety +18

      @@Maryam-du7zx that's because he ws making videos of her and people were sending her links and demanding her to respond. Freelee has very limited internet where she's at. She doesn't have time to hate watch anyone. 😂

    • @kayleecakes318
      @kayleecakes318 Před 3 lety +2

      😂😂 Right??

  • @AlisaMcBride
    @AlisaMcBride Před 3 lety +3870

    Honestly so nervous Trisha's next video is gunna be "cancelling Abbey Sharp" even though Abbey is always respectful and considerate in her reviews.

    • @a.s.5268
      @a.s.5268 Před 3 lety +297

      Trisha doesn’t have the power to “cancel” anyone with her reputation. Everyone knows it’s either trolling, mental health, drugs, or a combination.

    • @blakenorwood2092
      @blakenorwood2092 Před 3 lety +84

      I dont think Trisha will even notice lol

    • @KisDraga
      @KisDraga Před 3 lety +56

      I doubt she will. Abby was pretty gentle and diplomatic in her explanation. Def noodles roasts trisha every now and then in a light hearted way and it doesn't bother her.

    • @squirtr6799
      @squirtr6799 Před 3 lety +37

      tbh how can trisha even cancel abbey? abbey is unproblematic, kind, and reasonable.

    • @frankiefavero1666
      @frankiefavero1666 Před 3 lety +28

      Honestly though, who gives a crap?! Abbey is a professional dietitian with a discerning following. Plus there's a reason why NOBODY has done this, it's because "CZcams influencers" know that doing a "diss" video on someone, only brings more attention to that other person (thus less for them).

  • @StephanieAlmighty
    @StephanieAlmighty Před 3 lety +60

    I wish I saw this video when I was 15. Took me until 23 to realise that "kickstarting" my diet only leads to binging; jojo dieting and gaining more weight in the end, at least in my case. Your explanation just brings it all together now

  • @broom_people
    @broom_people Před 3 lety +1180

    Oof. I used to watch her mukbangs when I was starving myself so I would feel better about not eating. Lol. Now she's on the channel that's actually helped me with my ED.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +103

      Oh no, I'm so sorry. I have an entire video about the mukbang trend on my channel if you're interested: czcams.com/video/O2pYg76yi7I/video.html&ab_channel=AbbeySharp

    • @catreenel
      @catreenel Před 3 lety +22

      i still do this :(

    • @Upper_echelon_exotics
      @Upper_echelon_exotics Před 3 lety +27

      How? I feel like watching someone else eat would make it harder to not eat...Then again I guess watching someone eating gross amounts of food might have the opposite effect. Idk. I don't think I have an ED. Although I have been "restricting" my calories so I can lose weight but not to an extreme...

    • @Lousea14
      @Lousea14 Před 3 lety +23

      @@Upper_echelon_exotics For me personally the way trisha ate grossed me out, so I'd watch her to trigger my ED into finding food gross. (No offense to Trish but the moaning and smacking sounds are awful) Meanwhile when I was recovering Stephanie Soo was one of my go to channels bc it felt like eating with a friend. She also always made the food look appealing which helped.

    • @blynaiperpietus2965
      @blynaiperpietus2965 Před 3 lety +17

      @@Upper_echelon_exotics for me I used to feel like they're eating for me and it's just fun to watch other people getting all the calories and not you

  • @geekjenah3324
    @geekjenah3324 Před 3 lety +783

    I never thought I’d see Trisha on this channel. Can’t wait to watch!

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +36

      I hope it's helpful!

    • @geekjenah3324
      @geekjenah3324 Před 3 lety +11

      @@AbbeysKitchen it was! Thanks for the video 🙏🏻

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 Před 3 lety +3

      Expect to see all huge influencers who make videos with eating or food in them on this channel lol.

