Watch This Video Before You Die
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The word "deadline" just got a much deeper meaning.
Dread Pitt haha omg yes
I had the exact same thought when they talked about deadlines. Never thought of it in that sense. Very intense!
bruh
O_O OMG YES.
It's like mortgage. It literally means "death pledge" in its native French.
Imagine dying halfthrough the video
I shouldn't have laughed
@@RamseyMikati sameđđ
Due to the sheer amount of views, the likelihood of that circumstance is actually not super terrible.
@@eSkizl LMFAO
Statistically that probably has already happened or will happen.
This is kinda depressing because when you think about it most people spend their life just working for someone else and planning to fulfil their bucket list in retirement.
9-5 jobs that you have to work to survive until your too old to do a lot of things đ
I donât even have that anymore .... barely start going 9-5 and they notice
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
@@juliasimon219 exactly
Ive have actually planned everything i am going to do engineering and then do a job and then at the same time ill also open a business to get money in my retirement
I think itâs terrible that chasing your dreams is something people mock...
It surely is
Most of the time itâs because people just donât want to see others to succeed whether itâs jealousy or just being insecure
unfortunately..it IS
@@hearthstonemax9007 exactly.
I hear some one once said
" How successful you are depending on how unsuccessful your friends are".
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
Such a loyal fanbase. Everyone is watching this video before dying just like the title says
nah bro, here from the hell watching the video he told me not to
@@BullyMaguire69 oh they've Internet in Hell? That's it, I'm killing all these people in my list.
@@MyNontraditionalLife I wouldnt go as far as to unsub but you make a good point that people in poverty or in developing areas can find videos and content creators like this unrealistic. I myself am from the Balkans region and life here is a lot more rugged and uncomfortable, especially in more rural or suburban areas. I still think that these videos are a good way for me to see how "the other side" thinks, and that is also useful.
The title caught my attention for sure, we live in a culture where DEATH is mostly taboo where in fact itâs for real people we are not invicible đđ and yes help people , be a community should be something naturalđ
Solo Leveling is dope af
"We all have two lives. The second begins when we realize we only have one." -Confucius
Gina Santilli
What that means
Thank you
Thank you for reminding me this quote
Thank. You.
Wow that hit me
Having a life & feeling alive.
I was just about to fall asleep when I saw this video in my recommendations... I watched it and now I'm creating my bucket list at 1am..... Incredible video with such good energy â„ I'll make sure to share it with my family, friends and followers â„
Thank you for sharing it on ur story Izi i rly needed this â€ïž
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she died at her sleep...rip
@@ulfricstormcloak8003 wth
I have social anxiety, so even doing the easiest things is a challenge for me. Like going outside alone or into a store, talking to strangers, making a phone call, even posting comments like this somewhere - literally everything. And even though I'm only 17, I feel like the time's running, I have wasted so much time with thinking, being nervous and worrying about the smallest things, letting it influence my life. So the first thing on my bucket list is learning to deal with it, getting more and more confident with myself, so that the anxiety won't stop me from living my life. And I believe that I'm getting closer to that goal somehow, everything that comes after that is something I can do, no matter which goal I'll have, I'll be confident enough to achieve it. Thank you for this video, I kinda feel motivated to move on :)
Quit social media, make a new healthy routine, do the stuff u want to do. I did it. I had anxiety. It was hard because I was addicted to social media but be patient and quit slowly. It was really hard for me because I changed my whole entire life but now Iâm so happy. Iâm happy because I did some achievements. And Iâm really thankful for that. â€ïž
@@VioletS-sb4on thank you so much ^^ I'll do my best, I'm glad that it helped you
@@halaalkhatib7692 thanks for the tip ^^ it's good to hear that it helped youâ€
Try a couple of Tim Ferriss's comfort challenges. They're on youtube, and I know they'll seem dumb, but just commit to one a week. Hopefully it helps!
This is the first step ; that you at least know about it!! Good luck !!
Anyone here watching this while dead?
Me
Omg how is it like being dead?!
Basically the same as being alive but dead inside
@@cromo4839 Welcome to my world
#imdead
"We avoid risks in life so we can make it safely to death"
true true
I like that. What's that from?
@@kaitlyne1870 I think I read it somewhere or saw it in some video
That hit me hard thank you! I just added this quote to my quotes list
@@audreyguo13 :)
Imagina how busy Obama will be if everyone wrote "play basketball with Obama" on their list...
