Bitter & Lonely Black Women Cry For Diversity Because A White Man Dates White Women

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  • @NorweskiDrwal
    @NorweskiDrwal Před rokem +309

    Yo Leon! Stop the fucking banter at the beggining of your videos. The sexiest potato, frying pan and ventriliquist crap gets old.
    I agree with a lot of what you say, you use common sense, but bro, i can’t watch your videos anymore because the litany at the entry point got old (can’t skip it - i am too spectrally neurotic - i HAVE to watch the whole thing :D)

    • @RuinedLeon
      @RuinedLeon  Před rokem +940

      Ima make that shit longer now

    • @lmoore3567
      @lmoore3567 Před rokem +75

      @@RuinedLeon lol

    • @TXVivir
      @TXVivir Před rokem +53

      @@RuinedLeon lol! Love the humor! Love your content!

    • @HoldYourBreat4
      @HoldYourBreat4 Před rokem +28

      The beginning of this video with Leon’s rant of titles is the reason I won’t make this guy a regular watch

    • @mikemontgomery2654
      @mikemontgomery2654 Před rokem +58

      Leon is a natural born, public speaker, monetizing who he is and what he does. Don’t hate him for going out and getting his bag.

  • @GuranPurin
    @GuranPurin Před rokem +1881

    Black women: White men make us feel uncomfortable :(
    Black women: WHY WON'T WHITE MEN DATE US 😡😡😡

    • @cherryhazard8002
      @cherryhazard8002 Před rokem +345

      Lol yes. They complain about "fetishization" When a white, Hispanic or even a black guy hits on them but then get pissed when the guy doesn't pay attention to them anymore.

    • @kcirtapelyk6060
      @kcirtapelyk6060 Před rokem +198

      @@cherryhazard8002 And yet they wonder why nobody likes them

    • @kuramayoko23
      @kuramayoko23 Před rokem

      I don't think a white guy would have a problem asking out a black/Hispanic/asian woman if it weren't for the fact that "their (white men's) existence makes them uncomfortable."

    • @starr2shine738
      @starr2shine738 Před rokem +155

      @@kcirtapelyk6060 It's like the epitome of female stereotype.
      "I hate thing"
      "Wait...why does nobody do thing anymore?"

    • @LiberalsRuinEverything.
      @LiberalsRuinEverything. Před rokem +21

      @@kcirtapelyk6060 exactly!!!

  • @vfnxjcjcujenxncjdzx
    @vfnxjcjcujenxncjdzx Před rokem +167

    "they're all the same girl" = "race is who you are" - the black community literally cannot see anything but race.

    • @stanhunt8543
      @stanhunt8543 Před rokem

      They're obsessed with it and are easily the most racist demo in the country

    • @E.C.2
      @E.C.2 Před rokem +4

      👍👍👍

    • @wateriswet02
      @wateriswet02 Před rokem +22

      It's because they, black Americans, internalized their race into their core identity.
      They made what they are, into who they are. So once the traits, mannerisms, beliefs, way of life was cemented for them.
      Any other way would be consider "not being black" or "uncle Tom" like.
      Thus making it incredible hard to change themselves. And any that do get outed and ostracized within the community. Making sure that they cannot effect others and show them a different path.
      They only see race because for the most of them, that is the lens by which they revolve their whole decision making around and perspectives of others.

    • @--Traveler--
      @--Traveler-- Před rokem +3

      @@wateriswet02 i disagree.
      I humans by default are tribal.
      there is no such thing as racism. only tribalism.
      humans are far more simple and naive than they themselves believed.

    • @paccawacca4069
      @paccawacca4069 Před rokem

      It's how they are raised.
      Black kids are given "the talk" about cops shooting black people or something, even though there is literally zero evidence for that happening.
      They are taught to see color.

  • @eliezerrr
    @eliezerrr Před rokem +132

    Us Black women need to do better and stop worrying who’s someone’s preference is. It’s their life, why force them to like us just to make us feel validated😭🤦🏾‍♀️.

    • @TG5455
      @TG5455 Před rokem +6

      Amen...I completely agree with you, everybody has a preference, and it doesn't matter if it's a black man is with a black/white/yellow/brown/mix woman or man, or a black woman is with a black/white/yellow/brown/mix woman or man. It's this ❤ that matters more than anything in this world.

    • @Alaskanman
      @Alaskanman Před 11 měsíci +9

      I feel bad you all have to deal with the negative stereotype thanks to the unstable women

  • @thomasprogli3372
    @thomasprogli3372 Před rokem +50

    "They all look the same" 😶
    Say you are a racist by not saying you are a racist.

  • @frododiddledeebipedybopedy9840

    When Black women say "they all look the same", it's stunning and brave,; yay diversity.
    When a White person says "they all look the same", it's evil Neeezi racism that must be eliminated with extreme prejudice.

    • @sleepy_koko
      @sleepy_koko Před rokem +23

      Honestly, if you make a group of the the same hair color, same skin color/race and asked to pick out someone you saw once, you would not
      If one of those people is your best friend or SO, you would find them in a heartbeat,
      It isn't racist to not be able to tell people you don't know apart, it is racist to say they all look the same but other races look different

    • @mynamesbeans1573
      @mynamesbeans1573 Před rokem +3

      True

    • @toadstars
      @toadstars Před rokem +18

      Hypocrisy at its finest

    • @BangBang-hk4rg
      @BangBang-hk4rg Před rokem +5

      Nailed it 👍

    • @kayeruss7313
      @kayeruss7313 Před rokem +42

      @@sleepy_koko The women ranged from blondes to brunettes and all the color ranges within, as well as different skin tones, eye colors, hair styles and fashion choices. Some were of a similar look as one would normally find in a group of 50 men or of 50 women, but to say they all looked alike is just bigotry.

  • @kuramayoko23
    @kuramayoko23 Před rokem +1876

    "They all look the same."
    Isn't...isn't that basically racism? Or is it not racist because a black woman said it?
    I'm not dating an obese woman or if she looks anorexic. But if their personality is crap, there's nothing happening after that first date or interaction even if they're my definition of perfect.

    • @itsthesoup11
      @itsthesoup11 Před rokem +98

      Glad I wasn't the only one who thought that.

    • @Ninnjette-
      @Ninnjette- Před rokem +238

      Yet black women have no problem wearing white women hair. Literally...

    • @kuramayoko23
      @kuramayoko23 Před rokem +154

      @@Ninnjette- or want to go after a white woman who "appropriates" a black woman's hairstyle. "She's going to wear cornrows?! But she's white!!" Yet if I remember the video correctly, she had obviously dyed her hair blonde.

    • @fionna_cool_girl
      @fionna_cool_girl Před rokem +121

      @@kuramayoko23 my boyfriend (who's white) asked some of our guy black friends in gaming club "your hair is so cool. How'd you guys get it to look like that?" And they just said "it's just our natural hair really. Our hair is just different and needs to be kept up different. I think it's cool when white people have their hair similar to ours though" no snide remarks, no judgement for my boyfriend asking a kind and simple question. Y'know... People having a normal conversation! Hair is not meant to be gatekeeped

    • @theworldmayneverknow3876
      @theworldmayneverknow3876 Před rokem

      50+ years from now, it'll be categorized as racism in the history books but rn it's profitable to businesses and political parties to keep us divided so nothing's gonna change in regards to that for now

  • @donaldduck5358
    @donaldduck5358 Před rokem +218

    Dated a girl in highschool when I was a freshman. She was black, I was white. It was absolutely amazing, she was so nice and caring and whenever she would have problems I'd always be there to help her out. Until one day, bunch of black kids (mostly women) found out and called me a slave owner, an abuser, a racist. It got so bad that she broke up with me because she didn't want me to get bullied for the rest of my life.
    I could have sworn MLK Jr didn't fight for petty rivalries..

    • @bjrock1235
      @bjrock1235 Před rokem +5

      You guys shouldn’t have let those hating people get in the way of your relationship, should’ve just ignored them or told them off.

    • @baboytablo5735
      @baboytablo5735 Před rokem +18

      @@bjrock1235 easier said then done. Life is not like the movies.

    • @faithwisdom788
      @faithwisdom788 Před rokem +31

      Ever thought perhaps they were jealous of her?

    • @donaldduck5358
      @donaldduck5358 Před rokem +18

      @@bjrock1235 It was bad. I wish I could explain without CZcams censoring everything I say but. Trust me.. It got. Bad.