  • @wannabehuman
    @wannabehuman Před 3 lety +93

    “It’s a lot to digest” oh the dietician puns

  • @notmysecret9
    @notmysecret9 Před 3 lety +472

    Abbey girl your hair looks so good in this video 💁‍♀️

  • @earthstar7534
    @earthstar7534 Před 3 lety +478

    I just want to say, I get her eating situation. I practiced an extreme eating disorder for decades just on the opposite side of the spectrum. I dealt with being in treatment and "recovery" off and on for 20 years.
    In the last two years I finally feel like something changed and I was actually able break up with "Ann" what I chose to name my disorder voice in my head. I have consistently been in and out of treatment my whole adult life. Fact of the matter was it didn't work until I was ready and I could be ready to actually go all the way and not just maintain.
    Binge eating is probably a bit harder to get better from because its not as respected as a disease and its associated with a lot of stigma if you have weight gain side effects from it. Heck, most people don't acknowledge it as an eating disorder.
    I feel for all people struggling with binge eating because they will never get the compassion I did which helped me maintain and seek treatment until I was mentally able to do the last steps.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +75

      Thank you for sharing your experience with this

    • @graywave4893
      @graywave4893 Před 3 lety +23

      What a great message.

    • @Natalie-ri4ii
      @Natalie-ri4ii Před 3 lety +16

      as someone currently struggling with BED this was such a lovely message to hear!

    • @earthstar7534
      @earthstar7534 Před 3 lety +9

      @@Natalie-ri4ii I really really hope people take you seriously getting the help you need. It really is unfair the difference in compassion.

    • @alessandragonzalez6950
      @alessandragonzalez6950 Před 3 lety +7

      This means the world. Thank you

  • @b8665
    @b8665 Před 3 lety +464

    Trisha is literally the definition of diet culture ! Her eating a
    habits are super unsustainable, unrealistic, and not healthy at all.

    • @EmmaMendez
      @EmmaMendez Před 3 lety +28

      Bc she has multiple EDS

    • @anonima7748
      @anonima7748 Před 3 lety +9

      It's an eating disorder. You can't control an eating disorder, unless you decide to face it, but it's not easy, and it has psychological motives behind it. At least for me it's triggered by obsessive thoughts, depression and anxiety in general. I'd say I have an axious relationship with food, the more I try to follow a diet, the more I succed, the more I feel the urge to destroy everything I've achieved, and I do it, not only eating everything I want, but feeling the need to eat even if I don't want to. Basically it's like I'm constantly sabotaging myself. I've been anorexic for a brief period of my life with some health issues related to it and since I've decided to leave my unhealthy habits I've fallen in more unhealthy habits, like binging.
      I've read that trisha has bpd. With bpd it's enormously difficult to cope with extreme mood swings and negative thoughts, because you're super impulsive, it's very hard to control yourself. Not that you can't get better, but it's really hard and from what I see I think that she's trying her best to follow an healthy lifestyle, even if it doesn't seems like this.
      EDIT: Ok I've found out she has not bpd, but to me it seems like she has an eating disorder.

  • @ossifkiki7574
    @ossifkiki7574 Před 3 lety +89

    Her diet reminds me of my high school days when punishment fad diet for eating “bad” food was really popular and the media pushed the Beyoncé Cayenne pepper with lemon water diet to eat for a week 🤦🏾‍♀️.

    • @cape8591
      @cape8591 Před 3 lety +7

      Are you 25?

    • @TheReducedsodium
      @TheReducedsodium Před 3 lety +5

      Oh, lord, I did that so much. Those cayenne pills fucked my stomach up, too

    • @mysharona6754
      @mysharona6754 Před 3 lety +3

      Master Cleanse !! I made it four days 😂

    • @SchocoMacGirl
      @SchocoMacGirl Před 3 lety +2

      Damn I remember the Beyoncé cayenne pepper cleanse, too. How ridiulous is this 😂😂 the Media pushed it so hard.

    • @nordette
      @nordette Před 2 lety +1

      @@mysharona6754 how much did you lose?

  • @annikathegerman91
    @annikathegerman91 Před 3 lety +515

    10:21 "It's a lot to digest." don't tell me that pun wasn't intended xD

  • @SPadventurOUS
    @SPadventurOUS Před 3 lety +58

    Working on starting to eat intuitively...mostly because I want my six month old to have a healthy relationship with food, so I figure I'd better model it. Thanks for the inspiration! 💕

  • @morgancarlson7663
    @morgancarlson7663 Před 3 lety +2

    Abbey, thank you for constantly bringing to light and helping diminish the stigma around eating disorders. The way you and your colleague discuss EDs is probably the most accurate way I have seen here as you do not focus on the food but more on the coping and the driving force behind this terrible illness. As a person who’s gone through recovery and has experienced relapse, I appreciate your videos and knowing you keep it real and push for a safe space. Keep doing great things!
    Ps: have you ever considered doing a video on the stigma/judgment within the eating disorder realm itself? For example, as a person who’s ED was primarily restrictive, I found it very hard to empathize with people who were on the “opposite” side of the spectrum. It’s almost like there’s a competitiveness in the eating disorder world when you’re in the midst of disordered thoughts. This is a very loaded and vaguely written topic but I would love to see some discussion about this.

