NBA Star Chris Paul ON: How To Build Resilience & Overcome Societal Pressures
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- čas přidán 14. 05. 2024
- This episode is for someone that is striving to go after their goals.
For the person who is grieving the loss of a loved one.
This episode is for anyone who wants greatness in both career and family relationships.
Wow, this was one of my favorite episodes of all time to record. I had the great honor of speaking with Chris Paul also known as “The Point God” on the Phoenix Suns NBA team.
Whether you are in college dreaming about your future career, in high school wanting to play on the varsity team, or you’re at your day job thinking about the business you want to create... this is an extremely important episode to listen to.
We learn in this episode about how Chris studies the game of basketball, and how he preps for each game. The patterns that Chris studies can be easily applied to your everyday life!
On a more personal note, Chris came with such great vulnerability and openness. He shares the challenges and trajectories that he has overcome with grace and forgiveness.
Is there anything that Chris is not confident about?
How do you share challenging news to your children or loved ones?
Most pivotal to his life, He shares with us his experience of the tragic loss of the closest person to him, his grandfather.
Today we’ll explore:
00:00 Intro
00:19 How to handle loosing
04:33 “Live the game”
06:24 Take a break, live your life
07:31 Building habits
08:54 From the weakest to the best
10:53 If you want to do something, you have to work for it
13:20 Children can learn from your experiences
20:41 Sacrifices you make when you have young kids
24:26 The “can’t give up” attitude
26:42 How do you keep your focus around reality?
30:15 Dealing with death
36:17 The lesson you always carry with you?
40:14 Balancing career success and family
44:57 Treasuring relationships
48:24 “People make mistakes”
54:27 Dedicating your success to others
59:13 Navigating the “what ifs” in your career
01:05:11 Chris on Final Five
Don’t miss this incredible journey about perseverance, hard work, and forgiveness.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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Episode Resources
• Chris Paul | Twitter
• Chris Paul | Instagram
• Sixty-One: Life Lessons from Papa, On and Off the Court
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Is there a family member that has had a profound impact on the way you approach your life?
Sir I'm having suicidal thoughts
Infact I was about to jump of the window right now
I am feelings like I'm about to die out of anxiety and guilt
If possible can we speak
Losing the lovable people like our mom and dad is the most greatest loss in our life. No one can be replaced in their place. Next to them is only God.
Loved this interview!!!! The OnPurpose podcast is such a beautiful place for me to "rest" during the day as I near the end of getting my Ph.D. I somehow found you in 2019 and listened consistently ever since! I have become a better and more grounded person. Thanks to Jay and the OnPurpose team for all of your hard work!
I absolutely love the fact that he loves, appreciates and values his family! Additionally! he recognizes that you can't say that you love someone without being willing to sacrifice for them! I feel that part of God's definition for a father and husband is his ability and desire to cover his family. Listening to him speak, part of his legacy will be his love of family. Great interview Jay!!!
Thank you for watching and commenting!
Agree! It was so great when he said that if someone in the family was going to sacrifice it would be him.
@@JayShettyPodcast.Sir I'm having suicidal thoughts
Infact I was about to jump of the window right now
I am feelings like I'm about to die out of anxiety and guilt
If possible can we speak
NC!!! Thanks for offering the space for one of my state’s Kings. Thanks for the vulnerability and inspiration CP3
Listening to On Purpose and Wellness cafe is just the perfect balance of wisdom, motivation, and knowledge that I need for summer
You're a blessing man!
Man I love Chris Paul, such a good dude
I was living in New Orleans when Chris Paul graced our city. I wish I could add a photo of my baby in 2009 in his Chis Paul jersey. He has always been a role model. Thank you for this wonderful interview, Jay, and Chris, thank you for being who you are and making such a difference in the lives of others!!!
Thank you! And thank you for sharing your story!
Such an incredible interview, so many wonderful insights, thank you Jay!
Thanks for listening!
What a wonderful podcast and Jay I really enjoy the way you do your interviews. You really allow the person to share their insights and stories. I know how he feels about his grandfather since I came from that kinda of world where all your parents would enjoy is maybe a decent Sunday meal. I always wish now that my parents were alive so that I could do so for them what they have done for us. As always, Jay 😊 podcast
Agree. One of the things I love about Jay's interviews is how well prepared he is. Unlike a lot of interviews, he really READS the books and is ready to let people share their best selves. He is careful to help them shine their light and that is so admirable.
My favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech very much.
Chris Paul's story of resilience in the face of tragedy and societal pressures is truly inspiring, showcasing his strength and determination to overcome adversity and make a positive impact both on and off the court.
Totally agree, thank you for watching!
Purposeful habits conversation! Keep up the great podcast Jay! Love the fact I prioritise seeing this podcast 🎉❤
Thank you for consistently watching!