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
@@userm180 are you okay
@@userm180im gay
I literally did this three years ago after I almost died in a car accident. I was a senior in high school making a bucket list and it changed my career path and I met my fiancé doing the things I love.
Good for you, I just wanna add something, we need to be independent, we shouldn't say that because something happened ( like a car accident) we should do something to change our lives. We should take decisions no matter our environment around us. For instance, oh it's rainy today what a sad day. NO it's gonna be a great day just cause I say it and make it happen
Yes but sometimes it takes a significant moment in our lives to open our mind to new possibilities we never thought before were possible or something we even wanted to do. Not using it as an excuse to change but using it as a traumatic moment that created clarity. Thank you though!
@@lydiaharris911 I agree, a great event has occured to me too. And it made me different and I would say a better person, too.
All blessing to you đđœ
This is why I'm too scared to drive. Really scared.
Serial Killer: Is about to kill me
Me: Wait lemme just watch this video.
He'd probably understand espesially if you let him watch
Me: plays it at .25x
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Ig_needs_a_wig đ busted
And then you and the serial killer discuss life afterwards and talk about what you guys learned from he video
Listening to this.... so true, however I look back and have already done soo much. By 25 I had done everything I set out to do. After that I continued travelling the world, and began to slowly set new goals .....married and had three children. Children currently still in school. At 39 I resigned to start my own business. My main goals for the next few years are to continuing raising my children into responsible adults and give them educational opportunities so they can live their own life and give them opportunities. We also give time to our community. I also teach and this is very fulfilling helping people and motivating them to be the best they can be. Dream big!
My experience was very similar. I actually talk often about my reverse bucket list... Iâve done so many amazing things that I canât believe they were all true.
what were the things you did? and how did you have so much money to travel( I am purely curious bc I want to travel too)
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
Me: *writes down my bucket list while heâs talking*
Also me: *writes skydiving*
Him: âyou see itâs not all about going skydivingâ
Me: âoh shitâ
Lmaooo Iâm still keeping it tho
Hahaha.
I have a bucket list for life but I still make monthly bucket list and that's good too!!
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
"Well, I reject your feedback, because I love it!" - Taylor Swift, Diary of a Song.
Itâs exhilarating and the excitement can last for days. Jump!
"We're all stories in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?" Doctor Who
Reims Arlett who tf say eh
@@mynutshanglow2352 English people
Because the way I see it, "every life is a pile of good things and bad things."
@@audreysun4675 the good things don't always soften the bad things, but vice versa the bad things don't necessarily spoil the good things and make them unimportant
Man I just watched that episode today
This isn't exactly related to the video, but I wanted to share it. I saw a tedtalk on the saying "Live each day as if it's your last", and how living by that might actually just ruin your life, get you to act irresponsibly and hedonistically, and even make you feel hopeless and depressed. I know that I personally felt a lot more like this, than feeling motivated to live my best life.
She then said that a better and healthier mindset was to "Live each day as if it's your first", imagining that today is the first day of your life of endless opportunities and possibilities, that you have all the power to design your life however you want, starting now. For me, this mindset makes me feel so much more motivated and enthusiastic, and like I can do anything.
Actually love this. Could you link the Ted talk by any chance, please?
Doing whatever works best for you is most important. But there's one thing I will say; when you find yourself really confronted by the prospect of very limited time in this existence, rather than just trying to imagine it, I think you will value what remains too much to act irresponsibly or hedonistically, or to squander it feeling hopeless or depressed. Every minute will matter far too much for that.
Can anyone link that Ted Talk I really want to watch
czcams.com/video/hbG89FYKzaY/video.html
Yeah
Watching this made me feel a little overwhelmed, like shit, I'm still in my teenage years. On one hand, I have a head start, I am early and I have more opportunities to seize what I want to achieve, but on the other hand, there's the grim reminder that there are people who don't have the chance to achieve their dreams due to rapidly having to face their eventual mortality. It's still a blur to me, but I'll give it my best shot.
Same ikr! We have the most time now but it feels like everything is moving so fast and sweeping me onto a path I don't know if I want to take, I feel like I have no time to think about it
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
I've been reading a lot of self help books, and honestly, I'm just grateful to be young and be able to make changes that are even more meaningful because of it. :)
Lately I've been watching videos about life and finance. One thing that sticks to my head is that "when you're young, you can do anything, you have very little risk, you can risk everything bc that's not much to start with, and you have no family to support".
It's a good thought and it's true. I love it. But you need to know that you still have to be responsible for everything you do.