  • @tanishaorejuela1501
    @tanishaorejuela1501 Před 3 lety +85

    I have never heard about the “last supper” mentality; yet, I have it. Thank you for the so helpful information :) Stay safe.

  • @xmascactus9534
    @xmascactus9534 Před 3 lety +568

    Honestly I'm always really worried for the peoples health that do large mukbangs almost constantly

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +51

      I understand. I have an entire video about the mukbang trend on my channel if you're interested: czcams.com/video/O2pYg76yi7I/video.html&ab_channel=AbbeySharp

    • @Alize.W
      @Alize.W Před 3 lety +27

      Omg yes. And super triggering for people with history of binge eating

    • @patisaurus4046
      @patisaurus4046 Před 3 lety +9

      i always thought they spit the food out and cut the video properly, so nobody can notice it

    • @raygin6581
      @raygin6581 Před 3 lety +3

      Kim and liz eat an entire table of sweets every single day

    • @miaomiaou_
      @miaomiaou_ Před 3 lety +9

      @@raygin6581 I figure they have to spit it out though or be restricting off-camera, otherwise they’d be gaining like crazy

  • @benpacky
    @benpacky Před 3 lety +151

    “Can I offer you a nice egg in this trying time?”

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +17

      😂

    • @ophelia201
      @ophelia201 Před 3 lety +10

      I've been poisoned by my constituents!

    • @arbitrary7273
      @arbitrary7273 Před 3 lety +3

      i say this all the time so when she put it in the video i was rollin xD

  • @alyssam8719
    @alyssam8719 Před 3 lety +18

    the phrase "for some people even modest caloric restriction is going to trigger a binge" just caused me to actually physically cringe ... so true

  • @StellaMariaGiulia
    @StellaMariaGiulia Před 3 lety +112

    I'm sorry it's wildly off topic but I'm Italian and every time Alessandra Magisano appears I wish her name was Mangisano (eat healthy) 😅

  • @whachutalkinboutwillis
    @whachutalkinboutwillis Před 3 lety +49

    “There’s so much content on her channel. Most of it is her chewing.” Correction - Trisha doesn’t chew. She hard swallows every bite.

  • @brittbritt034
    @brittbritt034 Před 3 lety +6

    I’ve struggled with binge eating for years, your videos have been really helping me lately especially this one. Thank you

  • @jesseandersen4055
    @jesseandersen4055 Před 3 lety +20

    I appreciate your videos. But lemme tell you right now, as someone who was addicted to intravenous cocaine and heroin, and got sober (I’ve been sober 5 years) it literally feels the same to be addicted to food. My food addiction was considerably less severe than my drug addiction, but it felt the same. So you can the jury is still out, and I respect that, as someone who has experienced both I can tell you the mindset and cravings and feelings of helplessness are the same.

    • @madelinegraygray9320
      @madelinegraygray9320 Před 2 lety +1

      Congrats on your sobriety!!

    • @ChessieChess
      @ChessieChess Před 2 lety +3

      I feel the same way, was a cocaine addict and sugar was my first addiction. I have felt the same way other addictions-shopping, sex, etc. For me, addressing my childhood trauma, the thing that’s underneath all my addictions, is how I am healing once and for all. Congrats to you 💞

  • @joyfulinhope1210
    @joyfulinhope1210 Před 3 lety +48

    After watching a few dozen of Abbey’s vids I have learned so much! Today, two hours before dinner, I got my usual intense sugar craving. Turns out I was just really hungry. I ate a salad with a little cottage cheese and some hemp hearts, and now I feel great! Energized, satisfied, and my gut is happy from the healthy food. 💕
    PS I learn the most from your convos with Alessandra.

  • @Thegiddyowl
    @Thegiddyowl Před 3 lety +8

    5 min in and off topic but I really like the music choice for your background music! It’s the sugar that helps the medicine go down lol

  • @Chee235
    @Chee235 Před 3 lety +85

    Interesting bird 😂 I can’t stop laughing and it just started.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +3

      😫

    • @Chee235
      @Chee235 Před 3 lety +1

      @Lehksea Love Trisha has been trolling the world since before CZcams began. We can make a little joke about her, it’s ok.