    • @donaldduck5358
      @donaldduck5358 Před rokem +26

      @@faithwisdom788 They definitely were. We still talk so hopefully some day we get back into the swing of things. Just, incognito obviously, lol.

  • @mojojojo560
    @mojojojo560 Před rokem +206

    I can't even wrap my brain around the level of entitlement necessary for a person to not only think it's okay for them to have an opinion about a complete strangers dating preferences... but to also be comfortable enough to call that stranger out on a public platform for those personal preferences. Genuinely blown away.

  • @glennearl5621
    @glennearl5621 Před rokem +725

    Creepy.
    The fact that they feel they are entitled to judge which females this male chooses to date.
    Very, very, creepy.

    • @drteeththeterror
      @drteeththeterror Před rokem +63

      A lot of BW are like this.

    • @silentheroalphaking551
      @silentheroalphaking551 Před rokem +33

      It's got to be some kind of psychosis or something right?

    • @Tzizenorec
      @Tzizenorec Před rokem +4

      That first woman that popped up (at 2:09) had a completely fair criticism, though. She didn't act like it was a problem that he dated all those women; she just thought he shouldn't be acting like it was an interesting experiment, because the women he dated weren't representative of the state he was visiting at all.

    • @roygbiv9038
      @roygbiv9038 Před rokem

      Because they can only try to convince themselves that they’re “melanated queens”, and that other women want their features for so long before reality catches up.

    • @thatboymeak
      @thatboymeak Před rokem

      You actually could make a pretty good argument for group psychosis and I already believe it’s relatively true among many young black people.
      It’s why these same people think you can’t be racist to white people or that if you speak/act a certain way you’re not black anymore.
      They’d all have the exact same answer for every question.
      It’s also just slave mentality when you break it down.

  • @TheAcadianGuy
    @TheAcadianGuy Před rokem +210

    My wife is Asian and there are some women accusing me of having a fetish just because I am a White man.
    I always answer them with this : if it is a fetish, at least my fetish has allowed me to find a life partner for 15 years and married 10 years.

    • @JSainte17
      @JSainte17 Před rokem +24

      I'm a White woman who's mostly dated only White dudes, because, that's what surrounded me.
      Later on I was introduced to Asian men and was like, "WOW". It's not a fetish, I just never was exposed to them before as my upbringing was mostly White with some Black, Hispanic and Arab.
      I dated all of them, but there were no Asians in my area in the south side of Chicago. It's just that once I saw them my heart just fluttered. lol

    • @matthewcoombs3282
      @matthewcoombs3282 Před rokem

      As a white dude, you cannot win on this. If you don't date women of colour you are racist, if you do you have a fetish. Just keep your nose out of peoples private lives, we all have people we are or are not attracted to or we bond with. I have had a South Asian woman telling me she does not find white men attractive, did I get salty about it? No of course not.

    • @ouroboricscribe3201
      @ouroboricscribe3201 Před rokem +21

      I too have a stable-relationship-with-a-loyal-partner fetish.

    • @simonthedigger2358
      @simonthedigger2358 Před rokem +4

      Yeah I understand that feeling. I get weird looks from people when I’m out with my girlfriend

    • @donaldduck5358
      @donaldduck5358 Před rokem +4

      @@ouroboricscribe3201 No fucking way, same mate!

  • @ButcherBird-FW190D
    @ButcherBird-FW190D Před rokem +30

    I tell you why. It's their HORRIBLE attitudes. That, along with the screaming, yelling, throwing fits, etc.

    • @medusavee8649
      @medusavee8649 Před 3 měsíci

      It is interesting that you say that such "attitudes" are exclusive to Black women alone and disproportionately so , when such " attitudes" exist in women and all people in general, look at the "Karens" as an example, but you seem to only be concerned about this when it comes to Black women and you pretend that your distorted perspective is a fact as if it can scientifically be generalisable to an entire population of Black women in America and even around the world. Bad and good people exist in all demographics but you seem to pretend that this is only Black women as if don't you have skeletons in your closet.This is certainly Anti-Black bias because instead of appropriately criticising the lady in the video, you went to spew your nonsense.
      But what I can certainly tell that you have AUDACITY to say such vile things, the ARROGANCE to act as if you are any better, which based off of this comment, you certainly are not when it comes to morals and the FOOLISHNESS to assert such biases as facts.

  • @francoaletto192
    @francoaletto192 Před rokem +12

    I watch your channel as much as possible. I am a 67-year-old white male born in Naples Italy. I think you are a very intelligent human being and I would be proud to have you as my son.

  • @calvinbrownjr.6912
    @calvinbrownjr.6912 Před rokem +635

    Lmao watching black women go from “we don’t need anyone” to “why won’t anyone love us” has to be the craziest 180

    • @saltator8565
      @saltator8565 Před rokem +24

      They are so down bad bruh. Poor things.

    • @wokeasf6048
      @wokeasf6048 Před rokem +21

      Welp logic doesn't mix with feelings

    • @viletoxxie
      @viletoxxie Před rokem +22

      cognitive dissonance

    • @valuecalc
      @valuecalc Před rokem +12

      Calvin, some women try too hard to reject guys, and then they get upset when the loneliness becomes too tough to handle.

    • @madhatter9001
      @madhatter9001 Před rokem +6

      No late, they need to get a cat.

  • @quinnlovescats
    @quinnlovescats Před rokem +887

    To say that they’re “all the same girl” just because they’re the same race is so disrespectful. They are all individuals with different lives and different aspirations and different minds. Good lord

    • @frankvonfrauner
      @frankvonfrauner Před rokem +98

      It was more about none of them being fat and ugly.
      There were a few that were clearly not white, but they consciously ignored that to make their point.
      People tend to date within their race, and women pick men on dating apps, not the other way around.
      Why aren't the non-white women picking him?

    • @ianhopkins7457
      @ianhopkins7457 Před rokem +79

      no its simply racist, if its was the other way round everybody would be screaming what a racist. so it can be none other than racist, and this is the problem not calling it for what it is

    • @missn4409
      @missn4409 Před rokem +1

      I Live in a very diverse country and I totally can say that those girls are not the same. The BW are just bitching for no reason

    • @leoallan2225
      @leoallan2225 Před rokem +1

      Shes a undercover Hater, thats why a white guy won't date her.

    • @cosmic-creepers9207
      @cosmic-creepers9207 Před rokem +66

      There is far greater variety between Caucasians than Africans, that’s the funniest part.

  • @hollyebn
    @hollyebn Před rokem +17

    Why do these people care about who anyone else dates? You don’t like what he is doing? He isn’t in your life!!! Social media…grrrrr! You are so so right on every point! Thank you.👏🙏

  • @Redneck_Hero
    @Redneck_Hero Před rokem +5

    White man dates white women. Black women most affected

  • @anniefranks6881
    @anniefranks6881 Před rokem +206

    I’m old enough to remember when a woman would have been extremely embarrassed if anyone knew her insecurities & jealousy🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @johnserosanguineous1886
      @johnserosanguineous1886 Před rokem +24

      But ma'am... content. Like DUH! How else is she gonna get 50 bagillion views and a spot on the next e-celeb collab BS show?

    • @powwowtrip5748
      @powwowtrip5748 Před rokem

      I’m old enough to remember when if your child had a d d you would not run around and tell everyone that’s why your kids a brat. If your kid can focus on a video game or phone they don’t have anything wrong with them. Your just a lazy parent.

    • @E.C.2
      @E.C.2 Před rokem +10

      👍 Both good comments.

  • @jack604
    @jack604 Před rokem +447

    As as non black man, I personally find the look and physique of black women very attractive, but their ideology and beliefs and reactions to situations scare me

    • @BillyraycyrusIII
      @BillyraycyrusIII Před rokem +71

      They have the most masculine behavior out of the races. Which is a plus for the men, not so much for the "ladies".

    • @CasaUwU
      @CasaUwU Před rokem +18

      As an Asian guy: Black girls are beautiful. Just don't be mean, eat cake, and feed them (with good food you heathens).

    • @rachelciel3330
      @rachelciel3330 Před rokem +97

      You mean, Black woke AMERICAN women? Black african women are amongst the strongest but the sweetest type of people.

    • @medusavee8649
      @medusavee8649 Před rokem +44

      Not every Black woman is like this, and such generalisations are racist because this behaviour is not exclusively limited to Black women (whether in America or around the world)- there are many crazy SJW of other races genders etc. Just say it’s the ones that you have encountered. Especially the comment of the “most masculine behaviour out of all races’” because again, this is not representative of Black women as a whole nor is it limited to Black women; there are masculine women of every race.
      You just need to strategize on how to find the Black women with the traits, personality and other characteristics that you like. Also, Kris C’s comment would certainly work.