I personally think it's harder to actually pin point what your dreams are.
True you gotta Garyvee it and reverse engineer what you admire why whatâs the process of that and so on
can relate. Each day I am trying to find my mission or figure out my dreams. I'm just lost.
@@kid1997 could I join the club?
Sure, but if if you spend letâs say an hour a day trying to figure that out you will end up with a much more precise idea of your ultimate future so that you can take real action toward it. Most people donât even spend a minute a day trying to solve the problem which is the concept of you.
â@@themaxjenkinson salty
i face "near-death" situations everyday because i drive on indian roads.
Brrooooooo
Lmaoooooo
Just got home driving lmao couldnt relate more
Bruh. đ
This is true. Unfortunately A red car lost control and flew off of a bridge atop of people waiting at a bustop :(
1.4 million people watching: ok i will eventually die
the rest of the world: IMMORTAL
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
@@userm180 STFU plz
4:48
âJust picture yourself on your death bed. Looking back at this moment and will your future self regret not doing it? And if yes then you have to do it.â
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
"If your dreams don't scare you they're not big enough"
My Nontraditional Life order pizza I suppose
My Nontraditional Life depends what your dreams are
Ok
My Nontraditional Life if you have time worrying about being poor then you have time to go do what u wanna do
@@MyNontraditionalLife It sounds like there is a lot of pain behind your comment. Iâm sorry youâre having to experience whatever youâre going through, so in this context your huge dream could be to escape that poverty. Since it seems inescapable to you, that would certainly qualify as a dream big enough to be daunting. Youâve got this, no matter how big of a challenge you have ahead
Now do one titled "watch this before you're born"
Some of us want a head start on life.
I bet you there are parents out there who would do that to prepare for the child in the womb. >_
@@snjyyk 0
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Y'all tryna have a cold one in the womb while we watch this đ
All my parents have to do is swallow a laptop
âWhen you put yourself first, you put yourself in a position to serve othersâ
iâm terrified of death why tf am i watching this lmao
I think Iâm more afraid of the uncertainty of the afterlife (or lack-of) than death itself. I canât wait until this is all over.
@@infallible_8343 this like if I knew what would happen after death I wouldnât be here
@@infallible_8343 itâs heaven or hell
@@kamryn2310 well
They that believe in him though they have died they Shall live again ,they that liveth an believeth in Him Shall Never Die ! King Jesus Christ
Bucket list: Have Matt as a guest on my little podcast.
@Henny Bal Lector don't worry - I have a list đ
Ramneek Mathur that would be dope hubby just started a podcast love podcast I learn so much
not the rock?
@@ambastious the Rick is Matt's dream. I'm more interested in Matt as a guest. He's sense as a creator is unique and I would love to explore his journey with him. Hopefully bring a unique discussion out of him that gives his fans a new look at him as a creator.
@@WhitakersWay it's a great way to explore ideas in a different way. Hope to expand mine and have the opportunity to do good work.
"Why don't people act upon their bucket lists?"
Money.
Right?! I mean when I watch these videos saying people should act RIGHT NOW and pursue their dreams and I'm like okay BUT WHERE DOES THE MONEY COME FROM
excuses excuses..
Victor Hugo go work
Save
Not true, find a way to get it done there are people out there willing to sponsor your dreams you just have to get up and look
Whatch this video before you die:
My brain:
So if I donât watch this video I will never die? *nice*
Really man
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Or if u are dying just start watching it and wait for the ambulance to come x 0.25 is helpful
Yeah that's what I thought too XD AHAHAH
for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heavenđ
When I was 13 I discovered vloggers and I wanted to film my teenage years, things that made me cry, my achievements, my friends, my fam, things I loved to do, but fear stopped me. Some say crying while filming is a dumb thing to do, some say I won't be successful, etc. I never started and that's because of society and the 13 years old me that wants to be one of the cool kids, doesn't want to be called an idiot for doing embarrassing things. I'm 17 now, I just realized the years I wasted just because of fear. Now I'm confident enough, I should start what I wanna do and you should too
Just subscribed so u can gain followers and have the confidence to do it.