    • @riribeasley4741
      @riribeasley4741 Před 3 lety +3

      @Lehksea Love Trisha is an awful person towards a lot of people. Her audience is made up of a lot of younger viewers who might not know she’s trolling. And I thought Abbey was very diplomatic with her choice of words. A lot of people don’t like Trisha because of her controversies, I think that’s all Abbey was referring to.

    • @danhhoang5947
      @danhhoang5947 Před 3 lety +2

      @Lehksea Love
      How was she being rude? I don’t hear it anywhere.

  • @nicolec8413
    @nicolec8413 Před 3 lety +249

    This sweater and neck line looks really good on you, Abbey.

  • @thesleeplater
    @thesleeplater Před 3 lety +7

    Abbey! ❤️ know this is off-topic, but I just want to ask about what you’d recommend to people new to intuitive eating who learned restrictive eating not from dieting but from growing up with a lot of food insecurity. I have been finding the process of embracing intuitive eating really challenging but never find people talking about food restriction from a poverty and food insecurity perspective.

  • @haileyguldin
    @haileyguldin Před 3 lety +4

    I love these videos I find them really educational. Are used to struggle with an eating disorder. But I got some counseling not for my eating disorder but for something else and after I received counseling for the other thing I felt more confident and I gained a lot of weight because I actually start eating again and I didn’t know how to properly eat. I’m in the process of trying to lose weight in a healthy way and I find these videos to be very helpful.

  • @paigegarcia9448
    @paigegarcia9448 Před 3 lety

    YEEESSS. Went to treatment for about a year for an ED and I’m so so glad and grateful to hear this information being spread by you and your pal, especially the line said: “each journey is different and each disorder can and may have “boxes” which we feel safe in” from Alessandra, and for you for being a continuous resource! It’s so helpful to hear all of this- Definitely reassuring and I’m so so happy to have found your channel after my time in treatment. ❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety

      I'm so glad it is helpful! Thank you for sharing

  • @N4T93
    @N4T93 Před 3 lety +131

    'most of which is her chewing' 😂😂

  • @Amy-kw6cc
    @Amy-kw6cc Před 3 lety +6

    I love how nice and considerate you are in your videos!! Also... where did you get your cup?!!! It's sooo cute!!

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you! It was a gift, so unfortunately I'm not sure where it's from. Sorry!

  • @JessF42
    @JessF42 Před 3 lety +8

    This was very educational & accurate! I suffered with anorexia for 3 years that turned into severe bulimia

  • @saragabrielle9103
    @saragabrielle9103 Před 3 lety +1

    This was honestly so eye-opening and extremely helpful to understand the restriction/binge spectrum. I love your videos!

  • @stargazerbird
    @stargazerbird Před 3 lety +36

    If anyone watches her for diet advice they have more problems than just what they eat.

  • @NJ-kl8xc
    @NJ-kl8xc Před 3 lety +113

    I wish people would stop acting so shocked when abbey reviews overweight people with disordered eating.
    I know that she usually doesn’t, but it’s hard, as a thin person, to be on a platform like this and not come across as judgy, and I think Abbey has really grown into this skill!
    I like that she has always discussed thin you tubers, because it shows that disordered eating can occur in ANY body, especially a body that people would look at and think “I want to look like that”, like VS models.

  • @aspriggs08
    @aspriggs08 Před 3 lety +8

    Your vids are all I've been watching for 2 weeks on lunch and before bed. I'm literally obsessed 😍 and my eating habits have gotten so much better for it!!!
    Thank you!

  • @selenajosephina
    @selenajosephina Před 3 lety +6

    Looking forward to this video. Also love your hair, Abbey!

  • @taylorlynn5345
    @taylorlynn5345 Před 3 lety +51

    So the best way to lose weight... is to go to therapy...
    Welp if there was anything that could get me to go to therapy lol

  • @ashleighwoodroffe7990
    @ashleighwoodroffe7990 Před 3 lety +26

    Abbey uploads and I come straight here😉

  • @jasmineguerrero1742
    @jasmineguerrero1742 Před 3 lety +10

    Omg hahaha that kills me you included a clip of Frank Reynolds holding that egg hahaha

  • @lisamarie3838
    @lisamarie3838 Před 3 lety

    Recently discovered your videos and I LOVE THEM! I rewatched nearly all and as a fitness instructor myself - I relate so much with your cringe on some people's diet. Even as a student on a budget one can eat sustainably well and healthy, with no time at hand. No one is perfect surely, but thank you for educating people to try!