    • @yami2828
      @yami2828 Před rokem +46

      As a black man i can tel you us black fellas also feel that way about half if not most at this point in time. And they tend to be very argumentative

  • @cocaina4870
    @cocaina4870 Před rokem +14

    *Deep sigh* I really wish she wouldn’t have made that response video. We all don’t feel that way, most of us don’t even care in real life

    • @medusavee8649
      @medusavee8649 Před rokem +4

      The issue is people that are foolish enough to look at a video or take their experiences and make assumptions on a population as a whole

  • @Dremooa
    @Dremooa Před rokem +2

    I don't find black women attractive, if she doesn't find white men attractive I'm not going to even think twice about it.

  • @salleymudd5488
    @salleymudd5488 Před rokem +741

    I'm a black woman and about 97% of the men I've dated are white and I've only dated one black man.
    Idk what it is with black women and trans women "demanding" that men date them. You really don't get to control ppls preferences boo. Take the L and move along.
    Unless you're trying to date him yourself, why do you care what his type is?
    Maybe stop being loud, demanding, aggressive, emasculating, race obsessed, hyper sensitive, boujie, self-absorbed "queens" and try a little softness and humility and you won't be on so many dude's "no-wifey" list.
    Black women do it to ourselves always pushing this "strong black woman" image which in the 21rst century really just means *"Loud, rude, vulgar, confrontational, socially inept, bossy, material, inpatient, and ready to belittle and replace a man the first time he disappoints us".* And we strut around flexing those characteristics like its some kind of badge of honor then wonder why all the good men run the other way. There's nothing "Strong" about being an unlikable b*tch that nobody wants to deal with.
    Most secure, strong heterosexual men aren't trying to be with a woman he has to fight and compete with like another dude.
    And you cant be one of these "I don't need no man" black women then complain when you don't get one, smdh.
    Men like to feel needed. It's their biological imperative to provide and protect and if they feel they can't serve in that capacity in your life they'll move on. And the men you WILL get will be the ones who DON'T have the drive to provide and protect and who are more than happy to lay up in your house letting a "strong black woman" take care of them while they beat on you or cheat on you.
    So be careful what you wish for and the image you put out there because youre gonna attract the men you dont want and repel the ones you want.

    • @justcausee
      @justcausee Před rokem +53

      dayum girl go off. That second paragraph phew that would ruffle some feathers.

    • @biancabettger5088
      @biancabettger5088 Před rokem +34

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Well said!

    • @ripvanwinkle2002
      @ripvanwinkle2002 Před rokem +1

      this should be a handout in every school for every young women
      its not just black women
      so many women of every color and kind, have this same attitude here.. Strong female= combative, unlikeable, bitch.
      if only this could be in a "how to" book for girls when they hit dating age...

    • @austyn5004
      @austyn5004 Před rokem +38

      Kevin Samuel's has a CZcams channel with him on Lives tearing into the modern day black woman. It's AMAZING how these women think that they can get a high value man making 6 figures while they have 3 kids from different dads and a GED. 10/10 recommend

    • @anthonyrowlodge5357
      @anthonyrowlodge5357 Před rokem

      I love it when women say "Men are just intimidated by me" when in reality, no rational thinking man will date them and only the "desperate losers" they complain about will.

  • @toscadonna
    @toscadonna Před rokem +208

    “They all look the same,” except that they all have different hair color, eye color, height, shape of nose and face, etc. Not sure how it’s okay to be racist AND to LIE about these white women is mind boggling.

    • @kcirtapelyk6060
      @kcirtapelyk6060 Před rokem +41

      It’s all about projection and envy

    • @stanhunt8543
      @stanhunt8543 Před rokem +2

      It's bc they hate you and pretty much always have

    • @amp2193
      @amp2193 Před rokem

      It's called "black privilege". Their racism is acceptable cause of reasons!

    • @MutenRoscher
      @MutenRoscher Před rokem

      @@kcirtapelyk6060 they hate us cuz they aint us

    • @mikemontgomery2654
      @mikemontgomery2654 Před rokem +6

      The question on my mind is, even if he did ask out any black women on those dates, how likely would they be to say yes? The single biggest thing that turns me off asking a black woman anything, let alone a date, is how much shade is going to be thrown my way for simply being white?

  • @llnn1238
    @llnn1238 Před rokem +8

    Your positivity reminded me that I need to be more loving inside my relationship. Thank you.

  • @tylerthegrimm
    @tylerthegrimm Před rokem +130

    Idk I tried dating a black girl and it was weird, for one she never talked. Like I took her on dates to the movies and stuff and I did all the talking, she only answered questions. Like at one point I actually started sweating because I had run out of stuff to say. So four dates. Most boring dates I've ever been on. I tried dating two more black girls after that but I've found that for the most part they are unapproachable, and then the second thing is they would keep bringing up race, and stuff like that. It's creepy, and uncomfortable. I don't like hearing about ethnicity all the time, I don't care about it. I always got along best with Latina women, and found they are the easiest to talk to. So I married a Brazilian woman and she's great.

    • @tylerthegrimm
      @tylerthegrimm Před rokem +18

      @Gazza Boo agreed. There is a universe and beyond of things to talk about. So why care so very much about how dark your skin is? Its gone from boring and annoying to just creepy, and weird.

    • @PeterParker-gz6ml
      @PeterParker-gz6ml Před rokem +5

      Welcome our world, my white brother. Dating black women is almost impossible and extremely difficult. They are not worth your time or your effort.

    • @freesia2252
      @freesia2252 Před rokem +6

      There are Afro Latinas 🤔

    • @Zahra.y7
      @Zahra.y7 Před rokem +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @JensVanDeAarde
      @JensVanDeAarde Před rokem +1

      @@PeterParker-gz6ml
      brah
      95% of todays women are not worth our time
      we have so much more people on the planet than 500 years ago
      but more people equals more f*cked up people too
      more drama
      more of everything
      but the diamonds are rare and most don‘t even want them anymore…

  • @johannderjager4146
    @johannderjager4146 Před rokem +336

    I'm not picky about women when it comes to superficial things like race, but I am EXTREMELY picky when it comes to personality. If you have a personality that conflicts with mine, I won't give you the time of day. People need to quit whining about things like race or se×uality.

    • @snipes503
      @snipes503 Před rokem +31

      Back in high school a girl told me she wasn't into black guys and I won't pretend my 15 year old feelings didn't take a small hit. But I just shrugged it off and looking back on it she wasn't even being mean. You can't control what other people want so just get over it. I also never had a racial preference and I don't think it's weird if someone does.

    • @MasterLittica
      @MasterLittica Před rokem +17

      @@snipes503 People tend to take thing far too personally even when they know it wan't meant that way
      It is a sign of growing up when you can move past that immediate response and not lash out

    • @marybean2231
      @marybean2231 Před rokem +5

      @@snipes503 My boyfriend is like this. I'm more personality oriented myself but no non-white people have been romantically interested in me (just friends!) So, even though my dating history is plain white bread, you never know. Maybe the video guy got turned down by a black woman he asked out. We never would know!

    • @andresanguianozuniga6798
      @andresanguianozuniga6798 Před rokem +1

      Me too.

    • @StarboyXL9
      @StarboyXL9 Před rokem +1

      >race
      >superficial
      Tell me you have no idea how genetics work without actually telling me. Read a book ffs.

  • @kristinholden4334
    @kristinholden4334 Před rokem +432

    But if he only dates black women they would have a problem with that too. Imagine being so upset with someone else’s dating preferences that have no bearing on your life. Geez.

    • @chimyshark
      @chimyshark Před rokem +92

      And if he dates a couple black girls, they'll be like "Oh, she light-skinned" (jealous) or "he just included one token black girl" (dismissive) or "get it gurrrlll" (dominating white men). There is NO HOPE for this guy getting any praise or acceptance for dating either none, all, or a few black girls...

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Před rokem +55

      Or the classic feminist "white saviour complex" diagnosis

    • @pyro1047
      @pyro1047 Před rokem +45

      I've already seen it plenty of times, white guys getting blasted and accused of having an ulterior motive for dating black women. Usually accusing him of having some racist reason for doing so.
      Blows my mind.