go go go.. just in case you dont know it takes atleast 32 uploads before youtube alogorithm understands what type of content you're uploading so dont stop until then.. and even if you want to just record and not upload its amazing too. : )
One of the most important things people can do is step back from their ego, seeing life as it really is. I recently dropped out of school to figure out my life and have started a CZcams channel based around finance. It took me months of just sitting at my computer before I started anything. I was just filled with anxiety and couldn't get out of my rut. I was worried about what my friends and family would think, what if I failed, would I look like a failure? I didn't know. But because of people like you, Matt, that I actually decided to say fuck it and start. Since starting I have felt magnitudes happier and actually have purpose throughout my day. Thank you for all that you do Matt. Your videos, their quality, and deep topics have changed my life :)
EDIT: Wow, thank you for everyone being so supportive! It really does mean a lot to me :)
Congratulations! You're so brave for doing something for yourself! đ„°
There are so many of us lol
If it brings you happiness,go at it .Keep up man!,
@@thetravelingmonkeys Thank you! I'm not too sure if it will pay off, but either way, I think it was worth taking the risk :)
Congrats man! Keep going and follow your passion
"What do you want to do before you die?"
Elon Musk: 1. GO TO MARS
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true
And hes doing it. Go Elon
@@cherrycoked3 in an interview he cried because he knows that he would not live so long to go to Mars
Definitely! This is my one true desire, go out there and see the space...
The video: âWatch this before you dieâ
Me: âNah I was actually thinking of watching it after I dieâ
I have lots of dreams, lots of wishes, and lots of things I want to do, but the one thing I always come back to is my dream of seeing the stars. It's a simple, seemingly pointless dream that I myself don't know why I dream of it or why it's so important to me, but what I do know is that I picture myself somewhere in Iceland or Norway with the northern lights and thousands of stars where I can admire the beauty of our planet in peace. It doesn't have to be a location as picturesque as Iceland or Norway or Scandinavia as a whole, but I do admire all of these places and they hold a special place in my heart. Again, I have no idea why this is so important to me or why I love Scandinavia so much but I want to go there someday after all this Covid craziness is over. Fingers crossed that I can check it off my bucket list one day :)
Alright, the playing basketball with Obama was like one of the coolest things ever.
I have a crush on Coryđł
Right
"Every man has two lives and the second one starts when he realises that he only has one"
-quote i think is noice
Vry noice.
Every quotes from Confucius are really interesting
@@mattdavella lol
Toit
Daymmmm boii
the fact that this came up in my recommended on the day my dad died in 2014 and the day one of my friends died this year in 2021 is what made me want to watch this đ
so sorry for your loss, sending good vibes! Go and achieve your dreams đ€
this is a message to the future;
i am going to try to change the bad, i promise.
live your life, kiss that person, sings songs in the car, drive at night with friends, enjoy. every. second, of life. never let someone make you feel sad. do not give a f*
Me: *sees the title* "oh I have plenty of time"
2020: *laughs in apocalyptic script*
Yeah, 2020 gave you the opportunity to stay at home and work on what you want to do.
Don't make the mistake of blaming 2020 for what you wanted to do like other people do.
Yo.......đ·
@@kaceyjim7195 yeah I know itâs a joke
Now itÂŽs over :))
Emmit Allen hey man, u still alive?
They actually played basketball with obama. Man when i saw that, something in my head clicked. Thank you, you changed me
How tf did they play with Obama :( I want to
Yeah, clicked in my head as well at that moment. Kinda like a visual proof that ask and you shall receive. But usually we are to unsure of ourselves to dare to even ask.. How sad is that when on the other spectrum is what? Hole in the ground where we are going to end up. @Flolrencia Leo lets ask then !
Did they beat Obama�
@@tonylinfreedom Sadly a comedian did
This video!! 100%
This just gets to me in the moment of life I'm currently in: contemplating of how to live through the last years of studying at uni, thinking about career decisions, family, the social life I need to work on, traveling...thank you for the video!
At the end, when the screen turns black and u see ur own reflection... thats one hell of a moment
âPlay basketball with president Obamaâ
What a G
Yeah! That's dope man!
â we must all suffer from one of two pains : the pain of discipline or the pain of regret â - sean covey
I am 21 never will I live to see 22? The way things is goin I don't know...
Manas Singh lucky I probably wonât reach 21
Weâve been spending most our lives...
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Are you ok.. my Snapchat is @mtman5 hit me up if you need it
Also nice kennoseg wallpaper
3:56 - 4:43 is exactly what I needed to hear right now. I set up a project for myself that would, theoretically, help me towards my dream career but I've been working on it all day and suddenly got this crippling anxiety that this isn't the best way to do it, that this "start up" could take gods know how long and that there's so much more to it than what I'm doing, that I have no idea what I'm doing, I just know that it's a lot more complex than what I know of and a ton of other doubts that had me surfing youtube in an attempt to ease my anxiety instead of persevering but this short, 47 second clip has me feeling motivated again. *Thank you.*
"You can either get busy livin, or get busy dyin." - Red
Bob Dylan actually
you got the quote wrong, but sure
That one from the Shawshank Redemption! Loved that))
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That's god damn right
Matt: Watch this video before you die
Me: Save the video to watch later...