  • @thekawaiicripple
    @thekawaiicripple Před 3 lety +41

    Going for all the viral people lately! Not gonna lie, I love it and I admire you for fairly reviewing everyone regardless of how many or how few views they have💕 I feel like they need to be talked about most but aren’t (at least not in a serious manner) given their large platform/audience and the effect it can have ‘trolling’ or not. Love you Abbey!

  • @alexdalton4535
    @alexdalton4535 Před 3 lety +11

    When she says "Oh I had a bad day so I deserve korean fried cheese" sure, but I agree but she needs other coping strategies to deal with those bad days that aren't just food

  • @eniolashittu6825
    @eniolashittu6825 Před 3 lety +53

    I literally died laughing when abbey said that most of Trisha's vids are her chewing lmao it's so funny but also accurate.

  • @amberf3599
    @amberf3599 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Abbey. I am working though my eating addictions. These disorders really hurt and its hard to deal every moment sometimes. You are really helping me. Love to you💗

  • @jessicajames9767
    @jessicajames9767 Před 3 lety +1

    Abbey I have to say I so appreciate your trigger warnings at the beginning of certain videos. I have Anorexia and can not tell you how grateful I am for the warning to skip certain videos so that I don't have to discover halfway through (or sometimes days or months later) that I shouldn't have watched the video! Thank you for being a source for realistic and accurate nutrition information in a world where that is so rare! Love you videos!

  • @okidoll
    @okidoll Před 3 lety +8

    "It doesn't have to be all or nothing. It's a long game." Abbey
    I think is such an important thing. People get caught in this last feast mentality, and when they break whatever extreme diet they are on, they feel like failures and binge. It's a horrible cycle and causes hate for yourself and food.

  • @lucyobrien2424
    @lucyobrien2424 Před 3 lety +27

    she constantly talks about she has eating disorders such as binge eating and disordered eating and an unhealthy relationship with food

    • @User18277
      @User18277 Před 3 lety +1

      Ed are horrible. But she relinds me of pro ana girls who flaunt their ed like a lifestyle

    • @spectrespartan8140
      @spectrespartan8140 Před 3 lety

      @Alice Cooke swear AT you? Omg what a snowflake.

  • @blancaportillo86
    @blancaportillo86 Před 3 lety +1

    I love your videos as you share so much information! Information that is easy to understand and take away from. I just needed to say that, every time you introduce Alessandra to give her professional input, I get so very lost. I appreciate her input and time very much but she sort of speaks in circles without giving a point to understand. I’m still learning from you and Alessandra so I hope with watching her more, it get easy to learn from her as well. 😊

  • @JennyNobody
    @JennyNobody Před 3 lety +36

    Unpacking and facing your internal dialogue around food is so important - the only way to repair your relationship with food IMO

  • @thedorkettereads6052
    @thedorkettereads6052 Před 3 lety +24

    I really enjoy when Alessandra is in these videos. She provides such an interesting insight, and I love seeing two RDs talk about these issues.

  • @aishwaryamoitra5079
    @aishwaryamoitra5079 Před 3 lety +21

    You're literally describing my behaviour a few months ago and I didn't even know I had an eating disorder💀💀💀

    • @ailinh911
      @ailinh911 Před 3 lety +1

      if you suspect that you have an eating disorder please reach out to a therapist! recovery is possible and i hope you will achieve it soon!🤗

    • @ihnaghu
      @ihnaghu Před 3 lety +1

      I also think I have an eating disorder... I really struggle with eating but I'm still at a healthy weight so I can't bring myself to share it with my therapist because I'm not underweight yet and I don't look like I have an eating disorder!

    • @sintara8442
      @sintara8442 Před 3 lety +3

      @@ihnaghu the sooner you get yourself help, the easier it will be to stop it. Theres no need whatsoever to first get really sick, be kind to yourself. You are worth it!

    • @ihnaghu
      @ihnaghu Před 3 lety +5

      @@sintara8442 thank you so much for your words! I finally managed to tell my therapist and it honestly felt like someone had lifted a weight of my shoulders... that was the first night I slept calmly in 6 months... I had no idea it was so heavy on me!