    • @ConsumptiveSoul
      @ConsumptiveSoul Před rokem

      Black woman get mad at black guys not dating black women if more black women date more non-black men but they don’t want to

    • @lollipopsfordays3610
      @lollipopsfordays3610 Před rokem +55

      He’d be accused of ‘fetishizing black bodies’ lol. It’s legitimately impossible to make these types of miserable people happy, they love complaining too much

  • @Incessuserro
    @Incessuserro Před rokem +4

    Jealousy masquerading as wokeness.

  • @RedsHitpostMedia
    @RedsHitpostMedia Před rokem +4

    Im a simple man i want simple things
    1. Be smart
    2. Be pretty
    3. Work
    4. MOST IMPORTANTLY BE KIND WITH NO RATCHET.

  • @thelemol2083
    @thelemol2083 Před rokem +389

    It's so sad that we have to explicitly state "date whomever you want - BUT NOT KIDS" because we used to to assume no one would ever make that argument.

    • @johnnyappleseed5590
      @johnnyappleseed5590 Před rokem

      Yeah and sadly democrats are now into kids, guess they have been for many years. Disgusting and evil!

    • @ssjwes
      @ssjwes Před rokem +16

      Yeah sad times

    • @jeffzeiler346
      @jeffzeiler346 Před rokem

      Yeah, it's damn angering that sickos are knocking on the door of the alphabet house, whining to be let in. But this is the world we find ourselves in.

    • @themysteriousdomainmoviepalace
      @themysteriousdomainmoviepalace Před rokem +18

      You're right. Not that long ago it was unthinkable

    • @johnnyappleseed5590
      @johnnyappleseed5590 Před rokem +25

      @@themysteriousdomainmoviepalace it’s still unthinkable outside of political leftist ideology.

  • @teddybearisms2505
    @teddybearisms2505 Před rokem +656

    'll be honest and this is from personal experience. Its hard to find black women who wants to be women. I don't go on second dates with women who want to be a "tough guy". I watch out for people that have a chip on their shoulder. Especially a racial chip. If they can't get through my first date without going on a pollical rant, its usually a bad sign.

    • @LiberalsRuinEverything.
      @LiberalsRuinEverything. Před rokem +71

      That’s true and people have been saying this for decades now and they still get offended and say that it’s not true. Yet people from every race and culture have the same exact opinion.

    • @MirandaSinistra
      @MirandaSinistra Před rokem +79

      There is this weird cultural thing among black women of being afraid to be feminine which I've always found bizarre.
      I found that my relationship with my husband, who is white, is better when I'm more feminine.

    • @lilfairykiki122
      @lilfairykiki122 Před rokem +97

      I have a good amount of very traditionally feminine black female friends and every single one of them is told they are trying to be white by other black women…they are just being girly, its so wild.

    • @thatboymeak
      @thatboymeak Před rokem +66

      I actually had to tell a woman this not long ago.
      Mid date I had enough, threw some money on the table and went to walk off.
      She got upset, stopped me and I told her - “look honey, I’m a straight man, I’m not trying to date another dude and especially not one who tries to act tough on a date. Now you’re a big boy, you’ll get over it”

    • @100organicfreshmemes5
      @100organicfreshmemes5 Před rokem +21

      @@thatboymeak If they're being jerks and go on a political rant on the first date then totally fair, but telling them they're not "acting like a woman" is enforcing gender roles. If you prefer more dainty women that's fine, but their personality doesn't determine if they're a woman or not. There are guys out there who have a thing for tomboys, they're still straight.

  • @nora1925
    @nora1925 Před rokem +5

    Ngl i was crying and stumbled upon your video and your intro legit made me laugh lmao thank you❤️

  • @rosalina2938
    @rosalina2938 Před rokem +7

    Imagine you have the chance to be with someone (maybe your soulmate), have a partner and let yourself be stopped by something as unimportant as Skin Colour.

  • @timkingsemail
    @timkingsemail Před rokem +82

    White guy here - my wife is Asian-American, married 17 years.
    I am officially over the word 'fetish' and have been for QUITE SOME TIME.
    She's my wife, the love of my life. Not a 'kink' of mine.
    OK I'm done. Resume paying attention to the presenter of this video. He rules.

    • @J21822
      @J21822 Před rokem +12

      Everyone knows the people who like to label random stranger’s relationships as fetishes are the ones with the actual fetish. It’s creepy and projecting. Love whoever you want, it’s nobody’s business. As long as it’s consensual lol

    • @BaslightBatekeepBoyboss
      @BaslightBatekeepBoyboss Před rokem +11

      Finally, someone who gets it. My girlfriend is from Korea, and we can't go into public half the time without some bich coming uo and saying I have "Yellow Fever." I love this woman with all my heart, and she loves me twice as much as I love her, I'm convinced kf that. I'm proposing in December. Yellow fever, my ass.

    • @bluetooth2677
      @bluetooth2677 Před rokem +4

      @@BaslightBatekeepBoyboss where do you live? My wife is straight from Vietnam. Never once have I had someone say this to me. But we do get weird looks sometimes.

    • @abbiereynolds8016
      @abbiereynolds8016 Před rokem +1

      Anyone who sees the relationship of someone who they don't even know and calls it a fetish is the one who actually has the fetish. It is not normal to see someone and immediately start thinking of kinky stuff unless you're entertaining those very thoughts yourself. They're basically telling on themselves when they say outrageous things like that.

    • @xjm.00
      @xjm.00 Před rokem

      Asian girls make better wives. Not black girls

  • @timelink3315
    @timelink3315 Před rokem +824

    As a young Black guy growing up in Chicago and Milwaukee, I lost all interest in same race relationships due to girls in school being angry, loud, controlling, combative and just plain mean!

    • @TheKingdied
      @TheKingdied Před rokem +52

      I know exactly what you mean, I grew up in milwaukee's Northside,

    • @hahafunnyman-on5rq
      @hahafunnyman-on5rq Před rokem +84

      Yeah it'd the same reason I haven't dated any black girls. The culture is the biggest turn off. I've just stuck with religious Hispanics

    • @prinz89
      @prinz89 Před rokem +6

      Yep

    • @foxbodyblues6709
      @foxbodyblues6709 Před rokem +10

      I hearing this all over the place…

    • @mullythebully5557
      @mullythebully5557 Před rokem +25

      all of you people are like that💀

  • @LouisTheBassman
    @LouisTheBassman Před rokem +8

    Woman actually said "They all look the same." And meant it... I'm speechless... Which is a big deal if you know me.

  • @GLPitt1
    @GLPitt1 Před rokem +3

    When Nikki Minaj is the voice of reason you really need to look in the mirror and check yourself ladies.

  • @Alyrulz421
    @Alyrulz421 Před rokem +80

    It’s really gross how many people joked about “they all look the same” when if that same comment was made about some other race like a group of Asian girls there would be hell to pay

    • @robertmatthews2009
      @robertmatthews2009 Před rokem

      That's not fair. Asians DO all look alike.

    • @raizen21ss56
      @raizen21ss56 Před rokem

      Hell to pay from white liberals being offended on the Asian girls behave. Most Asian people feel disgust towards the woke crap and would probably brush it off and not care.

    • @lorrainecampbell9202
      @lorrainecampbell9202 Před rokem +1

      True

  • @madmitch3365
    @madmitch3365 Před rokem +75

    Why should they care? How Is this affecting them? I long for the days when people minded their own business.

    • @universalsoldier2293
      @universalsoldier2293 Před rokem +6

      Imagine being this upset about a guy who literally slept with 50 women this year....because he didn't pick them.

    • @kcirtapelyk6060
      @kcirtapelyk6060 Před rokem

      Because despite all of their bashing and complaining about White men, they secretly lust after them and hate that they either cannot attract one or are angry that they’re not White themselves.

    • @LiberalsRuinEverything.
      @LiberalsRuinEverything. Před rokem

      Because many BW are insecure.

  • @Manhandle730
    @Manhandle730 Před rokem +4

    “They all look the same” yes they do. They all look far more attractive than you are.

  • @JustAnotherConspiracyTheorist

    You are smart way beyond your years young man. I salute you and hope your channel soars. Keep up the good work. People are waking up.

  • @kopo7466
    @kopo7466 Před rokem +706

    It's called a preference for a reason. Just because I'm white man who prefers dating white women, it doesn't mean I'm racist, it just means I like what I like. It doesn't stop me from being friends or even friendly with people of different ethnicities, if we get along, we get along. If we don't, we just don't. I could care less what the color of your skin is.

    • @BWolf00
      @BWolf00 Před rokem +1

      I think the black woman with a lip stud was just using the race card as an excuse because the guy didn't seem to date ANYBODY that had a lip stud and no one would care about that.