Thank you for the video. I've been living my life under other people's expectations and trying hard to suppress my own thoughts and ideas. Now I'm 23 and still don't know who I am. I wish I knew how important it is to find my own voice and be myself as I grow. I hope I still have the chance to do that before I die.
hope youâre doing well. hereâs a reminder to find whatâs important and follow your dreams. :)
@@soupiedog23 Oh my this reminder is really on time! I start to doubt myself again lately!!
@@shuyixie5042 aw. iâm glad you saw it.
Me: *Sees title*
Me: Yeah, I've got time.
hahaha
@@mattdavella wow,that was a minimalist way to laugh đ
OK Mr. incredible
When Obama came to the basketball court, I knew that guy knows what he's talking about. Amazing video.
Marvin Cetiner that was the best part! đ
@Tamara Fagan Donald Trump want to know your location.
Lmao
(Review notes about the video. Please, watch the video if you haven't because it is extraordinary)
*How to create and accomplish your bucket list:*
1. Forget everything you know about bucket lists.
- It is not just about adventures. There are 12 categories of life. Adventures is one of them.
- There are no rules. It just needs to be important to you. Big or small.
2. Write it down.
- Writing makes it real.
- You are thus accountable to yourself.
- If you write it down, you are 42% more likely to achieve it.
3. Share it with others
- Talk about things that are important to your friends and family
- Remember that you can help others as well as be helped by taking action on your dreams.
2. Seek people that could give you the best advice on achieving the item desired.
- Show how it is the most important thing in your life right now and ask for help.
3. Establish what is top-priority on your list and work on it.
- Pretend there is a genie that pops up and offers to help you accomplish one item in your list if you never could work on the other ones anymore.
- Focus on that one thing.
Key Ideas:
- "We avoid risks in life so we can make it safely to death" (from one comment here :) )
- "Just picture yourself on your death bed. Looking back at this moment and will your future self regret not doing it? And if yes then you have to do it."
- We need help from other people to accomplish items on our list.
- Most people on their death beds regret things that they did not do instead of what they actually did.
Resultant mindset:
I can do anything I want. It is only a matter if I want to do it. Yes, it will take a lot of work to accomplish it. But *I can.* Thus, think: what is important to you?
Fundamental Poem:
But often, in the world's most crowded streets,
But often, in the din of strife,
There rises an unspeakable desire
After the knowledge of our buried life;
Good Luck :)
omg i remember watching The Buried Life almost everyday when i was in school (it inspired me to live life on my own terms) and i used to have the biggest crush on Ben â€ïžđ anyway as a young adult now, finding myself and trying to navigate through options in my life to achieve whatâs most fulfilling and important to me, is confusing af, iâm constantly looking for life advices and contemplating a lot of things, and this video came to me at the right time. Nothing comes easy but regret does, so thanks Ben everything you said resonates with me â€ïž and to you too Matt thanks!
I can't imagine being alive in a time where the internet wasn't so important and great messages like this weren't shared, thank you Matt.
Well the ancient Greeks, Chinese, Japanese, and Romans shared great messages, and we've been ripping them off ever since. That's where 99% of our wisdom comes from. And the rest comes from those who lived through devastating world wars and natural disaster.
RuyLopezQB6 itâs really great we can learn from those past struggles.
âWe all have two lives, the second one begins when we realize we only have oneâ
851 English nice one
Who said that?
Truth my friend!!
That is true but a paradox at the same time. If we ALL have two lives, but just the ones who REALIZE are able to start the second one, that means that people who donÂŽt realize donÂŽt have the second live, and therefore, not all the people have two lives, contradicting the first statement. Not critiquing in the quote, I agree with it, just appointing my little reflection.
@@anderarce5905 Hmm, that's a really interesting point!! I like your style of reflection!! I actually just started a new CZcams channel on productivity and positivty and I'd love your feedback on it too if you have some time!!
Ben and Matt - wonderful video - a must watch for all!! I "killed" myself working in Healthcare for 48years, although I loved serving others and it was my passion, it is a very "thankless" job. Now I am 65 and I still have the opportunity to the one thing I would love to do! Thank you for this great eye opener.