  • @bryannaodessa6429
    @bryannaodessa6429 Před 3 lety +2

    I had a problem with food when I was young, then I had a problem with alcohol when I was a young adult, now I have a problem with cleaning. Either I clean way too much or not enough. We always find something to focus on. But Recently I think I’ve been truly settling into the balance of life and I don’t think I’m close to perfect by any means but at least I’m settling down. Base-lining is what my husband and I like to call it. No crazy peaks. Just a steady beet.

  • @decox18
    @decox18 Před 3 lety +2

    You are so kind and well spoken. I love that you make sure to lookout for your viewers in recovery💜

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety

      Thank you ❤️

    • @ashcatchum
      @ashcatchum Před 3 lety

      You have to be in her line of work because people get extremely sensitive talking about their diets and can’t feel attacked at all

  • @pencilsign7546
    @pencilsign7546 Před 3 lety +5

    I love your videos, they really help me understand more about nutrition. I hope you'll do one about what can a person with endometriosis eat. Thank you for what you're doing!

  • @discotile32
    @discotile32 Před 3 lety +4

    I think another important part of these "accepted rules" with disordered eating is also what you do after you have your "cheat meal." Like if you stop restricting for one day then feel like you HAVE to compulsively exercise and work off all of your calories by adding extra work outs or physical purging, that's still an unhealthy eating even though you ~allowed~ yourself to have that bigger meal.

  • @dochiggy
    @dochiggy Před 3 lety

    I'm watching all of your videos today lol, thank you for consistently addressing restriction and abstinence violation! I walk through this with all of my patients and I appreciate the message coming from different specialties.

  • @ElleDeas
    @ElleDeas Před 3 lety +3

    Hey Abbey! I really love your videos, and I definitely wouldn't advise this to those who have struggled or are struggling with Eating disordered, regarding water fasting with supplemented electrolytes, I'd love for you and Dr. Jason Fung to do a video together or have an interview or something like that.

    • @Vexarax
      @Vexarax Před 3 lety

      I think Abbey would be really against Dr Fung for some reason. Dietitians and nutritionists seem to recoil and throw vitriol at the idea of fasting! And Dr Fung is always saying that calories don't matter at all, it's hormones (and regulating them through fasting) that matter: I'm sure someone like Abbey would hate the idea of that as it goes against everything they teach in more 'mainstream' areas of health. I'm finding huge benefit in fasting personally, I feel better than I have in years! Dr Fung is awesome ^_^

  • @gracekay24
    @gracekay24 Před 3 lety +15

    Two of my favorite content creators in one video! Excited for Abbey’s hot take.

  • @camilawrence8120
    @camilawrence8120 Před 3 lety +39

    can't wait for the next frenemies podcast now

    • @ashcatchum
      @ashcatchum Před 3 lety +4

      If there is one 😒did you see the one from today? She really crossed a line.

    • @katielivingston4106
      @katielivingston4106 Před 3 lety

      @@ashcatchum what did she do?

    • @jordinapigrau4769
      @jordinapigrau4769 Před 3 lety

      @@ashcatchum they both earn too much money and get too many views from it as to stop

  • @LM-lw3qo
    @LM-lw3qo Před 3 lety

    I look forward to all your videos. They’re entertaining and informative. Such a rare combo.

  • @LawStrawberry
    @LawStrawberry Před 3 lety +50

    I never thought of calories as cumulative for a week! I loved the example with the numerical breakdown that you put up on the screen because I never considered that one day of indulgence wouldn’t ruin my entire week. I know it was just an example, but the concept really helped. Thank you!

    • @peelit4610
      @peelit4610 Před 3 lety +4

      Looking at it over a week, can also help you plan your intake. I have a party on friday so if I am at a 500 calorie deficit monday to thursday, i have 2000 extra calories to play with at the party.

    • @AbbeysKitchen
      @AbbeysKitchen  Před 3 lety

      Glad that was helpful!

    • @peelit4610
      @peelit4610 Před 3 lety +5

      @C true calorie obsession isn't good but I also know that calories and understanding calories isn't bad they are the energy units our body uses as fuel. Even if you dont count calories, saying I have a party on friday so I will eat salads for dinner this week or veggies with meat, to help balance out my intake on friday. There are ways to use the principle without focusing on individual calories.