    • @Gregarian
      @Gregarian Před rokem +35

      Bro u guys feeling the hate they hit black guys with for dating white women now?

    • @CRS-fe2zj
      @CRS-fe2zj Před rokem

      @@Gregarian The thing is for the most part nobody cares about that bro. Atleast not where I'm from. It's become a trend to hate on anything that has to do with white people, it's one of the woke parables. There is always a justification and a way to validate your hate. There's a plethora of historical wrongdoings you can tap on if you end up going out of bounds as a supposed minority.

    • @WoWGirl6
      @WoWGirl6 Před rokem +22

      I feel like I’ve only ever seen the hate directed in one direction. Women are often not criticized for who they choose to date. Not often. But men on the other hand.... I think I might understand why that is. But that’s an even deeper topic.
      I personally think that culture is HUGE factor! And is so very often overlooked. One can be physically attracted to a specific group but not want to date them.

    • @CRS-fe2zj
      @CRS-fe2zj Před rokem

      @@WoWGirl6 That'd 100% true. I've lived with my gf who is black/Mexican the last 5+ years and when I come back home to visit its just completely different. I happen to love who I'm with so it doesn't matter, but one could definitely be in culture shock if they don't have experience with it. I grew up in san diego though so it's one of the more diverse areas, probably helped me lol

  • @JEBPsych
    @JEBPsych Před rokem +158

    So true! Sexual preference is just an inherent/individualist thing. As a white woman, I am more attracted to white men. So what? I have a number of black friends who prefer to date/ marry only black people. I also have a close married interracial couple (woman is black, man is white). LaTasha is only attracted to white men, and her white husband is only attracted to black women. It's just a sexual preference. I wish the left would stay out of people's bedrooms.

    • @stevechurch4728
      @stevechurch4728 Před rokem

      you're kidding, the left stay out of things, not a chance,they have to poke their nose into all aspects of your life because everything is politics . this they tell us constantly, everything must be their choice to involve themselves in and one day have a fully taxpayer funded government department( with only left wing staff too) issue rules you have to follow on pain of instant death should you defy them.

    • @JEBPsych
      @JEBPsych Před rokem +6

      @@stevechurch4728 Ok. I do understand your point, but that's normally more waaaaay right wing versus most of conservatives. By the way, I'm straight but have supported gay marriage since my late teens, so my comment had nothing to do with that. Just a clarification. Anyway, the far left are consistently talking about sexuality every hour of every, pushing their sexual beliefs on everyone and if you don't agree with them, prepare yourself for being called every (fill in the blank)-phobic name in the English language. I can't believe you don't see it. Have a blessed day, and hopefully this clarifies my comment for you. ✌

    • @hellomikie92
      @hellomikie92 Před rokem +8

      It's your life not theirs. Nobody should tell you who to date. They can complain, but that's all they can do legally.

    • @Talon18136
      @Talon18136 Před rokem +1

      @@JEBPsych I guess that dude deleted his comment but the majority of people in the country really the world are not part of the gay community they are a small part of the world population so really it’s not important to include them I saw nothing wrong with your original comment and just wanted to say I agree with your point have a blessed day

    • @Dark_Harmony
      @Dark_Harmony Před rokem

      I wish the right would stay out of people's uteruses. That being said, I'm not left. Two wrongs don't make a right.

  • @444truthteller
    @444truthteller Před rokem +4

    Brad is in his own community dating his own women. He doesn’t hate himself like black men so of course he’s not going to date black women. His first pick is his own woman that HE made the standard of beauty in society.

  • @kristijanjovanovic4131

    Man your video is spot on, keep up the good work

  • @officerbucktuddrussel394
    @officerbucktuddrussel394 Před rokem +148

    Isn't dating preferences the whole basis for the LGB community? So by this woman decrying preferences isn't she being homophobic?

    • @andrewbryant4558
      @andrewbryant4558 Před rokem +28

      I've seen this all over the LGBT dating sites. Someone says 'just my preference', and someone else comes back with "preference = racist". Yet these same bitter ass bitches don't want this, or don't want that, and get rude if you don't fit their preference. Personally, I never say what I don't want. If someone outside my range tries to get at me, I just don't respond...

    • @liljared711
      @liljared711 Před rokem

      @@andrewbryant4558 same here

    • @madtabby66
      @madtabby66 Před rokem +19

      LGB need to walk away from the alphabet club.

    • @J21822
      @J21822 Před rokem +7

      @@madtabby66 a lot of us are starting to

    • @Willowy13
      @Willowy13 Před rokem

      Whitephobic. Heterophobic.

  • @ianyoder2537
    @ianyoder2537 Před rokem +326

    "You just dated the same girl in every single state."
    That's some Saturday morning cartoon PG acceptable racism right there.

    • @johnserosanguineous1886
      @johnserosanguineous1886 Před rokem +35

      She says that like BW women haven't been dating Lil Wayne but with a slightly different face for the past 10 years.

    • @sonofthebearking3335
      @sonofthebearking3335 Před rokem +2

      😂

    • @johnself6435
      @johnself6435 Před rokem +3

      I PREFER EURASIANS. FRENCH viet nam mix . My wife is white. I find her sexier than my general preference

    • @ssu7653
      @ssu7653 Před rokem +4

      Its the exact same as claiming all asian or all black look the same. at least these girls ranged from white to black hair (nobody claim black/white look the same :P)

    • @bryantpatterson312
      @bryantpatterson312 Před rokem +9

      German women, French women, Russian women, and Canadian white women are all the same because they're white despite having different cultures. The same can be said for women in different states. Too bad the woman in the video can't see anything other than color.

  • @NovRen19
    @NovRen19 Před rokem

    Probably one of the best introductions we have heard in a whole year. Absolutely brilliant description!

  • @miguelperez9906
    @miguelperez9906 Před rokem +53

    Less than a year ago we get articles yelling about how dating outside your race is racist now dating within your race is racist meaning if well everything is racist then nothing is.

    • @jannett4333
      @jannett4333 Před rokem +1

      Still people get on ones dating out side their race.. I'm exspeirence it again

    • @johnserosanguineous1886
      @johnserosanguineous1886 Před rokem +3

      It only flows in one direction. I.e. the direction of the "oppressed."
      BM must date BW.
      BW can date whomever they want
      WM must date BW
      WW must date WM
      LBG must date T
      T can date whomever they want

    • @notme1639
      @notme1639 Před rokem +3

      @@johnserosanguineous1886 don't forget a WM is phobic if he doesn't date a T

    • @lorraineakers8147
      @lorraineakers8147 Před rokem

      I'm so tired of the word racist ? It's been used so many times for basically anything, it's lost all meaning !

  • @cornpop7176
    @cornpop7176 Před rokem +401

    It's crazy how you can be open about your love for interracial dating, but if you prefer your own race you must remain silent or deny your preference all together to avoid the dreaded "racist" label

    • @gamingforever9121
      @gamingforever9121 Před rokem +26

      Corn pop was a bad dude MANN COME ONNN

    • @fritzthecat8158
      @fritzthecat8158 Před rokem +58

      Thats why all of us literally need to not care if we are called racist. They don't care if you call them racist sooooo fuck it lol

    • @kcirtapelyk6060
      @kcirtapelyk6060 Před rokem

      It’s only White people who are shamed for preferring our own kind.

    • @Btobebone
      @Btobebone Před rokem

      unless you're white, if you actively want to date anything but white a lot of them will screech about it being a fetish

    • @awsome182
      @awsome182 Před rokem +1

      It depends. Some PoC are mad when a white person dates a PoC because they are accused of "stealing their men/women".

  • @finatra8410
    @finatra8410 Před rokem

    May I play this video on my livestream for education purposes, of course. Thank you in advance. Great Job Leon.

  • @justforjacob
    @justforjacob Před rokem

    your hat bouncing around while your head goes back and forth is hilarious.

  • @codychickadee5095
    @codychickadee5095 Před rokem +178

    I don't know what to say here. When you assume everyone hates you for merely existing it's hard to want to reach out. The level of open racism today is batshit and you can't blame any of us for not wanting anything to do with it.
    A black girl would have to approach me, otherwise I'm gonna assume she literally hates me to my core and just move along. Why would I mess with that? This sentiment of pure hatred is very popular with black girls. Even though Nikki was right, you hear how she talks down to guys like me? Why would I sign up for this.