I am 19 and I already regret for not doing so many things in my early life.
ify. but were still young and we've got to grab more chances
This has helped, i cryed my eyes out whilst watching this. Ive been in a depression fueled crisis and its so sickenly scary to think about. I can avoid even the thought of it but this has helped to start and change my view of life. I want to do things that i dream ofâ€
@@josephmyers2873 ive had a similar experience but im pagan, i believe in reincarnation, it just makes sense to me. Although i have a question, ive been experiencing a pull to christianity and i dont know if it wrong to worship both jesus and my pagan gods
@@josephmyers2873 its tricky, they are very different gods and deitys. Ill ask about if nessesaryđ
@Rena Garlock how did you get out of it?
@@emilykaneshiro2894 it's wrong to worship Jesus along with Pagan Gods because it's with the doctrines of Christianity that you should only worship one God and it's him. If you worship other Gods then it's a sin and you'll burn in hell lol
Though im an Agnostic, still factually speaking that's what it is.
Me: * reads title*
My procrastinating ass: Imma watch this later
hahaha
Sooooo trueee :):)
Loser. You'll get a dislike from me.
000 0 ok boomer
@@user-vm9ig4zs8e I hope you figure out whatever it is that is making you so bitter and negative towards people who've done nothing to you, it's a shame and I wish you luck in discovering that you'll feel better about yourself once you start enjoying random little interactions with people and you let them do the same.
youtube recommendations are getting real comfortable with these up close and personal videos. None the less , i liked the video. Helped me push myself up a bit more.
SUCH A GOOD REMINDER, thank you! We will all die some day. People shy away from that fact, but as soon as you realize this. your fears won't be as likely to control you anymore
Bucket List: Meet Matt & tell him how important his videos are to me.
:)
curls nâflipflops omg same here
Shamanee Bodi đâšâš
Same here
@curls nâflipflops same
Add to playlist: "watch later"
After you die?? đđ€
Me too
I love that you said our personal goals have no deadline. Its true we put off what we dont feel obligated to do. I like that you said doing what you want is not self serving. Your life and your journey may inspire someone elses and itâs definitely a good reason to do what you want.
The fact that I'm going to die has the opposite effect on me. If I'm "lucky" I'll live until I'm 80; the Earth is billions of years old; we don't exist for billions of years then we live for 80, if we're lucky, then we don't exist for billions more years. I feel like, "what does it matter how I live my pointless 80 years?" If I travel or not, if I get a better paid job, if I have kids. When you really think deeply about it, about the enormity of the universe, and our insignificanct place in it; nothing really matters at all. Anyway just thought I'd bring some joy and positivity to the discussion. đ
I think I'm paraphrasing a quote, but it think this is how it goes: if life doesn't give you purpose, your job is to make purpose
I feel this way almost all the time, which either leads me down a depressed and unproductive mindset or a hedonistic one where i do whatever the hell i want to just be happy. but then there's also the idea that "if nothing we do matters, all that matters is what we do"; that thought tends to motivate me to find some purpose and fulfillment in my life
That's not... positive.
We all have a purpose, the enormity of the universe doesnt change the fact we have a purpose as individuals, people dont say stuff like this because it takes the worth out of the individual person. If you cant find your worth God gives you purpose đ at least be a good person. Damn imagine telling this bs to a veteran who fought so hard that people would be able to live. People who have purpose dont say shit like this, find your purpose
This comment to me is quite depressing...really.I canât think of being worthless as a good thing if you can, good for you but for me I canât.I think of it as âwell if weâre just little tiny dust in the universe then letâs have some fun as little dust in the universeâ Iâd rather be dust and have fun and die than be dust, be bored and die lol . But thatâs just me
I was so happy when I saw Barack Obama actually walk out on the court!!!
Same!.
Infallible Imam Obama's "holy Qur'an" and Sunni Hadith curse and insult us, and mandates our death. But he still The Man.
I thought that I was the only one who was so happy to see this. God damn, they play basketball with Obama, that's so cool!
I was so happy I cried . I am a mess
Obama and Hilary toture little children
Imagine the wise stories old man Matt will have. His grandkids will be enlightened
Imagine if old man Matt was still making CZcams videos by then lol
Matt D'Avella old Matt will be in VR sitting in an armcher, giving everyone advice once they call him from the internet into their living room.
@@mattdavella Featureman 2059
I would love to have Matt and Natalie as grandparents.