  • @reneemichellee
    @reneemichellee Před 3 lety +3

    Hi! I am LOVING your new hair and your new logo. You look amazing and you’re glowing. Hope you are well!

  • @TaylorAmelia
    @TaylorAmelia Před 3 lety +85

    it's weird to me that you, me and Trish are all the same age. like how are you the same age as us. you're such a mom 😂 even though I'm also a mom but I mean I'm still like a child 😂 and I think Trish is too.

    • @dim9753
      @dim9753 Před 3 lety +21

      I know! Abbey is the best. So comforting to watch, almost like getting advice from my own loving and caring mom. Her kids are so lucky

  • @courtney1881
    @courtney1881 Před 3 lety

    I’ve been loving your videos! I so wish I could get some personal weight loss advice from you! 😭

  • @MOCILDE
    @MOCILDE Před 3 lety +2

    miss abbey I am BEGGING YOU to compile a playlist of the videos where you talk about food addiction "at nauseum"! i would love to go on a learning-binge of your views on the topic!

  • @sydneykeith6059
    @sydneykeith6059 Před 3 lety +123

    To be honest, I'm surprised she hadn't reviewed Trisha Paytas yet.

  • @mariam-wn6rz
    @mariam-wn6rz Před 3 lety +6

    OMG YESTERDAY I WAS JUST WONDERING IF U DID A VID ON HER

  • @charnmose183
    @charnmose183 Před 3 lety

    Abbey your videos are always so so informative! Honestly learn so so much ❤️ we love you

  • @Ajschroeder7
    @Ajschroeder7 Před 3 lety +1

    I would love videos discussing some of the big wellness gurus(often docs dishing out nutrition advice), the ones most lesser known CZcamsrs get their nutrition advice from. I feel like a lot of people google “heathy eating” and land on these kind of sites that serve up a lot of rules with little or no research to back them up. I think a lot of people end up with very disordered eating because of influencers with “credentials.”
    (Examples: food babe, dr ax, dr ornish, dr fung, dr Greger, dr mercola, dr Weil, dr Hyman, etc)

  • @samanthanoelle3386
    @samanthanoelle3386 Před 3 lety +4

    Hi Abbey i had something to say about this video: I used to be a huge Trisha fan. I was in a bad place at the time, and after i started getting better i had to stop watching her, Because everytime i did it started bringing me back to where i was. But what i wanted to say, is that when i loved Trisha i was at a place in life where i mentally couldnt eat due to being so down. But watching her eat and watching her enjoy it actually made me feel hungry for the first time in a long time. And i would eat while i watched her because it also made me not feel lonely while i ate. Everything you say in this video is true, but im still grateful that while i couldnt eat somehow eating with her and watching her enjoy food helped. Just my story! Cant watch her at all now though. Thanks for this video!

  • @YuuyakeGunz
    @YuuyakeGunz Před 3 lety +531

    oh boy when you mention Trisha you instantly activate beef in her eyes no matter what you say, hope it's worth it LOL

    • @TheVeganVixenBlog
      @TheVeganVixenBlog Před 3 lety +26

      It’s worth the wake up call.

    • @amandagallo3592
      @amandagallo3592 Před 3 lety +10

      Timing’s actually pretty good I imagine Trisha’s pretty wrapped up with her frenemies meltdown rn

    • @denamullen340
      @denamullen340 Před 3 lety +5

      It’s worth it. She should hope Trisha shouts her out. It will send more ppl to this channel and most ppl don’t agree with Trisha even if we watch her haha

  • @Pippa87
    @Pippa87 Před 3 lety

    Hey Abbey, I'm a long time subscriber and I love your work! Have you ever thought about doing short 10 minute videos aimed at teenagers that give your QUALIFIED opinions on basic healthy nutritional eating? I'm in charge of PHSE at my school ( Personal, health, social and economic education in the UK) and teachers here have to teach healthy eating and basic nutrition with little to no training. It would be great to have a resource to leapfrog off/build upon from someone as approachable as you and at least we would know the information would be reliable!
    Keep up the great work.

  • @britt4130
    @britt4130 Před 3 lety +1

    So appreciate your frequent citations from professionals in peer reviewed journals 👍🏻

  • @audreygunawan5648
    @audreygunawan5648 Před 3 lety +21

    can you review The Glow Up Diaries (a CZcams series by Alivia D'Andrea)?