    • @RespectMyAuthoritaah
      @RespectMyAuthoritaah Před rokem +2

      As a White man you will catch a lot of heat for dating a Black woman and that heat will come primarily from the Black community. Apparently as a White man you will catch a lot of heat for not dating a Black woman and that heat will come primarily from the Black community. So damned it you do and damned if you don't. Nice. A no win scenario.

    • @369Sigma
      @369Sigma Před rokem +1

      My ex was a black chick, we were together for 4 years. I ended it because she was cheating. Now she hates white guys, full blown racist, and still blames me for her crappy life and choices. That was years ago.

    • @codychickadee5095
      @codychickadee5095 Před rokem +3

      @@369Sigma damn man glad you got out of there

    • @kcpugh5601
      @kcpugh5601 Před rokem +3

      Honestly, it's one of the reasons why I'm good with being single rn. Why is it that race should matter when it comes to dating? It should be based on who you love and connect with, and if the person happens to have another skin color, or the same, then it should only be the couple's business. Black women and lesbians seem to be the most judgmental people out there to date. I've seen lesbians out there that refuse to date a girl if she has so much as kissed a guy before. People like that need to focus on improving their own lives since they feel the need to control other people's

    • @bjrock1235
      @bjrock1235 Před rokem

      @@kcpugh5601 She’s allowed to want someone who hasn’t gotten physical with guys, that’s her preference.

  • @dawnbrady684
    @dawnbrady684 Před rokem +58

    She had some nerve saying they all look the same and they jump in our schift when we do that. HELL NAW They need a new hobby if that is what they are doing with their time

    • @slee2695
      @slee2695 Před rokem

      Not gonna lie, they do look the same.

    • @madtabby66
      @madtabby66 Před rokem

      To be fair, the white Barbie types all do look alike. Try picking one out of a lineup.

    • @Abionx
      @Abionx Před rokem +6

      @@madtabby66 i can tell the difference even in a line up, hell i can tell k-pop chicks apart also and they looks way more alike then these barbie white chicks do

  • @kman9884
    @kman9884 Před 9 měsíci +1

    “Where is the seasoning”
    It’s there, girl. Salt, pepper, vinegar, garlic, onion, oregano, basil, rosemary, thyme, saffron, paprika, chili powder, etc.
    Black people really think that dumping adobo powder on a piece of dish soap washed chicken is the penultimate seasoning.

  • @janiyawest7023
    @janiyawest7023 Před rokem +2

    These women are angry because they didn't get picked.

  • @Angi3_6
    @Angi3_6 Před rokem +249

    Some of the only reasons someone’s dating preferences should matter to you is if:
    1) you’re into them
    2) it’s illegal
    3) it’s abusive

    • @mallios13
      @mallios13 Před rokem

      Well, if a black girl is pissed that white guys are dating white girls, it's because they want to be with white guys, so they obviously fall under the first on that list.
      They're pissed they're not with the white guys they see with white women. If these white dudes were with women of other ethnicities, they'd say much the same thing. If these guys were with black women, these gals would find the most idiotic way to say, "Why can't that be me?"

    • @michellerichardson1427
      @michellerichardson1427 Před rokem +9

      Brilliant!

    • @tonyh8166
      @tonyh8166 Před rokem +3

      Look, me and my inflatable sheep are none of your business! :P

    • @innocentbystander3317
      @innocentbystander3317 Před rokem

      @@tonyh8166
      That moment where inflatable farm-animals are superior to most women in your dating-pool..

    • @Mycroftsbrother
      @Mycroftsbrother Před rokem +1

      Sorry, but you left out politically correct.

  • @kinabalucat
    @kinabalucat Před rokem +398

    You can't change people's preferences. Just like you can't force a man who love woman to love a trans or another man

    • @akasha6740
      @akasha6740 Před rokem +19

      Exactle preferences are preferences i would rather someone tell me their not attraced to me then feel pressured to date me

    • @zachdugan7320
      @zachdugan7320 Před rokem +3

      DNC : *Challenge Accepted*

    • @heroncolby2842
      @heroncolby2842 Před rokem +2

      @U2Bdewd femboys*

    • @cifsu
      @cifsu Před rokem

      @U2Bdewd ok but this sounds kinda funny lol

    • @desertrat7634
      @desertrat7634 Před rokem +6

      Yah, I think it'd be more creepy if he was pandering by ensuring he dated black women as well, just for the sake of dating black women.

  • @RS-qo1rb
    @RS-qo1rb Před rokem

    Now that’s a intro. Beautiful brother. 🤘🏻🖖🏻

  • @JohnnyButtons
    @JohnnyButtons Před rokem +2

    Loving the Pokémon poster lol, put that in a nice matted frame.

  • @dodieodie498
    @dodieodie498 Před rokem +101

    When did it become weird or unusual for people to just date within their own race? That's how it's been most of the time throughout history. Why are people crabbing about someone being attracted to a certain race or to his own race, which is actually the way most people feel? This whole "racial" diversity crap is now making some people feel so entitled that they think they should be telling other people what races they should be attracted to. Next thing you know, they'll be out there saying there aren't enough mixed marriages, so there should be "marriage equity". What a bunch of ridiculous nonsense.

    • @madtabby66
      @madtabby66 Před rokem +17

      When did who I date become anyone else’s business?

    • @hellomikie92
      @hellomikie92 Před rokem +4

      It's not. They are just saying that because they are jealous of him, and the girls he dates, mostly because they are all better looking then them.

    • @jonsnowight9510
      @jonsnowight9510 Před rokem

      There's nothing at all wrong with wanting your kids and grandkids to look like yourself and your parents. It's what most people actually want, but are afraid to admit in public.

  • @sunneinsplendour8459
    @sunneinsplendour8459 Před rokem +123

    Imagine being so entitled and insecure that you get offended by a stranger on the internet not wanting to date you and then go online, being offended and making it about you? Are y'all okay?

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan Před rokem +4

      "Imagine being so entitled and insecure that you get offended by a stranger on the internet not wanting to date you and then go online, being offended and making it about you?"
      I don't have to imagine, I have A.O.C to do that IRL.

    • @mikloridden8276
      @mikloridden8276 Před rokem

      I honestly feel bad for her, I’m not sure why but there’s something out there that shows couples of certain colors(white males and black males with other woman) are better than you. Everyone else is trash and so such insecurities pop up.

    • @NickM_FirstofHisName
      @NickM_FirstofHisName Před rokem +4

      Imagine if a man had resorted to whining over who a W dates. He'd have been called all kind of loser and pathetic slangs, but a BLK chick can whine about her not receiving affirmative action dating and...

  • @GodIsLove-JesusIsGod
    @GodIsLove-JesusIsGod Před rokem

    This video needs more views. Period.🙌

  • @johannduplessis3467
    @johannduplessis3467 Před rokem

    Never seen your channel before but got to say that intro was hilarious👌🏻

  • @coolboysupreme5487
    @coolboysupreme5487 Před rokem +539

    Date whoever you want to date, but to tell someone they have some kind of irrational fear because they don't want to date with a certain subset of groups. To me it's illogical because what people looking in dating is so variant, and reasons are so variant that's for me so small-minded, narcissistic and sickening of people into inherently reduce someone to some prejudice for reason they'll never understand.

    • @G4M30V3R
      @G4M30V3R Před rokem +26

      Modern dating in a nutshell is a mess.
      It's hard to find people looking for a serious committed monogamous relationship. Lol.
      Too many people want to be "taken care of" among other things.
      Those two requirements in themselves omit a fair amount of people. Lol.

    • @Patrickf5087
      @Patrickf5087 Před rokem +6

      Your right but you should prepare yourself for the acist comments from all sides and hope the families are ok with it

    • @Dvrkwulf
      @Dvrkwulf Před rokem +8

      Exactly, and there’s so many different factors that go into why you have a certain type.

    • @petersullivan3012
      @petersullivan3012 Před rokem +4

      I wonder how long it will be until someone starts to say something is wrong with you if you haven't dated both men and women? I bet it's coming!

    • @countycalling
      @countycalling Před rokem

      These are the same women who would scream if a white woman dated a black man.

  • @lisettes.9598
    @lisettes.9598 Před rokem +120

    As a beautiful Dominican woman, I never expected to be everyone's type. And that was fine with me.

    • @gamingforever9121
      @gamingforever9121 Před rokem +11

      You miss are pretty based!

    • @lisettes.9598
      @lisettes.9598 Před rokem +22

      @@gamingforever9121 love who loves you and be friendly to everyone else is my life's motto.

    • @weirdeurasianboy8091
      @weirdeurasianboy8091 Před rokem +3

      Dominica as in the island that shares a border with Haiti or the other one?