@@mattdavella If so, I imagine the thumbnails would look pretty close to this videos thumbnail đ
"what do you want to do before you die"
Me: I want to learn how to ride a bike đ
Omg I am not alone I guess đ€đ©
You can do it! I believe in you
@@jean7464 I need that know cuz I have a breakdown. Thank youđ„ș
@@xxxgskhdu oh I'm not alone too :')
Get someone to watch you and prevent you from falling and make sure to start off slow. You can also use training wheels too but I reckon you got it.
I live in Jamaica where crime & violent happens frequently and these person normal gets away with these actions... and that is y it happens so often đ
And I was here thinking đ what do I do before I die and then I searched and I was unsure of what I was looking for and then I saw this and Iâm so glad that I did... Thank you so much I just made my bucket list and I cried see that I have so much things to do, which is so simple and yet I have not done it as yet
Ik no one may not see this message but it felt good to say... ~before I die~âđœđ
WOW. just wow!
Just four likes? whaatt đł
Marissa 9
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Egggggggggggggggggggggg
exactly.
we need to live this life, the only life we have being who we are right now.
âDeath can teach you everything you need to know about livingâ
Gotta write it down and keep it in mind, youâre ispiring man!
It's funny how a single quote can change your perspective on things! I'm with you!!
@@LIFEwithLAM Agreed. "When you Put Yourself first, you put yourself in a position to help others. That's not selfish, that's service!" Most people don't realize that you are no good to anyone if you don't take care of yourself. They only way to pull others over the wall is if you are standing on top of it first. If you try to push from the bottom there is a chance that neither one of you will make it.
LIFE with LAM Sometimes simple things are those which we usually underrate, yet theyâre very valuable!
@@lucaesposito2547 I think that's the main issue nowadays; we look for these major events to bring us happiness but we ignore all of these simple yet meaningful things!!
I'd love to get some feedback from you on some videos I'm creating. It seems like we have a similar mindset!!
LIFE with LAM Yeah I agree with you totally, Iâll definitely check your channel out as soon as I can. Itâs good to have some deep conversations like this bro!
I heard once:
Your life is going towards one directions and thats death , learning how to die is learning how to live.
I was on track meeting all my dreams. I fulfilled my dream to become an attorney. After that, raising kids, after that everything was less terrifying. Those things, career and family, came easy. The others werenât really important, but just bucket items. I was 48 when I started doing really fun stuff, because by then my kids could join me. It turns out was was riskier and more adventurous than a teenage. Extreme waterslide rides, tree climbing, zip lining, hiking, boating, eating individual mini pies at the edge of the California in Big Sur, visit points of interest. My kids couldnât keep up with me, and I drove to all these places! I hope I inspired them in their futures to do the same. It all ended when the scumdemic hit! Ugh đ«. This video reminds me of how stuck we are during these trying times. I still need to white water rafting, camp in Yosemite and the Grand Canyon, the monuments were tore down as my husband and I were planning a vacay for our adult children to visit patriotic points of interest. Itâs so disappointing!
Me: *sees title*
Me: Actually, I will watch ALL of Matt's videos before I die
Already done that :D
Are you challenging me?
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YES!! Collab of dreams. Benâs question and the Buried Life is what inspired us to start Yes Theory. This video was so good đđđ
Love your channel
Woah! So cool! Love your channel. đ„°
Woah didn't think I'd find them here
I WAS LITERALLY THINKING OF THE CORRELATION OF YES THEORY IN THIS VIDEO AND BENS BURIED LIFE....truly humanistic content on both sides that most definitely has the power to cultivate people into extending their hands and back to to the extenders themself!! One bucket list goal of mine is to not only meet you guys but hopefully create with you all...hopefully at a Yes Theory meetup that I will attend in the future, or start by myself with ofc the help of others. :) Wishing you all well and hopefully, one of your team members can see this post.
Best,
Diego Payan
Thank you for making this video. I work as a nurse and I have a little family I look after. I've always wanted to learn about photography and videography but "life" always gets in the way. Last year I started making youtube videos. I was incredibly nervous and embarrassed and didn't even showed my face during my first few videos. My husband knows about it and is very supportive, but I don't even have the courage to tell my parents and other families just yet. I definitely have goals as part of my bucket list for my channel. This has given me a different perspective. What an amazing, timely video. Thank you for sharing it to us.
I have trouble and I suffer from depression because I keep thinking about my parents, siblings, and friends dying and my dying. This video made me feel a little better
"IÂŽll save this video for later."