  • @monicachan9289
    @monicachan9289 Před 3 lety +19

    "Pretty interesting.......
    Bird" -Abby Sharp
    Gosh....i love her

  • @kell5858
    @kell5858 Před 2 lety +1

    Very thankful for you, Abbey! My therapist recommended you to me and now I put you on when I cook and it feels less intimidating/scary❤️

  • @shelbymuir9724
    @shelbymuir9724 Před 3 lety +32

    This morning I literally thought about the fact that you haven’t done a Trisha video yet 😅 I have been heard.

  • @dianaleila
    @dianaleila Před 3 lety +6

    Can you do Krocks in the Kitchen? They are a couple that is doing the whole food/plant based diet and they collectively have lost like 300 lbs but they have been struggling recently. Or any of the whole food/plant based/starch solution diet content creators on CZcams. Love your channel!!!

  • @HeyShayShay
    @HeyShayShay Před 3 lety +15

    I feel like this is the equivalent of analyzing a cartoon character.. she (and others) is a trash characters on YT for the cash. I dont know much about her but all I've seen is just fake crap for views. Why bother dissecting her character as if it's real?

  • @Lenci_the_Nugget
    @Lenci_the_Nugget Před 3 lety

    YES I've been saying that about counseling too! Thank you. I went to clinical counseling for a while before even trying to change my eating habits, and I think it really helped.

  • @courtneycartwright4975

    I love your content Abby - you speak to my heart. I've been out of disordered eating for about 7 years now since I learned intuitive eating. I can now, after mastering intuitive eating, eat healthy foods and successfully loose weight without going crazy or going back to my previous habits/obsessiveness. That all or nothing/last supper mentality was killing me mentally and I was doing it all the time. So glad i had a great coworker who was a dietician who knew all about intuitive eating and told me about it. I read 'breaking free from emotional eating' and have been so free ever since.

  • @katerinaliakou5549
    @katerinaliakou5549 Před 3 lety +4

    My mother has told me one thing, that I have seen it happen to me every time I went on an extreme diet when I was younger : If you lose weight fast, you will gain them fast. I am so happy I stopped doing this and lost weight slowly and steadily.

  • @LivingLifeAsMaddie
    @LivingLifeAsMaddie Před 3 lety +5

    Abbey, in the article that you feature at 8:56, its conclusion literally says "The available evidence so far sugggests that there is little detrimental effect of weight cycling on current and future obesity and metabolic risk, and therefore weight loss efforts in individuals with overweight/obesity should continue to be encouraged". Why do you cite this article when talking about the 'dangers' of weight cycling when it says the opposite?

    • @lucyobrien2424
      @lucyobrien2424 Před 3 lety

      that’s what i was thinking

    • @debbieonofrei6053
      @debbieonofrei6053 Před 3 lety

      Weird, but the article itself seems to be contradictory. The results and conclusion blurbs are saying opposite things. I’d probably read the article in its entirety to try and understand the reason for citing it.

    • @balance-x602
      @balance-x602 Před 3 lety +1

      Because she thinks we can’t read lol

  • @larissaswayze
    @larissaswayze Před 3 lety

    Not related to video content but is your mug from Farmhouse Pottery? If so I love that brand!

  • @stasivallentine6117
    @stasivallentine6117 Před 3 lety +1

    Hey. I was wondering..could you suggest some books on overcoming overeating and/or intuitive eating?

  • @fireflieer2422
    @fireflieer2422 Před 3 lety +51

    I love how brave you actually are for filming all these videos. I imagine it to be really difficult to deal with potentially triggered fans who will overthrow you with hate but you still continue to upload great educational, honest videos. Thank you!

  • @MaeMaeWorld
    @MaeMaeWorld Před 3 lety +25

    Abbey I’m so scared for you! We all know trisha is going to spin this to fit her own narrative. But thank you for being brave!

    • @ashcatchum
      @ashcatchum Před 3 lety +23

      This is the healthy side of the internet Trisha isn’t gonna find her lol

    • @nightreader1264
      @nightreader1264 Před 3 lety +1

      Abbey is professional and classy... whatever negative thing that Trisha says about her- people will be laughing at Trisha.

  • @amy2675
    @amy2675 Před 3 lety

    Really enjoyed this video, learnt a lot. Thanks A!

  • @betsydiscoraver5204
    @betsydiscoraver5204 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for approaching this so sensitively! This is such a complex issue and you navigated this with respect and understanding 🤗