    • @lisettes.9598
      @lisettes.9598 Před rokem +9

      @@weirdeurasianboy8091 yes, Dominican Republic. Full of gorgeous, happy women with the best characteristics of all their diverse gentic ancestors

    • @OrangeMelon419
      @OrangeMelon419 Před rokem +13

      Whats Crazy for me is That there Are a lot of Black Woman cry about it. But there is no Asian or Latino Woman cry about it. Im not from America but Damn i would Not Date a American Woman at all, too much Crazy 😂

  • @rodneyjaynes2485
    @rodneyjaynes2485 Před rokem +2

    Leon, I could spend an evening with you discussing all this. I am 71 and a half, and have a little bit of experience with women. LOL! Oh the fun we could have setting down with a few adult beverages and talking! You are the man!

  • @personreanimation
    @personreanimation Před rokem +12

    Black people have given my wife more grief for being married to a white dude than any other demographic and she is native american....

  • @NotFckingBen
    @NotFckingBen Před rokem +45

    LMAO WAIT! If you pause the video, ~ 2:20 you can tell that the girl from Michigan that he went on a date with isn’t white! This bitter woman is an absolute FOOL. She didn’t even check before whining!

    • @rustyshackleford1062
      @rustyshackleford1062 Před rokem

      Rule number one for people obsessed with race: mixed people are always the race that the race obsessed hates the most, that goes for all racists, white, black yellow what have you.

    • @carlosperalta1714
      @carlosperalta1714 Před rokem

      Even then, her smooth brain wouldn't claim her as black.
      "She's not melanated enough!"

    • @dogevolayot
      @dogevolayot Před rokem

      that's exactly what I was thinking, but I wasn't quite sure. I really think this guy just pick girls that were willing to date him in those states and he wasn't really thinking too much.

  • @cosmic-creepers9207
    @cosmic-creepers9207 Před rokem +3

    The reason these particular women aren’t getting dates is because of their entitlement, insecurity and stinking attitude!

  • @Dovey14
    @Dovey14 Před rokem

    Dude your t-shirt rocks!

  • @liljared711
    @liljared711 Před rokem +144

    This is what happens when a certain demographic of women have been told they are never wrong it’s actually sad in a way for those who bought into it

    • @sonofthebearking3335
      @sonofthebearking3335 Před rokem +3

    • @soundspeachy5140
      @soundspeachy5140 Před rokem

      When have BW not been told we're wrong? If anything BM have been told they are never wrong, everytime yall do some stupid shit like argue with police officers/resisting arrest, yall use white supremacy and racism as scapegoat from accountability. 😮‍💨

  • @markwatton4752
    @markwatton4752 Před rokem +30

    You should make yourself a little badge that says, "Chocolate Thundah"

  • @kimberlybailey754
    @kimberlybailey754 Před rokem +2

    This so-called bitter and lonely black woman gets tired of everyone trashing us. That's what I get bitter about!

    • @mydogghost
      @mydogghost Před rokem

      You can’t defend this tho heck some these women were mix of color well looked like and who cares if he dates white women it’s his life he can do what he wants

    • @medusavee8649
      @medusavee8649 Před rokem +1

      Exactly, and there are a lot of bigoted people here in this comment section who think that it is ok to make such racist and cruel generalisations of Black women as a whole demographic because of the woke crazy ones like the lady in the video, as if there aren't woke crazy women of all races. Then they have the audacity to fix their mouths to say that racism does not exist and that talking about it is the only racism that exists. Who wouldn't be bitter if your whole demographic is constantly painted as horrible people and faces hate because of that. It's tiring having to check such idiots and having to deal with this nonsense. And if they were to even face a tiny bit of the nonsense that is directed at Black women, they would lose their minds or crumble. So many terrible people in this world.
      All I can say is that their actions will bite them in the butt. As a fellow Black woman, do know that you are not alone in facing this nonsense and that your emotions regarding this are justified, and I wish you all the healing, all the success and blessings life has to offer, and anything that can help you in bettering yourself for you, come up with self-love strategies and advocating for yourself and your rights. Your time will surely come. All the best.

  • @lol-ky7fo
    @lol-ky7fo Před rokem +1

    they are 100% jealous!

  • @spudman1734
    @spudman1734 Před rokem +71

    It's become apparent that there's always going to be someone complaining about something. You can't satisfy everyone, so just do you.

  • @rustyshackleford1062
    @rustyshackleford1062 Před rokem +100

    Funny, I was told I was a "craka-assed thief" and that I just wanted a house (black magic nono word that has way to much power as long as the person saying it isn't black) to do my laundry by my a couple of my black girlfriend's cousins when they found out we were engaged. I have a feeling this young woman would be the type to say something similar if the dude was dating someone black that wasn't her.

    • @paulgardner5079
      @paulgardner5079 Před rokem +20

      those chicks just havent been to see John Redcorn about their migraines

    • @phoenixxxashez
      @phoenixxxashez Před rokem

      It's one of those damned if you do date them, damned if you don't. White people can't win.

    • @doomguy19931
      @doomguy19931 Před rokem +9

      Straight up just sounds like they were jealous

    • @nunceccemortiferiscultu7826
      @nunceccemortiferiscultu7826 Před rokem +14

      I got told "you don't f**king own her!" By a black chick's friends when I asked her out on a 2nd date lol.

    • @user-dk7su3lp6e
      @user-dk7su3lp6e Před rokem

      its not the african part. its the american part. americans are gross

  • @kyle3.08
    @kyle3.08 Před rokem

    I just subscribed on the whole merits os this very valid show, here.

  • @damagecase138
    @damagecase138 Před rokem +2

    Not everyone is attractive to everyone

  • @evanmiles533
    @evanmiles533 Před rokem +258

    As a black man myself, I find all races/ethnicities/women in general beautiful. But there are some bitter black women I've been noticing more lately (and bitter people of all races if I'm honest) that are upset that a person simply likes what they like. It ain't that deep and ya ain't that special, we all bleed and die the same and ain't no reason to live ya life bitter because someone else is happy with what they happy wit

    • @AdamArrSquared
      @AdamArrSquared Před rokem +2

      Yes sir!

    • @ADobbin1
      @ADobbin1 Před rokem +12

      They are all bitter. White, black, asian... all of them.

    • @amz7290
      @amz7290 Před rokem +17

      @@ADobbin1 I think it's safe to say that it's just a lot of people in general that are bitter nowadays, no ones happy for themselves so they sure as shit ain't gonna be happy for anyone else init

    • @ADobbin1
      @ADobbin1 Před rokem +3

      @@amz7290 this is true.

    • @blissfulbabybatter
      @blissfulbabybatter Před rokem +1

      Am freaking men Seriously I've seen white women like this now and days seriously who finds these toxic women dating material let alone marriage material

  • @NuclearWinter69
    @NuclearWinter69 Před rokem +53

    My dad has a thing for Asians, I’ve only dated Latina’s but Ive always liked Irish chicks (the accent!) and my brother likes thick white girls. It’s interesting that we all grew up in the same house and all prefer completely different women and none of us have anything to be sorry for.

    • @slee2695
      @slee2695 Před rokem

      Im an Asian man and i have no problem with white men dating Asian women...no offense but they usually go for the ugly ones (by our standards) anyways

    • @generic_tough_guy.4830
      @generic_tough_guy.4830 Před rokem +9

      Ngl the irish accent has got to be the least comprehensible and most interesting/attractive accent possible in human nature. It's not even possible to explain