Wow. “Never delay gratitude”❤
Wrote it in my diary ❤
Something i just need to hear today...love this podcast ..thankyou !!!!!
Thanks for listening!
"as long as you know what's real..." I feel that. you have to have confidence in yourself and what you're doing. People are always going to have things to say good and bad. Love this podcast episode, as always.🌸✨
Absolutely! Knowing what is real and having confidence in yourself and your actions are essential. In life, there will always be opinions and judgments from others, both positive and negative. It's crucial to stay true to yourself, believe in your abilities, and trust your instincts.
Having confidence allows you to navigate through challenges, make decisions based on your own values and goals, and stay resilient in the face of criticism or negativity. It's important to remember that you can't control what others say or think, but you can control how you react and how much importance you give to their opinions.
@@AnnTsungMD Agree! I don't follow basketball, but resonated with so much of what he has learned and is ready to share. Powerful interview.
Chris was the best guest! Glad you enjoyed the episode
@@JayShettyPodcast. 🫶🏾
@@AnnTsungMD 💯
“ as long as you KNOW what’s Real, that will help you keep your sanity” #Facts & My new reality
Great interview - haven't seen any of Chris's before but I'll definitely watch more now
Thank you!
Easily in the top 5 interviews, great job jay and Chris
Thank you!
Man great interview, standup family guy! Favorite tip was not taking no for answer and i liked the example of him being short and overcoming that. I remember watching him during college basketball days. Good old days that’s when I was college ball fanatic
Very humble
Beautiful interview 🔥
Thank you 🙏
Dear Jay, Since the podcast comes out on Mondays, next Tuesday is my birthday and I'm a big fan of your podcast. I would be very happy if the guest was one of the actors from the series Manifest, Never have I ever or Sex education. If not next week then some other. Cordial greetings! 🥰💫
Super dope conversation.
❤❤❤❤❤ always the healthy podcast sir Jay
So agree! Loved what Chris had to say about keeping the noise out...and even more that Jay is so the alternative to noise.
awesome video
Jay Shetty, podcasting legend!
Thanks
Please interview Kylie Irving!!!!!
CP and Big Sean have the same voice.
“Vertically challenged like me” bros 6 foot im 16 and only 5’6 and bought ready to off my self
I get 6 foot is short in nba terms I play basketball but in life that’s tall
Edit: wow this interview is awesome CP3 is so down to earth
Please bring very famous Pujya Jaya Kishori Ji
Hey Jay, do you have an email you can be reached on? Have an amazing guest suggestion for you.
❤️💖❤️🙏💖❤️💖
Good morning
Wait did I understand correctly? He’s writing his third book??
One call mayby show me the way
WSSU Alum ‼️‼️🐐🐐
Should open up about being traded
Rich Roll also released a podcast with Chris Paul 😂😂
He’s amazing! Also love Rich!
@@JayShettyPodcast. you two are my favorite! Keep the awesome work, have a nice day 😁
I had 100 tough swallows and I didn’t even make it to 7 min 😂🤦🏽♂️
'Catch up with the kids' If mothers hear that, we feel like, what the heck does that actually mean? Who is actually raising these kids, so that a man in 2023 still says he sometimes is 'catching up with the kids'. Don't get me wrong, I love this podcast, but I was worried to watch this one. Many men have such a different perspective about the whole idea of 'not taking a NO for an answer'. If you are a mother, you raise your kids and then you take some time, if possible, to catch up with the rest of the world, we take many NOs for an answer because the kids come first. Full-time mom with a full-time job, and those catching-up moments with your life and the world are rare, honey(s).
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When he said that I had a startle reaction to, but then I understood that he made the decision so that his kids could stay where they wanted to stay. Providing for a family brings its own challenges: It feels to me like he and his wife are a team and work hard to put the kids first.
I also liked when he talked about his daughter hearing that even when he was getting ready for HIS game he was watching her game.
@@grannyronna Well, many men have the option to take no "no" for an answer professionally, only because women stay home taking care of children. Not a few of those women have taken many no's for an answer, specifically when it comes to their own careers. I think men should finally do 50% of childcare and provide at the same time, full stop. Since that is what women do. It is what I do. In my case, 100% childcare and 100% providing for the family. It is 2023. So as long it is not at least 50/50 he can tell me a lot about not 'taking no for an answer', it sounds like a position of male privileged to me.
Your telling me his older brother didn't back him up how embarrassing.....
You should ask him if he is a Freemason?
Unless you're the Suns and also a championship ring - then it's ok to say NO to chris paul. LOL
Those routines sound like ocd rituals
Cheeeeeeese😁😁🧀🍕🍟🍔🥪 😁😁
praying for my friends a good marriage stay marry be married. Stanley Be love have a good love have a lot of kids best luck good luck amazing luck. Stay in honeymoon love stay Married be Married stay Married have a good marriage have a happy marriage. Have? A healthy love healthy relationship be happy with your kids