Dies in the next hour
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The thought of death used to scare me. It wasn't until I decided to live that I overcame that fear. No matter what happens after death, my life-story is what will live forever.
I totally agree!! To live in fear of death isn't really living at all!
@@LIFEwithLAM I like your channel.
@ricky roach kinda hard to be "forgotten" in this digital age. It'll only get better at storing our stories.
@@My.Lifes.Journey I'm so glad!! Just trying to spread messages of positivity and productivity!! :)
There is no need to be scared of death, afterlife is more better than this life .
The drama in this video is more than enough for me ,thanks .
Watching this made me realize that sometime in highschool one of my teachers told the class to make a bucket list. I remember that one of the things on my list at the time was get my drivers licence. Now, on October 16th 2020, I finally have it. Remembering that just made me get a little emtional. Next thing, whenever its safe again, I wanna travel to a few spots in Europe. Although this time, I wont be alone. Because I have a really good partner to do it with.
Go kingđ€Ž
me: *reads title* well I'm not going to do it after
I literally almost spit out my coffee. I don't know you but I like you.
Me: Okay I want to go to Iceland and sleep under the Northern Lights
My bank balance: No
That's also on my list! Keep grinding, bro, it will happen :)
Once you get to Iceland youâll absolutely fall in love with the country.......trust me xx
that was the craziest goal that i've ever seen
Then save up and make it happen
Try to find work at a farm in Iceland
Achieving a good body, starting a business, help as many people as possible. Change and inspire the world.
Murderer: THIS IS THE LAST MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE, WHATS YOUR DYING WISH
ME: Wait, let me just watch this video-
"We're all going to die" SPOILERS
You first warn "spoilers", and then you spoiler, not vice versa!!!!!
Ivan ĐĄhailakhov whoops sorry!! đ€Łđ
Not for Keanu Reeves. He is immortal.
-Me :ready to die...
-Matt: "watch this before you die"
-Me : ok
Kermit the frog lmbo
Now you can go mah friend
O K
-Me: finishes video
-Me: dies
Donât die, bro
Mr. Obama walking out in the court was like an OMG moment! Loved this video. I will make a bucket list of my own now.
3:00 That's not human nature, that's social structure and "programming".
As a Fitness Trainer and Coach, the tips (~6:00) about writing it down and articulating details of how it will be accomplished are priceless.
Man lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived
So true man
@Random Guy Hahaha I bet it will actually :D greetings my friend
Phone bad book good
@Random Guy freaking 24 minutes
True story!
You are 42% more likely to accomplish everything you want in life if you never check the CZcams comments section from this moment forward.
Amy Novun ???
everything i want in life is to check yotube comments for the rest of my life
Checking comments saves time since you donât have to watch the whole video
If you're reading this comment you failed
Can we see some documentation on that?
Matt DâAvella: âWatch this video before you dieâ
Me:*clicks on video*
Matt DâAvella: âyou are going dieâ
... damn
I made a "before I die bucket list" in 2014 and I had forgotten about it. As I was watching this video I had a look at it and realized I have ticked off 24 the activities I had written
"life is what happens when you're busy making other plans"
Iâm watching this in a hospital where people are on their deathbeds... coincidence, I think not.
Matt, I had watched this video back in 2019. It shook me.
I wrote down the thing that I wanted to do. It was a scary challenge that I had given myself. And I did it.
And it actually made me realise that 'I can do anything'... 'anything'.
I am rewatching this video today, thinking of how much that realisation has helped me in the last 3 years.
Thank you for making the video Matt
And cheers to Ben for sharing this.
Before I die I want to have my own children and love a man that also really loves me.
You'll find someone soon, trust me. Remember to be your own kind and loving self.
woahhhh is no one going to talk about how he literally played basketball with OBAMA . like there is no other president that i can think of that would do that.
damn, and all Trump did was play the middle class lmao
the canadian one, apparently he met up with yes theory and did something
And how they all wore shirt, pants and ties to play! That tickled me. Its like I'm meeting the president so I need to dress smart but maybe I'll leave the jacket off so I can play ball đ
I was looking thru the comment section for this one comment. Bcuz honestly that was the only thing in the video that caught my attention
The president of Ireland would, he's always doing stuff like that
In counselling, there's one called the existential therapy.
What does it do?
It does therapy about existential crisis :)
I hope it's clever now
From Psychology Today:
_Existential therapy focuses on free will, self-determination, and the search for meaning_
www.psychologytoday.com/intl/therapy-types/existential-therapy