    • @elettramia6380
      @elettramia6380 Před rokem

      “Big booty Latina”. Americans specifically North Americans need to learn and respect actual and real Latin history and they need to learn and respect the people who are ACTUALLY Historically responsible for the Cultura Latina THE LATIN CULTURE. Indigenous American and mestizo American women with fake butts due to plastic surgery are Not “big booty Latina women”. 🙄THE CULTURA LATINA, THE LATIN PEOPLE, THE LATINO (Latini) TRIBES, THE LATIN ETHNICITY ALL COME FROM ITALY! LATINO IS THE SOLE IDENTITY OF SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA. Latin europe was Latinized by ROME ITALY hence how Latina italy got the name Latina. & HISPANIC (Hispania) is literally the Latin language MEANING SPAIN NOT the NATIVE AMERICANS they Colonized. Latin America got its name SOLELY and ONLY to mean the part of the Americas CONQUERED by LATIN EUROPE and that is all it will EVER MEAN. Latin ORIGIN, HISTORY& people are NON INTERCHANGEABLE. STOP THE CULTURAL THEFT OF MY PEOPLE& OUR ANCESTRY. BRAINWASHED AMERICAN/ MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL APPROPRIATION & CULTURAL THEFT FOR "PROFIT AND GAIN" WILL NEVER BE LATINO. CULTURAL APPROPRIATION EXIST BECAUSE THOSE LIKE YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE AND WILL CONTINUE TO BENEFIT FROM THE CULTURAL THEFT TOWARDS US TRUE LATIN PEOPLE AND OUR HISTORICAL ACCOMPLISHMENTS! AND US TRUE LATINS ARE & HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MULTI GENETICALLY MIXED ETHNIC PEOPLE DUE TO OUR GENETIC CONTRIBUTORS FROM OUR MIDDLE EASTERN (ASIAN), NORTHERN AFRICAN, AND BALKAN GYPSIE DNA. THERE ARE NO "WHITE" LATINS. JUST MORE ASSIMILATION . SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICANS AND MEXICANS ARE NATIVE AMERICANS, MESTIZOS, CASTIZOS, PARDOS, ZAMBOS, AND PURE SUB SAHARAN AFRICANS. NOT LATINS, NOT LATIN BLOOD, THEREFORE NOT LATINO. IN SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICA AND MÉXICO THE ONLY PEOPLE CALLED LATINO AND HISPANIC ARE US SOUTHERN EUROPEANS OF LATIN MEDITERRANEAN ORIGIN. OBVIOUSLY THE SAME IN LATIN EUROPE. PUSHING AND CONTRIBUTING TO BRAINWASHED NORTH AMERICAN MISAPPROPRIATION OF FOREIGN TERMS SUCH AS LATIN/LATINO AS TRENDING PROPAGANDA FOR SOCIAL STATUS TO APPEAR MORE DESIRABLE DOES NOT JUSTIFY THE CONTINUING CONTRIBUTIONS OF CULTURAL THEFT. THE TERM LATINO DERIVES FROM THE TERM LATINI, THE LATINI WHERE THE VERY FIRST LATIN TRIBE TO EXIST FROM ITALY! LATINI IS PLURAL MEANING MORE THAN ONE LATINO! AND LATINO IS SINGULAR FOR LATINI MEANING ONE LATINO. THE SAME WITH LATINA AND LATINE. ALL TERMS CREATED BY THE TRUE LATIN PEOPLE OF ITALY. PUSHING BRAINWASHED AMERICAN MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL RAPE AS A FASHION TREND FOR “PROFIT & GAIN” NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED. YOU CAN NOT BE PART OF AN ORIGIN, HISTORY AND ETHNICITY WHICH YOUR ANCESTORS FACTUALLY ARE NOT HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR.

    • @dothisjohndothatjohn2754
      @dothisjohndothatjohn2754 Před rokem +2

      Mná na hÉireann (Women of Ireland) are beautiful.

    • @NoRockinMansLand
      @NoRockinMansLand Před rokem

      @@generic_tough_guy.4830 idk about that lol latinas sound very sxy but Irish?

  • @5hrimp_Nachos
    @5hrimp_Nachos Před rokem

    Holy shit that was one hell of an intro!!

  • @lees2559
    @lees2559 Před rokem

    Brings this to a whole other level

  • @rs232killer
    @rs232killer Před rokem +32

    TikTok woman: "I think it is fair to say my guy has a type."
    Me: Yes. That is fair. His type is hot women.

  • @dantespicysausage9615
    @dantespicysausage9615 Před rokem +41

    Umh so people having preferences is bad now? Wasn't this the same subset saying dating sistahs and marriage was some kind of en slav ment or something

    • @rustyshackleford1062
      @rustyshackleford1062 Před rokem

      It's just an excuse to be racist, there is no way to win with these people.

  • @MoonSpinners
    @MoonSpinners Před rokem +4

    Nobody can do anything, or say anything that doesn’t offend someone these days. I’m offended by their arseholeyness.

  • @stargazer9172
    @stargazer9172 Před rokem +3

    Most men dont care about dating outside our race or class. If we are interested in the woman it transends whatever social restraints might keep us apart.
    This guy has a type... has me wanting to see Michigan

    • @niamtxiv
      @niamtxiv Před rokem +1

      That's true. Most men of all races don't usually date outside their races. That's just how it is.

  • @anthonywinds8466
    @anthonywinds8466 Před rokem +44

    This has to be the ultimate form of self entitlement. How are you trying to go in on a white man who dates white women? No matter how much weed I smoke, I can't comprehend this!

    • @crypter27
      @crypter27 Před rokem +2

      All women are highly emotional, so you can throw any rational thinking out the window when you're dealing with any woman.

  • @jackinelson655
    @jackinelson655 Před rokem +54

    I’m mixed and the ONLY thing I have to say is - gosh damn they’re all so pretty 😮 some of these women are so bitter and insecure it’s sad

    • @whocares_bear
      @whocares_bear Před rokem +7

      That's the white supremacist in you talking. 🤣

    • @dakota9821
      @dakota9821 Před rokem +4

      @@whocares_bear Stay mad, stay single. Invest in cat food. No one wants uppity.

  • @sharijohnson6121
    @sharijohnson6121 Před rokem +2

    BM should listen to the negative things that WW says about them.lol

  • @Lynnstar9192
    @Lynnstar9192 Před 5 dny

    Ive said this a million times, dating is the one place where you can be as exclusive as you want. Race, religion, family obligations, hobbies, you name it they can be excluded. Before i met my husband, i met a guy i thought was really cute, but soon realized he and i had completely different hobbies and i just couldn't see a long term relationship with him.

  • @TruthWarriorB88
    @TruthWarriorB88 Před rokem +16

    So much for being strong and independent. 🤣🤣😒

  • @cripplelord6383
    @cripplelord6383 Před rokem +403

    "Dated the same girl 50 times" "they all look the same". I love how people just out themselves as both racists and collectivists these days, really simplifies my process of elimination for finding people worth talking to.
    Like when im around fellow gays, i just say its wrong to be gay out loud while blatantly standing/hugging/hand holding by boyfriend, and just like that everyone in the room divides themselves into camps for me. Those who freak out and those who point at me and go "ahhhhhhhh you fuckin shitlord". Find the cool people fast.

    • @Abionx
      @Abionx Před rokem

      the only gay people i cant stand is the ones that push their gayness onto others or are just overly aggressive, sensitive, obnoxious about them being gay, and especially the ones that make their whole identity being gay, like they aren't anything without being gay and you gotta know all about it.
      you know, the type of gay people that are overly pushy and aggrevating to deal with.
      just your average gay person isint a issue, just those type. they are like the gay version of that obnoxious insecure highschool footbal player, thats loud and annoying as fuck to deal with.

    • @marybean2231
      @marybean2231 Před rokem +13

      I've been with both and I'm straight passing. I love calling things gay, because I am. And it's funny when people get offended while not knowing that when I was with a woman I ate it like a yogurt cup with no lid 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @phantom8926
      @phantom8926 Před rokem +7

      @@marybean2231 your description of what you did in th af last sentence got me, Goddamn it. Lmao

    • @ExeErdna
      @ExeErdna Před rokem +4

      @@marybean2231 The fact that most people know they've ate a yogurt cup like that...💀💀💀💀

    • @marks2807
      @marks2807 Před rokem +1

      They basically said all white people look alike. If someone said that about a POC you know the hell that person would go through.

  • @theoriginalnestor
    @theoriginalnestor Před rokem

    Good content. Good observation.

  • @larrymota
    @larrymota Před rokem

    Good video Brother !

  • @FishThatDavidBlaineSwallowed
    @FishThatDavidBlaineSwallowed Před měsícem +1

    LMFAO That girl with the birdnest on her head asking why he choose the beautiful blonds hahaha!

  • @Pdmc2016
    @Pdmc2016 Před rokem +102

    I feel sorry for that girl, she’s having a hard time and she’s taking her problems and externalizing it making it everyone else’s fault… that’s a bad road to go down

  • @Jenny-fl5cn
    @Jenny-fl5cn Před rokem +66

    As a black woman, I am deeply ashamed of this woman. A lot of us are not like her, I promise. She does not speak for me.

  • @johnhannibal5108
    @johnhannibal5108 Před rokem +1

    Why is it that the same people who worship "MY choice" hate the idea that someone might refuse them

  • @johnsimpson4868
    @johnsimpson4868 Před rokem

    Why do I want a hat right now? GOOD video